Am new here please everyone welcome your sister

Am new here please everyone welcome your sister

I need some advice please…

****Edititing***** to add, i do not bring this all up to her. She knows how i feel about that's that. I dont make her feel bad all the time. We dont talk about It. I come from a family of addicts and lost a sibling to addiction. I know this Isnt the same. I am more so asking for help with myself. To help ME stop obsessing over It and how i can work on letting it go*******

I’ve been with my girlfriend for 16 months now. When we first met I had told her I wasn’t ok with smoking or vaping. She vaped and she said she was planning on quitting. I guess it’s my fault for getting into it knowing she did it. I have 3 kids. I have asked her not to do it in front of my children. She actually stopped doing it in front of me as well all together. We do not live together. However, I have found new vapes around often so I know she’s still doing it and I feel like every time she leaves a room that is why. I understand this isn’t the worst issue to have in a relationship, but I can’t let it go. I obsessed about it and fixate on her not quitting. How do I let it go? I just have a strong hatred for nicotine , addiction all together really. I just can’t help but wonder if I’m self sabotaging by constantly thinking about it and getting upset over it. We have a great relationship otherwise. We are 40 and she also does have asthma as well. Does anyone have any advice for me? Thank you in advance

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Men's Mistake

When we find a woman who loves us, we assume she'll never leave because she loves us too much to abandon us.

As a result, we begin to neglect her and sometimes speak harshly to her because of her love for us.

We always wait for her to call first, always wait for her to initiate things, and always wait for her to text first. We don't make time for her, and sometimes we say hurtful things that wound her.

We belittle her by comparing her to our exes.
We belittle her by reminding her of her past.
We give her no resources to care for herself.
We disrespect her; we don't listen to her.
We sometimes do horrible things because we know she loves us and won't leave us.

When she finally leaves, we remain proud, thinking she will return as she used to.
Before we realize it, she has made a decision never to return; only then do we realize we had a precious woman.
When she finds someone better and decides to marry him, we say she's not a good woman and lie, claiming she abandoned us because of this or that.

The woman we treat like trash will sooner or later become the queen of a man who knows her worth. That's just life.(AND VICE VERSA).Don't go without reacting I beg you. Also follow our new channel 🥹

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Men's Mistake

When we find a woman who loves us, we assume she'll never leave because she loves us too much to abandon us.

As a result, we begin to neglect her and sometimes speak harshly to her because of her love for us.

We always wait for her to call first, always wait for her to initiate things, and always wait for her to text first. We don't make time for her, and sometimes we say hurtful things that wound her.

We belittle her by comparing her to our exes.
We belittle her by reminding her of her past.
We give her no resources to care for herself.
We disrespect her; we don't listen to her.
We sometimes do horrible things because we know she loves us and won't leave us.

When she finally leaves, we remain proud, thinking she will return as she used to.
Before we realize it, she has made a decision never to return; only then do we realize we had a precious woman.
When she finds someone better and decides to marry him, we say she's not a good woman and lie, claiming she abandoned us because of this or that.

The woman we treat like trash will sooner or later become the queen of a man who knows her worth. That's just life.(AND VICE VERSA).Don't go without reacting I beg you. Also follow our new channel 🥹

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*THE RESTORER'S DAILY GUIDE*

DATE: THURSDAY 12TH JUNE 2025

THEME: *TOTAL RESTORATION*

MEMORISE
Joel 2:25
And I will restore to you the years that the locust hath eaten, the cankerworm, and the caterpiller, and the palmerworm, my great army which I sent among you.

READ
Joel 2:23-27
Be glad then, ye children of Zion, and rejoice in the LORD your God: for he hath given you the former rain moderately, and he will cause to come down for you the rain, the former rain, and the latter rain in the first month.
And the floors shall be full of wheat, and the fats shall overflow with wine and oil.
And I will restore to you the years that the locust hath eaten, the cankerworm, and the caterpiller, and the palmerworm, my great army which I sent among you.
And ye shall eat in plenty, and be satisfied, and praise the name of the LORD your God, that hath dealt wondrously with you: and my people shall never be ashamed.
And ye shall know that I am in the midst of Israel, and that I am the LORD your God, and none else: and my people shall never be ashamed.

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
*God's last vow is to restore all things.*

MESSAGE
The only thing God is saying in heaven now and doing on earth is the work of restoration. God's last vow is to restore humanity and creation into the original purpose in predestination by the word and the power of the Holy Spirit. He wants your whole spirit, soul, and body totally restored to all round soundness and wholeness before Him.
The Bible confirms this in
1 Thessalonians 5:23-24 "And the very God of peace sanctify you wholly; and I pray God your whole spirit and soul and body be preserved blameless unto the coming of our Lord Jesus Christ.
Faithful is he that calleth you, who also will do it."

He wants creation delivered, healed, and restored to give Him pleasure again as it was before the fall. The Bible says in
Revelation 4:11 "Thou art worthy, O Lord, to receive glory and honour and power: for thou hast created all things, and for thy pleasure they are and were created."

God will not leave anything out untouched in His vow to restore all things because He is the creator of all things.

Now, He who has the power to restore humanity and creation will not find it difficult to restore your health, your family, your finances, or your stolen blessings.

This is why Jesus Christ, our Capital restorer came to the earth. His blood is the token for your total restoration.

Let your faith in Him rise now, connect with His grace for your own restoration today in Jesus' name.

Shalom, maranatha!

ACTION STEPS
1. Turn loose your faith and believe God for your own restoration.
2. Present any part of your life needing restoration to the Lord in prayers.

PRAYERS
Dear heavenly Father, Thank you for today's devotional guide. Oh God of restoration, answer me by fire today and let my total restoration be confirmed with signs and wonders in Jesus' name. Amen.

REMEMBER
*God's last vow is to restore all things.*

AUTHOR: JEDIDIAH DAVID

DAILY READING: Ezekiel 33-34, Judges 6-7, Acts 6.

HYMN
Standing on the promises of Christ my King,
Through eternal ages let His praises ring ;
Glory in the highest, I will shout and sing,
Standing on the promises of God.

Stand ing, . . stand ing, . .
Standing on the promises of God my Saviour ;
Stand ing, . . stand ing, . .
I'm standing on the promises of God.

2
Standing on the promises that cannot fail,
When the howling storms of doubt and fear assail,
By the living word of God I shall prevail,
Standing on the promises of God.

3
Standing on the promises I now can see '
Perfect, present cleansing in the blood for me ;
Standing in the liberty where Christ makes free,
Standing on the promises of God.

4
Standing on the promises of Christ the Lord,
Bound to Him eternally by love's strong cord,
Overcoming daily with the Spirit's sword,
Standing on the promises of God.

5
Standing on the promises I cannot fall,
Listening every moment to the Spirit's call,
Resting in my Saviour as my All in all,
Standing on the promises of God.

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*16 Texts Every Man Wishes His Lady Would Send Him*


1. "You are looking good today"

Yes, lady, men need compliments too

2. "Yesterday was amazing"

Tell him how much you enjoyed spending time with him yesterday. If you two made love, tell your husband how great he was in bed last night. It boosts his ego


3. "I am blessed to have you"

Show him you appreciate how fortunate you are to have him. It makes him feel valued

4. "Please pray for me"

This shows you need him and his prayers. Involving God in your love shows how serious and sacred your love is

5. "What do I cook for you tonight?"

Men love to eat. That you would ask him what he wants, makes him excited

6. "I love you"

No matter how macho men try to be, they love being told this by the woman they love

7. "Can I take you out?"

Surprise him. Treat him. A Queen can also plan a date for her King. Men love women who take charge sometimes. It's not every time things should be left to him

8. "I am so wet"

Men love it when the woman they are faithful to reveals she is sexually aroused. Lady, show him that when you think of sex you think of him and are not shy about it. A man who loves you enjoys receiving breaking news of your sexuality

9. "Thank you for the phone call"

The moment after he gives you a phone-call that makes you laugh, smile, or shows care; send him a text that demonstrates your gratitude

10. "I will be late, I'll make it up to you"

Some women tend to delay when going on a date or event. Don't keep him waiting and expect him to undersrand because he is your man. Inform him you will be late

11. "I am wearing your favourite underwear"

Tell him when you are wearing his favourite underwear, that black thong that he likes, that bra he likes to unstrap. Let him know when you are not wearing any underwear, no bra, when your nipples get hard. This playful and intimate info makes his blood run

12. "Are you OK?"

Many women want the man to care and ask how she is but don't do the same for the man. Find out how your man is, how his day has gone. Many men are stresssed in need of their woman/wife to show concern. So many men have issues and need a safe place to vent

13. "You are a good man"

In a world where women talk badly about men and have given up on men, this is the greatest compliment. If you have a good man, appreciate him. Him being a good man doesn't mean he is perfect, but the more you praise him, the better he will become, and the more effort he will put

14. "I can't wait for us to leave this place and be alone with you"

When you are both in the same venue full of people, send him this text. He will read it, smile, look at you and your eyes meet with intense passion. Show him you look forward to private moments with him

15. "God bless your day, you are blessed"

As his woman/wife, even without him asking; bless his day. Send him a message when he is at work; blessing him, calling him blessed. Your words are powerful and shape him

16. "You are an amazing father"

He is there, doing the best he can for your child/children; thank him and constantly recognize his greatness, and greatness will never leave him

Have a wonderful and blessed day!

Good morning guys . Please do have a great day with full with joy and remain strong and bless thanks

*ALL COUPLES SHOULD BE PATIENT TO READ THIS WRITEUP TO THE END*

Susan attended a funeral service of her friend who lost her husband at Langata Cemetery.

Susan held her wailing friend strongly as the casket was lowered into the freshly dug grave.

Susan's friend was screaming "My husband don't leave me, please, don't leave me!" as people looked on feeling sad for her.

The children were screaming too. Losing a father is not an easy thing.

If not for Susan, the friend would have thrown herself into the grave to be buried with her husband who died of suicide. Because, the husband found no meaning in life and he killed himself.

Susan remembered the many times the friend would say she is tired of her good for nothing husband and here she is screaming and feeling lost because the husband is no more.

The friend cried till she fainted. Susan and others there carried the devasted woman to an ambulance for first aid.

As Susan watched the spectacle of broken hearts crying for a man who will never ever come back, Susan remembered her husband.

Susan remembered how much she takes her husband for granted.

How she talks to him however she pleases.

How she gives him prolonged silent treatment over issues they can easily resolve.

How she denied him sex many times. And she asked herself "What if it my husband that is buried today how would I feel?" Susan thought.

Susan remembered that she argued with her husband and he left the house with tension between them just because after all these years, he still leaves his plate in the living room instead of taking it to the sink after eating.

"God forbid that my husband die, but what if as my husband went out in anger and never returns and passes on, is this the last memory I would like my husband and I to have?" She thought again.

Susan began to remember all the wonderful things her husband has done in the past, which she never taught of before except complaining.

Now, in her heart, she began to appreciate him for all his efforts no matter how small it was.

At that moment, she realise her areas of improvement, and said to herself "there is no other man I would rather share my life with than my loving husband."

She thought of life without him and it scared her. And said, "I would rather have disagreements with my loving husband than to lose him to death. I prefer his sense of humour and laughter than to cry for losing him."

That evening, after Susan took her widowed friend to a safe place, she passed by at the supermarket and bought her husband a card saying "Thank you for being in my life"

And when she got home, she cooked her husband's favourite meal and asked her children to join her in celebrating her husband.

That night, her husband came home expecting a fight from Susan, but instead, he got greeting and hugs from Susan and the children.

He was welcomed with songs, dancing and laughter, cute drawings of him with warm messages from the children, a home cooked meal, pleasant conversations. And Susan's husband bust into tears when Susan and the children told him how much they love him and then surrounded him to pray for him.

A grown man cried like a baby because of love. He felt needed and he asked them "Is today father's day?"

Susan looked into his eyes and said, "No, it is lovers day. Because, everyday is special with you around me from now on, we will do nothing but love each other.

I don't know how long we have to live together, but it will not be wasted by fights, misunderstanding, complains and lack of appreciation.

In case you have forgotten, "I love you"

"I love you too" said Susan's husband as he kissed and hugged Susan, the children dancing and cheering on.

Children long for a home where mom and dad give each other warmth.

Since then, both Susan and her husband have been a stronger and more loving couple after realizing that tomorrow is not guaranteed.


~ Sometimes the death of someone wakes us up to the reality of life.

~ Don't let the death of your spouse wake you up to the reality of life, it will be too late.

~ God forbid, if your spouse die today, will you regret how you have been treating him/her?

~ Do you think living alone without your spouse will be joyful to you?

~ Will you be able to transfer your children to another man or woman whom they have not grown to know?

~ If you decide to be a single father or mother, will you be able to do the job alone?

~ Can you stand the pain of your kids asking why they don't have a father or mother like others?

~ What is it that you cannot mend in your marriage?

~ No doubt its not easy, but prayerfully love your spouse while he/she lives. It rubs on the children as well.

So mend your home, don't destroy it.