Sometimes the hardest part isn’t losing them. It’s knowing they never looked back. You wonder if they’ll ever realize how much you cared, how hard you tried, how deeply it hurt when they gave up. You gave your all, and it still wasn’t enough. Maybe they’ll never understand. Maybe they’ll move on like it meant nothing. But you’re the one left carrying the love they couldn’t return.

27 WAYS TO BUILD A HAPPY AND LONG-LASTING MARRIAGE 👩🧑💖 Marriage is a beautiful and fulfilling relationship that requires commitment, love, and sacrifice. No matter what culture you belong to, what religion you believe, what society, level of wealth, or era you live in – one thing common to all people is that they want to be "happy", especially in their marriages. What Should you do? 1. Love the person you married, not the person you hoped you married. Accept your spouse totally. You cannot love a man/woman you do not accept. Stop comparing your spouse with anyone, he or she can never be somebody else. Until you accept your spouse, you can't get the best out of your marriage 2. Understand each other. No marriage succeeds without understanding. Learn to know one another as best as you can. Understand you are not the same and may never be. Respect that you are both individuals. Get to know each other strengths and weaknesses. Strengthen each other's weaknesses. 3. Be quick to forgive and quicker to apologize. Love forgives. Learn to accept apology. Freely forgive your spouse’s past, present and future offenses. Never refer to his/her past mistakes. Never go to bed with anger or unsettled quarrel. Marriage is two forgivers living together. 4. Ask your spouse, "What can I do for you today?" every single day. 5. Never talk bad about your spouse to other people. Protect him or her and always keep his or her name safe. Fight for each other, not with each other. 6. Have lots of s*x. Enjoy S*x with your spouse. Never withhold s*x as a punishment. 7. Keep the word "divorce" out of your vocabulary. Remember your vows. Review them on a regular basis. 8. Provide for the needs of your spouse and children. Never be stingy to your spouse. Care for his/her needs. Be generous to him/her. Pay your children’s school fees promptly and regularly. Marriage is not 50/50. It's 100/100. Give yourself entirely, and don't hold back. Men, Be sensitive to your wife’s needs. Spend money to beautify her. 9. Be faithful to your spouse. Being unfaithful is the easiest way to completely ruin your marriage. Adultery kills. 10. Understand and learn each other's love language. Either it can be words, gifts, touch, actions, etc. If it is words, then frequently tell your spouse you love and appreciate him/ her. If it is action: regularly do things that they appreciate: either take the garbage out, wash the dishes, cook the food, wash the car, etc. Spoil each other. Keep track of the things your spouse loves and buy them for him or her. 11. Communication is the key to a relationship. Talk like friends and lovers. Don’t make your spouse guess what you are thinking or feeling. Don't expect him/her to read your mind. You should feel free to discuss all things without fear. 12. Always listen attentively to your spouse. Switch off your phone or television, shut down your computer or iPad and newspapers, books and magazine should be closed. The greatest communication skill you can develop is the listening skill. Be quiet and patient while he/she is speaking, when he/she is done, you can express your opinion. Look straight into his/her eyes when he is talking to you or when you’re talking to him. This will make him/her feel that you are interested in what he/she wants to say. 13. Love, respect and courtesy are basic ingredients of happy married life. Give them generously to your spouse. Show your spouse how much you love, care and appreciate him/her regularly. Say, "I love you," every single day. 14. Be honest and show sincere appreciation. Appreciate each other. Show your spouse appreciation for the little things. Be thankful and say so!!! Find something that you appreciate about your spouse and say thank you. 15. Surprise each other with lovely gifts, kiss and s*x. Kiss passionately. Hold hands. Cuddle. Make physical affection a priority in your marriage. 16. Make quality time for each other. Keep dating each other. Put your marriage and spouse before your children. Play together. Never lose your sense of humor. Make your spouse your best friend. 17. Share everything...no secrets between you. Be open with your spouse. 18. Be polite and courteous to each other. Saying thank you, please and I am sorry. 19. Get rid of bad habits. Don’t do those things your spouse hates. Don’t do things that hurt him/her. Develop a godly character. Don’t create a hostile environment for your spouse. Focus on making your spouse happy. The best way to improve your relationship is to improve yourself. 20. Always be honest to your partner. Lying never gets you anywhere 21. Aim to do something at least once per week together. It does not matter what, even if it is to eat together, bath together, watch movies together, read books together and share light conversation 22. Do NOT look at other marriages and covet. No marriage is prefect. Remember, the grass is not greener on the other side. You will still have to maintain, mow and weed that side too! 23. Work at your marriage. If you ever lack motivation for your marriage and feel like the flame has gone dead. Just try to imagine yourself without your spouse. Talk to anyone who has lost their soul mate, and they'll tell you that they will give anything to have back that special someone. Remember, it is your marriage, and you have come this far. Make the best of it. Pledge to yourself that you will do your part and try your best. Remember that you chose your spouse for forever. 24. All issues need to have a solution and be resolved at the time of the conversation. Finish what you start otherwise things just hang in the balance, which leads to future problems. 25. Don't make mountains out of mole hills. Don't waste your time fighting over little things. It's not worth it. Let small things go. 26. Don't broadcast your problems to everyone else. If you need to talk to someone about it, other than your spouse, get a therapist. 27. Above all: Serve God together, pray together & pray for one another. Pray for your spouse daily in your personal prayers. Be specific. Talk to God about his or her challenges and trials and ask Him what you can do to be a better spouse. You will not fail in your marriage in Jesus' name

CHILD DISCIPLINE There is a big lie going around today.Some parents say, “I don’t want my child to suffer like I did.”They say it with pride.They think it sounds like love.But they don’t know they are slowly destroying that child. Because of that mindset, they refuse to correct the child.They don’t give the child chores.They don’t say “No.”They don’t allow the child to face consequences. They say, “Let him rest, he’s just a child.”They say, “Let her enjoy life, she’s still young.”But they are not helping that child. They are damaging the child. If your child cannot sweep the house, how will they keep their own home clean tomorrow?If your child cannot wash plate, how will they survive when they leave your house?If your child cannot say “Good morning” to elders, how will they work with people in the office? If your child cannot accept correction, how will they handle marriage or leadership? The world is tough.Life is not always sweet.You will not always get what you want. There will be days of pain. There will be days of rejection.There will be moments of “No.” So if your child cannot hear “No” now, what will happen when life says “No” to them tomorrow?They will break.They will fall.They will run away.Some will even commit suicide because they were never taught how to handle pressure. Discipline is not wickedness.Correction is not hate.Chores are not punishment.They are training.They are tools. They are preparation for life. Your child must know how to clean, how to greet, how to wait, how to apologize, how to handle anger, how to respect people, and how to do hard things without complaining. Don't make your child soft in the name of love. Don't make your child lazy in the name of protection. Don't remove discipline and expect them to succeed. Don't raise them like kings and queens with no wisdom. One day, you will grow old. You will need your child to stand strong. But if you didn’t train them, they will fall. And both of you will suffer for it. So stop saying, “I don’t want my child to suffer like I did.” Let your new statement be, “I want my child to be stronger than I was.” And that strength must start with discipline. It must start with training. It must start with responsibility. It must start with you.

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FATHERHOOD: MORE THAN A TITLE — IT’S A LIFELONG RESPONSIBILITY 💪👨‍👧‍👦 Dear Men, Being a father is not just about biology — it’s about responsibility. Anyone can father a child, but it takes commitment, sacrifice, and intentional presence to truly be a Dad. Here’s what responsible fatherhood really looks like: 📌 1. Fatherhood Is Not Fertility Getting a woman pregnant is fertility. Fatherhood begins when you step into the responsibility of raising, loving, and guiding that child. Being a sperm donor is biology — being a father is purpose. 📌 2. You’re Your Son’s First Hero & Your Daughter’s First Love The way you show up in your child's life will shape their confidence, identity, and how they relate with others. Be present, intentional, and nurturing. 📌 3. A Father Is a Protector Children feel safer when Dad is around. Your presence builds security. Your voice brings comfort. Your discipline gives direction. Don’t be absent — be involved. 📌 4. Fatherhood Is Sacrifice It means saying no to some things so you can say yes to your children. Sacrificing personal pleasure, ego, and sometimes comfort — for your children’s future. 📌 5. Fatherhood Is Service, Not Privilege True fatherhood means: Loving unconditionally ❤️ Providing diligently 💼 Disciplining wisely 🧠 Guiding spiritually 🙏 Being emotionally available 🤝 📌 6. Time Is the Currency of Fatherhood Money is great. Gifts are lovely. But your time is the most valuable gift you can give. Kids spell love as T-I-M-E. 📌 7. Irresponsible Fatherhood Damages Generations Many of the problems in society — addiction, cr!me, emotional instability — often stem from fathers who were absent, passive, or abus!ve. Your role matters more than you think. 📌 8. Be a Teacher and Value-Giver Instill godly values. Teach integrity, respect, and hard work. Model love in your home. Your children are watching and learning from you. 📌 9. Raise Them in the Way of the Lord Scripture says, "Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old, he will not depart from it." (Proverbs 22:6) Let Christ be the foundation of your parenting. 📌 10. Fatherhood Is Legacy Your impact should outlive you — through your children, your wisdom, your values, and the love you planted in their hearts. This is the greatest joy of all. 🙏 A Prayer for Fathers: May God help us not to fail in our fatherly calling. May our children rise and call us blessed. May our homes be full of joy and peace. In Jesus' Name, Amen. 👑 Fathers, You Are Heroes Your role is divine. Your presence is powerful. Your love is life-changing. Let’s raise kings and queens for the Kingdom. You will not fail in marriage in Jesus name Kindly share this message with your loved ones 🙏

*12 COMMANDMENTS OF A HEALTHY MARRIAGE🔥* Marriage is a journey, not a sprint. These timeless principles, if practiced sincerely, can make your love life rich, fulfilling, and long-lasting. 1. 🌹Never Stop Communicating 🗣️ A relationship d!es the moment communication breaks down. Talk often. Talk openly. Talk honestly. Whether it’s laughter, serious talks, or simply checking in during the day—keep the conversation flowing. Silence builds walls. 💡Action Tip: Have daily "heart-to-heart" moments, even if it’s just 10 minutes before bed. 2. 🌹Pray Together 🙏 Couples that kneel together, stand stronger together. Prayer invites God into your relationship as a counselor, protector, and teacher. Submitting to God helps you submit in love to one another. 💡Action Tip: Create a shared prayer list and pray over it together weekly. 3. 🌹Don't W€aponize $ex ❌🍑 $ex is not a reward or a punishment—it's a covenant bond. Using it to manipulate your partner causes deep emotional wounds. Keep $ex sacred, frequent, and full of mutual affection. 💡Action Tip: Talk about your $exual needs openly without judgment. 4. 🌹No Secrets, No Lies 🚫🤐 Hiding things destr0ys trust. Lies may feel small today, but they erode intimacy tomorrow. Transparency builds safety. 💡Action Tip: Commit to “full disclosure” zones—times when you speak openly with no fear of judgment. 5. 🌹Grow Together, Not Apart 📈💑 Compatibility is not just about shared interests—it's about growing side-by-side spiritually, emotionally, financially, and professionally. Don’t let one partner evolve while the other stagnates. 💡Action Tip: Take a course, budget together, join a group, or set shared goals every quarter. 6. 🌹Make Decisions Together 🤝 Marriage is not a solo career. Major decisions must be mutual. When one person leads without the other, resentment builds. 💡Action Tip: Have a “couples board meeting” monthly to discuss finances, plans, and life decisions. 7. 🌹Keep Emotional Intimacy Reserved for Each Other 💞 Let no one be closer to you emotionally than your partner. Don’t let a friend, colleague, or even family member take your spouse’s emotional seat. 💡Action Tip: Share your deepest thoughts, fears, and joys with your spouse before anyone else. 8. 🌹Don’t Stop Being the Lover You Were at the Start 💐 Keep the charm, compliments, and sweet gestures alive. Familiarity should not breed laziness. Keep watering the plant of love. 💡Action Tip: Bring back “dating days”—even if it’s just a walk, movie night, or surprise text. 9. 🌹Don’t Sleep Angry 😠💤 Bittern€ss multiplies overnight. Don’t give anger a place to sleep in your bed. Resolve issues before you rest. 💡Action Tip: Use this phrase often: “I value us more than this fight. Let’s talk.” 10. 🌹Do Not Cheat, Flirt, or Entertain Infidelity 🚫💔 Even the strongest love will collapse under the weight of betrayal. Faithfulness is not just physical—it’s emotional, digital, and mental. 💡Action Tip: Avoid private, flirty conversations with the opposite $ex, and set clear boundaries. 11. 🌹Support Each Other’s Dreams and Purpose 🌱✨ Your partner is not just a spouse—they are a person with dreams, goals, and a divine calling. When one pursues purpose and the other doesn’t care, frustration sets in. Be their cheerleader, not their critic. 💡Action Tip: Ask, “How can I help you get closer to your dream this year?” and follow through. 12. 🌹Forgive Quickly and Completely 💔➡️❤️ Every relationship will experience hurt. The difference between a lasting marriage and a broken one is how quickly and sincerely you forgive. Holding grudges pois0ns your connection. 💡Action Tip: Practice saying, “I was wrong. I’m sorry. Please forgive me.” And be quick to extend grace when your spouse says the same. Which of these do you think couples struggle with the most? Share your thoughts 👇 ❤️ FINAL THOUGHT: A thriving relationship takes intention, prayer, humility, and consistency. Love isn’t built in a day, but it can be broken in a moment. Guard it, nurture it, and grow in it together. Which of these commandments speaks to you most today? You will not fail in marriage in Jesus name Kindly share this message with your loved ones 🙏

💪🔥 Nick Vujicic was born into a life most would see as impossible. No arms. No legs. Just obstacles everywhere. ▪️▪️Even his parents struggled to accept him. ▪️By age 10, he felt like a burden and nearly gave up completely — even attempting suicide. ▪️But at his lowest moment, Nick had a revelation: his life still had meaning. His presence still had value. ▪️From that moment, Nick chose not to be a victim but a victor. ▪️He failed, tried again, fell, and kept rising. ▪️He discovered a powerful truth: "Obstacles are opportunities in disguise." 💪Today, Nick is a global motivational speaker, an entrepreneur, a husband, and a father of four. ✨He’s physically active, full of joy, and impacting millions. ✨His organization, Attitude is Altitude, is inspiring young people to build resilience and emotional strength. Nick teaches us this: ➡️ Your limitations do not define your destiny. ➡️ Pain is not the end — it's often the beginning of purpose. ➡️ Action, not excuses, turns setbacks into stepping stones. ▪️So, no matter what you're facing — don’t wait for ideal conditions. Use what you have. Start where you are. Rise. Speak. Act. Win. ▪️Like Nick, you already have what you need inside you. Now it’s time to live like it. A blessed evening to you all family, how is your Sunday?

LISTEN UP, MEN — MASTURBATI0N IS DESTROYING YOU AND YOU DON’T EVEN SEE IT. Read before you react👏 They told you it’s normal. They told you it’s harmless. They even told you it’s healthy. Let me tell you what they won’t: Masturbation is silently wrecking your mind, your confidence, and your future. Those promoting it aren’t helping you — they’re grooming you for failure. Because tomorrow when your mind’s foggy, your energy’s gone, your confidence dead, and your body wrecked — they’ll sell you the cure. 📌 The truth? Prevention is power. 📌 Brutal Thread: 1️⃣ It’s a silent addiction. You tell yourself you can quit anytime — but it’s already controlling you. 2️⃣ It makes you weak. A man addicted to cheap pleasure loses discipline. And without discipline, you’ll fail at everything that matters. 3️⃣ It destroys your confidence. After every session, you feel guilty. Ashamed. Like a man who abandoned his greatness for a temporary high. 4️⃣ It kills your energy. Your drive, your focus, your hunger — wiped out. You feel lazy, tired, uninspired. 5️⃣ It turns you socially awkward. Too much self-pleasure makes you anxious in real-life conversations. You start craving fantasy over authentic human connection. 6️⃣ It rewires your brain. Your mind gets addicted to instant pleasure, making it impossible to chase long-term goals. 7️⃣ It ruins real relationships. You get so used to fake digital highs; you lose interest in real intimacy and meaningful connection. 8️⃣ It breeds extreme cravings. What started as “once in a while” becomes daily slavery. And soon, normal content isn’t enough — you chase darker, more damaging material. 9️⃣ It wastes your time. Countless hours gone. No value added. No progress made. Just lost potential. 🔟 It crushes your masculinity. A man who trades his life force for pixels and lotion loses his natural dominance, confidence, and warrior spirit. 1️⃣1️⃣ It makes you settle. A man satisfied with fake pleasure is a man too numb to chase real purpose. 📌 FINAL WARNING: If you don’t kill the habit, it will kill your potential. The most dangerous man isn’t broke — it’s the one enslaved by his own lust. Discipline is the gatekeeper of destiny. No man addicted to self-pleasure will build an empire or command respect. Your future’s not in your hands — it’s in your discipline.

“ Even if you die today , life will still continue in Nigeria the next day . Stop risking your life “ VDM’s lawyer VDM’s lawyer has warned HIM . He just told him that Nigerians don’t appreciate great people . If he dies today everybody will still continue with their lives as if nothing happened . They will drink , dance and still knack same night . He has warned to stop risking his life for Nigerians . Moral lesson : As funny as it sounds , if he kpaii’s Today , life will continue the next day . His family will be the ones crying . VDM should at some level make sure he is truly SAFE .

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