My husband earns about 800k monthly. He gives me 200k for the home, and we have three kids. Then he gives me 60k to give to the kids to take to school till it's finished and then he gives 100k for me to use for petty expenses (electricity and other unforseen needs that may rise, like buying a pill or socks or anything petty). That makes a total of 360k. So he keeps 440k for himself.
So recently, I asked him to show me his account balance since he has always kept that much to himself, but he ignored me. So I later went to check the account myself and saw he had just about 14M there. Meanwhile it's been over three years and I was expecting to see more.
He eats at home except lunch. He doesn't do anything except send money to his parents and mine once a while and pay the kids school fees thrice in a year and it's nothing more than 300k for a term. He may help his siblings, but that's also once a while.
So I demanded he explain how he had only 14M in his account. This man started to gaslight me. Asking if he ever asked me how much I had in my account and talking about my 130k salary. We haven't spoke for days because of this issue and he won't even apologise and explain himself.
Can you believe he told me this morning to leave the marriage if I want to because he's never going to talk about the money with me? Is this a serious man who wants a future for his family?
How can I stay with a man who is not accountable with finances?? I am leaving
#highlightseveryonefollowers2025 #everyoneMy husband earns about 800k monthly. He gives me 200k for the home, and we have three kids. Then he gives me 60k to give to the kids to take to school till it's finished and then he gives 100k for me to use for petty expenses (electricity and other unforseen needs that may rise, like buying a pill or socks or anything petty). That makes a total of 360k. So he keeps 440k for himself.
So recently, I asked him to show me his account balance since he has always kept that much to himself, but he ignored me. So I later went to check the account myself and saw he had just about 14M there. Meanwhile it's been over three years and I was expecting to see more.
He eats at home except lunch. He doesn't do anything except send money to his parents and mine once a while and pay the kids school fees thrice in a year and it's nothing more than 300k for a term. He may help his siblings, but that's also once a while.
So I demanded he explain how he had only 14M in his account. This man started to gaslight me. Asking if he ever asked me how much I had in my account and talking about my 130k salary. We haven't spoke for days because of this issue and he won't even apologise and explain himself.
Can you believe he told me this morning to leave the marriage if I want to because he's never going to talk about the money with me? Is this a serious man who wants a future for his family?
How can I stay with a man who is not accountable with finances?? I am leaving
#highlightseveryonefollowers2025 #everyone
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