• THE VILLAGE OF THE TWO HUNDRED EYES
    An African Folktale of Communal Wisdom
    by
    Linda Somiari - Stewart

    In the heart of the green valley of N’nika, where hills rolled like the backs of resting lions and baobab trees whispered secrets to the stars, a child was born on a moonlit night.

    Her name was Zoya, which means “peace after longing.” Her mother, Amina, had wept for many seasons, her womb quiet like an abandoned fireplace. Her father, Kwaku, had prayed by rivers and planted trees that never bore fruit. But when Zoya arrived, laughter returned to their home like rain after drought.

    Now, in many places worldwide, a child is considered the property of the parents. “My daughter,” “my son.” But in N’nika, a child belongs to the people. There, they say, “A child is birthed by four eyes, but nurtured by two hundred.”

    And so, Zoya was not only the joy of her mother and father, she was the moonbeam of the village. Her first laugh echoed from hut to hut like festival drums. When she took her first step, an elder carved the memory into wood. When she said her first word—"Maji" (water)—the village griot sang it into the evening fire.

    Each villager played their part. Old Mama Binta, whose eyes had dimmed but whose spirit saw clearly, taught Zoya riddles and proverbs. Uncle Sefu, who shaped clay like it was born in his palms, showed her how to mold earth into beauty. Auntie Dede, swift-footed as a gazelle, taught her to dance on the drum’s breath. Even Blind Baba Chikere, who never saw her face, listened to her soul and reminded her, “You are more than what eyes can see.”

    One day, when the rains were late and the air cracked with dryness, Zoya, now a child of seven seasons, saw a brilliant green butterfly flutter past. Her eyes widened. She remembered Mama Binta's tale: “The butterfly that glows like emerald flies toward old magic.” Curious, fearless, Zoya followed.

    She wandered into the forest, past the watchful iroko tree, into the thick silence where children were told not to stray.
    Hours passed. Shadows lengthened. The sun bowed out.

    Panic rose like smoke in Amina’s chest. Kwaku’s hands trembled. But before their fear became thunder, the village moved.

    Mama Binta said, “She spoke of butterflies this morning.”

    Uncle Sefu recalled, “She asked me about the old stone under the iroko tree, the one shaped like wings.”

    After pausing her grinding, Auntie Dede added, “I saw her head toward the bush path near the river bend.”
    No one said, “Not my child.”
    Because Zoya belonged to all of them.

    The drum was sounded - not in alarm, but in unity. Two hundred eyes awakened. Old legs and young feet marched. Voices called her name not angrily but with love braided into every syllable.

    They found her just as dusk kissed the sky. She sat peacefully beside a stone shaped like wings, humming a song she had learned from Baba Chikere. When asked if she was scared, she said, “No. I knew someone would come. Someone always comes when someone is lost.”

    That night, under a sky heavy with stars and the smell of roasted maize, the village held a feast - not just for Zoya’s return, but for the power of many eyes, hands, and hearts.

    Zoya grew into a woman of many talents. She became a healer, a teacher, and a singer of old songs. When she had her own child, she did not build a wall around them. She opened her door wide.

    And when strangers from far lands encounter her versatility, they would ask, “Who taught you such wisdom?” She would say: “The eyes that watched me were many.
    The love that raised me was village-wide and deep.”
    And so, dear friend, learn this: The natural order is not to raise any child alone. Whether in Nairobi or New York, Lagos or London, an authentic village is not made of huts and fences - but of hearts willing to see, hands willing to hold, and spirits willing to lift. Please do your best to return the natural order to our neighborhoods and villages.
    THE VILLAGE OF THE TWO HUNDRED EYES An African Folktale of Communal Wisdom by Linda Somiari - Stewart In the heart of the green valley of N’nika, where hills rolled like the backs of resting lions and baobab trees whispered secrets to the stars, a child was born on a moonlit night. Her name was Zoya, which means “peace after longing.” Her mother, Amina, had wept for many seasons, her womb quiet like an abandoned fireplace. Her father, Kwaku, had prayed by rivers and planted trees that never bore fruit. But when Zoya arrived, laughter returned to their home like rain after drought. Now, in many places worldwide, a child is considered the property of the parents. “My daughter,” “my son.” But in N’nika, a child belongs to the people. There, they say, “A child is birthed by four eyes, but nurtured by two hundred.” And so, Zoya was not only the joy of her mother and father, she was the moonbeam of the village. Her first laugh echoed from hut to hut like festival drums. When she took her first step, an elder carved the memory into wood. When she said her first word—"Maji" (water)—the village griot sang it into the evening fire. Each villager played their part. Old Mama Binta, whose eyes had dimmed but whose spirit saw clearly, taught Zoya riddles and proverbs. Uncle Sefu, who shaped clay like it was born in his palms, showed her how to mold earth into beauty. Auntie Dede, swift-footed as a gazelle, taught her to dance on the drum’s breath. Even Blind Baba Chikere, who never saw her face, listened to her soul and reminded her, “You are more than what eyes can see.” One day, when the rains were late and the air cracked with dryness, Zoya, now a child of seven seasons, saw a brilliant green butterfly flutter past. Her eyes widened. She remembered Mama Binta's tale: “The butterfly that glows like emerald flies toward old magic.” Curious, fearless, Zoya followed. She wandered into the forest, past the watchful iroko tree, into the thick silence where children were told not to stray. Hours passed. Shadows lengthened. The sun bowed out. Panic rose like smoke in Amina’s chest. Kwaku’s hands trembled. But before their fear became thunder, the village moved. Mama Binta said, “She spoke of butterflies this morning.” Uncle Sefu recalled, “She asked me about the old stone under the iroko tree, the one shaped like wings.” After pausing her grinding, Auntie Dede added, “I saw her head toward the bush path near the river bend.” No one said, “Not my child.” Because Zoya belonged to all of them. The drum was sounded - not in alarm, but in unity. Two hundred eyes awakened. Old legs and young feet marched. Voices called her name not angrily but with love braided into every syllable. They found her just as dusk kissed the sky. She sat peacefully beside a stone shaped like wings, humming a song she had learned from Baba Chikere. When asked if she was scared, she said, “No. I knew someone would come. Someone always comes when someone is lost.” That night, under a sky heavy with stars and the smell of roasted maize, the village held a feast - not just for Zoya’s return, but for the power of many eyes, hands, and hearts. Zoya grew into a woman of many talents. She became a healer, a teacher, and a singer of old songs. When she had her own child, she did not build a wall around them. She opened her door wide. And when strangers from far lands encounter her versatility, they would ask, “Who taught you such wisdom?” She would say: “The eyes that watched me were many. The love that raised me was village-wide and deep.” And so, dear friend, learn this: The natural order is not to raise any child alone. Whether in Nairobi or New York, Lagos or London, an authentic village is not made of huts and fences - but of hearts willing to see, hands willing to hold, and spirits willing to lift. Please do your best to return the natural order to our neighborhoods and villages.
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  • I remember standing there... just outside the church.

    The music had started.

    People were already seated.

    And inside, my brother... was waiting to marry the woman I thought I’d spend my life with.

    My hands were shaking.

    But not from fear.

    From rage.

    See... I had nothing left to lose.

    They’d already taken everything.

    My home.

    My business.

    My future.

    And now... they were walking down the aisle to dance on the grave of what used to be my life.

    So I walked in.

    Straight down the center aisle.

    Past the gasps... the whispers... the stares.

    I looked my brother in the eye.

    Then I turned to her.

    She was dressed in white, like a queen about to ascend her throne.

    And I smiled.

    That kind of smile you give when the final piece of a long, brutal chess game finally clicks into place.

    “You forgot one thing,” I said, loud enough for everyone to hear.

    They froze.

    “You forgot... I always finish what I start.”

    And then... I handed him the small black envelope.

    “Enjoy the honeymoon,” I whispered.

    I turned around... and walked out.

    But the silence behind me?

    That said everything.

    Now... I know what you’re thinking.

    What the hell happened?

    Why would my own brother marry my fiancée?

    Why did I lose everything?

    And what the hell was in that envelope?

    Well... to understand all that...

    You have to go back.

    Back to where it all began.

    Before the betrayal.

    Before the fall.

    Before I learned what family really means.

    And trust me...

    It gets worse before it gets better.

    Way worse.

    It started like all tragedies do...

    With everything going right.

    I had just turned 30.

    My business was finally taking off.

    I ran a boutique renovation company—nothing fancy, but we had loyal clients, steady referrals, and a crew that felt like family.

    I was engaged to the kind of woman you plan your whole future around.

    Her name was Nadia.

    She was smart.

    Gorgeous.

    The kind of presence that could light up a room without even trying.

    We met at a charity event—funny enough, hosted by my younger brother, Marcus.

    He was the “golden boy” of the family.

    The one who never failed.

    The one who got the praise, even when he didn’t deserve it.

    But I didn’t mind back then.

    I thought we were different.

    I worked hard.

    He worked crowds.

    He was charm.

    I was grit.

    Nadia and I had been together for three years when I proposed.

    She said yes with tears in her eyes.

    Everything felt solid.

    Real.

    I was building a house for us—literally.

    It was supposed to be our dream home.

    Custom everything.

    Her design input was everywhere—from the tiles to the walk-in closet she made me stretch the budget for.

    And that? That was fine.

    Because I thought we were building a life.

    But here's the thing about building.

    You can’t always see the cracks right away.

    Sometimes... you don’t even know you’re living inside a structure that’s already collapsing... until the day the whole damn thing comes down on top of you.

    The first crack?

    It was small.

    Barely even noticeable.

    Marcus started showing up more often.

    At first, it made sense—he said he wanted to invest in real estate.

    Asked questions about the renovation business.

    Wanted to “learn.”

    I was flattered, honestly.

    He was the high-flyer—finance, PR, the whole deal.

    For him to take interest in my little company?

    It felt like respect.

    And Nadia?

    She encouraged it.

    She said it was good for us to have more family involved.

    Said Marcus had “great instincts.”

    Said he was “such a people person.”

    I didn’t think anything of it...

    Not yet.

    But looking back?

    That was the first move on a chessboard I didn’t even realize I was standing on.

    Because what came next...

    Was the slow, surgical dismantling of everything I loved.

    It started with a client.

    A simple kitchen remodel in the suburbs.

    The kind of job we’d done a dozen times before.

    Only this time... something felt off.

    The client—Mrs. Greene—called me directly.

    She was upset.

    Said my crew had walked off the job halfway through the week.

    Said she hadn’t seen anyone in days.

    Now, that didn’t make sense.

    We ran a tight schedule.

    My foreman, Luis, was meticulous.

    So I drove down to the site myself.

    And what I found?

    Nothing.

    No crew.

    No tools.

    No materials.

    It looked abandoned.

    So I called Luis.

    Straight to voicemail.

    I called the supplier.

    He told me the last two invoices—both for that site—had been canceled.

    Canceled.

    By someone named... Marcus.

    I felt the air punch out of my lungs.

    Why would Marcus be touching supplier accounts?.... Continue to story on the comment section
    I remember standing there... just outside the church. The music had started. People were already seated. And inside, my brother... was waiting to marry the woman I thought I’d spend my life with. My hands were shaking. But not from fear. From rage. See... I had nothing left to lose. They’d already taken everything. My home. My business. My future. And now... they were walking down the aisle to dance on the grave of what used to be my life. So I walked in. Straight down the center aisle. Past the gasps... the whispers... the stares. I looked my brother in the eye. Then I turned to her. She was dressed in white, like a queen about to ascend her throne. And I smiled. That kind of smile you give when the final piece of a long, brutal chess game finally clicks into place. “You forgot one thing,” I said, loud enough for everyone to hear. They froze. “You forgot... I always finish what I start.” And then... I handed him the small black envelope. “Enjoy the honeymoon,” I whispered. I turned around... and walked out. But the silence behind me? That said everything. Now... I know what you’re thinking. What the hell happened? Why would my own brother marry my fiancée? Why did I lose everything? And what the hell was in that envelope? Well... to understand all that... You have to go back. Back to where it all began. Before the betrayal. Before the fall. Before I learned what family really means. And trust me... It gets worse before it gets better. Way worse. It started like all tragedies do... With everything going right. I had just turned 30. My business was finally taking off. I ran a boutique renovation company—nothing fancy, but we had loyal clients, steady referrals, and a crew that felt like family. I was engaged to the kind of woman you plan your whole future around. Her name was Nadia. She was smart. Gorgeous. The kind of presence that could light up a room without even trying. We met at a charity event—funny enough, hosted by my younger brother, Marcus. He was the “golden boy” of the family. The one who never failed. The one who got the praise, even when he didn’t deserve it. But I didn’t mind back then. I thought we were different. I worked hard. He worked crowds. He was charm. I was grit. Nadia and I had been together for three years when I proposed. She said yes with tears in her eyes. Everything felt solid. Real. I was building a house for us—literally. It was supposed to be our dream home. Custom everything. Her design input was everywhere—from the tiles to the walk-in closet she made me stretch the budget for. And that? That was fine. Because I thought we were building a life. But here's the thing about building. You can’t always see the cracks right away. Sometimes... you don’t even know you’re living inside a structure that’s already collapsing... until the day the whole damn thing comes down on top of you. The first crack? It was small. Barely even noticeable. Marcus started showing up more often. At first, it made sense—he said he wanted to invest in real estate. Asked questions about the renovation business. Wanted to “learn.” I was flattered, honestly. He was the high-flyer—finance, PR, the whole deal. For him to take interest in my little company? It felt like respect. And Nadia? She encouraged it. She said it was good for us to have more family involved. Said Marcus had “great instincts.” Said he was “such a people person.” I didn’t think anything of it... Not yet. But looking back? That was the first move on a chessboard I didn’t even realize I was standing on. Because what came next... Was the slow, surgical dismantling of everything I loved. It started with a client. A simple kitchen remodel in the suburbs. The kind of job we’d done a dozen times before. Only this time... something felt off. The client—Mrs. Greene—called me directly. She was upset. Said my crew had walked off the job halfway through the week. Said she hadn’t seen anyone in days. Now, that didn’t make sense. We ran a tight schedule. My foreman, Luis, was meticulous. So I drove down to the site myself. And what I found? Nothing. No crew. No tools. No materials. It looked abandoned. So I called Luis. Straight to voicemail. I called the supplier. He told me the last two invoices—both for that site—had been canceled. Canceled. By someone named... Marcus. I felt the air punch out of my lungs. Why would Marcus be touching supplier accounts?.... Continue to story on the comment section
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  • Don't marry your fellow man in woman body. Two men cannot marry as husband and wife, that's gay and God don't like it. Stop🖐🖐🖐🖐
    Don't marry your fellow man in woman body. Two men cannot marry as husband and wife, that's gay and God don't like it. Stop🖐🖐🖐🖐
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  • Women with absent fathers often become beggars for love, safety, and security.
    It’s heartbreaking how deeply they invest themselves in others, hoping that their love will be returned, hoping to finally feel chosen, protected, and seen.

    They carry a silent ache—an invisible wound that whispers....Maybe if I give more, they’ll stay. Maybe if I’m good enough, they’ll love me.

    This voice doesn’t come from who they are today, but from the little girl inside them who kept looking out the window, waiting for someone who never came.

    Their love becomes a currency—they trade affection, loyalty, and even their own boundaries just to feel held.

    They over-give, over-function, and over-apologize, hoping that one day, someone will finally choose to stay without conditions.

    The absence of a father doesn’t just leave a physical void—it creates emotional gaps that women often try to fill with partners, friends, or even strangers.

    But what’s missing isn’t just a person—it’s the early belief that they are inherently worthy of love without having to earn it.

    She often becomes hyper-independent, saying she doesn’t need anyone.

    But behind that strength is exhaustion—from carrying her own pain, from pretending she’s okay, from surviving in a world that never taught her how to receive.

    When she finally does meet love, she may not know how to trust it.

    Her nervous system doesn’t recognize consistency. It feels foreign. Unsafe even. She might push it away before it has a chance to hold her.

    This woman is not broken.
    She is someone who has been asked to mother herself before she was ever truly mothered. She’s someone who has built a heart out of scars and silence.

    Healing for her doesn’t come from finding the perfect partner. It comes from finding herself. From meeting the little girl within and telling her, “You don’t have to beg anymore. You are already enough.”

    When a woman with an absent father begins to reclaim her worth, she stops performing for love and starts attracting it from a place of truth.

    Her healing isn’t just hers—it becomes a ripple that touches every generation after her.

    And maybe for the first time, she finally breathes deeply… not because someone stayed, but because she stopped abandoning herself.

    If you belong to this story, know that healing is possible. I’m here to help you on this journey—just reach out to me.

    - Abhikesh
    Women with absent fathers often become beggars for love, safety, and security. It’s heartbreaking how deeply they invest themselves in others, hoping that their love will be returned, hoping to finally feel chosen, protected, and seen. They carry a silent ache—an invisible wound that whispers....Maybe if I give more, they’ll stay. Maybe if I’m good enough, they’ll love me. This voice doesn’t come from who they are today, but from the little girl inside them who kept looking out the window, waiting for someone who never came. Their love becomes a currency—they trade affection, loyalty, and even their own boundaries just to feel held. They over-give, over-function, and over-apologize, hoping that one day, someone will finally choose to stay without conditions. The absence of a father doesn’t just leave a physical void—it creates emotional gaps that women often try to fill with partners, friends, or even strangers. But what’s missing isn’t just a person—it’s the early belief that they are inherently worthy of love without having to earn it. She often becomes hyper-independent, saying she doesn’t need anyone. But behind that strength is exhaustion—from carrying her own pain, from pretending she’s okay, from surviving in a world that never taught her how to receive. When she finally does meet love, she may not know how to trust it. Her nervous system doesn’t recognize consistency. It feels foreign. Unsafe even. She might push it away before it has a chance to hold her. This woman is not broken. She is someone who has been asked to mother herself before she was ever truly mothered. She’s someone who has built a heart out of scars and silence. Healing for her doesn’t come from finding the perfect partner. It comes from finding herself. From meeting the little girl within and telling her, “You don’t have to beg anymore. You are already enough.” When a woman with an absent father begins to reclaim her worth, she stops performing for love and starts attracting it from a place of truth. Her healing isn’t just hers—it becomes a ripple that touches every generation after her. And maybe for the first time, she finally breathes deeply… not because someone stayed, but because she stopped abandoning herself. If you belong to this story, know that healing is possible. I’m here to help you on this journey—just reach out to me. - Abhikesh
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  • “Because of my success in business, many men were intimidated. Before marriage, I have dated men that were intimidated by my success.

    Any small thing they will say is because of what I think I have, and this is what happens to most successful women.

    The way I started fashion, I never imagined I would be a fashion designer because my mom was a tailor and each time she's working, we usually go by to help, not until I discovered it was more of a talent.
    I have always thought I would go to school, become educated, and become a career woman. Today, I'm an owner of a very big fashion brand.

    I never regret dropping out from school to pursue my dream. If I didn't, I'm not sure I would have been where I am today. If you have the opportunity to study, do it. The best decision for me might not be the best decision for you.

    If you're a successful woman, there's a way people will always be looking at you. If you don't get married early, they will say it's because you have too much influence or too much money, so men can't come after you. But don't limit yourself. Any man that can't be with you is not man enough.”
    — Veekee James
    “Because of my success in business, many men were intimidated. Before marriage, I have dated men that were intimidated by my success. Any small thing they will say is because of what I think I have, and this is what happens to most successful women. The way I started fashion, I never imagined I would be a fashion designer because my mom was a tailor and each time she's working, we usually go by to help, not until I discovered it was more of a talent. I have always thought I would go to school, become educated, and become a career woman. Today, I'm an owner of a very big fashion brand. I never regret dropping out from school to pursue my dream. If I didn't, I'm not sure I would have been where I am today. If you have the opportunity to study, do it. The best decision for me might not be the best decision for you. If you're a successful woman, there's a way people will always be looking at you. If you don't get married early, they will say it's because you have too much influence or too much money, so men can't come after you. But don't limit yourself. Any man that can't be with you is not man enough.” — Veekee James
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  • “Because of my success in business, many men were intimidated. Before marriage, I have dated men that were intimidated by my success.

    Any small thing they will say is because of what I think I have, and this is what happens to most successful women.

    The way I started fashion, I never imagined I would be a fashion designer because my mom was a tailor and each time she's working, we usually go by to help, not until I discovered it was more of a talent.
    I have always thought I would go to school, become educated, and become a career woman. Today, I'm an owner of a very big fashion brand.

    I never regret dropping out from school to pursue my dream. If I didn't, I'm not sure I would have been where I am today. If you have the opportunity to study, do it. The best decision for me might not be the best decision for you.

    If you're a successful woman, there's a way people will always be looking at you. If you don't get married early, they will say it's because you have too much influence or too much money, so men can't come after you. But don't limit yourself. Any man that can't be with you is not man enough.”
    — Veekee James
    “Because of my success in business, many men were intimidated. Before marriage, I have dated men that were intimidated by my success. Any small thing they will say is because of what I think I have, and this is what happens to most successful women. The way I started fashion, I never imagined I would be a fashion designer because my mom was a tailor and each time she's working, we usually go by to help, not until I discovered it was more of a talent. I have always thought I would go to school, become educated, and become a career woman. Today, I'm an owner of a very big fashion brand. I never regret dropping out from school to pursue my dream. If I didn't, I'm not sure I would have been where I am today. If you have the opportunity to study, do it. The best decision for me might not be the best decision for you. If you're a successful woman, there's a way people will always be looking at you. If you don't get married early, they will say it's because you have too much influence or too much money, so men can't come after you. But don't limit yourself. Any man that can't be with you is not man enough.” — Veekee James
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  • “Because of my success in business, many men were intimidated. Before marriage, I have dated men that were intimidated by my success.

    Any small thing they will say is because of what I think I have, and this is what happens to most successful women.

    The way I started fashion, I never imagined I would be a fashion designer because my mom was a tailor and each time she's working, we usually go by to help, not until I discovered it was more of a talent.
    I have always thought I would go to school, become educated, and become a career woman. Today, I'm an owner of a very big fashion brand.

    I never regret dropping out from school to pursue my dream. If I didn't, I'm not sure I would have been where I am today. If you have the opportunity to study, do it. The best decision for me might not be the best decision for you.

    If you're a successful woman, there's a way people will always be looking at you. If you don't get married early, they will say it's because you have too much influence or too much money, so men can't come after you. But don't limit yourself. Any man that can't be with you is not man enough.”
    — Veekee James
    “Because of my success in business, many men were intimidated. Before marriage, I have dated men that were intimidated by my success. Any small thing they will say is because of what I think I have, and this is what happens to most successful women. The way I started fashion, I never imagined I would be a fashion designer because my mom was a tailor and each time she's working, we usually go by to help, not until I discovered it was more of a talent. I have always thought I would go to school, become educated, and become a career woman. Today, I'm an owner of a very big fashion brand. I never regret dropping out from school to pursue my dream. If I didn't, I'm not sure I would have been where I am today. If you have the opportunity to study, do it. The best decision for me might not be the best decision for you. If you're a successful woman, there's a way people will always be looking at you. If you don't get married early, they will say it's because you have too much influence or too much money, so men can't come after you. But don't limit yourself. Any man that can't be with you is not man enough.” — Veekee James
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  • “Because of my success in business, many men were intimidated. Before marriage, I have dated men that were intimidated by my success.

    Any small thing they will say is because of what I think I have, and this is what happens to most successful women.

    The way I started fashion, I never imagined I would be a fashion designer because my mom was a tailor and each time she's working, we usually go by to help, not until I discovered it was more of a talent.
    I have always thought I would go to school, become educated, and become a career woman. Today, I'm an owner of a very big fashion brand.

    I never regret dropping out from school to pursue my dream. If I didn't, I'm not sure I would have been where I am today. If you have the opportunity to study, do it. The best decision for me might not be the best decision for you.

    If you're a successful woman, there's a way people will always be looking at you. If you don't get married early, they will say it's because you have too much influence or too much money, so men can't come after you. But don't limit yourself. Any man that can't be with you is not man enough.”
    — Veekee James
    “Because of my success in business, many men were intimidated. Before marriage, I have dated men that were intimidated by my success. Any small thing they will say is because of what I think I have, and this is what happens to most successful women. The way I started fashion, I never imagined I would be a fashion designer because my mom was a tailor and each time she's working, we usually go by to help, not until I discovered it was more of a talent. I have always thought I would go to school, become educated, and become a career woman. Today, I'm an owner of a very big fashion brand. I never regret dropping out from school to pursue my dream. If I didn't, I'm not sure I would have been where I am today. If you have the opportunity to study, do it. The best decision for me might not be the best decision for you. If you're a successful woman, there's a way people will always be looking at you. If you don't get married early, they will say it's because you have too much influence or too much money, so men can't come after you. But don't limit yourself. Any man that can't be with you is not man enough.” — Veekee James
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  • “Because of my success in business, many men were intimidated. Before marriage, I have dated men that were intimidated by my success.

    Any small thing they will say is because of what I think I have, and this is what happens to most successful women.

    The way I started fashion, I never imagined I would be a fashion designer because my mom was a tailor and each time she's working, we usually go by to help, not until I discovered it was more of a talent.
    I have always thought I would go to school, become educated, and become a career woman. Today, I'm an owner of a very big fashion brand.

    I never regret dropping out from school to pursue my dream. If I didn't, I'm not sure I would have been where I am today. If you have the opportunity to study, do it. The best decision for me might not be the best decision for you.

    If you're a successful woman, there's a way people will always be looking at you. If you don't get married early, they will say it's because you have too much influence or too much money, so men can't come after you. But don't limit yourself. Any man that can't be with you is not man enough.”
    — Veekee James
    “Because of my success in business, many men were intimidated. Before marriage, I have dated men that were intimidated by my success. Any small thing they will say is because of what I think I have, and this is what happens to most successful women. The way I started fashion, I never imagined I would be a fashion designer because my mom was a tailor and each time she's working, we usually go by to help, not until I discovered it was more of a talent. I have always thought I would go to school, become educated, and become a career woman. Today, I'm an owner of a very big fashion brand. I never regret dropping out from school to pursue my dream. If I didn't, I'm not sure I would have been where I am today. If you have the opportunity to study, do it. The best decision for me might not be the best decision for you. If you're a successful woman, there's a way people will always be looking at you. If you don't get married early, they will say it's because you have too much influence or too much money, so men can't come after you. But don't limit yourself. Any man that can't be with you is not man enough.” — Veekee James
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  • “Because of my success in business, many men were intimidated. Before marriage, I have dated men that were intimidated by my success.

    Any small thing they will say is because of what I think I have, and this is what happens to most successful women.

    The way I started fashion, I never imagined I would be a fashion designer because my mom was a tailor and each time she's working, we usually go by to help, not until I discovered it was more of a talent.
    I have always thought I would go to school, become educated, and become a career woman. Today, I'm an owner of a very big fashion brand.

    I never regret dropping out from school to pursue my dream. If I didn't, I'm not sure I would have been where I am today. If you have the opportunity to study, do it. The best decision for me might not be the best decision for you.

    If you're a successful woman, there's a way people will always be looking at you. If you don't get married early, they will say it's because you have too much influence or too much money, so men can't come after you. But don't limit yourself. Any man that can't be with you is not man enough.”
    — Veekee James
    “Because of my success in business, many men were intimidated. Before marriage, I have dated men that were intimidated by my success. Any small thing they will say is because of what I think I have, and this is what happens to most successful women. The way I started fashion, I never imagined I would be a fashion designer because my mom was a tailor and each time she's working, we usually go by to help, not until I discovered it was more of a talent. I have always thought I would go to school, become educated, and become a career woman. Today, I'm an owner of a very big fashion brand. I never regret dropping out from school to pursue my dream. If I didn't, I'm not sure I would have been where I am today. If you have the opportunity to study, do it. The best decision for me might not be the best decision for you. If you're a successful woman, there's a way people will always be looking at you. If you don't get married early, they will say it's because you have too much influence or too much money, so men can't come after you. But don't limit yourself. Any man that can't be with you is not man enough.” — Veekee James
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  • Never play a game with a woman who isn't afraid to be alone. She has already survive nights without someone to hold her, days without a call and seasons with no support. She has learned to wipe her own tears, fix her own problems and protect her peace. She doesn't settle for breadcrumbs, mixed signals or half hearted love. You can't manipulate her with silence or win her with temporary affection. She has built a life that doesn't need validation, she's already whole.

    So when you play games, you're not confusing her rather you're showing her that you're not ready for her love and the moment she sees you're wasting her time she won't argue, beg or chase you rather she will walk away quietly, gracefully back to her peace.

    She love by choice not out of need and if you're not adding to her life she won't hesitate to subtract you from it.
    Never play a game with a woman who isn't afraid to be alone. She has already survive nights without someone to hold her, days without a call and seasons with no support. She has learned to wipe her own tears, fix her own problems and protect her peace. She doesn't settle for breadcrumbs, mixed signals or half hearted love. You can't manipulate her with silence or win her with temporary affection. She has built a life that doesn't need validation, she's already whole. So when you play games, you're not confusing her rather you're showing her that you're not ready for her love and the moment she sees you're wasting her time she won't argue, beg or chase you rather she will walk away quietly, gracefully back to her peace. She love by choice not out of need and if you're not adding to her life she won't hesitate to subtract you from it.
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  • Dangerfield Newby is the actual man on which the movie D’Jango Unchained is loosely based.

    He was a member of the John Brown raiders. He joined the gang to save his wife, Harriet and children from slavery.

    —Dangerfield Newby (1815 – October 17, 1859) was the oldest of John Brown's raiders, one of five black raiders, and the first of his men to die at Harpers Ferry, Virginia.

    Born into slavery in Fauquier County, Virginia, Newby married a woman also enslaved. Newby's father was Henry Newby, a landowner in Fauquier County. His mother was Elsey Newby, who was a slave, owned not by Henry, but by a neighbor, John Fox. Elsey and Henry lived together for many years and had several children, although interracial marriage was illegal in Virginia. Dangerfield was their first child. Dangerfield Newby, his mother and his siblings were later freed by his father when he moved them across the Ohio River into Bridgeport, Ohio. John Fox, who died in 1859, apparently did not attempt to retrieve Elsey, Dangerfield, or any of his siblings. Dangerfield's wife and their seven children remained in bondage. A letter found on his body revealed some of his motivation for joining John Brown and the raid on Harpers Ferry.

    Dangerfield Newby's wife, Harriet Newby, was the slave of Jesse Jennings, of Arlington or Warrenton, Virginia. Newby had been unable to purchase the freedom of his wife and seven children. Their master raised the price after Newby had saved the $1,500 that had previously been agreed on. Because all of Newby's other efforts had failed he hoped to free them by force. Harriet's poignant letters, found on his body, proved instrumental in advancing the abolitionist cause. Newby was six foot two.

    On October 17, 1859, the citizens of Harpers Ferry set to put down the raid. Harpers Ferry manufactured guns but the citizens had little ammunition, so during the assault on the raiders they fired anything they could fit into a gun barrel. One man was shooting six inch spikes from his rifle, one of which struck Newby in the throat, killing him instantly. After the raid, the people of Harpers Ferry took his body, stabbed it repeatedly, and amputated his limbs. His body was left in an alley to be eaten by hogs. In 1899 the remains of Newby-plus remains of nine other raiders-were reburied in a common grave near the body of John Brown in North Elba, New York.

    Dangerfield Newby's wife, Harriet and her children were sold to a Louisiana slave owner after the raid.
    Dangerfield Newby is the actual man on which the movie D’Jango Unchained is loosely based. He was a member of the John Brown raiders. He joined the gang to save his wife, Harriet and children from slavery. —Dangerfield Newby (1815 – October 17, 1859) was the oldest of John Brown's raiders, one of five black raiders, and the first of his men to die at Harpers Ferry, Virginia. Born into slavery in Fauquier County, Virginia, Newby married a woman also enslaved. Newby's father was Henry Newby, a landowner in Fauquier County. His mother was Elsey Newby, who was a slave, owned not by Henry, but by a neighbor, John Fox. Elsey and Henry lived together for many years and had several children, although interracial marriage was illegal in Virginia. Dangerfield was their first child. Dangerfield Newby, his mother and his siblings were later freed by his father when he moved them across the Ohio River into Bridgeport, Ohio. John Fox, who died in 1859, apparently did not attempt to retrieve Elsey, Dangerfield, or any of his siblings. Dangerfield's wife and their seven children remained in bondage. A letter found on his body revealed some of his motivation for joining John Brown and the raid on Harpers Ferry. Dangerfield Newby's wife, Harriet Newby, was the slave of Jesse Jennings, of Arlington or Warrenton, Virginia. Newby had been unable to purchase the freedom of his wife and seven children. Their master raised the price after Newby had saved the $1,500 that had previously been agreed on. Because all of Newby's other efforts had failed he hoped to free them by force. Harriet's poignant letters, found on his body, proved instrumental in advancing the abolitionist cause. Newby was six foot two. On October 17, 1859, the citizens of Harpers Ferry set to put down the raid. Harpers Ferry manufactured guns but the citizens had little ammunition, so during the assault on the raiders they fired anything they could fit into a gun barrel. One man was shooting six inch spikes from his rifle, one of which struck Newby in the throat, killing him instantly. After the raid, the people of Harpers Ferry took his body, stabbed it repeatedly, and amputated his limbs. His body was left in an alley to be eaten by hogs. In 1899 the remains of Newby-plus remains of nine other raiders-were reburied in a common grave near the body of John Brown in North Elba, New York. Dangerfield Newby's wife, Harriet and her children were sold to a Louisiana slave owner after the raid.
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