Helping people is good, but when it becomes frequent, that's dependency right there and it can form codependency patterns. Help people but much more: Empower people to help themselves, that helps them evolve and break patterns and they can stand apart. This could look like, 🌹Getting them a job instead of sending them money always 🌹It could be teaching them or paying for them to learn a trade 🌹It could be supporting them to start their own business until it picks speed 🌹It could be cutting off hand downs and teaching them to create 🌹It could be telling the truth to them in love about their flaws 🌹It could be paying for therapy or counseling sessions for them, to help them gain clarity, work out healthy coping skills and strategies to deal to everyday life's stresses and challenges etc ... How have you empowered someone to help themselves? Keep unveiling your uniqueness because it is within you that BLISS is found. I love you 💕 #mentalhealth #mentalhealthawareness #stellaeyabi

Taking care of yourself is important, seeing yourself as God sees you is "important-er." When we understand ourselves we get to own our power and live unafraid. Here's what this is about: ************************************************* 1. Divørced: She can’t keep a man 😢 2. Råpëd: What was she wearing??🥴 3. Childless Marriage: She is bårrën 🥺🤰🏿 4. Doesn't give birth to a male child: it's all her fault, there's no son in her wømb 🙃 5. Rich and Independent: she's a prøstïtutë 💃🏿 6. A båd child: It's all the mother’s fault because she spøilt him😢 7. She wants to play some sports: You're a girl!! It's too difficult for you, that's not your purpose in life 🙎 8. She is single and drives a car: she would drive away all potential suitors. 🚗🙍 9. She speaks her mind: She is bøssy.🙄🙎🏿 10. Unmarried in her /30s/40s: She is irrespønsible. 😐🤦🏿 11. Married: Becomes her husband's property.🙍 12. Chëâting spouse: Its her fāult, She made him do it, she should be prayerful 💔😞 13. Widøwëd: She kïlléd her husband to take over his properties. 😥 14. Remarries: She didn’t Møürn her lâte husband enough😔 15. Dømëstìc Abüse: What did the woman do?. 😩 It ain't easy being a woman in this part of the world..😞 Respect to Every women out there!!!!😍 -The Love Doctor Ken. Choose your mental wellness every single time else you'll spiral into darkness. I love you and welcome to a blissful week. Keep unveiling your uniqueness because it is within you that BLISS is found. I love you ❤️ Stella E. Eyabi #stellaeyabi #contentment #emotionalintelligence #contentmentishappiness #mentalhealthawarenessmonth #mentalhealthmatters