"I was once married to movie director Tchidi Chikere, and we had a beautiful daughter, Adachi Testimony. At first, things were good, but later the marriage became stressful. We had many challenges, and I was not happy. I trîed to make it work, but it didn't last.

In 2022, the marriage ended. It was a pâinful time, but I stayed strong for my daughter. I focused on my héaling, my child, and my career.

Later, I found love again with Carlos Jean, also known as Gin Carlos. He’s a Nigerian man based in Holland. We now have a son together, Giovanni Munachimso. With him, I found peace and happiness again.

Life gave me another chance, and I’m grateful for my two children and the love I now enjoy."

— Nuella Njubigbo

*DEAR LADIES, TRUTH ABOUT DATING MARRIED MEN!!

Dating a married man may feel exciting. It may look easy. He maybe spending on you but behind closed doors, it’s a path full of pain, secrets, and stolen moments.

Dear Ladies,
No matter what life may throw back at you, never you find happiness in another woman's pain.
A marriage that is built on another woman's tears will never stand.

Don't be an instrument that ends another woman’s happiness.

TRUTH ABOUT DATING MARRIED MEN!!

1. The only thing he wants is sex. He comes and goes back home to his wife.

2.He is never going to leave his wife for you

3. You are most likely not the only one.

4.After using you he will move on to someone else.

5.He doesn't owe you anything.

6.Getting pregnant on purpose won't trap him; his kids are at home with his wife.

7. His money and property is for him and his family, you only get the small changes.

8. You will never be part of his future.

9. You’ll live in silence.
No public affection. No open love. You hide while he lives two lives.

10. You’ll never be his priority
His wife, his children, his home—they come first. You’re an option, not a commitment.

NOTE:
Sister, You may destroy another woman’s home
And one day, you might be in her shoes.

A struggling young man is better than a married man.
A home built on another woman's tears won't stand.
Look for your own Husband and stop tearing another woman's marriage apart.

10 PEOPLE YOU SHOULD NOT MARRY

Yesterday, I shared some truths about how important the person you marry is. This is because, the beginning of a peaceful and successful marriage begins with marrying the right person.

So, in this article I will be showing you some type of people you should not marry. It's not everyone that's ready for marriage is marriable.

1. Don't marry anyone that is not a child of God

Adam had a relationship with God first before having a relationship with anyone. That's how it's supposed to be. The first relationship man was given was relationship with God before relationship with his wife(Gen. 3:8-9).

I have said this before, the best person to marry is a child of God, someone that fears and loves God and is being led by the Holy Spirit. Someone that fears God will shun evil and will never maltreat you. Anyone that doesn't love or fear God can do anything without minding.

So, anyone that is not a child of God, born again and committed in the service of the kingdom, is not a prayer point. Don't be unequally yoke with unbelievers. If you're a child of God, marry a child of God, If you're an unbeliever, please look for your kind. Let's not be unfortunate. God and Satan cannot be in-laws.

2. Don't marry anyone that doesn't have direction in life.

Adam was busy with something before the issue of marriage came up. He was busy ruling, dominating, working and taking care of the earth. Therefore, before marriage you should know what you want to do with your life(Gen 2:15).

Don't marry anyone that doesn't know where he or she is going in life. Have something meaningful doing with your life before marriage. Don't wait for marriage before you become useful. Be useful to yourself, family and society.

3. Don't marry anyone that beats you

Many ladies are guilty of this. You're in a relationship with a guy that hasn't done anything on your head yet he beats and abuses but you keep believing he will change. Don't worry, when you enter marriage, he's likely to kill you if God doesn't help you.

Don't marry anyone that raises hand on you, inflicts injury on you both physically, psychologically and emotionally. That's a big red flag. Run. A person that beats you before marriage, may kill you after marriage. And if he or she cannot change before marriage, change after marriage maybe difficult.

4. Don't marry anyone that's too proud.

Anyone that's too proud will always think or feel he or she is doing you a favor by getting married to you. You'll be taken for granted. You will not be appreciated and accepted. The person will find it hard to admit his or hand wrong. Nobody is doing anyone favour, even if na dangote son or daughter.

A proud person is an entitled person. They want to be served, worshipped, appreciated, wanted but can not do same for you.

5. Don't marry anyone that manipulates or blackmails you.

Don't marry anyone that always blame you when something goes wrong, even when they're at fault, they will always turn the situation against you. They always make you feel as if you're not enough or worthy to be loved and appreciated. They always talk you down. They will so erode your self esteem that you will begin to think that you deserve what you are getting. That's a toxic person to marry.

6. Don't marry anyone that threatens you

Most of the time, the thing many people are facing in marriage have always been there during their courtship or dating but were too blinded to see it. Don't marry anyone that threatens you with breakup if you should deny him or her sex or if you refuse to get pregnant before marriage. Don't marry anyone that always threatens to beat you.

7. Don't marry anyone that doesn't support you.

People in a relationship suppose to support each other but when you are in a relationship with anyone that doesn't support your legit course, vision, goals, purpose, ministry, ambition etc., that's a wrong person to marry. The person is only after his or her own course. Many woman have sacrificed their ambitions on the alter of marriage due to the kind of man they marry.

8. Don't marry anyone that doesn't have an authority he or she submits to

In the minitary, it's only someone that's under authority that can give command and it will be obeyed. Don't marry a free-ranger, someone that doesn't submit to any authority, listen to anyone, obey anyone, respect anyone. That's a dangerous person to marry. He can do and undone with reckless abandone because nobody to restrict or constrain.

The family, church, a Mentor, a Counselor etc., are example of authorities one should have.

9. Don't marry anyone that doesn't respect you

Someone that doesn't care about your feelings before he or she does something, talks to you the way he or she wants, treats you anyhow, is not the kind of person to marry. I mean someone that doesn't care if what he or she is doing is hurting you, you shouldn't marry that kind of a person.

10. Don't marry anyone that doesn't love you

Love is foundational to the survival of marriage, without love resentment, harshness, unkind words and actions, avoidance, irritation, boredom, etc will be a daily occurrence. Love is a lubricant and moisturiser. It makes things easy.

I often say that, marrying someone that doesn't love or someone you don't love is self imprisonment with hard labour. A lot of people have complained to me that they are facing hell in their marriages because of lack of love.

However, love is not enough to marry anyone, other factors have to be considered. Because you love someone that beats and abuses you doesn't mean you marry the person unless of course you enjoy the beating and the abuse. You people are not normal. All things being equal, don't marry someone that doesn't love you nor someone you don't love.

What other kind of persons you will never marry, share with me in the comment below?

Thanks for reading

They told her to wait in the corridor while the family ate,
She was just the house help.
She served their meals but ate leftovers.
She washed their clothes but wore rags.

Lagos, Southwest, Nigeria 1995…

Amarachi was 13 when she was sent from her village to Lagos to work as a housemaid for the

Okoye family.

Her job?
Clean the house,
Fetch water,
Cook,
Wash,
Repeat the same.

She wasn’t allowed to sit on the couch,
Not allowed to eat with the children,
She ate on the kitchen floor,
Sometimes she slept near the store room.

They said:

“Know your place, you are lucky to be here.”

But she was Kind,
obedient, and every night she read old textbooks she found in the bin.

One of the children, Chidera, once caught her studying and said:

“You? School? Who will pay for your brain?”

She smiled and said:

“Maybe one day, God will.”

After four years, she was sent back to her village;
No certificate,
No savings,
No promise.

But Amarachi didn’t stop.

She farmed.
Saved,
Taught children in village.
Later got admitted into one of the Federal Polytechnic.
Made an Upper Credit in her OND, thereafter graduated with a Distinction in HND in Business Administration.
She soon started a local food brand,
Expanded into Raw Food Export.

By 2024, she became one of the leading Agro-entrepreneurs in Southeast, Nigeria.

One day, she saw a social media Post, the Okoye family was launching a foundation and needed a major sponsor.

She put a call through.

Used her now married name.

She was invited, not knowing who she was.

On the day of the launch, she walked in, head high, dressed in white lace.

The family froze.

Chidera blinked,

The father gasped,

She smiled and said:

25 years ago, I served your food in silence. Today, I came to serve your future with Love.

She handed them a cheque of ₦20 million donation to their Foundation.

Then added:

“This is not revenge. It’s a remembrance.
Because the girl you ignored, grew in Grace.”

The hall fell silent.

Even Chidera wept,

Amarachi turned, hugged the family’s grandmother, and whispered:

The table I once wasn’t allowed to sit at, God gave me the tools to build my own.

She didn’t come to repay the pain,
She came to rewrite history.

Because sometimes, the girl they made to eat in the kitchen, returns to fund the Banquet.

Life is a teacher!
Learn to treat people with respect.
Everybody is Somebody!

ENDOWED PRINCESS BRENDA

RELAX! SINGLENESS IS NOT A CURSE

I read about a beautiful lady who was waiting on God for a husband. She continued to wait but eventually began to groan with impatience. At every church meeting, she would approach her pastors and lament her ordeal, and they would encourage her to keep waiting.

One day, at a church program, she approached her pastor, looked him in the eyes, and expressed her feelings of despair. "Daddy, I have waited enough... I am getting weak. I have tried my best... I am getting tired already... Daddy, I repeat, I have waited enough..."

Her pastor looked back at her firmly and said, "If you are tired of waiting for the Lord, what else would you do? Would you return to the world simply because you are waiting for a partner? After all this waiting, there is only one option left for you: Wait for the Lord."

The next time her pastor saw her, she came to another program with her wedding pictures—she had married! Her pastor was taken aback. She was beaming with joy, smiling all around. We all thanked the Lord for her life and for answered prayers, even though it seemed strange.

However, not long after that, her pastor didn't hear from her again for some time. Then the news came that she had di€d. She passed away in the hospital after a long illness, with no one even noticing her absence. It was shocking that she di€d so quietly, and there wasn’t even an announcement of her d€ath among the congregation. She had been buri€d before her pastors learned the news. They later discovered that she had married a married man, and the brief time she spent after her wedding was a t€rrible experience. Eventually, she became seriously ill and passed away.

Dear Singles, Be patient... At the right time, God will settle you.

A relaxed sister is better positioned for marriage than a tensed up lady who is over-eager to shout "Yes" to any marriage proposal. ☹

Those who are too anxious to get married usually make marital mistakes. Until Adam was put to sleep, God couldn't reveal his wife to him. A relaxed mind is the magnet of God's miracle.

Do not coax people to propose to you. Do not scare potential suitors away by putting marriage thoughts in their mind.

There is nothing like getting too old for marriage.

I have never seen anyone di€ of marrying late. But I have seen many di€ because they marry wrong.

It is better to marry an angel at 40 than to marry a devil when you are 25. Do not make marriage look like a "do or die affair".

Singleness is not a Sin
Singleness is not a Bondage
Singleness Is Not A Curse
Singleness Is Not A Sickness,
Singleness Is Not A Pr0blem,
Singleness Is Not A Limitation.
Singleness Is Not A Shame.

You Can Be Single and Be All You Can Be
You Can Be single And Happy,
You Can Be single And Spiritual
You Can Be Single And Anointed,
You Can Be Single And Sound,
You Can Be Single And Successful,
You Can Be Single And Be Unique,
You Can Be Single And Be Fulfilled..

Never mourn Your Singleness because your present state is not your final state.

Marriage is glorious, beautiful, marvelous, exciting, tremendous, and very sweet but so also is singleness. So enjoy your singleness, make good use of it before getting married.

If you have not received a marriage proposal yet it simply means that you are too special for God to throw just anyone at you.

Relax. Don't lose hope and don't be too desperate. Trust in the Lord.

As the Lord lives, you are the next to be celebrated in Jesus name.

Kindly share this message with your loved ones

Let's allow GENUINE LOVE & PEACE lead always
#marriedandslaying
#RantHQ
#videoviral
#peacemaker

What do you guys think about this
#married&single

People always laugh at me because I married for love. They say I married her out of pity. Some even say, "With all your looks, your talent, your smartness, and boldness, you still married someone older, and not even beautiful." When I hear things like that, I just smile. They don’t know what I know.

I chose my wife with clear eyes. She is older than me, yes—but that doesn't stop her from being sweet, peaceful, respectful, loving, and very talented. She cooks very well, and she brings peace to my life. That is what really matters in a marriage.

I always tell my friends—marriage is more than looks or age. It is not easy, but when you find a good woman, hold her. If you’re a man and you’re happy with an older woman, marry her. Forget what people say. In time, they will learn to respect your choice.

— Stan Nze

There is this ring i am putting on my finger as i speak right now, Let me tell you the story behind it.

Rewind to 22 of May, 2019. I wasn’t married to my husband then, just living with him, and, you know the rest…

He went to work, and I was alone in the house. I just got back from Turkey and we relocated back to Lagos, from Awka, Anambra state. Been living with him for more than a year, and there was no sign of marriage, as he was always reminding me of how scared he was of getting married.

On that fateful day, after thinking about my life, I parked my belongings, and was ready to leave his house. I told myself that I can’t continue living with a man and collecting preeeèeeèk without marriage, what if I get pregnànt? I am too fragile to be a single mother o, me that hasn’t finished taking care of myself.

I called him to come and drop me off, that I was ready to leave him. He was shocked, asked me where I was leaving to, I said mainland, he told me to give him till evening, so that he will finish for the day. I agreed and waited, patiently.

When he got back, he mentioned a place he saw at the mall in sangotedo, that I should follow him there first, before he will go drop me off, I insisted on putting my bag in the trunk of the car, he didn’t argue, even helped me carry the bag to the car.

When we got to the mall, he took me straight to pandora, and said he was passing by a few days before, and spotted the ring, that it would look good on my finger. I asked him if he was trying to engage me, he said I shouldn’t put a label on it, I should just wear it to remember him always, even after I leave him.

Smh . Men!

I accepted what looked exactly like an engagement ring, he wore it on my ‘married’, ring finger. On our way out of the mall, he told me he was having runny stomach, that we should quickly stop by at the house, I innocently agreed. When we got home, this man started sugàr talking my fragile heart, and I gave in again. I don’t know how I found myself on the bèď again, wearing a non marriage proposal ring, feeling very satisfied for no reason.

Few hours later, he went to bring my bag inside, and unpacked for me. I later officially became his wife, four months later, but it wasn’t easy for me to get here. The road was too long.

An only son that was afraid of marriage.

*Today, By the revelational knowledge of God's Word of Truth, whatever you've been praying & asking God for since the beginning of this year, receive the speedy MANIFESTATION & ANSWERS PRAYER right now! 2 Timothy 3:7. (TPT)*

*Your future is already settled... I see God rejoicing over your matter... I see your Compassionate and Unprecedented HELPERS taken their full possession and responsibility in your life.*

*Beloved, you must learn to continually declare what God has redeemed you from. Every morning when you wake up, declare it. Speak it to yourself. Say: ‘I am delivered. I am saved, I am sanctified. I am filled with the Holy ghost. I have authority. I have divine mandate to represent heaven. I am God’s ambassador. I am anointed by God to work the works of God’ Psalm 107:1-2.*

*Declare that there is a power at work in you that makes the rulers of darkness to tremble. Declare that you are God’s powerhouse. Therefore, you can never fail. As a matter of fact, you are a terror to the devil. You have authority to tread upon serpents and upon scorpions and over all the ability of the enemy. And nothing shall by any means hurt you. There is no weapon formed against you that shall prosper. Any tongue that rises against you in judgment is condemned. Mark 16:17-18. (TPT)*

*You are born of God. You have a world overcoming faith residing on the inside of you. Greater is He that is in you than he that is in the world. You have the mind of Christ. Philemon 1:6.*

*In order for you to see the manifestation of the revelation knowledge of God's Word of Truth in your life, You must acknowledge God’s promises. That is how to make the promises effective in your life. You must acknowledge every good thing which is in you in Christ Jesus. If you are to receive the manifestation of every good thing that Jesus paid for, you have to acknowledge them. When you wake up in the morning, declare that they are yours, whether you see them or not.*

*I declare you'll get married. Your children will be delivered safely and they'll be taught the ways of the Lord. You are far from oppression. You will not be stranded. The ground you walk upon will celebrate you. The heaven over you will never be shut.*

*You shall be the desire of God called Hephzibah and Beulah... Never again will you be termed forsaken and thy future desolate. Isaiah 62:1-12.*

*Good Morning Your Excellency!*

*IT IS YOUR DAY OF REST, OPEN DOORS AND ANSWERS PRAYER!*