TEN TIPS FOR MARRIED COUPLES
Do you often argue with your spouse?
It's normal in marriage. But how can you make your relationship work even when faced with many problems?
Here are some tips to help keep your marriage strong:
WHEN YOUR SPOUSE IS ANGRY, DON'T REACT
Only one person should be angry. If your spouse is upset, let them be, and remain quiet. Wait until they calm down before talking things through, and never go to bed angry.
SELF-CONTROL
You need to learn to control yourself. When you're angry, you shouldn't hurt your spouse, speak harshly, or lash out.
ACCEPTANCE
Accept your spouse for who they are. You chose them, you wanted them. Even their flaws, accept them and endure.
WHEN THERE'S A PROBLEM, TALK ABOUT IT TOGETHER, NOT TO OTHERS
Discuss your issues between the two of you, with family if necessary, but never with neighbors, friends, or post it on social media when you're angry. Don't let disagreements lead to hurt and separation.
WHEN THEY'RE ANGRY, THEY MIGHT SAY HURTFUL THINGS, DON’T TAKE IT PERSONALLY
Remember, when someone is angry, they won't say anything nice. They’re upset, not thinking clearly. Let it go in one ear and out the other.
ALWAYS HUG YOUR SPOUSE AND KIDS
It relieves stress, heals emotional pain, and eases problems.
APPRECIATE YOUR SPOUSE
If they're handsome/beautiful, tell them they are. Compliment their appearance. Don’t doubt that they’re trying to look good for someone else; you should be the first one to appreciate them.
RESPECT
Respect and trust are more important than love. These should never be lost between two people who truly care for each other.
BE A FRIEND TO YOUR SPOUSE
It’s wonderful when your spouse is also your best friend.
OPEN COMMUNICATION
You should always talk to each other. Reminisce about the time when you were dating. Keep going on dates, and if possible, without the kids.
Discuss problems, don’t fight about them
Always remember, "A good husband makes a good wife."
TEN TIPS FOR MARRIED COUPLES
Do you often argue with your spouse?
It's normal in marriage. But how can you make your relationship work even when faced with many problems?
Here are some tips to help keep your marriage strong:
✨WHEN YOUR SPOUSE IS ANGRY, DON'T REACT
Only one person should be angry. If your spouse is upset, let them be, and remain quiet. Wait until they calm down before talking things through, and never go to bed angry.
✨SELF-CONTROL
You need to learn to control yourself. When you're angry, you shouldn't hurt your spouse, speak harshly, or lash out.
✨ACCEPTANCE
Accept your spouse for who they are. You chose them, you wanted them. Even their flaws, accept them and endure.
✨WHEN THERE'S A PROBLEM, TALK ABOUT IT TOGETHER, NOT TO OTHERS
Discuss your issues between the two of you, with family if necessary, but never with neighbors, friends, or post it on social media when you're angry. Don't let disagreements lead to hurt and separation.
✨WHEN THEY'RE ANGRY, THEY MIGHT SAY HURTFUL THINGS, DON’T TAKE IT PERSONALLY
Remember, when someone is angry, they won't say anything nice. They’re upset, not thinking clearly. Let it go in one ear and out the other.
✨ALWAYS HUG YOUR SPOUSE AND KIDS
It relieves stress, heals emotional pain, and eases problems.
✨APPRECIATE YOUR SPOUSE
If they're handsome/beautiful, tell them they are. Compliment their appearance. Don’t doubt that they’re trying to look good for someone else; you should be the first one to appreciate them.
✨RESPECT
Respect and trust are more important than love. These should never be lost between two people who truly care for each other.
✨BE A FRIEND TO YOUR SPOUSE
It’s wonderful when your spouse is also your best friend.
✨OPEN COMMUNICATION
You should always talk to each other. Reminisce about the time when you were dating. Keep going on dates, and if possible, without the kids.
‼️Discuss problems, don’t fight about them‼️
Always remember, "A good husband makes a good wife."