*SMALL THINGS THAT CAN TELL YOU A LOT ABOUT A PERSON?*

*SPEECH*. The way, a person speaks tell us a lot about their attitude and personality. The more educated a person is, the more polite he tends to become.

*FASHION SENSE*. You should never believe a person who tries too hard to appear cool wearing trendy clothes and costly shoes. He/she is a manipulator and obviously big imposter.

*HANDWRITING*. It may be a little debatable but the more creative and lazy a person is, the roughest his handwriting gets. On the other hand, organized and disciplined people have good handwriting.

*HYGIENE*. You can easily figure out if a person is disciplined or not by noticing their hygiene. Those who maintain hygiene have high self esteem and they tend to love themselves.

*SMILE*. Smile can be deceiving most of the times but it shows the person is strong and he is trying to live a normal happy life.

*HOW A PERSON TREATS ANIMALS.* Those who loves animals are often the most joyful and full of life.

If a person admits his mistakes immediately and asks for forgiveness without letting his ego come in between, it tells a lot about his upbringing and personality.

How a person treats his lover and the most IMPORTANTLY how he treats his competitors.

I hope it helps! It's totally based on my observations, nothing is scientifically proven at all.

Good morning and have a great Friday!

Please stay safe !!!

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Happy ash wednesday my fellow Christian

Let love prevail

Listen up, Men! This “I Owe Nobody” Mentality Is Why Modern Women Are Broken—Here’s the Harsh Truth

Women today love to scream, “I owe nobody this, I owe nobody that,” like it’s some badge of honor. That’s how we got to this level of irresponsibility, broken relationships, broken marriages, and a society full of reckless women who hit 35 without a man and a body count that makes a calculator sweat. Let’s be real—this mentality is pure poison.

Here’s the truth they don’t want to hear: you owe people plenty. Respect, empathy, compassion, good character, and accountability aren’t optional—they’re the bare minimum for being a decent human. But let’s not stop there. You owe your husband virginity, submission, and obedience—period. That’s not oppression—that’s order. Society crumbles without it.

1. “I Owe Nobody Respect” Is Why No Man Wants You

Respect isn’t something you give based on your mood—it’s the foundation of any relationship. Women who refuse to respect men wonder why they keep getting ghosted. When a woman thinks she’s above showing respect, what she’s really saying is, “I’m entitled to everything without earning anything.” Men see that mentality from a mile away and run. And they should. No man should have to beg for basic respect.

2. “I Owe Nobody Empathy” Is Why Your Friendships Are Trash

Empathy is about understanding the other person’s point of view—not about making everything about you. Women who scream about not owing anyone empathy are the same ones who can’t keep friends for longer than six months because every conversation turns into “me, me, me.”

That’s why they spend their nights on TikTok live streams instead of having meaningful conversations. No empathy, no real connections—simple.

3. “I Owe Nobody My Virginity”—And That’s Why You’re Single at 35

Here’s the hard truth—a woman’s virginity is a gift, not a given. A man who works his entire life to build a legacy deserves a woman who has the discipline to save herself. You owe your husband

MY FATHER'S ADVICE...
1. Not everything will go as you expect in your life. This is why you need to drop expectations and go with the flow.
2.Reduce bitterness from your life, that **** delays blessings!
3. Dating a supportive woman is everything.
4. If you want to be successful, you must respect one rule - Never lie to yourself.
5. If your parents always count on you, don't play the same game with those who count on their parents.
6. Chase goals, not people.
7. Your 20's are your selfish years, build yourself, choose yourself first at all cost.
8. Detachment is power. Release anything that doesn't bring you peace.
9. Only speak when your words are more beautiful than your silence.
10. Invest in your looks. Do it for no one else but yourself. When you look good, you feel good. Normalize dressing well, you're broke not mad.
11. Some people want to see everything go wrong for you because nothing is going right for them.
12. Being a good person doesn't get you loved. It gets you used.
13. Don't be afraid of losing people, be afraid of losing yourself by trying to please everyone around you.
14. Keep your move private. Don't announce it until it's SEALED! Premature announcements attract bad spirits. Best thing you can do is stop telling people what's going on in your life.
15. For the sake of your mental health don't love too hard, therapy sessions are expensive. Also, marry when you're ready, not when you're lonely.
16. Your thoughts are very powerful, make them positive.
17. Social media will make you envy someone you should actually pity.
18. Nobody owes you anything on your birthday, learn to save money and spoil yourself.
19. That move you're scared to make might just be the one that changes everything. Do it. Move.
20. Dont mess up your progress trying to rush the process.
21. No matter how thirsty you are, there are some people you should never ask for water.
22. Add value to your life, learn a skill, develop yourself.
23. Never love someone to the point where you no longer mind them hurting you.
24. You are your own best friend. Never ever, put yourself down.
25. Sometimes people come back in your life just to check if you're still ******.
26. The sooner you figure out which chairs don't belong at your table, the more peaceful your meals become.
27. If you want to run, first you must learn to walk. Yes, the dreams are big, but you have to start somewhere, and doing something is better than nothing at all. Start small, stay consistent and watch it get bigger.
28. Before spending money on someone else, make sure your family is good.
29. What comes easy, won't last. What lasts, won't come easy.
30. Normalize lying to people who ask you lots of questions about your personal life.
31. One day you'll test HIV positive because of forgiving cheating partners.
32. Some Ex's need to understand that even if we hear they now drive a plane or own the world, we will never regret leaving them.
33. Avoid peer pressure.
34. Do not abuse and kill women. Respect yourself.
35. Not everyone at your work place is your friend.
~ Do your job.
~ Get paid.
~ Go home.

I love gada

The measure of a man's truth is the measure of his love, and truth is far removed from he whose life is not governed by love.

Those who died yestoday has plans for this morning.And those who died this morning had plans for tonight. Don't take life for granted. In the blink of an eye, everything can change. So,forgive often and love with a full heart. You never know when you may not have that chance again.

Good morning lovelies!!

WHEN YOU ARE 40 YEARS OLD OR ABOVE

A. Two things to check as often as you can:

(1) Your blood pressure
(2) Your blood sugar.

B. Six things to reduce to the minimum on your foods:

(1) Salt
(2) sugar
(3) preserved meat and foods
(4) red meat especially roasted
(5) diary products
(6) starchy products

C. Four things to increase in your foods:

(1) Greens/vegetables
(2) beans
(3) fruits
(4) nuts

D. Three things you need to forget:

(1) Your age
(2) your past
(3) your grievances

E. Four things you must have, no matter how weak or how strong you are:

(1) Friends who truly love you
(2) caring family
(3) positive thoughts
(4) a warm home.

F. Four things you need to do to stay healthy:

(1) fasting
(2) smiling / laughing
(3) trek / exercise
(4) reduce your weight.

G. Six things you don't have to do:

(1) Don't wait till you are hungry to eat
(2) don't wait till you are thirsty to drink
(3) don't wait till you are sleepy to sleep
(4) don't wait till you feel tired to rest
(5) don't wait till you get sick to go for health check-ups otherwise you will only regret later in life.
(6) don’t wait till you have problem before you pray to your God

Success is not the key to happiness. Happiness is the key to success. If you love what you are doing, you will be successful.

*i finally realise that I was placed in some people's lives to show them true and unconditional love whilst they where placed in mine to teach me how to love myself more and have self worth.