They Love and get married , after they will become enemies, no one thinks about the children, they are just tired of each other and marriages just finished,what are we teaching our children?

"You are a magnet. What you fear, you attract. What you love, you become."

"You are a magnet. What you fear, you attract. What you love, you become."

Dearly Beloved, Let us give people 'hope' by speaking to them, for our silence at times may break the little spirit that is left in them. Let them hear our wordings and voice and be inspired.

MISTAKES FOOLISH MEN MAKE 🚨 Some men think they are wise, but their foolishness is louder than a generator at 2 AM. They spend on random women, ignore their families, and behave like big boys until reality humbles them. If you want a peaceful and successful life, avoid these 15 foolish mistakes: 1. YOU FEED STRANGERS, BUT YOUR FAMILY IS HUNGRY Your wife asks for money to cook, you say “manage things.” Your children need new shoes, you tell them “things are tough.” But when a slay queen sends “Hey baby, I’m craving pizza”, you’re already on your way to Domino’s like a delivery man. 🚨 BREAKING NEWS: Your own family is suffering, but you’re feeding someone who is only with you because of your money. Who really needs deliverance here? 2. YOU ENJOY LIFE OUTSIDE, BUT YOUR HOME IS A WAR ZONE You’re “outside” every weekend, drinking, dancing, calling yourself “big man”, while your wife is at home, thinking about how to pay rent and feed the kids. 🚨 REALITY CHECK: One day, you’ll return home broke, and the woman you abandoned will be the only one standing by you. By then, it might be too late. 3. YOU’RE INVESTING IN SOMEONE ELSE’S WIFE You think you’re helping a “babe” grow by sending her money? She’s just waiting for a serious man to marry her. You’re paying her bills, sponsoring her hair, nails, and data. But when she’s ready to settle down, she will marry another man. 🚨 CONGRATULATIONS IN ADVANCE: You just built up another man’s wife. Hope you’ll attend the wedding! 😂 4. YOU THINK ASHAWO LOVES YOU – NO, SHE LOVES YOUR WALLET She calls you “baby” because you’re spending money, not because she actually cares. 🚨 WAKE UP! The moment you go broke, she will disappear faster than free WiFi in a crowded area. Oga, you’re not her type – your money is! 5. YOU’RE A BIG MAN OUTSIDE, BUT BROKE IN YOUR OWN HOUSE Outside, you’re a chairman. Inside, you’re a charity case. Your friends see you drinking expensive whiskey, but your children are drinking garri with no sugar. 🚨 EVEN YOUR ANCESTORS ARE SHOCKED. Fix your priorities before life resets you. 6. YOU SMOKE, DRINK, GAMBLE, BUT CAN’T PAY SCHOOL FEES Every weekend, you spend ₦50k on smoking and drinking, but when school fees arrive, you start telling your wife “times are hard.” Oga, times are not hard, you are just stupid. Instead of investing in your children, you’re investing in alcohol. 🚨 REALITY WILL HUMBLE YOU. The same children you abandoned will be the ones to abandon you in old age. 7. YOU’RE CHASING GIRLS WHILE YOUR LIFE IS FALLING APART Your mates are building businesses, but you’re building a catalog of side chicks. You know all the girls in town, but you don’t know how to make money. 🚨 BE SERIOUS WITH YOUR LIFE, BRO. Girls will not help you when you’re broke. Focus on success first – the right woman will come. 8. YOU’RE SPENDING MONEY ON A GIRL WHO’S SAVING FOR ANOTHER MAN You send her urgent 2K, she tells you “thanks baby 😍” But the money goes straight into her savings account for her real boyfriend. 🚨 ONE DAY, YOU WILL UNDERSTAND. When she gets married, don’t be surprised if the husband is the same guy you thought was “just a friend.” 9. YOU CALL YOURSELF A “BIG BOY” BUT YOU HAVE NO INVESTMENTS You wear designers, use the latest iPhone, but your account balance is on life support. 🚨 TRUE WEALTH IS SILENT. If your money is only for show, you’ll be broke before you hit 40. 10. YOU’RE COMPETING WITH YOUR MATES WHO HAVE MULTIPLE INCOME SOURCES Your friends invest in real estate, stocks, and businesses, but you’re busy competing over who can pop the most bottles at the club. 🚨 LIFE IS NOT A COMPETITION OF STUPIDITY. If you don’t invest now, you’ll be begging your mates for help later. 11. YOU SLEEP AROUND, BUT EXPECT A FAITHFUL WIFE You cheat with everything in a skirt, but the day you see your wife talking to another man, you become a motivational speaker on loyalty. 🚨 KARMA IS NOT A MYTH. If you want a good woman, be a good man first. 12. YOU KEEP BORROWING TO IMPRESS PEOPLE WHO DON’T CARE You take loans just to live large, but those people you’re impressing won’t help you when you’re in debt. 🚨 STOP LIVING FAKE LIFE. Wealthy men don’t borrow money for luxury – they invest and multiply it. 13. YOU CHOOSE WOMEN BASED ON LOOKS, NOT CHARACTER She’s fine, but does she have sense? She’s sexy, but does she have self-respect? 🚨 A PRETTY FOOL WILL RUIN YOUR LIFE. Choose wisely before you end up with a liability, not a wife. 14. YOU ALLOW WOMEN TO CONTROL YOUR LIFE A woman asks for money, you empty your account. She tells you to stop talking to your friends, you obey like a child. 🚨 BE A MAN, NOT A PUPPET. A woman should complement your life, not control it. 15. YOU NEGLECT YOUR SPIRITUAL LIFE You believe in money, women, and vibes, but when problems come, who will fight for you? 🚨 EVEN BILLIONAIRES PRAY. If you think money is everything, you’ll learn the hard way that life is deeper than cash.

Ladies.... Leave Love for Men...your duty as a woman is to respect your man, respecting a man is a whole lot to do on it own,dont join love with it ..loving and showing a man will hurt you...it can affect your mental health. Respecting a man means ..you must not cheat on the Man, your body belongs to him and him alone..no other man must see your nakedness again! Respecting a man means, total submission to a man, respecting every of his decisions, whatever he says is the final, though he can always bend or adjust if u make him understand why he should adjust his decision. Respecting a man means,you accepting his family as yours, never stop him from helping or assisting his family, never join him in fighting his family, his family will later forgive him...and they will never forgive you. Respecting a man means, you are loyal to him 100%, no secrets ,no lies, no games, nothing hidden on your phones, he can pick ur phones and nothing will happen..he knows your whereabout 24/7... Respecting a man means,making him feel like a King, believe me sincerely he would reciprocate by making you feel like a Queen. Allow a Man to do the lovey lovey, allow him check on you, allow him spend on you without asking, he will never ignores you, he will always tells u his whereabouts,he will remember ur birthdays,he will never watch u struggle or suffer,he will pamper you. Allow him to tell you...."i love you"...and u will reply .."i love you too'' .You will never get hurt when ure with a Man that loves you, he would protect you,he will provide for you,he will be available for u. Leave love for men and save yourself from heartbreaks. #boychildadvocate

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SHOULD YOU DO A COURT WEDDING? (PART 1) Dear Anonymous Brother, There are three recognized types of marriages in Nigeria: 1. Statutory Marriage (or marriage Under the Act) • Conducted under the Marriage Act in a government-approved registry (not court) or church licensed for statutory weddings. (Some churches have government licenses to conduct this however, most churches don’t have license for this). 2. Customary Marriage • Conducted according to the traditions and customs of the ethnic groups involved. • Typically includes the payment of bride price and traditional rites. 3. Islamic Marriage • Performed according to Islamic (Sharia) law. • Requires a bride price (Sadaq) and a Nikah (marriage contract). I want to believe that the reason you’re having reservations about statutory wedding or marriage under the act (not court wedding as people call it) is because of the consequences and rigors of divorce. Most men are scared of statutory wedding because, in the case of divorce, properties are bound to be split, child custody laws may not favour them, and the consequence of polygamy (because the law prohibits that). If this is the case, I can boldly tell you that you’re entering marriage with the wrong mentality. You’re most likely going to end in divorce when conflict arises because you created room for it before entering the marriage. (Don’t forget that conflict must arise whether you like it or not). Note: Statutory weddings are not legally called court weddings. They are conducted in a marriage registry, a place of worship or any place of your choice by an authorized marriage registrar or licensed minister of a church. However, divorce can only take place in a high court or court with a higher jurisdiction. To be continued……… #relationshipcoach #marriagecounselor #lovebankers

Mazi Nnamdi Kanu’s Prophecies and Nigeria’s Current Realities Mazi Nnamdi Kanu, the leader of the Indigenous People of Biafra (IPOB), has long been a controversial figure in Nigerian politics. Love him or hate him, his words and warnings over the years have had a profound impact, particularly among his followers. Many of his past statements, once dismissed as conspiracy theories or alarmist rhetoric, appear eerily accurate in light of Nigeria’s current situation. 1. Insecurity and the Rise of Banditry One of Kanu’s most striking warnings was his prediction of Nigeria’s descent into widespread insecurity. He repeatedly cautioned that terrorism, banditry, and herdsmen attacks would escalate if unchecked. Fast forward to today, and Nigeria is grappling with a security crisis of unprecedented proportions. From Boko Haram in the Northeast to armed bandits in the Northwest and killer herdsmen in the South, the nation is in turmoil. Even Abuja, the federal capital, is not spared from kidnappings and violent attacks. 2. Economic Collapse and Hardship Kanu had often spoken about an impending economic crisis in Nigeria, warning that bad governance, corruption, and poor leadership would lead to severe economic hardship. Today, Nigeria’s inflation rate is at an all-time high, the naira has depreciated significantly, fuel prices have skyrocketed, and unemployment continues to rise. Millions of Nigerians struggle daily with the cost of living, a situation that validates his warnings about the consequences of poor governance. 3. Political Instability and the Struggle for Power Another prophecy that seems to be manifesting is Nigeria’s deepening political instability. Kanu predicted that Nigeria’s political structure would become more chaotic as ethnic and regional divisions intensify. Today, the country is more polarized than ever, with calls for secession from different groups, electoral controversies, and a lack of trust in the government. The 2023 elections, marred by allegations of fraud and manipulation, only deepened the nation’s divide. 4. The Alleged Identity Controversy of Buhari Perhaps one of Kanu’s most controversial claims was his insistence that Nigeria’s President, Muhammadu Buhari, had been replaced by an imposter, whom he identified as ‘Jubril from Sudan.’ While this claim was widely dismissed by government officials and critics, it fueled speculation and debates about Buhari’s health and public appearances. Whether or not one believes in this theory, the secrecy surrounding Buhari’s medical travels and long absences from the country made the claim resonate with many Nigerians. 5. The Marginalization of the South-East Kanu has consistently spoken about the marginalization of the Igbo people in Nigeria. Today, many Igbos feel politically sidelined, especially after the 2023 elections, where Peter Obi, the candidate with strong Igbo backing, was controversially defeated. The continued military operations in the South-East, the detention of Kanu himself, and the economic neglect of the region further confirm the long-standing grievances he has championed. Conclusion While opinions on Nnamdi Kanu remain divided, it is undeniable that many of his warnings about Nigeria’s future have come true. From insecurity to economic hardship and political instability, the country is experiencing the very crises he predicted. Whether one sees him as a prophet, a revolutionary, or a rebel, history is proving that his words were not mere rhetoric but reflections of a deeper reality within Nigeria. The question now is: Will Nigeria heed the warnings and address these issues, or will the country continue its downward spiral?

7 WAYS TO BUILD TRUST IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP/MARRIAGE (PART 1) The short story in between should teach you a lesson. Trust is the backbone of any strong relationship. It’s what makes love safe, secure, and long-lasting. But trust isn’t automatic—it is built through consistent actions, honesty, and reliability. Here are seven powerful ways to build trust in your relationship or marriage: 1. BE HONEST, EVEN ABOUT THE SMALL THINGS Let me tell you a short story🤔 Chijioke and Ada had been married for three years when Chijioke suddenly started acting restless. He was distant, easily irritated, and always on his phone. Ada noticed but assumed it was work stress. One evening, a strange number called his phone while he was in the shower. Out of curiosity, Ada answered. “Mr. Chijioke, this is our final warning. Pay back the ₦2 million loan or face legal action.” Ada’s heart dropped. A loan? For ₦2 million? She had no idea her husband had borrowed money. When he came out, she confronted him. He sighed and said, “I didn’t want to stress you, so I didn’t tell you.” Ada felt betrayed. Not because of the debt, but because he had kept it a secret. That night, she lay awake thinking, “If he can hide this, what else is he hiding?” And that was the foundation of distrust she developed towards her husband. She started doubting most of the things he says☹️ Here’s the truth: Hiding the truth, even with good intentions, damages trust. Ada wasn’t upset about the loan itself—she was upset about the secrecy. When you are honest, even about small things, your partner feels safe and secure. When you start keeping secrets, doubt creeps in. How do you achieve this? ✅ Speak the truth, even if it’s uncomfortable. ✅ If you make a mistake, own up to it instead of covering it up. ✅ Never assume small lies won’t matter—they always do in the long run. Biblical Wisdom: “The Lord detests lying lips, but He delights in people who are trustworthy.” — Proverbs 12:22 To be continued……..🤩 Your #relationshipcoach #marriagecounselor #lovebankers

Fine girl: Why must you show your bre*st to the world? Like whyyyy???? Only dogs follow a food that is uncovered and left open to the public. Exposing them to the world explains that you have a low self esteem and you are opening it to gain approval, acceptance and the desire to be loved. I tell you: a Godly, futuristic and responsible man will not fall for that gimmicks. You will only attract men who are sex mongers and irresponsible. Their useless comments and hypes will tell you what exactly they’re after. Your bre*st is part of your private organs. Please keep it private and stop disgracing your family. Your #relationshipcoach #marriagecounselor #lovebanker

"You see , back in the day when I was still under Mavin Records, I dropped one of the biggest love songs in Africa—'Romantic.' I featured Tiwa Savage on the track, and the plan was for us to play lovebirds in the music video. You know, hold hands, dance a little, maybe even vibe like a real couple. But guess what? Tiwa said, 'I can’t do this. You’re like a child to me. I’m 17 years older than you. I can’t let a small boy rock my body in a music video.' I was shocked! I mean, it’s just acting na. But she no gree. Because of that, the director had to find a vixen to replace her for the romantic scenes. No wahala, we moved. Fast forward a few years later, this same Tiwa was not just dancing but tw£rking for Wizkid! She was all over him, online and offline, and mind you, she’s still older than him—about 11 years difference. But this time, age no be problem again.” Life no balance at all. — Korede Bello.