“People saw me smiling outside, but deep down, I was n0t happy. I was married, but my heart was not at peace. We had a son, and I wanted the best life for him. My husband was not providing much, which I didn’t compl@in about at first. I was okay with supporting us. But the problem was, he still expected me to stay at h0me and not work. That part confused me. How can you not provide fully, y£t you don’t want me to work and help? I knew I had to support our son, and I needed to work h@rd for it. My acting career was my chance to do that. But every time I w£nt to work, we fought. He didn’t trust me. He didn’t believe in my dreams. I started losing mys£lf. I became sad, tired, and broken inside. One day, I @sked myself, “Angela, do you want to live like this forever?” I knew the answer. I l£ft. Not because I didn’t love anymore, but because I needed to love myself and take care of my son the right way. I chose peace, and I chose strength."- Angela Okorie

“People saw me smiling outside, but deep down, I was n0t happy. I was married, but my heart was not at peace. We had a son, and I wanted the best life for him. My husband was not providing much, which I didn’t compl@in about at first. I was okay with supporting us. But the problem was, he still expected me to stay at h0me and not work. That part confused me. How can you not provide fully, y£t you don’t want me to work and help? I knew I had to support our son, and I needed to work h@rd for it. My acting career was my chance to do that. But every time I w£nt to work, we fought. He didn’t trust me. He didn’t believe in my dreams. I started losing mys£lf. I became sad, tired, and broken inside. One day, I @sked myself, “Angela, do you want to live like this forever?” I knew the answer. I l£ft. Not because I didn’t love anymore, but because I needed to love myself and take care of my son the right way. I chose peace, and I chose strength."- Angela Okorie

Sometimes your husband may come back home late and give you one reason you cannot find in any book. Let love and trust prevail. Imagine Jonah coming back after 3 days of absence, no phone call, no message, nothing , only to tell his wife he was swallowed by a fish , and vomited after 3 days, just imagine how that sounded. The wife will feel like breaking his head. Swallowed by fish, really? Are you talking to a baby? What an insult, lying to me as if I don't have any brains? Which fish, Mackerel or Tilapia? Even if Jonah reported the issue to a religious leader, the religious leader will call him aside and say brother Jonah, why not pray against lying spirit. Neighbors will shout ahhhh! Madam, you don't understand, the fish is another woman. But between you and I Jonah was telling the truth. To Every Wife and Husband out there.. TRUST IS POWERFUL! 💪 It is a necessary tool for sustaining all relationships.🥴🥴

Affirmation Say with me: Today, I rise with hope, knowing that God’s love for me is unfailing. His mercies are new every morning, and His faithfulness will carry me through. No matter what I face, I am surrounded by grace, guided by love, and strengthened by His promise.

God's Word for you today 🕊️ “The steadfast love of the Lord never ceases; his mercies never come to an end; they are new every morning; great is your faithfulness.” — Lamentations 3:22-23 Beloved, in the midst of sorrow and devastation, Jeremiah declares a powerful truth: God’s love never fails. Even when everything else seems lost, His mercy rises with the sun, fresh and full each morning. This verse reminds us that no matter how dark yesterday was, today begins with God’s unwavering compassion and faithfulness. It’s a call to trust—not in our circumstances—but in the unchanging nature of our loving Father. Your day is blessed 🙏

PLEASE TAKE CARE OF HEALTH BECAUSE HEALTH IS WEALTH........ TO ALL ELDERS IN THE HOUSE, KINDLY FOLLOW ME UP. IT IS VERY NECESSARY TO FOLLOW THIS INSTRUCTION STEP BY STEP. HEALTH HINTS FOR MY ELDERS FROM AGES 45 TO 100 YEARS ****************** However busy you are, observe all these to remain healthy: :::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::: Drink less milk in your tea. Instead, add lemon or lime juice. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ In the day time, drink more water; but night time, drink less. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ In the day don't drink more than 2 cups of coffee, Advisable To Stop Completely too. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Eat less oily foods. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Best sleeping times are between 10pm to 6am. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ In the evening, eat little or nothing after 5 or 6pm. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Don't take medicines with cold water but with warm, and take your medicines half an hour before going to bed. Never take medicines and lie down immediately. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ As you aged further , stop drinking chilled water but drink only water at room temperature ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Try to sleep for at least 8 hours per day. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Having a nap for an hour and a half between noon and 3pm, to relieve stress and keep younger and not age easily. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Once your mobile phone battery is left with only one bar, don't make calls anymore, because the dangerous radiation and waves are one many times higher than a fully charged battery. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Use your left ear to answer calls, right ear will directly hurt your brain. 😳 Better still to use earphones to answer calls. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Two things to check as often as you can: (1) Your blood pressure (2) Your blood sugar. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Six things to reduce to the minimum on your foods: (1) Salt (2) Sugar (3) Preserved meat and foods (4) Red meat especially roasted (5) Dairy products (6) Starchy products ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Four things to increase in your foods: (1) Greens/vegetables (2) Beans (3) Fruits (4) Nuts ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Three things you need to forget: (1) Your age 😮 (2) Your past 🤔 (3) Your worries/grievances 👍🏽 ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Four things you must have, no matter how weak or how strong you are: (1) Friends who truly love you (2) Caring family (3) Positive thoughts (4) A warm home. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Seven things you need to do to stay healthy: (1) Singing (2) Dancing (3) Fasting (4) Smiling/laughing  (5) Trek/exercise (6) Have sex often with your love (7) Reduce your weight. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Six things you don't have to do: (1) Don't wait till you are hungry to eat (2) Don't wait till you are thirsty to drink (3) Don't wait till you are sleepy to sleep (4) Don't wait till you feel tired to rest (5) Don't wait till you get sick to go for medical check-ups otherwise you will only regret later in life (6) Don’t wait till you have problem before you pray to your God. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ One thing you must do after reading these health tips: (1) Forward this to your loved ones and friends, and as you do so,  may God bless U. ================= While go about your normal business please let's remember to always check our body to know  how fit you are. Health is wealth. MEDICAL FITNES            HIGH BP           ---------- 120/80 --  Normal 130/85 --Normal  (Control) 140/90 --  High 150/95 --  V.High ----------------------------            PULSE           -------- 72  per minute (standard) 60 --- 80 p.m. (Normal) 40 -- 180  p.m.(abnormal) ----------------------------           TEMPERATURE           ----------------- 98.4 F    (Normal) 99.0 F Above  (Fever) Please help your Relatives, Friends by sharing this information.... Heart Attacks- - - Drinking Warm Water: This is a very good article. Not only about the warm water after your meal, but about Heart Attack's . The Chinese and Japanese drink hot tea with their meals, not cold water, maybe it is time we adopt their drinking habit while eating. For those who like to drink cold water, this article is applicable to you. It is very Harmful to have Cold Drink/Water during a meal. Because, the cold water will solidify the oily stuff that you have just consumed. It will slow down the digestion. Once this 'sludge' reacts with the acid, it will break down and be absorbed by the intestine faster than the solid food. It will line the intestine. Very soon, this will turn into fats and lead to cancer . It is best to drink hot soup or warm water after a meal. French fries and Burgers are the biggest enemy of heart health. A coke after that gives more power to this demon. Avoid them for your Heart's & Health. Drink one glass of warm water just when you are about to go to bed to avoid clotting of the blood at night to avoid heart attacks or strokes. A cardiologist says if everyone who reads this message sends it to 10 people, you can be sure that we'll save at least one life. ... So, please be a true friend and send this article to people you care about. Must read 👆👌 Cheers And Enjoy life Know your genotype before you say yes to that handsome guy or to that beautiful lady whom you wish to spend the rest of your life with... Genotype & It's Appropriate Suitor: AA + AA = Excellent AA + AS = Good AA + SS = Fair AS + AS = Bad AS + SS = Very Bad SS + SS = Extremely Bad (In fact, don't try it) #SickleCellAwareness 💉BLOOD GROUP COMPATIBILITY 💉 What’s Your Type and how common is it? O+       1 in 3        37.4% (Most common) A+        1 in 3        35.7% B+        1 in 12        8.5% AB+     1 in 29        3.4% O-        1 in 15        6.6% A-        1 in 16        6.3% B-        1 in 67        1.5% AB-     1 in 167        .6% (Rarest) Compatible Blood Types O- can receive O- O+ can receive O+, O- A- can receive A-, O- A+ can receive A+, A-, O+, O- B- can receive B-, O- B+ can receive B+, B-, O+, O- AB- can receive AB-, B-, A-, O- AB+ can receive AB+, AB-, B+, B-, A+,  A-,  O+,  O-b EFFECT OF WATE 💐 We Know Water is important but never knew about the Special Times one has to drink it.. !!   Did you  ???  💦 Drinking Water at the Right Time ⏰ Maximizes its effectiveness on the Human Body; 1⃣  1 Glass of Water after waking up -🕕⛅ helps to activate internal organs.. 2⃣  1 Glass of Water 30 Minutes  🕧 before a Meal - helps digestion.. 3⃣ 1 Glass of Water before taking a Bath 🚿 - helps lower your blood pressure. 4⃣ 1 Glass of Water before going to Bed - 🕙 avoids Stroke  or Heart Attack. 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*THE RESTORER'S DAILY GUIDE* DATE: FRIDAY 9TH MAY 2025 THEME: *ABSOLUTE TRUST IN GOD* MEMORIZE Psalms 62:11 God hath spoken once; twice have I heard this; that power belongeth unto God. READ Psalms 62:1-2, 5-9, 11 Truly my soul waiteth upon God: from him cometh my salvation. He only is my rock and my salvation; he is my defence; I shall not be greatly moved. My soul, wait, thou only upon God; for my expectation is from him. He only is my rock, and my salvation: he is my defence; I shall not be moved. In God is my salvation and my glory: the rock of my strength and my refuge is in God. Trust in him at all times; ye people, pour out your heart before him: God is a refuge for us. Selah. Surely men of low degree are vanity, and men of high degree are a lie: to be laid in the balance, they are altogether lighter than vanity. God hath spoken once; twice have I heard this; that power belongeth unto God. THOUGHT FOR THE DAY *Trust in God is absolute when we are bankrupt of options.* MESSAGE The Psalmist, in today's text, expressed his unreserved trust and confidence in God alone, because he understood the danger of trusting in mortal men irrespective of their status or placement in life. Humans are so frail, fickle and unsure. The best of men are still men, subject to the limitations of flesh and blood. Only God is truly reliable, absolute and consistent with His word. It is easy to say I trust in God only when you do not have anyone in your life. However, the Psalmist in today's text, being a king had all kinds of people around him, but his experiences about men generally was probably not a palatable one. He reiterated that his hope was in God alone. There are three dimensions to the issue of trust. 1. There is "no need for trust" in God when there is an assurance of options. 2. "Low trust" in God when there are options but unsure of their reliability. 3. Absolute trust when you do not have any option. Usually, trust in God is absolute when you realise that you do not have anyone to look up to for help. Let me ask you: Do you have options of where or whom to run to apart from the Lord? Or is your trust absolutely on God alone? The Bible tells us that the eyes of the Lord run to and fro the earth looking for those who are absolutely trusting in His help to show Himself mighty on their behalf. (2Chr 16:9) It is possible to have all kinds of people in your life, as in the case with the Psalmist in today's text, but he chose to repose his complete trust in God because in his honest opinion of men he saw that they were altogether lighter than vanity. *Beloved, it is capital wisdom to trust in God, who is most reliable instead of fickle men who are given to change.* ACTION STEPS 1. Prayerfully meditate on today's devotional guide. 2. Allow the Lord to introduce men to you. 3. Ask the Lord to help you align yourself with His mercies and grace for timely help always. REMEMBER *Trust in God is absolute when we are bankrupt of options.* PRAYERS Dear heavenly Father, Thank you for today's devotional guide. Help me to align myself perfectly for your help, always in Jesus' name. Amen AUTHOR: JEDIDIAH DAVID DAILY READING: Habakkuk 3, Acts 14-16; Hebrews 11-12; Jude 1. HYMN What a Friend we have in Jesus, All our sins and griefs to bear ! What a privilege to carry Everything to God in prayer ! Oh, what peace we often forfeit, Oh, what needless pain we bear------ All because we do not carry Everything to God in prayer ! 2 Have we trials and temptations ? Is there trouble anywhere ? We should never be discouraged ; Take it to the Lord in prayer. Can we find a Friend so faithful, Who will all our sorrows share? Jesus knows our every weakness----- Take it to the Lord in prayer ! 3 Are we weak and heavy-laden, Cumbered with a load of care ? Precious Saviour, still our refuge----- Take it to the Lord in prayer. Do thy friends despise, forsake thee ? Take it to the Lord in prayer ; In His arms He'll take and shield thee. Thou wilt find a solace there, PLEASE SHARE

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PUNCH Newspaper *The unseen crisis facing Nigerian men (moment Otunba Kunle Akinyele collapsed)* 5th May 2025. Ganiyu Olowu *When Otunba Kunle Akinyele, a respected hotelier in Lagos, slumped and died at his wife’s 60th birthday thanksgiving, the nation gasped in disbelief. One moment, he was celebrating life and love; the next, he lay lifeless at the altar of joy*. The video is haunting — *a man gesturing, gasping, reaching for help in a sacred space, surrounded by those he loved but alone in his final battle.* This was not just a death. It was a metaphor of silent suffering, buried exhaustion, and what men have come to normalise in the name of strength. Akinyele’s case is not isolated. It is one of many chilling examples of how Nigerian men, particularly in their mid- to late years, are collapsing under the weight of responsibilities, unspoken pain, and undiagnosed illnesses. According to the World Health Organisation, men in sub-Saharan Africa, including Nigeria, are 2.4 times more likely to die prematurely from preventable causes than women. This alarming disparity is fuelled by cultural and behavioural factors: men are less likely to seek medical help, more likely to suppress emotional turmoil, and often glorify suffering in silence. In Nigeria, cardiovascular diseases, hypertension, and untreated mental health conditions are among the leading causes of sudden deaths in men. So This Happened (215) Reviews Death Of Lagos... In 2019, Pastor Taiwo Odukoya—admired for his strength and spiritual leadership—passed away quietly after years of enduring deep emotional losses and reportedly ongoing health complications. His resilience was legendary, but it masked what many now see as untreated grief, intense stress, and likely silent medical conditions. Then came the sudden death of veteran broadcaster Ayo Oduleye, better known as MC Loyo, who slumped while compering an event in Ibadan. His charm and humour lit up stages, but in the blink of an eye, the microphone fell silent. Just like that. Similarly, the passing of Mr Ibu (John Okafor) in early 2024, after months of battling illness, reminded the country of how many male entertainers struggle financially and physically behind the scenes, putting on a show while their bodies deteriorate. Masculinity, when warped, can become a silent weapon—not just against others, but against oneself. Globally, the story remains the same. In 2014, beloved comedian Robin Williams died by suicide, a victim of masked depression. And in 2022, cricket legend Shane Warne died suddenly of a heart attack, a casualty of silent coronary disease and an overstretched lifestyle. Yet while statistics shock and headlines haunt, the everyday grind of the average Nigerian man tells an even sadder tale. Take Lagos, Nigeria’s commercial capital—the city that never sleeps, and where many men now barely do. A significant number of working-class men reside on the mainland or in Ogun border towns like Mowe, Ikorodu, Sango Ota, or Ibafo but must commute to the Island for work—a journey that often begins by 4:00 a.m. and ends by 9:00 p.m. on return. This is no exaggeration. Studies from the Lagos Metropolitan Area Transport Authority reveal that Lagosians spend an average of four to six hours daily in traffic—with many men doing these five to six times a week. That is over 1,400 hours a year lost in gridlock—time stolen from rest, from family, from reflection. For these men, the day begins before the rooster crows. They rush into overcrowded buses, endure fumes of frustration, only to return home when their children are already asleep. There is no room for hobbies, hardly any time for checkups, no outlet for pain. Sleep is a luxury. Rest is a myth. And joy is rationed, like fuel in a scarcity season. This modern man is constantly running on empty—physically present but emotionally absent, financially committed but spiritually depleted. And society applauds his hustle, without asking at what cost. The idiom says, “Heavy is the head that wears the crown,” but what if the crown is invisible, made not of gold but of expectations, bills, unspoken grief, and sacrificial silence? Men are praised for providing, for showing up, for being “rocks”. But even rocks erode—silently, slowly, and then all at once. The greatest tragedy is not that they die, but that they are dying unseen. Consider the tragic case of a 42 year old engineer in Port Harcourt who collapsed at his workstation after weeks of working overtime to meet project deadlines. His colleagues described him as “dedicated to a fault”, but his sudden death revealed the dangers of ignoring signs of burnout and hypertension. Another heartbreaking example is the story of a young entrepreneur in Enugu who passed away in his sleep after complaining of chest pains for weeks. Despite his family’s pleas, he refused to visit a doctor, citing his busy schedule and financial obligations. His autopsy later revealed undiagnosed cardiovascular disease—a silent killer that could have been managed with timely intervention. One unforgettable story is that of Samuel Okwaraji, the gifted footballer and patriot who gave everything to his country on the football pitch. In 1989, during a World Cup qualifier against Angola in Lagos, Okwaraji collapsed and tragically died of congestive heart failure at just 25 years old. His life, so full of promises, was cut short under the intense demands of national expectation. The harsh conditions of the game that day, combined with the immense physical and psychological pressures he faced, ultimately proved too much. These stories compel us to ask: What are we doing to ourselves in the name of strength? Why does the world celebrate silent suffering but frown upon seeking help? Dr Salawu Abiola, a psychiatrist at the Federal Neuro Psychiatric Hospital in Yaba, offers critical advice for men navigating these pressures. He emphasises the importance of prioritising rest, adequate sleep, and regular health checkups. “If you work and die today, someone will replace you at the workplace, but no one replaces you in the family,” he warns. Abiola advocates setting realistic goals, managing time effectively, and creating moments of joy and relaxation amid life’s challenges. He also highlights the need for men to engage in positive activities, such as exercise, hobbies, and socialising with supportive people, to release built-up tension and foster mental well-being. Check your vitals before you check your wallet. Monthly profit means nothing if your heart gives out unexpectedly. Your strength is not in how much you carry but in how well you manage your load. Therapy is not weakness. It is a repair. Just like a car needs servicing, your mind and soul need realignment. Build relationships where you are more than a provider—where you are allowed to cry, collapse, confess. A good name is better than riches, but good health is the foundation of both. As Chinua Achebe once said, “When the drumbeat changes, the dance must also change.” The drumbeat of life today is faster, louder, and less forgiving. Men must adjust their rhythm. Health is the new wealth. Silence is no longer golden; it is dangerous. *Ganiyu Olowu, a public affairs analyst, writes from Lagos*. punchng.com ©️ 1971- 2025 Punch Nigeria Limited CULLED

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