*SOME NIGERIAN NEWSPAPER HEADLINES+, 25/05/2025*

NNPC announces Port Harcourt refinery shutdown for maintenance

Mass burial in Taraba as herders slaughter scores

Varsity unions threaten strike over N50bn allowances

Borno offers scholarships to female UTME candidates scoring over 250

Gombe defends 14-year-old girl fleeing forced marriage in Taraba

NAPS demands explanation on overnight WAEC exams in Asaba

Osimhen agrees three-year deal with Al-Hilal

Arsenal join race to sign ‘star boy’ Lookman

Facebook deletes old live videos, gives users 90-day window to save content

After brief X outage, Musk says refocusing on businesses

N. Korea detains three over warship launch accident

Sierra Leone reports more than 3,000 mpox cases, 14 deaths

UAE national to face charges in Nigeria over $307,500 scam

How I was sold for prostitution in Mali – Actress Jumoke George’s daughter


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*DID YOU KNOW?*

* The Sistine Chapel in Vatican is a historic building of such acclaim that over five million people come to visit it every year. It takes its name from Pope Sixtus IV, who commissioned its construction on the foundations of the original Capella Magna in 1477.

* The only apps that were on the first iPhone in 2007 were all only Apple’s apps. These days, there are over 1.4 million apps for iPhone.
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Tinubu appoints Nnamani, Anyim, Shema, 18 others into federal agencies

Tinubu hails pro-democracy activist Ayo Obe at 70

Obasanjo, Shettima, Adeleke, Abiodun light up Ogun Games

Tinubu’s Inclusion Of 12 Northerners In New Appointments Good Omen – Ndume

Ondo gov tribunal delivers judgment June 4

P-Square’s Peter cross-examined in alleged $1m fraud case

Military arrests five foreigners in Plateau

Police extradite fugitive over multi-million dollar fraud

One killed as troops raid ESN camp

Troops stop oil theft of N533.5m, arrest 51, deactivate 18 illegal refineries

Tinubu’s reforms drive customs revenue to record ₦1.3tr in Q1 2025 – Adeniyi

FG begins repairs on Lagos-Ibadan bridges

753 Emefiele’s forfeited duplexes not yet for sale, FG warns Nigerians

Ilorin crash: NSIB recovers data card as onsite probe begins

FX inflows through money transfer operators hit $4.76bn – CBN

FG probes night examination in Unity School Asaba

FG to unveil three cancer centres May 29

FG eyes 15,000 jobs as minister inspects steel facility

Osun jailbreak: FG intensifies border watch after murder suspect recapture

REA adds 120 job opportunities to renewable energy space

N56.85bn Disbursed As NELFUND Marks 1 Year

NELFUND celebrates first anniversary with over 550,000 applications

NCAA to meet Kenya Airways over fine, passenger maltreatment

Hajj: NAHCON team holds prayer in S’Arabia for Tinubu, Nigeria

First Lady expands food security drive to vulnerable groups nationwide

ASUU laments neglect of universities, demands fulfilment of promises

UI student wins Amnesty International’s 2025 inter-varsity debate

Metering: MOJEC backs Tinubu’s ban on importation

Establishing agency won’t eradicate malaria without political will – Physicians

Most Nigerian pastors are extremely poor – Bishop Ighele

Biafra: Under Tinubu, Southeast has only one minister, 3 assistant ministers -Uwazurike

Nigeria won’t slip into one-party state – Abba Moro

2027: ADC leaders split over takeover by anti-Tinubu coalition

Atiku shuns Adeleke, visits Aregbesola amid setbacks for coalition

I may not contest again after 2027, says Obi

Adeleke eases curfew in Osun communities ahead Eid El Kabir

Gombe gov kicks as northern coalition faults anti-terror efforts

Ibas promises to revamp Rivers technical, vocational centre

Uzodimma demands swift probe of JAMB website hackers

Hajj 2025: Kaduna Airlifts Over 3,700 Pilgrims To Saudi Arabia

Defection report leak: A’bom bars Channels crew from govt house

Kogi not under siege – State gov’t

Police neutralise bandit, rescue 5 kidnapped victims in Katsina

Suspected herdsmen abduct two siblings in Imo community

Gunmen kill family of four in Anambra

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*TODAY IN HISTORY*

* On this day in 1963, 32 African countries formed a coalition against white rule. The Organisation of African Unity was founded to promote decolonization and end white minority governments in Africa. The OAU was replaced by the African Union in 2002.

* On this day in 1977, the first Star Wars film was released. George Lucas’ epic space opera is one of the most popular works in movie history.

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Believe in yourself and believe in love. Love something. – Andrew Wyeth

Good morning


*Compiled by Hon. Osuji George osujis@yahoo.com, +234-8122200446*

*REASONS WHY YOU'RE ALWAYS BROKE EVEN THOUGH YOU WORK HARD*




(Hard work alone no be enough. You need sense, strategy, and discipline to win.)

You wake up early every morning, hustle till your body complain, but at the end of the month, your bank balance still looks like an empty pocket thief struck. You ask yourself, “Why are rich like those guys?”

I get news for you:your habits and mindset does not sabotage your grind. Village people are not your problem, your own lifestyle is.

1. YOU WORK HARD, BUT YOU DON’T WORK SMART
You hustle physically, you run errands, you do odd jobs, but you never think about how to multiply that hustle. You run like rat with no cheese.

Meanwhile, other guys are using their brains to invest small small, learn skills, start side hustles, build passive income.

Working hard is good. But working smart is the key to escape a poverty trap.

What to do: Learn skills that pay well. Invest in knowledge, not just sweat.

2. YOUR MONEY HAS NO PLAN, NO TRACKING
When salary enter, you just spend anyhowly—no budget, no savings, no investment.

This is why every month, you are broke before payday.

What to do: Budget your money like a CEO. Know where every coin will go.

3. YOU CARRY TOO MANY PEOPLE ON YOUR BACK
Your salary is not just for you — it’s for mama, uncle, cousin, friend, street people... you are playing6 Minister of Finance for everybody.

But no one does the same for you.

Reality: You can’t build wealth carrying 10 people. You must build yourself first.

What to do: Help when you fit, but put your future first.

4. YOU’RE ADDICTED TO SPENDING, NOT INVESTING
You spend on luxury, new gadgets, slay queen maintenance, designer labels… but when time to invest come, you suddenly “have no money again.”

This lifestyle is a silent killer. You build others’ businesses, not yours.

What to do: Switch your mindset from consume to invest. Use money to grow assets.6

5. YOU LIVE PAYCHECK TO PAYCHECK WITH NO EMERGENCY FUND
Every little emergency crashes your finances—no backup, no plan B.

So when things go wrong, you borrow, borrow, borrow until you fall into debt trap.

What to do: Save at least 3 months salary as emergency fund. Build cushion.

6. YOU FAIL TO MULTIPLY YOUR INCOME SOURCES
Relying on one salary? That’s like sitting on one leg and expecting to run marathon.

True wealth comes from multiple income streams—business, investments, side hustles.

What to do: Start small side hustles. Learn to create money streams outside salary.

7. YOU WAIT FOR MIRACLE WHILE DOING NOTHING
You pray and wait for miracle money. But no action follows.

Prayers without hustle and procrastination with spiritual flavour.

What to do: Pray with your legs and hands. Action is the partner of blessing.

FINAL TRUTH:

Hard work is important, but without planning, discipline, and smart decisions, you will remain broke.

Village people are not the cause of your poverty; your habits and choices are.

If you want to escape the poverty cycle:

Hustle smart, not just hard.

Budget and track your money.

Cut unnecessary spending.

Build emergency funds.

Multiply your income sources.

Stop carrying unnecessary financial burdens.

Pair prayer with action.

If this post hit you hard, don’t just scroll. Change your mindset, change your life.

Class dismissed.

People abroad are working very hard, doing multiple jobs just to buy land back home .
While;Those at home are busy selling their lands just to relocate abroad.
This life no balance

*SOME NIGERIAN NEWSPAPER HEADLINES+, 22/05/2025*

No Zamfara lady on trial for converting to Christianity – Govt

We have Boko Haram informants among politicians, soldiers – Zulum

NCoS offers N5m reward for information on fleeing inmates in Osun

JAMB announces mop-up examinations for absentee candidates

Benue NASS APC Caucus endorses Tinubu for 2027

Naira appreciates to N1,615/$ in parallel market

Tottenham beat United to win first European title since 1984

Fortnite returns to Apple store after five-year ban

US singer Chris Brown freed on £5m bail in UK assault case

Ex-Ukraine MP with pro-Russian ties assassinated in Madrid

Trump ambushes South Africa president Ramaphosa with ‘genocide’ accusation

UK inflation hits 15-month high as utility bills soar

Germany warns Nigeria, neighbours against Russia alliance

Petrol price war closes nearly 5,000 fuel stations


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*DID YOU KNOW?*

* The Empire State Building is the most photographed building in the world. At 102 stories, it stands prominently among the New York City skyline with other skyscrapers and a distant view of the water.

* Raphael Nadal holds the title for the most Grand Slams ever won on Clay. He won the French Open 14 times.
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Tinubu celebrates Nigerian-born new mayors in London

Dangote’s $19bn Refinery investment could have yielded $120bn in tech – Shettima

Nigeria among Africa’s top investment destinations – Speaker Abbas

Senate seeks Military base in Adamawa amid Boko Haram attacks

Senate moves to formalise casual jobs in informal sector

Senate summons NAFDAC over unwholesome fruit ripening practices

Reps move to curb bank profiteering, push for support to real sectors

Reps to probe driver’s licence issuance irregularities

Reps to investigate non-payment of presidential wage award to pensioners

Senator calls for relocation of old buildings near Abuja airport

Rep Dasuki Asks FG To Allocate Seized 753 Duplexes To Military

Natasha accuses police of bias in handling petitions against Akpabio, Yahaya Bello

Shadow Government: Court slates June 25 for hearing, orders service on Utomi

Court warns Nnamdi Kanu’s lawyer against unprofessionalism

Three internet fraudsters bag 30-month jail term in Rivers

Internet fraudster jailed 24 months, forfeits N124m in Kwara

Music teacher bags life jail for raping 9-year-old pupil in Lagos

IG orders probe of slain Oyo WASSCE candidate

N45,000 quarterly imprest inadequate for police operations, says Sheidu

Minister, EFCC boss inspect 753-unit estate recovered from Emefiele

I almost resigned after UTME error – Oloyede

Oyetola rallies France for Nigeria’s IMO bid

Keyamo, stakeholders set for aviation book launch

FG urges oil firms to shore up production to meet OPEC quota

FG bans night driving for fuel tankers

Nigeria spends $2bn on external debt in four months

Salary crisis: FG plans intervention funds for 109 foreign missions

No more jobs for uncertified engineers in oil sector — FG

CBN sets 12-month deadline for new AML standards

2025 Hajj: NAHCON airlifts 32,549 pilgrims

FRSC, Actors Guild to unveil first road safety film festival

Ogun Customs rake in N15bn in Q1

Immigration warns of maritime insecurity

AFRIMA plans to empower 1.2 million youths

7,000 jobs created through Ogoni clean-up — HYPREP

Wike defends FCTA’s N1. 78 trillion 2025 statutory budget

NCC hands over digital ICT park to varsity in Katsina

Lawyers oppose compulsory voting bill

BudgIT: NASS Inserted 11,122 Projects Worth N6.9trn In 2025 Budget

Lagos transport policy best in Nigeria, says institute

Groups submit MoU to National Assembly for Ibadan state

I’m still on FG’s wanted list — Igboho

₦1bn constituency allocations: Onjeh challenges lawmakers to publish list

Telcos battle 33 outages in May

Fidelity Bank CEO invests over N760m in shares

Taravest: Dangote, Elumelu pledge fresh investments in Taraba

Luft Pay TV debuts in Lagos

Dangote supports Benue women entrepreneurs with cash grants

Tinubu’s meeting with Pope, insult to Christianity — Babachir Lawal

Ajaero vows to take over LP secretariats, Abure kicks

Defections: I won’t abandon PDP, says Makinde

Kano gov approves N6.8bn for dam construction

Gov Sani appoints two new Commissioners, revives Ministry of Information

Cult-related violence: Edo loses over $1b worth of investments yearly – Okpebholo

Lagos loses N19bn properties to fire incidents

Lagos unveils drone surveillance to boost security

Oyo unveils annual schools census report

Protesting Edo youths barricade highway over insecurity, bad roads

Five arrested after police dismantled illicit fertiliser production in Bauchi

Man arrested for stealing neighbour’s car in Lagos

Adamawa man nabbed for dressing like a woman

Family seeks N30m to save Ogun graduate with failing kidneys

Adamawa NSCDC officer promoted for returning pilgrim’s lost N850,000

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*TODAY IN HISTORY*

* On this day in 1973, the National Youth Service Corps (NYSC) was established in Nigeria order to foster peace and unity. Under the one-year scheme, graduates of higher institutions below the age of 30 are drafted to serve the motherland.

* On this day in 1960, the most violent earthquake in recorded history hit Chile. The Great Chilean Earthquake rated 9.5 on the moment magnitude scale. According to estimates, between 2230 and 6000 people were killed.

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You must love in such a way that the person you love feels free. – Nhat Hanh

Good morning


*Compiled by Hon. Osuji George osujis@yahoo.com, +234-8122200446*

"The only way to do great work is to love what you do." — Steve Jobs

Passion is the fuel behind excellence. When your heart is truly in your work, it stops feeling like a burden and begins to feel like a calling. Let this remind you that fulfillment lies at the intersection of purpose and passion.

Good morning, friends!

*LOVE DOES NOT PAY BILLS*

Some years ago, a brother and a sister came to tell me about their forth coming wedding ceremony. When I began to ask them some serious questions, I discovered that both of them had no jobs. They said there were still trusting the Lord for miracle jobs. They were deeply in love that they couldn't wait to get married.

Money is one of the leading causes of divorce worldwide! It has caused a lot of havoc to family and has separated so many lovers.

Love or Fantasy doesn't pay bills.
Money does.

I know you think both of you can survive on love. "Love is all we need!" I deeply share your lofty sentiments, but the reality of the matter is: How many love can you put in an empty soup pot?

How many cartons of love will your landlord collect in lieu of your house rent?

MARRIAGE IS SUSTAINED BY LOVE BASED ON FACT!

Love is never a substitute for common sense.

Money can't buy love but it can make love COMFORTABLE!

Love is powerful but it isn’t enough to sustain a relationship/marriage.

LOVE can't pay your house rent, children school fees, electricity bill, medical bill, feeding of the family, clothes for children, car fuel and repair, Christmas and New year bills, etc. Because Love is not a currency.

Your creditor wont swap money for love. And your children will not ask if you both are in love when they are hungry or when their school fees are due.

Note that over 80% of your earning will be spent on your children upkeep. The sad news is that it won’t be enough without adequate planning and strategic investment. Love isn’t enough.

So Singles that are preparing for marriage, should get a regular source of income before marriage.

Marriage is not just about s*x, kissing or romance!

Bill must be paid.

Pampers must be bought.

School fee must be paid.

And Your landlord will collect his rent.

The wife to be should also get something doing to support her husband! No man wants to marry a liability. If nobody employs you please employ yourself before your wedding. Discover and Develop Your Talent.

In marriage, both of you should put your resources together to run your family. Two are better than one because they have a better result for their labor. Work
as a team.

Don't depend on people to be responsible for your financial needs after your wedding. Your family, friends, and loved ones may sponsor your wedding but they can't sponsor your marriage.

Take it or leave it, There can be no real romance without finance. Financial hardship can turn lovers to sworn enemies!

But Don't wait until you have the whole world before planning for your marriage.

You can start with a room if you can't afford a room and parlor for now!

As time goes on, God will expand both of you! Start With What You Have!

Don't wait until you have million of dollars in your account!

God will surprise you as you start planning for your marriage in Jesus name!

Kindly share this message with your loved ones

LISTEN UP, MEN...

THE 13 THINGS THAT SECRETLY DESTROY A MAN’S DESTINY (And You Won’t See Village People Among Them)

If you're between ages 18 to 34, this is the raw, undiluted thread you didn't know you needed.
Forget "who is doing you"—you’re doing yourself.

Let’s go:

1. WOMEN, WOMEN, AND WOMEN AGAIN.

Yes, I wrote it three times.
Because most men ruin their future chasing a parade of lips, hips, and empty thrills.

You spend your small earnings on women who don’t care about you.

You sacrifice your time, energy, and focus to impress girls who see you as a joke.

You think you’re “enjoying life”? You’re draining your power.

There’s no trophy for sleeping with 100 girls, only invisible scars and wasted potential.
Keep playing Casanova—you’ll end up as a broke legend in your own WhatsApp status.

2. GAMBLING – THE CANCER OF DESTINY

They say “you win some, you lose some.” But with gambling, you lose more than just money.

You lose time.
You lose peace.
You lose your future.

That “one more bet” might cost you everything.
Sports betting, virtual games, casinos—it starts like fun, then you wake up in debt, depressed, and empty.

3. THE DRUNK MAN’S DESTINY IS ALWAYS DELAYED

Some men collect salary and go straight to the bar like it’s tradition.
Bottle after bottle, you’re pouring your future down the drain.

If you drink more than you save, Oga, you're not living—you’re leaking.

A man who drinks more than he builds ends up with children who inherit shame instead of success.

4. TIME WASTING IS A SLOW KILLER

Want to know the difference between a king and a clown? Time Management.

While you're scrolling TikTok and arguing football,
another guy is learning a skill that’ll feed him for life.

You don’t respect your time?
Life won’t respect your existence.

5. FRAUD (AKA YAHOO) – FAST MONEY, FAST MISERY

You may not like this one, but truth doesn’t need your permission to sting.

You flex today, buy Benz tomorrow—but deep down, you know your soul is empty.

Proverbs says: “Wealth gotten by vanity shall be diminished.”

You’ll work 10x harder to maintain stolen wealth than to build it legit.

6. THE ADDICTIVE SLOW DEATH CALLED SMOKING & DRUGS

From weed to crack to codeine—name it, I've seen it ruin men.

Lost jobs

Broken homes

Mental breakdown

Financial wreckage

The worst part? The high never lasts. But the damage does.
Stay away from anything that turns your brain to dust.

7. LAZINESS – THE ENEMY WITHIN

A man who loves sleep more than strategy will sleep through his destiny.

You’re not broke because of the economy—you’re broke because you won’t work.
You “hope things change,” but you won’t move.

Get up. Hustle. Sweat. Build.
No shortcut will save you from the discipline you keep avoiding.

8. LACK OF SELF-CONTROL

A man without discipline is like a gun with no safety—dangerous and self-destructive.

You need routines. You need boundaries. You need rules.
If you can’t master yourself, you’ll never master anything else.

9. DISRESPECTING YOUR PARENTS

You can’t curse the tree and expect the fruit to be sweet.

Fighting your parents, insulting them, or abandoning them when they’re weak?
It may not show immediately—but blessings will run far from you.
Fix that attitude.

10. ALWAYS DEPENDING ON OTHERS FOR SURVIVAL

You can’t build a great life on borrowed energy.
Depending on people for basic needs kills your confidence and cripples your creativity.

Your job is to become reliable, not to keep looking for who to rely on.
You were not created to beg through life.

11. BAD FRIENDS – SILENT DESTINY KILLERS

You move with 5 jokers, don’t be shocked when your life becomes a circus.
Your circle is either sharpening you or stabbing you.

Audit your friends. Fire the dead weight.

12. LIVING TO IMPRESS SOCIAL MEDIA

You post like you’re balling, but your bank account is crying.
You buy iPhone 15 to take mirror selfies, but you have no business or investment.

Instagram likes won’t pay your rent, bro.

13. EMOTIONAL WEAKNESS – A MAN’S UNSEEN TRAP

You take every rejection personal.
You crumble when things don’t go your way.
You give up easily.

That soft-hearted, zero-resilience mindset is destroying your climb.

Life is tough. Be tougher.

BOTTOM LINE:
The devil isn't destroying your life. Your choices are.

Start doing these:

Say NO to distractions.

Master your time.

Work hard and work smart.

Cut off energy-draining people.

Build yourself like a man on a mission.

Your destiny is not automatic.
It’s built—brick by brick—with discipline, wisdom, and honesty .

Stay focused

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WHAT TRUMP JUST DID (AND WHY THE WORLD’S SHAKING FROM IT)

While the Left obsessed over headlines and gender pronouns, President Donald J. Trump spent the last 7 days doing what real leaders do: saving lives, reasserting America’s power, and getting results.

Here’s everything they don’t want you to know:

1. He Stopped a Nuclear War Between India and Pakistan

Things got hot in Kashmir. Really hot. Both sides were mobilizing. Nukes were on the table.

Trump stepped in. Quietly. Firmly. And brought both sides back from the edge.

Pakistan thanked him publicly. India pretended they did it alone — but insiders know who made the calls that saved the world.

That’s not diplomacy. That’s deterrence with teeth.

2. He’s Bringing Putin to the Negotiating Table

There’s a peace summit being arranged in Turkey. Ukraine’s in. Russia’s sending delegates. Trump says he’ll go himself.

Just his presence is enough to move the needle. Putin, for the first time, isn’t slamming the door shut.

Biden couldn’t even get a voicemail returned. Trump is reshaping the battlefield by showing up.

3. He Hammered China — Got Them to Blink

Trump forced China to the table:
• 90-day pause in the tariff war
• Immediate cuts to key tariffs
• A crackdown on fentanyl exports to the U.S.

Let’s be clear: Trump’s the first American president to actually get China to move on fentanyl. Not talk. Not task forces. Action.

4. $600 Billion Saudi Investment Secured

In Riyadh, Trump locked down the biggest economic deal in U.S.–Saudi history:
• $142 billion arms deal (massive boost to U.S. manufacturing)
• Over $600 billion in new investments into American infrastructure, energy, and tech

It’s a triple win: jobs, energy independence, and a Middle East that fears us again — not the other way around.

5. $200 Billion Boeing Deal from Qatar

Trump helped land a mega-contract between Qatar Airways and Boeing for 210 jets — worth over $200 billion.

That deal:
• Revives Boeing
• Puts Americans back to work
• Strengthens our aerospace edge over China

And it wouldn’t have happened under a DEI-obsessed, apology-driven administration.

6. He Lifted Sanctions on Syria — With a Hidden Blow to Iran

Trump lifted select U.S. sanctions on Syria — but only after securing conditions to:
• Expel Iranian-backed militias
• Rebuild with Gulf money, not Russian or Iranian influence

It’s a strategic strike against Iran’s grip on the region. He didn’t fire a missile. He just cut their legs out from under them with deals and pressure.

7. He Brought the Last American Hostage Home from Gaza

While Biden stood back and hoped, Trump made a direct diplomatic push through Egypt and Qatar to get the final American hostage — a 26-year-old aid worker — released from Hamas.

And he succeeded. Quietly. No ransom. No deal with terrorists. Just leverage.

This wasn’t just a headline. This was a message: You harm an American, you pay.

8. Gas, Groceries, and Eggs — All Cheaper This Week

Thanks to Trump’s trade wins and Middle East diplomacy:
• National gas average dropped to $3.13
• Grocery prices fell 0.4% — biggest drop in 5 years
• Egg prices crashed 12.7% — fastest decline since 1984

This isn’t stimulus checks. This is real economic policy that works.

9. Inflation Is Cooling, Markets Are Up
• CPI is holding steady at 2.3%
• S&P 500 just passed 5,900 — fully rebounding
• Investor confidence is roaring back

People are finally catching their breath again.

10. He Just Cracked the Back of Big Pharma

Trump signed an executive order that:
• Ties drug prices to what countries like Canada and Germany pay
• Forces direct-to-consumer pricing
• Cuts middlemen out of the equation

Drug prices may drop 30–80%. And for once, the courts can’t block it.

11. Doubled Down on School Choice

He declared Charter Schools Week and reminded every American parent: Your kid’s future belongs to you — not some woke school board.

12. 150 Executive Orders and Counting

In just over 100 days, Trump has:
• Dismantled Biden’s DEI infrastructure
• Streamlined bloated federal agencies
• Relaunched energy independence
• Cut off foreign influence in domestic policy

This is what rebuilding America looks like — brick by brick, signature by signature.

THE BOTTOM LINE:

In one week, Trump:
• Averted a nuclear war
• Brought Putin to the table
• Shut down China’s fentanyl pipeline
• Crushed grocery and gas prices
• Landed $800B+ in foreign investments
• Reasserted U.S. dominance in aerospace
• Cut Iran’s influence
• Freed an American hostage
• Lowered drug prices
• Protected your kids’ schools
• Reignited the economy

That’s what real leadership looks like. No teleprompter. No stutters. No apologies. Just America First — again.

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LISTEN UP, MEN...

THE 13 THINGS THAT SECRETLY DESTROY A MAN'S DESTINY (And You Won't See Village People Among Them).
If you're between ages 18 to 34, this is the raw, undiluted thread you didn't know you needed.
Forget "who is doing you" you're doing yourself.

Let's go:

1.WOMEN, WOMEN, AND WOMEN AGAIN.
Yes, i wrote it three times.
Because most men ruin their future chasing a parade of lips, hips and empty thrills.
You spend your small earnings on women who don't care about you.
You sacrifice your time, energy and focus to impress girls who see you as a joke.
You think you're
"enjoying life"?.
You're draining your power.

There's no trophy for sleeping with 100 girls, only invisible scars and wasted potential.
Keep playing Casanova you'll end up as a broke legend in your own WhatsApp status.

2.GAMBLING THE CANCER OF DESTINY.
They say "you win some, you lose some.
"But with gambling, you lose more than just money.
You lose time.
You lose peace.
You lose your future.
That "one more bet" might cost you everything.
Sports betting, virtual games, casinos it starts like fun, then you wake up in debt, depressed and empty.

3.THE DRUNK MAN'S DESTINY IS ALWAYS DELAYED.
Some men collect salary and go straight to the bar like it's tradition.
Bottle after bottle, you're pouring your future down the drain.
If you drink more than you save.
Oga, you're not living you're leaking.
A man who drinks more than he builds ends up with children who inherit shame instead of success.

4.TIME WASTING IS A SLOW KILLER.
Want to know the difference between a king and a clown? Time Management.
While you're scrolling TikTok and arguing football,
another guy is learning a skill that'll feed him for life.
You don't respect your time?.
Life won't respect your existence.

5.FRAUD (AKA YAHOO) FAST MONEY, FAST MISERY.
You may not like this one, but truth doesn't need your permission to sting.
You flex today, buy Benz tomorrow but deep down, you know your soul is empty.
Proverbs says:
Wealth gotten by vanity shall be diminished.
You'll work 10x harder to maintain stolen wealth than to build it legit.

6.THE ADDICTIVE SLOW DEATH CALLED SMOKING & DRUGS.
From weed to crack to codeine name it, I've seen it ruin men.

Lost jobs

Broken homes

Mental breakdown

Financial wreckage

The worst part?.
The high never lasts.
But the damage does.
Stay away from anything that turns your brain to dust.

7.LAZINESS THE ENEMY WITHIN.
A man who loves sleep more than strategy will sleep through his destiny.
You're not broke because of the economy you're broke because you won't work.
You "hope things change," but you won't move.

Get up.
Hustle.
Sweat.
Build.
No shortcut will save you from the discipline you keep avoiding.

8.LACK OF SELF CONTROL.
A man without discipline is like a gun with no safety dangerous and self destructive.
You need routines. You need boundaries.
You need rules.
If you can't master yourself, you'll never master anything else.

9.DISRESPECTING YOUR PARENTS.
You can't curse the tree and expect the fruit to be sweet.
Fighting your parents, insulting them or abandoning them when they're weak?
It may not show immediately but blessings will run far from you.
Fix that attitude.

10.ALWAYS DEPENDING ON OTHERS FOR SURVIVAL.
You can't build a great life on borrowed energy.
Depending on people for basic needs kills your confidence and cripples your creativity.
Your job is to become reliable, not to keep looking for who to rely on.
You were not created to beg through life.

11.BAD FRIENDS SILENT DESTINY KILLERS.
You move with 5 jokers, don't be shocked when your life becomes a circus.
Your circle is either sharpening you or stabbing you.
Audit your friends.
Fire the dead weight.

12.LIVING TO IMPRESS SOCIAL MEDIA.
You post like you're balling, but your bank account is crying.
You buy iPhone 15 to take mirror selfies, but you have no business or investment.
Instagram likes won't pay your rent, bro.

13.EMOTIONAL WEAKNESS A MAN'S UNSEEN TRAP.
You take every rejection personal.
You crumble when things don't go your way.
You give up easily.
That soft hearted, zero resilience mindset is destroying your climb.
Life is tough.
Be tougher.

BOTTOM LINE:.
The devil isn't destroying your life.
Your choices are.

START DOING THESE:.
Say NO to distractions.
Master your time.
Work hard and work smart.
Cut off energy draining people.
Build yourself like a man on a mission.
Your destiny is not automatic.
It's built brick by brick with discipline, wisdom and honesty.

Stay focused!!!