Family, just a quick reminder: when life feels heavy, God is still in control. It’s easy to feel discouraged when things don’t go as planned, but this is where faith kicks in. It’s not about what we see, it’s about trusting in what God promised, even when we can’t see the whole picture yet. 🙏🏽

Stay faithful, stay strong, and don’t let temporary struggles steal your permanent blessings. God has the final say, and your breakthrough is closer than you think!

Scripture for the day:
“For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord… Jeremiah 29:11🫰🏼🩷

I pray for your prayers to be answered in Jesus name
Every Satanic attack against you ,will not prosper
Every family represented here will not lack

R. O. I. What is your Return On Investment_ with reverence to family upbringing.
It's the duty of the father and mother to take proper care of their children, but the care of the children to the parents depends on the stuff of each character of the children.
It is not directly proportional to the input of the parents.
In a nutshell, the children MAY NOT respond to the parents needs.

This is an unfortunate attack on Marte military camp in Borno state by Boko-Haram.
*Very scary*🙆🏽‍♂️
Pple that can do dis to a *military base,* have a SUPERIOR FIRE POWER, This is the second attack this year after they attacked Giwa Barracks and massacred our Soldiers, they now attacked Marte Barracks. It looks like being a Soldier is a death sentence in Nigeria now.
Shame of a nation, now it's disgusting and inhuman to answer a leader, wearing white agbada and kaftan flying in and out Nigeria. SHAME TO U ALL, in Nigeria, to be a leader is to receive and control allocation and use it as a family treasury, then tell helpless citizens that security is the duty of everyone when they're driving around with armoured cars.

*NOT YOUR WAYS*



*"For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways," declares the Lord. - Isaiah 55:8*

One of the biggest challenges humanity faces is not understanding the ways of God. This disconnect grieves God, as it keeps us from experiencing the fullness of His love and guidance. As He said about the nation of Israel: "For forty years I was grieved with that generation, and said, 'They are a people who go astray in their hearts, and they do not know My ways.'" (Psalm 95:10). When we don’t know God, we tend to expect everything to be done according to our own plans.

When Naaman came to the prophet Elisha to be healed of his leprosy. Naaman already had a vision in his mind of how this healing would happen. But instead of Elisha coming out to perform a dramatic healing ritual, he simply sent a messenger with a strange instruction: "Go, wash yourself seven times in the Jordan River." Naaman was offended and angry, saying, "Behold, I thought, 'He will surely come out to me, and stand and call on the name of the Lord his God, and wave his hand over the spot and cure me of my leprosy.'" (2 Kings 5:11).

If we don’t understand God’s ways, it’s easy to feel as though He isn’t responding to our needs—simply because He isn’t acting in the way we expect. Naaman was so disappointed by Elisha’s response that he nearly walked away, risking his miracle. Fortunately, he had wise advisors who encouraged him to follow the prophet’s instructions. When he humbled himself and washed in the Jordan as instructed, he was healed.

Naaman’s story teaches us that God’s answers don’t always align with our expectations. Sometimes, the breakthrough we seek requires us to surrender our own ideas of how things should happen and trust that God knows best. Just as Naaman had to change his perspective and obey God’s instruction, we too can experience His blessings when we let go of our need for control.

Is there something in your life where you’re clinging to your own expectations? Think about areas where God may already have given you guidance, whether through Scripture, prayer, or conviction in your heart. Act on what He’s already shown you, then leave the outcome in His hands, trusting that He will accomplish it in His way.

Prayer: Lord, I ask that You teach me Your ways and give me the obedience to follow what You have told me. Amen.

*Blessed morning family,have an amazing Friday!🙏🏽*

A Letter From A Husband’s Heart

My Queen,
I may not always say it right. I may forget the words and fumble with emotions. But I watch you. I see the way you carry this family, how your laughter fills our rooms, how your sacrifices go unnoticed — not by me.

I want you to know that even in my silence, I am in awe of you. I didn’t just marry a woman. I married a warrior. A healer. A gentle storm.

Thank you for choosing me, even on the hard days. Thank you for being my safe place. You are not just my wife — you are my world.

Forever loving you,
Your Man

*I Pray For You Today, May You See The Goodness Of GOD In Your Life And Family…*
Psalm 107:31 #1MinuteWithAJS

Let's be realistic. Why should a woman marry a 45 plus year old man who is brok3? And why should she stay with him?

And not unless she is foolish.

Such men spent their youth chasing women, drinking alcohol and wasting their energy away.

They never chased a life skill.

They did not cultivate a purpose. And if they did, the plough back was taken away by random women.

20s are for learning.

30s is for practicing what you learned and executing it. This should be the age of a man to accumulate wealth and so we should see the outcome in his 40s.

Remember life does not have reverse gear. If you falter in your youth, you are likely to suffer in your old age. This is why I discourage men from getting married in their 20s.

"Why should I marry a br0ke 40 year old who spent his prime climb!ng womeπ?"

She is going to ask you this and her question will be hundred percent legit.

If you don't listen to us or other holy prophets in your hood, your old age is going to be chaos and tears.

Young man, focus on your purpose. The woman you are chasing and spending on until you forget to invest in yourself because you are "married" will soon after leave when she is done squandering your cash. She is going to leave with those kids you call yours and there is nothing you are going to do.

She won't consider all the sacrifices you made for them thinking that they were your family. She has a higher chance of making it in life credit to her hypergamy. She is going to marry a wealthy man while you die of poverty and the memories of what you shared two decades ago.

For everything a man gets in this life, he must sweat for it.

It was written that a man will have to toil to get something to eat. A woman who has no skill or education will live in a mansion and scale heights only a man with skills and a degree can dream of.

Stop investing in her. Stop chasing her.

Focus on your divine purpose. You are a man on mission.

10 Types Of Wives and Their Character Traits - Which One Is Your Wife!

According to a wedding report, there are basically 10 types of wives in existence. They are listed below…:



1. Party Wife: These are women who:- Are very mobile and very sociable.
- They are always attending one function after the other (every wedding, bridal and shower, kitchen top up, office functions etc)
- Are barely at home on weekends to have time with their husbands and family.
- Can spend family food money on gifts.


2. Dictionary Wife: These are women who:
- Don’t take suggestions: the way she thinks is the way it is.
- The way she knows is the way it is – no changes.
- Very orderly and became very angry when things are misplaced in their home setup.

10 Types Of Wives and Their Character Traits - Which One Is Your Wife!
3. Pampered Wife: These are women who:
- Very spoiled by their parents (normally from rich parents or they are the only girl in the family of many boys)
- They are lazy mainly can’t do household work.
- Love spending money shopping trivial girlish things.
- Sees their husband like a houseboy.

4. Office Wife: These are women who:
- Career minded that their family does not matter.
- Are always using career as an excuse of not being at home for their family.
- They don’t respect their husbands and make educated women look bad.
- Think a husband is not important because they can support themselves.

5. Patient Wife: These are women who:
- Always look like they are sick and down trodden.
- Love to complain on everything (husband, children, relatives even weather)
- Are always afraid and live in anxiety.

6. Headmistress Wife: These are women who:
- Make themselves in-charge of the family even when the husband is a sole provider of the home.
- Treat everyone as a child including their husband and visitors.
- Are very questionable and will punish their husbands for any trivial things.

7. Boxing Wife: These are women who:
- Are very offensive and sometimes can be violent.
- They like shouting and they are nagging.
- Believe in fire for fire.

8. Dustbin Wife: These are women who:
- They are very dirty and unkempt.
- Very unorganized and confused.
- Very lazy at everything except gossiping.
- Leave everything to their servants or their children.
9. Security Wife: These are women who:
- Very protective of their husband.
- Very jealous, every woman is seen as a threat.
- Sees husbands friends as bad company.
- Don’t let anyone discipline their child even a teacher.
- Husband family, friends and workmates are scared of her.

10. Good Wife: These are women who:
- Virtuous wife (Proverbs 31)
- Caring, loving and very smart.
- Very helpful, they can even handle husband’s business in his absence.
- Provide spiritual guidance to the children.
- Very understanding and have self-esteem.

Dear Women, which type of wife are YOU? And for the men, which is your woman?

HOW SHE CHANGED HER DRUNK HUSBAND
Read to the end

When a woman wants to teach you a lesson, even Satan sits down to take notes.

My neighbor was a big drunkard. His wife used to pick him up in bars and in trenches. Her family friends advised her to leave him but she was hopeful that she'll find a solution.

One Saturday she went to pick him again, he was completely drunk. Instead of taking him home, she headed straight to the mortuary. She negotiated with the mortuary attendants to make him lie with the corpses and when he wakes up, help me to teach him a lesson. She then went back home. Fear Women!

When he woke up, he started screaming when he found himself sleeping in the middle of dead bodies. He started screaming and calling for help pleading that he's not dead. The mortuary attendants came laughing and told him that they are used to corpses being brought to the morgue and start practicing witchcraft. They told him to lie down and that he was dead and whatever he was seeing was not in real life but in the other end of living dead.

He continued screaming and the morgue attendants came with an axe and hammer and told him that stubborn corpses are beaten and hacked until they become cooperative. He was told to lie and wait for his postmortem later that day since his cause of death hadn't been established.

He stayed there frightened in the middle of corpses the whole of that day and Sunday night.
On Monday morning they released him and told him to go home, say bye bye to his family and then come back to the morgue for preservation since he was now a mere spirit.

He ran home on foot, straight to the mirror to check if he was seeing himself. His wife pretended not to see him which made him even more worried. He went to the bathroom took a shower, dressed up and carried a Bible. That's when his wife told him that it was a Monday morning and not Sunday.

Several months later he's yet to reveal what happened to him and where he was the nights he wasn't at home. He stopped taking alcohol completely, not even soda, just milk and water. He goes to church religiously.
The power of a woman!

"PROFESSIONS IN NIGERIA THAT END IN POVERTY — AND HOW TO ESCAPE BEFORE IT’S TOO LATE"

This one hits hard, exposes painful truths, makes people emotional, and offers real escape plans. It’s designed to go viral, especially with Nigerian audiences.

“35 YEARS OF SERVICE... AND NOTHING TO SHOW FOR IT?”
A painful post about teaching, civil service, healthcare, and other respected professions that leave people broke after retirement.

Have you ever seen a retired teacher in Nigeria?

Bent back… faded glasses… walking to a ministry office every Monday with a pension file tucked under one arm, hoping—praying—that this will be the day his name finally enters payment batch?

Ever watched a civil servant who once wore sharp suits and supervised millions… now begging his son for ₦2,000?

Have you seen a nurse who worked night shifts for 30 years… now sitting in her one-room apartment, sharing malaria drugs with her neighbors because she can’t afford to refill her own prescription?

This post is for them.

This post is for anyone still believing that passion, loyalty, and salary alone will protect them from poverty.

In Nigeria, some professions will give you respect while you’re working… and regrets when you retire.

And here’s the painful part:

It’s not the job that’s the problem.
It’s the mindset people carry while doing it.

1. TEACHING – THE POVERTY HEADQUARTERS IN NIGERIA

Let’s not even sugarcoat it.
Teaching is 001 when it comes to professions that give you a big heart and an empty account.

You build nations, raise presidents, shape doctors and engineers…

Yet when your legs grow weak, and your voice gets tired, the same system throws you into silence.

Let’s talk facts:

Starting salary? Between ₦75k to ₦80k.

Transport fare and food? ₦1,500 – ₦2,000 per day.

What’s left after family, church contributions, and survival? PEANUTS.

You wake up by 5 a.m., go teach stubborn students, mark 120 scripts, attend endless meetings, go home with headaches, and repeat it 5 days a week…

…Only to retire and depend on pension money that doesn’t even come regularly.

Reality:

Teachers get respect, not results.

Teachers are praised in speeches but punished by salary structures.

Teachers retire tired and often broke.

ESCAPE PLAN:

Monetize what you know: Start online tutorials, digital lesson notes, or eBooks for students.

Private coaching: Set up home lessons for rich kids. They’ll pay you more than government ever did.

Start educational businesses: Lesson centres, daycare, education consulting.

Don’t wait for pension—start investing in land, side businesses, or even digital products now.

> "You can die for education in Nigeria—and still die poor."

2. CIVIL SERVANTS – OGA IN OFFICE, STRUGGLER AT HOME

You see them every day:
They dress sharp, hold titles like “Chief Planning Officer” or “Deputy Director”…

But many civil servants are just surviving on loans and promises.

You spend 30 years working… then 3 years chasing your pension.

By the time you retire, your firstborn is already feeding you.

Why does it happen?

Blind loyalty to government.

Zero investment mindset.

Living above their means just to “look the part.”

ESCAPE PLAN:

Use your salary as seed, not your source.
Invest in small businesses, land, or trade.

Learn financial literacy.
Budget, save, and plan your exit before retirement catches you unaware.

Build side income: farms, rentals, retail, even POS.

3. NURSES & HEALTH WORKERS – YOU SAVED OTHERS, BUT WHO SAVED YOU?

Long nights. Ward duties. Emergency calls. Saving lives every day.

But in Nigeria? Nurses retire to high blood pressure, unpaid pensions, and hospitals they can’t afford to enter.

You worked for the system—but the system didn’t work for you.

ESCAPE PLAN:

Start private elderly care or mobile health services.

Build an online brand: health tips, consultations, and products.

Create health coaching services for busy professionals.

Learn to turn your medical knowledge into a product or service.

4. POLICE & MILITARY – “RISKED LIFE, REWARDED WITH POVERTY”

You carried gun. Protected lives. Slept in bush. Fought robbers.

But guess what?

When you remove that uniform, you’ll see that poverty has no respect for bravery.

Many ex-officers are suffering. Not because they didn’t serve—but because they didn’t build.

ESCAPE PLAN:

Start a security consulting firm.

Offer VIP protection services or training programs.

Invest in logistics, transport, or real estate while still in service.

Don’t spend all your salary drinking at mess—buy land.

5. CLERGY & CHURCH WORKERS – “GOD’S WORKER, YET HUNGRY”

Not every pastor is rich.

Many preach for 40 years and still die broke. Why?

No financial plan.

No personal investment.

Total dependence on unpredictable offerings.

ESCAPE PLAN:

Write devotionals, run marriage counselling, or record online teachings.

Start a Christian YouTube or podcast platform.

Sell books or branded spiritual journals.

Use your influence to raise partnerships for income projects.

Even Apostle Paul made tents. Why are you depending only on tithe?

6. ENGINEERS, DOCTORS, LAWYERS – IT’S NOT BY TITLE

Yes, you read that right.

In Nigeria, title is not equal to success.
There are engineers begging for jobs.
Doctors borrowing transport fare.
Lawyers trekking to court.

Why?

Because school taught them how to be professionals—but not how to build wealth.

ESCAPE PLAN:

Learn business. Learn branding. Learn packaging.

Use your knowledge to offer premium services online.

Start side hustles that fund your future—don’t wait for “better job offers.”

Network with business-minded people, not just fellow professionals.

7. FARMERS – THE PEOPLE WHO FEED THE NATION… BUT CAN’T FEED THEMSELVES

No jokes.

Farmers work from dawn to dusk… only to sell at bad prices, face middlemen, and lose harvests to lack of storage.

They produce for Nigeria, yet they beg to survive.

ESCAPE PLAN:

Join or create farming co-ops.

Invest in agro-processing or distribution.

Partner with people who can help scale, export, or digitize farming.

Create farm tours, organic products, or digital farm courses.

THE REAL ENEMY IS NOT THE JOB.

IT’S YOUR MINDSET.

Suffering is not holy. Loyalty is not a retirement plan.

Start investing now.

Start building side income.

Stop eating all your salary.

Stop saying “It’s too late.”

Whether you’re 25 or 55… the best time to start was yesterday.
The next best time is NOW.

IF THIS POST TOUCHED YOU:

Tag a teacher.

Tag a civil servant.

Tag a nurse or police officer.

Tag that your uncle who believes pension will save him.

SHARE this post. Let the world see the truth.
Because in Nigeria?

Profession can give you praise… but only financial wisdom can give you peace.

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*SEX YOU MUST NEVER HAVE IN YOUR MARRIAGE*

Sex is lawful in marriage, it’s one of the rights of married couples in the family. But I need to let you know that, there are some forms of sex you must never have in your family.

9 of them!!!👇🏻

1. BROWN SEX: Sex is called brown if you have it with anyone that is not your spouse. It’s known as adultery, affairs or infidelity . It easily destroys marriage, avoid it.

2. YELLOW SEX: This is the kind of sex that happens between a couple who always struggle to sleep together. They fight often fight about sex and it has turn to a bone of contention in their marriage instead of being a tool of intimacy and love.

3. RED SEX: This a sexless marriage. Couples in it hardly make love because bitterness in marriage has taken over to the level of war.So, they hardly sleep together.

4. NECESSITY SEX: I met a couple recently, who have not been in talking term for Months but they still sleep together regularly because they need Children. They will just sleep together inside darkness, roll to the other side and sleep off but continue their fight the second day, this is a necessity Sex.

5. GRUDGE MATCH: This is the kind of sex where couple sleep together without love or affection, they do it without any affection or desire. They only have sex as a responsibility in marriage or to give peace a chance. This is very common among wives.

6. BABY SEX: This is when couples sleep together only when they need sex. They believe sex is not for love or pleasure ,it should only happen when baby is needed, this is very wrong. Sex should bring couple together and should be done regularly and joyfully.

7. FRIDGE SEX: This is also known as “No Action sex”. This involves husband and wife sleeping together but cold or when a “Fridge” action is displayed by the wife. That is, she is never involve; only lie down like a log of wood.It’s a bad example of sex in Marriage .Wives should be involve when their husbands sleeps with them.

8. BARTER SEX: This involves “trade by barter” “Money for hands, back for ground”. In this kind of sex, the woman is fond of giving conditions before she will allow her husband to sleep with her, this is terrible.


9. CALENDAR SEX: This involves picking a day in the week or Month when sex can only take place. Some women are fond of telling their husbands the day in the week or month they will be ready for sex. This is also wrong in Marriage.Sex should be spontaneous, it can happen any day and any time behind the four walls, that is how sex in Marriage should be.

You will not fail in your marriage...