3 Battles Every Lady Must Win to Succeed in Relationships

There are 3 core battles every lady must conquer if she’s going to win in love. Not just any kind of love, but intentional, godly, healthy kind of love that leads to peace, not pain.

1. The Battle Against Low Self-Esteem

It starts with you. Not with a man. Not with a proposal. Not even with relationship. YOU.

The way you see yourself determines the love you think you deserve. We choose the love we think we deserve.

A lady with low self-esteem will overlook red flags just to be chosen. She’ll keep quiet when she should speak up. She’ll tolerate the bare minimum and be so grateful that it was given.

And the scary part?
She’ll think it’s her fault when things go wrong and try to fix relationships that isn't good for her.

Loving yourself means learning to receive love that matches your value, not your w0unds. It’s looking in the mirror and saying, “I am enough, with or without a man.”

And most of all, it’s knowing that being single is better than being mistreated.

2. The Battle Against Comparison

You scroll through Facebook and IG and see her. The soft life girl. The ring. The candlelight dinner. The captions: “My peace.” “The Odogwu of my life.” “The one that spoils me s!lly.”

And just like that, you feel behind. You start questioning your worth. You wonder if there’s something wrong with you.

You wonder why your own husband can't take you on vacation. You wonder why your own man doesn't pamper you like the other lady’s man.

Always remember that for every post that you see, you are not seeing the full picture of things. You only see what the person wants you to see.

Comparison is the stealer of joy. It forces you not to be content, and makes you underappreciate what you have because your eyes are on what you don't have.

Many ladies compare themselves with others. There is this hidden competition that makes you want to compare your man, possessions, marriage, and even life with others.

Even the Bible says that people who compare themselves with others are not wise. Your story and journey is different. Stop comparing.

3. The Battle Against Deception

The d£vil doesn’t come in red horns. He comes in fine suits, sweet words, and deep scriptures.

Deception is one of the biggest traps in modern dating. Many ladies fall, not because they’re weak, but because they want to believe the best. They are also driven by fantasy and this makes the lady an easy targ£t.

You meet a man who says all the right things:
“I’ve been praying for a woman like you…”
“I’m not like those other guys…”
“I’m ready for marriage…”

But talk is cheap. Character is not. Deception often hides behind charm, but if you will pay attention to character, you will be saved.

That’s why emotional intelligence and spiritual discernment are non-negotiable. You must test the spirit, not just the vibe you feel. You must question the patterns, not just the potential.

So sis, win these three battles not for a man, but for you. Because when you win within, the external will match up.

Dubai businessman Jamal Al Nadak just bought an entire private island for his wife, Soudi Al Nadak, so she could enjoy the beach in peace and privacy. Yes, you read that right — not a spa day, not a beach resort, but a WHOLE ISLAND.

Soudi, a 26-year-old influencer and self-proclaimed “full-time housewife,” shared the news with a video captioned: “POV: You wanted to wear a bikini so your millionaire husband bought you an island.”

Now that’s love language, billionaire edition. 😮‍💨

What do we think, folks — romantic, ridiculous, or just real estate goals?

5 WAYS TO MAKE MONEY ONLINE WITH JUST YOUR WHATSAPP

You don’t need a website. You don’t need a laptop.
Just your phone and WhatsApp.

Here’s how you can turn it into your daily ATM:

1. SELL PRODUCTS THROUGH STATUS MARKETING

Post what you’re selling on your WhatsApp Status daily.
Whether it’s thrift wears, perfumes, food, or digital products—status is your free billboard.

Take clear pictures, write short catchy captions and post 2–3 times a day.

People who view your status are already warm leads.

2. USE BROADCAST LISTS TO FOLLOW UP WITH INTERESTED BUYERS

Instead of disturbing group chats, create a broadcast list of those who’ve shown interest before.

Send personalized messages like:
“Hi Tolu, I just restocked the bag you liked last week!”

It feels personal and people respond to that.

3. OFFER SERVICES AS A FREELANCER OR SKILLED PERSON

Are you a graphic designer, copywriter, or social media manager?
Use WhatsApp to get gigs and keep in touch with clients.

Post behind-the-scenes of your work, testimonials, and tips.
Let people see your skill on your status consistently.

4. TURN YOUR WHATSAPP INTO A MINI ONLINE STORE

Use your DP, bio, and status to showcase what you do or sell.
That’s your storefront.

DP = your product or service
Bio = what you offer + how to order
Status = testimonials, offers, results

Simple setup. Zero cost.

5. TEACH WHAT YOU KNOW THROUGH WHATSAPP CLASSES

You can create a paid class, group, or training right on WhatsApp.

Pick a topic you know well (e.g. “How to grow on IG”, “How to design with Canva”)

Charge a small fee (₦1k – ₦5k)

Host it in a group using voice notes, PDFs, or videos.

People are learning daily on WhatsApp. Teach and earn.

You’ve been chatting on WhatsApp for free.
It’s time to turn those chats, views, and contacts into cash.

Start today. Keep it simple. Be consistent.

Your phone is a money tool. Use it.

Real Madrid have posted a video of past comebacks, with the caption of ‘The Bernabéu, again’. The video quotes this:

“I’m going to show them a world without borders or boundaries. A world… where anything is possible. I don’t know the future, I didn’t come here to tell you how this is going to end, I came here to tell you how it’s going to begin…"

After Relocating To Ghana, Obroni Now Hawks Plantain Chips in Traffic

A video of a white lady who recently moved to Ghana has impressed many after she took to the streets to hustle.

In the video, the lady was seen on the street busily hawking plantain chips, one of the local Ghanaian snacks, in Accra.

While speaking, she revealed that she was impressed with the hard work that goes into selling on the street and wanted to try it to see what it feels like.

The video was captioned “Something everyone should try when in Ghana." However expressed her profound respect and admiration for the female street hawkers, praising them for the techniques deployed in selling on the street.

She said "This was very tricky. The locals were all cheering me on. I have such respect for the amazing women who do this every day and with such heavy loads. To discover the science behind this awesome skill,"

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THE PRICE OF WEALTH
STORY OF A YAHOO BOY (EPISODE 15)

Why did they cast me out of my family like this? Did they not think it would be better to let her dïe peacefully in her sleep or pass away in any other quiet way? Why did she have to die like this, calling my name?

How do I face my family and answer their questions now? Three days later, my family summoned me to the village. They told me to come or else something bad would happen to me.

The děath of my mother made me so weak. I won’t lie, I never thought she was the most valuable thing to lose because I believed she was safe in the village after Baba's last attempt on her life. This time, she died calling my name. How will I face my family now? Should I bring backup, like forearmed, just in case? But if I do that, they will suspect my involvement in my mother's death.

I said, "All dïe now, díe. " After two days, I gathered the courage to go back to my village alone. The meeting was very harsh.

They called me a blood ritualist and said I used my mother for rituals. They wanted me to tell them what I knew about my mother’s děath, but I said I didn’t know anything and that I only returned home to bury my mother peacefully. They told me I wasn’t in a position to bury her and asked me to step outside.

First, they told me to give them 5 minutes. I stepped outside and stayed by my car, watching the area just in case they planned to attack me. If I saw any youth carrying a weapon, I would drive away and leave them.

After about 8 minutes, they told me to come inside. The elderly man was the first to speak. "Daniel, we have discussed this matter and have decided to disown you. You will no longer be part of our family, and don’t even think you belong to this community, because we will tell the king to banish you immediately. We will reconsider you only if you can explain how your mother died.

Until then, leave this village and never return to this compound. " If I just walked away like that, they’d think I’m truly guilty. I decided to cause some drama. I burst into tears.

"You are w!cked! All of you are wicked! Today, I know the truth. This family has no conscience at all. I am mourning my beloved mother who died, yet you refuse to let me bury her.

You disown me. You still banish me. But don’t worry, God sees all of us, and He will judge us all! " I said, crying. I held my chest as I shed crocodile tears. As I cried, all of them just looked at me, thinking, "See this pretender. " No problem. I walked to my car, started it, and drove away.

When I drove a little distance, I parked the car and brought out a handkerchief to clean the fäke tears. After a while, my family set a date for my mom’s burial, and she was buried in my absence. When I got home, my computer beeped. I wanted to ignore it, but then it beeped again.

When I checked my laptop, I saw that my client from Cyprus had just sent me money. It was the biggest payment I had ever received since I started doing Yahoo – a whole 3 million dollars. When I saw the money, I was shocked. I was still looking at the laptop when Baba called me to come in.

"Congratulations, my child. You have paid your price in full, and now your cash-out is confirmed. The gods have finally separated you from Judith. Just live your life from now on. Judith no longer matters. Judith even needs you more now because only you can make her pregnant in this life. " "Baba, but why did the gods k!ll my mother?

Why did the gods reveal to my mother that it was me who k!lled her? I don’t like that part at all. " Baba replied, "It is not your place to ask such questions. The gods have finally freed you from Judith. That was the matter. Be very careful with women from now on. Goodbye. "

I thought about Judith. I’m yet to decide on what to do with her, but I must deal with her. It was her stubbornness that made me lose my mother. I only have my Tundra for now. After I made a lot of money, I ordered the latest model of the Chevrolet Camaro online, which cost 29 million naira, and the car arrived at my place exactly one week later.

The car is amazing; both the interior and exterior are really impressive. I checked my WhatsApp status and saw that Judith was already in Nigeria. She posted a picture with a man putting his head on her chest, captioning it "Ito. " She’s just doing all these things to make me angry. Honestly, I don’t know what I did to deserve this treatment from this girl.

I decided to go to the club to celebrate my new car. I spent money that day. I bought drinks for everyone in the club, threw money around, and people started pecking. I even gave the hype man 300,000 naira to only call my name.

People recorded videos of my reckless spending that night, and those videos started trending all over social media. The videos trended to the extent that Judith watched them on her phone. Immediately, she gave me 10 missed calls.

Episode 16 to be dropped after 100 shâres.

Nah so so 1k l!kes I dey get, if this one no pass 1k I no go drop second to the last episode and my new upcoming story is going to be a banger trust me, I love y’all.

Defenders nightmare 🫡

Let's give this picture a caption

Let me motivate you with the image below

On the left: A person wishes for results without effort, represented by a plain tree without fruit.
Caption: "You don't get what you wish for."

On the right: A person works diligently (watering the tree), resulting in a fruitful tree. Caption: "You get what you work for."

Key message: Success comes from hard work, not just wishful thinking.

So get that plan started already, be prayerful and trust the process.