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    June 11, 1963: Governor George Wallace famously "stood in the schoolhouse door."
    The Alabama Governor physically blocked Vivian Malone and James Hood, two black students, from enrolling in the University.
    HISTORY June 11, 1963: Governor George Wallace famously "stood in the schoolhouse door." The Alabama Governor physically blocked Vivian Malone and James Hood, two black students, from enrolling in the University.
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  • Today in History - The Throne That Was Never Sat On

    M.K.O. Abiola went to the street on June 11, 1994.

    Not just any street, but Epetedo, the beating heart of Lagos Island, where dust rises with every footstep and the people speak truth without fear. He went not with an army, but with a mandate. Not with guns, but with courage.

    It was the eve of the first anniversary of June 12, 1993, the day Abiola won Nigeria's freest and fairest presidential election. Running under the Social Democratic Party (SDP), he secured 58.36% of the votes, winning 20 out of 30 states and uniting a country divided by tribe, tongue, and faith.

    Nigerians chose him.

    The world watched and cheered.

    But the military had other plans.

    General Ibrahim Babangida, then Head of State, annulled the election without warning. He crushed the voice of the people with silence. Chaos followed. Students marched. Journalists fought censorship. Human rights lawyers resisted. Out of the fire came NADECO, a movement born to demand democracy.

    Babangida, under pressure, stepped aside and installed an interim government led by Chief Ernest Shonekan. But it was a name without power. And by November 1993, General Sani Abacha swept in like a storm and took control by force.

    The country held its breath.

    But Abiola refused to vanish into the shadows.

    On June 11, 1994, he rose again. In the streets of Epetedo, surrounded by the very people who gave him their votes, Abiola declared himself the democratically elected President of Nigeria.

    That same evening, the regime struck.

    Two hundred police vehicles stormed Lagos like thunder. Abiola was arrested, charged with treason, and locked away. The man with the loudest democratic mandate in Nigeria's history was silenced, not by the people, but by power.

    He never came out alive.

    Four years later, on July 7, 1998, just before his expected release, M.K.O. Abiola died in detention, under suspicious and bitter circumstances.

    But what he stood for never died.
    Today in History - The Throne That Was Never Sat On M.K.O. Abiola went to the street on June 11, 1994. Not just any street, but Epetedo, the beating heart of Lagos Island, where dust rises with every footstep and the people speak truth without fear. He went not with an army, but with a mandate. Not with guns, but with courage. It was the eve of the first anniversary of June 12, 1993, the day Abiola won Nigeria's freest and fairest presidential election. Running under the Social Democratic Party (SDP), he secured 58.36% of the votes, winning 20 out of 30 states and uniting a country divided by tribe, tongue, and faith. Nigerians chose him. The world watched and cheered. But the military had other plans. General Ibrahim Babangida, then Head of State, annulled the election without warning. He crushed the voice of the people with silence. Chaos followed. Students marched. Journalists fought censorship. Human rights lawyers resisted. Out of the fire came NADECO, a movement born to demand democracy. Babangida, under pressure, stepped aside and installed an interim government led by Chief Ernest Shonekan. But it was a name without power. And by November 1993, General Sani Abacha swept in like a storm and took control by force. The country held its breath. But Abiola refused to vanish into the shadows. On June 11, 1994, he rose again. In the streets of Epetedo, surrounded by the very people who gave him their votes, Abiola declared himself the democratically elected President of Nigeria. That same evening, the regime struck. Two hundred police vehicles stormed Lagos like thunder. Abiola was arrested, charged with treason, and locked away. The man with the loudest democratic mandate in Nigeria's history was silenced, not by the people, but by power. He never came out alive. Four years later, on July 7, 1998, just before his expected release, M.K.O. Abiola died in detention, under suspicious and bitter circumstances. But what he stood for never died.
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  • *SOME NIGERIAN NEWSPAPER HEADLINES+, 12/06/2025*

    Democracy Day tension: Protesters mobilise as Tinubu addresses NASS

    JUNE 12: Police, CSOs agree on peaceful protest, single venue in Lagos

    Nigeria records N5.17 trn trade surplus in Q1

    Floods ravage 180,000 farms across 30 states

    Mokwa flood: NHRC seeks enhanced disaster preparedness, IDPs’ protection

    OPS pushes for refinery sell-off after $2.4bn wobbly repairs

    Plateau Attacks: 8 killed, dozens of homes razed in Mangu

    Air Peace extorting Nigerians, Oshiomhole speaks on airport incident

    UN flags 138 million kids in global child labour crisis

    Protests spread across US despite Trump threats

    Nigeria defaults in UN contributions, pays only 36%

    Ethiopia, Turkey deny owing ground rent in Abuja, pledge cooperation

    US court jails Nigerian for deadly sextortion of teen girl

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    *DID YOU KNOW?*

    * If you live in the northern hemisphere, then June 21st is the longest day of the year. If you live in the southern hemisphere, then the 21st is the shortest day of the year.

    * All clown fish are born male and can become female later in life.
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    Tinubu woos Wike to join APC

    Tourism has potential to enhance local entrepreneurship – Shettima

    National Assembly mulls extension of 2024 budget capital vote

    Democracy strongest when people are involved, says Abbas

    Natasha: Appeal Court strikes out Akpabio’s motions, imposes N100,000 fine

    Court orders Eko Disco to restore power to Lagos hotel

    11 to face trial for Internet fraud in Kaduna

    Insecurity: Police arrest 42 armed herders, bandits in Benue

    Federal Civil Service to go paperless by December 2025, says FG

    Blackout alert: FG commences crucial grid servicing

    Fed Govt reviewing legislations to address child labour – Minister

    N5bn oil-backed deal with Aramco has not collapsed, says FG

    No extension of BDC recapitalisation deadline – CBN

    FCCPC inaugurates joint market monitoring task force

    Container congestion: NPA enforces use of holding bays

    CBEX remains banned in Nigeria – SEC

    UBEC raises quality assurance matching grant to 5%

    NIHOTOUR enforces certification law, targets non-compliant hotels in Lagos

    ABUAD secures N480m research equipment boost

    Abiola Ajimobi Technical University secures full NUC accreditation for all six programmes

    UNILAG, Bakare’s CSG launch leadership diploma, slash tuition

    Democracy declining under APC — PDP, Afenifere, Ohanaeze, ACF, others

    Southern Kaduna leaders demand judicial probe of El-Rufai over alleged abuses

    Civil rule has come to stay, says Falae

    Democracy Day: Utomi urges Nigerians to reject ‘thugs masquerading as leaders’

    Amaechi slams Tinubu’s policies in fresh outburst

    ₦39bn ICC renovation misplaced priority — Peter Obi

    June 12: Bode George urges Tinubu to reinstate Fubara

    Eno defection illegal, says A’Ibom PDP chieftain

    2027: Anti-Tinubu’s coalition will fail, Wike declares

    Sanwo-Olu unveils housing estate, 400m road in Ibeju-Lekki

    Rivers 2025 budget plans for Fubara’s return – Ibas

    Nasarawa not involved in Benue killings – Sule

    Our intervention on Benin-Abuja highway reduced travel time, says Okpebholo

    Makinde approves N1bn gratuity for retired LG staff, others

    Nigeria not where it should be – Niger gov

    Delta commissioner bags Kwame Nkrumah award

    Cross River plans new airport to boost tourism

    LASG slams N20m fine on unlicensed electricity firms

    Jigawa, Kano, Katsina join forces against polio

    Anambra 2025: Govt agency imposes N50m on 16 governorship candidates

    Anambra CP orders detention of three policemen over corruption

    Katsina suspends NURTW chair over road closure alert

    Kaduna vows crackdown on criminal gangs

    New 7.5kv solar power system inaugurated in A’Ibom community

    Anioma group donates 50 solar streetlights to Delta community

    Edo community protests removal, appointment of new king

    Lamentation as night fire destroys goods in Rivers market

    Two killed, one injured in Kwara hotel collapse

    Petrol tanker catches fire near NASFAT camp on Lagos-Ibadan expressway

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    *TODAY IN HISTORY*

    * On this day in 1964, Nelson Mandela was sentenced to life in prison. The South African anti-apartheid activist spent 27 years in prison. In 1993, he received the Nobel Peace Prize and one year later, he became President of South Africa.

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    If there is no struggle, there is no progress. – Frederick Douglass

    Happy Democracy Day


    *Compiled by Hon. Osuji George [email protected], +234-8122200446*
    *SOME NIGERIAN NEWSPAPER HEADLINES+, 12/06/2025* Democracy Day tension: Protesters mobilise as Tinubu addresses NASS JUNE 12: Police, CSOs agree on peaceful protest, single venue in Lagos Nigeria records N5.17 trn trade surplus in Q1 Floods ravage 180,000 farms across 30 states Mokwa flood: NHRC seeks enhanced disaster preparedness, IDPs’ protection OPS pushes for refinery sell-off after $2.4bn wobbly repairs Plateau Attacks: 8 killed, dozens of homes razed in Mangu Air Peace extorting Nigerians, Oshiomhole speaks on airport incident UN flags 138 million kids in global child labour crisis Protests spread across US despite Trump threats Nigeria defaults in UN contributions, pays only 36% Ethiopia, Turkey deny owing ground rent in Abuja, pledge cooperation US court jails Nigerian for deadly sextortion of teen girl --------------------------- *DID YOU KNOW?* * If you live in the northern hemisphere, then June 21st is the longest day of the year. If you live in the southern hemisphere, then the 21st is the shortest day of the year. * All clown fish are born male and can become female later in life. --------------------------- Tinubu woos Wike to join APC Tourism has potential to enhance local entrepreneurship – Shettima National Assembly mulls extension of 2024 budget capital vote Democracy strongest when people are involved, says Abbas Natasha: Appeal Court strikes out Akpabio’s motions, imposes N100,000 fine Court orders Eko Disco to restore power to Lagos hotel 11 to face trial for Internet fraud in Kaduna Insecurity: Police arrest 42 armed herders, bandits in Benue Federal Civil Service to go paperless by December 2025, says FG Blackout alert: FG commences crucial grid servicing Fed Govt reviewing legislations to address child labour – Minister N5bn oil-backed deal with Aramco has not collapsed, says FG No extension of BDC recapitalisation deadline – CBN FCCPC inaugurates joint market monitoring task force Container congestion: NPA enforces use of holding bays CBEX remains banned in Nigeria – SEC UBEC raises quality assurance matching grant to 5% NIHOTOUR enforces certification law, targets non-compliant hotels in Lagos ABUAD secures N480m research equipment boost Abiola Ajimobi Technical University secures full NUC accreditation for all six programmes UNILAG, Bakare’s CSG launch leadership diploma, slash tuition Democracy declining under APC — PDP, Afenifere, Ohanaeze, ACF, others Southern Kaduna leaders demand judicial probe of El-Rufai over alleged abuses Civil rule has come to stay, says Falae Democracy Day: Utomi urges Nigerians to reject ‘thugs masquerading as leaders’ Amaechi slams Tinubu’s policies in fresh outburst ₦39bn ICC renovation misplaced priority — Peter Obi June 12: Bode George urges Tinubu to reinstate Fubara Eno defection illegal, says A’Ibom PDP chieftain 2027: Anti-Tinubu’s coalition will fail, Wike declares Sanwo-Olu unveils housing estate, 400m road in Ibeju-Lekki Rivers 2025 budget plans for Fubara’s return – Ibas Nasarawa not involved in Benue killings – Sule Our intervention on Benin-Abuja highway reduced travel time, says Okpebholo Makinde approves N1bn gratuity for retired LG staff, others Nigeria not where it should be – Niger gov Delta commissioner bags Kwame Nkrumah award Cross River plans new airport to boost tourism LASG slams N20m fine on unlicensed electricity firms Jigawa, Kano, Katsina join forces against polio Anambra 2025: Govt agency imposes N50m on 16 governorship candidates Anambra CP orders detention of three policemen over corruption Katsina suspends NURTW chair over road closure alert Kaduna vows crackdown on criminal gangs New 7.5kv solar power system inaugurated in A’Ibom community Anioma group donates 50 solar streetlights to Delta community Edo community protests removal, appointment of new king Lamentation as night fire destroys goods in Rivers market Two killed, one injured in Kwara hotel collapse Petrol tanker catches fire near NASFAT camp on Lagos-Ibadan expressway --------------------------- *TODAY IN HISTORY* * On this day in 1964, Nelson Mandela was sentenced to life in prison. The South African anti-apartheid activist spent 27 years in prison. In 1993, he received the Nobel Peace Prize and one year later, he became President of South Africa. --------------------------- If there is no struggle, there is no progress. – Frederick Douglass Happy Democracy Day *Compiled by Hon. Osuji George [email protected], +234-8122200446*
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  • Yesterday, some additional shelves were being installed at the BHF Community Kids Library Center, so I stopped by to check on the progress. Upon arrival, I met a father with his two children who was discussing enrollment for his children.

    You could clearly see the excitement in the children’s faces. I asked the little girl to pick any book of her choice and read to me.

    She was overjoyed. At first, she was unsure of what to choose, but she eventually settled on Snow White and the Seven Dwarfs. It was her first time seeing the book and reading the story.

    Her attention span was impressive! She read the entire story, and afterward, we identified some new words she had learned: flutter, grumpy, dungeon, among others.

    The more words children are exposed to and read, the better their vocabulary and speaking skills become.

    Have you enrolled a child yet in the Belie Health Foundation Community Kids Library Center? Our first class for members of the Learning Club begins this Wednesday at 8 a.m.

    #theinvaluablewoman
    Yesterday, some additional shelves were being installed at the BHF Community Kids Library Center, so I stopped by to check on the progress. Upon arrival, I met a father with his two children who was discussing enrollment for his children. You could clearly see the excitement in the children’s faces. I asked the little girl to pick any book of her choice and read to me. She was overjoyed. At first, she was unsure of what to choose, but she eventually settled on Snow White and the Seven Dwarfs. It was her first time seeing the book and reading the story. Her attention span was impressive! She read the entire story, and afterward, we identified some new words she had learned: flutter, grumpy, dungeon, among others. The more words children are exposed to and read, the better their vocabulary and speaking skills become. Have you enrolled a child yet in the Belie Health Foundation Community Kids Library Center? Our first class for members of the Learning Club begins this Wednesday at 8 a.m. #theinvaluablewoman
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  • Lionel Messi vs Cristiano Ronaldo – National Team Stats:

    Lionel Messi
    192 games
    ⚽️ 112 goals
    58 assists
    170 goal contributions
    10 hat-tricks
    Copa América (x2)
    FIFA World Cup
    Finalissima
    46 MOTM awards

    Cristiano Ronaldo
    221 games
    ⚽️ 138 goals
    37 assists
    175 goal contributions
    10 hat-tricks
    UEFA Nations League (x2)
    UEFA Euro
    18 MOTM awards

    Two of the greatest to ever play the game.
    Lionel Messi vs Cristiano Ronaldo – National Team Stats: 🇦🇷 Lionel Messi 🏟️ 192 games ⚽️ 112 goals 🎯 58 assists 📊 170 goal contributions 🎩 10 hat-tricks 🏆 Copa América (x2) 🏆 FIFA World Cup 🏆 Finalissima 🏅 46 MOTM awards 🇵🇹 Cristiano Ronaldo 🏟️ 221 games ⚽️ 138 goals 🎯 37 assists 📊 175 goal contributions 🎩 10 hat-tricks 🏆 UEFA Nations League (x2) 🏆 UEFA Euro 🏅 18 MOTM awards Two of the greatest to ever play the game. 🔥
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  • https://guardian.ng/news/senator-natasha-appeal-court-strikes-out-two-of-akpabios-motions/
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    Senator Natasha: Appeal Court strikes out two of Akpabio's motions
    The Abuja Division of the Court of Appeal has struck out two motions filed by the President of the Senate, Senator Godswill Akpabio,
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  • *16 Texts Every Man Wishes His Lady Would Send Him*


    1. "You are looking good today"

    Yes, lady, men need compliments too

    2. "Yesterday was amazing"

    Tell him how much you enjoyed spending time with him yesterday. If you two made love, tell your husband how great he was in bed last night. It boosts his ego


    3. "I am blessed to have you"

    Show him you appreciate how fortunate you are to have him. It makes him feel valued

    4. "Please pray for me"

    This shows you need him and his prayers. Involving God in your love shows how serious and sacred your love is

    5. "What do I cook for you tonight?"

    Men love to eat. That you would ask him what he wants, makes him excited

    6. "I love you"

    No matter how macho men try to be, they love being told this by the woman they love

    7. "Can I take you out?"

    Surprise him. Treat him. A Queen can also plan a date for her King. Men love women who take charge sometimes. It's not every time things should be left to him

    8. "I am so wet"

    Men love it when the woman they are faithful to reveals she is sexually aroused. Lady, show him that when you think of sex you think of him and are not shy about it. A man who loves you enjoys receiving breaking news of your sexuality

    9. "Thank you for the phone call"

    The moment after he gives you a phone-call that makes you laugh, smile, or shows care; send him a text that demonstrates your gratitude

    10. "I will be late, I'll make it up to you"

    Some women tend to delay when going on a date or event. Don't keep him waiting and expect him to undersrand because he is your man. Inform him you will be late

    11. "I am wearing your favourite underwear"

    Tell him when you are wearing his favourite underwear, that black thong that he likes, that bra he likes to unstrap. Let him know when you are not wearing any underwear, no bra, when your nipples get hard. This playful and intimate info makes his blood run

    12. "Are you OK?"

    Many women want the man to care and ask how she is but don't do the same for the man. Find out how your man is, how his day has gone. Many men are stresssed in need of their woman/wife to show concern. So many men have issues and need a safe place to vent

    13. "You are a good man"

    In a world where women talk badly about men and have given up on men, this is the greatest compliment. If you have a good man, appreciate him. Him being a good man doesn't mean he is perfect, but the more you praise him, the better he will become, and the more effort he will put

    14. "I can't wait for us to leave this place and be alone with you"

    When you are both in the same venue full of people, send him this text. He will read it, smile, look at you and your eyes meet with intense passion. Show him you look forward to private moments with him

    15. "God bless your day, you are blessed"

    As his woman/wife, even without him asking; bless his day. Send him a message when he is at work; blessing him, calling him blessed. Your words are powerful and shape him

    16. "You are an amazing father"

    He is there, doing the best he can for your child/children; thank him and constantly recognize his greatness, and greatness will never leave him

    Have a wonderful and blessed day!
    *16 Texts Every Man Wishes His Lady Would Send Him* 1. "You are looking good today" Yes, lady, men need compliments too 2. "Yesterday was amazing" Tell him how much you enjoyed spending time with him yesterday. If you two made love, tell your husband how great he was in bed last night. It boosts his ego 3. "I am blessed to have you" Show him you appreciate how fortunate you are to have him. It makes him feel valued 4. "Please pray for me" This shows you need him and his prayers. Involving God in your love shows how serious and sacred your love is 5. "What do I cook for you tonight?" Men love to eat. That you would ask him what he wants, makes him excited 6. "I love you" No matter how macho men try to be, they love being told this by the woman they love 7. "Can I take you out?" Surprise him. Treat him. A Queen can also plan a date for her King. Men love women who take charge sometimes. It's not every time things should be left to him 8. "I am so wet" Men love it when the woman they are faithful to reveals she is sexually aroused. Lady, show him that when you think of sex you think of him and are not shy about it. A man who loves you enjoys receiving breaking news of your sexuality 9. "Thank you for the phone call" The moment after he gives you a phone-call that makes you laugh, smile, or shows care; send him a text that demonstrates your gratitude 10. "I will be late, I'll make it up to you" Some women tend to delay when going on a date or event. Don't keep him waiting and expect him to undersrand because he is your man. Inform him you will be late 11. "I am wearing your favourite underwear" Tell him when you are wearing his favourite underwear, that black thong that he likes, that bra he likes to unstrap. Let him know when you are not wearing any underwear, no bra, when your nipples get hard. This playful and intimate info makes his blood run 12. "Are you OK?" Many women want the man to care and ask how she is but don't do the same for the man. Find out how your man is, how his day has gone. Many men are stresssed in need of their woman/wife to show concern. So many men have issues and need a safe place to vent 13. "You are a good man" In a world where women talk badly about men and have given up on men, this is the greatest compliment. If you have a good man, appreciate him. Him being a good man doesn't mean he is perfect, but the more you praise him, the better he will become, and the more effort he will put 14. "I can't wait for us to leave this place and be alone with you" When you are both in the same venue full of people, send him this text. He will read it, smile, look at you and your eyes meet with intense passion. Show him you look forward to private moments with him 15. "God bless your day, you are blessed" As his woman/wife, even without him asking; bless his day. Send him a message when he is at work; blessing him, calling him blessed. Your words are powerful and shape him 16. "You are an amazing father" He is there, doing the best he can for your child/children; thank him and constantly recognize his greatness, and greatness will never leave him Have a wonderful and blessed day!
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  • is good to have our own social chat network from nija to the world
    is good to have our own social chat network from nija to the world
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  • The Two(2) Side of Fear
    Forget Everything And Run
    Or
    Face Everything And Rise
    The Two(2) Side of Fear Forget Everything And Run Or Face Everything And Rise
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  • WHY IT IS MORE EXPENSIVE TO BE POOR THAN TO BE RICH

    Many people don’t realize just how costly it is to be poor…

    Very, very expensive!

    Being poor is not just a lack of money—it’s a lifestyle filled with penalties, mark-ups, and quiet suffering.

    Let’s break it down:

    Imagine someone struggling financially buying 5 cups of rice every two days for ₦2,000. Meanwhile, another person buys a whole bag for ₦80,000.

    Now, do the math: Over time, that first person ends up spending over ₦100,000 for the same quantity of rice!

    The rich buy in bulk while the poor pay in pieces. Poverty forces people to spend more for less, just to survive day-to-day.

    It's not just about money—it's a cycle that punishes the most vulnerable for not having enough in the first place.

    Here are some examples to illustrate this:

    1. A low-income earner may buy a cheap dress for ₦4,000. It’s poorly stitched with low-quality fabric. After 2–3 washes, it fades, and the seams tear, forcing them to return to the market. They may end up purchasing the same type of dress 5 times in a year, totaling ₦20,000.

    In contrast, someone else may invest in a custom-made, high-quality outfit for ₦18,000 once—a durable, classic piece that lasts, allowing them to still wear it confidently the following year.

    2. The same goes for shoes: A person might buy “affordable” flats for ₦3,500 every two months because they wear out easily. That’s over ₦20,000 a year.

    A better-made pair for ₦12,000 could last an entire year or more!

    3. A mother working two minimum-wage jobs can’t afford a car, so she spends hours waiting for public transport in rain, snow, and sun—time that could be spent resting, upskilling, or with her children.

    She can’t afford to buy groceries in bulk, leading to higher costs per meal. She can't afford quality healthcare, so a small untreated illness becomes a major emergency. Needing to support her family, she goes to work sick, delaying her recovery and worsening her condition.

    4. When it comes to wigs, if someone buys ₦5,000 synthetic wigs 6 times a year, that amounts to ₦30,000. Investing once in a ₦25,000 quality wig can last much longer.

    5. Nutrition is another aspect to consider. Eating cheap can be double-edged: Every morning, quick, cheap options like akara and puff puff may seem convenient, but by age 40, diabetes or cancer may set in, leading to thousands spent on treatments, medications, and hospital bills.

    This cycle of poor nutrition, high stress, and lack of preventive care results in higher long-term medical costs, often paid out-of-pocket.

    6. Sadly, there are tragic stories too: Parents who lost a child because they couldn't afford ₦5,000 for needed medications; a man who lost his pregnant wife due to an inability to pay for a necessary operation; or Mrs. Jose, who had to live in a hazardous environment due to limited finances, leading to her daughters being abducted and assaulted.

    7. Poor individuals often spend more time commuting on unreliable public transportation and have to juggle multiple jobs or gigs, increasing stress and reducing opportunities for rest or personal growth.

    8. A low-income family might take payday loans with sky-high interest just to keep their lights on, spending months paying it back. On the other hand, a wealthy person borrows at lower interest rates to invest in opportunities that increase their wealth.

    This is why a corrupt government may prefer its citizens to remain poor—because they profit more from poverty than prosperity.

    Cheap choices today can ultimately cost you your life tomorrow.

    The moral of the story?

    Poverty is expensive. It forces people to “get by” until they end up spending more for less. This is why empowerment and financial access matter; true savings lie in quality, not constant replacements.

    Being poor limits your choices, and those limitations create a cycle of additional costs—often making day-to-day living more expensive than it is for someone who has the means to plan, invest, and save.

    Don’t give up. Don’t count yourself out. There’s strength in perseverance. Learn to make money, manage your money, and grow your money. Pray for financial abundance, and it shall be well with you. The same God who turned water into wine can turn your nothing into something.

    May God help us all to find the right empowerment and finances that elevate us from poverty.
    WHY IT IS MORE EXPENSIVE TO BE POOR THAN TO BE RICH Many people don’t realize just how costly it is to be poor… Very, very expensive! Being poor is not just a lack of money—it’s a lifestyle filled with penalties, mark-ups, and quiet suffering. Let’s break it down: Imagine someone struggling financially buying 5 cups of rice every two days for ₦2,000. Meanwhile, another person buys a whole bag for ₦80,000. Now, do the math: Over time, that first person ends up spending over ₦100,000 for the same quantity of rice! The rich buy in bulk while the poor pay in pieces. Poverty forces people to spend more for less, just to survive day-to-day. It's not just about money—it's a cycle that punishes the most vulnerable for not having enough in the first place. Here are some examples to illustrate this: 1. A low-income earner may buy a cheap dress for ₦4,000. It’s poorly stitched with low-quality fabric. After 2–3 washes, it fades, and the seams tear, forcing them to return to the market. They may end up purchasing the same type of dress 5 times in a year, totaling ₦20,000. In contrast, someone else may invest in a custom-made, high-quality outfit for ₦18,000 once—a durable, classic piece that lasts, allowing them to still wear it confidently the following year. 2. The same goes for shoes: A person might buy “affordable” flats for ₦3,500 every two months because they wear out easily. That’s over ₦20,000 a year. A better-made pair for ₦12,000 could last an entire year or more! 3. A mother working two minimum-wage jobs can’t afford a car, so she spends hours waiting for public transport in rain, snow, and sun—time that could be spent resting, upskilling, or with her children. She can’t afford to buy groceries in bulk, leading to higher costs per meal. She can't afford quality healthcare, so a small untreated illness becomes a major emergency. Needing to support her family, she goes to work sick, delaying her recovery and worsening her condition.😭 4. When it comes to wigs, if someone buys ₦5,000 synthetic wigs 6 times a year, that amounts to ₦30,000. Investing once in a ₦25,000 quality wig can last much longer. 5. Nutrition is another aspect to consider. Eating cheap can be double-edged: Every morning, quick, cheap options like akara and puff puff may seem convenient, but by age 40, diabetes or cancer may set in, leading to thousands spent on treatments, medications, and hospital bills. 😭 This cycle of poor nutrition, high stress, and lack of preventive care results in higher long-term medical costs, often paid out-of-pocket. 6. Sadly, there are tragic stories too: Parents who lost a child because they couldn't afford ₦5,000 for needed medications; a man who lost his pregnant wife due to an inability to pay for a necessary operation; or Mrs. Jose, who had to live in a hazardous environment due to limited finances, leading to her daughters being abducted and assaulted.😭 7. Poor individuals often spend more time commuting on unreliable public transportation and have to juggle multiple jobs or gigs, increasing stress and reducing opportunities for rest or personal growth. 8. A low-income family might take payday loans with sky-high interest just to keep their lights on, spending months paying it back. On the other hand, a wealthy person borrows at lower interest rates to invest in opportunities that increase their wealth. This is why a corrupt government may prefer its citizens to remain poor—because they profit more from poverty than prosperity. Cheap choices today can ultimately cost you your life tomorrow. The moral of the story? Poverty is expensive. It forces people to “get by” until they end up spending more for less. This is why empowerment and financial access matter; true savings lie in quality, not constant replacements. Being poor limits your choices, and those limitations create a cycle of additional costs—often making day-to-day living more expensive than it is for someone who has the means to plan, invest, and save. Don’t give up. Don’t count yourself out. There’s strength in perseverance. Learn to make money, manage your money, and grow your money. Pray for financial abundance, and it shall be well with you. The same God who turned water into wine can turn your nothing into something. May God help us all to find the right empowerment and finances that elevate us from poverty. 🙏
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  • 12 NEGATIVE THINGS YOU MUST NEVER DO OR SAY DURING CONFLICT IN MARRIAGE



    Disagreements in marriage are normal. Offense must come, no matter how holy and anointed you are. But we must learn to handle disputes with God's wisdom so that they won’t lead to MARITAL CRISIS AND DIVORCE.

    HERE ARE 12 THINGS YOU SHOULD NEVER DO DURING AN ARGUMENT WITH YOUR SPOUSE.

    1. Never say a word you may later regret.
    Never let your emotions control you.
    No matter how angry you are, never speak a word you will regret later. Avoid negative arguments. If you must argue, do it with love. Control your anger. Don’t abuse your tongue.
    Some couples are divorced today because they cannot control their tongues.

    Words spoken in anger can destroy a blissful marriage overnight.

    2. Never Be Too Proud To I Am Sorry.
    One thing that helped me and my wife and is still helping us is the ability to say I am sorry. This five-letter word (Sorry) is powerful.

    Learn to say I am sorry if you desire a peaceful and long-lasting marriage-

    There are two times you should say I am sorry. When you are right and when you are wrong. Why? So that peace can reign in your marriage. It’s better to be wrong and have a peaceful home than to be right and have a broken home.

    Don't be too arrogant to say “I am sorry” or “Please forgive me”. These are some of the most powerful words you will need to learn to use in your marriage.

    3. Never thr€aten your spouse with Divorce. There is no dignity in divorce. No thr€at of divorce or separation. Avoid mentioning divorce. Don’t even think of it because Love never fails. Decide to build a long-lasting marriage. God hates divorce.

    Every marriage has its challenges. True love is known in times of challenges. Fight for your marriage. Make up your mind to stay with your spouse in times of need. Remember the vow For better for worse. In sickness and in health be there.

    So fight for your marriage.

    4. Never refer to the past offenses of your spouse. Forgive and move on. Don’t say, last year you did this and that. Old issues should pass away.

    5. Never forget the goodness of your spouse when there is an issue.

    Don't turn your spouse into an enemy because of one single argument. Never turn your spouse into a devil because of one single argument. That’s why it is not good to make a decision when there is an argument. You may make a decision you may later regret.

    6. NEVER Raise your voice whenever there is an argument. DON’T SHOUT AT YOUR SPOUSE NO MATTER THE OFFENCE. Never shout at your spouse no matter what happen. The only time you are permitted to shout in marriage is when the house is on fire. God forbid. You should Talk as lovers and friends in marriage

    7. Never place a curse on your spouse no matter the offence. I read a story about a woman who told her husband never to come back home, and he never returned. He had an accident and d!ed on the spot. The tongue has the power of life and d€ath.

    8. Avoid trying to win every argument in your marriage. YOUR HOME IS NOT A LAW COURT. Don’t be Defensive. If you discover you are wrong, acknowledge it. Don't try to "win" the argument. So many fights or marital crises can be ended once you admit you are wrong instead of trying to defend yourself. You must Choose happiness over being right. Also, you don't have to argue over every little disagreement. Sometimes you have to move on from the petty differences you have with your spouse and focus on more important things

    9. NEVER raise your hand on your spouse.

    Never start destr0ying your property because you are angry. Domestic vi0lence is unacceptable. No matter how angry you are, never beat your spouse.

    10. Never Stop Caring When You Are Having Issues With Your Spouse. Don't stop cooking and serving your spouse, never stop calling to know how your spouse's day is going, never stop praying for your spouse, and never stop dropping money at home because there is a misunderstanding. Don't stop eating at home. Never suspend all the good things you have always done for your spouse because there is an issue

    11. Never Compare Your Spouse With Anybody

    No perfect marriage. Everyone you marry has a weakness. Only God does not have a weakness. So if you focus on your spouse's weakness you can't get the best out of his strength.

    Focus on what your spouse is doing right in marriage. Focus on his/her strengths, not his/her weaknesses.

    Stop focusing on the mistakes or weaknesses of your spouse. Be patient with your spouse. Try to understand and accept your differences and celebrate them.

    Never compare your husband to old boyfriends, your brother, father, pastor, or anyone else. Never compare your wife to your ex, mother, sisters, or pastor’s wife

    Stop comparing your marriage with someone else’s.

    Invest in your marriage,

    12. NEVER STOP TO PRAYING TOGETHER

    Don't let conflict, anger, or offense destroy your prayer life. Many Married couples slowly stop praying together the moment they have an issue in marriage. You see, the best time to pray with your spouse is when there is an issue.

    Once you stop praying because of any offense, you have allowed the devil to take a place in your home. Fight for your marriage by praying without ceasing. Your spouse is not your enemy. The devil is your enemy.

    You will not fail in marriage in Jesus name

    Kindly share this message with your loved ones
    12 NEGATIVE THINGS YOU MUST NEVER DO OR SAY DURING CONFLICT IN MARRIAGE📌📌📌📌📌📌📌📌📌 Disagreements in marriage are normal. Offense must come, no matter how holy and anointed you are. But we must learn to handle disputes with God's wisdom so that they won’t lead to MARITAL CRISIS AND DIVORCE. HERE ARE 12 THINGS YOU SHOULD NEVER DO DURING AN ARGUMENT WITH YOUR SPOUSE. 1. 📌Never say a word you may later regret. Never let your emotions control you. No matter how angry you are, never speak a word you will regret later. Avoid negative arguments. If you must argue, do it with love. Control your anger. Don’t abuse your tongue. Some couples are divorced today because they cannot control their tongues. Words spoken in anger can destroy a blissful marriage overnight. 2. 📌Never Be Too Proud To I Am Sorry. One thing that helped me and my wife and is still helping us is the ability to say I am sorry. This five-letter word (Sorry) is powerful. Learn to say I am sorry if you desire a peaceful and long-lasting marriage- There are two times you should say I am sorry. When you are right and when you are wrong. Why? So that peace can reign in your marriage. It’s better to be wrong and have a peaceful home than to be right and have a broken home. Don't be too arrogant to say “I am sorry” or “Please forgive me”. These are some of the most powerful words you will need to learn to use in your marriage. 3. 📌Never thr€aten your spouse with Divorce. There is no dignity in divorce. No thr€at of divorce or separation. Avoid mentioning divorce. Don’t even think of it because Love never fails. Decide to build a long-lasting marriage. God hates divorce. Every marriage has its challenges. True love is known in times of challenges. Fight for your marriage. Make up your mind to stay with your spouse in times of need. Remember the vow For better for worse. In sickness and in health be there. So fight for your marriage. 4. 📌Never refer to the past offenses of your spouse. Forgive and move on. Don’t say, last year you did this and that. Old issues should pass away. 5. 📌Never forget the goodness of your spouse when there is an issue. Don't turn your spouse into an enemy because of one single argument. Never turn your spouse into a devil because of one single argument. That’s why it is not good to make a decision when there is an argument. You may make a decision you may later regret. 6. 📌NEVER Raise your voice whenever there is an argument. DON’T SHOUT AT YOUR SPOUSE NO MATTER THE OFFENCE. Never shout at your spouse no matter what happen. The only time you are permitted to shout in marriage is when the house is on fire. God forbid. You should Talk as lovers and friends in marriage 7. 📌Never place a curse on your spouse no matter the offence. I read a story about a woman who told her husband never to come back home, and he never returned. He had an accident and d!ed on the spot. The tongue has the power of life and d€ath. 8. 📌Avoid trying to win every argument in your marriage. YOUR HOME IS NOT A LAW COURT. Don’t be Defensive. If you discover you are wrong, acknowledge it. Don't try to "win" the argument. So many fights or marital crises can be ended once you admit you are wrong instead of trying to defend yourself. You must Choose happiness over being right. Also, you don't have to argue over every little disagreement. Sometimes you have to move on from the petty differences you have with your spouse and focus on more important things 9. 📌NEVER raise your hand on your spouse. Never start destr0ying your property because you are angry. Domestic vi0lence is unacceptable. No matter how angry you are, never beat your spouse. 10. 📌Never Stop Caring When You Are Having Issues With Your Spouse. Don't stop cooking and serving your spouse, never stop calling to know how your spouse's day is going, never stop praying for your spouse, and never stop dropping money at home because there is a misunderstanding. Don't stop eating at home. Never suspend all the good things you have always done for your spouse because there is an issue 11. 📌Never Compare Your Spouse With Anybody No perfect marriage. Everyone you marry has a weakness. Only God does not have a weakness. So if you focus on your spouse's weakness you can't get the best out of his strength. Focus on what your spouse is doing right in marriage. Focus on his/her strengths, not his/her weaknesses. Stop focusing on the mistakes or weaknesses of your spouse. Be patient with your spouse. Try to understand and accept your differences and celebrate them. Never compare your husband to old boyfriends, your brother, father, pastor, or anyone else. Never compare your wife to your ex, mother, sisters, or pastor’s wife Stop comparing your marriage with someone else’s. Invest in your marriage, 12. 📌NEVER STOP TO PRAYING TOGETHER Don't let conflict, anger, or offense destroy your prayer life. Many Married couples slowly stop praying together the moment they have an issue in marriage. You see, the best time to pray with your spouse is when there is an issue. Once you stop praying because of any offense, you have allowed the devil to take a place in your home. Fight for your marriage by praying without ceasing. Your spouse is not your enemy. The devil is your enemy. You will not fail in marriage in Jesus name Kindly share this message with your loved ones 🙏
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  • I marry early, just 20 years old.
    My husband na 24 that time.

    We love ourself well-well.

    E no even reach one month for our marriage, I don carry belle.

    We happy as young couple wey dey expect their first pikin. We prepare everything down for the baby.

    But na for delivery room my joy begin turn to pain.

    I labour for almost 3 days.
    When I finally born, na baby boy, but the baby come weak.

    Two hours later, my pikin d!e.
    I cry tire.
    My husband too cry.

    But we encourage ourself say, "We go try again."

    Six months later, I carry belle again.
    After 9 months — another stillbirth.

    Third belle, the same thing happen.

    Na so my family say, “This marriage no be for you. Come out, go complete your university.”

    But I refuse. I love my husband. I believe say better go still happen.

    Some people say na spiritual matter.
    We begin waka from church to prophet, prayer upon prayer.

    Prophet assure us say “This time, e go work.” I carry belle again, the fourth one.

    I born the baby, the baby even cry small, but by evening the baby d!e.

    Doctor call am “sudden infant death.” No explanation. Just fear.

    Na that period doctor advise say make we give gap before we try again.

    I tell my husband make we try adopt for now.
    Him agree.

    I call my cousin wey say she dey work for one motherless home. We give her over 1.6 million. Na so she dupe us carry money vanish.

    My husband vex.
    Say him no even believe for adoption before, na just to please me. Him say make I no ask am money again.

    I begin follow the matter spiritually again.
    Different prophecies, no solution.

    One day, my friend tell me about one doctor for East wey young girls dey born give away babies for money.

    Baby Boy na 1.5 million, girl na 1 million.
    She say e legit.

    I tell my husband, he say, "I no dey interestedand i no get any money to bring out."

    I go borrow money.
    I give my friend 600k as first payment.

    One week later, na online I see video of my friend—dem dey beat her say she thief her neighbor pikin wan carry come give me.

    I shock.
    My heart cut.

    I run go show my husband. He say, "Better no involve me for this matter"

    Next day, police land arrest me.

    My husband say, “Follow them go. I go get lawyer.”

    I call my family, dem say, “As you no hear word when we try rescue you, make Love bail you out now.”

    Just like play, I land prison.
    No lawyer.
    No family.

    My husband visit me only 3 times. After that, silence.

    My friend wey thief the baby, her people raise money bail her.

    She promise to help me too. Nothing happen.

    I stay 5 years for prison for matter I no understand finish.

    Just because say I want born, just because say I no get patience, just because say I trust wrong people.

    Different NGO dey come prison.
    Dem go give us food, tissue, pad — and hope.

    Many promise to help me after I share my story. But nothing come out.

    Until one day, one woman wey be women advocate listen to me.

    She promise to help. I no believe, but she really help me comot from jail.

    When I reach house, my husband don move.
    Don remarry with three children already.

    When I go see am, him say make I find peace. Say our fate no match.

    That day, I wan just disappear. I tell the woman wey help me. She say, “Come stay with me.”

    She encourage me. Enrol me back for catering school make I refresh my baking skills.
    From there I start my small baking business.

    But inside me, I still dey cry.
    I no even fit look mirror.
    I don lose shape, lose beauty, lose hope.

    One day, I go deliver wedding cake.

    As i reach the venue the people bounce me — say I no fit enter because I look “dirty.” That day, I cry reach house.

    I tell myself, “I go change this story.”

    I download Pinterest app, dey learn how to dress my body type.

    I watch make-up beginners videos.
    I start to buy small affordable good clothes.

    I begin dey apply simple makeup.
    I switch to skin care wey dey moisturize my skin.

    I begin see my beauty again.

    Customers begin notice.
    Begin compliment me.

    I start dey take pictures. I start dey smile.

    My self-confidence begin return.

    One day, I go deliver cake again.
    I dress well.

    The bride say I fine. Na there one man collect my number, say na for business.

    But na love him come find.

    Him fine, young, tall — and kind.
    I open up tell am everything.

    He say, “Your past no be your name.
    Let’s build something new.”

    Today, I don marry again.
    I don born two boys through CS operation.

    Dem survive.
    My first son na 4 years, second one 2 years.

    My husband say no need to born again — these ones complete us. And truly, I no need anything else again.

    I don finally become mama.

    Today I dey grateful say After all my tough challenges God still change my story.

    ---

    To every woman wey don carry belle with joy but return house empty-handed — this message na for you.

    The pain of stillbirth no be small thing.

    Na one deep wound wey only God fit understand.

    Sometimes you go dey ask, “Why me?” Sometimes the silence go loud, the tears go come uninvited.

    But make you hear this one: you never fail.
    Your womb no betray you.

    Your heart still be the heart of a mother.

    And even if the world no see your kind of pain, God see am, and He go still comfort you in ways wey go shock you.

    To the women wey don lose their self-esteem because dem no get money take take care of their body, or childbirth don change the way dem look —

    My sister, remember say your beauty no end for body.

    Start small, love yourself again, dress well, start with your budget, manage your weight if necessary.

    Self love dey build back self esteem

    You go rise again and glow in your own time.

    To the women wey their husband don abandon them —

    No carry your life hang for one person wey walk away.

    God never walk away from you.

    Stand up, dust your pain, start again.
    Look good, take care of yourself.
    You still fit laugh again, love again, and shine again.

    To Every Woman and Family wey dey fight silent battles —

    May God surprise you with joy wey go wipe all your secret tears.
    Amen.

    #everyoneシ#woman #virals #marriage
    I marry early, just 20 years old. My husband na 24 that time. We love ourself well-well. E no even reach one month for our marriage, I don carry belle. We happy as young couple wey dey expect their first pikin. We prepare everything down for the baby. But na for delivery room my joy begin turn to pain. I labour for almost 3 days. When I finally born, na baby boy, but the baby come weak. Two hours later, my pikin d!e. I cry tire. My husband too cry. But we encourage ourself say, "We go try again." Six months later, I carry belle again. After 9 months — another stillbirth. Third belle, the same thing happen. Na so my family say, “This marriage no be for you. Come out, go complete your university.” But I refuse. I love my husband. I believe say better go still happen. Some people say na spiritual matter. We begin waka from church to prophet, prayer upon prayer. Prophet assure us say “This time, e go work.” I carry belle again, the fourth one. I born the baby, the baby even cry small, but by evening the baby d!e. Doctor call am “sudden infant death.” No explanation. Just fear. Na that period doctor advise say make we give gap before we try again. I tell my husband make we try adopt for now. Him agree. I call my cousin wey say she dey work for one motherless home. We give her over 1.6 million. Na so she dupe us carry money vanish. My husband vex. Say him no even believe for adoption before, na just to please me. Him say make I no ask am money again. I begin follow the matter spiritually again. Different prophecies, no solution. One day, my friend tell me about one doctor for East wey young girls dey born give away babies for money. Baby Boy na 1.5 million, girl na 1 million. She say e legit. I tell my husband, he say, "I no dey interestedand i no get any money to bring out." I go borrow money. I give my friend 600k as first payment. One week later, na online I see video of my friend—dem dey beat her say she thief her neighbor pikin wan carry come give me. I shock. My heart cut. I run go show my husband. He say, "Better no involve me for this matter" Next day, police land arrest me. My husband say, “Follow them go. I go get lawyer.” I call my family, dem say, “As you no hear word when we try rescue you, make Love bail you out now.” Just like play, I land prison. No lawyer. No family. My husband visit me only 3 times. After that, silence. My friend wey thief the baby, her people raise money bail her. She promise to help me too. Nothing happen. I stay 5 years for prison for matter I no understand finish. Just because say I want born, just because say I no get patience, just because say I trust wrong people. Different NGO dey come prison. Dem go give us food, tissue, pad — and hope. Many promise to help me after I share my story. But nothing come out. Until one day, one woman wey be women advocate listen to me. She promise to help. I no believe, but she really help me comot from jail. When I reach house, my husband don move. Don remarry with three children already. When I go see am, him say make I find peace. Say our fate no match. That day, I wan just disappear. I tell the woman wey help me. She say, “Come stay with me.” She encourage me. Enrol me back for catering school make I refresh my baking skills. From there I start my small baking business. But inside me, I still dey cry. I no even fit look mirror. I don lose shape, lose beauty, lose hope. One day, I go deliver wedding cake. As i reach the venue the people bounce me — say I no fit enter because I look “dirty.” That day, I cry reach house. I tell myself, “I go change this story.” I download Pinterest app, dey learn how to dress my body type. I watch make-up beginners videos. I start to buy small affordable good clothes. I begin dey apply simple makeup. I switch to skin care wey dey moisturize my skin. I begin see my beauty again. Customers begin notice. Begin compliment me. I start dey take pictures. I start dey smile. My self-confidence begin return. One day, I go deliver cake again. I dress well. The bride say I fine. Na there one man collect my number, say na for business. But na love him come find. Him fine, young, tall — and kind. I open up tell am everything. He say, “Your past no be your name. Let’s build something new.” Today, I don marry again. I don born two boys through CS operation. Dem survive. My first son na 4 years, second one 2 years. My husband say no need to born again — these ones complete us. And truly, I no need anything else again. I don finally become mama. Today I dey grateful say After all my tough challenges God still change my story. --- To every woman wey don carry belle with joy but return house empty-handed — this message na for you. The pain of stillbirth no be small thing. Na one deep wound wey only God fit understand. Sometimes you go dey ask, “Why me?” Sometimes the silence go loud, the tears go come uninvited. But make you hear this one: you never fail. Your womb no betray you. Your heart still be the heart of a mother. And even if the world no see your kind of pain, God see am, and He go still comfort you in ways wey go shock you. To the women wey don lose their self-esteem because dem no get money take take care of their body, or childbirth don change the way dem look — My sister, remember say your beauty no end for body. Start small, love yourself again, dress well, start with your budget, manage your weight if necessary. Self love dey build back self esteem You go rise again and glow in your own time. To the women wey their husband don abandon them — No carry your life hang for one person wey walk away. God never walk away from you. Stand up, dust your pain, start again. Look good, take care of yourself. You still fit laugh again, love again, and shine again. To Every Woman and Family wey dey fight silent battles — May God surprise you with joy wey go wipe all your secret tears. Amen. #everyoneシ゚ #woman #virals #marriage
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