Stop associating with single ladies as a married woman! Before you attáck me listen; this is the quote you will often hear when you are about getting married or after your wedding ceremony. Men and women will tell you this; some men will even enforce their wives to let go of all their female single friends. I won’t practically say that the statement is inaccurate, but I’ll tell you that there is an exception to it: It’s literally unfair to generalize that all single ladies are a thrèat to married women. True friends, regardless of marital status, bring value and support to our lives. The single ladies you should be scared of are those who belittle marriage or make you feel like you’re missing out. The ones that often come around you to ring a bell that marriage is not an achievement; The ones that never see anything good about marriage, the reasons you will be careful of them is for them not to influence you wrongly, to make you insecure or to feel like there is something you are doing wrong or you are missing out on something, and NOT the genuine friends that have been there with you sincerely. Not the good single friends that give you the best advice, tell you when you are wrong ; and commend when you did well. The ones that try to make sure you are fine and give you motivations when you are down. *Don’t assume married friends are automatically better; some may bring unnecessary drama and competition, more than the single friends you are asked to avoid. Don’t just do away with good friends because you’re married, unless there is a genuine reason for it . Being single is not a disease. It’s a life stage and choice. You never know when you might need these friends. #yourfriend Lekwa princess ijeoma #TheVoice

Marriage is not a reward for good character; it is not a moral achievement award. Anyone can be lucky to find a life partner. There's a partner for everyone who desire to settle down. The goal isn't to be decent, godly, or responsible solely for marriage; it's to please Christ. We are living for Christ. Don't be dismayed when someone with a different lifestyle gets married; everyone has their match. Our focus is to please our Heavenly Father, live for His glory, to win souls for Him, and to wait for the bridegroom. Being responsible solely for marriage is a 50/50 gamble; luck or disappointment may follow. Even if marriage is considered a reward for living right, it's not just any marriage. God desires Kingdom marriages, that will align with God's will. #Lekwa princess ijeoma #TheVoice

Dear friend, a reminder from my heart: never count anyone out in life! Things may seem unstable and unsteady for someone now, and it may appear like others are doing better. But remember, life can change in a day. It can only take a minute for God to lift someone from dust to glory, surpassing even those who seemed more successful. Be cautious, for we never know what the future holds! Never count out a man or woman who still has breath in them. Never count anyone out, for tomorrow holds unfathomable possibilities and promises. As long as they're still breathing, their story is still being written, and their best days may be yet to come. Dear you? Don’t count yourself out! God is not done with you. Your story is not over yet. Onye ma echi? Mmadu abughi Chukwu. #Lekwa princess ijeoma #TheVoice

Don’t spend too much time mending hearts you didn’t break. The disadvantage of trying to mend a heart that’s broken is that you can end up getting broken too, especially when the person is not ready to heal. If your partner has more bad days than happy moments, and it affects their behavior towards you, you need to reassess if it’s something you can cope and tolerate. I believe that when your partner is going through tough times, you should be a shoulder for them to lean on, but when this is a consistent pattern, you need to reevaluate that relationship. Ask yourself, is this the energy i want to build my life on? People should learn to heal, not just for themselves, but to make their partner feel safe. You shouldn’t dwell so much on whatever that has broken you, so that it won’t come in between what you share with someone. When you take so long to heal, you make the relationship you share tóx!c, people get tired of saying sorry or always seeing you moody. You need to do your best to heal for others to feel safe, you shouldn’t always allow your bad times, tough times and situations to make your partner feel uneasy , as much as they are willing to help, be willing to heal. #ijeoma #TheVoice Lekwa princess ijeoma