Thank God we had a very Successful Gada Lunch Today. Today's Event Was indeed Very Historic as it was Very Eventful.

Thanks for a successful day

Today, the Abuja chapter of Gada.chat online platform was launched. It was a huge success.

“Because of my success in business, many men were intimidated. Before marriage, I have dated men that were intimidated by my success. Any small thing they will say is because of what I think I have, and this is what happens to most successful women. The way I started fashion, I never imagined I would be a fashion designer because my mom was a tailor and each time she's working, we usually go by to help, not until I discovered it was more of a talent. I have always thought I would go to school, become educated, and become a career woman. Today, I'm an owner of a very big fashion brand. I never regret dropping out from school to pursue my dream. If I didn't, I'm not sure I would have been where I am today. If you have the opportunity to study, do it. The best decision for me might not be the best decision for you. If you're a successful woman, there's a way people will always be looking at you. If you don't get married early, they will say it's because you have too much influence or too much money, so men can't come after you. But don't limit yourself. Any man that can't be with you is not man enough.” — Veekee James

“Because of my success in business, many men were intimidated. Before marriage, I have dated men that were intimidated by my success. Any small thing they will say is because of what I think I have, and this is what happens to most successful women. The way I started fashion, I never imagined I would be a fashion designer because my mom was a tailor and each time she's working, we usually go by to help, not until I discovered it was more of a talent. I have always thought I would go to school, become educated, and become a career woman. Today, I'm an owner of a very big fashion brand. I never regret dropping out from school to pursue my dream. If I didn't, I'm not sure I would have been where I am today. If you have the opportunity to study, do it. The best decision for me might not be the best decision for you. If you're a successful woman, there's a way people will always be looking at you. If you don't get married early, they will say it's because you have too much influence or too much money, so men can't come after you. But don't limit yourself. Any man that can't be with you is not man enough.” — Veekee James

“Because of my success in business, many men were intimidated. Before marriage, I have dated men that were intimidated by my success. Any small thing they will say is because of what I think I have, and this is what happens to most successful women. The way I started fashion, I never imagined I would be a fashion designer because my mom was a tailor and each time she's working, we usually go by to help, not until I discovered it was more of a talent. I have always thought I would go to school, become educated, and become a career woman. Today, I'm an owner of a very big fashion brand. I never regret dropping out from school to pursue my dream. If I didn't, I'm not sure I would have been where I am today. If you have the opportunity to study, do it. The best decision for me might not be the best decision for you. If you're a successful woman, there's a way people will always be looking at you. If you don't get married early, they will say it's because you have too much influence or too much money, so men can't come after you. But don't limit yourself. Any man that can't be with you is not man enough.” — Veekee James

“Because of my success in business, many men were intimidated. Before marriage, I have dated men that were intimidated by my success. Any small thing they will say is because of what I think I have, and this is what happens to most successful women. The way I started fashion, I never imagined I would be a fashion designer because my mom was a tailor and each time she's working, we usually go by to help, not until I discovered it was more of a talent. I have always thought I would go to school, become educated, and become a career woman. Today, I'm an owner of a very big fashion brand. I never regret dropping out from school to pursue my dream. If I didn't, I'm not sure I would have been where I am today. If you have the opportunity to study, do it. The best decision for me might not be the best decision for you. If you're a successful woman, there's a way people will always be looking at you. If you don't get married early, they will say it's because you have too much influence or too much money, so men can't come after you. But don't limit yourself. Any man that can't be with you is not man enough.” — Veekee James

“Because of my success in business, many men were intimidated. Before marriage, I have dated men that were intimidated by my success. Any small thing they will say is because of what I think I have, and this is what happens to most successful women. The way I started fashion, I never imagined I would be a fashion designer because my mom was a tailor and each time she's working, we usually go by to help, not until I discovered it was more of a talent. I have always thought I would go to school, become educated, and become a career woman. Today, I'm an owner of a very big fashion brand. I never regret dropping out from school to pursue my dream. If I didn't, I'm not sure I would have been where I am today. If you have the opportunity to study, do it. The best decision for me might not be the best decision for you. If you're a successful woman, there's a way people will always be looking at you. If you don't get married early, they will say it's because you have too much influence or too much money, so men can't come after you. But don't limit yourself. Any man that can't be with you is not man enough.” — Veekee James

“Because of my success in business, many men were intimidated. Before marriage, I have dated men that were intimidated by my success. Any small thing they will say is because of what I think I have, and this is what happens to most successful women. The way I started fashion, I never imagined I would be a fashion designer because my mom was a tailor and each time she's working, we usually go by to help, not until I discovered it was more of a talent. I have always thought I would go to school, become educated, and become a career woman. Today, I'm an owner of a very big fashion brand. I never regret dropping out from school to pursue my dream. If I didn't, I'm not sure I would have been where I am today. If you have the opportunity to study, do it. The best decision for me might not be the best decision for you. If you're a successful woman, there's a way people will always be looking at you. If you don't get married early, they will say it's because you have too much influence or too much money, so men can't come after you. But don't limit yourself. Any man that can't be with you is not man enough.” — Veekee James

HOW TO SERVE YOUR HUSBAND'S MEAL.😋 Some wives are used to buying fanciful bowls, plates and serving dishes all to decorate their store/kitchens. They serve their husband with just any meal dish but when a visitor is around, they go into the store, to get a nice dish plate to serve a visitor. Listen to me, NOBODY IS SUPERIOR TO YOUR HUSBAND!!! 💥 To have the best of marriage, you must serve your husband's meal as a king!... If you haven't been to a palace to dine with a king before, watch movies to see it. ? Don't just put rice and stew in one dirty flat plate for your husband. Serve his stew separately, if possible, meat/fish separately. 💥 Get a beautiful cup for his water/juice. 💥 Don't let your kids, siblings, housemaid or anyone else serve your husband's meal (except for reasons).. Serve your king by yourself! 💥 *When you want to serve his meal, serve with honour and respect. Don't just dump his food on the table.* 💥 *You need to eat together with your husband sometimes and if by any reason, you have eaten before him, sometimes, ensure you sit with him, ask if he is okay with the meal*. Then pack the plates when he is done*.The only place most men experience excellent meal service is at the eatery or when they go to watch movies. When you serve /treat your husband like a King, then he sees you and treats you like a queen! *And when you serve/treat him as a slave,.. He might go out to get a better service..* Then you must not complain. I know some ladies would be like this teaching is odd.. Yes it would be odd to some but for those who seek a peaceful and longlasting marriage.. IT IS A SUCCESS DOSE. *Men's heart move to where they are treated with respect.* *Take note of this! Little things that we do ignore go a very long way keeping our home happy and successful*. *Husband and wife who eats together, prays together conquers all marital obstacles.👌🏾*

🧠 *Cognitive Biases* 🧠 💁🏻‍♀️ *Master Them Before They Master You!* 🫵🏻 🔰 *Confirmation Bias:* 💁🏻‍♀️ We seek information that confirms existing beliefs, and ignore contrary evidence. ❇️ *Example:* Only following news sources you agree with. ✅ *Fix:* Actively seek opposing viewpoints; before decisions, assign a "devil's advocate" 🔰 *Sunk Cost Fallacy:* 💁🏻‍♀️ We keep investing because we already have, even when it's not rational. ❇️ *Example:* A company pours money into a failing product because they've already invested. ✅ *Fix:* Ask, "If I were starting today, would I still invest?" 🔰 *Halo Effect:* 💁🏻‍♀️ Our impression of one trait impacts how we see unrelated ones. ❇️ *Example:* A well-dressed candidate is assumed to be more competent. ✅ *Fix:* Seek evidence, not reputation, appearance, or confidence. 🔰 *Recency Bias:* 💁🏻‍♀️ Recent events have a stronger influence on decisions. ❇️ *Example:* A manager rates an employee based on their last two weeks, ignoring consistent performance all year. ✅ *Fix:* Pull back and look long-term. 🔰 *Optimism Bias:* 💁🏻‍♀️ We believe we're less likely to experience negative outcomes. ❇️ *Example:* Founders assume their business won't fail, even though most do. ✅ *Fix:* Consider worst-case scenarios before making big decisions. 🔰 *Anchoring Bias:* 💁🏻‍♀️ We rely too heavily on the first piece of information we receive. ❇️ *Example:* A job candidate struggles to negotiate upward from a lowball offer. ✅ *Fix:* Don't accept an initial value as your reference point - find independent sources. 🔰 *Self-Serving Bias:* 💁🏻‍♀️ We take credit for successes but blame external factors for failures. ❇️ *Example:* A manager takes credit for a project's success but blames the team if it fails. ✅ *Fix:* Force yourself to own mistakes, not just successes. 🔰 *Negativity Bias:* 💁🏻‍♀️ We give more weight to negative experiences than positive ones. ❇️ *Example:* An employee gets 10 positive comments and I negative, but only remembers the latter ✅ *Fix:* Keep a list of past successes to balance your perception. 🔰 *Availability Heuristic:* 💁🏻‍♀️ We judge the likelihood of events based on how easily examples come to mind ❇️ *Example:* Avoiding flying after seeing a plane crash in the news ✅ *Fix:* If you're using anecdotes, ask: "Is this actually common, or just memorable?"" 🔰 *Dunning-Kruger Effect:* 💁🏻‍♀️ Incompetent people overestimate abilities, experts underestimate ❇️ *Example:* Attempting to rewire your house after watching one YouTube video house ✅ *Fix:* If you're a confident novice, assume you're overestimating and get feedback 🔰 *Framing Effect:* 💁🏻‍♀️ The way information is presented influences our decisions ❇️ *Example:* "90% fat-free" sounds healthier than "10% fat" ✅ *Fix:* Ask, "Would I feel different if this was worded another way?" 🔰 *Bandwagon Effect:* 💁🏻‍♀️ We adopt beliefs or behaviors just because others do. ❇️ *Example:* Consumers rush to buy a trendy item without considering if they actually like it. ✅ *Fix:* Ask, "Would I still believe this if no one else did?" 🔰 *Endowment Effect:* 💁🏻‍♀️ We overvalue things just because we own them. ❇️ *Example:* A person believes their car is worth more than market value just because it's theirs ✅ *Fix:* Ask, "Would I pay this much for it if I didn't already own it?" 🙆🏻‍♀️ *Thanks for reading 📖. 💁🏻‍♀️ Share with your friends as well.

Don't tell me you cannot make genuine success in Nigeria because it's a scene of sane business people