BLESSING CEO TO VDM: A HEARTFELT APOLOGY AND APPRECIATION! "Blessing CEO to Verydarkblackman: 'Verydarkman, I'm no longer your enemy. Thank you for all you do for humanity. You risk your life to help those in need, and your outreach to the Benue people is truly commendable. Your selflessness is inspiring. Kudos to you for using your platform to make a difference!' 💕 #Verydarkblackman #BlessingCEO #HumanityFirst #Selflessness #Philanthropy #Appreciation #NewChapter #highlightseveryonefollowers2025highlightseveryonefollowers2025

If selfishness is the key to being miserable, then selflessness must be the key to being happy!

Can you sacrifice for someone without expecting anything in return?…….It is called selflessness

1. Can you sacrifice for someone without expecting anything in return?… It's called selflessness 2. Can you be accountable at all times and be known for who you are?… It's called integrity 3. Can you be there for people even when you’re not in the best shape yourself?… It's called compassion 4. Can you keep doing the right thing even when no one is watching?… It's called character 5. Can you help those who can never repay you?… It's called kindness 6. Can you give your time without seeking recognition?… It's called humility 7. Can you stay true to your values in the face of pressure?… It's called conviction 8. Can you admit when you’re wrong and make amends?… It's called maturity 9. Can you lead others without letting power change you?… It's called servant leadership 10. Can you stay hopeful even when everything seems lost?… It's called faith 11. Can you give without expecting to receive back?… It's called generosity 12. Can you love even when you’re not loved in return?… It's called unconditional love 13. Can you wait without complaining?… It's called patience 14. Can you keep learning despite your achievements?… It's called teachability 15. Can you take correction without being defensive?… It's called openness 16. Can you forgive those who deeply hurt you?… It's called grace 17. Can you stand firm when your peers compromise?… It's called courage 18. Can you celebrate others even when you’re struggling?… It's called sincerity 19. Can you listen to understand and not just to reply?… It's called empathy 20. Can you start again after repeated failures?… It's called resilience 21. Can you be faithful to your partner even when no one is watching?… It's called loyalty 22. Can you stay content while waiting for your time?… It's called contentment 23. Can you be honest even when a lie is easier?… It's called truthfulness 24. Can you stay calm when insulted or provoked?… It's called self-control 25. Can you hold on to your dreams in the face of setbacks?… It's called determination 26. Can you lift others while still climbing?… It's called support 27. Can you work hard without needing praise?… It's called dedication 28. Can you pursue excellence even when it’s hard?… It's called discipline 29. Can you apologize when you are wrong?… It's called humanness 30. Can you walk away from wrong even when it’s popular?… It's called principle In a world that often rewards showmanship and shortcuts, choosing values like selflessness, integrity, and compassion might seem old-fashioned. But these are the foundations that build lasting legacies. Whether or not anyone is watching, choose the path of strength and character. Do good, be consistent, and let your life speak loudly without needing to shout.

“Tems had just ₦200 in her account… yet she still ordered food for everyone.” 😳❤️ Tems’ manager, Muyiwa Awoniyi, shares how her selflessness and mindset led him to turn down a standard contract—and build a whole company with her instead. “She was chasing me to sign my own contract. I’ve never seen that before. She would ask me, ‘Have you signed? Please sign it, we need to start moving.’ And I said to her, ‘Wait—you don’t mind signing paperwork?’ That’s when I knew… this girl isn’t the average girl and I could rock with her for life.” #1Official

Dear LADY... Are you a BLESSING or a BURDEN? It still baffles me how some ladies go into a relationship expecting the guy to be their savior. Some ladies have turned our brothers to an automated teller machine. They won't even go into the relationship with their problems alone, they go into it with that of their family members too. Aunty, it is important for you to go into a Godly relationship as a BLESSING not a BURDEN. Determine to be a blessing to any man that finds you. Let him be forever grateful to God for choosing you! Don't be a burden to the man God has prepared for you. You are more than what you think! Do all you can to make a POSITIVE impact in his life. Relationship and marriage is all about what you two can bring to the table. It is all about how you can make each other a better person in every aspects of life. It takes SELF-CENTEREDNESS to ruin a relationship. Don't keep working for your personal gains in that relationship, instead, be the impact you want to see. A successful relationship is built on SELFLESSNESS. What impact have you made in the life of that brother since you gave him a YES? Abi your own is just to receive gifts, money and attention? What contributions have you made to that relationship? How many good virtues have you attracted into his life? Have you been a true friend and partner? Have you been able to strengthen his walk with God? Have you impacted him positively in all areas of life? Aunty, you are woman of Substance. A woman of Knowledge, a carrier of LIFE and LIGHT. Your impact on your man carries an heavy weight. Your impact in his life goes a long way. Be the best thing that will ever happen to your man. Be a major BLESSING in the course of his destiny not a BURDEN. You are a miracle on two legs, much more than you think. Live in that consciousness! Say this to yourself, I am a BLESSING and not a BURDEN.

👩‍🍼❤‍🩹Moms are the epitome of selflessness, love, and strength. They nurture, guide, and inspire us with unwavering devotion. Their kindness, patience, and generosity shape us into the people we are today. With gentle hands, they wipe away our tears, and with comforting words, they soothe our souls. We honor and remember the moms who have passed on, whose love and legacy continue to live in our hearts. And we celebrate the moms who are still with us, who continue to be our rock, our confidante, and our forever friend. Thank you, Mom, for being a blessing in our lives. Your love will always be with us.🙏🏼❤‍🩹🫂 I hope this message captures the love and appreciation for all mothers, both present and departed.🫂❤‍🩹

1. A Father will stay hungry at work so he can bring food for the family 2. A Father will be insulted at work by the boss but will keep quiet because of his family 3. A Father will work extra hours even when tired to ensure his children’s future 4. A Father will sacrifice his dreams for the betterment of his children 5. A Father will take on any job, no matter how difficult, to provide for his family 6. A Father will wake up early and sleep late to make sure everything is okay at home 7. A Father will make sure his children never feel the struggle he's going through 8. A Father will put his own needs aside to fulfill the needs of his family 9. A Father will push through the hardest days with a smile, just to see his kids happy 10. A Father will give his all even when there’s not much left to give 11. A Father will risk his health for the sake of the family’s well-being 12. A Father will quietly carry his burdens so his children never have to know hardship 13. A Father will be the pillar of strength for his family, even when he feels weak 14. A Father will compromise his own comfort to provide comfort for his family 15. A Father will do whatever it takes to make sure his children have a better life than he did 16. A Father will work hard and never complain, because he knows his family depends on him 17. A Father will teach his children to be strong, even when he’s struggling to be strong himself 18. A Father will love unconditionally, even when life is unfair to him 19. A Father will sacrifice his own happiness to ensure his family thrives 20. A Father will never give up on his family, even when the world gives up on him To all the fathers out there, your sacrifices and love never go unnoticed. You carry the weight of your family with grace and strength, even when it feels heavy. Know that your efforts are shaping the future and leaving a legacy of love, perseverance, and selflessness. Keep going

Selflessness is a key to greatness. Let us serve if we must get to the top

ADOKA COMMUNITY BURDEN BEARING: THE ACT OF A GENERATIONAL THINKER LEADER! As that Adoka concerned, genuine, sincere, selfless and sacrificial burden bearer whose primary and major interest is to see to the community's overcoming the age long endemic water challenge confronting her since the days of our forefathers and till date. This is one of those my solo/independent, painstaking, sincere, selfless and sacrificial Adoka community burden bearing adventure and journey into searching for a possible solution that will salvage that age long water challenge confronting her. And to eventually bring succour and relief to us all that are inhabitants and indigenes of the community inclusively. As shown in the pictures below was a one full week geophysical survey searching for sustainable underground water for a possible borehole drilling and installation (being the first batch communities surveyed) carried out for me by JAGMORES SERVICES BOREHOLES in 9 communities of Adoka covering from: Opa community 1 spot Aiya community 1 spot Aune community 1 spot Centre community 3 spots Okpaflo community 1 spot Ogodumu community 1 spot Ipepe community 1 spot Olakpga community 1 spot Umogidi community 1 spot This is a self sponsored project that cost me a huge sum of Seven Hundred And Fifty Thousand Naria (N750,000) only including a spot survey that cost Fifty Thousand Naria (N50,000) each and all the necessary logistics throughout the one week survey exercise carried out in those 9 Adoka communities with discovery of water at 11 spots two years ago. There is more efforts been put in place and on course to eventually execute the real project of drilling and installing the boreholes to serve and supply these respective Adoka communities portable drinking water. Thereby, putting an end to the age long water challenge confronting the communities by the grace of God This selflessness and sacrifice was precipitated by my long burning passion, desire, advocacies and pursuit towards bringing a lasting and sustainable intervention to these long existing and neglected menace confronting my beloved homing community Adoka. As a good, burdened and concerned citizen, I will not fold my hands to watch, wait and look only out for politicians or government to come and help which they may not come. So, I choose to take the bull by the horn and independently make this historic sacrifice by doing this foundational part trusting God to breath on it and see me to its fruition sustainably. God helping us, this is a generational burden projected been courageously and purposefully taken upon my shoulder independently that will see great success and eventual completion going forward if Christ tarry to come. Many thanks to the Och'Adoka Alegwu, The Adoka area traditional council,Rev. James Oyi Prof. Bishop, Barr. Sunday Ojama Oche Felix Williams O. Ofoine Frank Olokpo and many others and communities for standing solidly by me and also offering us water to drink throughout the one week field work. Including the woman at Aiya who roasted yam with palm oil for us to each while working in the field at Aiya community. ADOKA IN NO DISTANT TIME BY THE MERCIES AND GRACE OF GOD MUST BE RELIEVED OF THIS UGLY AND DEADLY WATER CHALLENGE FACING HER OVER THE YEARS. THE UNCONVENTIONAL VOICE! ADV. NGBEDE OFOINE ADOKA-OLE, ACF. From that only home community Adoka. ADOKA-OLE!!! Idoma Nation. Benue State. IN GOD WE TRUST

Two days ago we celebrated mother's day, come to think of it who is a mother? A mother is someone who nurtures, cares for, and provides love and support to a child. This can be biological, adoptive, or even in a chosen family dynamic. A mother isn’t just defined by giving birth but by the role she plays in a child's life—offering guidance, protection, and unconditional love. Characteristics of a mother A mother is often characterized by a mix of emotional, psychological, and practical qualities. While every mother is unique, some common characteristics include: 1. Unconditional Love – A mother’s love is deep, unwavering, and not based on conditions. She cares for her children regardless of their flaws. 2. Nurturing Nature – She provides emotional and physical support, ensuring her children feel safe, loved, and cared for. 3. Patience – Raising children requires immense patience, from teaching life lessons to handling tantrums. 4. Selflessness – A mother often puts her child’s needs before her own, sacrificing time, sleep, and personal desires for their well-being. 5. Strength and Resilience – She remains strong through challenges, whether emotional, financial, or personal, to support her family. 6. Guidance and Wisdom – A mother imparts life lessons, values, and knowledge, helping her children navigate life’s ups and downs. 7. Protectiveness – She instinctively protects her child from harm, whether emotional or physical. 8. Compassion and Empathy – Understanding her child’s feelings and struggles, she provides comfort and reassurance. 9. Dedication and Hard Work – Whether she’s a stay-at-home mom, a working mother, or balancing both, she is committed to providing a better life for her child. 10. Forgiveness – Even when children make mistakes, a mother forgives and continues to support them. While these characteristics are common, motherhood looks different for everyone. Some mothers may express love through actions rather than words, while others may be more emotional. What do you think defines a mother best? Let's have your opinion on this

4 ejaculation skills that secretly turn her on Ejaculation is a hot topic when it comes to sex, but the debate is usually about how long you can delay it in order to make sex more intense and more pleasurable for your lady. Nevertheless, new studies have found that the volume and intensity of your ejaculation are also very important to female sexual pleasure. There are a lot of factors that REALLY turn a woman on when it comes to semen, but the most important of them is, of course, biological. Women are wired to associate sperm with procreation – even if they don’t want a child right now. A powerful boatload of semen indicates a healthy and fertile male who is not only able to get a woman pregnant quickly, but also strong enough to provide for a potential family. And that turns her on like crazy! So let’s talk about the sexiest ejaculation skills you can develop to make your lady obsessed with getting naked: Your semen volume Adult performers you see in X-rated videos blow impressive loads… and while I always tell you it’s not healthy to compare yourself to other men, I know you will do that anyway – because it’s human nature. And women also consume porn nowadays – which means she might have some… big expectations when it comes to your load. The thing is women associate the volume of your load with the level of attraction and pleasure you experience while having sex with them. They think the more you shoot, the more satisfied and into them you are. This is the reason why your lady will get more and more into sex with you if your load is consistent. Your ability to delay ejaculation When you’re able to delay your ejaculation even when it’s obvious that you’re totally into what’s happening, you communicate your masculine strength, something that makes women obsessed with getting naked. Nothing is sexier than a man who is strong enough to control his sexual impulses even when it seems like ejaculation is inevitable. Plus, the fact that you’re doing it to prolong her pleasure is even more exciting. A woman will do anything for a man who is capable of so much strength and selflessness. The ability to ejaculate every time There is this myth that women find it harder to orgasm while men can do it easily and as many times as they want. But the truth is a lot of men experience the inability to ejaculate, and the causes are the same: stress, lack of proper sleep, powerful emotions or even a poor diet. However, many studies have found that women find it very distressing when their partner is suddenly unable to ejaculate, and that is because they feel they’re not desired or attractive enough. It’s actually a sure way to destroy their night and their self-esteem. If this happens to you I recommend paying attention to your lifestyle. If you are stressed it might help to get into yoga or meditation. Your diet is also very important, so make sure you eat as many fresh foods as you can. Aim to sleep at least 7 hours every night. The sounds you make while ejaculating While women don’t like men who scream as hard as they do during sex play, it’s just as bad to remain completely silent – and that’s because we can’t tell if you’re into it or not or if you even like us. Plus, a powerful scream at that peak moment of release makes you look sexier and more masculine while it makes us proud for sharing that special erotic experience with you. So try to give her subtle but somehow strong clues that you’re completely into it. Hot kisses, #BetasexBetalife