*How to keep a relationship happy & strong …*

Love takes work, but it’s worth it every day . Show up for each other, even when life gets busy . Small gestures matter—text them "I love you" or surprise them with their favorite snack . Laugh together often—joy keeps love alive . Listen more than you speak, and really hear their heart . Never take them for granted—appreciation builds love higher . Keep choosing them, even on tough days .

Fights will come, but don’t let anger win . Take a breath, cool down, and talk it out . Say "I’m sorry" when you’re wrong—pride ruins love . Forgive quickly, because holding grudges hurts you both . Remember why you fell for them in the first place . Love isn’t perfect—it’s two people trying, every single day . Together, you’re stronger than any problem .

Never stop dating your partner—keep the spark alive ! Plan little surprises, like a picnic or a movie night . Hold hands, kiss often, and stay close—touch keeps love warm . Say "I love you" like you mean it, every time . Grow together, dream together, and build a future side by side . Love is a choice—make it every morning when you wake up . Start today, and keep fighting for what matters most—**each other** !

*OUR FRIDAY MORNING DEVOTION!*
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*So let’s not get tired of doing what is good. At just the right time we will reap a harvest of blessing if we don’t give up.*
Galatians 6:9

*When you’re doing the right thing but nothing is changing. God already has plans for you and He is working behind the scenes. He’s lining up the favor and arranging the breaks you need. At the right time, your harvest of blessing will come. Now here’s the key: If there’s a right time, that means any other time is the wrong time. It takes faith and patience to see the promises. God knows what He’s doing. If it hasn’t happened yet, it hasn’t been the right time. But your right time is already on the schedule. In the waiting process, God is doing a work in you, getting you stronger, developing your character. What God is going to do is going to be bigger, better, and more fulfilling than you could imagine. Know God and be unstoppable!!*🙏🏽


*Good morning to you all, God loves you and he cares for you...keep the faith!*👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

*OUR FRIDAY MORNING DEVOTION!*
https://whatsapp.com/channel/0029VaGhjo07tkjCfXdy322U

*So let’s not get tired of doing what is good. At just the right time we will reap a harvest of blessing if we don’t give up.*
Galatians 6:9

*When you’re doing the right thing but nothing is changing. God already has plans for you and He is working behind the scenes. He’s lining up the favor and arranging the breaks you need. At the right time, your harvest of blessing will come. Now here’s the key: If there’s a right time, that means any other time is the wrong time. It takes faith and patience to see the promises. God knows what He’s doing. If it hasn’t happened yet, it hasn’t been the right time. But your right time is already on the schedule. In the waiting process, God is doing a work in you, getting you stronger, developing your character. What God is going to do is going to be bigger, better, and more fulfilling than you could imagine. Know God and be unstoppable!!*🙏🏽


*Good morning to you all, God loves you and he cares for you...keep the faith!*👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

I was with Iruoma in the meeting room when Kosi badged into the room unannounced.

Immediately I disassociate from Iruoma. Kosi cleared her throat. My friend will you speak up and stop acting up. Iruoma said to Kosi.

Sorry ma, Just that someone wants to see the manager. Kosi said. Me? What's the problem? I asked Kosi.

She wouldn't say, She just wants to see you and she has threatened to bring the hotel down if you don't see her right this moment. Kosi said.

Okay bring her to my office. I said to Kosi. Excuse me ma. I would like to attend to this issue. I said as I left the meeting room to my office.

When I got to the office which previously belong to Cynthia. I had cold shiver run through my spine. I didn't know if I should have rejected the position as a manager , I felt like I had a hand in the dëåth of my friend Mike.

I have already asked Iruoma, but her response wasn't certain. The response she gave me back in the meeting room kept ringing in my head. I asked her if she had something to do with the dëath of Mike, she replied me "What if I did". The reply had a lot of questions.

As I sitted and soliloquize in the office, a beautiful black lady walked into the office.

But I'm currently in lot of trouble lately because of women, so I just had to let this beauty go.

Are you the new acting Manager? She asked me. Yes Madam, How can I be of help? I asked her.

I want to know the reason why my sister was unjustly arrested for a crime she didn't commit. The lady said to me. Who is your sister? I asked her. Cynthia Boniface. My name is Sandra Boniface. Why was my sister arrested? The lady asked. She was really angry and pissed, I could sense it all around her.

I assure you, we are working on getting to the root of the matter, you just have to calm down. I said to Sandra. I'm not calming down when my sister is unlawfully detained, infact I want to see the owner of this hotel. Sandra said.

Sandra I know you are måd, pissed and angry, but I want you to calm down as the hotel is working on something. Just go home. I said. Nothing must happen to my sister. She is innocent. Sandra said.

I was still speaking with Sandra when the security came into my office and took her away. I didn't call the security. But then as soon as she was taken away, Iruoma passed through my door smiling.

She left that day, I was left with the workers of the hotel.

Soon I started hearing rumors in the hotel that I had a hand in the dé-åth of Mike, I planned everything framed Cynthia so that I could take her position.

How could I possibly frame Cynthia? I asked Kosi. She likes you the most, she vulnerable around you. Everyone knows that Cynthia likes you. Kosi said. I don't know that. I said. You choose not to see it. Kosi said to me. You choose not to see the people who truly cares about you. Kosi said before going home that day.

To get my name clear, I decided that I was going to confront Iruoma one more last time and she must tell me what really happened to Mike that day he visited her, No more games, No play, if she doesn't I would tell the police everything I know.

After the Job for the night. I went home to rest a little before returning back to work. My New Job required a lot of time.

When I got home, Olivia was already waiting for me in my room. She has my room key.

Olivia. I said in surprise as I saw her, it's been days I last heard from her. "Ayochidi you couldn't even call me". Olivia said with a babyish face. I called severally, you didn't pick. You said you needed space. I gave you space. I said. You didn't even persist. You just gave me space because I said I needed space. Olivia said.

I'm still not done with Iruoma, I still haven't found Mike's killer. Maybe- before I could complete the statement. Maybe we should stick together as a couple and find out who really k!lled your friend. Olivia said to me.

I was surprised that Olivia finally wanted to help me to find the person who k!lled Mike. Maybe this will ne easier than I thought.

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HOW TO RESPECT YOURSELF
1. Stop chasing those who aren’t interested in you.
2. Avoid begging for attention or validation.
3. Speak less and let your words carry weight.
4. Address disrespect promptly and assertively.
5. Avoid overindulging in others’ generosity if it’s not reciprocated.
6. Limit visits to those who don’t value your presence.
7. Prioritize self-investment and your happiness.
8. Avoid engaging in gossip or unnecessary negativity.
9. Think carefully before you speak—your words define your value.
10. Always present yourself well; dress to reflect your worth.
11. Focus on your goals and stay productive.
12. Value and protect your time.
13. Leave any relationship where you’re not respected or valued.
14. Spend on yourself—it teaches others to respect your worth.
15. Be unavailable sometimes; it creates value.
16. Give more than you take.
17. Don’t go where you’re not invited, and when you are, don’t overstay your welcome.
18. Treat people as they deserve to be treated.
19. Except for owed money, two missed calls are enough; let them return the effort if they care.
20. Strive for excellence in all you do.
Thank you for reading.

*START YOUR DAY WITH GOD...*

*EMBRACE YOUR NEW IDENTITY*


*2 Corinthians 5:17*
_“Therefore if any man be in Christ, he is a new creature: old things are passed away; behold, all things are become new.”_


One of the most powerful expressions of God’s restoration is our identity in Christ. Restoration isn’t just about recovering what was lost—it’s about becoming who you were always meant to be. When you gave your life to Jesus, a divine reset began. Old things passed away—not just actions, but labels, guilt, shame, and condemnation. In their place came a new nature and a new future.

Yet for many believers, the struggle is not in being made new—it’s in living like it. We often carry memories of who we used to be: the mistakes, the disappointments, and the fear that maybe nothing’s really changed. But our opening scripture affirms that in Christ, you are not slightly improved or partially repaired—you are made new. Fully. Completely. Restored.
Stop living beneath what Christ already paid for. You don’t have to earn your place in God’s presence. You don’t have to keep revisiting your past to explain your future. You are not who you were—you are who God says you are.

So today, let the restored you rise. Walk with confidence. Live from a place of freedom. And embrace all that is yours in Christ. Hallelujah!

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So if they fence our border insecurity will stop

WHY AFRICANS PRAY MORE THAN THE REST OF THE WORLD IS BECAUSE IN AFRICA, GOD DOES THE JOB OF THE GOVERNMENT!

1. ELECTRICITY
AFRICA:
“Oh Lord, let there be light! Even if it’s for 2 hours!”
EUROPE:
“This LED bulb is too yellow, I’m returning it.”
TRUTH:
In Africa, power supply is a prayer point.
In Europe, it’s a basic right.

2. WATER SUPPLY
AFRICA:
“God, let it rain so we can fetch water!”
EUROPE:
“My shower is too cold. Fix it or I sue!”
TRUTH:
In Europe, taps flow.
In Africa, faith flows.

3. JOBS & EMPLOYMENT
AFRICA:
“Jehovah, bless me with any job. Even volunteer, I’ll manage!”
EUROPE:
“I’m rejecting that role. The salary doesn’t reflect my worth.”
TRUTH:
In Africa, unemployment is a fasting topic.
In Europe, it’s a policy issue.

4. SECURITY
AFRICA:
“Father, may no stray bullet locate me today!”
EUROPE:
“There’s a suspicious sound outside, police arrived in 4 mins.”
TRUTH:
There, safety is law.
Here, safety is prayer and luck.

5. ROADS & INFRASTRUCTURE
AFRICA:
“Lord, don’t let this pothole swallow my destiny.”
EUROPE:
“This small crack on the road is unacceptable!”
TRUTH:
In Africa, a smooth road is a testimony.
In Europe, it’s standard.

6. HEALTHCARE
AFRICA:
“Jesus, let the injection work, and not the side effect!”
EUROPE:
“Therapist booked. Medication free. Follow-up scheduled.”
TRUTH:
One gets healthcare from government.
The other gets hope from prayer warriors.

7. EDUCATION
AFRICA:
“God, let WAEC release results with mercy I sowed a seed !”
EUROPE:
“Government paid for my Master’s. I got a scholarship too.”
TRUTH:
There, education is an investment.
Here, it’s a miracle.

8. PENSION & RETIREMENT 👴🏽
AFRICA:
“Jehovah, don’t let my pension be swallowed by corruption!”
EUROPE:
“I retired. Government sends monthly check.”
REALITY:
Here, retirement is fear and fasting.
There, it’s relaxation and benefits.

9. VISA REQUEST
AFRICA:
“Oh Lord, break every generational curse stopping this UK visa!”
EUROPE:
“I need a break. Might fly to Ghana for the weekend.”
REALITY:
In Africa, travelling = fasting, faith, and fire oil.
In Europe, travelling = booking.com and a suitcase.

BUT HERE’S THE REAL PROBLEM…

High death rates

Joblessness

Poor security

Land battles turning spiritual

Sick people dying at church crusades instead of hospitals

…because African leaders ENJOY it when you dump your problems on an imported god instead of holding them accountable!

Why should they build hospitals when you'll run to prayer camps? By his stripes you're healed right?
Why fix the road when your busy praying for travelling mercy on a deadly road?
Why create jobs when your faith says “God will provide”?

They know you won’t protest. You’ll just pray.
And that’s how they win.

AFRICANS WILL RAISE MILLIONS TO BUILD A CATHEDRAL……but won’t donate a dime to upgrade the clinic where their own mothers give birth on rusted beds with no gloves.

We’ll buy:

Imported church instruments

HD projectors

Shiny marble altars

Designer suits for “Papa”

And bulletproof cars for “Daddy G.O”

Meanwhile, the local hospital:

Has no electricity

No running water

One nurse doing the work of five

And a doctor using a torchlight to deliver babies.

AND HERE’S THE PLOT TWIST:
The pastor you’re funding for “God’s work” won’t even treat malaria in that same country.

When he's sick?
Private jet to Europe.
When you're sick?
Pray. Fast. Sow a seed. Hope the hospital has Panadol.

FINAL THOUGHT:
God is NOT your governor.
Angels are NOT civil engineers.
Your miracle is called good governance.

Stop calling on jesus/allah about things your local government chairman should’ve done.

This is why most religious Africans tend to be less or non-religious

Stop performing for approval. Real ones already feel your frequency.