• The Monkey’s Regret

    Tambo and Zubi had been friends for as long as either of them could remember. They were born in the same fig tree, played on the same vines, and grew up in the same stretch of the forest. Tambo was lively and restless, always eager to prove himself. Zubi was quieter, the kind of friend who listened more than he spoke, but when he spoke, it mattered.

    One dry season, the elders of the forest announced a special event—a Fruit Gathering Day, where every animal was invited to bring the finest fruit they could find. It wasn’t a competition in name, but everyone knew it was. The best fruit would be praised, and whoever brought it would enjoy a bit of respect and admiration.

    Tambo, never one to miss a chance to shine, threw himself into the task. But the drought had dried many of the usual fruit trees, and all he could find were half-ripe bananas and overripe guavas. Meanwhile, Zubi quietly climbed a remote tree by the stream and returned with a fruit neither of them had seen in weeks—a smooth, ripe plum, deep red and firm.

    Tambo couldn’t stop looking at it.

    The night before the gathering, he stayed awake turning the thought over in his head. “Zubi doesn’t even care for these things. He’s not interested in being praised. I could just take it for tomorrow… and return it after the gathering. It’s only one fruit.”

    And so, he did.

    Zubi was confused the next morning when he couldn’t find the plum. But he didn’t say much, just looked around for a while, then carried his bananas to the gathering.

    Tambo presented the plum. Animals admired it. A few nodded their approval. The elders complimented him on the find. It wasn’t a grand victory, just quiet recognition. But Tambo couldn’t enjoy it.

    When he looked at Zubi across the clearing, his friend’s face was calm—but distant. They walked home in silence.

    Days passed. The easy laughter between them faded. Zubi still greeted him, still shared food, still offered help when needed—but something unspoken had settled between them, and Tambo felt it with every word that didn’t come.

    He thought about returning the fruit, or confessing. But what would that change?

    Months went by.

    Then, during the next rainy season, the riverbanks overflowed. One morning, word came that Zubi had gone to help a stranded animal near the flooded stream and hadn’t returned.

    Tambo ran without thinking. When he reached the edge of the swollen water, he saw Zubi holding onto a branch, stuck in thick mud, water rising fast. There were no crowds, no drama—just two friends in trouble.

    Tambo found a long stick, waded into the edge of the water, and held it out. He slipped once but kept his grip. With effort and a quiet word of encouragement, he helped Zubi back to dry land.

    No one cheered. There were no dramatic rescues or grand gestures. Just two monkeys sitting on wet ground, breathing hard, side by side again.

    As they rested under a tree, Tambo finally said, “It was me. I took the plum that day. I thought it was just fruit, but I knew what it meant.”

    Zubi looked at him for a long time before replying. “I knew,” he said simply. “But I also knew you’d come back.”

    They didn’t talk about it again. But over time, the silence between them changed. Not quite like before, but honest, and steady.

    Tambo never sought admiration again. What mattered most, he had nearly lost. And quietly, without words, he began to rebuild what truly mattered.



    Moral: Some mistakes aren’t fixed with words. They’re fixed with actions—and time.

    ⸻ The Monkey’s Regret Tambo and Zubi had been friends for as long as either of them could remember. They were born in the same fig tree, played on the same vines, and grew up in the same stretch of the forest. Tambo was lively and restless, always eager to prove himself. Zubi was quieter, the kind of friend who listened more than he spoke, but when he spoke, it mattered. One dry season, the elders of the forest announced a special event—a Fruit Gathering Day, where every animal was invited to bring the finest fruit they could find. It wasn’t a competition in name, but everyone knew it was. The best fruit would be praised, and whoever brought it would enjoy a bit of respect and admiration. Tambo, never one to miss a chance to shine, threw himself into the task. But the drought had dried many of the usual fruit trees, and all he could find were half-ripe bananas and overripe guavas. Meanwhile, Zubi quietly climbed a remote tree by the stream and returned with a fruit neither of them had seen in weeks—a smooth, ripe plum, deep red and firm. Tambo couldn’t stop looking at it. The night before the gathering, he stayed awake turning the thought over in his head. “Zubi doesn’t even care for these things. He’s not interested in being praised. I could just take it for tomorrow… and return it after the gathering. It’s only one fruit.” And so, he did. Zubi was confused the next morning when he couldn’t find the plum. But he didn’t say much, just looked around for a while, then carried his bananas to the gathering. Tambo presented the plum. Animals admired it. A few nodded their approval. The elders complimented him on the find. It wasn’t a grand victory, just quiet recognition. But Tambo couldn’t enjoy it. When he looked at Zubi across the clearing, his friend’s face was calm—but distant. They walked home in silence. Days passed. The easy laughter between them faded. Zubi still greeted him, still shared food, still offered help when needed—but something unspoken had settled between them, and Tambo felt it with every word that didn’t come. He thought about returning the fruit, or confessing. But what would that change? Months went by. Then, during the next rainy season, the riverbanks overflowed. One morning, word came that Zubi had gone to help a stranded animal near the flooded stream and hadn’t returned. Tambo ran without thinking. When he reached the edge of the swollen water, he saw Zubi holding onto a branch, stuck in thick mud, water rising fast. There were no crowds, no drama—just two friends in trouble. Tambo found a long stick, waded into the edge of the water, and held it out. He slipped once but kept his grip. With effort and a quiet word of encouragement, he helped Zubi back to dry land. No one cheered. There were no dramatic rescues or grand gestures. Just two monkeys sitting on wet ground, breathing hard, side by side again. As they rested under a tree, Tambo finally said, “It was me. I took the plum that day. I thought it was just fruit, but I knew what it meant.” Zubi looked at him for a long time before replying. “I knew,” he said simply. “But I also knew you’d come back.” They didn’t talk about it again. But over time, the silence between them changed. Not quite like before, but honest, and steady. Tambo never sought admiration again. What mattered most, he had nearly lost. And quietly, without words, he began to rebuild what truly mattered. ⸻ Moral: Some mistakes aren’t fixed with words. They’re fixed with actions—and time. ⸻
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  • A woman NEVER LEAVES without already having another man lined up. If she dumps you, there was already a replacement waiting, and she was prepared for him.

    Don't be fooled. When a woman leaves your side, it's not because she "wants to be alone." It's because she already has another door open—along with her heart and sometimes more...

    Men believe that women end things first and then search for someone new, but the reality is quite the opposite:

    1. First, they find, then they finish.

    2. First, they secure, then they let go.

    3. First, they plan, then they execute.

    It hurts to accept, but if she left you, chances are someone else was already on her radar.

    This is how the harsh reality works, gentlemen:

    1️⃣ Emotional distancing – She stops arguing, stops demanding, stops caring. Mentally, she’s already out of the relationship.

    2️⃣ Exploring options – She might not be with someone else yet, but she’s surveying the market. She won’t stay alone for long.

    3️⃣ Closing the next deal – It could be an ex, a long-time friend, or a new admirer who knew exactly what to say at the right moment.

    4️⃣ Walking away without looking back – No second chances, no "let’s try again." By the time you realize what's happening, she’s already with someone new, while you’re still trying to process it.

    Here's the truth they don’t tell you:

    If a woman leaves you, it’s because she already has someone else supporting her.
    If she says she "needs time," she’s already investing her time elsewhere.
    If she swears she’s alone after the breakup, she just doesn’t want you to know who she’s with.

    The problem is, men think this is just "bad luck," but in reality, it’s ignorance. Women don’t play randomly—they play chess. And while you were confident that "everything was fine," she was already making her next move.

    Don't be naive. If you notice her pulling away, be prepared.

    Because the next thing you’ll hear is: "I need space."

    If you think she’ll come back, wake up—she’s already re
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    A woman NEVER LEAVES without already having another man lined up. If she dumps you, there was already a replacement waiting, and she was prepared for him. Don't be fooled. When a woman leaves your side, it's not because she "wants to be alone." It's because she already has another door open—along with her heart and sometimes more... Men believe that women end things first and then search for someone new, but the reality is quite the opposite: 1. First, they find, then they finish. 2. First, they secure, then they let go. 3. First, they plan, then they execute. ✋ It hurts to accept, but if she left you, chances are someone else was already on her radar. This is how the harsh reality works, gentlemen: 1️⃣ Emotional distancing – She stops arguing, stops demanding, stops caring. Mentally, she’s already out of the relationship. 2️⃣ Exploring options – She might not be with someone else yet, but she’s surveying the market. She won’t stay alone for long. 3️⃣ Closing the next deal – It could be an ex, a long-time friend, or a new admirer who knew exactly what to say at the right moment. 4️⃣ Walking away without looking back – No second chances, no "let’s try again." By the time you realize what's happening, she’s already with someone new, while you’re still trying to process it. Here's the truth they don’t tell you: 👉 If a woman leaves you, it’s because she already has someone else supporting her. 👉 If she says she "needs time," she’s already investing her time elsewhere. 👉 If she swears she’s alone after the breakup, she just doesn’t want you to know who she’s with. The problem is, men think this is just "bad luck," but in reality, it’s ignorance. Women don’t play randomly—they play chess. And while you were confident that "everything was fine," she was already making her next move. Don't be naive. If you notice her pulling away, be prepared. Because the next thing you’ll hear is: "I need space." ✅ If you think she’ll come back, wake up—she’s already re @highlight
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  • Signs She’s NOT Into You (Might Hurt Your Feelings)

    1. She doesn’t text you back (or takes forever to reply).

    Women are glued to their phones. If she’s into you, she’ll be excited to text back fast.

    If she takes hours or days to reply, or leaves you on read, it’s a clear sign you’re low priority.

    No woman "forgets" to text a man she desires. She’s just choosing not to.

    2. She avoids being alone with you.

    If she always wants to “meet you there” instead of getting picked up…

    If she only hangs out in group settings…

    If she never wants to come over to your place or invite you to hers…

    She’s making sure there’s no chance of intimacy. That means she’s not attracted to you.

    3. She doesn’t ask you personal questions.

    A woman who’s into you will be curious about you. She’ll want to know about your life, your passions, your goals.

    If she never asks anything beyond surface-level topics, you’re just background noise to her.

    Indifference = disinterest.

    4. She brings up her bad qualities.

    When a woman likes you, she puts her best foot forward.

    But when she isn’t interested, she’ll sabotage herself on purpose by saying things like:

    “I’m really bad at relationships.”

    “I’m kind of crazy.”

    “I don’t think I’d be good for you.

    5. She doesn’t engage in the conversation.

    If a woman likes you, she’ll be dialed into the conversation, smiling, reacting, laughing.

    If she’s giving short answers, not following up, or looking at her phone while you talk…

    She’s mentally checked out. And when a woman’s mind isn’t on you, neither is her heart.

    6. She is "always busy."

    A woman will move mountains to see a man she wants.

    If she keeps saying:

    “I’m super busy right now.”

    “Maybe next week.”

    “I’ll let you know.”

    She’s making excuses to avoid you.

    Busy women still make time for the men they crave.

    7. She doesn’t give you her full attention.

    When a woman truly desires you, Her eyes are on you.

    She laughs at your jokes. She wants to know everything about you.

    If she seems distracted, looking around the room, or more focused on her phone…

    She’s counting down the minutes until she can leave.

    8. She flirts with other men in front of you.

    This is the ultimate act of disrespect.

    If she’s giggling, touching, or engaging other guys while you’re right there, she doesn’t see you as an option.

    A woman who respects and desires you will NOT flaunt her interest in other men.

    9. She never initiates touch or flirts back.

    A woman’s body language exposes her true feelings.

    If she’s into you:

    She’ll find ways to touch you.

    She’ll lean in when you talk.

    She’ll giggle and playfully push you away.

    10. You’re the only one putting in effort.

    Who texts first? Who makes plans? Who keeps the conversation going?

    If it’s always YOU and she’s just coasting along…

    She’s not that into you. High-interest women don’t let the man do 100% of the work.

    ➥𝐼𝑓 𝑖𝑡'𝑠 ℎ𝑒𝑙𝑝𝑓𝑢𝑙 𝑝𝑙𝑒𝑎𝑠𝑒 𝑟𝑒𝑎𝑐𝑡 & 𝑠ℎ𝑎𝑟𝑒⇅
    Signs She’s NOT Into You (Might Hurt Your Feelings) 1. She doesn’t text you back (or takes forever to reply). Women are glued to their phones. If she’s into you, she’ll be excited to text back fast. If she takes hours or days to reply, or leaves you on read, it’s a clear sign you’re low priority. No woman "forgets" to text a man she desires. She’s just choosing not to. 2. She avoids being alone with you. If she always wants to “meet you there” instead of getting picked up… If she only hangs out in group settings… If she never wants to come over to your place or invite you to hers… She’s making sure there’s no chance of intimacy. That means she’s not attracted to you. 3. She doesn’t ask you personal questions. A woman who’s into you will be curious about you. She’ll want to know about your life, your passions, your goals. If she never asks anything beyond surface-level topics, you’re just background noise to her. Indifference = disinterest. 4. She brings up her bad qualities. When a woman likes you, she puts her best foot forward. But when she isn’t interested, she’ll sabotage herself on purpose by saying things like: “I’m really bad at relationships.” “I’m kind of crazy.” “I don’t think I’d be good for you. 5. She doesn’t engage in the conversation. If a woman likes you, she’ll be dialed into the conversation, smiling, reacting, laughing. If she’s giving short answers, not following up, or looking at her phone while you talk… She’s mentally checked out. And when a woman’s mind isn’t on you, neither is her heart. 6. She is "always busy." A woman will move mountains to see a man she wants. If she keeps saying: “I’m super busy right now.” “Maybe next week.” “I’ll let you know.” She’s making excuses to avoid you. Busy women still make time for the men they crave. 7. She doesn’t give you her full attention. When a woman truly desires you, Her eyes are on you. She laughs at your jokes. She wants to know everything about you. If she seems distracted, looking around the room, or more focused on her phone… She’s counting down the minutes until she can leave. 8. She flirts with other men in front of you. This is the ultimate act of disrespect. If she’s giggling, touching, or engaging other guys while you’re right there, she doesn’t see you as an option. A woman who respects and desires you will NOT flaunt her interest in other men. 9. She never initiates touch or flirts back. A woman’s body language exposes her true feelings. If she’s into you: She’ll find ways to touch you. She’ll lean in when you talk. She’ll giggle and playfully push you away. 10. You’re the only one putting in effort. Who texts first? Who makes plans? Who keeps the conversation going? If it’s always YOU and she’s just coasting along… She’s not that into you. High-interest women don’t let the man do 100% of the work. ➥𝐼𝑓 𝑖𝑡'𝑠 ℎ𝑒𝑙𝑝𝑓𝑢𝑙 𝑝𝑙𝑒𝑎𝑠𝑒 𝑟𝑒𝑎𝑐𝑡 & 𝑠ℎ𝑎𝑟𝑒⇅
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  • *SOME NIGERIAN NEWSPAPER HEADLINES+, 01/06/2025*

    Gateway Games: 20 Kano athletes die in road crash

    Tinubu, governors mourn death of 21 Kano athletes, officials in auto crash

    Tinubu commissions first section of Lagos-Calabar coastal highway

    Moody’s upgrades Nigeria’s rating to B3, Stable

    WAEC: Katsina Govt. seeks cancellation of English language paper

    Ogun to open alternative as protest rocks tolling of Ijebu-Ode-Mojoda-Epe road

    Super Eagles beat Jamaica on penalties to win Unity Cup

    PSG thrash Inter 5-0 to win Champions League

    EPL giants step up interest in Lookman

    Leverkusen set €50m Boniface asking price

    Ukraine war: Russia’s drone scheme for Nigerians sparks uproar

    Hamas seeks changes to US-backed Gaza ceasefire deal

    WHO urges ban on flavoured tobacco products

    66 Nigerians obtain Antiguan citizenship for $6.6m


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    *DID YOU KNOW?*

    * Wimbledon is the oldest tennis tournament in the world, first held in 1877. It’s the only Grand Slam event played on grass courts, with the grass meticulously cut to 8mm. And players must wear predominantly white clothing, a tradition dating back to the Victorian era.

    * You can’t hum if you hold your nose
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    Be patient with me, Tinubu begs Nigerians

    Niger flood disaster: Tinubu mobilises emergency response, death toll hits 150

    Tinubu inaugurates ships to mark Navy’s 69th anniversary

    National security is collective duty, says Akpabio

    Don’t choose kneeling loyalists as successors, Akpabio warns govs

    Reps seek seven-year jail for workplace bribery

    EFCC slams Emefiele with fresh charges over 753 Abuja housing units

    EFCC arrests 43 suspected internet fraudsters in Nasarawa

    EFCC probes two men caught with fake $899,000 in Kano

    Military steps up checks at Abuja barracks after explosion

    Police mum over alleged suit against retired AIG, others

    Nigeria to host 2025 international civil service conference – Walson-Jack

    FG proposes establishment of exam malpractice tribunal

    NAPTIP reschedules Speed Darlington’s summon to June 2

    FRSC blames speeding for death of 21 Kano athletes

    Customs to profile border fuel stations, auction 39,000 litres

    FCT rural road interventions ‘ll boost food security – Wike

    AFUED honours First Lady, monarch with doctorate

    Plateau Varsity, bank partner to develop livestock feed

    You can’t give students loans in a broken economy — ASUU President, Piwuna

    SSANIP appeals to FG to implement 25/35% salary review

    Why I will miss Tinubu’s mother Qur’anic recitation competition—Buhari

    Davido gifts fan N5m for new hair

    Tems had only N200 when we met – Manager

    I’m making efforts with Mikel Obi to bring Osimhen to Chelsea – Peter Okoye

    Heritage Bank closure halts $5.7m World Bank fund for Yobe

    Dangote to import five million barrels of crude – Report

    Tantita Security boss’ birthday celebrated with novelty football match in Bayelsa

    I Told Tinubu I Won’t Vote For Him –Amaechi

    We’re working to rescue Nigeria, say Atiku, El-Rufai

    Stop heating up polity, Onitiri cautions Atiku, Obi, el-Rufai

    Oyebanji to Ekiti APC: God has ratified our second term bid

    Thousands of PDP members defect to APC in A’Ibom council

    APC targets CUPP in anti-coalition move

    Why I don’t take chieftaincy titles – Makinde

    Kano approves N1m each for 22 bereaved athlete families

    Eno flags off construction of quarters for judicial officers

    Exam malpractices, cultism won’t be tolerated in Rivers varsities — Ibas

    Okpebholo distributes 17 new SUVs to Edo council chairmen

    Go and sin no more – Okpebholo spells out terms of amnesty for secret cult members

    Sallah: Sokoto gov directs early payment of June salaries

    Edo govt begins property owners profiling in new city development June 3

    Imo govt declares land allocation documents fraudulent, warns land grabbers

    Enugu Govt commends NIS, police for suspected ritualist’s arrest

    120 golfers for Edo 2025 Golf fore Peace series

    Anambra’s gov wife empowers 1,000 female traders with N50,000

    Ekiti declares Ado-Ekiti ‘smoke-free city

    Edo’s reintroduced monthly sanitation sees high compliance

    Nasarawa directs residents to exit flood-prone areas

    Kano bans offensive tricycle art

    Police arrest six suspected drug peddlers in Anambra

    Abuja pastor, three others nabbed over child trafficking

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    *TODAY IN HISTORY*

    * On this day in 1979, Rhodesia (Zimbabwe) ended 90 years of white rule. In 1980, the Republic of Zimbabwe achieved sovereignty from the United Kingdom.

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    There is only one success – to be able to spend your life in your own way. – Christopher Morley

    Good morning



    *Compiled by Hon. Osuji George osujis@yahoo.com, +234-8122200446*
    *SOME NIGERIAN NEWSPAPER HEADLINES+, 01/06/2025* Gateway Games: 20 Kano athletes die in road crash Tinubu, governors mourn death of 21 Kano athletes, officials in auto crash Tinubu commissions first section of Lagos-Calabar coastal highway Moody’s upgrades Nigeria’s rating to B3, Stable WAEC: Katsina Govt. seeks cancellation of English language paper Ogun to open alternative as protest rocks tolling of Ijebu-Ode-Mojoda-Epe road Super Eagles beat Jamaica on penalties to win Unity Cup PSG thrash Inter 5-0 to win Champions League EPL giants step up interest in Lookman Leverkusen set €50m Boniface asking price Ukraine war: Russia’s drone scheme for Nigerians sparks uproar Hamas seeks changes to US-backed Gaza ceasefire deal WHO urges ban on flavoured tobacco products 66 Nigerians obtain Antiguan citizenship for $6.6m ------------------------- *DID YOU KNOW?* * Wimbledon is the oldest tennis tournament in the world, first held in 1877. It’s the only Grand Slam event played on grass courts, with the grass meticulously cut to 8mm. And players must wear predominantly white clothing, a tradition dating back to the Victorian era. * You can’t hum if you hold your nose ------------------------- Be patient with me, Tinubu begs Nigerians Niger flood disaster: Tinubu mobilises emergency response, death toll hits 150 Tinubu inaugurates ships to mark Navy’s 69th anniversary National security is collective duty, says Akpabio Don’t choose kneeling loyalists as successors, Akpabio warns govs Reps seek seven-year jail for workplace bribery EFCC slams Emefiele with fresh charges over 753 Abuja housing units EFCC arrests 43 suspected internet fraudsters in Nasarawa EFCC probes two men caught with fake $899,000 in Kano Military steps up checks at Abuja barracks after explosion Police mum over alleged suit against retired AIG, others Nigeria to host 2025 international civil service conference – Walson-Jack FG proposes establishment of exam malpractice tribunal NAPTIP reschedules Speed Darlington’s summon to June 2 FRSC blames speeding for death of 21 Kano athletes Customs to profile border fuel stations, auction 39,000 litres FCT rural road interventions ‘ll boost food security – Wike AFUED honours First Lady, monarch with doctorate Plateau Varsity, bank partner to develop livestock feed You can’t give students loans in a broken economy — ASUU President, Piwuna SSANIP appeals to FG to implement 25/35% salary review Why I will miss Tinubu’s mother Qur’anic recitation competition—Buhari Davido gifts fan N5m for new hair Tems had only N200 when we met – Manager I’m making efforts with Mikel Obi to bring Osimhen to Chelsea – Peter Okoye Heritage Bank closure halts $5.7m World Bank fund for Yobe Dangote to import five million barrels of crude – Report Tantita Security boss’ birthday celebrated with novelty football match in Bayelsa I Told Tinubu I Won’t Vote For Him –Amaechi We’re working to rescue Nigeria, say Atiku, El-Rufai Stop heating up polity, Onitiri cautions Atiku, Obi, el-Rufai Oyebanji to Ekiti APC: God has ratified our second term bid Thousands of PDP members defect to APC in A’Ibom council APC targets CUPP in anti-coalition move Why I don’t take chieftaincy titles – Makinde Kano approves N1m each for 22 bereaved athlete families Eno flags off construction of quarters for judicial officers Exam malpractices, cultism won’t be tolerated in Rivers varsities — Ibas Okpebholo distributes 17 new SUVs to Edo council chairmen Go and sin no more – Okpebholo spells out terms of amnesty for secret cult members Sallah: Sokoto gov directs early payment of June salaries Edo govt begins property owners profiling in new city development June 3 Imo govt declares land allocation documents fraudulent, warns land grabbers Enugu Govt commends NIS, police for suspected ritualist’s arrest 120 golfers for Edo 2025 Golf fore Peace series Anambra’s gov wife empowers 1,000 female traders with N50,000 Ekiti declares Ado-Ekiti ‘smoke-free city Edo’s reintroduced monthly sanitation sees high compliance Nasarawa directs residents to exit flood-prone areas Kano bans offensive tricycle art Police arrest six suspected drug peddlers in Anambra Abuja pastor, three others nabbed over child trafficking ------------------------- *TODAY IN HISTORY* * On this day in 1979, Rhodesia (Zimbabwe) ended 90 years of white rule. In 1980, the Republic of Zimbabwe achieved sovereignty from the United Kingdom. ------------------------- There is only one success – to be able to spend your life in your own way. – Christopher Morley Good morning *Compiled by Hon. Osuji George osujis@yahoo.com, +234-8122200446*
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  • *What to do when she starts ignoring you all of a sudden:*

    1.) Don’t be in her DM or on call with her asking, “Why are you ignoring me?” Never ask her why she’s doing what she’s doing. Don’t give a damn.

    2.) If you see her, act like nothing happened. Show her that you don’t care about her ignoring you. Leave it at “Hellos & HIs.” With or without her, your life goes on.

    3.) Go completely no contact. Don’t view her stories or status. Don’t like or comment on her posts. She ceases to exist in your world.

    4.) Don’t block her or delete her number. You shouldn’t block her because it’s probably a sh!t test to see what type of man you are. Women ignore men to see if they’ll show weakness or strength.

    5.) Develop the mindset that she’s gone. Don’t sit there counting the days and nights for when she’ll come back to you. Your mentality should be: “I don’t care if you come back or not.”

    6.) Don’t welcome her with open arms if she comes back. Let her earn her spot all over again. If y’all used to see each other twice a week, now y’all should see each other once a week. Make her understand that she got replaced when she was out and about playing mind games.

    Men,
    Stay Guided.
    Stay Liberated
    SAVE A MAN.
    ~ PROFESSOR ~

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    *What to do when she starts ignoring you all of a sudden:* 1.) Don’t be in her DM or on call with her asking, “Why are you ignoring me?” Never ask her why she’s doing what she’s doing. Don’t give a damn. 2.) If you see her, act like nothing happened. Show her that you don’t care about her ignoring you. Leave it at “Hellos & HIs.” With or without her, your life goes on. 3.) Go completely no contact. Don’t view her stories or status. Don’t like or comment on her posts. She ceases to exist in your world. 4.) Don’t block her or delete her number. You shouldn’t block her because it’s probably a sh!t test to see what type of man you are. Women ignore men to see if they’ll show weakness or strength. 5.) Develop the mindset that she’s gone. Don’t sit there counting the days and nights for when she’ll come back to you. Your mentality should be: “I don’t care if you come back or not.” 6.) Don’t welcome her with open arms if she comes back. Let her earn her spot all over again. If y’all used to see each other twice a week, now y’all should see each other once a week. Make her understand that she got replaced when she was out and about playing mind games. Men, Stay Guided. Stay Liberated SAVE A MAN. ~ PROFESSOR ~ _*Click view channel & follow our channel 👇👇*_
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  • My fellow partners, shareholders, management and leaders of Brandogroup of companies, I bring warm greetings.
    Today we just wrap off a month, and we are beginning a new business journey. A journey we need to be intentional about, a journey we don't need to regret not taking action.
    In this new month, we will achieve many things that will look too big for us to imagine. Our coin will do wonders, shares will appreciate fast, gada.chat is going online, app will appear on playstore, content creator free training will happen in different states, a new feature will be added to gada.chat, speed will be increase one more tihing, portal for premium shareholders will be created, branding will commence, more leaders will be adopted for fast growth, management team will increase, etc.
    All this are necessary to keep the company running as we expand, and to give you maximum profit as you push the business.
    Dear partners, making money will never be an issue in your life as long as you do the needful and continue to follow us gradually, remember, sky will be our starting point.
    *As we continue to look for our daily bread, may our creator bless us, protect and guide us *
    WELCOME TO JUNE
    My fellow partners, shareholders, management and leaders of Brandogroup of companies, I bring warm greetings. Today we just wrap off a month, and we are beginning a new business journey. A journey we need to be intentional about, a journey we don't need to regret not taking action. In this new month, we will achieve many things that will look too big for us to imagine. Our coin will do wonders, shares will appreciate fast, gada.chat is going online, app will appear on playstore, content creator free training will happen in different states, a new feature will be added to gada.chat, speed will be increase one more tihing, portal for premium shareholders will be created, branding will commence, more leaders will be adopted for fast growth, management team will increase, etc. All this are necessary to keep the company running as we expand, and to give you maximum profit as you push the business. Dear partners, making money will never be an issue in your life as long as you do the needful and continue to follow us gradually, remember, sky will be our starting point. *As we continue to look for our daily bread, may our creator bless us, protect and guide us 🙏* WELCOME TO JUNE
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  • Best African player of the year, do you agree?
    Best African player of the year, do you agree?
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  • Former Inter Milan player Achraf Hakimi opens the scoring in the Champions League final ⚽️
    Former Inter Milan player Achraf Hakimi opens the scoring in the Champions League final 🔥⚽️
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  • After the civil war, General Yakubu Gowon was told by some European experts that the only way Nigeria could make real progress was for the country to pursue industrialization, because crude oil money was not sustainable. Limited in knowledge, Gowon asked his European friends what exactly industrialization entailed. They told him it was simple; that Nigeria must learn to produce engines, machines, etc.

    He heeded this advice and set out on the task to industrialize Nigeria. First stop, he asked that the Biafran scientists who had produced machines during the war be assembled to spearhead the industrialization project. Dr. Felix Oragwu, a nuclear physicist, who was part of the team that produced 'Ogbunigwe,' was called to build a team in this regard.

    When he was first contacted, according to him, he thought they had come for him to punish him for the role he played during the war. But eventually he went and met Gowon who mandated him to build a team of scientists. He did, deliberately including people from every part of country, even if they weren't going to contribute much, just to ensure national spread and remove any suspicion. He then presented his recommendations to the ruling military council. Part of the recommendations was that an institute be set up in Enugu where facilities already existed, and where most of the wartime scientists lived.

    But once Murtala Mohammed - whom he said was never comfortable with the idea and never hid his disdain for him - heard about setting up an institute in Enugu, he flared up and accused him of trying to empower fellow rebels to wage another war against Nigeria.

    Mohammed, he said, pointedly asked Gowon whether it was military government they were running or technical government; to which Gowon answered military government. He then said that since it was military government, the technicians should be thrown out of the government. And that was how the meeting ended.

    I interviewed Dr. Oragwu few years ago.

    -- as reported by Obinna Ezugwu.
    After the civil war, General Yakubu Gowon was told by some European experts that the only way Nigeria could make real progress was for the country to pursue industrialization, because crude oil money was not sustainable. Limited in knowledge, Gowon asked his European friends what exactly industrialization entailed. They told him it was simple; that Nigeria must learn to produce engines, machines, etc. He heeded this advice and set out on the task to industrialize Nigeria. First stop, he asked that the Biafran scientists who had produced machines during the war be assembled to spearhead the industrialization project. Dr. Felix Oragwu, a nuclear physicist, who was part of the team that produced 'Ogbunigwe,' was called to build a team in this regard. When he was first contacted, according to him, he thought they had come for him to punish him for the role he played during the war. But eventually he went and met Gowon who mandated him to build a team of scientists. He did, deliberately including people from every part of country, even if they weren't going to contribute much, just to ensure national spread and remove any suspicion. He then presented his recommendations to the ruling military council. Part of the recommendations was that an institute be set up in Enugu where facilities already existed, and where most of the wartime scientists lived. But once Murtala Mohammed - whom he said was never comfortable with the idea and never hid his disdain for him - heard about setting up an institute in Enugu, he flared up and accused him of trying to empower fellow rebels to wage another war against Nigeria. Mohammed, he said, pointedly asked Gowon whether it was military government they were running or technical government; to which Gowon answered military government. He then said that since it was military government, the technicians should be thrown out of the government. And that was how the meeting ended. I interviewed Dr. Oragwu few years ago. -- as reported by Obinna Ezugwu.
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  • PASTORS' WIVES

    With the rate at which Pastors and their wives are filing for divorce, I think we need to do something fast or else, the church may soon be filled with divorced Pastors and congregations. If the Pastor can get a divorce, why can't the members?

    I spoke recently to an estranged Pastor's wife and her complain like the complain of other unhappily married Pastors' wives is that her husband had many "strange" women around him and when she complained, he saw her as jealous. He eventually sent her packing with her children and filed for divorce. Case closed.

    I'm not here to judge anybody. It is hell going through divorce and no one needs any preaching or correction during this period.

    I will use this medium to advise single ladies dating Pastors, buckle your belt. It is not enough to be seen as the First Lady in the church. You will be seen as a spiritual mother who should "accommodate" all the "sisters" flocking around your husband.

    Your husband will attract women. If he doesn't go after them, they will go after him, it is natural. Women are attracted to great father figures who treat them with care and listen to their pains and hurts with tender love.

    Some of these women may bond with him and want more of him, that is REALITY. The earlier you prepare your self, the lots of headache you will save yourself in future. Now, this is where your work comes in:

    PRAY FOR YOUR HUSBAND DAILY: You will do well to have Stormie Omartian's THE POWER OF A PRAYING WIFE in your library.

    LOOK DROP-D€AD GORGEOUS: Dress fabulous to church with your husband. Let your husband easily pick you out from the crowd of women that flocks him. Always dress to his taste.

    DRESS YOUR CHARACTER: Be mature, loving, accommodating and decorate his home with peace of mind. Nagging, complaining and red hot temper can drive any man mad.

    BE A CHICK AT HOME. Alright, you are no longer in church, so remove that scarf, wear something kinky and be super delicious. Use your feminine power and be seductive. Men who hang around ladies who send them signals all the time need a seductive wife at home. You've got to display all your assets conspicuously and let him know he's got the best deal at home.

    GIVE HIM $€X BEFORE HE STEPS OUT OF THE HOUSE: Drain him. A $€xually hungry man's eyes wander around and he is restless around women. Do not push your husband into temptation. If there are people who need more $€x on daily basis, they are the pastors. Satisfy him $€xually and be super hot in bed.

    Abeg, this is not church. This is the bedroom where the man needs to go to heaven and come back as often as possible. Let him wish he carries his bedroom to his office.

    When a man is thoroughly satisfied sexually, he feels nothing for other females out there.

    BE HIS FRIEND: listen to him, play with him, date him, flirt with him, encourage him, support him and always be there for him.

    LET HIM BE THE MAN: Some pastors' wives are proud and pompous. They dictate to everyone around and you wonder whether they are the General Overseer or the husband. Let the husband take the lead while you offer suggestions, encourage and assist.

    MAKE HIS HOME A PALACE: Keep it clean, make it comely and allow peace to reign. When a man has a loving wife, a peaceful home and the power of God backing him up, who is the woman that will snatch him?

    Singles, this is a tall order. Marrying a Pastor is not a joke, it is serious business. You either prepare to be a great wife and do more than an average wife, or let him go in peace and marry someone you are comfortable with. The ball is in your court...

    Thanks for reading. God bless you.
    PASTORS' WIVES With the rate at which Pastors and their wives are filing for divorce, I think we need to do something fast or else, the church may soon be filled with divorced Pastors and congregations. If the Pastor can get a divorce, why can't the members? I spoke recently to an estranged Pastor's wife and her complain like the complain of other unhappily married Pastors' wives is that her husband had many "strange" women around him and when she complained, he saw her as jealous. He eventually sent her packing with her children and filed for divorce. Case closed. I'm not here to judge anybody. It is hell going through divorce and no one needs any preaching or correction during this period. I will use this medium to advise single ladies dating Pastors, buckle your belt. It is not enough to be seen as the First Lady in the church. You will be seen as a spiritual mother who should "accommodate" all the "sisters" flocking around your husband. Your husband will attract women. If he doesn't go after them, they will go after him, it is natural. Women are attracted to great father figures who treat them with care and listen to their pains and hurts with tender love. Some of these women may bond with him and want more of him, that is REALITY. The earlier you prepare your self, the lots of headache you will save yourself in future. Now, this is where your work comes in: PRAY FOR YOUR HUSBAND DAILY: You will do well to have Stormie Omartian's THE POWER OF A PRAYING WIFE in your library. LOOK DROP-D€AD GORGEOUS: Dress fabulous to church with your husband. Let your husband easily pick you out from the crowd of women that flocks him. Always dress to his taste. DRESS YOUR CHARACTER: Be mature, loving, accommodating and decorate his home with peace of mind. Nagging, complaining and red hot temper can drive any man mad. BE A CHICK AT HOME. Alright, you are no longer in church, so remove that scarf, wear something kinky and be super delicious. Use your feminine power and be seductive. Men who hang around ladies who send them signals all the time need a seductive wife at home. You've got to display all your assets conspicuously and let him know he's got the best deal at home. GIVE HIM $€X BEFORE HE STEPS OUT OF THE HOUSE: Drain him. A $€xually hungry man's eyes wander around and he is restless around women. Do not push your husband into temptation. If there are people who need more $€x on daily basis, they are the pastors. Satisfy him $€xually and be super hot in bed. Abeg, this is not church. This is the bedroom where the man needs to go to heaven and come back as often as possible. Let him wish he carries his bedroom to his office. When a man is thoroughly satisfied sexually, he feels nothing for other females out there. BE HIS FRIEND: listen to him, play with him, date him, flirt with him, encourage him, support him and always be there for him. LET HIM BE THE MAN: Some pastors' wives are proud and pompous. They dictate to everyone around and you wonder whether they are the General Overseer or the husband. Let the husband take the lead while you offer suggestions, encourage and assist. MAKE HIS HOME A PALACE: Keep it clean, make it comely and allow peace to reign. When a man has a loving wife, a peaceful home and the power of God backing him up, who is the woman that will snatch him? Singles, this is a tall order. Marrying a Pastor is not a joke, it is serious business. You either prepare to be a great wife and do more than an average wife, or let him go in peace and marry someone you are comfortable with. The ball is in your court... Thanks for reading. God bless you.
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  • The first night I saw my best friend with my husband, I did what they never imagined... They were both in the bedroom...
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    MY BEST FRIEND STOLE MY MAN

    CHAPTER 1

    If somebody had told me that the person who would destroy my life was the same person I used to share my clothes and secrets with, I would have laughed in their face.
    But now, the only thing I laugh at is my own stupidity.

    My name is Amaka, and my wedding was in two weeks.

    I had the man. I had the ring. I had the aso-ebi colors picked out. I had my best friend by my side — or so I thought.

    It was a hot Wednesday morning in Enugu. I remember clearly because NEPA had just brought light and I was dancing in my towel, holding my phone and playing “Baby Riddim” by Fave. My cheeks were hurting from smiling too much. Obinna, my fiancé, had just sent me money for my gele and shoes.

    “Nne, I want you to look like a goddess that day,” he said. “The whole world must know you’re mine.”

    God knows I loved that man.

    Chiamaka, my best friend since secondary school, was sitting on the bed, scrolling through her phone and laughing at a meme.
    “See this one,” she said, turning the phone to show me a picture of a bride whose makeup looked like she fought with a clown.

    I laughed. “Chia, that can never be me. My makeup artist is charging sixty thousand.”

    “Ehen? So now you’re a big girl, eh?” she teased, throwing a pillow at me.

    We laughed like that for minutes. Two friends. Two sisters. Or so I thought.

    I didn’t know she was laughing because she already knew something I didn’t.

    That morning, Obinna called. His voice was deep and warm. “Have you eaten?”

    “No,” I smiled. “Waiting for you to bring me food.”

    Chiamaka raised her eyebrow and whispered, “Tell him to bring for both of us o!”

    Obinna chuckled over the phone. “Alright. I’m coming with your favorite — nkwobi and cold malt.”

    When the call ended, Chiamaka looked at me with a sly smile. “You’re lucky o. This your Obinna, he’s sweet die.”

    I nodded. “He is.”

    She stood up. “Let me go bath. I want to look fine before he comes. You know your man likes seeing fine girls.”

    We laughed again.

    But in that laugh, something shifted.

    I didn’t catch it then. But now, thinking back, I see it clearly. The way she looked at me. The way she said “your man.”
    There was something in her eyes that wasn’t there before.

    That evening, when Obinna came, I noticed he didn’t hug me the way he used to. It was quick. Cold. His eyes darted around like he was hiding something.

    He handed me the nylon bag. “Your food.”

    “Thanks baby,” I smiled, trying to hold his hand.

    He pulled it away too fast.

    Chiamaka came out wearing a short gown that hugged her in all the wrong places. Her makeup was too much for a simple evening, but she walked like she was on a runway.
    Obinna’s eyes followed her for a second too long.

    I noticed.

    I pretended not to.

    We all sat in the parlor and watched a movie. But Obinna laughed at jokes that weren’t funny. He barely looked at me. When Chiamaka stood to go get water, his eyes followed her again.

    My heart skipped.

    Something wasn’t right.

    That night, I couldn’t sleep. I lay on the bed while Chiamaka snored beside me. I stared at the ceiling and asked myself one question:

    “What if love is not enough?”

    To be continued….
    Oluchi Onyeaghala
    The first night I saw my best friend with my husband, I did what they never imagined... They were both in the bedroom... . MY BEST FRIEND STOLE MY MAN CHAPTER 1 If somebody had told me that the person who would destroy my life was the same person I used to share my clothes and secrets with, I would have laughed in their face. But now, the only thing I laugh at is my own stupidity. My name is Amaka, and my wedding was in two weeks. I had the man. I had the ring. I had the aso-ebi colors picked out. I had my best friend by my side — or so I thought. It was a hot Wednesday morning in Enugu. I remember clearly because NEPA had just brought light and I was dancing in my towel, holding my phone and playing “Baby Riddim” by Fave. My cheeks were hurting from smiling too much. Obinna, my fiancé, had just sent me money for my gele and shoes. “Nne, I want you to look like a goddess that day,” he said. “The whole world must know you’re mine.” God knows I loved that man. Chiamaka, my best friend since secondary school, was sitting on the bed, scrolling through her phone and laughing at a meme. “See this one,” she said, turning the phone to show me a picture of a bride whose makeup looked like she fought with a clown. I laughed. “Chia, that can never be me. My makeup artist is charging sixty thousand.” “Ehen? So now you’re a big girl, eh?” she teased, throwing a pillow at me. We laughed like that for minutes. Two friends. Two sisters. Or so I thought. I didn’t know she was laughing because she already knew something I didn’t. That morning, Obinna called. His voice was deep and warm. “Have you eaten?” “No,” I smiled. “Waiting for you to bring me food.” Chiamaka raised her eyebrow and whispered, “Tell him to bring for both of us o!” Obinna chuckled over the phone. “Alright. I’m coming with your favorite — nkwobi and cold malt.” When the call ended, Chiamaka looked at me with a sly smile. “You’re lucky o. This your Obinna, he’s sweet die.” I nodded. “He is.” She stood up. “Let me go bath. I want to look fine before he comes. You know your man likes seeing fine girls.” We laughed again. But in that laugh, something shifted. I didn’t catch it then. But now, thinking back, I see it clearly. The way she looked at me. The way she said “your man.” There was something in her eyes that wasn’t there before. That evening, when Obinna came, I noticed he didn’t hug me the way he used to. It was quick. Cold. His eyes darted around like he was hiding something. He handed me the nylon bag. “Your food.” “Thanks baby,” I smiled, trying to hold his hand. He pulled it away too fast. Chiamaka came out wearing a short gown that hugged her in all the wrong places. Her makeup was too much for a simple evening, but she walked like she was on a runway. Obinna’s eyes followed her for a second too long. I noticed. I pretended not to. We all sat in the parlor and watched a movie. But Obinna laughed at jokes that weren’t funny. He barely looked at me. When Chiamaka stood to go get water, his eyes followed her again. My heart skipped. Something wasn’t right. That night, I couldn’t sleep. I lay on the bed while Chiamaka snored beside me. I stared at the ceiling and asked myself one question: “What if love is not enough?” To be continued…. Oluchi Onyeaghala
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