10 TYPES OF WOMEN A MALE FARMER MUST AVOID
Brutal Truths Every Focused Man Needs in 2025

You don’t need witchcraft to fail — just the wrong woman in your space.
Your farm, peace, and future can be destroyed silently… if you're not discerning.

Here’s the harsh truth no one tells male farmers:

1. The Beauty Without Brains – Fine face, empty mind. Can’t support your vision.
2. The “Soft Life Only” Babe – No hustle. Just vibes and expensive taste.
3. The Forever Victim – She’ll drain your emotions, not water your dreams.
4. The Seductress – Knows your weakness, weaponizes it.
5. The Classy Gold-Digger – She’s not in love — she’s in business.
6. The Spiritually Dead – You’re sowing seeds, she’s sowing confusion.
7. Miss Entitled – Wants queen treatment, won’t lift a finger.
8. The Modern Rebel – Can’t build legacy with someone who hates structure.
9. The Ex You Won’t Delete – If she still controls your heart, your hands can’t build.
10. The Destiny Assassin – Sent to waste your time, money, and mind.

Bro, protect your purpose.
Some women aren’t partners… they’re spiritual potholes.

Think legacy. Think vision. Choose wisely.

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Self reliance is of utmost importance to a blessed person.If there's to be peace there must be strength;if there's to be security there must be stability.

Men, unfortunately, do not always understand a very simple truth: the woman, when she loves... is intensely reciprocal.

Female nature is like an echo, an emotional reflection.
Let's absorb man's attitude towards us on an intuitive and energetic level — his words, his actions, his intentions... and if these match each other.

And then, just... we give it back.
What goes around — comes around.
Sometimes like tenderness, care, peace and a home to rest from the world.
Other times... like coldness, distance and a closed door forever.

Because a woman is not a grudge
It's not vindictive.
It's a mirror.
And it reflects exactly what you have put into it.

Do you want a garden? Take care of it.
Do you want love? Love her.
Do you want loyalty? Be worthy of trust.

If you have a calm, warm, loyal and loving woman by your side — it's not a coincidence. It is the result of your actions.
And if next to you there is coldness and emptiness, it's not a coincidence either. You are a reflection of what you sow.

Look at your woman... and you will see who you really are.
Because she is your mirror.

Wahala try to be at peace with all men. E get why

Gen Musa Waarns: Stop Using Social Media to Promote IPOB—It’s Threatening Nigeria

The Chief of Defence Staff (CDS), General Christopher Musa, has issued a strong warning to residents of the South East against supporting or promoting the activities of the proscribed Indigenous People of Biafra (IPOB) and its armed wing, the Eastern Security Network (ESN), especially through social media platforms.

Speaking during a community engagement visit in Omor, Anambra East LGA, Anambra State, General Musa—represented by Group Captain Ibrahim Bukar, Deputy Director of Defence Media Operations—highlighted the dangers of spreading unverified and misleading information online. He noted that such actions not only endanger the region but also threaten Nigeria’s unity and national peace.

As part of a people-focused outreach within the Operation Udoka Area of Responsibility, the Defence Chief met with the Obi Eze Ana-Uku, Eze Igulube of Omor, emphasizing the military’s commitment to restoring lasting peace and security in the South East.

General Musa made it clear that IPOB’s activities are harmful to both the region and the country at large, and should be firmly rejected. He condemned the growing trend of spreading false narratives pushed by outlawed groups, urging citizens to be vigilant and responsible.

“People need to have trust in their military,” he said. “The military belongs to the people. We rely on you to give us credible information—when you see something, say something. Together, we can overcome insecurity and bring peace back to our communities.”

He assured the people that the military remains neutral in all conflicts and is solely focused on protecting law-abiding citizens.

“Our mission is not to take sides,” he added. “We are only after criminal elements. Our job is to ensure peace and safeguard the lives and properties of innocent Nigerians.”

General Musa also reaffirmed the Armed Forces’ dedication to fulfilling their constitutional duty to protect the nation, adding that peace and security are vital foundations for national development and economic growth.

In his response, the traditional ruler of Omor, Eze Igulube, praised the military’s consistent efforts in maintaining peace in the area. He expressed gratitude for the improved security situation, saying the presence of the Armed Forces has brought relief to the community.

“Our people are farmers, peace-loving and hospitable,” the monarch said. “We deeply appreciate the courage and dedication of your personnel. We are ready to provide accurate intelligence to help your operations and keep our land safe.”

He pledged the full support of the community in the ongoing efforts to restore peace and security across the South East.

SOME WOMEN LEARN THESE LESSONS VERY LATE AFTER DESTROYING THEIR LIVES BY THEMSELVES

10 Brutal Truths Women Learn Too Late After Destroying Their Own Marriage

They thought they were upgrading. They thought leaving their husbands for “freedom” and “independence” would give them peace, happiness, and self-discovery.
Now they’re out here with tears behind their makeup, regrets hiding behind motivational captions, and loneliness haunting their nights.
Why?
Because they listened to bitter, man-hating feminists online who’ve never built a home, who despise structure, and who thrive on chaos.

Here are 10 painful realities women only realize after it’s too late:

1. No One Else Will Tolerate What Their Husband Did

That man they dumped was patient, loving, and forgiving. But outside? No man is willing to deal with your entitled, combative behavior.

2. Feminism Doesn’t Pay Rent

Online feminists will hype you up, but when you’re broke, lonely, and falling apart, they won’t offer a dime or a shoulder.

3. Sexual Market Value Drops with Age

You’re not 24 anymore. You’re older, more baggage, less patience. The options shrink. The demands increase. And most men now want younger, feminine, peaceful women.

4. “Freedom” Is Just Loneliness in Disguise

You thought you were escaping a “boring marriage,” now you’re eating dinner alone, faking happiness on Instagram, and battling depression in silence.

5. Your Kids Suffer the Most

You broke a family to chase trends. Now the children grow up emotionally fractured. No father. No stability. No structure.

6. Being a Single Mother Is Not a Badge of Honor

You thought it made you strong? It made life 10x harder. Now no high-value man wants to sign up for a ready-made burden.

7. Hypergamy Has a Deadline

You wanted a richer man, a more exciting man. Now you realize the pool you thought was full is actually shallow.

8. Attention Is Not the Same as Respect

You may still get likes and DMs. But no one respects you anymore. You’re entertainment, not investment.

9. Peace is Priceless, and You Threw It Away

He wasn’t perfect, but he gave you peace. Now your world is chaos, drama, and anxiety. And you caused it.

10. The Internet Doesn’t Care About Your Regret

You followed strangers online, now you’re suffering offline. And guess what? They’ve moved on. You’re the one paying the price.

This is the reality of modern women who traded submission for rebellion, family for fantasy, and wisdom for TikTok advice.

Let this be a warning: not all that glitters is gold. The streets are cold.

Chinedu Anichi TV cares!

A WORD OF ADVICE TO ALL BENUE INDIGENES.

Now that our state leaders and traditional rulers have come together to find lasting solutions to the insecurity troubling our dear Benue State, I want to humbly appeal to everyone let us all play our part with honesty and responsibility.

Before reporting any attack or security incident in any part of the state, please be sure of your facts. Let us put politics aside and prioritize the lives and safety of our people. Posting false or unverified information only worsens the situation and causes panic or confusion.

Don't just copy and share posts from others without confirming whether the information is true or not. Take time to verify what is happening before you post or comment. Be certain that what you’re saying is the truth because lives are at stake.

Let’s stop posting unverified information that gives room for people who don’t know the facts to criticize the good work of the Executive Governor of Benue State, our stakeholders, and our traditional rulers.

Let’s work together for peace, truth, and progress in Benue State.

BY: CDT, Awua Igbana Paul.
Voice of kwande/ Ushongo youths.

17 DISADVANTAGES OF DATING OR MARRYING A NON-VIRGIN

A Brutally Honest Thread for Men Who Want to Know the Hidden Costs.

Let’s talk truth. Not everyone will like this, but if you’re a man who values loyalty, purity, peace of mind, and long-term stability—you need to read this without emotions.

Because behind every past body count is a history that could cost you more than you bargained for.

Let’s go:

1. Comparison Never Ends
She has tasted other men. She may smile at you, but mentally, she’s comparing.

2. Emotional Baggage
She's bringing unresolved trauma, heartbreaks, and soul ties into your home.

3. Reduced Loyalty
Experience has taught her how to detach emotionally. She knows how to leave.

4. High Expectations
She’s been treated, pampered, and spoiled before. Now you're competing with ghosts.

5. Body Count Insecurity
You’ll never know the real number. And even if you do, it will haunt you.

6. She Might Cheat With Her Ex
That man she cried over for 6 months? He still has a soft spot in her heart.

7. Lowered Bonding Ability
Sex forms deep bonds. The more partners she’s had, the harder it is for her to fully bond with one.

8. Entitlement Culture
She may feel she's doing you a favor by settling, not knowing she's giving less than you deserve.

9. Loss of Purity Respect
You won't feel like you "won" anything rare. You’ll just be another guy on the list.

10. Risk of STI History
The more partners, the more chances of infections—past, present, and future.

11. Emotional Imbalance
Multiple sexual partners change how a woman sees sex—it becomes transactional.

12. Disrespect to Masculinity
She has nothing sacred to offer that’s uniquely yours. She’s already given it away.

13. Lowered Submission
A woman with multiple exes finds it harder to submit. She's been the boss before.

14. You Become Her Rebound or "Safe Option"
You might just be the guy she settled for, not the one she truly wanted.

15. Family & Cultural Rejection
Many traditional cultures still value virginity. Your family may never fully accept her.

16. Future Regrets
When problems come, she might wonder: "Did I choose the wrong guy?"—because she has many exes to compare you to.

17. Lack of Sacredness in Sex
With no spiritual connection to it, sex becomes a chore, not a sacred act of union.

BOTTOM LINE:
This isn't about shaming. It’s about being aware of what you’re walking into.

A woman’s past does matter—not because she can’t change, but because patterns don’t lie.

If you’re a man who wants peace, loyalty, depth, and spiritual connection—choose wisely.

Because marriage is not rehabilitation. And dating is not charity.

#RealTalk #NoSimpZone #ModernDating #ChooseWisely #MasculineEnergy #HighValueMan #TruthOverFeelings

My brother was bitter. I don’t know how he found out that I was dating his friend, but he came into my room shouting at the top of his voice, warning me to stay away from his friend. My first instinct was to deny the truth, but I told myself it wasn’t worth it. While he stood over my bed ranting about all the reasons he didn’t want me to date his friend, there was only one question I was waiting to ask: “He’s your friend and you like him, so why can’t I like him too?”

He didn’t wait for the question. He stormed out immediately after he finished talking. I called Jerry: “Did you tell your friend we are dating? I told you to wait, so why tell him now?” He answered with a shaky voice, “Me? I haven’t said anything to him. How did you know he knows?”

I told him everything that had happened and asked him not to engage him.

To be honest, I wasn’t fully into the relationship. I was only trying to see if things would work out. I knew my brother wouldn’t allow it, so I was going to keep it a secret until I was sure it would work. My brother told my mom about it. My mom told him, “Your sister isn’t a child, so who are you to determine who she should love?” My dad laughed at him, so he was left alone in the battle.

He stopped talking to me and stopped talking to Jerry. Jerry called to smoke the peace pipe, but my brother didn’t pick up the call. He told other friends that Jerry had broken the bro code for dating his younger sister.

While going through that phase, I was also dealing with my personal doubts because I wasn’t sure if Jerry loved me. He said it. He tried to show it, but to be honest with you, the fact that he was my brother’s friend also filled me with doubt. Boys are capable of everything. What if he was dating me to prove a point to my brother? So I was very careful.

If it messed up, I knew my brother would sing the “I told you so” song while I lay with my heartbreak. I didn’t want him to be right, so I told Jerry I wasn’t going to be intimate with him. When he bought me a gift, I told him I couldn’t take it because I didn’t want him to say somewhere that I took him for a fool. I took his gift and gave nothing back. I gave him rules. I think at some point, I just wanted to piss him off so he would leave me alone.

He didn’t go away, no matter how hard I tried. One day, I saw him and my brother together; they were laughing and making fun of each other as if nothing had ever happened. I was shocked. I asked Jerry what had changed, and he only said, “We are guys. We know how to resolve our differences.” I asked my brother, and he also didn’t say much apart from, “Aren’t you happy we are happy once again?”

Weeks later, Jerry took photos of me with his phone and gave me the phone to go through them. When he left me alone, I went straight to his WhatsApp and checked the messages between him and my brother. The conversation was very heated. My brother was throwing warnings from the initial stages, while Jerry stayed defensive.

I thought, “So this guy went through all that and he didn’t leave me alone?” Then I got to the later part of the conversation where Jerry said, “I’m your friend, so I can’t be an enemy to your sister. I will treat her just the way you treat her. She will never have a reason to complain to you, and you’ll never have a reason to doubt my intentions toward her. I know you love her, but I love her too. Relax and see what will come out of it.”

That message was sent at dawn. It took my brother three days to respond, and his response was, “I just dey watch you.”

I closed his phone and let myself fall onto his bed. When he entered, I asked for a hug. When he asked why, I said, “You took very beautiful photos of me. Every one of them is nice.” We hugged. We had our first kiss. Things moved very fast from that point because I believed him, just like my brother did.

We dated for two years. And then marriage. And then babies. And then he travelled. And then he came for us. To date, he doesn’t know I read those messages—and those messages were the turning point of our relationship.

The article from Ukrainska Pravda reports that the United States has proposed a peace plan to European allies for resolving the Russia-Ukraine conflict.

The plan includes easing sanctions on Russia in exchange for a lasting ceasefire and suggests leaving occupied Ukrainian territories under Russian control.

The article from Ukrainska Pravda reports that the United States has proposed a peace plan to European allies for resolving the Russia-Ukraine conflict.

The plan includes easing sanctions on Russia in exchange for a lasting ceasefire and suggests leaving occupied Ukrainian territories under Russian control.

Pray for us in Benue ,that peace will be restored soon in Jesus name.