"One thing that has really helped me enjoy my marriage is this, I don’t check my husband’s messages. I married a very charming man with a noble job that takes him around the world like a bird. Every single day, he meets beautiful, smart, educated, and hot women. And yes, I know those young girls who love fine zaddies are not smiling, they will definitely try to get his attention. But honestly, I don’t even act like they exist. I don’t imagine things, I don’t check his phone, I don’t go through his private messages. He’s my man. I’m his wife. And my purpose is simple, to give him peace, that’s my power.” - Omotola Jalade Ekeinde

“CAN TWO PEOPLE BE IN LOVE AND STILL BE INCOMPATIBLE?” Two people can be madly in love, light up when they see each other, finish each other's sentences, can't seem to stay away from one another, and yet behind the smiles and chemistry, there's tension. Arguments that don’t get resolved. Deep needs that remain unmet, and over time, love alone doesn’t seem to be enough to hold them together. This is because love is a feeling. It’s powerful, emotional, and sometimes irrational. It's what draws you in, makes your heart race, and convinces you this is the one. But compatibility? That’s the everyday stuff. It’s how well your values, life goals, communication styles, beliefs, and habits align. It’s what determines whether two people can actually do life together peacefully and productively. You can love someone deeply and still struggle to communicate effectively with them. You can feel butterflies and still clash when it comes to handling money, raising kids, spirituality, or dealing with conflict. Here are Signs of Incompatibility Despite Love You love spending time together but argue about everything that matters. Your goals and life visions are constantly pulling you in opposite directions. You feel unheard, unseen, or unvalued despite the affection. You're always trying to “fix” or “change” each other instead of accepting one another. It’s painful. Because it creates a confusing emotional space—“If we love each other this much, shouldn’t it be enough?” But relationships aren't just about feelings; they’re about functioning well together over time. Many people stay in unhealthy or chaotic relationships simply because they are in love. But love alone won’t resolve deep incompatibilities. It won’t change someone’s core values or lifestyle choices. This is because love isn't always enough to build a stable, and fulfilling relationship. So, understanding this truth helps you to make wiser decisions—whether it’s walking away or choosing to work intentionally on your differences. Because in the end, the goal isn’t just to fall in love—it’s to stay in love, grow together, and enjoy peace while doing life side by side.

Before you visit the next betting site, you might need to read this. Today is not about food. It is about your lifestyle. What can wreck you and leave you broke for life. Some of you cannot even afford good food because you are saving money for betting. Let’s be clear: Betting is a toxic habit. It doesn’t just drain your finances. It wrecks your mind, your peace, your body. Stress. Anxiety. Depression. Self-hate. Regret. Shame. Before women start feeling like saints, let me say it loud: Betting is destroying women too. Betting apps have made it easier for both men and women to dive headfirst into this madness. Women, be warned. The emotional trauma can be worse for you. The shame cuts deeper. The guilt can be unbearable. Betting will destroy you. It is a financial and emotional black hole. It will suck you in and spit you out broken. You are not just gambling money. You are gambling your sanity, your relationships, your dreams, your health, your future. Do not be fooled by the glamour in their adverts. Do not be seduced by the thrill of a quick win. Betting is a demon that will consume you whole. It is a habit that will cling to your soul like a disease. And once it takes root, breaking free will be a battle most people never win. Choose life. Choose sanity. Choose freedom. Choose your future. Do not gamble with your destiny.

WE HAVE TURNED TO SPIRITUAL MEANS. WE’VE STARTED FROM KOGI AND KWARA - ADEGBENRO OGUNLANA According to Punch, as insecurity escalates across Nigeria, various forest-based security groups have renewed their call for federal recognition, insisting they can combine traditional spiritual methods with local expertise to combat terrorism. Among them is the Agbekoya Farmers’ Society, whose Secretary-General, Adegbenro Ogunlana, revealed that spiritual interventions have already been deployed in parts of the country, following directives from the Ifa oracle. He said, "We have turned to spiritual means. We’ve started from Kogi and Kwara." According to Ogunlana, sacrifices were carried out across Yoruba-speaking regions, including Kogi and Kwara states, to ward off attacks. He claimed some community members aiding terrorists had been apprehended, stressing that the spiritual approach aims to restore peace and combat threats from within. He lamented the absence of centralized leadership in Yorubaland and expressed concern that state institutions often discourage self-defense, even as terror groups operate using spiritual tools. Ogunlana emphasized that the intervention became necessary as violent attacks continued to plague Yoruba communities, especially those with significant natural resources. In response, the Aare Ona Kakanfo of Yorubaland, Gani Adams, acknowledged the worsening security situation and noted that discussions were ongoing with senior Yoruba leaders. He pointed to intelligence reports indicating that terrorists have infiltrated strategic areas, particularly mineral-rich communities. Adams warned that the infiltration of Ibadan and other cities suggests a deepening crisis, which the political class is largely ignoring. Meanwhile, the Commander of Patrol and Guards for the Nigeria Forest Security Service (NFSS) in North-Central, Alhaji Muhammad Ahmed, urged President Bola Tinubu to sign a pending bill that would formalize their operations. He disclosed that the NFSS, formerly known as the Nigerian Hunters and Forest Security Service, already has Senate and House approval and is only awaiting presidential assent. Ahmed emphasized that real hunters, distinct from administrative personnel, possess spiritual abilities vital to confronting the nation’s security challenges. He claimed these operatives understand the terrain of the forests where terrorists hide and have encountered them on several occasions. He expressed strong confidence that once the NFSS is legalized, spiritual forces alongside traditional bushcraft will be strategically deployed to neutralize criminal threats. Ahmed believes this dual approach will drastically reduce violence and restore national security.

10 TYPES OF WOMEN A MALE FARMER MUST AVOID Brutal Truths Every Focused Man Needs in 2025 You don’t need witchcraft to fail — just the wrong woman in your space. Your farm, peace, and future can be destroyed silently… if you're not discerning. Here’s the harsh truth no one tells male farmers: 1. The Beauty Without Brains – Fine face, empty mind. Can’t support your vision. 2. The “Soft Life Only” Babe – No hustle. Just vibes and expensive taste. 3. The Forever Victim – She’ll drain your emotions, not water your dreams. 4. The Seductress – Knows your weakness, weaponizes it. 5. The Classy Gold-Digger – She’s not in love — she’s in business. 6. The Spiritually Dead – You’re sowing seeds, she’s sowing confusion. 7. Miss Entitled – Wants queen treatment, won’t lift a finger. 8. The Modern Rebel – Can’t build legacy with someone who hates structure. 9. The Ex You Won’t Delete – If she still controls your heart, your hands can’t build. 10. The Destiny Assassin – Sent to waste your time, money, and mind. Bro, protect your purpose. Some women aren’t partners… they’re spiritual potholes. Think legacy. Think vision. Choose wisely. #MaleFarmerWisdom #FarmWithFocus #AvoidDestinyKillers #AfricanFarmers #DoxaonFarmResort #FarmingAndPurpose #RealTalkForMen #GoatFarmerAfrica #AgropreneurLife

Self reliance is of utmost importance to a blessed person.If there's to be peace there must be strength;if there's to be security there must be stability.

Men, unfortunately, do not always understand a very simple truth: the woman, when she loves... is intensely reciprocal. Female nature is like an echo, an emotional reflection. Let's absorb man's attitude towards us on an intuitive and energetic level — his words, his actions, his intentions... and if these match each other. And then, just... we give it back. What goes around — comes around. Sometimes like tenderness, care, peace and a home to rest from the world. Other times... like coldness, distance and a closed door forever. Because a woman is not a grudge It's not vindictive. It's a mirror. And it reflects exactly what you have put into it. Do you want a garden? Take care of it. Do you want love? Love her. Do you want loyalty? Be worthy of trust. If you have a calm, warm, loyal and loving woman by your side — it's not a coincidence. It is the result of your actions. And if next to you there is coldness and emptiness, it's not a coincidence either. You are a reflection of what you sow. Look at your woman... and you will see who you really are. Because she is your mirror.

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Gen Musa Waarns: Stop Using Social Media to Promote IPOB—It’s Threatening Nigeria The Chief of Defence Staff (CDS), General Christopher Musa, has issued a strong warning to residents of the South East against supporting or promoting the activities of the proscribed Indigenous People of Biafra (IPOB) and its armed wing, the Eastern Security Network (ESN), especially through social media platforms. Speaking during a community engagement visit in Omor, Anambra East LGA, Anambra State, General Musa—represented by Group Captain Ibrahim Bukar, Deputy Director of Defence Media Operations—highlighted the dangers of spreading unverified and misleading information online. He noted that such actions not only endanger the region but also threaten Nigeria’s unity and national peace. As part of a people-focused outreach within the Operation Udoka Area of Responsibility, the Defence Chief met with the Obi Eze Ana-Uku, Eze Igulube of Omor, emphasizing the military’s commitment to restoring lasting peace and security in the South East. General Musa made it clear that IPOB’s activities are harmful to both the region and the country at large, and should be firmly rejected. He condemned the growing trend of spreading false narratives pushed by outlawed groups, urging citizens to be vigilant and responsible. “People need to have trust in their military,” he said. “The military belongs to the people. We rely on you to give us credible information—when you see something, say something. Together, we can overcome insecurity and bring peace back to our communities.” He assured the people that the military remains neutral in all conflicts and is solely focused on protecting law-abiding citizens. “Our mission is not to take sides,” he added. “We are only after criminal elements. Our job is to ensure peace and safeguard the lives and properties of innocent Nigerians.” General Musa also reaffirmed the Armed Forces’ dedication to fulfilling their constitutional duty to protect the nation, adding that peace and security are vital foundations for national development and economic growth. In his response, the traditional ruler of Omor, Eze Igulube, praised the military’s consistent efforts in maintaining peace in the area. He expressed gratitude for the improved security situation, saying the presence of the Armed Forces has brought relief to the community. “Our people are farmers, peace-loving and hospitable,” the monarch said. “We deeply appreciate the courage and dedication of your personnel. We are ready to provide accurate intelligence to help your operations and keep our land safe.” He pledged the full support of the community in the ongoing efforts to restore peace and security across the South East.

SOME WOMEN LEARN THESE LESSONS VERY LATE AFTER DESTROYING THEIR LIVES BY THEMSELVES 10 Brutal Truths Women Learn Too Late After Destroying Their Own Marriage They thought they were upgrading. They thought leaving their husbands for “freedom” and “independence” would give them peace, happiness, and self-discovery. Now they’re out here with tears behind their makeup, regrets hiding behind motivational captions, and loneliness haunting their nights. Why? Because they listened to bitter, man-hating feminists online who’ve never built a home, who despise structure, and who thrive on chaos. Here are 10 painful realities women only realize after it’s too late: 1. No One Else Will Tolerate What Their Husband Did That man they dumped was patient, loving, and forgiving. But outside? No man is willing to deal with your entitled, combative behavior. 2. Feminism Doesn’t Pay Rent Online feminists will hype you up, but when you’re broke, lonely, and falling apart, they won’t offer a dime or a shoulder. 3. Sexual Market Value Drops with Age You’re not 24 anymore. You’re older, more baggage, less patience. The options shrink. The demands increase. And most men now want younger, feminine, peaceful women. 4. “Freedom” Is Just Loneliness in Disguise You thought you were escaping a “boring marriage,” now you’re eating dinner alone, faking happiness on Instagram, and battling depression in silence. 5. Your Kids Suffer the Most You broke a family to chase trends. Now the children grow up emotionally fractured. No father. No stability. No structure. 6. Being a Single Mother Is Not a Badge of Honor You thought it made you strong? It made life 10x harder. Now no high-value man wants to sign up for a ready-made burden. 7. Hypergamy Has a Deadline You wanted a richer man, a more exciting man. Now you realize the pool you thought was full is actually shallow. 8. Attention Is Not the Same as Respect You may still get likes and DMs. But no one respects you anymore. You’re entertainment, not investment. 9. Peace is Priceless, and You Threw It Away He wasn’t perfect, but he gave you peace. Now your world is chaos, drama, and anxiety. And you caused it. 10. The Internet Doesn’t Care About Your Regret You followed strangers online, now you’re suffering offline. And guess what? They’ve moved on. You’re the one paying the price. This is the reality of modern women who traded submission for rebellion, family for fantasy, and wisdom for TikTok advice. Let this be a warning: not all that glitters is gold. The streets are cold. Chinedu Anichi TV cares!

A WORD OF ADVICE TO ALL BENUE INDIGENES. Now that our state leaders and traditional rulers have come together to find lasting solutions to the insecurity troubling our dear Benue State, I want to humbly appeal to everyone let us all play our part with honesty and responsibility. Before reporting any attack or security incident in any part of the state, please be sure of your facts. Let us put politics aside and prioritize the lives and safety of our people. Posting false or unverified information only worsens the situation and causes panic or confusion. Don't just copy and share posts from others without confirming whether the information is true or not. Take time to verify what is happening before you post or comment. Be certain that what you’re saying is the truth because lives are at stake. Let’s stop posting unverified information that gives room for people who don’t know the facts to criticize the good work of the Executive Governor of Benue State, our stakeholders, and our traditional rulers. Let’s work together for peace, truth, and progress in Benue State. BY: CDT, Awua Igbana Paul. Voice of kwande/ Ushongo youths.

17 DISADVANTAGES OF DATING OR MARRYING A NON-VIRGIN A Brutally Honest Thread for Men Who Want to Know the Hidden Costs. Let’s talk truth. Not everyone will like this, but if you’re a man who values loyalty, purity, peace of mind, and long-term stability—you need to read this without emotions. Because behind every past body count is a history that could cost you more than you bargained for. Let’s go: 1. Comparison Never Ends She has tasted other men. She may smile at you, but mentally, she’s comparing. 2. Emotional Baggage She's bringing unresolved trauma, heartbreaks, and soul ties into your home. 3. Reduced Loyalty Experience has taught her how to detach emotionally. She knows how to leave. 4. High Expectations She’s been treated, pampered, and spoiled before. Now you're competing with ghosts. 5. Body Count Insecurity You’ll never know the real number. And even if you do, it will haunt you. 6. She Might Cheat With Her Ex That man she cried over for 6 months? He still has a soft spot in her heart. 7. Lowered Bonding Ability Sex forms deep bonds. The more partners she’s had, the harder it is for her to fully bond with one. 8. Entitlement Culture She may feel she's doing you a favor by settling, not knowing she's giving less than you deserve. 9. Loss of Purity Respect You won't feel like you "won" anything rare. You’ll just be another guy on the list. 10. Risk of STI History The more partners, the more chances of infections—past, present, and future. 11. Emotional Imbalance Multiple sexual partners change how a woman sees sex—it becomes transactional. 12. Disrespect to Masculinity She has nothing sacred to offer that’s uniquely yours. She’s already given it away. 13. Lowered Submission A woman with multiple exes finds it harder to submit. She's been the boss before. 14. You Become Her Rebound or "Safe Option" You might just be the guy she settled for, not the one she truly wanted. 15. Family & Cultural Rejection Many traditional cultures still value virginity. Your family may never fully accept her. 16. Future Regrets When problems come, she might wonder: "Did I choose the wrong guy?"—because she has many exes to compare you to. 17. Lack of Sacredness in Sex With no spiritual connection to it, sex becomes a chore, not a sacred act of union. BOTTOM LINE: This isn't about shaming. It’s about being aware of what you’re walking into. A woman’s past does matter—not because she can’t change, but because patterns don’t lie. If you’re a man who wants peace, loyalty, depth, and spiritual connection—choose wisely. Because marriage is not rehabilitation. And dating is not charity. #RealTalk #NoSimpZone #ModernDating #ChooseWisely #MasculineEnergy #HighValueMan #TruthOverFeelings