Science has confirmed what many already knew—being a stay-at-home mom is one of the hardest jobs out there. Studies have shown that the physical, emotional, and mental demands placed on mothers who care for children full-time often exceed those of many paid professions. A survey revealed that nearly a third of parents believe staying home with children is more stressful than going to work, and experts like psychologist Rick Hanson have stated that 98% of other jobs are less stressful than being home alone with young kids all day. Stay-at-home moms often juggle cooking, cleaning, emotional support, scheduling, and discipline without breaks, recognition, or adult interaction. The isolation and pressure to meet unrealistic expectations can add to the mental load. Despite not earning a paycheck, the role requires multitasking, endurance, and emotional resilience. It’s time society acknowledges the depth and difficulty of full-time parenting and gives stay-at-home moms the credit they deserve.

AFTER LEAVING HIS WIFE PENNILESS, HE MET HER YEARS LATER—AND COULDN’T BELIEVE HIS EYES Arthur had always prided himself on being the master of his own destiny. Even during his college years, he commanded attention with his sharp business instincts. While his classmates buried themselves in books, Arthur was already immersed in entrepreneurial ventures—flipping cars one week, assembling custom computers the next. It was during this phase of his life that he met Michelle. Unlike Arthur’s flashy and superficial girlfriends, Michelle was a quiet, hardworking student majoring in foreign languages. Her modesty set her apart, and to Arthur, she was intriguing in a way he hadn’t expected. He pursued her with charm and persistence. Michelle, dazzled by the attention of the campus’s most popular guy, quickly fell for him. “You’re so beautiful,” Arthur would say, dismissing her studies with a wave of his hand. “Why waste your time in school? Marry me, and I’ll take care of everything.” Michelle hesitated. “I want to work as a translator,” she said shyly. “I want to connect with people from all over the world.” Arthur laughed. “You can practice your languages with my business partners.” Eventually, she gave in. They married, and life seemed full of promise. Money was never a problem, and soon their first child, Dimka, was born. Michelle embraced motherhood wholeheartedly. When their daughter, Lenochka, arrived a few years later, her days became consumed with caring for two young children. Michelle once considered hiring a nanny to balance work and parenting, but Arthur shut the idea down. “Kids need their mother,” he insisted. While Michelle poured herself into raising their family, Arthur threw himself into his business—or so he claimed. He always seemed to have funds for luxury items like a new car or a state-of-the-art TV. Yet when Michelle asked for something as small as a new hairdryer, he’d scoff and say, “The old one works just fine.” Years passed, and the children grew older. Michelle began to feel an aching loneliness. Arthur’s time at home dwindled, and when he was there, his phone never left his hand. Any suggestion of a date night or family outing was met with a firm “I’m too busy.” Somehow, though, he always found time for his friends. Then, one day, Arthur dropped a bombshell. “We need to split up,” he said bluntly. “I’m tired of this family routine. I have my own life to live, and I need my freedom.” Michelle was stunned. “Split up? What do you mean? What about the kids? What about us?” “You’re a mother. You’ll figure it out,” Arthur said with a shrug. That same evening, he packed his belongings and left without looking back. At least he left her the house—but not a single penny to her name. Michelle’s once-comfortable life fell apart in an instant. Desperate to provide for her children, she scoured the city for work, often leaving Dimma and Lessie with a kind neighbor. Eventually, she landed a job as a cleaner at a shopping mall, but it wasn’t enough. She started working night shifts to make ends meet, and the exhaustion quickly took its toll. Just when it seemed things couldn’t get any worse, tragedy struck. Michelle received a devastating call from her mother about her beloved grandfather. Overwhelmed by grief, she summoned every ounce of strength to carry on. When she visited the notary’s office to settle her grandfather’s affairs, she received the surprise of her life. It turned out her grandfather had been quietly investing in company shares for years. He left his entire fortune to Michelle. Determined to rebuild her life, Michelle used the inheritance wisely. She took professional development courses to re-enter her field and invested part of the money in a small neighborhood café. The café thrived and quickly became a local favorite. One busy afternoon, Michelle was behind the counter when the chime of the doorbell signaled new guests. She looked up to greet them—and froze. Standing in the doorway was Arthur, arm in arm with a striking young blonde. “Good afternoon. What can I get for you?” Michelle asked, her voice calm and professional. Arthur glanced up from the menu, doing a double take when he recognized her. “Michelle? Are you working here as a waitress?” he asked with thinly veiled smugness. “Yes, I work here,” she replied evenly. “What would you like to order?” Arthur smirked. “Two cappuccinos and some croissants. Well, well—how the tables have turned. I assumed you were still scrubbing floors. Guess this is an upgrade, huh?” The blonde laughed, clearly enjoying the joke. “Your order will be ready shortly,” Michelle said, turning toward the counter. When she returned with their drinks and pastries, Arthur couldn’t resist another jab. “You seem to be doing okay. Maybe serving coffee really is your true calling.” CONTINUE THE STORY IN THE COMMENTS BELOW! ⬇️⬇️⬇️

Life after Divorce for Women. Are you considering divorce? Well sis, you need to prepare yourself for the challenges and set how to overcome them. Life after divorce can be challenging for women, and the experience can vary greatly depending on individual circumstances. Here are some common difficulties women may face: Emotional Challenges 1. Grief and Loss: Women may experience grief and loss after a divorce, especially if they didn't initiate the separation. 2. Anxiety and Depression: The emotional stress of divorce can lead to anxiety and depression. 3. Self-Doubt and Identity Crisis: Some Women may struggle to redefine their identity and sense of self-worth after a divorce. Financial Challenges 1. Economic Instability: Some Women may experience a significant reduction in income, leading to financial instability. 2. Single Parenting: Women with children may face additional financial burdens, such as childcare costs. 3. Loss of Financial Security: Some Women may lose financial security, especially those without a stable income. Social Challenges 1. Social Isolation: Women may experience social isolation, especially if they were part of a couple's social circle. 2. Stigma and Shame: Some women may feel stigmatized or ashamed about their divorce. 3. Co-Parenting Challenges: Some Women may face challenges co-parenting with their ex-partner. Practical Challenges 1. Logistical Adjustments: Women may need to adjust to new living arrangements, such as downsizing or moving to a new home. 2. Childcare and Parenting: Women may need to manage childcare and parenting responsibilities on their own. 3. Time Management: Women may need to balance work, parenting, and personal responsibilities. Opportunities for Growth 1. Independence: Divorce can provide an opportunity for women to develop independence and self-reliance. 2. Personal Growth: Women may experience personal growth and self-discovery after a divorce. 3. New Relationships: Women may have the opportunity to form new, healthy relationships. Support Systems 1. Therapy and Counseling: Seeking therapy or counseling can help women cope with emotional challenges. 2. Support Groups: Joining a support group can provide a sense of community and connection. 3. Friends and Family: Having a strong support network of friends and family can make a significant difference. Keep in Mind Every woman's experience after divorce is unique, and it's essential to acknowledge the challenges while also recognizing the opportunities for growth and renewal. Divorce hits harder on a woman (especially if she's not financially stable) than in men, more reasons to choose your partner wisely. DON'T RUSH IT!

Dear Parents, Intentional parenting means more than just providing for your child’s needs—it’s about guiding, educating, and protecting them. One of the greatest gifts we can give our children is the confidence to understand their personal boundaries and the courage to speak up when something feels wrong. Teach your child the PANTS Rule: Private parts are private – No one has the right to touch them. Always remember – Their body belongs to them and only them. No means no – They should never feel pressured into anything. There are no secrets from parents – Encourage open communication. Speak up – If something happens, they should feel safe telling you. By having these conversations early and often, you empower your children to recognize unsafe situations and trust that we are always here to listen and protect them. Your love, attention, and openness create a safe space where they can thrive. Be intentional. Protect, guide, and nurture. Love and Respect for all mothers ❤️

Rules for raising kids: 1. They are smarter than you think, they process more than you imagine and they imitate everything you do. Be mindful of that with every action. 2. Hug them, kiss them good night and tell them you love them every day. 3. Don’t expect school to be their only form of learning, show them how to fix the car, how to fish, how to survive in the wild, how to get back home. 4. Teach them the importance of respecting Veterans and to never forget the sacrifice they made. 5. Don’t wrap them in cotton wool, they will hurt themselves they will get in a fight, they will fall of their bike. But it’s all apart of that learning experience. 6. Let them try to solve the problem first. Don’t constantly give them the easy way out or solution straight away. 7. Please when they want something, thank you when they receive. Basic manners can go a long way. 8. Let them spend as much time as possible with their grandparents. Because you know what you would do for one more day with yours. 9. Sort out your schedule so they are your priorities. Work around spending time with them. 10. Be all in with their interests. If it’s monster trucks, Barbie, PlayStation or Pokémon cards. Get involved. Show your excitement and live in their world. 11. Have at least one day a month totally dedicated to them. Beach day, boat trip, hiking, theme park and leave your phone at home. 12. Let them be present in the age they are at. Don’t expect your 3 year old to be as disciplined as your 6 year old. Have patience. 13. Discipline only works if you follow through. But they only learn the lesson if you sit down and explain. Be calm in your approach. 14. Show them your emotions. You don’t need to hide them. Celebrate your wins, explain your losses, sadness or fears 15. Just be a better parent than the one you were yesterday. Work together, don’t compete against each other and never put the kids between your issues. They come first always. #Parenting

I got married at 25, finished my PhD at 27 and became a Professor at 40. So fast you see! Yes, everything around me worked fast. It is now that I realise that it was a misplaced priority. My ambition blindfolded me and I got it all wrong, that is why I am sharing my experience through this medium to warn and encourage our young mothers not to be careless as I was back then. I worked very hard as a lecturer and as an administrator, always so busy that it became my language to my children...."I'm busy" My mum was around to nurse the children for me for some time. The moment they clocked ten, I sent them to boarding schools, though my husband was not in support of this. I always found my way. I had no warm relationship with my children, 2 boys and a girl. I never knew it was a bad idea not to have time for my husband, children and the household, until 5 years ago, when guilt, loneliness and restlessness filled my heart. I sent for my children to rejoice with me on my 60th birthday. The two boys, living in Canada said they are "busy" and that their sister will come down from South Africa. Two days to my birthday, my daughter sent this message to me, "Mum, I am very sorry not to be around over there, there is no time to squeeze out, my husband needs my attention at his newly established clinic and presently, I'm pregnant. "I'm very very busy, I'm also lonely in a strange land. Please pray for us mum. Happy birthday". I could not recover from the meaning I got from the message.. "First-things-First". When they needed me for warmth and discussion, I was not available, now I needed them for warmth and discussion I could not get them, rather they returned my slogan back to me, "I'm busy" To worsen the matter, my dear husband died in his sleep a month after. ...Only one of the children came without his family to the burial ceremony. I was dumbfounded!!! Considered Opinion: it is good to work and be a hard working fellow. But hear this important and salient truth: Parenting is sacrificial work, give it all it takes. Avoid any work that will take away your attention too much from your home - Avoid it and be careful! SOLIDIFY YOUR HOME FIRST, CREATE TIME FOR YOUR SPOUSE AND CHILDREN. ESTABLISH THE FEAR OF GOD IN THEIR HEARTS THROUGH YOUR ATTITUDE AND BEHAVIOUR. THOUGH IT IS COSTLY NOW, THE FUTURE REWARD IS WORTH IT. THIS IS AN EYE OPENER FOR BOTH MEN & WOMEN. LET'S BE SELFLESSLY AVAILABLE WHEN OUR CHILDREN NEED US.

I got married at 25, finished my PhD at 27 and became a Professor at 40. So fast you see! Yes, everything around me worked fast. It is now that I realise that it was a misplaced priority. My ambition blindfolded me and I got it all wrong, that is why I am sharing my experience through this medium to warn and encourage our young mothers not to be careless as I was back then. I worked very hard as a lecturer and as an administrator, always so busy that it became my language to my children...."I'm busy" My mum was around to nurse the children for me for some time. The moment they clocked ten, I sent them to boarding schools, though my husband was not in support of this. I always found my way. I had no warm relationship with my children, 2 boys and a girl. I never knew it was a bad idea not to have time for my husband, children and the household, until 5 years ago, when guilt, loneliness and restlessness filled my heart. I sent for my children to rejoice with me on my 60th birthday. The two boys, living in Canada said they are "busy" and that their sister will come down from South Africa. Two days to my birthday, my daughter sent this message to me, "Mum, I am very sorry not to be around over there, there is no time to squeeze out, my husband needs my attention at his newly established clinic and presently, I'm pregnant. "I'm very very busy, I'm also lonely in a strange land. Please pray for us mum. Happy birthday". I could not recover from the meaning I got from the message.. "First-things-First". When they needed me for warmth and discussion, I was not available, now I needed them for warmth and discussion I could not get them, rather they returned my slogan back to me, "I'm busy" To worsen the matter, my dear husband died in his sleep a month after. ...Only one of the children came without his family to the burial ceremony. I was dumbfounded!!! Considered Opinion: it is good to work and be a hard working fellow. But hear this important and salient truth: Parenting is sacrificial work, give it all it takes. Avoid any work that will take away your attention too much from your home - Avoid it and be careful! SOLIDIFY YOUR HOME FIRST, CREATE TIME FOR YOUR SPOUSE AND CHILDREN. ESTABLISH THE FEAR OF GOD IN THEIR HEARTS THROUGH YOUR ATTITUDE AND BEHAVIOUR. THOUGH IT IS COSTLY NOW, THE FUTURE REWARD IS WORTH IT. THIS IS AN EYE OPENER FOR BOTH MEN & WOMEN. LET'S BE SELFLESSLY AVAILABLE WHEN OUR CHILDREN NEED US.

I got married at 25, finished my PhD at 27 and became a Professor at 40. So fast you see! Yes, everything around me worked fast. It is now that I realise that it was a misplaced priority. My ambition blindfolded me and I got it all wrong, that is why I am sharing my experience through this medium to warn and encourage our young mothers not to be careless as I was back then. I worked very hard as a lecturer and as an administrator, always so busy that it became my language to my children...."I'm busy" My mum was around to nurse the children for me for some time. The moment they clocked ten, I sent them to boarding schools, though my husband was not in support of this. I always found my way. I had no warm relationship with my children, 2 boys and a girl. I never knew it was a bad idea not to have time for my husband, children and the household, until 5 years ago, when guilt, loneliness and restlessness filled my heart. I sent for my children to rejoice with me on my 60th birthday. The two boys, living in Canada said they are "busy" and that their sister will come down from South Africa. Two days to my birthday, my daughter sent this message to me, "Mum, I am very sorry not to be around over there, there is no time to squeeze out, my husband needs my attention at his newly established clinic and presently, I'm pregnant. "I'm very very busy, I'm also lonely in a strange land. Please pray for us mum. Happy birthday". I could not recover from the meaning I got from the message.. "First-things-First". When they needed me for warmth and discussion, I was not available, now I needed them for warmth and discussion I could not get them, rather they returned my slogan back to me, "I'm busy" To worsen the matter, my dear husband died in his sleep a month after. ...Only one of the children came without his family to the burial ceremony. I was dumbfounded!!! Considered Opinion: it is good to work and be a hard working fellow. But hear this important and salient truth: Parenting is sacrificial work, give it all it takes. Avoid any work that will take away your attention too much from your home - Avoid it and be careful! SOLIDIFY YOUR HOME FIRST, CREATE TIME FOR YOUR SPOUSE AND CHILDREN. ESTABLISH THE FEAR OF GOD IN THEIR HEARTS THROUGH YOUR ATTITUDE AND BEHAVIOUR. THOUGH IT IS COSTLY NOW, THE FUTURE REWARD IS WORTH IT. THIS IS AN EYE OPENER FOR BOTH MEN & WOMEN. LET'S BE SELFLESSLY AVAILABLE WHEN OUR CHILDREN NEED US.

Responsibilities of a Father in a Family: _Primary Responsibilities:_ 1. Providing financial support 2. Emotional guidance and support 3. Disciplining and setting boundaries 4. Role-modeling values and behavior 5. Protecting and ensuring family safety _Emotional Support:_ 1. Listening and validating feelings 2. Offering comfort and reassurance 3. Encouraging open communication 4. Supporting partner's emotional needs 5. Modeling healthy emotional expression _Discipline and Guidance:_ 1. Setting clear expectations and rules 2. Teaching life skills and values 3. Encouraging responsibility and independence 4. Modeling respectful communication 5. Providing constructive feedback _Financial Provision:_ 1. Managing household finances 2. Providing for family's basic needs 3. Planning for future financial security 4. Saving for children's education 5. Ensuring family's economic stability _Role-Modeling:_ 1. Demonstrating integrity and honesty 2. Modeling respectful relationships 3. Teaching respect for authority 4. Encouraging physical and mental well-being 5. Embodying values and principles _Parenting Partnership:_ 1. Co-parenting with mother 2. Sharing childcare responsibilities 3. Collaborating on discipline and guidance 4. Supporting partner's parenting style 5. Maintaining united front in parenting _Community Involvement:_ 1. Participating in children's activities 2. Volunteering in community or school 3. Building relationships with neighbors 4. Role-modeling social responsibility 5. Fostering community connections _Personal Growth:_ 1. Pursuing personal interests and hobbies 2. Continuing education and self-improvement 3. Maintaining physical and mental health 4. Setting boundaries and prioritizing self-care 5. Seeking support and resources when needed _Influencing Children's Development:_ 1. Shaping moral and ethical values 2. Encouraging educational and career goals 3. Modeling healthy relationships 4. Teaching life skills and independence 5. Fostering emotional intelligence Remember: 1. Fatherhood is a unique and vital role. 2. Emotional support is crucial for family well-being. 3. Partnership with your spouse is essential. 4. Role-modeling values and behavior shapes children's development. 5. Seeking support is a sign of strength.

I got married at 25, finished my PhD at 27 and became a Professor at 40. So fast you see! Yes, everything around me worked fast. It is now that I realise that it was a misplaced priority. My ambition blindfolded me and I got it all wrong, that is why I am sharing my experience through this medium to warn and encourage our young mothers not to be careless as I was back then. I worked very hard as a lecturer and as an administrator, always so busy that it became my language to my children...."I'm busy" My mum was around to nurse the children for me for some time. The moment they clocked ten, I sent them to boarding schools, though my husband was not in support of this. I always found my way. I had no warm relationship with my children, 2 boys and a girl. I never knew it was a bad idea not to have time for my husband, children and the household, until 5 years ago, when guilt, loneliness and restlessness filled my heart. I sent for my children to rejoice with me on my 60th birthday. The two boys, living in Canada said they are "busy" and that their sister will come down from South Africa. Two days to my birthday, my daughter sent this message to me, "Mum, I am very sorry not to be around over there, there is no time to squeeze out, my husband needs my attention at his newly established clinic and presently, I'm pregnant. "I'm very very busy, I'm also lonely in a strange land. Please pray for us mum. Happy birthday". I could not recover from the meaning I got from the message.. "First-things-First". When they needed me for warmth and discussion, I was not available, now I needed them for warmth and discussion I could not get them, rather they returned my slogan back to me, "I'm busy" To worsen the matter, my dear husband died in his sleep a month after. ...Only one of the children came ​without​ his family to the burial ceremony. I was dumbfounded!!! Considered Opinion: it is good to work and be a hard working fellow. But hear this important and salient truth: Parenting is sacrificial work, give it all it takes. Avoid any work that will take away your attention too much from your home - Avoid it and be careful! SOLIDIFY YOUR HOME FIRST, CREATE TIME FOR YOUR SPOUSE AND CHILDREN. ESTABLISH THE FEAR OF GOD IN THEIR HEARTS THROUGH YOUR ATTITUDE AND BEHAVIOUR. THOUGH IT IS COSTLY NOW, THE FUTURE REWARD IS WORTH IT. THIS IS AN EYE OPENER FOR BOTH MEN & WOMEN. LET'S BE SELFLESSLY AVAILABLE WHEN OUR CHILDREN NEED US. Copied 🤍🥰 May God bless our families. Amen

THE BEST WAY TO BE A FATHER 1. BE THERE: ✅The biggest failure as a man is having a child and rejecting that child, abdicating your responsibility as a father, being quick to have sex and quicker to run away when pregnancy comes. Too many children are hurting because of a father who is alive but has disowned them, it makes the child grow feeling unwanted and unloved, it dents the child's self esteem and some become adults with a constant feeling of rejection. If you have a child, be there; no matter how bad things are between you and the mother of the child- be there; you owe it to your young one. 2. TELL YOUR DAUGHTER SHE IS BEAUTIFUL: ✅The first man to compliment a girl should be her father, the first man to take note of her beauty should be her dad. A girl should grow up convinced she is beautiful and feeling like a king's princess that even when boys and men try to woo her saying she's beautiful she responds "I know, dad has been telling me that for years". Too many girls fall for preying men because they are desperately looking for affection, they have daddy issues and had no encounter with a male figure who genuinely loved them before the preying men noticed their boobs and hips; so they fall prey to men who use compliments and give attention as a carrot to lure to a trap that leads to hurt. 3. MODEL MANHOOD TO THE SONS: ✅A boy comes into the world as a naive student who will absorb what the male figures around him teach. He can be taught the right way to be a man or be misled. He learns how to treat females whether good or bad from the men around him. He should learn proper manhood from the father. The father should model how best to treat and respect females, how to love as a man, how to work, how to provide, how to be a man of integrity. 4. EAT WITH YOUR FAMILY: ✅ Food brings people together, one of the greatest show of security to a child is when the dad makes time to share meals. 5. BE THE SPIRITUAL LEADER: ✅ The father should be the High Priest. He should lead the child/ children towards living a Godly life, he should be seen praying, reading God's word, living out a Godly life, loving. The child should be given a Godly foundation that will shape a stable future and the father should be seen submitting to the God who gave the child life and who makes parenthood possible. 6. LISTEN: ✅ A child with a father who loves to listen grows in confidence. When a child feels he/she can tell daddy anything, no battle will intimidate the child. Sometimes you don't have to say much, just sit back and pay attention. The first need of love is to be listened to, to be treated like how you feel and what you have to say is important. 7. GIVE ADVICE: ✅ A father should be there to offer counsel whether solicited or not. Children cry for direction. As a father, be involved in the process of the seeking of answers. Be open about your mistakes, your childhood, your lessons and your expectations of the child. Give advice not as a dictator whose word is final lest you isolate yourself from the child because the child can do what you ask yet fear and despise you; but help the child understand why you are insisting on your way, help the child understand your reasons, train your child to think through solutions; this way, he/ she will grow up with the self-sufficient capacity of making sound and wise decisions. 8. BE PRESENT: ✅ The father's presence should be felt, too many fathers have left parenting to the wife. The best test of love is the giving of time, do not fail this test. 9. REFRAIN FROM THROWING MONEY AT THE PROBLEM: ✅ No matter how rich you are, fatherhood is not done by throwing money at issues. When your child complains of your absence, when problems arise, when dealing with your child becomes a handful and you feel you have no time; don't use money to silence or appease the child. Fatherhood is a hands on approach, it will not be easy but its fruits are sweet. Don't escape through your ATM. Material things can contain a child for a while, but soon the child will look around and see empty things but no love from dad. 10. SHOW UP: ✅ Make daddy appearances; show up at your child's sports day, birthday, parent's day, graduation or any other special day. Make random visits to what your child cares alot about even if for a few minutes. Meet your child's friends briefly, let your child feel daddy's loving eyes are watching over me.

RESPONSIBILITIES OF A FATHER IN A FAMILY : PRIMARY RESPONSIBILITIES : 1. Providing financial support 2. Emotional guidance and support 3. Disciplining and setting boundaries 4. Role-modeling values and behavior 5. Protecting and ensuring family safety EMOTIONAL SUPPORT : 1. Listening and validating feelings 2. Offering comfort and reassurance 3. Encouraging open communication 4. Supporting partner's emotional needs 5. Modeling healthy emotional expression DISCIPLINE AND GUIDANCE : 1. Setting clear expectations and rules 2. Teaching life skills and values 3. Encouraging responsibility and independence 4. Modeling respectful communication 5. Providing constructive feedback FINANCIAL PROVISION : 1. Managing household finances 2. Providing for family's basic needs 3. Planning for future financial security 4. Saving for children's education 5. Ensuring family's economic stability ROLE-MODELING : 1. Demonstrating integrity and honesty 2. Modeling respectful relationships 3. Teaching respect for authority 4. Encouraging physical and mental well-being 5. Embodying values and principles PARENTING PARTNERSHIP: 1. Co-parenting with mother 2. Sharing childcare responsibilities 3. Collaborating on discipline and guidance 4. Supporting partner's parenting style 5. Maintaining united front in parenting COMMUNITY INVOLVEMENT: 1. Participating in children's activities 2. Volunteering in community or school 3. Building relationships with neighbors 4. Role-modeling social responsibility 5. Fostering community connections PERSONAL GROWTH: 1. Pursuing personal interests and hobbies 2. Continuing education and self-improvement 3. Maintaining physical and mental health 4. Setting boundaries and prioritizing self-care 5. Seeking support and resources when needed INFLUENCING CHILDREN'S DEVELOPMENT: 1. Shaping moral and ethical values 2. Encouraging educational and career goals 3. Modeling healthy relationships 4. Teaching life skills and independence 5. Fostering emotional