*THE RESTORER'S DAILY GUIDE* DATE: SUNDAY 13TH JULY 2025 THEME: *BE DETERMINED* MEMORIZE Matthew 11:12 And from the days of John the Baptist until now the kingdom of heaven suffereth violence, and the violent take it by force. READ Mark 2:1-5 And again he entered into Capernaum, after some days; and it was noised that he was in the house. And straightway many were gathered together, insomuch that there was no room to receive them, no, not so much as about the door: and he preached the word unto them. And they come unto him, bringing one sick of the palsy, which was borne of four. And when they could not come nigh unto him for the press, they uncovered the roof where he was: and when they had broken it up, they let down the bed wherein the sick of the palsy lay. When Jesus saw their faith, he said unto the sick of the palsy, Son, thy sins be forgiven thee. THOUGHT FOR THE DAY *Determination will always find a way out no matter the barriers and obstacles it encounters on its path.* MESSAGE Determination is firmness of purpose. It is the tendency to move in a fixed direction. Determination is the result of faith in the heart and purpose in the soul. It forces its way through opposition to reach its goal. It is an unflinching belief in a cause that must be accomplished. It says: there is no going back until purpose is actualized to the letter. It is the ability to maintain focus to the end of a cause. Determination will always find a way to reach its goal no matter the barriers and obstacles it encounters on its path. Today's text paints a clear picture of what determination is all about and what it can do in order to accomplish its goal. The four nameless helpers of the paralytic man embodied determination as a team. And by their actions to meet Jesus at all costs, they showcased resolute faith. Determination being an offshoot of faith can only reflect its source and identity. Obstacles, challenges, and difficulties are normal with the fallen earth when it comes to pursuing any task on the earth: but with determination, there is always a way out. It doesn't matter the challenges lined up on your path to purpose. You will reach your goal and have your desires granted if you are truly determined. ACTION STEPS 1. Establish a divine purpose or task that must be accomplished. 2. Map out strategies to follow. 3. Be determined to follow through to the end. PRAYERS Dear heavenly Father, Thank you for today's devotional guide. Help me to stay focused on your plan for my life and to fulfil it in Jesus' name. Amen. REMEMBER *Determination will always find a way out no matter the barriers and obstacles it encounters on its path.* AUTHOR: JEDIDIAH DAVID DAILY READING: Ecclesiastes 11-12, 2Thess 3, 1Timothy 1-2. HYMN When we walk with the Lord In the light of His Word, What a glory He sheds on our way ! While we do His good will. He abides with us still, And with all who will trust and obey. Trust and obey, for there's no other way To be happy in Jesus but to trust and obey. 2 Not a shadow can rise Not a cloud in the skies, But His smile quickly drives it away ; Not a doubt nor a fear, Not a sigh nor a tear, Can abide while we trust and obey. 3 Not a burden we bear, Not a sorrow we share, But our toil He doth richly repay ; Not a grief nor a loss, Not a frown nor a cross, But is blest if we trust and obey. 4 But we never can prove The delights of His love, Until all on the altar we lay ; For the favour He shows, And the joy He bestows, Are for them who will trust and obey. 5 Then in fellowship sweet We will sit at His feet, Or we'll walk by His side in the way ; What He says we will do, Where He sends we will go, Never fear, only trust and obey. PLEASE SHARE

IMPORTANCE OF SAYING SORRY IN A RELATIONSHIP AND MARRIAGE WHEN YOU ARE WRONG Apologizing is an essential part of maintaining a healthy, strong, and resilient relationship or marriage. It serves as a bridge to healing, restoring trust, and building a deeper connection with your partner. Here’s why saying sorry is so important: WHY APOLOGIZE? 🤔 1. Acknowledges hurt or wrongdoing An apology signals that you recognize the pain or harm caused by your actions, showing that you care about how your partner feels. 2. Shows empathy and understanding It reflects an understanding of your partner's perspective and emotions, demonstrating that you value their feelings. 3. Diffuses tension and conflict Apologizing helps to de-escalate difficult situations, calming emotions and clearing the air for healthy communication. 4. Rebuilds trust and credibility A sincere apology demonstrates your willingness to take responsibility for your actions, which helps rebuild lost trust and re-establish credibility in your relationship. 5. Demonstrates accountability and responsibility Apologizing shows you are accountable for your actions, accepting responsibility rather than deflecting blame. 6. Encourages forgiveness and healing Saying sorry opens the door to forgiveness, allowing both partners to move forward and heal together. 7. Strengthens communication and intimacy Apologizing fosters open, honest conversations, deepening emotional intimacy and mutual understanding. 8. Sets a positive example for conflict resolution By apologizing, you teach the importance of humility, reconciliation, and healthy conflict resolution to others, especially children or those observing your relationship. Follow this channel ✅ https://whatsapp.com/channel/0029Vak8fCV9xVJbSFCiGN1K BENEFITS OF APOLOGIZING 🥰 1. Reduces stress and anxiety Apologies clear the air, easing emotional tension and creating a more peaceful environment. 2. Increases feelings of love and affection A heartfelt apology can rekindle affection, making your partner feel valued and loved, even after a disagreement. 3. Improves communication and understanding Apologizing encourages open dialogue and helps both partners understand each other better, leading to stronger communication. 4. Enhances relationship satisfaction Relationships where apologies are given sincerely are more likely to be fulfilling and positive. 5. Encourages personal growth and self-awareness Apologizing invites self-reflection, allowing both partners to learn from their mistakes and grow individually and together. 6. Fosters a culture of respect and empathy By apologizing, you reinforce a culture where mutual respect and empathy thrive, making the relationship a safe space for both partners. 7. Helps to avoid resentment and anger Avoiding the “silent treatment” or holding grudges, a genuine apology helps to prevent negative emotions from building up over time. 8. Promotes a healthier and happier relationship Relationships that feature regular, honest apologies are healthier and more likely to be enduring because they are rooted in love and respect. HOW TO APOLOGIZE EFFECTIVELY 🙏 4 1. Use the "3 Rs" of apology: Regret, Responsibility, and Remedy Regret the hurt caused, take responsibility for your actions, and suggest a remedy for moving forward. 2. Be sincere and genuine in your apology Authenticity is key. A half-hearted apology can often do more harm than good. 3. Listen actively to your partner's concerns Give your partner space to express their feelings and truly listen without interrupting or defending yourself. 4. Validate your partner's feelings and experiences Acknowledge that your partner's feelings are valid, even if you didn’t intend to hurt them. 5. Offer a specific solution or plan for change Demonstrate your commitment to improving by offering a clear solution or changes you’ll make moving forward. 6. Follow through on your commitments An apology is only meaningful if it’s backed up by action. Ensure that you take steps to avoid repeating the same mistake. 7. Show empathy and understanding Show that you truly understand how your actions have impacted your partner, not just in words but in actions as well. 8. Be patient and open to feedback Healing takes time. Be patient with your partner and open to hearing how they feel, even if it takes time to forgive. TIPS FOR MEN 🤜🤛 1. Swallow your pride and admit fault It takes strength to admit when you’re wrong. Let go of your ego to foster a deeper connection. 2. Use "I" statements to take ownership Phrases like “I am sorry for…” rather than “You made me do…” put the responsibility on you. 3. Avoid making excuses or justifying Resist the urge to explain away the mistake. Just apologize and focus on your partner’s feelings. 4. Show vulnerability and emotional intelligence Being open about your emotions builds trust and shows that you care about your partner's feelings. 5. Be willing to make amends Your partner should feel that your apology is sincere, so be prepared to make real changes if necessary. TIPS FOR WOMEN 👗 1. Communicate clearly and assertively Share your feelings honestly and directly, avoiding passive-aggressive behavior or withholding. 2. Specify what you need from your partner Let your partner know what will help resolve the issue or what you need moving forward. 3. Avoid being critical or judgmental Offer a soft, loving approach when addressing the issue, rather than criticizing or pointing fingers. 4. Show appreciation for your partner's apology When your partner apologizes, acknowledge their effort and express gratitude for their sincerity. 5. Encourage open and honest communication Foster a space where both partners can freely express their feelings without fear of judgment. WHEN TO APOLOGIZE 🤝 1. After a conflict or argument Don’t wait for too long to apologize. Address the issue as soon as possible to prevent lingering resentment. 2. When you've hurt or offended your partner If your words or actions have caused pain, it’s important to recognize that and apologize immediately. 3. When you've made a mistake or error A simple acknowledgment that you were wrong goes a long way in healing wounds. 4. When you've broken a promise or commitment If you’ve failed to keep your word, apologize and demonstrate that you can be trusted moving forward. 5. When you've disregarded your partner's feelings Apologizing when you’ve been insensitive shows respect for your partner's emotional well-being. Saying sorry isn’t just about saying words; it’s about understanding, acknowledging, and healing. By apologizing effectively, you strengthen your relationship, deepen trust, and build a stronger foundation for the future.

🇬🇭🇺🇦Ghana seeking partnership with Ukraine on drones, the same Ukraine that is supporting terrorism in the Sahel: Ghana is set to deepen its bilateral cooperation with Ukraine, with a strong focus on acquiring Ukrainian drone technologies. This follows a July 11 conversation between Ghanaian President John Dramani Mahama and Ukrainian President Volodymyr Zelenskyy, who shared the news on X. President Zelenskyy said Ghana’s interest in Ukraine’s advanced drone production capabilities and battlefield experience was gained during the ongoing war with Russia. Ukraine has rapidly become a global leader in drone innovation, making it an attractive defense and technology partner.

The aftermath of the 2007 post-election violence. Watch the full documentary 👇 🎥 @Nyamisa_Chela & @Mizani254 Credits: @bonifacemwangi Download it at t.me/TheNairobiTimez and share it widely Such words can lead to the same 👇 “We will rig the election for William Ruto in 2027, and it's not even a secret.” Women Rep Wajir County Fatuma Abdi Jehow Confirms 👇

WHAT A COUNTRY CALLED NIGERIA ALWAYS SILENCING THE FREEDOM... The Nigerian Army has reportedly taken into custody a vocal soldier known as EXMAN, who is a fearless advocate against corruption in the Nigerian military

Two years ago many people mocked Rema, said he sounds like Indian . He was not hurt , he told them he was going to invade the Indian market and be big there . 2 years later he is invited by the Indian Billionaire Ambani , he gets paid $3m which is 4.5 billion naira for a 10 minutes performance. See eh , don’t let people discourage you , if you have a focus , keep grinding and going . Rema’s performance was the best and the couple promised to invite him again . It’s just crazy how everyone was singing to the song 🔥 Moral lesson : Beliebe in what you do , don’t stop , don’t give up .

I'm STILL healing. Healing from it all. Not only toxic relationships or heartbreaks. I am healing from the mistakes I made in the past. From.. family issues, friendship issues, from failing myself, from disappointments, and from expectations I couldn't reach because I was too focused on the wrong things. Also healing from times l've been betrayed by the people I THOUGHT I could count on & TRUST! My soul is still learning to clap for the pieces of myself that nobody wants to clap for. I am still in the process of figuring things out on my OWN. I am STILL healing silently. I'm more focused than ever & ready to become the BEST version of myself!!

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*OFFICE OF THE PUBLIC RELATION OFFICER (PRO), STUDENT UNION GOVERNMENT, NIGER DELTA UNIVERSITY* *MANDATORY MEETING INVITATION* Attention all Faculty, Departmental, and Sociocultural Public Relations Officers (PROs)! You are cordially invited to a crucial meeting scheduled for: Date: Sunday, 13th July 2025 Time: 4:00PM PROMPT Venue: Crocodile Bar Your presence is mandatory, and we look forward to seeing you there. Agenda: To be disclosed at the venue Let's come together to discuss important matters affecting our faculties, departments, and sociocultural organizations. *Your participation is vital!* Best regards, Comr. Miracle Peter, PRO (SUG)

to vote for my preferred party. So they told me they have just APC and PDP ballot papers alone. ~ A voter lamented over the LG local poll

🇬🇧#CHELSEA vs #PSG🇫🇷 "PSG are in great form this year and have been winning their Club World Cup matches with big scorelines, which gives them at least a 50% edge toward the trophy. But many people are underestimating Chelsea. And you know, it’s often the underestimated teams that end up shocking the world. I coached Chelsea for years, and I know what that team is capable of—especially in finals. Chelsea doesn’t joke when it comes to big games." ~ Jose Mourinho

🩸The Silent Cry: The Real Dangers of Abortion Intro: A True-Like Story That Happens Every Day Ama was only 19, in her second year at the university. Bright. Ambitious. Full of dreams. But life doesn’t always go as planned. She found out she was pregnant. The father? A guy who had already moved on. Family? She feared the shame. Friends? Most encouraged her to "just take it out and move on." So one quiet afternoon, Ama walked into a backstreet clinic—no signboard, no license, just a promise of quick results. She came out with a heavy heart, bleeding… not just physically but emotionally and spiritually. Days later, Ama collapsed in her hostel. The infection had spread. Her womb was damaged. Her dreams of ever carrying a child again? Gone. This is not just Ama’s story. It is the story of thousands of young women across Ghana and Africa. Some survive. Some don’t. Most carry the scars forever. 🔴 What Is Abortion? Abortion is the deliberate termination of a pregnancy before the baby can survive outside the womb. While some abortions are carried out under strict medical guidance due to life-threatening complications, unsafe abortions—especially those done secretly, by untrained persons, or in unsanitary places—pose deadly risks. ⚠️ Dangers of Abortion (Especially Unsafe or Repeated) 1. Physical Health Risks Severe bleeding (hemorrhage): Can lead to death if untreated. Infections: Unsanitary tools or poor hygiene can introduce bacteria that damage reproductive organs or cause sepsis (blood poisoning). Womb perforation: Instruments can tear the uterus, leading to long-term complications or emergency surgery. Infertility: Damage to the womb or fallopian tubes can result in permanent infertility. Organ damage: Unsafe procedures can harm nearby organs like the bladder or intestines. 2. Mental and Emotional Trauma Depression, guilt, and regret are common. Post-Abortion Syndrome: A condition similar to PTSD, marked by anxiety, nightmares, emotional numbness, and self-blame. 3. Social and Spiritual Consequences Emotional distance from partners or family. Isolation due to fear or stigma. Spiritual guilt or disconnection for those with strong religious values. 💔 Common Myths That Push Women Toward Abortion “It’s just a small problem, take it out.” → No. Pregnancy involves two lives: the mother and the child. “Abortion is safer than giving birth.” → Only when done legally and under medical care. Unsafe abortions kill more women than childbirth in many places. “You can’t get pregnant again after just one abortion.” → Many women have faced infertility after a single poorly done abortion. 💡 What Should You Do Instead? Talk to a health professional: Seek counseling and support services. Look into adoption: Many families are looking to adopt children. Educate yourself: Know your body, understand protection, and make informed decisions. Join support groups: You're not alone. There are safe spaces to help you make the best decision. ❤️ The Way Forward for Ghana and Africa We need more education—not judgment. We need safe spaces, not silence. We need men to take responsibility, not escape it. We need communities to empower, not shame. Let’s protect our women, our daughters, and our sisters from the trap of unsafe abortions.