• I“I will never forget the lesson Wizkid taught me. You see, back in the day when I was still under Mavin Records, I dropped one of the biggest love songs in Africa—‘Romantic.’ I featured Tiwa Savage on the track, and the plan was for us to play lovebirds in the music video. You know, hold hands, dance a little, maybe even vibe like a real couple.

    But guess what? Tiwa said, ‘I can’t do this. You’re like a child to me. I’m 17 years older than you. I can’t let a small boy rock my body in a music video.’

    I was shocked! I mean, it’s just acting, right? But she wouldn’t agree. Because of that, the director had to find a vixen to replace her for the romantic scenes. No problem, we moved on.

    Fast forward a few years later, and this same Tiwa was not just dancing but tw£rking for Wizkid! She was all over him, online and offline—and mind you, she’s still older than him, about 11 years’ difference. But this time, age wasn’t a problem anymore.
    Make money and be honour

    Life isn’t balanced at all.”
    I“I will never forget the lesson Wizkid taught me. You see, back in the day when I was still under Mavin Records, I dropped one of the biggest love songs in Africa—‘Romantic.’ I featured Tiwa Savage on the track, and the plan was for us to play lovebirds in the music video. You know, hold hands, dance a little, maybe even vibe like a real couple. But guess what? Tiwa said, ‘I can’t do this. You’re like a child to me. I’m 17 years older than you. I can’t let a small boy rock my body in a music video.’ I was shocked! I mean, it’s just acting, right? But she wouldn’t agree. Because of that, the director had to find a vixen to replace her for the romantic scenes. No problem, we moved on. Fast forward a few years later, and this same Tiwa was not just dancing but tw£rking for Wizkid! She was all over him, online and offline—and mind you, she’s still older than him, about 11 years’ difference. But this time, age wasn’t a problem anymore. Make money and be honour Life isn’t balanced at all.”
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  • Kendrick Lamar's hit single "Not Like Us" just received a surge of new nominations, making it the most award-nominated diss song in hip-hop history. K-Dot's Drake diss, which won five Grammy Awards in February, continues to draw critical acclaim, as the song has earned three nominations for the upcoming 2025 American Music Awards. See details in the comments below.
    Kendrick Lamar's hit single "Not Like Us" just received a surge of new nominations, making it the most award-nominated diss song in hip-hop history. K-Dot's Drake diss, which won five Grammy Awards in February, continues to draw critical acclaim, as the song has earned three nominations for the upcoming 2025 American Music Awards. See details in the comments below. ⬇️
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  • MBOMUZO IN OKWUOHIA AUTONOMOUS COMMUNITY,
    OBOWO L.G.A., IMO STATE, NIGERIA.
    Okwuohia is a Community in Obowo
    L.G.A., of Imo state, Nigeria, that has enviable rich historical background and deep cultural heritage. Okwuohia is the only community in Obowo and the old ETITI District that has four markets covering the four market days in Igbo calendar, namely: Eke, Orie, Afor and Nkwo. All these have distinct locations and hold accordingly.
    The community prides herself with many cultural festivals which include Mbomuzo, Ntumaka, Nrim-ji (Iri ji) among others. But the one that attracts people in their numbers to the community is, "MBOMUZO", a-k-a "NKUISI-MKPURU-UKWA".
    MBOMUZO simply means, "clearing of the roads ", otherwise known as environmental cleansing, especially with regard to roads leading to traditional centres and matket places. It is intended to make the roads passable again in order to give proper access to the markets and homes of citizens.
    In Okwuohia, all roads are cleared very thoroughly starting from individual homes to the Eke-Okwuohia, Orie-Okwuohia, Afor-Okwuohia and Nkwo-Okwuohia market squares. Also, roads leading to major and significant rivers are cleared. For instance, the Onu-iyi-lolo-nwanyi (Onu-ngele) stream at Umuduru Mgbakam is usually kept cleared for the "AHIA-NGANGA" ceremony by the women of Okwuohia during the same period. It has to be noted that all the road clearing and cleansing must be completed on or before the NKWO market day preceding the EKE market day of the ceremony.
    NKUISI-MKPURU-UKWA: As said earlier in this write-up, MBOMUZO Okwuohia is also referred to as NKUISI-MKPURU-UKWA. Why?
    Ours, is an agrarian community. In those good old days, our people cultivated yams, coco-yams, maize, cassava and mkpokoro in large scales. Farming was done more at locations far away from homes. Due to this, farmers constructed make-shift structures there in the bush/farms, where they rested and had their meals during the toils of the day. Most times, people returned to their homes very late in the evening. Major foods eaten in the farms those days were bread-fruits (Ukwa), palm kernels, yams and coco-yams. The bread-fruits were eaten whole without removing the the shells or the outer covers. Farming took place between the months of January and May, during which period farmers fed on any available food items. When such farmers returned to their homes from their farms in the month of May, they settled down to enjoy more pleasant and well prepared food. They would no longer eat the bread-fruits with their shells. Also, they cleaned their environments that had been left bushy during the period of intensive farming activities in the farms. From their homes, clearing and cleansing progress to the roads that lead to other homes and traditional centres. At this time, people begin to exchange visits with relatives and friends both far and near to show that they have returned home after the farming period in the bush. Such visits are usually reciprocated. During such visits, entertainments are unlimited based on the dispositions of the parties involved. In Okwuohia, after the entertainment at home, people gather at the designated market square to demonstrate it the more. The venue is usually at the ORIE OKWUOHIA, where the EKWIRIKWE music music is played and danced in an organized manner.
    EKWIRIKWE MUSIC AND ORDER OF DANCING:
    After the presentation and blessing of kola-nuts by the traditional ruler of Okwuohia, who declares the ceremony open after his speech and brief demonstration of the dance, the ceremony begins. Ofeiyi people, who are the custodians of the EKWIRIKWE do a brief demonstration dance. Thereafter, the traditional order of seniority of the three sections of Okwuohia is strictly observed thus: MGBAKAM, OFEIYI and AMARAMOHIA. Finally, a general dance which is usually longer and more thrilling comes up and marks the end of the ceremony.
    The EKWIRIKWE music delivers messages which present Okwuohia as place with people of remarkable mutual respect, prowess and noted for wrestling. EKWIRIKWE music is used to caution Okwuohia people not to eat the bread-fruits with the shells again after the Mbomuzo. Hence, "ONYE ATALA UKWA NA MKPEKELE" and "NKUISI-MKPURU-UKWA". This is demonstrated by hitting one's back-side to symbolically discharge the ones eaten previously. Before the EKWIRIKWE dance arena is approached, people sing various songs and dance along the road according to Age Grades, socicultural groups and sections.
    MBOMUZO AND THE PRONOUNCEMENT OF DATE.
    Only the Eze of Okwuohia, in consultation with you Traditional Council has the powers to announce the date for MBOMUZO every year. Above all, it is a known fact that Okwuohia community is the first among all the communities in Obowo and even the old ETITI District to perform Mbomuzo every year, thus determining the cultural calendar for other communities that perform the same and or related festivals.
    Mbomuzo holds in Okwuohia on the second EKE-Okwuohia market day in the month of June every year. Visitors, friends, in-laws and well -wishers of the community visit the community to enjoy the characteristic hospitality and conviviality associated with the ceremony. Entertainment items are unlimited especially according to the preparedness of the individual families and persons during the period. Such entertainment items include and not limited to polished bread-fruit meals, maize pudding, cassava foo-foo, oil-bean pudding and different kinds of drinks.
    PROBLEMS:
    The festival has suffered from various problems which include but not limited to wrong perceptions, misrepresentation, misconception, ignorance, ineptitude, iconoclasm and apathy. Many, especially the less informed and the neo-religious groups strongly hold to the perception that that the festival is fetish and wasteful (especially those who are not willing to spend their resources to host guests).
    ADVANTAGES:
    The period leads to keeping the surroundings clean, re-union of families, friends, in-laws and well -wishers, tourist attraction and advancing our cultural heritage including ensuring the acquisition and development of the EKWIRIKWE playing and dancing skills.
    In the good old days, women who earnestly took part in the road and market clearing and cleansing and later took part in the AHIA-NGANGA activities after bathing on serious intents at the Onu-Lolo-nwanyi (Onu-Ngele) stream, would appear at Mbomuzo the following year either pregnant or as nursing mothers if they either prayed for or desired such thereby.
    MODIFICATIONS SO FAR:
    Since culture is dynamic, efforts have been made by the leadership of Okwuohia community, over time, to modify certain aspects of the festival and programmes there-of in order to exponge some questionable and undesirable aspects of it. For instance, the timing and declaration of the date of the festival are now done by the Traditional ruler of Okwuohia in synergy with the Traditional Council. Also, no shrine or deity is either worshipped or honoured before, during and even after the festival. Most times, the traditional rulership open the festival with Christian thanks-giving worship at an agreed Christian church here in Okwuohia.
    CONCLUSION:
    In line with the realities of the present moments, efforts should be made to allow for acceptable modifications while there should be insistence on protecting and upholding the soul, spirit and purports of the cultural heritage of our dear Okwuohia community especially as regards affects MBOMUZO.
    Written by:
    Chief Emma C. Anyanwu, (DIKEMBA),
    1st Traditional Prime Minister and Currently the Chairman of Okwuohia Traditional Council,
    Being a lecture presented by me at the 2019 edition of MBOMUZO festival, at EKE-OKWUOHIA Market Square.
    MBOMUZO IN OKWUOHIA AUTONOMOUS COMMUNITY, OBOWO L.G.A., IMO STATE, NIGERIA. Okwuohia is a Community in Obowo L.G.A., of Imo state, Nigeria, that has enviable rich historical background and deep cultural heritage. Okwuohia is the only community in Obowo and the old ETITI District that has four markets covering the four market days in Igbo calendar, namely: Eke, Orie, Afor and Nkwo. All these have distinct locations and hold accordingly. The community prides herself with many cultural festivals which include Mbomuzo, Ntumaka, Nrim-ji (Iri ji) among others. But the one that attracts people in their numbers to the community is, "MBOMUZO", a-k-a "NKUISI-MKPURU-UKWA". MBOMUZO simply means, "clearing of the roads ", otherwise known as environmental cleansing, especially with regard to roads leading to traditional centres and matket places. It is intended to make the roads passable again in order to give proper access to the markets and homes of citizens. In Okwuohia, all roads are cleared very thoroughly starting from individual homes to the Eke-Okwuohia, Orie-Okwuohia, Afor-Okwuohia and Nkwo-Okwuohia market squares. Also, roads leading to major and significant rivers are cleared. For instance, the Onu-iyi-lolo-nwanyi (Onu-ngele) stream at Umuduru Mgbakam is usually kept cleared for the "AHIA-NGANGA" ceremony by the women of Okwuohia during the same period. It has to be noted that all the road clearing and cleansing must be completed on or before the NKWO market day preceding the EKE market day of the ceremony. NKUISI-MKPURU-UKWA: As said earlier in this write-up, MBOMUZO Okwuohia is also referred to as NKUISI-MKPURU-UKWA. Why? Ours, is an agrarian community. In those good old days, our people cultivated yams, coco-yams, maize, cassava and mkpokoro in large scales. Farming was done more at locations far away from homes. Due to this, farmers constructed make-shift structures there in the bush/farms, where they rested and had their meals during the toils of the day. Most times, people returned to their homes very late in the evening. Major foods eaten in the farms those days were bread-fruits (Ukwa), palm kernels, yams and coco-yams. The bread-fruits were eaten whole without removing the the shells or the outer covers. Farming took place between the months of January and May, during which period farmers fed on any available food items. When such farmers returned to their homes from their farms in the month of May, they settled down to enjoy more pleasant and well prepared food. They would no longer eat the bread-fruits with their shells. Also, they cleaned their environments that had been left bushy during the period of intensive farming activities in the farms. From their homes, clearing and cleansing progress to the roads that lead to other homes and traditional centres. At this time, people begin to exchange visits with relatives and friends both far and near to show that they have returned home after the farming period in the bush. Such visits are usually reciprocated. During such visits, entertainments are unlimited based on the dispositions of the parties involved. In Okwuohia, after the entertainment at home, people gather at the designated market square to demonstrate it the more. The venue is usually at the ORIE OKWUOHIA, where the EKWIRIKWE music music is played and danced in an organized manner. EKWIRIKWE MUSIC AND ORDER OF DANCING: After the presentation and blessing of kola-nuts by the traditional ruler of Okwuohia, who declares the ceremony open after his speech and brief demonstration of the dance, the ceremony begins. Ofeiyi people, who are the custodians of the EKWIRIKWE do a brief demonstration dance. Thereafter, the traditional order of seniority of the three sections of Okwuohia is strictly observed thus: MGBAKAM, OFEIYI and AMARAMOHIA. Finally, a general dance which is usually longer and more thrilling comes up and marks the end of the ceremony. The EKWIRIKWE music delivers messages which present Okwuohia as place with people of remarkable mutual respect, prowess and noted for wrestling. EKWIRIKWE music is used to caution Okwuohia people not to eat the bread-fruits with the shells again after the Mbomuzo. Hence, "ONYE ATALA UKWA NA MKPEKELE" and "NKUISI-MKPURU-UKWA". This is demonstrated by hitting one's back-side to symbolically discharge the ones eaten previously. Before the EKWIRIKWE dance arena is approached, people sing various songs and dance along the road according to Age Grades, socicultural groups and sections. MBOMUZO AND THE PRONOUNCEMENT OF DATE. Only the Eze of Okwuohia, in consultation with you Traditional Council has the powers to announce the date for MBOMUZO every year. Above all, it is a known fact that Okwuohia community is the first among all the communities in Obowo and even the old ETITI District to perform Mbomuzo every year, thus determining the cultural calendar for other communities that perform the same and or related festivals. Mbomuzo holds in Okwuohia on the second EKE-Okwuohia market day in the month of June every year. Visitors, friends, in-laws and well -wishers of the community visit the community to enjoy the characteristic hospitality and conviviality associated with the ceremony. Entertainment items are unlimited especially according to the preparedness of the individual families and persons during the period. Such entertainment items include and not limited to polished bread-fruit meals, maize pudding, cassava foo-foo, oil-bean pudding and different kinds of drinks. PROBLEMS: The festival has suffered from various problems which include but not limited to wrong perceptions, misrepresentation, misconception, ignorance, ineptitude, iconoclasm and apathy. Many, especially the less informed and the neo-religious groups strongly hold to the perception that that the festival is fetish and wasteful (especially those who are not willing to spend their resources to host guests). ADVANTAGES: The period leads to keeping the surroundings clean, re-union of families, friends, in-laws and well -wishers, tourist attraction and advancing our cultural heritage including ensuring the acquisition and development of the EKWIRIKWE playing and dancing skills. In the good old days, women who earnestly took part in the road and market clearing and cleansing and later took part in the AHIA-NGANGA activities after bathing on serious intents at the Onu-Lolo-nwanyi (Onu-Ngele) stream, would appear at Mbomuzo the following year either pregnant or as nursing mothers if they either prayed for or desired such thereby. MODIFICATIONS SO FAR: Since culture is dynamic, efforts have been made by the leadership of Okwuohia community, over time, to modify certain aspects of the festival and programmes there-of in order to exponge some questionable and undesirable aspects of it. For instance, the timing and declaration of the date of the festival are now done by the Traditional ruler of Okwuohia in synergy with the Traditional Council. Also, no shrine or deity is either worshipped or honoured before, during and even after the festival. Most times, the traditional rulership open the festival with Christian thanks-giving worship at an agreed Christian church here in Okwuohia. CONCLUSION: In line with the realities of the present moments, efforts should be made to allow for acceptable modifications while there should be insistence on protecting and upholding the soul, spirit and purports of the cultural heritage of our dear Okwuohia community especially as regards affects MBOMUZO. Written by: Chief Emma C. Anyanwu, (DIKEMBA), 1st Traditional Prime Minister and Currently the Chairman of Okwuohia Traditional Council, Being a lecture presented by me at the 2019 edition of MBOMUZO festival, at EKE-OKWUOHIA Market Square.
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  • “As it stands now, you can’t even book Flavour for this Christmas. He has already been booked for the rest of the year till Christmas. Show promoters have learnt that it’s only in January & early February that you can book Flavour for the year. Anything past February, forget about it. He’ll tell you, Oga I’m sorry, that day has been taken.

    “That boy is a continent by himself. He has no competition. He’s music himself. Did you know he plays about 20 instruments?” — Legendary music executive, Obi Asika reveals in a recent podcast
    “As it stands now, you can’t even book Flavour for this Christmas. He has already been booked for the rest of the year till Christmas. Show promoters have learnt that it’s only in January & early February that you can book Flavour for the year. Anything past February, forget about it. He’ll tell you, Oga I’m sorry, that day has been taken. “That boy is a continent by himself. He has no competition. He’s music himself. Did you know he plays about 20 instruments?” — Legendary music executive, Obi Asika reveals in a recent podcast
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  • “This same Burna Boy that is a million dollars plus today, they used to block him from performing in Lagos earlier on in his career, because he’s from Port Harcourt. He fought, bypassed everybody & exploded. Now he can’t be blocked anymore.” — Legendary music executive, Obi Asika
    “This same Burna Boy that is a million dollars plus today, they used to block him from performing in Lagos earlier on in his career, because he’s from Port Harcourt. He fought, bypassed everybody & exploded. Now he can’t be blocked anymore.” — Legendary music executive, Obi Asika
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  • He pursued me for a while for a date. I don’t know, but he always came around when I was busy, so I kept telling him no. One day, he came to my office. I hadn’t closed yet, but he sat in the lobby and waited until I closed so he could take me on a date.

    I gave him 100/100 for effort. I was only going to see how the date would end so I could decide if he was worth it. He was humorous, he liked my kind of music, and the conversation was great. I think I was softening my stance until he had to show me something on his phone, and I saw his wallpaper—a voluptuous woman with a thick behind and in-your-face kind of *****.

    It could have been just a wallpaper, but when I jokingly said, "This wallpaper of yours is crazy ooo," he answered, "You women are magic. This wallpaper cures my headache and depression." He burst out laughing. I could see the happiness in his eyes, but I had none of the things the woman on his screen had. You could call me flat, and you wouldn’t be wrong.

    I said to myself, "If this is what cures his headache and depression, then what will I be able to cure with my flatness?"

    When he proposed, I said no. He said, "I thought we were going somewhere?" I answered, "I'm sorry if I gave you the wrong hope."

    I might have eventually agreed to date him, but I couldn’t ignore that wallpaper and its healing powers—powers I didn’t have.
    He pursued me for a while for a date. I don’t know, but he always came around when I was busy, so I kept telling him no. One day, he came to my office. I hadn’t closed yet, but he sat in the lobby and waited until I closed so he could take me on a date. I gave him 100/100 for effort. I was only going to see how the date would end so I could decide if he was worth it. He was humorous, he liked my kind of music, and the conversation was great. I think I was softening my stance until he had to show me something on his phone, and I saw his wallpaper—a voluptuous woman with a thick behind and in-your-face kind of boobs. It could have been just a wallpaper, but when I jokingly said, "This wallpaper of yours is crazy ooo," he answered, "You women are magic. This wallpaper cures my headache and depression." He burst out laughing. I could see the happiness in his eyes, but I had none of the things the woman on his screen had. You could call me flat, and you wouldn’t be wrong. I said to myself, "If this is what cures his headache and depression, then what will I be able to cure with my flatness?" When he proposed, I said no. He said, "I thought we were going somewhere?" I answered, "I'm sorry if I gave you the wrong hope." I might have eventually agreed to date him, but I couldn’t ignore that wallpaper and its healing powers—powers I didn’t have.
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  • THOUGHTFULNESS IS GODLINESS IN ACTION.

    1. When you walk into a public building, do not turn the fan to face only you, consider others as well

    Biblical Value: Philippians 2:4 – “Let each of you look not only to his own interests, but also to the interests of others.”
    Wisdom: True love is thoughtful. Consideration makes shared spaces more peaceful and comfortable for everyone.

    2. When you sit inside a public transport, do not spread your legs to occupy more space, consider others as well

    Biblical Value: Romans 12:10 – “Be devoted to one another in love. Honor one another above yourselves.”
    Wisdom: Honor in action looks like giving room for others to feel respected.

    3. When you’re at a public tap, do not waste water, consider others as well

    Biblical Value: Proverbs 21:20 – “The wise store up choice food and olive oil, but fools gulp theirs down.”
    Wisdom: Stewardship honors God. Use resources wisely with others in mind.

    4. When you speak in a quiet space, do not shout, consider others as well

    Biblical Value: Ecclesiastes 3:7 – “A time to be silent and a time to speak.”
    Wisdom: Wisdom is knowing when to speak gently and quietly, respecting your environment.

    5. When you're listening to music, do not blast it in public, consider others as well

    Biblical Value: 1 Corinthians 10:24 – “No one should seek their own good, but the good of others.”
    Wisdom: Your joy should not become another’s discomfort.

    6. When you're on a queue, do not jump ahead, consider others as well

    Biblical Value: Proverbs 11:1 – “Dishonest scales are an abomination to the Lord, but a just weight is His delight.”
    Wisdom: Fairness is a form of righteousness. Respect order.

    7. When you finish using the restroom, do not leave it dirty, consider others as well

    Biblical Value: 1 Corinthians 14:40 – “Let all things be done decently and in order.”
    Wisdom: Cleanliness is a reflection of orderliness and care for others.

    8. When you eat in public, do not litter the area, consider others as well

    Biblical Value: Genesis 2:15 – “...to tend and keep it.”
    Wisdom: Caring for the environment is part of our God-given responsibility.

    9. When you use shared power, do not overload it, consider others as well

    Biblical Value: Matthew 7:12 – “Do to others what you would have them do to you.”
    Wisdom: Shared resources require shared responsibility.

    10. When you walk on a narrow path, do not block the way, consider others as well

    Biblical Value: Romans 14:13 – “...make up your mind not to put any stumbling block or obstacle in the way of a brother or sister.”
    Wisdom: Create room for others to pass with ease.

    11. When you speak in a group, do not dominate the conversation, consider others as well

    Biblical Value: James 1:19 – “Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak...”
    Wisdom: Listening is a higher form of love.

    12. When you’re in traffic, do not drive recklessly, consider others as well

    Biblical Value: Titus 3:2 – “...be peaceable and considerate, and always gentle toward everyone.”
    Wisdom: Drive with caution and courtesy—lives are involved.

    13. When you visit someone’s home, do not overstay, consider others as well

    Biblical Value: Proverbs 25:17 – “Seldom set foot in your neighbor’s house—too much of you, and they will hate you.”
    Wisdom: Be a blessing, not a burden.

    14. When you borrow something, do not return it damaged, consider others as well

    Biblical Value: Psalm 37:21 – “The wicked borrow and do not repay...”
    Wisdom: Integrity includes returning things better than you received them.

    15. When you cook in a shared space, do not leave a mess, consider others as well

    Biblical Value: Luke 16:10 – “Whoever can be trusted with very little can also be trusted with much...”
    Wisdom: Cleanliness reflects responsibility and care.

    16. When you cough or sneeze, do not leave your mouth uncovered, consider others as well

    Biblical Value: Leviticus 13:45-46 – Even in ancient times, containment of illness was seen as social responsibility.
    Wisdom: Protect others as you would want to be protected.

    17. When you enjoy free services, do not abuse them, consider others as well

    Biblical Value: Proverbs 28:20 – “A faithful man will abound with blessings, but whoever hastens to be rich will not go unpunished.”
    Wisdom: Respect and preserve what others provide generously.

    18. When you sit in a waiting area, do not take more seats than you need, consider others as well

    Biblical Value: Romans 12:3 – “...do not think of yourself more highly than you ought.”
    Wisdom: Leave space for others—humility in action.

    19. When you're in a discussion, do not speak rudely, consider others as well

    Biblical Value: Colossians 4:6 – “Let your conversation be always full of grace...”
    Wisdom: Politeness reveals godliness.

    20. When you earn more, do not look down on others, consider others as well

    Biblical Value: 1 Timothy 6:17 – “...do not be arrogant nor put your hope in wealth.”
    Wisdom: Your success is not a license for pride but a platform for generosity.

    21. When you get promoted, do not forget those who helped you, consider others as well

    Biblical Value: Proverbs 3:27 – “Do not withhold good from those to whom it is due...”
    Wisdom: Gratitude builds bridges, not walls.

    22. When you laugh, do not mock others, consider their feelings as well

    Biblical Value: Proverbs 17:5 – “Whoever mocks the poor shows contempt for their Maker...”
    Wisdom: Joy is not meant to humiliate others.

    23. When you pass by someone struggling, do not ignore them, consider helping

    Biblical Value: Luke 10:33-34 – The Good Samaritan cared deeply.
    Wisdom: Compassion is evidence of a godly heart.

    24. When you’re using public Wi-Fi, do not download excessively, consider others as well

    Biblical Value: Philippians 2:3 – “Do nothing out of selfish ambition...”
    Wisdom: Fairness applies even in unseen things like internet use.

    25. When you eat in shared spaces, do not take others’ food, consider others as well

    Biblical Value: Exodus 20:15 – “You shall not steal.”
    Wisdom: Respect boundaries and others' property.

    26. When you serve food, do not serve yourself excessively, consider others as well

    Biblical Value: Proverbs 23:1-2 – “...put a knife to your throat if you are given to gluttony.”
    Wisdom: Moderation honors the community.

    27. When you are privileged, do not boast, consider others as well

    Biblical Value: Jeremiah 9:23-24 – “Let not the wise boast of their wisdom... but let the one who boasts boast about this: that they know Me...”
    Wisdom: Humility reveals maturity.

    28. When you win, do not belittle those who lost, consider others as well

    Biblical Value: Romans 12:15 – “Rejoice with those who rejoice; mourn with those who mourn.”
    Wisdom: Celebrate without pride. Winning with grace is noble.

    29. When you’re strong, do not oppress the weak, consider others as well

    Biblical Value: Proverbs 31:8-9 – “Speak up for those who cannot speak for themselves...”
    Wisdom: Strength is given to support, not suppress.

    30. When you speak, do not forget kindness, consider others as well

    Biblical Value: Proverbs 15:1 – “A gentle answer turns away wrath...”
    Wisdom: Kind words soften hearts and open doors.

    ENCOURAGEMENT

    A better world doesn’t start with grand gestures—it begins with small decisions rooted in love and respect. The Bible teaches us that love “does not insist on its own way” (1 Corinthians 13:5). When we choose to consider others as well, we reflect the heart of Christ, who laid down His comfort for our sake. Thoughtfulness is godliness in action.
    So let’s carry this truth daily: "Whatever you do, do it all for the glory of God" (1 Corinthians 10:31)—and that includes how we treat one another.
    THOUGHTFULNESS IS GODLINESS IN ACTION. 1. When you walk into a public building, do not turn the fan to face only you, consider others as well Biblical Value: Philippians 2:4 – “Let each of you look not only to his own interests, but also to the interests of others.” Wisdom: True love is thoughtful. Consideration makes shared spaces more peaceful and comfortable for everyone. 2. When you sit inside a public transport, do not spread your legs to occupy more space, consider others as well Biblical Value: Romans 12:10 – “Be devoted to one another in love. Honor one another above yourselves.” Wisdom: Honor in action looks like giving room for others to feel respected. 3. When you’re at a public tap, do not waste water, consider others as well Biblical Value: Proverbs 21:20 – “The wise store up choice food and olive oil, but fools gulp theirs down.” Wisdom: Stewardship honors God. Use resources wisely with others in mind. 4. When you speak in a quiet space, do not shout, consider others as well Biblical Value: Ecclesiastes 3:7 – “A time to be silent and a time to speak.” Wisdom: Wisdom is knowing when to speak gently and quietly, respecting your environment. 5. When you're listening to music, do not blast it in public, consider others as well Biblical Value: 1 Corinthians 10:24 – “No one should seek their own good, but the good of others.” Wisdom: Your joy should not become another’s discomfort. 6. When you're on a queue, do not jump ahead, consider others as well Biblical Value: Proverbs 11:1 – “Dishonest scales are an abomination to the Lord, but a just weight is His delight.” Wisdom: Fairness is a form of righteousness. Respect order. 7. When you finish using the restroom, do not leave it dirty, consider others as well Biblical Value: 1 Corinthians 14:40 – “Let all things be done decently and in order.” Wisdom: Cleanliness is a reflection of orderliness and care for others. 8. When you eat in public, do not litter the area, consider others as well Biblical Value: Genesis 2:15 – “...to tend and keep it.” Wisdom: Caring for the environment is part of our God-given responsibility. 9. When you use shared power, do not overload it, consider others as well Biblical Value: Matthew 7:12 – “Do to others what you would have them do to you.” Wisdom: Shared resources require shared responsibility. 10. When you walk on a narrow path, do not block the way, consider others as well Biblical Value: Romans 14:13 – “...make up your mind not to put any stumbling block or obstacle in the way of a brother or sister.” Wisdom: Create room for others to pass with ease. 11. When you speak in a group, do not dominate the conversation, consider others as well Biblical Value: James 1:19 – “Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak...” Wisdom: Listening is a higher form of love. 12. When you’re in traffic, do not drive recklessly, consider others as well Biblical Value: Titus 3:2 – “...be peaceable and considerate, and always gentle toward everyone.” Wisdom: Drive with caution and courtesy—lives are involved. 13. When you visit someone’s home, do not overstay, consider others as well Biblical Value: Proverbs 25:17 – “Seldom set foot in your neighbor’s house—too much of you, and they will hate you.” Wisdom: Be a blessing, not a burden. 14. When you borrow something, do not return it damaged, consider others as well Biblical Value: Psalm 37:21 – “The wicked borrow and do not repay...” Wisdom: Integrity includes returning things better than you received them. 15. When you cook in a shared space, do not leave a mess, consider others as well Biblical Value: Luke 16:10 – “Whoever can be trusted with very little can also be trusted with much...” Wisdom: Cleanliness reflects responsibility and care. 16. When you cough or sneeze, do not leave your mouth uncovered, consider others as well Biblical Value: Leviticus 13:45-46 – Even in ancient times, containment of illness was seen as social responsibility. Wisdom: Protect others as you would want to be protected. 17. When you enjoy free services, do not abuse them, consider others as well Biblical Value: Proverbs 28:20 – “A faithful man will abound with blessings, but whoever hastens to be rich will not go unpunished.” Wisdom: Respect and preserve what others provide generously. 18. When you sit in a waiting area, do not take more seats than you need, consider others as well Biblical Value: Romans 12:3 – “...do not think of yourself more highly than you ought.” Wisdom: Leave space for others—humility in action. 19. When you're in a discussion, do not speak rudely, consider others as well Biblical Value: Colossians 4:6 – “Let your conversation be always full of grace...” Wisdom: Politeness reveals godliness. 20. When you earn more, do not look down on others, consider others as well Biblical Value: 1 Timothy 6:17 – “...do not be arrogant nor put your hope in wealth.” Wisdom: Your success is not a license for pride but a platform for generosity. 21. When you get promoted, do not forget those who helped you, consider others as well Biblical Value: Proverbs 3:27 – “Do not withhold good from those to whom it is due...” Wisdom: Gratitude builds bridges, not walls. 22. When you laugh, do not mock others, consider their feelings as well Biblical Value: Proverbs 17:5 – “Whoever mocks the poor shows contempt for their Maker...” Wisdom: Joy is not meant to humiliate others. 23. When you pass by someone struggling, do not ignore them, consider helping Biblical Value: Luke 10:33-34 – The Good Samaritan cared deeply. Wisdom: Compassion is evidence of a godly heart. 24. When you’re using public Wi-Fi, do not download excessively, consider others as well Biblical Value: Philippians 2:3 – “Do nothing out of selfish ambition...” Wisdom: Fairness applies even in unseen things like internet use. 25. When you eat in shared spaces, do not take others’ food, consider others as well Biblical Value: Exodus 20:15 – “You shall not steal.” Wisdom: Respect boundaries and others' property. 26. When you serve food, do not serve yourself excessively, consider others as well Biblical Value: Proverbs 23:1-2 – “...put a knife to your throat if you are given to gluttony.” Wisdom: Moderation honors the community. 27. When you are privileged, do not boast, consider others as well Biblical Value: Jeremiah 9:23-24 – “Let not the wise boast of their wisdom... but let the one who boasts boast about this: that they know Me...” Wisdom: Humility reveals maturity. 28. When you win, do not belittle those who lost, consider others as well Biblical Value: Romans 12:15 – “Rejoice with those who rejoice; mourn with those who mourn.” Wisdom: Celebrate without pride. Winning with grace is noble. 29. When you’re strong, do not oppress the weak, consider others as well Biblical Value: Proverbs 31:8-9 – “Speak up for those who cannot speak for themselves...” Wisdom: Strength is given to support, not suppress. 30. When you speak, do not forget kindness, consider others as well Biblical Value: Proverbs 15:1 – “A gentle answer turns away wrath...” Wisdom: Kind words soften hearts and open doors. ENCOURAGEMENT A better world doesn’t start with grand gestures—it begins with small decisions rooted in love and respect. The Bible teaches us that love “does not insist on its own way” (1 Corinthians 13:5). When we choose to consider others as well, we reflect the heart of Christ, who laid down His comfort for our sake. Thoughtfulness is godliness in action. 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  • She Chose the Man Nobody Wanted, But What She Discovered Will Shock You

    In the dusty little village of Akur Ruba, people never forget how they laughed the day Ada married Ema—the man nobody wanted.

    Ema was the village’s poorest farmer. His house had cracked walls, a leaking roof, and no future—at least, that's what everyone believed. He owned nothing but a rusted hoe and dreams that barely kept him alive. Even the poorest in the village pitied his family.

    He was raised by his aging grandparents, Grandpa and Grandma Obi, and despite their poverty, Grandpa Obi carried a cheerful spirit and a belief that one day, Ema would shine.

    “Son,” he always said, “there’s more hope in a living dog than a dead lion. Just keep your hands clean and keep working.”

    But no matter how hard Ema worked, no lady wanted him.
    They mocked him.
    Laughed in his face.

    “Can you even afford my bride price?” one lady sneered.
    “Maybe sell your father's old bicycle first!” another laughed.

    He bore it all—until one day, fate intervened.

    Ema met Ada, a quiet orphan from a nearby village, who had nothing to her name but an old, squeaky sewing machine and a tiny patch of land. No family. No support. Just raw strength and humility. Like Ema, she had also known hunger, rejection, and pain.

    They connected instantly—two broken souls, stitched together by survival and simplicity.

    One day, under the shade of an old mango tree, Ema asked,

    “Will you marry me?”

    She smiled, wiping tears from her eyes.

    “Yes, but I have no parents. Just an elderly couple who treat me like their daughter. They can stand for me.”

    And so, with borrowed clothes and empty pockets, they did a low-key traditional wedding. No music. No food. No glamour. Just love.

    The village laughed louder than ever.

    “Poverty married poverty!”
    “Perfect match! At least now they can starve together!”

    But they didn’t care.

    They went to the farm together. Ate from the same plate. Shared stories, laughter, and hope. What others saw as disgrace, they lived as joy.

    Then, everything changed.

    One sunny afternoon, Ema was clearing a part of his farm when he came upon a stubborn tree with roots as deep as his struggles. He tried to uproot it, but something told him,

    “Keep digging.”

    And he did.

    He dug and dug—his fingers bleeding, sweat dripping—until he saw something shiny lodged in the dirt. He reached in…

    It was a massive diamond.

    Heart pounding, he wrapped it up and ran home.

    His grandfather's eyes widened.

    “Do you know what this is, son? This… this is a miracle.”

    The next morning, they traveled to the city to meet Grandpa’s old friend—a trustworthy goldsmith. After examining the stone, the man looked up and whispered,

    “This isn’t just a diamond. It’s one of the rarest and most valuable stones I’ve ever seen.”

    That day, everything changed.

    They sold the diamond and used the money wisely—investing, building, helping others. Ema and Ada became the wealthiest couple in the entire region.

    And those who once mocked?

    They watched in silence as Ema built a mansion right where their cracked house once stood. He bought his grandfather a brand new car to replace the rusted bicycle. He set up a fashion institute for Ada, who trained and empowered other orphan girls.

    One of the same women who had once laughed at Ema now came to Ada for a job. Ada simply smiled and said,

    “Life can change. Be kind to everyone. You never know where they’ll be tomorrow.”

    Ema—the man nobody wanted—became the man everyone wished they had chosen.

    So the next time you want to laugh at someone’s beginning, remember:
    God writes the most beautiful stories from the roughest pages.

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    She Chose the Man Nobody Wanted, But What She Discovered Will Shock You In the dusty little village of Akur Ruba, people never forget how they laughed the day Ada married Ema—the man nobody wanted. Ema was the village’s poorest farmer. His house had cracked walls, a leaking roof, and no future—at least, that's what everyone believed. He owned nothing but a rusted hoe and dreams that barely kept him alive. Even the poorest in the village pitied his family. He was raised by his aging grandparents, Grandpa and Grandma Obi, and despite their poverty, Grandpa Obi carried a cheerful spirit and a belief that one day, Ema would shine. “Son,” he always said, “there’s more hope in a living dog than a dead lion. Just keep your hands clean and keep working.” But no matter how hard Ema worked, no lady wanted him. They mocked him. Laughed in his face. “Can you even afford my bride price?” one lady sneered. “Maybe sell your father's old bicycle first!” another laughed. He bore it all—until one day, fate intervened. Ema met Ada, a quiet orphan from a nearby village, who had nothing to her name but an old, squeaky sewing machine and a tiny patch of land. No family. No support. Just raw strength and humility. Like Ema, she had also known hunger, rejection, and pain. They connected instantly—two broken souls, stitched together by survival and simplicity. One day, under the shade of an old mango tree, Ema asked, “Will you marry me?” She smiled, wiping tears from her eyes. “Yes, but I have no parents. Just an elderly couple who treat me like their daughter. They can stand for me.” And so, with borrowed clothes and empty pockets, they did a low-key traditional wedding. No music. No food. No glamour. Just love. The village laughed louder than ever. “Poverty married poverty!” “Perfect match! At least now they can starve together!” But they didn’t care. They went to the farm together. Ate from the same plate. Shared stories, laughter, and hope. What others saw as disgrace, they lived as joy. Then, everything changed. One sunny afternoon, Ema was clearing a part of his farm when he came upon a stubborn tree with roots as deep as his struggles. He tried to uproot it, but something told him, “Keep digging.” And he did. He dug and dug—his fingers bleeding, sweat dripping—until he saw something shiny lodged in the dirt. He reached in… It was a massive diamond. Heart pounding, he wrapped it up and ran home. His grandfather's eyes widened. “Do you know what this is, son? This… this is a miracle.” The next morning, they traveled to the city to meet Grandpa’s old friend—a trustworthy goldsmith. After examining the stone, the man looked up and whispered, “This isn’t just a diamond. It’s one of the rarest and most valuable stones I’ve ever seen.” That day, everything changed. They sold the diamond and used the money wisely—investing, building, helping others. Ema and Ada became the wealthiest couple in the entire region. And those who once mocked? They watched in silence as Ema built a mansion right where their cracked house once stood. He bought his grandfather a brand new car to replace the rusted bicycle. He set up a fashion institute for Ada, who trained and empowered other orphan girls. One of the same women who had once laughed at Ema now came to Ada for a job. Ada simply smiled and said, “Life can change. Be kind to everyone. You never know where they’ll be tomorrow.” Ema—the man nobody wanted—became the man everyone wished they had chosen. So the next time you want to laugh at someone’s beginning, remember: 🌟 God writes the most beautiful stories from the roughest pages. FOLLOW UP TO BE NOTIFIED IMMEDIATELY I POST THE NEXT PART πŸ‘‰πŸ‘‰Amazing Memer
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