Marriage is not a reward for good character; it is not a moral achievement award. Anyone can be lucky to find a life partner.

There's a partner for everyone who desire to settle down.

The goal isn't to be decent, godly, or responsible solely for marriage; it's to please Christ.

We are living for Christ.

Don't be dismayed when someone with a different lifestyle gets married; everyone has their match.

Our focus is to please our Heavenly Father, live for His glory, to win souls for Him, and to wait for the bridegroom.

Being responsible solely for marriage is a 50/50 gamble; luck or disappointment may follow.

Even if marriage is considered a reward for living right, it's not just any marriage.

God desires Kingdom marriages, that will align with God's will.

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Pray for wisdom and discernment in choosing a life partner.

Pray earnestly to God not to lead you to the wrong person.

Life is governed by spirituality, and one of the ways destinies and greatness are subdued is through wrong marriage.

The dêv!l knows this and he is ready to push you to the wrong partner untill he has completely destroyEd you.

Most times, it’s not you, the mistake is not from you, you didn’t intentionally choose that person, something pushed you just to dôom you:

You can marry 10 times and still marry the wrong person.

Marriage will not döom me is a prayer I’ll always tell every female around me to pray.

You can even meet the right person and some unknown forces will frÚstrtate that union.
They can start from by disabling your finances, making childbearing difficult, cheating or anything.

The same partner that you left or that left you can be someone else’s angel.

If you can set things right spiritually before settling down, you will have little battles to fight.

Don’t start when you’ve met the person, emotions and feelings can distract you, start now!

“May I never end up with the wrong person.”

A wrong partner might not even be v!olent, but your greatness, destiny and light will be dimmed around them.

You can marry a person that’s spiritual but he or she might be wrong for your destiny.

Invite Christ if you desire to marry.

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Dear friend, a reminder from my heart: never count anyone out in life!

Things may seem unstable and unsteady for someone now, and it may appear like others are doing better. But remember, life can change in a day.

It can only take a minute for God to lift someone from dust to glory, surpassing even those who seemed more successful.

Be cautious, for we never know what the future holds!
Never count out a man or woman who still has breath in them.

Never count anyone out, for tomorrow holds unfathomable possibilities and promises.

As long as they're still breathing, their story is still being written, and their best days may be yet to come.

Dear you? Don’t count yourself out! God is not done with you. Your story is not over yet.

Onye ma echi? Mmadu abughi Chukwu.

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#TheVoice

It can be funny to some people who are using the latest iPhone to see someone celebrating buying an ITEL phone.

Some might even ask, what is there to celebrate about an ITEL phone?.

But one thing we fail to understand is that our progress is not the same.

It might not be up to what you expected, but you don't really know the efforts they put in to get it.

It might not really make sense to you, I mean, the happiness of finally getting an apartment with no properties, the joy of moving out of home, or using flight for the first time, getting married, getting admission, etc.

The fact it’s not up to your expectations shouldn't make you discredit it.

You don't know where they are coming from and the efforts and time they have invested to be where they are.

Learn to celebrate people’s achievements, no matter how small they may seem to you.

What you feel is not worthy to be celebrated could be their greatest achievement.

Dear you?
You only understand your progress, where you are coming from and how far you have come.

Do not allow societal expectations to make you celebrate little or feel it is not enough.

You are trying!



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Divorce is an option,
But, be cautious of what you listen to and accept. Filter what you feed your mind.

Remember, your marriage can suffer due to your thoughts and actions.

There is no perfect person without flaws, there must be misunderstandings in marriage, because you’re settling with someone with a different personality and background.

When you constantly harbour the thoughts of divorcing in every provocation unnecessarily can become a self-fulfilling prophecy, leading to divorce.

Instead of having divorce as a backup plan, affirm: “I will marry right, and I'll marry well.'

Confess positivity, believe, and work towards it. You have the power to speak life into anything .

Remember, you can speak reality into being. Why prophesy divorce? Proclaim a loving, lasting union instead.

Don't proclaim divorce unnecessarily. Give it the benefit of doubt, do your best, involve Christ, and seek God’s direction .

*Only consider divorce as a last resort, if there is a need for it.*

How we think create our reality.

Lekwa princess ijeoma

Being simple is different from dressing poorly.
Learn to dress well; to combine colors and to appear nice.

The same people calling you simple, will one day mock you.

There’s nothing more beautiful than to see a lady who appears nice in any outfit.

Dressing poorly has nothing to do with being simple, because simplicity is not even cheap.

If you prefer thrifts, please combine your outfits with good footwears and a nice bag.

If you can only afford ABA brand, don’t make your outfit to be all shiny, go for moderate colors and style with good footwear, bag or accessories.

Hope you know there’s something like thrift Footwears and bags too? Just reminding you, incase you don’t have enough to buy expensive ones.

If you can then afford it, please invest in your wardrobe. Your look will always pave the way for you.

Your hair is very important, if you can’t afford a good blend or hair, do more of braiding, a bad hair can take your outfit from 100 to 0.

The confidence that comes with appearing nice when necessary is amazing.

Know the colors that fits you, I always get shocked when dark skinned ladies dislike black clothes, lol!

Know the outfit to wear for an occasion.
Invest in your skin too.

You will miss so many opportunities if your appearance is not presentable enough!
A queen doesn’t look shabby!

Lekwa princess ijeoma.

We live in the world where people over polish their realities.

Where a relationship counselor will mount to the alter of God and lie that he or she has never had a misunderstanding with the partner, just for validations.

Where people hide their fears.

A life where lies are growing and growing!

A world where those who soaked garri can come on media to mock others for doing so.

A world where many claim what they are not, and who they are not.

A place people scäm with others predicament.

A life where we hide the truth and our realities just to be celebrated.

A place people can be in abúsive homes and still come online to praise their partner.

The world is actually projecting a flawless, over painted and over polished life.

It’s rare to see people who say their truth. A world we only desire to be validated by people.

A life where sucess stories are based on what will trend and not the truth.

It is okay to spice it with lies, as long as it will trend.

Dear you,
Live the rest of your life understanding that people show you what they want you to see, people show what they want to trend, and what can trigger “congratulations” even if they are lies.

Whatsoever you see online should remain online.

You might be tearing yourself for a story and life that is over painted and over polished that is never the truth and reality.

This is a phase that we are in the world , a world of content!

Anything can go, as long as people will validate and give engagement.

Be aware!

Lekwa princess ijeoma

It is extremely inappropriate for you to impose your views and opinion on others.

If you do not understand the reason someone is doing something, as long as their choices are not morally wrong , respect it .

Refrain from imposing your views or meddling in matters that don't concern you.

Avoid making someone's decisions appear unreasonable or unjustified.

Sometimes, silence isn't always golden; this is the reason I shút some voices.

It doesn’t need to make sense to you before you respect it. Everyone is living a different life, respect it.

It’s not always about you and what you think is right, learn to shut it when you don’t understand their reasons.

This is the reason Jesus rebuked Peter, your views are not important if you don’t know the reason.

There’s a place for wisdom, as Lami often say.

Lekwa princess ijeoma

Don’t spend too much time mending hearts you didn’t break.

The disadvantage of trying to mend a heart that’s broken is that you can end up getting broken too, especially when the person is not ready to heal.

If your partner has more bad days than happy moments, and it affects their behavior towards you, you need to reassess if it’s something you can cope and tolerate.

I believe that when your partner is going through tough times, you should be a shoulder for them to lean on, but when this is a consistent pattern, you need to reevaluate that relationship.

Ask yourself, is this the energy i want to build my life on?

People should learn to heal, not just for themselves, but to make their partner feel safe.

You shouldn’t dwell so much on whatever that has broken you, so that it won’t come in between what you share with someone.

When you take so long to heal, you make the relationship you share tóx!c, people get tired of saying sorry or always seeing you moody.

You need to do your best to heal for others to feel safe, you shouldn’t always allow your bad times, tough times and situations to make your partner feel uneasy , as much as they are willing to help, be willing to heal.

#ijeoma
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Lekwa princess ijeoma

I say this to people, you’re not running same race with others.
You’re living you.

Stop comparing your life with those eating their harvest or wasting their investments. Do not overspend in your growing season.

You are not in any competition with anyone. Do you, love you and be you.

When your harvest season comes, even those that felt your case is closed, will have no choice than to congratulate you.

Enjoy your waiting season. Don’t rush!

I repeat, you’re not in any competition with anyone!

When your time will come, your story will become the latest!

Happy new week everyone

Lekwa princess ijeoma

In all circumstances give thanks to the Lord.
Very difficult to oblige but necessary to obey.

One of the places where i have found major pain relief is the hospital.

The hospital is a place full of people, where some are having their best day; celebrating life, survival, and strength.

Others are having their worst day.
Some are just entering the world, while some came and left immediately.
For some, it is their last days.

In the same environment, different things and situations are happening.

You might feel your situation is worse untill you see another with a more serious and painful medical report .

It is difficult to give thanks in ugly situations, but giving thanks is a necessity.

One thing I have come to understand is, God can do without us, but we can’t do without him.

He can reign, rule, and live without us, but we can barely survive without His mercy.

If he allows it, good or bad, give thanks to God
1st Sunday of February.

Lekwa princess ijeoma

Girl to Girl.
Take care of yourself emotionally. Heal from every trǎumå you've inherited from loved ones.

The times you witnessed your mom being härássed by your dad, the days you felt alone, the hurt people around you have experienced, heal from them.

Don't be hard on yourself.
Remember that other people’s relationship or marriage struggles aren't yours to bear.
Their pains and traumas don't define you, it’s them and not you.

Heal, grow, and attract better .

Don't let emotional weight drag you down; be a beacon of hope for others.

Take care of yourself, don’t wear your trouble on your face.

Accept corrections, cultivate a teachable spirit, focus on personal growth. Learning is progressive.

Girl to Girl.
No one should love you more than you love yourself, except God.
Self-love gives you the freedom to break free from everything that doesn't reflect true affection and love.

Don't expect too much .

Nurture your spiritual well-being; it governs your physical reality.

Take heed of your spiritual life. It's the foundation of your overall well-being.

Lekwa princess ijeoma.