YOUR KINDNESS CAN CHANGE MY LIFE: A HUMBLE REQUEST FOR SUPPORT

Hello everyone,
My name is BASIT MUYIWA OGUNDELE, and I am reaching out to you with hope in my heart. As a physically challenged individual, I’ve faced many challenges in life, but today, I need your compassionate support to overcome an urgent financial situation.

I have been living with lower limbs disability since my birth, and while I’ve always done my best to remain strong and independent, recent circumstances have made it difficult for me to manage on my own.
Currently, I am struggling with my financial needs, like covering medical expenses, obtaining mobility aids, paying rent and meeting daily living costs.

Despite my efforts to secure assistance, I am reaching the limits of my resources. That’s why I’m humbly asking for your support to help me get through this challenging time and improve my quality of life.

How Your Support Will Help:
The funds I am raising will go directly toward:

1. Purchasing a wheelchair and assistive device.

2. Covering medical treatments and therapy.

3. Paying rent, utility bills, children's school fees and other daily living costs.

These funds will bring much-needed relief and allow me to focus on rebuilding my life.

How You Can Help: If you’re able to contribute, no matter how small, it would make a world of difference to me. You can donate via Bank Details:
Account Name:- OGUNDELE BASIT MUYIWA
Bank Name:- WEMA BANK
Account Number:- 0246347659

If you’re unable to donate, sharing my post with your friends and families on network would mean so much to me. Every share and contribution brings me closer to achieving this goal.

Thank you for taking the time to read my story. Your support—whether through a donation, a share, or simply kind words—means more to me than I can express. Together, we can make a meaningful difference.

With gratitude,
OGUNDELE BASIT MUYIWA

The level of our success is limited only by our imagination and no act of kindness, however small, is ever wasted.

HOW TO ATTRACT PEOPLE TO YOU?

1. Be mysterious. That develops attraction towards you.

2. Be less available. Scarce things are always attractive to people.

3. Be confident. Show that you are capable of doing things in a better way.

4. Be well dressed. Your great sense of dressing attracts everyone's attention.

5. Smells so good. Use perfume, it will attract the attention of others.

6. Your body language must be open. Show that you are straightforward and unbothered.

7. Be fun, your charisma defines you if they want to spend time with you.

8. Don't sell yourself so easily to people. Let them strive to win you over, people don't value things they get easily.

9. Don't express a boring life on social media. This kills the attraction.

10. Don't care what others think of you.

11. Don't despair while talking or texting someone.

12. Don't be needy. The more needy you become, the less attention you receive. Learn to say NO.

12. Just be yourself. Don't change yourself to win someone over. Change yourself to get better.

13. Don't reveal everything about yourself. Revealing everything about yourself makes you a "less attractive" person.

14. Don't be bothered if someone is not giving you importance that you want or deserve.
Always be the one to end the conversation.

15. Don't show too much interest in someone.

16. Maintain a balance of kindness. People will sit you down for it and you're bound to miss all the rides. A strong sense of humor increases attraction because it is also one of the signs of an intelligent personality.

17. Prioritize your goal not any other people (expect your family members).

18. During the conversation, make eye contact with the other person and smile slightly.

19. Love yourself and never be afraid to stand up for what you believe in. Be persistent and updated on fashion and other social issues.

20. Be Adventurous. Travel to amazing places and have some amazing clicks and stories from there to post on social media. Be optimistic and take risks. Optimism gives positive vibes to people and therefore they are drawn to you. By taking risks, you show that you are brave and that you can step out of your 'comfort zone' if you need to.

21. Be on your own. Spend most of your time alone. Be a thinker and analyze things. Providing solutions to other's problems without expecting anything in return.

22. Never compromise on your self worth. Always respect and love yourself, but don't forget to remain humble and polite.

23. Be ambitious. Work on your goal and focus on self-improvement.

#selfcare #selfimprovement #selfdevelopment #passiveseduction #highvaluemen

Quotes from Some "Wise Thinkers"

1. True evil comes from someone who was once kind.
Cesare Pavese

2. I don’t mind losing those who don’t want me, for I’ve lost those I wanted, and I’m still alive.
Karl May

3. One conversation with a wise man is better than ten years of studying books.
Henry Wadsworth Longfellow

4. The corruption of justice leads to the downfall of nations.
Ibn Khaldun

5. If you want to conquer anxiety and start living, count your blessings instead of your troubles.
Dale Carnegie

6. If you want to fail, try to please everyone.
Erwin Rommel

7. No one harmed me except those I knew; may God bless everyone I don’t know!
Abu Al-Alaa Al-Ma’arri

8. This world crushes justice with disgrace every single day.
Ghassan Kanafani

9. If you see the lion's fangs bared, don’t assume the lion is smiling!
Al-Mutanabbi

10. To be honest is to be an enemy to all.
Gibran Khalil Gibran

11. The first obstacle to an individual’s development is the family.
Leo Tolstoy

12. Increased awareness intensifies pain, and most sufferers of psychological depression are intellectuals.
Adel Sadeq

13. When you respect me well and treat me with courtesy, it’s not a feather in my cap; instead, you’ll be the crown on my head!
Ibrahim El-Fiky

14. You need to have wished for death to truly value life.
Winston Churchill

15. Kindness in words creates confidence, kindness in thinking solves every difficulty, and kindness in giving creates love.
Lao Tzu

16. I know no greater sin than oppressing an innocent person in the name of religion.
Mahatma Gandhi

17. Sadness is a psychological state that allows awareness to reflect on oneself and society.
Jean-Jacques Rousseau

18. Often, the words you fear to say are the ones that most need to be spoken.
George Bernard Shaw

19. Try staying away from the internet for a while, and you’ll realize you missed nothing online, but a lot outside it—like your mothers aging unnoticed!

Abdullah Al-Mughlooth
20. Life is hope; without hope, life is lost.
Plato

21. A day without laughter is a day wasted!
Charlie Chaplin

22. No one can ambush you except those who know your moves well. Don’t share your thoughts with anyone to reach your destination safely!
Htr

23. I will never respect the world as long as there’s a child with broken eyes.
Che Guevara

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YOUR KINDNESS CAN CHANGE MY LIFE: A HUMBLE REQUEST FOR SUPPORT

Hello everyone,
My name is BASIT MUYIWA OGUNDELE, and I am reaching out to you with hope in my heart. As a physically challenged individual, I’ve faced many challenges in life, but today, I need your compassionate support to overcome an urgent financial situation.

I have been living with lower limbs disability since my birth, and while I’ve always done my best to remain strong and independent, recent circumstances have made it difficult for me to manage on my own.
Currently, I am struggling with my financial needs, like covering medical expenses, obtaining mobility aids, paying rent and meeting daily living costs.

Despite my efforts to secure assistance, I am reaching the limits of my resources. That’s why I’m humbly asking for your support to help me get through this challenging time and improve my quality of life.

How Your Support Will Help:
The funds I am raising will go directly toward:

1. Purchasing a wheelchair and assistive device.

2. Covering medical treatments and therapy.

3. Paying rent, utility bills, children's school fees and other daily living costs.

These funds will bring much-needed relief and allow me to focus on rebuilding my life.

How You Can Help: If you’re able to contribute, no matter how small, it would make a world of difference to me. You can donate via Bank Details:
Account Name:- OGUNDELE BASIT MUYIWA
Bank Name:- WEMA BANK
Account Number:- 0246347659

If you’re unable to donate, sharing my post with your friends and families on network would mean so much to me. Every share and contribution brings me closer to achieving this goal.

Thank you for taking the time to read my story. Your support—whether through a donation, a share, or simply kind words—means more to me than I can express. Together, we can make a meaningful difference.

With gratitude,
*OGUNDELE BASIT MUYIWA*

Good morning Everyone

Quotes from Some Wise Thinkers:
1. True evil comes from someone who was once kind.
Cesare Pavese
2. I don’t mind losing those who don’t want me, for I’ve lost those I wanted, and I’m still alive.
Karl May
3. One conversation with a wise man is better than ten years of studying books.
Henry Wadsworth Longfellow
4. The corruption of justice leads to the downfall of nations.
Ibn Khaldun
5. If you want to conquer anxiety and start living, count your blessings instead of your troubles.
Dale Carnegie
6. If you want to fail, try to please everyone.
Erwin Rommel
7. No one harmed me except those I knew; may God bless everyone I don’t know!
Abu Al-Alaa Al-Ma’arri
8. This world crushes justice with disgrace every single day.
Ghassan Kanafani
9. If you see the lion's fangs bared, don’t assume the lion is smiling!
Al-Mutanabbi
10. To be honest is to be an enemy to all.
Gibran Khalil Gibran
11. The first obstacle to an individual’s development is the family.
Leo Tolstoy
12. Increased awareness intensifies pain, and most sufferers of psychological depression are intellectuals.
Adel Sadeq
13. When you respect me well and treat me with courtesy, it’s not a feather in my cap; instead, you’ll be the crown on my head!
Ibrahim El-Fiky
14. You need to have wished for death to truly value life.
Winston Churchill
15. Kindness in words creates confidence, kindness in thinking solves every difficulty, and kindness in giving creates love.
Lao Tzu
16. I know no greater sin than oppressing an innocent person in the name of religion.
Mahatma Gandhi
17. Sadness is a psychological state that allows awareness to reflect on oneself and society.
Jean-Jacques Rousseau
18. Often, the words you fear to say are the ones that most need to be spoken.
George Bernard Shaw
19. Try staying away from the internet for a while, and you’ll realize you missed nothing online, but a lot outside it—like your mothers aging unnoticed!
Abdullah Al-Mughlooth
20. Life is hope; without hope, life is lost.
Plato
21. A day without laughter is a day wasted!
Charlie Chaplin
22. No one can ambush you except those who know your moves well. Don’t share your thoughts with anyone to reach your destination safely!
Htr
23. I will never respect the world as long as there’s a child with broken eyes.

Love is not enough.
When people say this, we assume they are just referring to financial stability, it is not just about money .

Loving someone who isn’t ready to settle down can keep you floated in the long run.

Loving someone who is not compatible or share your vision can be devastating, you will live a life of explanations, explaining everything.

Loving someone who hasn’t discovered themselves can be a Herculean task.

Love is not just about a feeling; it is about building a future together.

Can the both of you make things together?
Can you preserve what you share?

Love can fade, it is just a feeling, an emotion.

There are factors that can fade it, which is why your feeling alone shouldn’t be the only reason to settle down.

People who have divorced or are living as strangers once loved each other.

Relationships that ended badly were once built on love, but love alone is not enough to sustain them.

You need consider attributes that can keep people together, like commitment, integrity, kindness, compatibility and vision .

As a Christian, you need to make sure they share same faith with you.

#HappyWeekend everyone

IamLekwa Princess ijeoma

Quotes from Some Wise Thinkers:
1. True evil comes from someone who was once kind.
Cesare Pavese
2. I don’t mind losing those who don’t want me, for I’ve lost those I wanted, and I’m still alive.
Karl May
3. One conversation with a wise man is better than ten years of studying books.
Henry Wadsworth Longfellow
4. The corruption of justice leads to the downfall of nations.
Ibn Khaldun
5. If you want to conquer anxiety and start living, count your blessings instead of your troubles.
Dale Carnegie
6. If you want to fail, try to please everyone.
Erwin Rommel
7. No one harmed me except those I knew; may God bless everyone I don’t know!
Abu Al-Alaa Al-Ma’arri
8. This world crushes justice with disgrace every single day.
Ghassan Kanafani
9. If you see the lion's fangs bared, don’t assume the lion is smiling!
Al-Mutanabbi
10. To be honest is to be an enemy to all.
Gibran Khalil Gibran
11. The first obstacle to an individual’s development is the family.
Leo Tolstoy
12. Increased awareness intensifies pain, and most sufferers of psychological depression are intellectuals.
Adel Sadeq
13. When you respect me well and treat me with courtesy, it’s not a feather in my cap; instead, you’ll be the crown on my head!
Ibrahim El-Fiky
14. You need to have wished for death to truly value life.
Winston Churchill
15. Kindness in words creates confidence, kindness in thinking solves every difficulty, and kindness in giving creates love.
Lao Tzu
16. I know no greater sin than oppressing an innocent person in the name of religion.
Mahatma Gandhi
17. Sadness is a psychological state that allows awareness to reflect on oneself and society.
Jean-Jacques Rousseau
18. Often, the words you fear to say are the ones that most need to be spoken.
George Bernard Shaw
19. Try staying away from the internet for a while, and you’ll realize you missed nothing online, but a lot outside it—like your mothers aging unnoticed!
Abdullah Al-Mughlooth
20. Life is hope; without hope, life is lost.
Plato
21. A day without laughter is a day wasted!
Charlie Chaplin
22. No one can ambush you except those who know your moves well. Don’t share your thoughts with anyone to reach your destination safely!
Htr
23. I will never respect the world as long as there’s a child with broken eyes.

Is A Perfect Marriage Possible?
A Comprehensive Guide:

Marriage is a beautiful union between two individuals, filled with love, laughter, and adventure. However, maintaining a successful marriage requires effort, commitment, and a deep understanding of each other's needs. In this article, we'll explore the essential elements of a successful marriage and provide practical tips on how to build and sustain a strong, loving relationship.

*I. Communication: The Foundation of a Successful Marriage*

Effective communication is the cornerstone of a successful marriage. It's essential to communicate openly, honestly, and respectfully with your partner.

1. *Active listening*: Pay attention to your partner's words, tone, and body language.
2. *Express yourself clearly*: Share your thoughts, feelings, and desires in a clear and respectful manner.
3. *Avoid assumptions*: Don't assume you know what your partner is thinking or feeling; instead, ask open-ended questions.
4. *Schedule regular date nights*: Set aside time for regular conversations, free from distractions.

*II. Trust: The Glue That Holds a Marriage Together*

Trust is the foundation upon which a perfect marriage is built. It's essential to cultivate and maintain trust in your relationship.

1. *Be reliable and dependable*: Follow through on your commitments and maintain a consistent level of reliability.
2. *Be transparent*: Share your thoughts, feelings, and actions with your partner, and be open to feedback.
3. *Avoid secrets and lies*: Honesty is always the best policy, even if it's difficult to share the truth.
4. *Forgive and forget*: Let go of past hurts and resentments, and work towards healing and moving forward.

*III. Intimacy: The Spark That Keeps a Marriage Alive*

Intimacy is a vital aspect of a perfect marriage. It's essential to prioritize emotional and physical intimacy in your relationship.

1. *Schedule regular intimacy*: Make time for regular date nights, romantic getaways, and intimate encounters.
2. *Practice emotional intimacy*: Share your thoughts, feelings, and desires with your partner, and be open to feedback.
3. *Maintain physical intimacy*: Prioritize physical touch, affection, and intimacy in your relationship.
4. *Keep the spark alive*: Surprise your partner with small gestures, gifts, and acts of kindness.

*IV. Conflict Resolution: The Key to a Healthy Marriage*

Conflicts are inevitable in any marriage. However, it's essential to resolve conflicts in a healthy and constructive manner.

1. *Stay calm and composed*: Avoid getting defensive or emotional during conflicts.
2. *Listen actively*: Pay attention to your partner's perspective and try to understand their point of view.
3. *Avoid blaming or criticizing*: Focus on finding solutions rather than placing blame.
4. *Seek common ground*: Look for areas of agreement and try to find a mutually beneficial solution.

*V. Financial Management: The Secret to a Stress-Free Marriage*

Financial stress can put a significant strain on a marriage. It's essential to manage your finances effectively and work together as a team.

1. *Create a budget*: Establish a budget that works for both partners and stick to it.
2. *Prioritize needs over wants*: Distinguish between essential expenses and discretionary spending.
3. *Communicate openly*: Share financial concerns, goals, and aspirations with your partner.
4. *Avoid financial secrets*: Maintain transparency and honesty in your financial dealings.

*VI. Personal Growth: The Key to a Fulfilling Marriage*

Personal growth is essential for a fulfilling marriage. It's essential to prioritize individual growth and development.

1. *Pursue individual interests*: Encourage each other to pursue hobbies, passions, and interests.
2. *Support personal goals*: Support each other's goals, aspirations, and dreams.
3. *Practice self-care*: Prioritize self-care, physical health, and mental well-being.
4. *Seek feedback and learn*: Encourage feedback, learn from mistakes, and grow together.

*VII. Conclusion*

Building a perfect marriage requires effort, commitment, and a deep understanding of each other's needs. By prioritizing communication, trust, intimacy, conflict resolution, financial management, and personal growth, you can create a strong, loving, and fulfilling relationship that lasts a lifetime. Remember, marriage is a journey, not a destination. With patience, love, and commitment, you can build a perfect marriage that brings joy, happiness, and fulfillment to your life.

The Psychology of a Woman:
No matter how old a woman gets, she always keeps a childlike side.

Attention makes her happy, but neglect brings her to tears.

Never try to suppress a woman, because her rebellion can be powerful.

A woman is like soft grass, bending gracefully in the breeze of kindness.

For the one who understands her, she’s easy to deal with.
For the one who opposes her, she’s a complex puzzle.

If you want her love, take care of her.
If you want her to stay, respect her.

Shakespeare said: “Arguing with an angry woman is like trying to turn the pages of a newspaper during a storm. Just embrace her, and she will calm down on her own!”

A man who doesn’t forgive a woman’s small mistakes can never understand her greatest virtues.

A woman wants to live under the shade of a man, not under the weight of his oppression.

A woman was made from a rib near the heart, filled with love, gentleness, and compassion.

If a woman’s mind fades, the entire nation’s intellect will fade.

True love is loving her despite her flaws, not because of her perfections.

The Psychology of a Woman:
No matter how old a woman gets, she always keeps a childlike side.

Attention makes her happy, but neglect brings her to tears.

Never try to suppress a woman, because her rebellion can be powerful.

A woman is like soft grass, bending gracefully in the breeze of kindness.

For the one who understands her, she’s easy to deal with.
For the one who opposes her, she’s a complex puzzle.

If you want her love, take care of her.
If you want her to stay, respect her.

Shakespeare said: “Arguing with an angry woman is like trying to turn the pages of a newspaper during a storm. Just embrace her, and she will calm down on her own!”

A man who doesn’t forgive a woman’s small mistakes can never understand her greatest virtues.

A woman wants to live under the shade of a man, not under the weight of his oppression.

A woman was made from a rib near the heart, filled with love, gentleness, and compassion.

If a woman’s mind fades, the entire nation’s intellect will fade.

True love is loving her despite her flaws, not because of her perfections.

_The Impact of Disrespect_: "Disrespect can have serious consequences. Choose kindness, empathy, and respect instead