Two days ago we celebrated mother's day, come to think of it who is a mother?

A mother is someone who nurtures, cares for, and provides love and support to a child. This can be biological, adoptive, or even in a chosen family dynamic. A mother isn’t just defined by giving birth but by the role she plays in a child's life—offering guidance, protection, and unconditional love.

Characteristics of a mother

A mother is often characterized by a mix of emotional, psychological, and practical qualities. While every mother is unique, some common characteristics include:

1. Unconditional Love – A mother’s love is deep, unwavering, and not based on conditions. She cares for her children regardless of their flaws.

2. Nurturing Nature – She provides emotional and physical support, ensuring her children feel safe, loved, and cared for.

3. Patience – Raising children requires immense patience, from teaching life lessons to handling tantrums.

4. Selflessness – A mother often puts her child’s needs before her own, sacrificing time, sleep, and personal desires for their well-being.

5. Strength and Resilience – She remains strong through challenges, whether emotional, financial, or personal, to support her family.

6. Guidance and Wisdom – A mother imparts life lessons, values, and knowledge, helping her children navigate life’s ups and downs.

7. Protectiveness – She instinctively protects her child from harm, whether emotional or physical.

8. Compassion and Empathy – Understanding her child’s feelings and struggles, she provides comfort and reassurance.

9. Dedication and Hard Work – Whether she’s a stay-at-home mom, a working mother, or balancing both, she is committed to providing a better life for her child.

10. Forgiveness – Even when children make mistakes, a mother forgives and continues to support them.

While these characteristics are common, motherhood looks different for everyone. Some mothers may express love through actions rather than words, while others may be more emotional.

What do you think defines a mother best?

Let's have your opinion on this

CBN Announces New ₦5,000 & ₦10,000 Notes

"In a bid to reduce cash handling challenges, the Central Bank of Nigeria (CBN) has introduced new ₦5,000 and ₦10,000 notes featuring iconic Nigerian leaders. The notes will be in circulation from May 1, 2025."


CENTRAL BANK OF NIGERIA PRESS RELEASE

CBN Unveils New ₦5,000 and ₦10,000 Banknotes to Enhance Cash Transactions

Abuja, April 1, 2025 – The Central Bank of Nigeria (CBN) has officially announced the introduction of two new denominations - ₦5,000 and ₦10,000 banknotes; as part of ongoing efforts to streamline cash transactions and improve liquidity management.

According to the Deputy CBN Governor, Dr. Ibrahim Tahir Jr., the move is aimed at reducing cash-handling costs and providing Nigerians with more efficient means of conducting large transactions. "The introduction of these new high-value denominations aligns with global best practices and will enhance economic activities while reducing the stress associated with carrying large amounts of cash," the Governor stated.

The new ₦5,000 note will feature the portrait of Chief Obafemi Awolowo, while the ₦10,000 note will showcase Dr. Nnamdi Azikiwe, both in recognition of their contributions to Nigeria’s development. Additionally, the new notes will incorporate enhanced security features, including color-changing ink, holograms, and anti-counterfeiting technology, making them impossible to replicate.

The nationwide rollout will begin on May 1, 2025, with commercial banks instructed to start issuing the new notes via ATMs and over-the-counter transactions.

Nigerians are advised to exchange their old Naira notes at banks before June 30, 2025, after which lower denominations may be phased out gradually.

For further details, visit www.cbn.gov.ng/newcurrency.

Signed:
Dr. Ibrahim Tahir Jr.
Deputy Governor, Central Bank of Nigeria

Below are samples of the newly designed ₦5,000 & ₦10,000 notes for your information and guidance!

IT'S A NEW MONTH

I pray for you ;
May this new month be a time of renewal and abundant blessings for you, your family, and your friends. May each day be filled with divine grace, unwavering hope, and the gentle guidance of love, as you journey through life's challenges with renewed strength and courage.

May God grant you wisdom and serenity, filling your hearts with gratitude and joy. May your bonds be deepened by love and your spirits uplifted by hope, as you embrace each moment with the assurance that every step is blessed. Amen.

With a heavy heart, I received the news of the passing of the revered Traditional Ruler of Isuochi Ancient Kingdom in Umunneochi LGA, His Royal Majesty, Eze Godwin Irononso Ezekwesiri, the Ochi 1 of Isuochi. His demise is a profound loss, not only to his immediate community but to the entire Abia State.

Eze Ezekwesiri was more than a royal father; he was a statesman whose wisdom, experience, and selfless leadership enriched generations. Over his five decades on the throne, he exemplified peace, unity, and progressive leadership, touching lives positively within his kingdom and beyond.

At a time when the younger generation could greatly benefit from his wealth of knowledge and guidance, we mourn his passing while cherishing the indelible legacy he leaves behind.

On behalf of my family, the government, and the good people of Abia State, I extend my heartfelt condolences to the Ezekwesiri family, the people of Umunneochi, and all who had the privilege of experiencing his impactful reign. May God grant his soul eternal rest and give his family and community the strength to bear this immense loss.

Dear God,

I come before you today with a humble heart, seeking guidance, strength, and wisdom.

Help me to stay focused on my goals and aspirations, and to trust in your plan for my life.

Grant me the courage to face any challenges that come my way, and the resilience to bounce back from setbacks.

Fill me with your love, compassion, and kindness, that I may be a source of hope and inspiration to those around me.

Thank you for your unwavering presence in my life, and for the countless blessings you've bestowed upon me.

In Jesus' name, I pray. Amen.

May this prayer bring you comfort, peace, and inspiration for the day ahead
Have a lovely day friends.

The kind things happening in marriages ehn....

Marrying into a toxic family is a recipe for disaster, a catastrophic life event. May God help us all to see well.

#ToxicFamily #MarryingWisely #GodsGuidance #PrayerForDiscernment #HealthyRelationships

HEAR THIS:

BEING AVERAGE IN LIFE IS NOT GOD'S STANDARD FOR OUR LIVES, IS AN INSULT TO GOD, WE WERE CREATED FOR EXCELLENCE, GREATNESS, AND IMPACT.

"Average" is not a badge of honor. It's an insult to the God who created you for greatness.

As children of God, we're called to excel, not settle for mediocrity. Average is not God's standard; excellence is.

Why Average is an Insult:

1. It disregards God's unique plan for our lives.
2. It wastes the talents and gifts God has given us.
3. It lacks passion and dedication to God's kingdom.

Consequences of Being Average:

1. Missed opportunities for impact.
2. Unfulfilled potential.
3. Lack of personal growth.

The Problem with Average:

1. Settling for mediocrity
2. Ignoring God-given talents
3. Lack of passion and purpose
4. Missing opportunities for impact

Rising Above Average:

1. Set God-honoring goals.
2. Cultivate a growth mindset.
3. Surround yourself with positive influences.
4. Seek mentorship and accountability.
5. Pray for wisdom and guidance.

Breaking Free from Average:

1. Seek God's vision for your life
2. Identify and develop your strengths
3. Take risks and step out in faith
4. Surround yourself with positive influences

God's Design for Excellence:

1. Created in His image (Genesis 1:26)
2. Empowered by the Holy Spirit (Acts 1:8)
3. Called to greatness (2 Peter 1:3-4)
4. Equipped for good works (Ephesians 2:10)

You were created for more than average. Embrace God's extraordinary purpose and become the best version of yourself.

This day shall be glorious for you, divine guidance shall direct your step. Your ears shall be open for instructions and your heart shall respond in obedience. The fruit of your labour shall not be sour but pleasant and sweet. Every pursuit of yours shall end in testimony and praise. God will cause all things to work together for your good. Shame and regret shall never be your portion. As you keep His Word in your heart, your feet shall not slide Amen .

Family planning is an essential part of making informed decisions about your health and future. Whether you're thinking about starting a family or delaying it, it's important to choose what's right for you. Remember, you're not alone in this journey. Seek guidance, ask questions, and make decisions that work for you. Your health matters! #SifonSambo #YoureNotAlone #WomensHealth

Small girl trying to catch up my career.
Am looking to God for guidances

Responsibilities of a Father in a Family:

_Primary Responsibilities:_

1. Providing financial support
2. Emotional guidance and support
3. Disciplining and setting boundaries
4. Role-modeling values and behavior
5. Protecting and ensuring family safety

_Emotional Support:_

1. Listening and validating feelings
2. Offering comfort and reassurance
3. Encouraging open communication
4. Supporting partner's emotional needs
5. Modeling healthy emotional expression

_Discipline and Guidance:_

1. Setting clear expectations and rules
2. Teaching life skills and values
3. Encouraging responsibility and independence
4. Modeling respectful communication
5. Providing constructive feedback

_Financial Provision:_

1. Managing household finances
2. Providing for family's basic needs
3. Planning for future financial security
4. Saving for children's education
5. Ensuring family's economic stability

_Role-Modeling:_

1. Demonstrating integrity and honesty
2. Modeling respectful relationships
3. Teaching respect for authority
4. Encouraging physical and mental well-being
5. Embodying values and principles

_Parenting Partnership:_

1. Co-parenting with mother
2. Sharing childcare responsibilities
3. Collaborating on discipline and guidance
4. Supporting partner's parenting style
5. Maintaining united front in parenting

_Community Involvement:_

1. Participating in children's activities
2. Volunteering in community or school
3. Building relationships with neighbors
4. Role-modeling social responsibility
5. Fostering community connections

_Personal Growth:_

1. Pursuing personal interests and hobbies
2. Continuing education and self-improvement
3. Maintaining physical and mental health
4. Setting boundaries and prioritizing self-care
5. Seeking support and resources when needed

_Influencing Children's Development:_

1. Shaping moral and ethical values
2. Encouraging educational and career goals
3. Modeling healthy relationships
4. Teaching life skills and independence
5. Fostering emotional intelligence

Remember:

1. Fatherhood is a unique and vital role.
2. Emotional support is crucial for family well-being.
3. Partnership with your spouse is essential.
4. Role-modeling values and behavior shapes children's development.
5. Seeking support is a sign of strength.

You can marry the right person and not marry the person right.

Having the right partner doesn’t guarantee a successful marriage if you don’t work on yourself and the relationship.

Some people have direct revelation/ convictions that their spouse is perfect for them, yet they are struggling in their marriage to understand themselves.

God can show you that someone is destined for you, but he won't come down to treat them well for you. God provides guidance, not control.

He has given you the key to a successful marriage. Men love your wives, and women submit to your husband.

You also need to understand that submission and love don't just happen if you don't give room for it.

Stop blaming God for your own mistakes. Take responsibility of your shortcomings.

Find what works for you and your partner to foster a healthy, and loving relationship.

It takes commitment from both partners to make healthy and loving marriage.

Can two work together unless they agree?

#Lekwa princess ijeoma ✍🏾
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