Nobody talks about this.🥺 Nobody talks about what happens after you finally heal from a traumatizing relationship. When you've taken the time to focus on yourself and are ready to step back into the dating world, it feels nearly impossible to find someone because you recognize the red flags in everybody. You notice so many things you're unwilling to compromise on because you actually trust your intuition now. You can see potential issues in people and know you won't be able to overlook them later in the relationship. So, you don't let your feelings cloud your judgment and cut things off before they even begin. Then, you realize how many people aren't actually working on themselves. They're just seeking shallow connections and think they're perfectly fine the way they are. There's no room to grow together because they're already set in their ways. It's exhausting at times, and the loneliness can take a toll on you. But you have to remember one thing: it's better to be single with high standards than to be in a relationship settling for less. ~ Cody Bret

LETTER TO EVERY WÖMAN Dear Woman Not every man is a Husband material. Some are friendzone materials. Some are Boyfriend materials. Some are sex mate materials. Some are baby-papa materials. Some are husband materials Some are father materials Marry a Man that is a Brother, Husband and Father. Some of you, get into marriage with men who have no business being married. Marriage is not for everybody. Some men are not wired to function in matrimony. Don't allow marriage desperation or societal pressure to push you into the arms of a man who is not ready or suited for matrimony. Look around you, most men get married just for the status. Those are the men that marry wives and keep for their mothers and fathers to look after. I have seen men who married wives and travelled out of the country for 5, 6 and even 7 years without coming home to see their wives. I mean what is that? You shouldn't be theoretically married. Marriage must be practical. Some men are very selfish. Take this from me, a selfish man can never be a good husband. Matrimony thrives on mutualism. It is a give-and-take situation. Don't marry a man because you are pregnant for him. Don't marry him because he deflowered you. Don't marry him because you are unemployed. Don't marry him because you've dated him for long. Don't marry him because you invested in him financially. Marry him because you believe he is worthy of being called your Husband and the father of your unborn kids. There are men everywhere but Husbands are scarce. I pray for you yet to be married: you will not experience marriage bondage. And for that feel you've made a mistake, retrace your step, and rededicate your marriage to God. God is faithful and ready to help you and he will help you out in Jesus' name! Note : if you are a man reading this post don't make it a gender war. And don't take it personal. This post is for men. I know there are un-wifable women but that's a post for another day. Thank you for your understanding. God bless. Nature is Powerful #StayProtected #StayBlessed

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RULES OF LIVING WITH PEOPLE 1. When you meet young people - INSPIRE THEM. 2. When you meet children - EDUCATE THEM. 3. When you meet old people - HELP THEM. 4. When you meet wise people - STUDY THEM. 5. When you meet leaders - HONOUR THEM. 6. When you meet foolish people - AVOID THEM. 7. When you meet humble people - TREASURE THEM. 8. When you meet arrogant people - IGNORE THEM. 9. When you meet gracious people - EMULATE THEM. 10. When you meet aspirational people - ELEVATE THEM. 11. When you meet strong people - SUPPORT THEM. 12. When you meet godly people - BLESS THEM. 13. When you meet elderly people - RESPECT THEM. 14. When you meet weak people - STRENGTHEN THEM. 15. When you meet hardworking people - ENCOURAGE THEM. 16. When you meet kind people - ESTEEM THEM. 17. When you meet Honest people - PROMOTE THEM. 18. When you meet virtuous people - REWARD THEM. 19. When you meety evil people - EVADE THEM. 20. And in all situation “ Watch, Pray and wish everyone well. 1. Dr. Ben Carson said, "I struggled academically throughout elementary school yet became the best neurosurgeon in the world in 1987." LESSON: Struggling is a sign that you are on a verge of success. Don't quit yet. 2. Bill Gates said, "I didn't even complete my university education but became the world's richest man." LESSON: School does not make you rich. School is only supposed to polish what will make you rich, not make you rich. 3. Christiano Ronaldo said, "I told my father that we would be very rich but he couldn't believe me. I made it a reality." LESSON: Your words rule your life. If you mean what you have said, each word will come to pass. You get what you say. 4. Hear Lionel Messi! "I used to serve tea at a shop to support my football training and still became one of the world's best footballers." LESSON: Believe in your dream. Don't let your pain tell you how your future will look like. 5. Steve Jobs penned, "I used to sleep on the floor in my friends' rooms, returning coke bottles for food, money, and getting weekly free meals at a local temple, I later on founded Apple Company." LESSON: That you are small today doesn't mean you will be small tomorrow. Keep trusting God. 6. Former British PM, Tony Blair said & I quote, "My teachers used to call me a failure, but I became a Prime Minister." LESSON: Don't let someone else's opinions of you become your reality. 7. Bishop David Oyedepo said, "I started Living Faith Church from a lawn tennis court with three members only & preached prosperity. Many of my friends criticised me, but today we have the largest church auditorium in the world & two world-class universities." *LESSON:* Believe in yourself even if no one does & never think of quitting. 8. *Nelson Mandela said,* "I was in prison for 27 years & still became president." *LESSON:* You can be anything you want to be no matter where you have been or what you have been through. *9.REECE* "I drove a taxi to finance my university education but today I'm a billionaire." *LESSON:* Don't let your past decide the kind of future you need to have. 10. *Harland Sanders, Founder of KFC said,* "I was on the verge of suicide when an Idea of opening a restaurant hit me after I retired as a cook in the Navy." *LESSON:* Nothing is ever too late. "Too late" is a language of failures. Your future can begin at any age. Don't ever let AGE limit you. 11. *Aliko Dangote said,* "I worked for my uncle since I was a small boy, people looked down on me. I later on took a loan from my uncle to open a tiny shop. I worked hard to make ends meet. Now I am the richest Man in Africa. *LESSON:* Failures or limitations of the past have no control over the greatness in you. To him that believes, all things are possible. 12. *Barack Hussein Obama said,* I am a son of a black immigrant from Kenya, I graduated from Harvard and later on became a Senator in Chicago. I was also the President of the most powerful nation on Earth. *LESSON:* Never design your life like a garden where anyone can walk in and out. Design it like the sky where everyone aspires to reach! 13. *Arnold Swarzzenegger said,* I traveled to America in search of financial independence when I was 15yrs old. I became the world's strongest man 7 times and Mr Universe. I then got my Economics degree, then I became one of Hollywood's best actors before I was voted twice as governor of California." *LESSON:* Don't wait for everybody to believe in your ability and dreams. Beloved endeavour to be good to people you meet everyday,,fear God and live peacefully with all men knowing full well that if we don't meet to part, we will part to meet one day. *KINDLY SHARE TO MOTIVATE OTHERS.* GOD BLESS YOU🙏❤️

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Rema KNOWS what he's doing, it's just we the fan's that doesn't understand this young dude 😎... If you have noticed lately you will come to realize that Rema's concert these days are no longer boring like before... Rema used to perform for hours and fans we be getting tired of listening to Calm down, Calm down kinda vibez. you can never tell me that you will attend a Rema concert now and you will hear OZEBA, MARCH AM and will not forget your home training and dance with madness 😁.. Incase you don't know that's what the Benin boy want.😎 He's tired of boring concert and boring songs so he decided to experiment on a different kinda vibe and indeed he triumphed gloriously 😁. You don't expect he's concert to be like that of juice wrld 👀 whereas he's from Benin a state where PARA dey everybody body 🤣 😆 ( Watch he's recent concert in Houston Texas below the comment section and tell me you don't love the new Rema 😁)

If you don’t understand women psychology, you will suffer. Brutally. Let me tell you something you won’t hear from your mother, your pastor, or your girlfriend: In this world, a man who doesn’t understand how women think… is nothing but a tool. A walking wallet. A disposable provider. A fool with a dk.** She will smile at you. Sleep with you. Say all the right words. And yet, leave you shattered without an ounce of guilt. Not because she’s evil, but because you were blind. You thought love was enough. You thought loyalty meant security. You thought if you just treated her “right,” she’d never cheat, lie, or leave. Wrong. Women don’t operate like men. Their emotions fluctuate. Their desires evolve. Their choices are wired by instinct, not logic. If you don’t decode how that works, you’ll be reacting instead of leading. You’ll be begging instead of walking away. You’ll be confused when she loses interest, while another man, who says less but knows more, has her obsessed. This is what I teach in my platform. Because if you want to dominate this game called attraction and relationships, you must stop being naïve. You must learn how women think. How they test. How they manipulate. How they choose. Only then can you move with power. Only then can you protect your time, your money, your heart, and your future. Let the truth be told, weakness is a choice; strength is a decision. If you disappoint, you must appear before the council of brotherhood, and explain why you’ve decided to disgrace everybody! You're either building or destroying yourself every day, choose wisely. Step up or step aside. Stay turned for more episodes of this story EMMACKHub

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YOU WILL NEVER HAVE A VOICE UNTIL YOU'RE PROSPEROUS AND YOU'LL NEVER BE PROSPEROUS UNTIL YOU'RE A GIVER. -Pastor David Ibiyeomie During the Second Sunday Service of Salvation Ministries - Home Of Success, Pastor David Ibiyeomie speaking on the Message: “Living A Life Of Influence” mentioned that financial prosperity is essential for having influence and being heard. He also stated that withholding tithes stops favor and encouraged the congregation to give generously to God so as to be prosperous. He said: “If you like, get all the principles and you don't have money, nobody will hear your voice; that's the Bible. He says the poor man's wisdom is despised, that means he has no voice. Say I hear! Are you hearing what the Bible is saying? Church Gist. So you have to know about Kingdom prosperity, you have to have a revelation of Kingdom prosperity because after all is said and done, if you're broke, you will have no voice. Say I hear! And how can you make it in the Kingdom of God? The foundation is: Be A faithful tither and then give quality offerings. Malachi 3:10. - May the Lord open your own windows. Proverbs 11:24. Tithing is the biblical practice of returning 10 percent of your income back to God after you have earned it. That's what tithing is. Tithing is holy unto God, when you tamper with what is holy, you will have a hole in your life. Leviticus 27:30. Hear this, favour stops when the tithe is withheld from God. The reason why many of you are not enjoying favour? Because no tithe. Now hear this and hear me well, you hear people say well, I'm being marginalized because I'm a black person, that's why they didn't talk to me, it's a lie. Many of you in the Western World; you think that the reason why they don't give you a job is because you're black, it's because you're stingy. "Oh! Because I'm not white!" It's a lie! Church Gist. When you're a tither, He said I will rebuke the devourer for your sake. So when you go, they hate you because you're not tithing. When you tithe, you become a delightsome land, black or white, everybody loves you. Say I hear! God is not a racist, stop hiding under the guise of ignorance. "Oh! If I was white", it's a lie. If you are a tither. Favour stops when you withhold your tithe. Tithing is a proof you have conquered greed and mastered faith. Tithing is a proof you have conquered greed and mastered what? (Faith). And you believe that what God says, He will do. And you have mastered faith. Give quality offerings, don't give trash and expect treasures. Giving is living, stop being stingy! You will never have a voice until you're prosperous and you'll never be prosperous until you're a giver.”

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Assumption is what lands a lot of people in directionless relationships. Stop assuming that everybody is like you or wants what you want. Just because someone proposed a relationship doesn’t mean they’re thinking about your future. It doesn’t mean they see marriage. It doesn’t mean they’ve prayed. And it definitely doesn’t mean they’re ready. Do we realise that sometimes, people ask for relationships simply because they’re lonely? Or bored. Or emotionally hungry. Not because they’ve counted the cost of love. Not because they’ve envisioned a future with you. You cannot afford to assume that just because someone showed interest, they also carry intention. This is how many people end up heartbroken building castles in the air while the other person is just enjoying the breeze. You have to talk. You have to ask the uncomfortable questions. You have to clarify vision, values, and direction. Not after feelings have settled in but from the beginning. It is one issue I have with talking stages. People claim to be in talking stages but don’t talk important things. Tell them why you date. Let them know what you’re looking for. Give them the chance to say, “That’s not what I want,” so you can exit early before you get emotionally entangled in a story that was never yours to finish. Be intentional with your life and stop partnering with time wasters.