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HABITS THAT TURN YOU FROM A GIRL TO A WOMAN

There’s a difference between being a girl and being a woman. A girl moves through life hoping things will change, a woman takes responsibility and makes things happen.

If you’re ready to step into your full power as a woman, these habits will transform you:

1. You Stop Explaining Yourself to Everyone

A girl seeks approval. A woman knows she doesn’t need to justify every decision.

You don’t owe the world any explanation for your good choices.

You don’t need to prove your worth, your results will speak.

The moment you stop living for people’s validation, you step into your power.

2. You Manage Your Money Like a Boss

A girl spends first and thinks later. A woman plans her finances with sense.

You have savings, not just expenses.

You invest, because money should work for you.

You don’t buy to impress, you buy to grow.

A financially independent woman is unstoppable.

3. You Set Standards.

A girl complains about how she’s treated. A woman dictates how she wants to be treated.

In relationships, you walk away from nonsense.

In business, you charge your worth.

In friendships, you don’t beg for respect.

When you raise your standards, life aligns accordingly.

4. You Protect Your Peace at All Costs

Not everything requires your reaction. Not everyone deserves your access.

Drama? Not interested.
Fake friends? Not tolerated.
Energy-draining situations? Deleted.

A woman knows that peace is more valuable than attention.

5. You Show Up, Even When You Don’t Feel Like It

A girl waits to feel motivated. A woman moves with or without motivation.

You post that content.
You build that brand.
You work on yourself, no excuses.

Discipline separates those who wish from those who win.

6. You Take Care of Yourself Like an Asset, Not an Afterthought

A girl ignores herself. A woman takes care of herself.

You eat well, not just what’s available.
You dress well, because presentation matters.
You rest, because you deserve care too.

When you look good, feel good, and carry yourself with confidence, the world responds accordingly.

7. You Speak With Authority, Not Apology

A girl shrinks. A woman owns her space.

You say what you mean clearly.
You express your needs without guilt.
You know your value and you act like it.
Your voice is powerful, use it with confidence.

Becoming a woman is not about age, makeup, or relationship status.

It’s about mindset, habits, and how you carry yourself.


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Listen up, Men! Never Joke with Your Source of Income—Get Money at All Costs

Let me tell you this personally: If you don’t have your money right, you’re going to suffer. The world is brutal to broke men. You don’t get sympathy, handouts, or free passes. You’re not a woman who gets free stuff just by existing.

Women are born with their value. A beautiful woman can walk into any room and instantly get attention, validation, and resources. But as a man, you have to EARN your value.

Here’s Why You Must Never Joke with Your Source of Income:

1. Respect Comes from Power, and Power Comes from Money
A broke man has no power, no authority, and no say. If you want people to respect your presence, you need money.

2. Nobody Feeds a Broke Man
If you’re down and out, nobody’s coming to save you. There are no safety nets, no sympathy, and no handouts. You’re either grinding or you’re invisible.

3. You Can’t Protect or Provide Without Resources
As a man, your value is tied to your ability to provide, protect, and lead. Without money, you’re a liability, not an asset.

4. Financial Independence Is True Freedom
Without your own income, you are a slave to your job, your boss, and even the opinions of others. Money gives you choices, freedom, and control over your own destiny.

5. Broke Men Are Easy Targets for Manipulation
A man with no money is an easy mark for manipulation. People use, discard, and disrespect broke men because they know they have no leverage.

6. Women Lose Interest Quickly in Broke Men
No matter how nice or loving you are, if you’re broke, she’s going to lose interest. Women are wired to seek security and stability—if you can’t provide that, you’re done.

7. You Have No Voice Without Resources
In this world, money talks. You can’t make moves, take risks, or have influence if you’re broke.

8. Survival Demands It
There’s no dignity in poverty. You must get money at all costs because your survival, your dignity, and your future depend on it.

Final Warning

Don’t let anyone distract you from your grind. Don’t let relationships, drama, or laziness stop you from getting your money right. Chase the bag, secure your income, and build your empire.

A man without money is a man without options. Make sure you always have options. #motivation #preciousandfamily #Marriage #follower #Relationship

"It's not about being happy all the time, or being sure of all your choices.

It's about knowing that life is precious, even when it's tough."

"It's not about being happy all the time, or being sure of all your choices. It's about knowing that life is precious, even when it's tough."

Your future self is watching—make choices that honor them. #BeIntentional

Your future self is watching—make choices that honor them. #BeIntentional

I will marry well, and I will marry right; should not be a statement you say casually.

It is something you should turn into a prayer and pray about it fervently.

Declare it and pray intentionally, and when you pray, look out for instructions.

The reason we pray sometimes and feel it wasn't answered is because we don't wait for instructions or heed to instructions.

Don't be too quick to disregard the ‘NO’ from family or friends, It might be the voice of God.

God does not come down on earth to tell us when we are making a mistake, He can use people’s voices.

Test the voice that is saying ‘NO’ through prayers and check if it's the voice of envy, anger, or God.

God allows us to make our choices. When you pray and refuse to submit to God's instructions, He will allow you to live.

Pray for discerning spirit to know when He is saying ‘NO, YES OR WAIT’.

Marrying the wrong partner might not be a vïolent partner. You are in the wrong home when you are physically, emotionally, or verbally abúsed.

A partner who doesn't have control of their anger is a red flag, even if they don't hït you.

You will fight unnecessary battles when you are in the wrong place.

Everyone has someone who fit into their destiny, life, and calling. If you get linked to someone who is incompatible with you in all areas, you will lose yourself.

You are lucky if you're not yet married, you have time to make the best choice.

Do not be emotionally manipulated to make the wrong choice.

#Lekwa princess ijeoma ✍🏾
#TheVoice

LIFE LESSONS FOR BOTH MEN AND WOMEN
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1. Self-respect is the foundation of everything. If you don’t respect yourself, don’t expect others to.

2. Your habits define your future. What you do daily will either build you or break you. Choose wisely.

3. Not everyone will clap for you. Some people secretly hope you fail. Stay focused and prove them wrong.

4. Discipline is stronger than motivation. Motivation fades, but discipline keeps you moving when you don’t feel like it.

5. Silence is powerful. You don’t have to react to everything. Sometimes, the best response is no response.

6. Learn to enjoy your own company. If you can’t find peace alone, you’ll always seek distractions to fill the void.

7. Your energy is precious. Stop wasting it on people and situations that drain you. Protect your peace.

8. Nobody owes you anything. Life doesn’t give handouts. You either work for it or remain stagnant.

9. Your mind is your greatest asset. Feed it with knowledge, wisdom, and positive thoughts. The world is already full of negativity—don’t add to it.

10. Let actions speak louder than words. People can promise anything, but watch what they do. That’s where the truth is.

11. Not everyone is meant to stay in your life. Some people are just lessons, not lifelong companions. Accept and move on.

12. Happiness is an inside job. If you rely on others to make you happy, you will always be disappointed.

13. Time is the most valuable currency. Spend it wisely because you can never get it back.

14. You don’t have to explain yourself to everyone. Live your life, make your moves, and let results speak for themselves.

15. Rejection is not the end—it’s redirection. What you lost was making space for something better. Trust the process.

16. The strongest people are those who have been through the worst. Pain builds resilience. Use it to grow, not to stay bitter.

17. Kindness is free, but don’t let people take advantage of you. Be good, but not naive.

18. Your circle determines your growth. Surround yourself with people who inspire and challenge you.

19. Success comes from consistency, not luck. Keep going, even when it’s hard. Small efforts daily create big results over time.

20. In the end, your life is your responsibility. No one will save you. Take control, make smart choices, and build a future you’re proud of.

When I was a young lecturer at the University of Lagos, teaching Public Law, the department had three typists: the chief typist, the senior typist, and the junior typist.

Back then, before laptops and personal computers, typists were the backbone of academic work. Every lecture note, research paper, and official document had to be typed manually.

But here’s what I observed:

The chief typist disappeared when work piled up—strictly a 4 p.m. worker.

The senior typist? Nowhere to be found.

But the junior typist, a man named Adereni, with only a school certificate, was different.

Hardworking.

Dedicated. I often dropped him off at home at 1 a.m.

Years later, while serving as an adviser to the Attorney General of the Federation, I got a call from Hon. Bola Ajibola (who later became a judge at the World Court in The Hague).

He needed a diligent, hardworking secretary to assist with long legal judgments. I had three choices: chief typist, senior typist, or Adereni—the junior typist with just a school certificate.

I chose Adereni.

He went to The Hague, worked so diligently that every judge wanted him on their team. Eventually, he moved his family there, earned degrees, and built a successful life.

One day, he remembered me.
And sent me a car.

Lesson?
Someone is always watching.
Hard work never goes unnoticed.

~ Professor Yemi Osinbajo

A Father's Psychological Advice:

1- Life won’t always match your plans. Learn to go with the flow.

2- Holding onto resentment only delays your blessings.

3- Dating a woman who supports you is invaluable.

4- Success requires one rule, never lie to yourself.

5- If your parents count on you, don’t repeat that with others who rely on theirs.

6- Focus on achieving your ambitions, not chasing after people.

7- This is your time to be a bit selfish; prioritize building yourself.

8- Let go of anything that doesn’t bring you peace.

9- Only share words that are more beautiful than silence.

10- Take care of your appearance for your own sake. When you look good, you feel good.

11- Some people wish to see you fail because they aren’t succeeding themselves.

12- Kindness can sometimes lead to being taken for granted.

13- Don’t compromise who you are just to please everyone around you.

14- Don’t announce your moves until they’re finalized. Premature sharing attracts negativity.

15- Don’t love too deeply to the point of suffering; be cautious in relationships.

16- Your mindset shapes your reality.

17- It can create envy for lives that may deserve pity instead.

18- Nobody owes you gifts; learn to treat yourself.

19- That scary move you dread could be the one that transforms everything. Just do it.

20- Don’t sabotage your journey by trying to speed it up.

21- Some people shouldn’t be asked for help, no matter how desperate you feel.

22- Learn new skills and focus on personal development.

23- Don’t allow someone’s actions to hurt you beyond what you’re willing to accept.

24- Always lift yourself up instead of tearing yourself down.

25- Sometimes, people return just to see if you’re still vulnerable.

26- Identify who doesn’t belong in your life for more peace.

27- Big dreams begin with small steps. Stay consistent and watch your efforts grow.

28- Before spending on others, ensure your family is taken care of.

29- Easy gains often don’t last; lasting success requires hard work.

30- Normalize being selective about what you share.

31- Forgiving unfaithful partners can lead to painful consequences.

32- Success doesn’t change the past; leaving was the right choice.

33- Don’t let others dictate your choices.

34- Never abuse or harm others.

35- Not everyone at your work place is your friend.

36- ~ Do your job.

37- ~ Get paid.

36- ~ Go home.

Thanks for reflecting on this advice.

"Live Purposefully"A Father's Psychological Advice:

1- Life won’t always match your plans. Learn to go with the flow.

2- Holding onto resentment only delays your blessings.

3- Dating a woman who supports you is invaluable.

4- Success requires one rule, never lie to yourself.

5- If your parents count on you, don’t repeat that with others who rely on theirs.

6- Focus on achieving your ambitions, not chasing after people.

7- This is your time to be a bit selfish; prioritize building yourself.

8- Let go of anything that doesn’t bring you peace.

9- Only share words that are more beautiful than silence.

10- Take care of your appearance for your own sake. When you look good, you feel good.

11- Some people wish to see you fail because they aren’t succeeding themselves.

12- Kindness can sometimes lead to being taken for granted.

13- Don’t compromise who you are just to please everyone around you.

14- Don’t announce your moves until they’re finalized. Premature sharing attracts negativity.

15- Don’t love too deeply to the point of suffering; be cautious in relationships.

16- Your mindset shapes your reality.

17- It can create envy for lives that may deserve pity instead.

18- Nobody owes you gifts; learn to treat yourself.

19- That scary move you dread could be the one that transforms everything. Just do it.

20- Don’t sabotage your journey by trying to speed it up.

21- Some people shouldn’t be asked for help, no matter how desperate you feel.

22- Learn new skills and focus on personal development.

23- Don’t allow someone’s actions to hurt you beyond what you’re willing to accept.

24- Always lift yourself up instead of tearing yourself down.

25- Sometimes, people return just to see if you’re still vulnerable.

26- Identify who doesn’t belong in your life for more peace.

27- Big dreams begin with small steps. Stay consistent and watch your efforts grow.

28- Before spending on others, ensure your family is taken care of.

29- Easy gains often don’t last; lasting success requires hard work.

30- Normalize being selective about what you share.

31- Forgiving unfaithful partners can lead to painful consequences.

32- Success doesn’t change the past; leaving was the right choice.

33- Don’t let others dictate your choices.

34- Never abuse or harm others.

35- Not everyone at your work place is your friend.

36- ~ Do your job.

37- ~ Get paid.

36- ~ Go home.

Thanks for reflecting on this advice.

"Live Purposefully"