• Lîsten up, Mên! Here’s Why Yóu Don’t Marry a W0man Over 35 The Math, the Biology, the Reality

    Whelên I tell you don’t marry a woman over 35, I’m nôt just throwing opinions.
    I’m giving you cold logic, fãcts, and brutal masculine truth that society is too scared to say out loud.
    Let’s brêak it down.

    Let’s say she became sêxua||y active at 18.
    She’s nôw 35. That’s 17 years of sêxual activity.
    If she ãveraged just 10 men per year and believe me, that’s modest for many in this era of “exploring” and “experiencing” that’s 170 men.

    Yes, 170 dîfferent men have had access to her body.
    170 opportunities to pair-bond, create soul ties, and destroy her ability to submit to one man.
    Yôu want peace with a woman like that?
    Bro, you’ll be fighting emotîônal ghosts and soul trauma daily.

    Nôw let’s talk biology.

    By age 35, she’s a|ready lost over 90% of her egg supply.
    That’s not speculation. That’s science.
    The peak fertility window for women is between 18 and 28. After that, fertility drops drastica||y, and after 35, it’s a dangerous gamble.
    You’ll spend mi||lions chasing IVF, praying for miracles, or end up childless with a woman who has nothing to give but complaints and comparison.

    Now let’s get darker.

    If she was hãving unprotected sex often (which is common in “serious” or “long-term” re|ationships) she may have had multiple abortions.
    At 20 pôtential pregnancy events over those years?
    You’re looking at a wôman who could’ve terminated 20 lives, and now wants to settle down like it’s just anôther phase.
    And you? You’re supposed to be the fool who gîves her a ring and raises her leftover future?

    Let’s be rea| you’re not her dream man.
    You’re just the last option now that the games are over and the clock is ticking.

    You don’t bui|d a dynasty on a used foundation.
    You don’t marry history, you marry future potential.
    And the o|der she is, the more of her value is already behind her.

    Choose wise|y or suffer silently.

    Crêdit: EMMACK
    moral lesson:To whom it may concern
    Lîsten up, Mên! Here’s Why Yóu Don’t Marry a W0man Over 35 The Math, the Biology, the Reality Whelên I tell you don’t marry a woman over 35, I’m nôt just throwing opinions. I’m giving you cold logic, fãcts, and brutal masculine truth that society is too scared to say out loud. Let’s brêak it down. Let’s say she became sêxua||y active at 18. She’s nôw 35. That’s 17 years of sêxual activity. If she ãveraged just 10 men per year and believe me, that’s modest for many in this era of “exploring” and “experiencing” that’s 170 men. Yes, 170 dîfferent men have had access to her body. 170 opportunities to pair-bond, create soul ties, and destroy her ability to submit to one man. Yôu want peace with a woman like that? Bro, you’ll be fighting emotîônal ghosts and soul trauma daily. Nôw let’s talk biology. By age 35, she’s a|ready lost over 90% of her egg supply. That’s not speculation. That’s science. The peak fertility window for women is between 18 and 28. After that, fertility drops drastica||y, and after 35, it’s a dangerous gamble. You’ll spend mi||lions chasing IVF, praying for miracles, or end up childless with a woman who has nothing to give but complaints and comparison. Now let’s get darker. If she was hãving unprotected sex often (which is common in “serious” or “long-term” re|ationships) she may have had multiple abortions. At 20 pôtential pregnancy events over those years? You’re looking at a wôman who could’ve terminated 20 lives, and now wants to settle down like it’s just anôther phase. And you? You’re supposed to be the fool who gîves her a ring and raises her leftover future? Let’s be rea| you’re not her dream man. You’re just the last option now that the games are over and the clock is ticking. You don’t bui|d a dynasty on a used foundation. You don’t marry history, you marry future potential. And the o|der she is, the more of her value is already behind her. Choose wise|y or suffer silently. Crêdit: EMMACK moral lesson:To whom it may concern
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  • "I’ll always choose Davido over Wizkid, any day, any time. Davido is truly humble, while Wizkid comes off as too prôud and full of himself.

    I've had the chance to meet both Wizkid and Davido, and honestly, Wizkid gave off a próud and arrógant vibe. It surprises me when people say they prefer Wizkid over Davido. Despite being born into a wealthy family, Davido remains hardworking and down-to-earth. From what I’ve observed, if Wizkid had grown up with the same privilege Davido had, he probably wouldn’t have put in half as much effort. That’s why I believe any reasonable person would pick Davido over Wizkid." – Jim Iyke
    "I’ll always choose Davido over Wizkid, any day, any time. Davido is truly humble, while Wizkid comes off as too prôud and full of himself. I've had the chance to meet both Wizkid and Davido, and honestly, Wizkid gave off a próud and arrógant vibe. It surprises me when people say they prefer Wizkid over Davido. Despite being born into a wealthy family, Davido remains hardworking and down-to-earth. From what I’ve observed, if Wizkid had grown up with the same privilege Davido had, he probably wouldn’t have put in half as much effort. That’s why I believe any reasonable person would pick Davido over Wizkid." – Jim Iyke
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  • “You might be aware of a video which has been circulating on social media showing me in what some have misunderstood as brandishing a firearm. I want to assure you of this — that, that was certainly not a firearm, and at no point did I point such at anyone.- Paul Adefarasin.
    Islamic Religious Extremists In Ogun State, Yoruba Land, Stabs An Igbo Lady To Death

    Today, we received the report of an Igbo woman identified as Mrs Blessing Eze who was stabbed to death by some Islamic religious extremists in Ogun State. The Extremists  goes about collecting unlawful levies from traders for the June 6th Eid Mubarak prayers. It was gathered that the Islamic Extremists had Unlawfully taxed the Info market traders  the sum of 1,500.00 Naira per shop for the Eid Mubarak prayers on June 6.  When they stormed the market in  collection of the money, it was in the morning and Mrs Blessing Eze told them that it is still morning and that she had not sold anything for the day. She told them to go and come back later but they refused and then began to destroy her goods. She then firmly buckled one and demanded that they pay for her goods they have destroyed. That was when they stabbed her. One of the Islamic Extremists collecting the unlawful levy quickly brought out a knife and stabbed the woman in the chest right in her shop, and she died.
    For clarity sake, these extremists are Muslims but their act is criminally. That is why we called them extremists because we don't want to believe that they were sent from the mosque to go and extort or to go and kill people in the market,  unless otherwise.

    Extortion is a crime and no crime  bypasses the punishment of the laws. When has Muslims started taxing people for Eid Mubarak prayers? And, why should people compulsorily pay you for your own prayers?  Giving is by willingness, you don't force people to give to you. We believe that no true Islamic leader will send his people to go and force 1,500.00 Naira out of traders and to kill any trader who refuses to pay.
    Mrs Blessing Eze did not refuse to pay, rather she told them to go and come back later that the time was still early for her to raise such an amount of money. But they refused and then killed her. This is how crimes are committed in Nigeria but the most painful thing is that when it is committed by Muslims against an Igbo person or against a Christian, justice will be denied.

    If there would be no justice for this woman, then we might be left with the option to believe what people have been parading about that "Islam is a religion of violence". People have been saying this but we just don't want to believe it because inasmuch as we know that some Islamic worshipers are evil, there are many good ones in there who are not violent and this also extends to every other religions.

    Fingers crossed, but the case of this woman will never be swept under the carpet just like that. We are demanding justice for her and, every Islamic person who believes that Islam is not a religion of "violence" must stand up for this woman's justice. All those involved in her death must be arrested and made to pay for the crime they committed. Of course, no payment will bring back the dead, but they must pay for it. It must not go like the case of Deborah Samuel.

    Family Writers Press International
    “You might be aware of a video which has been circulating on social media showing me in what some have misunderstood as brandishing a firearm. I want to assure you of this — that, that was certainly not a firearm, and at no point did I point such at anyone.- Paul Adefarasin. Islamic Religious Extremists In Ogun State, Yoruba Land, Stabs An Igbo Lady To Death Today, we received the report of an Igbo woman identified as Mrs Blessing Eze who was stabbed to death by some Islamic religious extremists in Ogun State. The Extremists  goes about collecting unlawful levies from traders for the June 6th Eid Mubarak prayers. It was gathered that the Islamic Extremists had Unlawfully taxed the Info market traders  the sum of 1,500.00 Naira per shop for the Eid Mubarak prayers on June 6.  When they stormed the market in  collection of the money, it was in the morning and Mrs Blessing Eze told them that it is still morning and that she had not sold anything for the day. She told them to go and come back later but they refused and then began to destroy her goods. She then firmly buckled one and demanded that they pay for her goods they have destroyed. That was when they stabbed her. One of the Islamic Extremists collecting the unlawful levy quickly brought out a knife and stabbed the woman in the chest right in her shop, and she died. For clarity sake, these extremists are Muslims but their act is criminally. That is why we called them extremists because we don't want to believe that they were sent from the mosque to go and extort or to go and kill people in the market,  unless otherwise. Extortion is a crime and no crime  bypasses the punishment of the laws. When has Muslims started taxing people for Eid Mubarak prayers? And, why should people compulsorily pay you for your own prayers?  Giving is by willingness, you don't force people to give to you. We believe that no true Islamic leader will send his people to go and force 1,500.00 Naira out of traders and to kill any trader who refuses to pay. Mrs Blessing Eze did not refuse to pay, rather she told them to go and come back later that the time was still early for her to raise such an amount of money. But they refused and then killed her. This is how crimes are committed in Nigeria but the most painful thing is that when it is committed by Muslims against an Igbo person or against a Christian, justice will be denied. If there would be no justice for this woman, then we might be left with the option to believe what people have been parading about that "Islam is a religion of violence". People have been saying this but we just don't want to believe it because inasmuch as we know that some Islamic worshipers are evil, there are many good ones in there who are not violent and this also extends to every other religions. Fingers crossed, but the case of this woman will never be swept under the carpet just like that. We are demanding justice for her and, every Islamic person who believes that Islam is not a religion of "violence" must stand up for this woman's justice. All those involved in her death must be arrested and made to pay for the crime they committed. Of course, no payment will bring back the dead, but they must pay for it. It must not go like the case of Deborah Samuel. Family Writers Press International
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  • 𝐄𝐈𝐆𝐇𝐓 (𝟖) 𝐓𝐇𝐈𝐍𝐆𝐒 𝐓𝐎 𝐂𝐀𝐑𝐑𝐘 𝐋𝐈𝐊𝐄 𝐀 𝐂𝐑𝐀𝐓𝐄 𝐎𝐅 𝐄𝐆𝐆:

    We have so many things in life that we can handle with strong hands & they can withstand pressure and force. There are things that are so fragile in nature & anyone who wants to handle them must do so with every carefulness and tenderness. I saw a truck loaded with cartons of Noddles. Two guys were asked to move the cartons of noddles from the truck into a shop. You need to see the throwing and catching prowess of this two guys. One was in the truck throwing the cartons to the one at the entrance of the shop and he was throwing it into the shop. The one in the truck can throw about 3 cartons at a go and the one in the shop will catch it so well. They can do it like that because the noodles in the cartons are not fragile.

    They can't handle crates of egg like that when loading from a truck into a shop. It takes extra carefulness and tenderness, if I not ,it will break and that will amount to huge debt and wastages.

    Friends, there are things we also must carry and handle with extra- carefulness because these things are fragile and once broken, it is not easy to put back together and once some of these things get broken, they can lead to huge damage and destiny wastage.
    Let me mention 8 of those things you must carry /handle with carefulness as if you are carrying a crate of eggs.

    1. 𝐘𝐎𝐔𝐑 𝐍𝐀𝐌𝐄: Your name is very important and fragile. There are names that stink in the ears of people simply because, those who bear those names spoilt the names. The way to handle your name with carefulness is to be careful of your doings. Your actions can rubbish your name. A good name can open doors for you & for your children and generations after you. The Bible says ' A good name is better than precious ointment...' ( Ecclesiastes 7:1). When your name is mentioned anywhere, like in your office, at home, church, on social media like Facebook, Twitter, IG, etc. What comes to people's minds? Carry your name with carefulness. It is a huge asset. Read one of the quotes written by Shakespeare. 'Who steals my purse steals trash; 'tis something, nothing; 'Twas mine, 'tis his, and has been slave to thousands;
    But he that filches from me my good name
    Robs me of that which not enriches him,
    And makes me poor indeed'.

    2: 𝐘𝐎𝐔𝐑 𝐇𝐄𝐀𝐑𝐓: Many hearts are broken, shattered, wounded and bitter today. One of the factors responsible for this is because many of this heart owners were careless with their hearts. You can guard your heart from being broken and bitter. Run away from people, and things that are bent on breaking your heart. Carry your heart like a crate of eggs. You need a whole heart before you can be said to be fully whole!

    3. 𝐘𝐎𝐔𝐑 𝐖𝐈𝐅𝐄 : When you put too much pressure on your wife, you will 'break' her. ' Likewise ye husbands, dwell with your wife according to knowledge, giving honour unto the wife, as unto the weaker vessel...' ( I Peter 3:7)
    Handle your wife with carefulness and tenderness. Let tenderness flow in your manliness. Don't be wicked to your wife. Carry her like a Queen. She's stron, powerful and wise, yet, she needs to be protected, cared for and handle like a crate of eggs. Treat her like that.

    4: 𝐘𝐎𝐔𝐑 𝐏𝐔𝐑𝐏𝐎𝐒𝐄: Your purpose is your destiny. If you don't handle it with utmost carefulness, it can slip off your hands and gaze and get broken. So many things can come like pressure on this 'crate of egg of purpose'. Discouragement, lack of fund, delayed Breakthrough, etc. These are things that may want to come like pressure on your purpose to break it. Don't allow it! Carry it with care. Carry your purpose away from people and things that may want to put pressure on it and break it.

    5: 𝐘𝐎𝐔𝐑 𝐇𝐄𝐀𝐋𝐓𝐇: You have only this body as a vehicle that will carry you throughout your journey of destiny in this life. Handle your health with carefulness. No matter how big your vision is, once you are dead, nobody can really run the vision like you!

    Fight for your health. Avoid things that can destroy your health. Wealth is useless when your health becomes useless. Don't kill yourself before your time. Do your best to stay alive. We still need you here. Don't use your fork and your spoon to dig your grave. Watch what you eat. Always pray for divine immunization against sickness and diseases.

    6. 𝐘𝐎𝐔𝐑 𝐌𝐀𝐑𝐑𝐈𝐀𝐆𝐄.: So many people handle their marriage like a carton of noddles. Let me remind you sir/ma. Your marriage is fragile. Handle it like a crate of egg. It must not break! A broken marriage is not easily put back together, because, when a marriage breaks, many things get broken with it. Husband and wife, please, carry your marriage like an egg. It must not break!

    7: 𝐘𝐎𝐔𝐑 𝐖𝐎𝐑𝐃𝐒. : Your worth is attached to your words. Be careful with words. Once broken, you can't gather it up again. Many people are careless with their words. They speak violently. They make empty promises and break it. Some say things they later wish they never said. Guard your words. Be careful with it.

    8: 𝐘𝐎𝐔𝐑 𝐄𝐓𝐄𝐑𝐍𝐈𝐓𝐘: Those who are running up and down to fulfill destiny here on earth without thinking of their eternity are not wise! Hear what the Bible says ' Oh that they were wise, that they understood this, they would have considered their latter end! ( Duet 32:29). Friends, the matter of eternity is not something you should handle with levity. Think about where you will spend eternity. You will die one day. I will also die one day. All that we are and have in this world are vanity upon vanity. Take the matter of your end very serious. Stop living carelessly as if you have extra life. Think about eternity. Don't live for the pleasure of this present moment alone. If you miss heaven, you will cry!

    I believe someone here is blessed with this. You can share it to bless others. (don't plagiarize it )

    Thanks for reading.
    𝐄𝐈𝐆𝐇𝐓 (𝟖) 𝐓𝐇𝐈𝐍𝐆𝐒 𝐓𝐎 𝐂𝐀𝐑𝐑𝐘 𝐋𝐈𝐊𝐄 𝐀 𝐂𝐑𝐀𝐓𝐄 𝐎𝐅 𝐄𝐆𝐆: We have so many things in life that we can handle with strong hands & they can withstand pressure and force. There are things that are so fragile in nature & anyone who wants to handle them must do so with every carefulness and tenderness. I saw a truck loaded with cartons of Noddles. Two guys were asked to move the cartons of noddles from the truck into a shop. You need to see the throwing and catching prowess of this two guys. One was in the truck throwing the cartons to the one at the entrance of the shop and he was throwing it into the shop. The one in the truck can throw about 3 cartons at a go and the one in the shop will catch it so well. They can do it like that because the noodles in the cartons are not fragile. They can't handle crates of egg like that when loading from a truck into a shop. It takes extra carefulness and tenderness, if I not ,it will break and that will amount to huge debt and wastages. Friends, there are things we also must carry and handle with extra- carefulness because these things are fragile and once broken, it is not easy to put back together and once some of these things get broken, they can lead to huge damage and destiny wastage. Let me mention 8 of those things you must carry /handle with carefulness as if you are carrying a crate of eggs. 1. 𝐘𝐎𝐔𝐑 𝐍𝐀𝐌𝐄: Your name is very important and fragile. There are names that stink in the ears of people simply because, those who bear those names spoilt the names. The way to handle your name with carefulness is to be careful of your doings. Your actions can rubbish your name. A good name can open doors for you & for your children and generations after you. The Bible says ' A good name is better than precious ointment...' ( Ecclesiastes 7:1). When your name is mentioned anywhere, like in your office, at home, church, on social media like Facebook, Twitter, IG, etc. What comes to people's minds? Carry your name with carefulness. It is a huge asset. Read one of the quotes written by Shakespeare. 'Who steals my purse steals trash; 'tis something, nothing; 'Twas mine, 'tis his, and has been slave to thousands; But he that filches from me my good name Robs me of that which not enriches him, And makes me poor indeed'. 2: 𝐘𝐎𝐔𝐑 𝐇𝐄𝐀𝐑𝐓: Many hearts are broken, shattered, wounded and bitter today. One of the factors responsible for this is because many of this heart owners were careless with their hearts. You can guard your heart from being broken and bitter. Run away from people, and things that are bent on breaking your heart. Carry your heart like a crate of eggs. You need a whole heart before you can be said to be fully whole! 3. 𝐘𝐎𝐔𝐑 𝐖𝐈𝐅𝐄 : When you put too much pressure on your wife, you will 'break' her. ' Likewise ye husbands, dwell with your wife according to knowledge, giving honour unto the wife, as unto the weaker vessel...' ( I Peter 3:7) Handle your wife with carefulness and tenderness. Let tenderness flow in your manliness. Don't be wicked to your wife. Carry her like a Queen. She's stron, powerful and wise, yet, she needs to be protected, cared for and handle like a crate of eggs. Treat her like that. 4: 𝐘𝐎𝐔𝐑 𝐏𝐔𝐑𝐏𝐎𝐒𝐄: Your purpose is your destiny. If you don't handle it with utmost carefulness, it can slip off your hands and gaze and get broken. So many things can come like pressure on this 'crate of egg of purpose'. Discouragement, lack of fund, delayed Breakthrough, etc. These are things that may want to come like pressure on your purpose to break it. Don't allow it! Carry it with care. Carry your purpose away from people and things that may want to put pressure on it and break it. 5: 𝐘𝐎𝐔𝐑 𝐇𝐄𝐀𝐋𝐓𝐇: You have only this body as a vehicle that will carry you throughout your journey of destiny in this life. Handle your health with carefulness. No matter how big your vision is, once you are dead, nobody can really run the vision like you! Fight for your health. Avoid things that can destroy your health. Wealth is useless when your health becomes useless. Don't kill yourself before your time. Do your best to stay alive. We still need you here. Don't use your fork and your spoon to dig your grave. Watch what you eat. Always pray for divine immunization against sickness and diseases. 6. 𝐘𝐎𝐔𝐑 𝐌𝐀𝐑𝐑𝐈𝐀𝐆𝐄.: So many people handle their marriage like a carton of noddles. Let me remind you sir/ma. Your marriage is fragile. Handle it like a crate of egg. It must not break! A broken marriage is not easily put back together, because, when a marriage breaks, many things get broken with it. Husband and wife, please, carry your marriage like an egg. It must not break! 7: 𝐘𝐎𝐔𝐑 𝐖𝐎𝐑𝐃𝐒. : Your worth is attached to your words. Be careful with words. Once broken, you can't gather it up again. Many people are careless with their words. They speak violently. They make empty promises and break it. Some say things they later wish they never said. Guard your words. Be careful with it. 8: 𝐘𝐎𝐔𝐑 𝐄𝐓𝐄𝐑𝐍𝐈𝐓𝐘: Those who are running up and down to fulfill destiny here on earth without thinking of their eternity are not wise! Hear what the Bible says ' Oh that they were wise, that they understood this, they would have considered their latter end! ( Duet 32:29). Friends, the matter of eternity is not something you should handle with levity. Think about where you will spend eternity. You will die one day. I will also die one day. All that we are and have in this world are vanity upon vanity. Take the matter of your end very serious. Stop living carelessly as if you have extra life. Think about eternity. Don't live for the pleasure of this present moment alone. If you miss heaven, you will cry! I believe someone here is blessed with this. You can share it to bless others. (don't plagiarize it ) Thanks for reading.
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  • *27 WAYS TO BUILD A HAPPY AND LONG LASTING MARRIAGE *

    Marriage is a beautiful and fulfilling relationship that requires commitment, love, and sacrifice.

    No matter what culture you belong to, what religion you believe, what society, level of wealth, or era you live in – one thing common to all people is that they want to be "happy", especially in their marriages.

    What Should you do?

    1. Love the person you married, not the person you hoped you married. Accept your spouse totally. You cannot love a man/woman you do not accept. Stop comparing your spouse with anyone, he or she can never be somebody else. Until you accept your spouse, you can't get the best out of your marriage

    2. Understand each other. No marriage succeeds without understanding. Learn to know one another as best as you can. Understand you are not the same and may never be. Respect that you are both individuals. Get to know each other strengths and weaknesses. Strengthen each other's weaknesses.

    3. Be quick to forgive and quicker to apologize. Love forgives. Learn to accept apology. Freely forgive your spouse’s past, present and future offenses. Never refer to his/her past mistakes. Never go to bed with anger or unsettled quarrel. Marriage is two forgivers living together.

    4. Ask your spouse, "What can I do for you today?" every single day.

    5. Never talk bad about your spouse to other people. Protect him or her and always keep his or her name safe. Fight for each other, not with each other.

    6. Have lots of s*x. Enjoy S*x with your spouse. Never withhold s*x as a punishment.

    7. Keep the word "divorce" out of your vocabulary. Remember your vows. Review them on a regular basis.

    8. Provide for the needs of your spouse and children. Never be stingy to your spouse. Care for his/her needs. Be generous to him/her. Pay your children’s school fees promptly and regularly. Marriage is not 50/50. It's 100/100. Give yourself entirely, and don't hold back. Men, Be sensitive to your wife’s needs. Spend money to beautify her.

    9. Be faithful to your spouse. Being unfaithful is the easiest way to completely ruin your marriage. Adultery kills.

    10. Understand and learn each other's love language. Either it can be words, gifts, touch, actions, etc. If it is words, then frequently tell your spouse you love and appreciate him/ her. If it is action: regularly do things that they appreciate: either take the garbage out, wash the dishes, cook the food, wash the car, etc
    Spoil each other. Keep track of the things your spouse loves and buy them for him or her.

    11. Communication is the key to a relationship. Talk like friends and lovers. Don’t make your spouse guess what you are thinking or feeling. Don't expect him/her to read your mind. You should feel free to discuss all things without fear.

    12. Always listen attentively to your spouse. Switch off your phone or television, shut down your computer or iPad and newspapers, books and magazine should be closed. The greatest communication skill you can develop is the listening skill. Be quiet and patient while he/she is speaking, when he/she is done, you can express your opinion. Look straight into his/her eyes when he is talking to you or when you’re talking to him. This will make him/her feel that you are interested in what he/she wants to say.

    13. Love, respect and courtesy are basic ingredients of happy married life. Give them generously to your spouse. Show your spouse how much you love, care and appreciate him/her regularly. Say, "I love you," every single day.

    14. Be honest and show sincere appreciation. Appreciate each other. Show your spouse appreciation for the little things. Be thankful and say so!!! Find something that you appreciate about your spouse and say thank you.

    15. Surprise each other with lovely gifts, kiss and s*x.
    Kiss passionately. Hold hands. Cuddle. Make physical affection a priority in your marriage.

    16. Make quality time for each other. Keep dating each other. Put your marriage and spouse before your children. Play together. Never lose your sense of humor. Make your spouse your best friend.

    17. Share everything...no secrets between you. Be open with your spouse.

    18. Be polite and courteous to each other. Saying thank you, please and I am sorry.

    19. Get rid of bad habits. Don’t do those things your spouse hates. Don’t do things that hurt him/her. Develop a godly character. Don’t create a hostile environment for your spouse. Focus on making your spouse happy. The best way to improve your relationship is to improve yourself.

    20. Always be honest to your partner. Lying never gets you anywhere

    21. Aim to do something at least once per week together. It does not matter what, even if it is to eat together, bath together, watch movies together, read books together and share light conversation

    22. Do NOT look at other marriages and covet. No marriage is prefect. Remember, the grass is not greener on the other side. You will still have to maintain, mow and weed that side too!

    23. Work at your marriage. If you ever lack motivation for your marriage and feel like the flame has gone dead. Just try to imagine yourself without your spouse. Talk to anyone who has lost their soul mate and they'll tell you that they will give anything to have back that special someone.

    Remember, it is your marriage and you have come this far. Make the best of it. Pledge to yourself that you will do your part and try your best. Remember that you chose your spouse for forever.

    24. All issues need to have a solution and be resolved at the time of the conversation. Finish what you start otherwise things just hang in the balance,which leads to future problems.

    25. Don't make mountains out of mole hills. Don't waste your time fighting over little things. It's not worth it. Let small things go.

    26. Don't broadcast your problems to everyone else. If you need to talk to someone about it, other than your spouse, get a therapist.

    27. Above all: Serve God together, Pray together & Pray for one another. Pray for your spouse daily in your personal prayers. Be specific. Talk to God about his or her challenges and trials, and ask Him what you can do to be a better spouse.

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Cuddle. Make physical affection a priority in your marriage. 16. Make quality time for each other. Keep dating each other. Put your marriage and spouse before your children. Play together. Never lose your sense of humor. Make your spouse your best friend. 17. Share everything...no secrets between you. Be open with your spouse. 18. Be polite and courteous to each other. Saying thank you, please and I am sorry. 19. Get rid of bad habits. Don’t do those things your spouse hates. Don’t do things that hurt him/her. Develop a godly character. Don’t create a hostile environment for your spouse. Focus on making your spouse happy. The best way to improve your relationship is to improve yourself. 20. Always be honest to your partner. Lying never gets you anywhere 21. Aim to do something at least once per week together. It does not matter what, even if it is to eat together, bath together, watch movies together, read books together and share light conversation 22. Do NOT look at other marriages and covet. No marriage is prefect. Remember, the grass is not greener on the other side. You will still have to maintain, mow and weed that side too! 23. Work at your marriage. If you ever lack motivation for your marriage and feel like the flame has gone dead. Just try to imagine yourself without your spouse. Talk to anyone who has lost their soul mate and they'll tell you that they will give anything to have back that special someone. Remember, it is your marriage and you have come this far. Make the best of it. Pledge to yourself that you will do your part and try your best. Remember that you chose your spouse for forever. 24. All issues need to have a solution and be resolved at the time of the conversation. Finish what you start otherwise things just hang in the balance,which leads to future problems. 25. Don't make mountains out of mole hills. Don't waste your time fighting over little things. It's not worth it. Let small things go. 26. Don't broadcast your problems to everyone else. If you need to talk to someone about it, other than your spouse, get a therapist. 27. Above all: Serve God together, Pray together & Pray for one another. Pray for your spouse daily in your personal prayers. Be specific. Talk to God about his or her challenges and trials, and ask Him what you can do to be a better spouse. You will not fail in your marriage in Jesus name Kindly share..
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  • Jay-Jay Okocha, former Paris Saint-Germain player, after predicting PSG's victory in the final:

    "I told many people that PSG was going to beat Inter and lift the trophy, but nobody believed me. PSG has been in great form, and I truly believed they would win. It’s been so many years without this trophy, and I’m absolutely thrilled to see PSG finally lifting it.

    Jay-Jay Okocha made 95 appearances for PSG. So good they named him twice.“They made it look so easy

    Jay-Jay Okocha after his former team, PSG won the Champions League:Arrived in Munich for the UCL final and bumped into the legendary footballer Jay Jay Okocha - so good they named him twice

    A courteous and amiable individual. A genius with the round leather at his feet. One of the greatest talent to come out of Africa.He was signed by PSG for $18 million, after he had 30 goals, 16 assists in 62 league games for Fenerbahce from 1996-98.

    He wore jersey no. 10 in a PSG squad which had Ronaldinho, Anelka, Arteta, Heinze, Pochettino.
    Jay-Jay Okocha, former Paris Saint-Germain player, after predicting PSG's victory in the final: 🗣️🗣️ "I told many people that PSG was going to beat Inter and lift the trophy, but nobody believed me. PSG has been in great form, and I truly believed they would win. It’s been so many years without this trophy, and I’m absolutely thrilled to see PSG finally lifting it. Jay-Jay Okocha made 95 appearances for PSG. So good they named him twice.“They made it look so easy Jay-Jay Okocha after his former team, PSG won the Champions League:Arrived in Munich for the UCL final and bumped into the legendary footballer Jay Jay Okocha - so good they named him twice A courteous and amiable individual. A genius with the round leather at his feet. One of the greatest talent to come out of Africa.He was signed by PSG for $18 million, after he had 30 goals, 16 assists in 62 league games for Fenerbahce from 1996-98. He wore jersey no. 10 in a PSG squad which had Ronaldinho, Anelka, Arteta, Heinze, Pochettino.
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  • Here's a motivational note to inspire you:

    "Believe in yourself and your abilities. Every great achievement starts with a single step. Don't be afraid to take that step, and don't let fear hold you back. You are capable of amazing things.

    Remember, success is not final, and failure is not fatal. It's the courage to keep going that matters. Keep pushing forward, even when the road ahead seems uncertain.

    You are stronger than you think, braver than you feel, and smarter than you know. Trust yourself, stay focused, and keep moving forward. Your dreams are worth it.

    Keep shining, keep striving, and never give up on your passions. You got this!"

    Feel free to save this note and revisit it whenever you need a boost of motivation!
    Here's a motivational note to inspire you: "Believe in yourself and your abilities. Every great achievement starts with a single step. Don't be afraid to take that step, and don't let fear hold you back. You are capable of amazing things. Remember, success is not final, and failure is not fatal. It's the courage to keep going that matters. Keep pushing forward, even when the road ahead seems uncertain. You are stronger than you think, braver than you feel, and smarter than you know. Trust yourself, stay focused, and keep moving forward. Your dreams are worth it. Keep shining, keep striving, and never give up on your passions. You got this!" Feel free to save this note and revisit it whenever you need a boost of motivation!
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  • Sex in marriage is one very important key that many people overlook. For me, it’s one of the major reasons my marriage has survived through tough times. There are days when misunderstandings arise and tension fills the air. My husband gets upset and keeps his distance, but I’ve learned how to break that wall.

    Sometimes, I will just pull off everything and begin to dance romantically, and believe me, that physical connection does wonders. He may try to act like he’s still upset, but the moment I give him one or two rounds, his heart softens.

    My dear wives, don't underestimate the power of sex. It’s not just about the act; it’s about bonding, healing, and restoring emotional closeness. If you’re not good in this area, take time to learn. Watch, read, explore, find ways to seduce your man and give him good sex, it keeps the fire burning in the marriage.

    - Toyin Abraham
    Sex in marriage is one very important key that many people overlook. For me, it’s one of the major reasons my marriage has survived through tough times. There are days when misunderstandings arise and tension fills the air. My husband gets upset and keeps his distance, but I’ve learned how to break that wall. Sometimes, I will just pull off everything and begin to dance romantically, and believe me, that physical connection does wonders. He may try to act like he’s still upset, but the moment I give him one or two rounds, his heart softens. My dear wives, don't underestimate the power of sex. It’s not just about the act; it’s about bonding, healing, and restoring emotional closeness. If you’re not good in this area, take time to learn. Watch, read, explore, find ways to seduce your man and give him good sex, it keeps the fire burning in the marriage. - Toyin Abraham
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  • Sex in marriage is one very important key that many people overlook. For me, it’s one of the major reasons my marriage has survived through tough times. There are days when misunderstandings arise and tension fills the air. My husband gets upset and keeps his distance, but I’ve learned how to break that wall.

    Sometimes, I will just pull off everything and begin to dance romantically, and believe me, that physical connection does wonders. He may try to act like he’s still upset, but the moment I give him one or two rounds, his heart softens.

    My dear wives, don't underestimate the power of sex. It’s not just about the act; it’s about bonding, healing, and restoring emotional closeness. If you’re not good in this area, take time to learn. Watch, read, explore, find ways to seduce your man and give him good sex, it keeps the fire burning in the marriage.

    - Toyin Abraham
    Sex in marriage is one very important key that many people overlook. For me, it’s one of the major reasons my marriage has survived through tough times. There are days when misunderstandings arise and tension fills the air. My husband gets upset and keeps his distance, but I’ve learned how to break that wall. Sometimes, I will just pull off everything and begin to dance romantically, and believe me, that physical connection does wonders. He may try to act like he’s still upset, but the moment I give him one or two rounds, his heart softens. My dear wives, don't underestimate the power of sex. It’s not just about the act; it’s about bonding, healing, and restoring emotional closeness. If you’re not good in this area, take time to learn. Watch, read, explore, find ways to seduce your man and give him good sex, it keeps the fire burning in the marriage. - Toyin Abraham
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  • Sex in marriage is one very important key that many people overlook. For me, it’s one of the major reasons my marriage has survived through tough times. There are days when misunderstandings arise and tension fills the air. My husband gets upset and keeps his distance, but I’ve learned how to break that wall.

    Sometimes, I will just pull off everything and begin to dance romantically, and believe me, that physical connection does wonders. He may try to act like he’s still upset, but the moment I give him one or two rounds, his heart softens.

    My dear wives, don't underestimate the power of sex. It’s not just about the act; it’s about bonding, healing, and restoring emotional closeness. If you’re not good in this area, take time to learn. Watch, read, explore, find ways to seduce your man and give him good sex, it keeps the fire burning in the marriage.

    - Toyin Abraham
    Sex in marriage is one very important key that many people overlook. For me, it’s one of the major reasons my marriage has survived through tough times. There are days when misunderstandings arise and tension fills the air. My husband gets upset and keeps his distance, but I’ve learned how to break that wall. Sometimes, I will just pull off everything and begin to dance romantically, and believe me, that physical connection does wonders. He may try to act like he’s still upset, but the moment I give him one or two rounds, his heart softens. My dear wives, don't underestimate the power of sex. It’s not just about the act; it’s about bonding, healing, and restoring emotional closeness. If you’re not good in this area, take time to learn. Watch, read, explore, find ways to seduce your man and give him good sex, it keeps the fire burning in the marriage. - Toyin Abraham
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  • REVEALED: Ojukwu Escaped Through Uga, Not Uli — “We Were Fighting Almost the Entire Arab World” – Kanayo Esinulo

    New revelations are shaking the table of Nigerian history once again!

    In a recent interview on YouTube with journalist Edmund Obilo, Nigerian author and Biafran war researcher, Kanayo Esinulo, made bold claims about the final days of the Biafran War and the foreign powers involved.

    According to Esinulo, Chukwuemeka Odumegwu Ojukwu, the leader of Biafra, did not escape through the famous Uli Airport in 1970, as widely believed. Instead, he claims that Ojukwu used Uga Airport, because Uli was already under heavy bombardment from Russian fighter jets.

    “We weren’t just fighting Nigeria,” Esinulo said. “We were fighting almost the entire Arab world! People don’t know this. Emeka used to call it Pan-Arabism. Why would he escape through Uli when it was on fire?”

    He explained that many Arab countries were aligned with Nigeria during the war, supplying arms and support, while Biafra struggled to survive under global pressure and isolation.

    For those still debating history:

    Uli Airport escape? Nope, under attack.

    Uga Airport? That's the route, according to Esinulo.

    And the enemy? Not just Nigeria, but a long list of international players — including many from the Arab world.

    As usual, Nigerian history is never short of drama, hidden files, and shocking updates!

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    📰 REVEALED: Ojukwu Escaped Through Uga, Not Uli — “We Were Fighting Almost the Entire Arab World” – Kanayo Esinulo New revelations are shaking the table of Nigerian history once again! In a recent interview on YouTube with journalist Edmund Obilo, Nigerian author and Biafran war researcher, Kanayo Esinulo, made bold claims about the final days of the Biafran War and the foreign powers involved. According to Esinulo, Chukwuemeka Odumegwu Ojukwu, the leader of Biafra, did not escape through the famous Uli Airport in 1970, as widely believed. Instead, he claims that Ojukwu used Uga Airport, because Uli was already under heavy bombardment from Russian fighter jets. 💥 “We weren’t just fighting Nigeria,” Esinulo said. “We were fighting almost the entire Arab world! People don’t know this. Emeka used to call it Pan-Arabism. Why would he escape through Uli when it was on fire?” He explained that many Arab countries were aligned with Nigeria during the war, supplying arms and support, while Biafra struggled to survive under global pressure and isolation. 📌 For those still debating history: ❌ Uli Airport escape? Nope, under attack. ✅ Uga Airport? That's the route, according to Esinulo. 🌍 And the enemy? Not just Nigeria, but a long list of international players — including many from the Arab world. As usual, Nigerian history is never short of drama, hidden files, and shocking updates! #BiafraHistory #OjukwuEscapeRoute #UgaNotUli #ArabWorldVsBiafra #EdmundObiloInterviews #HistoryWeyShock #KanayoEsinuloFiles
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