RULES TO A HAPPY, SMART & WISE LIFE....!!! 1. Speak Less, Listen More. Wisdom: Listening sharpens understanding; silence guards your dignity. Words are powerful tools — the fewer, the better, if you intend them to matter. Application: When you listen more, people reveal their true intentions. When you speak, weigh your words like a surgeon choosing his tools. Speak when your words can heal, uplift, or instruct. 2. Avoid Pointless Arguments. Wisdom: Energy is finite. Spend it where it multiplies, not where it drains. Some debates are traps designed to rob you of your peace and reputation. Application: Learn to smile and excuse yourself from verbal traps. Wise people win wars, not battles. Pick your conversations the way kings pick alliances. 3. Think Before You Speak. Wisdom: Words are seeds. Once sown, they grow — whether into flowers or thorns. Application: Practice the three-filter test: Is it true? Is it necessary? Is it kind? If it fails any, remain silent. 4. Practice Humility and Politeness. Wisdom: Humility isn’t about thinking less of yourself, but thinking of yourself less. The polite person commands more than the arrogant ever will. Application: Greet even those who despise you. Show grace to those who can do nothing for you. The seeds of kindness grow silently but fruitfully. 5. Master Emotional Discipline. Wisdom: He who angers you, controls you. Emotions are natural, but they make terrible masters. Application: Practice the pause. When emotions flare, pause, breathe, reflect, then respond with reason, not rage. 6. Keep Your Plans Private. Wisdom: Success loves silence. The unborn idea is safest in the womb of your discretion. Application: Share your victories, not your strategies. Let your results speak; let your silence confuse your critics. 7. Resist Self-Centered Conversations. Wisdom: People care more about themselves than your story. If you wish to be memorable, make them feel important. Application: Ask about others' journeys, listen intently, and respond thoughtfully. The less you talk about yourself, the more powerful your presence becomes. 8. Maintain Eye Contact & Confidence. Wisdom: Confidence isn’t loud; it’s calm, direct, and unflinching. Application: When speaking, fix your eyes on the listener with a relaxed gaze. Let your posture mirror your inner conviction. 9. Celebrate Your Uniqueness. Wisdom: The world doesn’t reward replicas; it celebrates originals. Application: Identify your strengths, embrace your flaws, and find your voice. Authenticity magnetizes the right people and repels the wrong ones. 10. Commit Fully or Don’t Begin. Wisdom: Half-heartedness is the graveyard of greatness. Application: Before starting, ask yourself, Will I finish this? Am I ready to sacrifice for it? If not, preserve your energy for a pursuit worthy of your all. 11. Silence is the Best Answer to H@ters. Wisdom: Not every insult demands your defense. Application: Treat criticism as a mirror. If it’s true, adjust. If it’s false, ignore. Do not dignify pettiness with a reply. 12. Train Your Mind to Think Critically. Wisdom: The difference between mediocrity and mastery lies in perspective. Application: Before believing anything, ask Why? and What if? Seek patterns, motives, and consequences in everything. 13. Avoid the Crowd Mentality. Wisdom: The majority is often wrong, history proves it. Application: Stand for truth, even if it means standing alone. Be bold enough to disagree respectfully when the crowd chants foolishness. 14. Dodge Drama & Manipulation. Wisdom: A wise man never enters a battle where no prize exists. Application: Don’t react to bait. Avoid circles where chaos is currency. Value your peace above fleeting vindication. 15. Ask Thoughtful, Insightful Questions. Wisdom: Questions open doors answers cannot reach. Application: When in conversation, ask ‘why’, ‘what led to that’, ‘how did you feel about it’ — it deepens connections and sharpens your wisdom. 16. Guard Your Time & Availability. Wisdom: Over-availability breeds entitlement and disrespect. Application: Be selectively accessible. Value your solitude, your time to reflect, learn, and recharge. 17. Stay Dynamic, Not Stagnant. Wisdom: Change is the only constant. Evolve, or you’ll dissolve. Application: Learn a new skill every season. Challenge your routines. Travel through books, ideas, and places. Comfort zones are graveyards. 18. Accept That Enigmatic People Are Both Loved and H@ted. Wisdom: Mystery invites curiosity and criticism. The price of distinction is isolation from mediocrity. Application: Don’t water yourself down for public comfort. Be kind, be wise, but never shrink to fit anyone’s fragile insecurities. Final Thought: A happy, smart, and wise life isn’t accidental — it’s intentional. It’s built through daily choices, disciplined thoughts, guarded emotions, and bold actions. The one who masters himself controls his world.

50 HABITS OF HIGHLY CREATIVE PEOPLE 1. THEY OBSERVE CLOSELY Creative people notice the details others overlook and draw inspiration from everyday life. 2. THEY ASK QUESTIONS CONSTANTLY They are curious about how things work, why things are the way they are, and what could be done differently. 3. THEY EMBRACE SOLITUDE Spending time alone helps them reflect, brainstorm, and incubate ideas. 4. THEY KEEP A JOURNAL They write down thoughts, observations, dreams, and ideas regularly for future use. 5. THEY CARRY A NOTEBOOK EVERYWHERE They never let ideas slip away—jotting them down immediately. 6. THEY EXPERIMENT FEARLESSLY Creatives test new concepts without fear of failure. 7. THEY LEARN FROM FAILURE They treat mistakes as stepping stones to success. 8. THEY DAYDREAM PURPOSEFULLY They allow their minds to wander, often discovering new ideas in the process. 9. THEY PLAY REGULARLY Playfulness stimulates imagination and innovation. 10. THEY VALUE ORIGINALITY OVER CONFORMITY They prioritize uniqueness and resist the pressure to follow the crowd. 11. THEY SURROUND THEMSELVES WITH INSPIRATION Art, books, colors, or music—they create an environment that sparks creativity. 12. THEY COLLABORATE They know that great ideas can come from diverse perspectives. 13. THEY CHALLENGE ASSUMPTIONS They don’t take things at face value—they question the status quo. 14. THEY EMBRACE AMBIGUITY They are comfortable with uncertainty and unresolved ideas. 15. THEY SCHEDULE THINKING TIME They set aside time specifically to think, brainstorm, or meditate on ideas. 16. THEY LIMIT DISTRACTIONS They focus deeply, often turning off devices or isolating themselves when creating. 17. THEY FOLLOW THEIR PASSIONS They pursue what excites them, which fuels their creative energy. 18. THEY READ WIDELY AND OFTEN Exposure to different subjects, genres, and styles feeds their imagination. 19. THEY LISTEN ACTIVELY They pay attention and learn from the thoughts and experiences of others. 20. THEY KEEP AN OPEN MIND They consider unusual ideas and approaches without immediate judgment. 21. THEY TAKE RISKS They aren’t afraid to take creative leaps or face rejection. 22. THEY CULTIVATE PATIENCE They know that great ideas often take time to develop. 23. THEY TRUST THEIR INSTINCTS They rely on intuition to guide creative decisions. 24. THEY PRACTICE MINDFULNESS They stay present and aware, which heightens sensitivity to inspiration. 25. THEY STAY CURIOUS Their constant desire to explore keeps their creativity alive. 26. THEY LIMIT PERFECTIONISM They allow room for imperfection and focus on progress rather than flawlessness. 27. THEY MEDITATE OR PRAY Some use spiritual or calming practices to center themselves and boost insight. 28. THEY SEEK OUT NEW EXPERIENCES Travel, hobbies, and unfamiliar settings help them think in new ways. 29. THEY THINK VISUALLY They sketch, map, or visualize their thoughts to process ideas differently. 30. THEY BREAK ROUTINES They intentionally change habits to stimulate fresh thinking. 31. THEY TAKE BREAKS Resting helps renew the mind and encourages creative incubation. 32. THEY PRACTICE THEIR CRAFT DAILY Whether writing, drawing, or coding—they build skill and confidence through consistency. 33. THEY FIND PATTERNS IN CHAOS They make connections where others see disorder. 34. THEY USE METAPHORS AND ANALOGIES They explain concepts by relating them to other known ideas creatively. 35. THEY LIMIT THEIR TOOLS SOMETIMES Constraints often spark greater creativity by forcing innovation. 36. THEY TEACH OTHERS Explaining ideas clarifies their own thinking and stimulates new ideas. 37. THEY EMBRACE VULNERABILITY They’re willing to share their authentic selves, which brings emotional depth to their work. 38. THEY CELEBRATE SMALL WINS They find joy in small breakthroughs that motivate bigger achievements. 39. THEY COLLECT THINGS Books, quotes, images, or objects—collections serve as a creative reservoir. 40. THEY EXERCISE REGULARLY Physical movement boosts mental clarity and creativity. 41. THEY USE MUSIC STRATEGICALLY Music inspires mood, focus, and energy depending on the creative need. 42. THEY PRACTICE GRATITUDE Appreciating life boosts positivity and openness to ideas. 43. THEY REFLECT ON THEIR WORK Regular reflection refines their ideas and creative direction. 44. THEY FOLLOW A MORNING ROUTINE Structured starts help focus energy and intention for the day. 45. THEY DREAM BIG They envision possibilities beyond current limits. 46. THEY CREATE FOR THEMSELVES FIRST They prioritize authenticity and self-expression over popularity. 47. THEY BUILD CREATIVE RITUALS Habits like lighting a candle or drinking tea help trigger creative flow. 48. THEY PRACTICE DISCIPLINE Creativity requires consistent effort, not just bursts of inspiration. 49. THEY HAVE A GROWTH MINDSET They believe abilities can be developed through effort and learning. 50. THEY NEVER STOP LEARNING

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Breaking News:Obasa’s Legal Team Insists on Court Battle Over Impeachment, Denies Plans to Withdraw Suit The legal team of Mudashiru Obasa, the ousted Speaker of the Lagos State House of Assembly, has affirmed that there are no plans to withdraw the lawsuit challenging his removal, despite ongoing political mediation efforts. Afolabi Fashanu (SAN), Obasa’s lead counsel, confirmed on Tuesday that they are fully prepared for the February 28 court hearing. He emphasized that Obasa will not attempt to return to the Assembly until a court judgment is obtained, stating that any move to resume the speakership before a legal ruling would be unconstitutional. Obasa, who was impeached on January 13, 2025, by a majority of lawmakers, filed a suit at the Lagos State High Court in Ikeja, challenging his removal and the emergence of Mojisola Meranda as the new Speaker. Mediation Efforts by Political Leaders The crisis in the Lagos Assembly has proven challenging to resolve, even for the influential Governors Advisory Council (GAC). In a bid to broker peace, President Bola Tinubu reportedly assigned former governors Chief Bisi Akande and Aremo Olusegun Osoba to mediate the conflict. Following intensive meetings from Sunday through Monday, reports suggest that the mediating panel recommended that both Obasa and Meranda step down for another lawmaker from Lagos West Senatorial District. Additionally, Obasa was reportedly advised to withdraw his lawsuit and voluntarily resign. The panel is expected to brief President Tinubu on its intervention. Obasa’s Legal Team Unmoved However, when asked about these reports, Fashanu denied any official communication regarding a settlement. He said: “Well, that intervention, for me, is still a rumor because nothing of such has been communicated to us as the legal team. So, what we all read in newspapers, we don’t even know the genuineness or authenticity of the news on the purported settlement. “Our client has not communicated anything to us in the nature of withdrawal. So, we are still preparing for the case until otherwise.” Reaffirming the legal team’s commitment, Fashanu added: “Nothing is certain in life except death. But on our part, we will put in our maximum effort, and we believe he has a very good case. So, subject to the overriding power of the deciding judge, we are good to go.” No Resignation, No Illegal Moves A source close to Obasa also dismissed claims that he would voluntarily resign, insisting that “it has not gotten to that level.” On whether Obasa would return to the Assembly before the court ruling, Fashanu clarified that such a move would be unlawful, stating: “That means he will be taking laws into his own hands, and I don’t think he would want to do that. If he had wanted to do that, I’m sure from day two or day three, he would have done that.” Lagos Reporters will continue to monitor the unfolding developments and provide updates on the legal battle and political negotiations surrounding Obasa’s impeachment.

Why I Prefer Buying Land From Real Estate Companies Instead Of Native Owners 🔥 … my reasons will convince and save you so much money. *** Share this with every Nigerian living in the diaspora *** Around June/July last year, a Nigerian in the diaspora bought a distress sale property of ₦10 million I promoted here. It was a total of ₦16 million for 3 acres but someone else took an acre. The property was an abandoned poultry farm sitting on 3 acres of land. Before she proceeded to make the transaction, she hired a professional surveyor who took time to verify the authenticity of the property. I’m sure she also hired a lawyer to write the transfer of ownership. She did that effortlessly on her own because she could afford it. Even if she spent a million naira on due diligence, it’s still a good deal. But how many people trying to buy their first property have such a budget set aside for just due diligence? A few days ago, someone sent me a heartbreaking message. He had just returned from Europe to inspect the land he bought in Benin, Nigeria from native owners only to discover to his greatest shock that all the land have be resold to other people. We are still discussing how he will go about it and what he should know to avoid future reoccurrence. Here’s the thing… If you can’t afford to hire a professional surveyor and property lawyer to verify a piece of property, avoid buying land from native owners. Any piece of real estate that won’t give you peace of mind will drain your energy and income. Start your real estate investment journey by buying from ONLY reliable real estate companies. I have a couple of them I recommend in Abuja, Asaba, Port-Harcourt, Enugu, Owerri, Ibadan and Lagos. Send me a DM or send a WhatsApp message to +2348061358404 if you need anything in these cities within your budget. That said, let me quickly show you 5 reasons buying land from a real estate company is better than buying from native owners as an individual: 1 — Land verification A reliable real estate company will verify the land to be sure it’s completely free from government acquisition and legal battles before selling it. Many of them have all the connections, structures and financial resources needed to verify the authenticity of a property. Chances are, you may not have the same access to information like the professionals working with them. But when you buy your land from a reliable real estate company, they will save you the stress of doing the verification from scratch. You will have existing documents with which you can verify the land. 2 — Shared Risk In one of the Business Growth Conferences I attended a few years ago, Akin Alabi, founder of Nairabet said something that stuck in my head. He said after building NairaBet, which became the first online betting website in Nigeria, he spoke to some of his friends and encouraged them to also join him in the same line of business. An ordinary mind would think that he misused his golden opportunity to dominate the online betting market. But no. He said he did what he did so that it will be impossible for any government or group of people to bring down his business. If they fight only him, they will deflate him but when others are involved in the same business it becomes impossible to defeat them. There’s something to learn from that. What Akin Alabi forsaw more than 10 years ago would have happened on Thursday, 15th February, 2024 when House of Rep Members moved a motion to ban sports betting in Nigeria. Did they succeed? No! More betting companies have long emerged. Today, Bet9ja, SportyBet and the rest have overtaken NairaBet but NairaBet is still standing strong. In trying to hold on to 100% of the market share, you may lose everything. This is where shared risk comes into play. When you buy a land sold by a reliable real estate company, and sign on all the documents, they are bound to protect your interest. If an issue comes up in the future regarding the land you bought, especially government interruption, you won’t be facing it all alone. 3 — Estate Beautification Have you seen the estate plans of most of these real estate companies? I saw one at Shimawa last year and I was completely blown away. Everything the real estate company promised their clients a few years ago, they have started implementing them. They haven’t even gone far yet and the estate has started looking just like they promised. Beautiful and serene environment. Nothing skyrockets the value of a property like when developers starts building and developing the estate with their own money. Imagine what it will feel like to raise your children in a safe and beautiful neighborhood. 4 — Concerned About Their Brand Reputation The worst person you will ever do business with is someone who has no brand image to protect. Most native land sellers don’t have conscience at all. They have nothing to lose and nothing to protect. This explains why 2 family members can come together to sell their family land leaving another member of their family excluded from the deal. Unfortunately, there are a few real estate companies (I will never mention their names nor recommend them) that don’t have conscious at all. One of them in Lagos is so heartless that they sold out acres of land they can NEVER get a survey plan approval for. Everyone that bought the property got no survey plan. My shocking discovery is that just because a real estate company is big doesn’t mean they care about protecting their brand reputation. Nothing comes close to working with a realtor that has a reputation to protect. 5 — Fosters Connection This particular point may not make sense to everyone but if you care about building a meaningful relationship with people from different industries, including the real estate sector, then buy properties from real estate companies and connect with them. The connection you established with the realtor can last you for a lifetime and even open other business doors. When people buy properties through me, I always go the extra mile to see how my marketing skills can help their business. In the long run, you will get double ROI—one directly from me and the other from your real estate investment. Did I say you shouldn’t buy land from native owners? No! The summary of what I’m saying is that if you can’t afford to hire a professional surveyor and property lawyer to verify the property from native sellers, focus on buying from any of my recommended real estate companies that we have done the verification already. I have not only verified them, I have also done business with them. If you want land of different sizes and budgets in Abuja, Asaba, Port-Harcourt, Enugu, Owerri, Ibadan and Lagos, send me a DM or send a WhatsApp message to +2348061358404

I want to be my own woman—a special kind of woman who defines her path with strength, elegance, and authenticity. She rises from setbacks with grace, speaks with wisdom, and acts with courage. Compassionate yet unyielding, she inspires others through her confidence and determination. She values growth, cherishing every step of her journey, knowing progress matters more than perfection. I will act, speak, and carry myself like her, building the best version of me with purpose and resilience.

𝗚𝗢𝗗 𝗗𝗢𝗘𝗦𝗡'𝗧 𝗕𝗟𝗘𝗦𝗦 𝗪𝗛𝗢 𝗬𝗢𝗨 𝗣𝗥𝗘𝗧𝗘𝗡𝗗 𝗧𝗢 𝗕𝗘 One thing I’ve learned in life is that God doesn’t bless who you pretend to be. He blesses who you really are. So many of us wear masks trying to fit in, impress others, or appear “perfect.” But here’s the truth: God sees beyond the facade. He sees the real you the struggles, the fears, the dreams, and the beauty He placed in you. And it’s only when you embrace your true self that His blessings can flow into your life. Stop shrinking yourself to fit into places you’ve outgrown. Stop pretending to be someone you’re not just to gain acceptance. God didn’t call or create the “perfect” version you’re trying to project. He called the raw, authentic you. You see, authenticity attracts purpose. When you stand in the fullness of who God created you to be, that’s when doors begin to open, favor starts flowing, and your life aligns with His divine plan. So ask yourself: Who am I when nobody’s watching? Am I brave enough to bring that person into every room I walk into? Because that’s the person God wants to bless. Be bold. Be real. And let God bless the real you. Happy new week everyone 🥰

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