• *Jimmy Swaggart Dies at 90. But the World Only Remembered the Prostitute.*

    That was the SABC News headline. A man who preached to millions. A man whose music touched nations. A man whose ministry shaped generations. But the world summarized his legacy in one line:

    “Tele-evangelist caught with a prostitute.”

    Is it fair? No.
    Is it worldly? Yes.
    But is it a warning to all of us? Absolutely.

    The world is not forgiving. The world does not forget. We may have peace with God, but that doesn’t mean we’ll have peace with men. We may be cleared in the court of heaven, but public memory doesn’t cleanse easily.

    This is not about Jimmy Swaggart. This is about you, about me, about all of us. Ministers. Leaders. Fathers. Carriers of weight in the Kingdom.

    The lesson?
    Don’t mess up. Don’t play with sin. Don’t take grace as license.
    People have a strange illusion that mere time cancels sin. It doesn’t. Time may blur details, but scandal sticks, especially involving a man of God.

    Here’s a call to arms for ministers of the gospel

    1. Engage in real, ruthless accountability—not cosmetic check-ins, but real brotherhood.

    2. Guard your moral life like a man guards a nuclear code. If you fall sexually, your voice may still
    echo but your credibility will collapse.

    3. Handle finances with fear and trembling. Don’t manipulate the gospel for profit.

    4. Build real systems around your life. Not fans. Not dependents. Not enablers. Build integrity into your daily decisions.

    The measure of our anointing is not our gifting it’s our ability to remain holy when no one is watching.

    Satan is patient. He doesn’t care if you preach 10,000 sermons as long as he can get you to collapse in one moment of compromise. And when it happens, your entire legacy is redefined in seconds.

    If the story of Jimmy Swaggart teaches us anything it’s this: Pray to the One who is able to keep you from falling. And then, walk like you know the whole world is watching. Because they are.

    God forgives. Men remember. Don’t be reckless with grace. Don’t gamble with your legacy.

    Let this be a call. A warning. A fire alarm in the spirit. God still uses broken men but the consequences of public failure don’t vanish with anointed tears.

    Stay clean. Stay low. Stay accountable. Stay burning.

    *Jimmy Swaggart Dies at 90. But the World Only Remembered the Prostitute.* That was the SABC News headline. A man who preached to millions. A man whose music touched nations. A man whose ministry shaped generations. But the world summarized his legacy in one line: “Tele-evangelist caught with a prostitute.” Is it fair? No. Is it worldly? Yes. But is it a warning to all of us? Absolutely. The world is not forgiving. The world does not forget. We may have peace with God, but that doesn’t mean we’ll have peace with men. We may be cleared in the court of heaven, but public memory doesn’t cleanse easily. This is not about Jimmy Swaggart. This is about you, about me, about all of us. Ministers. Leaders. Fathers. Carriers of weight in the Kingdom. The lesson? Don’t mess up. Don’t play with sin. Don’t take grace as license. People have a strange illusion that mere time cancels sin. It doesn’t. Time may blur details, but scandal sticks, especially involving a man of God. Here’s a call to arms for ministers of the gospel 1. Engage in real, ruthless accountability—not cosmetic check-ins, but real brotherhood. 2. Guard your moral life like a man guards a nuclear code. If you fall sexually, your voice may still echo but your credibility will collapse. 3. Handle finances with fear and trembling. Don’t manipulate the gospel for profit. 4. Build real systems around your life. Not fans. Not dependents. Not enablers. Build integrity into your daily decisions. The measure of our anointing is not our gifting it’s our ability to remain holy when no one is watching. Satan is patient. He doesn’t care if you preach 10,000 sermons as long as he can get you to collapse in one moment of compromise. And when it happens, your entire legacy is redefined in seconds. If the story of Jimmy Swaggart teaches us anything it’s this: Pray to the One who is able to keep you from falling. And then, walk like you know the whole world is watching. Because they are. God forgives. Men remember. Don’t be reckless with grace. Don’t gamble with your legacy. Let this be a call. A warning. A fire alarm in the spirit. God still uses broken men but the consequences of public failure don’t vanish with anointed tears. Stay clean. Stay low. Stay accountable. Stay burning.
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  • LORD YOUR MERCY DELIVER ME TODAY FROM EVERY MESS-UP MY FOREFATHERS AND MY FORERUNNERS HAVE COMMITTED THAT IS NEGATIVELY AFFECTING MY LIFE, MY, DESTINY, MY MARRIAGE, MY FAMILY, FINANCES AND MY ACADEMICS /BUSINESS/CAREER IN JESUS NAME AMEN
    LORD YOUR MERCY DELIVER ME TODAY FROM EVERY MESS-UP MY FOREFATHERS AND MY FORERUNNERS HAVE COMMITTED THAT IS NEGATIVELY AFFECTING MY LIFE, MY, DESTINY, MY MARRIAGE, MY FAMILY, FINANCES AND MY ACADEMICS /BUSINESS/CAREER IN JESUS NAME AMEN
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  • its 7 yr i marriage to my husband and he still fight with me. He always want flight on any topic like politics world and cleaning and cooking. I have two toddler he never help me in anything except finance and give us house to stay . We don't have any support from his family as they don't care. Now he want me to get out of his house and take kids with me. I asked to file divorce but me said yiu file it. As i don't have such money to handle lawyer. I earn little bit i cant afford rental with other expenses. He torcher me mentally a lots. I don't have friends and as i never step out for work. I don't know how to handle two kids and work and house alone. Please help.
    its 7 yr i marriage to my husband and he still fight with me. He always want flight on any topic like politics world and cleaning and cooking. I have two toddler he never help me in anything except finance and give us house to stay . We don't have any support from his family as they don't care. Now he want me to get out of his house and take kids with me. I asked to file divorce but me said yiu file it. As i don't have such money to handle lawyer. I earn little bit i cant afford rental with other expenses. He torcher me mentally a lots. I don't have friends and as i never step out for work. I don't know how to handle two kids and work and house alone. Please help.
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  • A BROTHER JUST GRADUATED FROM HAKIMI STATE UNIVERSITY WITH FIRST-CLASS ❤❤❤ PROUD BROTHERHOOD
    what a brilliant student
    9JA BLOOOD
    Israel Adesanya’s ex-girlfriend, Charlotte Powdrell, tried to drag him to court and demand half of his fortune after they broke up.

    They were never married. No kids.
    Just dated for one year.

    But she still wanted 50% of his wealth.

    Shockingly, the court ruled in her favor… until they discovered something wild:

    Israel Adesanya’s net worth was listed as $0.00, and he’s never even owned a bank account.

    Turns out, all of his $15M fortune is managed by his mother, Taiwo Adesanya who’s been in charge of his finances since day one.

    Since Charlotte is worth $1 million, the court decided to split her money instead and she was ordered to pay Israel $500,000.

    From trying to bag a payout to writing a check
    Looks like Adesanya took notes from Achraf Hakimi and played the game better.
    A BROTHER JUST GRADUATED FROM HAKIMI STATE UNIVERSITY WITH FIRST-CLASS ❤❤❤ PROUD BROTHERHOOD 🤣🤣 what a brilliant student 🇳🇬 9JA BLOOOD Israel Adesanya’s ex-girlfriend, Charlotte Powdrell, tried to drag him to court and demand half of his fortune after they broke up. They were never married. No kids. Just dated for one year. But she still wanted 50% of his wealth. Shockingly, the court ruled in her favor… until they discovered something wild: 👉 Israel Adesanya’s net worth was listed as $0.00, and he’s never even owned a bank account. Turns out, all of his $15M fortune is managed by his mother, Taiwo Adesanya who’s been in charge of his finances since day one. Since Charlotte is worth $1 million, the court decided to split her money instead and she was ordered to pay Israel $500,000. From trying to bag a payout to writing a check 💀 Looks like Adesanya took notes from Achraf Hakimi and played the game better.
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  • STATEHOUSE PRESS RELEASE

    AT BRICS SUMMIT, PRESIDENT TINUBU CALLS FOR REEVALUATION OF GLOBAL GOVERNANCE STRUCTURE, FINANCE AND HEALTH CARE SYSTEMS



    President Bola Tinubu has called for a reevaluation of the current global governance structure and the financial and healthcare systems, urging greater equity and inclusion for low-income and emerging economies, particularly in Africa.

    At the 17th meeting of the Global South and the Emerging Economies bloc, BRICS, on Saturday in Rio de Janeiro, Brazil, the President stated that environmental degradation, the climate crisis, and healthcare inequalities should receive more attention, as they contribute to slowing growth and development.

    President Tinubu, invited to the summit by Brazil's President Luiz Inacio Lula Da Silva, stated that Nigeria supports the BRICS position on the need to focus on collective, fair, and equitable global development.

    Nigeria became the ninth partner country of BRICS in January 2025, joining Belarus, Bolivia, Cuba, Kazakhstan, Malaysia, Thailand, Uganda, and Uzbekistan. The 16th BRICS Summit in Kazan in October 2024 created the partner-country category.

    President Tinubu said, "Nigeria, therefore, associates with what I have heard today and all that has happened in BRICS. The next issues are financial restructuring and reevaluation of the global structure."

    He noted that environmental degradation, climate crisis, and global healthcare inequalities were shared concerns pertinent to Africa.

    "Africa has contributed the least to global emissions but suffers the most," he added.

    President Tinubu emphasised the need for a new path of justice, anchored in fairness, sustainable technology transfer, and accessible financing, so that emerging economies can fully benefit from various initiatives.

    "The African continent is creating the path through the African Carbon Market Initiative and the Great Green Wall. We believe that COP-30 will strengthen our resolve to adopt a strategic approach to achieving a healthy global environment.

    "Nigeria strongly believes in South-South cooperation. We can, therefore, not be passive participants in global decision-making on financial restructuring, debt forgiveness, climate change, environmental issues, and healthcare.

    "We must be the architects of a future that addresses the specific needs and concerns of youths, who represent 70 per cent of our population in Nigeria. Therefore, Nigeria remains guided by our long-term vision, 2050, and nationally determined contribution.

    "We are taking bold steps to accelerate renewable energy adoption, mainstream climate action, promote nature-based solutions, strengthen urban resilience, champion South-South cooperation, align with the global renewal framework and achieve universal health coverage for all," the President stated.

    President Tinubu also said that addressing non-communicable diseases must remain a collective health concern.

    "As we approach COP-30 and look to strengthen the global health system, we believe the BRICS must not only be a bloc for emerging economies but also a beacon for emerging solutions and resolutions rooted in solidarity, self-reliance, sustainability, and shared prosperity of a common future.

    "Nigeria reaffirms its commitment to strategic collaboration that translates into sustainable and inclusive development for all," he noted.

    Ambassador Yusuf Tuggar, the Minister of Foreign Affairs, and Mr Wale Edun, the Minister of Finance, accompanied the President to the summit.

    In exercising its pro tempore presidency of BRICS, the Brazilian government announced Nigeria's formal admission as a partner country on January 17, 2025.

    As the world's sixth-most populous country and one of Africa's major economies, Nigeria shares convergent interests with other BRICS members.

    Nigeria plays an active role in strengthening South-South cooperation and reforming global governance, which are top priorities during Brazil's current presidency.

    Bayo Onanuga
    Special Adviser to the President
    (Information & Strategy)
    July 6, 2025
    STATEHOUSE PRESS RELEASE AT BRICS SUMMIT, PRESIDENT TINUBU CALLS FOR REEVALUATION OF GLOBAL GOVERNANCE STRUCTURE, FINANCE AND HEALTH CARE SYSTEMS President Bola Tinubu has called for a reevaluation of the current global governance structure and the financial and healthcare systems, urging greater equity and inclusion for low-income and emerging economies, particularly in Africa. At the 17th meeting of the Global South and the Emerging Economies bloc, BRICS, on Saturday in Rio de Janeiro, Brazil, the President stated that environmental degradation, the climate crisis, and healthcare inequalities should receive more attention, as they contribute to slowing growth and development. President Tinubu, invited to the summit by Brazil's President Luiz Inacio Lula Da Silva, stated that Nigeria supports the BRICS position on the need to focus on collective, fair, and equitable global development. Nigeria became the ninth partner country of BRICS in January 2025, joining Belarus, Bolivia, Cuba, Kazakhstan, Malaysia, Thailand, Uganda, and Uzbekistan. The 16th BRICS Summit in Kazan in October 2024 created the partner-country category. President Tinubu said, "Nigeria, therefore, associates with what I have heard today and all that has happened in BRICS. The next issues are financial restructuring and reevaluation of the global structure." He noted that environmental degradation, climate crisis, and global healthcare inequalities were shared concerns pertinent to Africa. "Africa has contributed the least to global emissions but suffers the most," he added. President Tinubu emphasised the need for a new path of justice, anchored in fairness, sustainable technology transfer, and accessible financing, so that emerging economies can fully benefit from various initiatives. "The African continent is creating the path through the African Carbon Market Initiative and the Great Green Wall. We believe that COP-30 will strengthen our resolve to adopt a strategic approach to achieving a healthy global environment. "Nigeria strongly believes in South-South cooperation. We can, therefore, not be passive participants in global decision-making on financial restructuring, debt forgiveness, climate change, environmental issues, and healthcare. "We must be the architects of a future that addresses the specific needs and concerns of youths, who represent 70 per cent of our population in Nigeria. Therefore, Nigeria remains guided by our long-term vision, 2050, and nationally determined contribution. "We are taking bold steps to accelerate renewable energy adoption, mainstream climate action, promote nature-based solutions, strengthen urban resilience, champion South-South cooperation, align with the global renewal framework and achieve universal health coverage for all," the President stated. President Tinubu also said that addressing non-communicable diseases must remain a collective health concern. "As we approach COP-30 and look to strengthen the global health system, we believe the BRICS must not only be a bloc for emerging economies but also a beacon for emerging solutions and resolutions rooted in solidarity, self-reliance, sustainability, and shared prosperity of a common future. "Nigeria reaffirms its commitment to strategic collaboration that translates into sustainable and inclusive development for all," he noted. Ambassador Yusuf Tuggar, the Minister of Foreign Affairs, and Mr Wale Edun, the Minister of Finance, accompanied the President to the summit. In exercising its pro tempore presidency of BRICS, the Brazilian government announced Nigeria's formal admission as a partner country on January 17, 2025. As the world's sixth-most populous country and one of Africa's major economies, Nigeria shares convergent interests with other BRICS members. Nigeria plays an active role in strengthening South-South cooperation and reforming global governance, which are top priorities during Brazil's current presidency. Bayo Onanuga Special Adviser to the President (Information & Strategy) July 6, 2025
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  • Good morning God's beloved. Thank God for making us see the last Sunday of June 2025. I see shame and reproach terminated in your time. You will shine forth! From today, Thanksgivings will pour out of your windows; laughter will spill through your doors. Things will get better and better. Depression days are over. You'll thrive and you'll flourish. The days of sorrow are over. I declare that the war over your home, career, finances, health and relationships is over in Jesus name. As from today, They may not hear your voice, yet they will not be able to deny your effect and results. Noiseless breakthroughs shall be your portion in the remaining days of this month. You shall labor less and eat more. You shall get uncommon results in all that you set your hands to do. You'll be strong and ahead of every satanic scheme. Get ready, you'll become unstoppable in all your endeavours. You'll be the first multimillionaire in your family. God will use your life to show others that He's real. Enjoy an ALL THINGS ARE POSSIBLE SUNDAY!
    Good morning God's beloved. Thank God for making us see the last Sunday of June 2025. I see shame and reproach terminated in your time. You will shine forth! From today, Thanksgivings will pour out of your windows; laughter will spill through your doors. Things will get better and better. Depression days are over. You'll thrive and you'll flourish. The days of sorrow are over. I declare that the war over your home, career, finances, health and relationships is over in Jesus name. As from today, They may not hear your voice, yet they will not be able to deny your effect and results. Noiseless breakthroughs shall be your portion in the remaining days of this month. You shall labor less and eat more. You shall get uncommon results in all that you set your hands to do. You'll be strong and ahead of every satanic scheme. Get ready, you'll become unstoppable in all your endeavours. You'll be the first multimillionaire in your family. God will use your life to show others that He's real. Enjoy an ALL THINGS ARE POSSIBLE SUNDAY!
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  • "I Wasn't Paid For 14 Months" – Ex-Super Falcons Coach Waldrum Blasts NFF, Says Nigeria Poor In Handling Finances
    "I Wasn't Paid For 14 Months" – Ex-Super Falcons Coach Waldrum Blasts NFF, Says Nigeria Poor In Handling Finances
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  • Israel Adesanya’s ex-girlfriend, Charlotte Powdrell, tried to drag him to court and demand half of his fortune after they broke up.

    They were never married. No kids.
    Just dated for one year.

    But she still wanted 50% of his wealth.

    Shockingly, the court ruled in her favor… until they discovered something wild:

    Israel Adesanya’s net worth was listed as $0.00, and he’s never even owned a bank account.

    Turns out, all of his $15M fortune is managed by his mother, Taiwo Adesanya who’s been in charge of his finances since day one.

    Since Charlotte is worth $1 million, the court decided to split her money instead and she was ordered to pay Israel $500,000.

    From trying to bag a payout to writing a check
    Looks like Adesanya took notes from Achraf Hakimi and played the game better.

    Israel Adesanya’s ex-girlfriend, Charlotte Powdrell, tried to drag him to court and demand half of his fortune after they broke up. They were never married. No kids. Just dated for one year. But she still wanted 50% of his wealth. Shockingly, the court ruled in her favor… until they discovered something wild: 👉 Israel Adesanya’s net worth was listed as $0.00, and he’s never even owned a bank account. Turns out, all of his $15M fortune is managed by his mother, Taiwo Adesanya who’s been in charge of his finances since day one. Since Charlotte is worth $1 million, the court decided to split her money instead and she was ordered to pay Israel $500,000. From trying to bag a payout to writing a check 💀 Looks like Adesanya took notes from Achraf Hakimi and played the game better. 😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
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  • STATE HOUSE PRESS RELEASE

    PRESIDENT TINUBU SIGNS  FOUR TAX BILLS INTO LAW TOMORROW

    President Bola Tinubu will, on Thursday, sign into law four groundbreaking tax reform bills that will transform Nigeria’s fiscal and revenue framework.

    The four bills, the Nigeria Tax Bill, the Nigeria Tax Administration Bill, the Nigeria Revenue Service (Establishment) Bill, and the Joint Revenue Board (Establishment) Bill, were passed by the National Assembly after extensive consultations with various interest groups and stakeholders.

    When the new tax laws become operational, they are expected to significantly transform tax administration in the country, leading to increased revenue generation, improved business environment, and a boost in domestic and foreign investments.

    The historic presidential assent to the bills at the Presidential Villa, Abuja, will be witnessed by the Senate President, Speaker of the House of Representatives, Senate Majority Leader, House Majority Leader, chairman of the Senate Committee on Finance, and his House counterpart.

    The Chairman of the Governors Forum, the Chairman of the Progressives Governors Forum, the Minister of Finance and Coordination Minister of the Economy, and the Attorney General of the Federation will also attend the ceremony.

    One of the four bills is the Nigeria Tax Bill (Ease of Doing Business), which aims to consolidate Nigeria’s fragmented tax laws into a harmonised statute.

    By reducing the multiplicity of taxes and eliminating duplication, the bill will enhance the ease of doing business, reduce taxpayer compliance burdens, and create a more predictable fiscal environment.

    The second bill, the Nigeria Tax Administration Bill, will establish a uniform legal and operational framework for tax administration across federal, state, and local governments.

    The Nigeria Revenue Service (Establishment) Bill, the third bill, repeals the current Federal Inland Revenue Service Act and creates a more autonomous and performance-driven national revenue agency— the Nigeria Revenue Service (NRS). It defines the NRS’s expanded mandate, including non-tax revenue collection, and lays out transparency, accountability, and efficiency mechanisms.

    The fourth bill is the Joint Revenue Board (Establishment) Bill. It provides for a formal governance structure to facilitate cooperation between revenue authorities at all levels of government. It introduces essential oversight mechanisms, including establishing a Tax Appeal Tribunal and an Office of the Tax Ombudsman.

    Bayo Onanuga

    Special Adviser to the President
    (Information and Strategy)

    June 25, 2025.
    STATE HOUSE PRESS RELEASE PRESIDENT TINUBU SIGNS  FOUR TAX BILLS INTO LAW TOMORROW President Bola Tinubu will, on Thursday, sign into law four groundbreaking tax reform bills that will transform Nigeria’s fiscal and revenue framework. The four bills, the Nigeria Tax Bill, the Nigeria Tax Administration Bill, the Nigeria Revenue Service (Establishment) Bill, and the Joint Revenue Board (Establishment) Bill, were passed by the National Assembly after extensive consultations with various interest groups and stakeholders. When the new tax laws become operational, they are expected to significantly transform tax administration in the country, leading to increased revenue generation, improved business environment, and a boost in domestic and foreign investments. The historic presidential assent to the bills at the Presidential Villa, Abuja, will be witnessed by the Senate President, Speaker of the House of Representatives, Senate Majority Leader, House Majority Leader, chairman of the Senate Committee on Finance, and his House counterpart. The Chairman of the Governors Forum, the Chairman of the Progressives Governors Forum, the Minister of Finance and Coordination Minister of the Economy, and the Attorney General of the Federation will also attend the ceremony. One of the four bills is the Nigeria Tax Bill (Ease of Doing Business), which aims to consolidate Nigeria’s fragmented tax laws into a harmonised statute. By reducing the multiplicity of taxes and eliminating duplication, the bill will enhance the ease of doing business, reduce taxpayer compliance burdens, and create a more predictable fiscal environment. The second bill, the Nigeria Tax Administration Bill, will establish a uniform legal and operational framework for tax administration across federal, state, and local governments. The Nigeria Revenue Service (Establishment) Bill, the third bill, repeals the current Federal Inland Revenue Service Act and creates a more autonomous and performance-driven national revenue agency— the Nigeria Revenue Service (NRS). It defines the NRS’s expanded mandate, including non-tax revenue collection, and lays out transparency, accountability, and efficiency mechanisms. The fourth bill is the Joint Revenue Board (Establishment) Bill. It provides for a formal governance structure to facilitate cooperation between revenue authorities at all levels of government. It introduces essential oversight mechanisms, including establishing a Tax Appeal Tribunal and an Office of the Tax Ombudsman. Bayo Onanuga Special Adviser to the President (Information and Strategy) June 25, 2025.
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  • The Evidence is there for all to see” - Finance Minister Insists Tinubu’s Reforms Are Working | Naija News TV

    https://youtu.be/Qs13yLjrWrY
    The Evidence is there for all to see” - Finance Minister Insists Tinubu’s Reforms Are Working | Naija News TV https://youtu.be/Qs13yLjrWrY
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  • Help. We’ve been married for almost a year now, and there’s an issue that keeps coming up between us. I honestly don’t know what to do anymore. I need some enlightenment — maybe to better understand him, or to know if I’m just overreacting to the little details.

    For context, my husband comes from a family of eight. He’s the only one who’s married so far. Most of his siblings, especially the eldest, are still supporting their parents — not just for their needs, but even for their wants.

    When we got married, I believed that open communication would be key to a strong partnership. That’s why I always made an effort to be transparent with him. I told him that “what’s mine is yours,” and I hoped we would apply that both ways — especially when it comes to our finances.

    But the problem is, whenever his parents ask for something, I’m always the last to know — or I just happen to read it by accident. At first, I didn’t mind, since we both have stable jobs and we’re earning our own income. But as time passed, I began to feel that these things should be discussed between us. At the very least, I thought I should be informed.

    Whenever I try to talk to him about it, he always cuts me off and says, “Para ra man ni sa akong ginikanan” — as if I’m complaining about him giving. But I’m not. I’m not questioning the act of giving. What hurts is that I wasn’t even informed, consulted, or made part of the decision.

    We’re married now. I thought we’re supposed to act as one. But every time this happens, I feel like I don’t matter. It’s always just between them — his mom asking for this, that, and more — and I’m completely out of the loop. It’s as if he’s not married at all.

    And when I try to open up and suggest we talk things through calmly, he turns it into a bigger issue. He always says it’s easy for me to say those things because I don’t have any problems with my own family. But that’s not the point. I’m not comparing. I just want us to be united and to respect each other as partners.
    Help. We’ve been married for almost a year now, and there’s an issue that keeps coming up between us. I honestly don’t know what to do anymore. I need some enlightenment — maybe to better understand him, or to know if I’m just overreacting to the little details. For context, my husband comes from a family of eight. He’s the only one who’s married so far. Most of his siblings, especially the eldest, are still supporting their parents — not just for their needs, but even for their wants. When we got married, I believed that open communication would be key to a strong partnership. That’s why I always made an effort to be transparent with him. I told him that “what’s mine is yours,” and I hoped we would apply that both ways — especially when it comes to our finances. But the problem is, whenever his parents ask for something, I’m always the last to know — or I just happen to read it by accident. At first, I didn’t mind, since we both have stable jobs and we’re earning our own income. But as time passed, I began to feel that these things should be discussed between us. At the very least, I thought I should be informed. Whenever I try to talk to him about it, he always cuts me off and says, “Para ra man ni sa akong ginikanan” — as if I’m complaining about him giving. But I’m not. I’m not questioning the act of giving. What hurts is that I wasn’t even informed, consulted, or made part of the decision. We’re married now. I thought we’re supposed to act as one. But every time this happens, I feel like I don’t matter. It’s always just between them — his mom asking for this, that, and more — and I’m completely out of the loop. It’s as if he’s not married at all. And when I try to open up and suggest we talk things through calmly, he turns it into a bigger issue. He always says it’s easy for me to say those things because I don’t have any problems with my own family. But that’s not the point. I’m not comparing. I just want us to be united and to respect each other as partners.
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  • BREAKING: A missile was launched from Iran in violation of the ceasefire, Israeli media reported on Tuesday. Finance Minister Bezalel Smotrich said in response, “Tehran will tremble.”
    The Israeli military said on Tuesday that missiles were launched from Iran toward Israeli territory shortly after the ceasefire took effect. Air defense systems were activated to intercept the threat.
    BREAKING: A missile was launched from Iran in violation of the ceasefire, Israeli media reported on Tuesday. Finance Minister Bezalel Smotrich said in response, “Tehran will tremble.” The Israeli military said on Tuesday that missiles were launched from Iran toward Israeli territory shortly after the ceasefire took effect. Air defense systems were activated to intercept the threat.
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