“It is only when we take chances, when our lives improve. The initial and the most difficult risk that we need to take is to become honest. —Walter Anderson

CHAMPIONS ARE THOSE WHO HAVE ACCEPTED FULL RESPONSIBILITY FOR THEIR LIVES.THEY KNOW THAT SOCIETY DOES NOT OWE THEM A LIVING. WHETHER THEY RISE OR FALL,IT IS UP TO THEM

HOW TO BE POOR AND HOW TO GET RICH — The Choice is Yours 🚨 If after 4 years in a higher institution you’re still roaming the streets looking for a job, you need to hear this: you’ve failed—monumentally. Let’s stop pampering mediocrity. We’re in a country where truth sounds like hate because too many people are emotionally allergic to accountability. How do we explain that someone who studied Business Administration is now begging a secondary school dropout for job opportunities? How do we have graduates of Agriculture going hungry, when food is gold? Here's the bitter truth: poverty is not always a curse from the devil; often, it’s a system we’ve bought into with our mindset, our ego, and our excuses. Let’s break this down: 1️⃣ Pride: The Graduate Mentality Trap We want soft life. AC offices. Clean suits. Titles. But reality doesn’t pay you for your degree; it pays you for value. Artisan jobs are dying. In 10 years, Nigeria may have no more plumbers, welders, painters—everyone is chasing office jobs. Yet, the ones creating generational wealth are those with tools in their hands and solutions in their heads. Being a graduate shouldn’t stop you from picking up a skill. The world is changing, but are you? 2️⃣ Get-Rich-Quick Syndrome Everyone wants to hammer, but no one wants to suffer. There was a lady in my former church who kept disturbing me about venturing into tech because she heard I make good money. What she didn’t see were my 7 years of trials, the 2 years of no clients, the cancelled N2M deals, the sleepless nights, the rejections. You want what people have, but can you handle what they went through? Wealth takes time. 5 to 7 years of focused grind—minimum. Stop starting today and expecting harvest tomorrow. That’s not entrepreneurship; that’s fantasy. 3️⃣ Lack of Mentorship We spend millions to learn how to drive. But who teaches us how to make money, live purposefully, or build wealth? When Dr. Stephen Akintayo charges for mentorship, people cry scam. Yet they spend the same amount on phones, parties, and clothes. Poverty thrives where knowledge is undervalued. Mentorship is not free—it demands money or service. But it shortens your journey by years. Find someone ahead of you and serve your way into wisdom. 4️⃣ The “Only Me” Mentality We compete instead of collaborate. We want to outshine, not uplift. But the wealthiest communities—like the Jews—grow as a unit. Africa needs to understand: teamwork will take you farther than talent. 5️⃣ Lack of Integrity Our handshake is not worth a promise. We lie, we cheat, we scam—then pray for breakthrough. We must return to honesty, accountability, and trust. You can’t build lasting wealth without a name people can vouch for. 6️⃣ The Mentality Problem Survival Mentality: Just eating and breathing is not the goal of life. Receiver’s Mentality: Always collecting, never creating. Hunter’s Mentality: Eat today, die tomorrow. No long-term vision. 7️⃣ The Bandwagon Effect You start what’s trending, not what’s purposeful. That’s why we have failed forex traders, half-baked tech bros, and abandoned POS kiosks everywhere. Purpose is personal. You must find your lane, not just follow the noise. 8️⃣ False Priorities We put all hope in: God (without work) Classroom education (without skills) Government (without responsibility) Faith without works is dead. Education without action is useless. Government without personal accountability is hopeless. 9️⃣ Mindset is Everything Until your mind changes, your life can’t. You cannot carry a poor man’s mentality into a rich man’s future. Wealth starts from within. 🔟 Environment Shapes Destiny Your location can limit your vision. Surroundings influence success. You can’t live in a dump and dream of a palace without mental relocation first. Move. Change your crowd. Redesign your inputs. 💥 Until you break these chains, you will remain exactly where you are: educated, frustrated, and broke. The choice is yours. Be poor. Or rise. Your future is not a prophecy; it’s a decision. ✅ If this message stirred something in you, do this: 👍 Like this post 💬 Drop a comment that says “I choose wealth!” 🔁 Share with someone who needs this brutal truth 👣 Follow me — Damilola Adewuyi — your personal and business development partner 📍Let’s walk this journey together. I share real truths, real strategies, and real steps for growth — no fluff, no gimmicks.

Lies may expire but TRUTH is eternal. This type of nonsense (mask wearing Buhari body double) can only happen in #Africa. Those defending this lie that @MBuhari is still alive, including Facebook and AFP Fact-Check, are worse than slave merchants & colonialists combined. They are responsible for the climate of lawlessness & anarchy bedevilling #Nigeria today. Tell me how #Nigeria or indeed the rest of black Africa can expect to be regarded as civilised when we allow the prevalence of such a travesty that insult the senses. If @mbuhari is alive, why is Aisha Buhari the First Lady living in exile in Dubai? Isn’t this enough to alert the populace that all is not well in Aso Rock. Which other president in the history of Nigeria did the wife abscond to live in another country when that president is still alive? A simple question defenders of this abominable iniquity can never answer. God is watching all of you.

✨A few of the greatest lessons I have learned in life: EVERYONE has an opinion.  NONE of them are right. Being able to listen to all and believe NONE is a skill.  Truth works on its own time.  Otherwise, everyone would know it—which simply isn’t the case. You have two ears and one mouth, therefore, listen twice as much as you talk.  You will grow wiser, faster. The foolish young are idealistic know-it-alls whilst the wise elders are simply more practical. Don't kid yourself.  But don't lose your inner child either. Imagination is the creation-station relation. The music you listen to is the soundtrack of your life. Love is in the little things. Fear is a projection of what is not KNOWN. The heart reigns supreme when it is no longer foolish. One who thinks themselves wise has a long way yet to go.  The road to wisdom has no end in sight. What was noble yesterday has become nefarious today.  Nobility has a short life which requires continual renewal. Where one fears to tread, someone has already traveled.  There is an example for every impossibility. Bravery is earned through courageous choices.  Freedom is an attitude. Abuse is “inverted tolerance” of what you put up with in yourself. Defeat is always optional. "Why" is what you ask yourself.  "Who, what, when, where and how" is what you ask others. Time is merely motion.  You don’t live BY it, you MAKE it. A sharp tongue is equal only to a dull wit. Unpleasant people are only required until you develop intolerance. The law of thirds states that 1/3 of people (anything) are good, 1/3 are neutral and 1/3 are evil.  Who can say "I am all three at once!"? Beauty is only eye deep. Love is a series of the smallest actions, the tiniest notices and the realest moves. I have many more hours in a day than most.  To rise early is an investment in your SELF.  It always pays over-time. Freedom didn’t come until I lost control (the external world).  Then I found the power I was looking for (the internal world).   The sum of your human experience is where all elements meet.  The ground and the air.  The shore of water and earth.  The sunlight and your skin.  The mind and your heart. The heart is the muscle of the mind. Soul is something you develop over time.  It has no truer or greater expression than what makes YOU - unique to all else. I do not OWN myself; I AM MY SELF. To live YOUR purpose is to live ON PURPOSE.....✨😎

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Don't keep all your money with you, you should bank some. Don't spend your money carelessly. Things are very hard. Remember that money is hard to get but easy to spend. Don't plan evil against your neighbours If you want to avoid troubles, respect the law. Don't become a wicked fellow. Wickedness brings bad name and energy. Don't carelessly run into debts, work hard and save money. Don't not live to eat but eat to live. Let your yes be yes and let your No be No and don't neglect a person who saved you from trouble

*Your Real Life Partner Is Not Your Spouse!* Not your mom. Not your dad. Not your spouse. Not your dear friend Not even your children. *It’s Your Body!* The one thing that stays with you from birth till death is the one you often ignore — Your Body. When your body is tired, it whispers. When you don’t listen, it screams. And when it finally gives up, no one else can carry that consequence but you. What you eat. How you sleep. The way you handle stress. The exercise you avoid. The sugar you won’t stop eating. They are all love letters or hate mails to your body. And your body is always reading them. You can replace a job. You can marry someone else. You can disown whosoever. You can borrow money. But you can’t trade bodies. So start showing up for your realest partner... —Eat with intention. —Move daily. —Sleep like it’s sacred. —Think thoughts that nourish, not that which poison. —Say no to stress that’s killing you slowly. Your body is not a container. It’s a companion. Treat it like it matters — because it does. Indeed, *Your body is where you live... Take very good care of it!*

*27 WAYS TO BUILD A HAPPY AND LONG LASTING MARRIAGE 👩🧑💖* *Marriage is a beautiful and fulfilling relationship that requires commitment, love, and sacrifice.* No matter what culture you belong to, what religion you believe, what society, level of wealth, or era you live in – one thing common to all people is that they want to be "happy", especially in their marriages. What Should you do? 1. Love the person you married, not the person you hoped you married. Accept your spouse totally. You cannot love a man/woman you do not accept. Stop comparing your spouse with anyone, he or she can never be somebody else. Until you accept your spouse, you can't get the best out of your marriage 2. Understand each other. No marriage succeeds without understanding. Learn to know one another as best as you can. Understand you are not the same and may never be. Respect that you are both individuals. Get to know each other strengths and weaknesses. Strengthen each other's weaknesses. 3. Be quick to forgive and quicker to apologize. Love forgives. Learn to accept apology. Freely forgive your spouse’s past, present and future offenses. Never refer to his/her past mistakes. Never go to bed with anger or unsettled quarrel. Marriage is two forgivers living together. 4. Ask your spouse, "What can I do for you today?" every single day. 5. Never talk bad about your spouse to other people. Protect him or her and always keep his or her name safe. Fight for each other, not with each other. 6. Have lots of s*x. Enjoy S*x with your spouse. Never withhold s*x as a punishment. 7. Keep the word "divorce" out of your vocabulary. Remember your vows. Review them on a regular basis. 8. Provide for the needs of your spouse and children. Never be stingy to your spouse. Care for his/her needs. Be generous to him/her. Pay your children’s school fees promptly and regularly. Marriage is not 50/50. It's 100/100. Give yourself entirely, and don't hold back. Men, Be sensitive to your wife’s needs. Spend money to beautify her. 9. Be faithful to your spouse. Being unfaithful is the easiest way to completely ruin your marriage. Adultery kills. 10. Understand and learn each other's love language. Either it can be words, gifts, touch, actions, etc. If it is words, then frequently tell your spouse you love and appreciate him/ her. If it is action: regularly do things that they appreciate: either take the garbage out, wash the dishes, cook the food, wash the car, etc Spoil each other. Keep track of the things your spouse loves and buy them for him or her. 11. Communication is the key to a relationship. Talk like friends and lovers. Don’t make your spouse guess what you are thinking or feeling. Don't expect him/her to read your mind. You should feel free to discuss all things without fear. 12. Always listen attentively to your spouse. Switch off your phone or television, shut down your computer or iPad and newspapers, books and magazine should be closed. The greatest communication skill you can develop is the listening skill. Be quiet and patient while he/she is speaking, when he/she is done, you can express your opinion. Look straight into his/her eyes when he is talking to you or when you’re talking to him. This will make him/her feel that you are interested in what he/she wants to say. 13. Love, respect and courtesy are basic ingredients of happy married life. Give them generously to your spouse. Show your spouse how much you love, care and appreciate him/her regularly. Say, "I love you," every single day. 14. Be honest and show sincere appreciation. Appreciate each other. Show your spouse appreciation for the little things. Be thankful and say so!!! Find something that you appreciate about your spouse and say thank you. 15. Surprise each other with lovely gifts, kiss and s*x. Kiss passionately. Hold hands. Cuddle. Make physical affection a priority in your marriage. 16. Make quality time for each other. Keep dating each other. Put your marriage and spouse before your children. Play together. Never lose your sense of humor. Make your spouse your best friend. 17. Share everything...no secrets between you. Be open with your spouse. 18. Be polite and courteous to each other. Saying thank you, please and I am sorry. 19. Get rid of bad habits. Don’t do those things your spouse hates. Don’t do things that hurt him/her. Develop a godly character. Don’t create a hostile environment for your spouse. Focus on making your spouse happy. The best way to improve your relationship is to improve yourself. 20. Always be honest to your partner. Lying never gets you anywhere 21. Aim to do something at least once per week together. It does not matter what, even if it is to eat together, bath together, watch movies together, read books together and share light conversation 22. Do NOT look at other marriages and covet. No marriage is prefect. Remember, the grass is not greener on the other side. You will still have to maintain, mow and weed that side too! 23. Work at your marriage. If you ever lack motivation for your marriage and feel like the flame has gone dead. Just try to imagine yourself without your spouse. Talk to anyone who has lost their soul mate and they'll tell you that they will give anything to have back that special someone. Remember, it is your marriage and you have come this far. Make the best of it. Pledge to yourself that you will do your part and try your best. Remember that you chose your spouse for forever. 24. All issues need to have a solution and be resolved at the time of the conversation. Finish what you start otherwise things just hang in the balance,which leads to future problems. 25. Don't make mountains out of mole hills. Don't waste your time fighting over little things. It's not worth it. Let small things go. 26. Don't broadcast your problems to everyone else. If you need to talk to someone about it, other than your spouse, get a therapist. 27. Above all: Serve God together, Pray together & Pray for one another. Pray for your spouse daily in your personal prayers. Be specific. Talk to God about his or her challenges and trials, and ask Him what you can do to be a better spouse. You will not fail in your marriage in Jesus name Kindly share..

She couldn't walk and now runs like a teenager! Clean intestines and liver

Freedom from the power of rejection begins from developing the right mindset towards yourself. Rejection is never absolute; everyone cannot reject you at the same time, and even if you think they have never rejected you. The greatest weapon to win the battle against rejection is the will to live and survive.

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