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2025-06-23 13:21:13 - Перевод

Modern Marriages Collapse Faster—Because They Come Late

Written by Enety Tazvivinga

Let’s talk about what nobody wants to admit:

The later a woman marries,
the harder she is to build with.

Because while the world praises “maturity” and “independence,”
real men know:

You don’t marry potential at its expiration date.

Let’s break it down:

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1. Youth Means Flexibility—Age Means Resistance

A young woman comes into marriage fluid.
She’s teachable. She’s open. She adapts.

Not because she’s weak—
But because she hasn’t been hardened by life yet.

At 19, she learns through love.
At 29, she only learns through trauma.

By 30?

She’s no longer learning.
She’s negotiating.

And now every instruction feels like control.
Every correction sounds like oppression.
Every standard gets labeled as “toxic.”

You can’t lead someone who thinks they’ve already arrived.

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2. Early Marriage Protects Fertility—And Your Future Bloodline

Science doesn’t lie.

The earlier she conceives,
the healthier her eggs.
The lower the risk of miscarriage, ADHD, and birth complications.

You don’t hear this in the media.
But even sperm damage can be offset by young, healthy eggs.

She’s not just your wife.

She’s the gatekeeper of your legacy.

And age is not kind to the gate.

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3. She’s Not Bringing a Clean Slate—She’s Bringing a Resume of Regret

By 30, most modern women have:

– 12+ exes
– 5+ heartbreaks
– 3 years of therapy
– A list of emotional triggers
– A soul tired of trusting men
– A past funded by men better than you—and worse

Now you walk in as the cleanup crew.
You marry her leftovers.
You inherit a wounded soul packaged in soft glam.

And no matter how loving you are?

She can’t bond with you.
Because her heart is still haunted.

—

4. She Wasn’t Picked—She Settled

When a woman marries young,
she does so at her peak.

She was wanted.
Chosen.
Desirable.

And she sacrificed from the top of her value.

But when she marries late?

It’s not out of abundance.
It’s out of fatigue.

She’s not submitting.
She’s surrendering—because the streets stopped calling back.

And now you, the “good man,”
become her retirement plan.

Not her reward.

—

5. She’s Not Building With You—She’s Billing You From Day One

She doesn’t know your story.
Didn’t sacrifice in your grind.
Doesn’t understand your foundation.

But she demands protection…
Provision…
And prenup-free access to your life’s work.

She’s not entering a partnership.
She’s entering an inheritance.

And if it collapses?

She takes half—and posts about "reclaiming her peace."

—

6. Her History Is a Mystery—And You Pay the Price

Modern men are signing prenups not out of paranoia—
But survival.

You’re not marrying a blank page.
You’re marrying a woman with:

– Untold trauma
– Invisible scars
– High expectations
– No endurance
– And a legal system behind her

You can’t vet 15 years of dating history.

You’re walking into a maze with no map.
And when she taps out?

You get taxed for trusting too late.

—

7. When a Woman Marries Too Late—She’s Already Emotionally Retired

You can’t spark loyalty in someone who’s seen too much.

You can’t teach femininity to a woman who wore masculinity for 12 years.

You can’t start fresh with someone whose past is a landfill of emotional damage.

Late marriage turns relationships into negotiations.
Not commitment.
Not sacrifice.
Just trade-offs.

She gives you what’s left.
Then sets an exit strategy.

And you?
You’re just the landing pad.

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Final Word: You Can’t Build a Kingdom on Expired Foundations

This is not hate.
It’s a warning.

Marry early.
Build while she's moldable.
Invest in someone who grows with you—not someone who's tired of failing elsewhere.

Because when you marry late?

You're not starting life.
You're inheriting her debt—emotional, financial, and spiritual.

And when she finally leaves?

She won’t feel guilt.

She’ll feel justified.

Because her happiness was always the goal.
Not your legacy.

Modern Marriages Collapse Faster—Because They Come Late Written by Enety Tazvivinga Let’s talk about what nobody wants to admit: The later a woman marries, the harder she is to build with. Because while the world praises “maturity” and “independence,” real men know: You don’t marry potential at its expiration date. Let’s break it down: — 1. Youth Means Flexibility—Age Means Resistance A young woman comes into marriage fluid. She’s teachable. She’s open. She adapts. Not because she’s weak— But because she hasn’t been hardened by life yet. At 19, she learns through love. At 29, she only learns through trauma. By 30? She’s no longer learning. She’s negotiating. And now every instruction feels like control. Every correction sounds like oppression. Every standard gets labeled as “toxic.” You can’t lead someone who thinks they’ve already arrived. — 2. Early Marriage Protects Fertility—And Your Future Bloodline Science doesn’t lie. The earlier she conceives, the healthier her eggs. The lower the risk of miscarriage, ADHD, and birth complications. You don’t hear this in the media. But even sperm damage can be offset by young, healthy eggs. She’s not just your wife. She’s the gatekeeper of your legacy. And age is not kind to the gate. — 3. She’s Not Bringing a Clean Slate—She’s Bringing a Resume of Regret By 30, most modern women have: – 12+ exes – 5+ heartbreaks – 3 years of therapy – A list of emotional triggers – A soul tired of trusting men – A past funded by men better than you—and worse Now you walk in as the cleanup crew. You marry her leftovers. You inherit a wounded soul packaged in soft glam. And no matter how loving you are? She can’t bond with you. Because her heart is still haunted. — 4. She Wasn’t Picked—She Settled When a woman marries young, she does so at her peak. She was wanted. Chosen. Desirable. And she sacrificed from the top of her value. But when she marries late? It’s not out of abundance. It’s out of fatigue. She’s not submitting. She’s surrendering—because the streets stopped calling back. And now you, the “good man,” become her retirement plan. Not her reward. — 5. She’s Not Building With You—She’s Billing You From Day One She doesn’t know your story. Didn’t sacrifice in your grind. Doesn’t understand your foundation. But she demands protection… Provision… And prenup-free access to your life’s work. She’s not entering a partnership. She’s entering an inheritance. And if it collapses? She takes half—and posts about "reclaiming her peace." — 6. Her History Is a Mystery—And You Pay the Price Modern men are signing prenups not out of paranoia— But survival. You’re not marrying a blank page. You’re marrying a woman with: – Untold trauma – Invisible scars – High expectations – No endurance – And a legal system behind her You can’t vet 15 years of dating history. You’re walking into a maze with no map. And when she taps out? You get taxed for trusting too late. — 7. When a Woman Marries Too Late—She’s Already Emotionally Retired You can’t spark loyalty in someone who’s seen too much. You can’t teach femininity to a woman who wore masculinity for 12 years. You can’t start fresh with someone whose past is a landfill of emotional damage. Late marriage turns relationships into negotiations. Not commitment. Not sacrifice. Just trade-offs. She gives you what’s left. Then sets an exit strategy. And you? You’re just the landing pad. — Final Word: You Can’t Build a Kingdom on Expired Foundations This is not hate. It’s a warning. Marry early. Build while she's moldable. Invest in someone who grows with you—not someone who's tired of failing elsewhere. Because when you marry late? You're not starting life. You're inheriting her debt—emotional, financial, and spiritual. And when she finally leaves? She won’t feel guilt. She’ll feel justified. Because her happiness was always the goal. Not your legacy. ©️

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2025-06-23 02:23:26 - Перевод

This news not make me happy about former governor of oyo state late Adebayo Alao Akala 's children
Crisis rocks Alao-Akala’s family as daughter seeks DNA test for siblings, exhumation of ex-Gov’s body
by Segun Showunmi, Ibadan
A legal battle has broken out in the family of former Oyo Governor Otunba Christopher Adebayo Alao-Akala after his first daughter, Mrs Oluwatoyin Alao-Aderinto, approached an Oyo State High Court sitting in Ibadan for an order for a Deoxyribonucleic Acid (DNA) test on seven individuals claiming to be biological children of the deceased.
She is also seeking for an application for the exhumation of the late Governor’s body to carry out the DNA test.
In a suit filed before Justice Taiwo of Court 12 at the State High Court, ring road, Ibadan with Motion Number I/443/2024, Alao-Aderinto, through her counsel, Oladipo Olasope (SAN), is praying the court to direct that the DNA tests be carried out on herself, including siblings, Olamide, Adebukola, Olamipo, Olamiju, a serving member of the House of Representatives, Tabitha and Olamikunle, as listed in the motion on notice filed before the court.
She also said the tests be conducted at a court approved, accredited laboratory to determine their true biological relationship with the late Governor.
As part of the application, Alao-Aderinto is also seeking an order of court, directing exhumation of Otunba Alao-Akala’s remains from the mausoleum built in the former governor’s Ogbomoso country home for the purpose of carrying out the paternity test.
The results of the tests, she pleaded, should be filed under a sealed envelope and delivered directly to the presiding Judge for pronouncement in open court.
The fresh application brought before the court is a new twist in what has become a messy and prolonged family feud over the vast estate of the late politician, who died intestate on January 12, 2022.
The crisis, which has been brewing silently since his burial became public in October 2022 when one Kemi Alao-Akala and Olamide Alabi, believed to be one of the deceased’s daughters, obtained a Letter of Administration from the Oyo State Probate Registry without the knowledge or consent of Oluwatoyin, the first child.
According to Alao-Aderinto, this singular act was a deliberate and unlawful exclusion that contravene applicable laws guiding intestate succession in Nigeria.
In her affidavit and accompanying exhibit filed in support of her motion, she accused the duo of manipulating facts to claim sole control over the estate, despite the presence of other biological children and heirs.
The estate in question is said to be massive, spreading across several properties in Ibadan, Lagos, Abuja, United Kingdom and the United States of America, including a five-star hotel in Ghana, vehicles and multiple bank accounts containing hundreds of millions in naira, dollars and pounds sterling.
Her position on the deceased father’s estate stems from the strong resolve at ensuring that every individual, including nuclear and extended family members, aides of the former Governors, who served him meritoriously without blemish and yet to identified children among many others are catered for, as against the alleged winner- takes-it -all approach adopted by the duo of the defendants.
The said administrators listed only seven individuals as legal heirs but the position, as articulated by her counsel, is that there is no consensus on the paternity of these persons and the inclusion of some and exclusion of others in the administration of the deceased’s estate raises troubling questions of authenticity and equity. It is on this basis she seeks judicial intervention through scientific means.
In an August 2023 letter made public, her counsel Oladipo Olasope SAN, warned that the exclusion of the claimant who is the first daughter of the late Alao-Akala, violated both moral norms and legal rights, stressing that unless resolved, the dispute could further polarise the family and damage the late governor’s political legacy.

This news not make me happy about former governor of oyo state late Adebayo Alao Akala 's children Crisis rocks Alao-Akala’s family as daughter seeks DNA test for siblings, exhumation of ex-Gov’s body by Segun Showunmi, Ibadan A legal battle has broken out in the family of former Oyo Governor Otunba Christopher Adebayo Alao-Akala after his first daughter, Mrs Oluwatoyin Alao-Aderinto, approached an Oyo State High Court sitting in Ibadan for an order for a Deoxyribonucleic Acid (DNA) test on seven individuals claiming to be biological children of the deceased. She is also seeking for an application for the exhumation of the late Governor’s body to carry out the DNA test. In a suit filed before Justice Taiwo of Court 12 at the State High Court, ring road, Ibadan with Motion Number I/443/2024, Alao-Aderinto, through her counsel, Oladipo Olasope (SAN), is praying the court to direct that the DNA tests be carried out on herself, including siblings, Olamide, Adebukola, Olamipo, Olamiju, a serving member of the House of Representatives, Tabitha and Olamikunle, as listed in the motion on notice filed before the court. She also said the tests be conducted at a court approved, accredited laboratory to determine their true biological relationship with the late Governor. As part of the application, Alao-Aderinto is also seeking an order of court, directing exhumation of Otunba Alao-Akala’s remains from the mausoleum built in the former governor’s Ogbomoso country home for the purpose of carrying out the paternity test. The results of the tests, she pleaded, should be filed under a sealed envelope and delivered directly to the presiding Judge for pronouncement in open court. The fresh application brought before the court is a new twist in what has become a messy and prolonged family feud over the vast estate of the late politician, who died intestate on January 12, 2022. The crisis, which has been brewing silently since his burial became public in October 2022 when one Kemi Alao-Akala and Olamide Alabi, believed to be one of the deceased’s daughters, obtained a Letter of Administration from the Oyo State Probate Registry without the knowledge or consent of Oluwatoyin, the first child. According to Alao-Aderinto, this singular act was a deliberate and unlawful exclusion that contravene applicable laws guiding intestate succession in Nigeria. In her affidavit and accompanying exhibit filed in support of her motion, she accused the duo of manipulating facts to claim sole control over the estate, despite the presence of other biological children and heirs. The estate in question is said to be massive, spreading across several properties in Ibadan, Lagos, Abuja, United Kingdom and the United States of America, including a five-star hotel in Ghana, vehicles and multiple bank accounts containing hundreds of millions in naira, dollars and pounds sterling. Her position on the deceased father’s estate stems from the strong resolve at ensuring that every individual, including nuclear and extended family members, aides of the former Governors, who served him meritoriously without blemish and yet to identified children among many others are catered for, as against the alleged winner- takes-it -all approach adopted by the duo of the defendants. The said administrators listed only seven individuals as legal heirs but the position, as articulated by her counsel, is that there is no consensus on the paternity of these persons and the inclusion of some and exclusion of others in the administration of the deceased’s estate raises troubling questions of authenticity and equity. It is on this basis she seeks judicial intervention through scientific means. In an August 2023 letter made public, her counsel Oladipo Olasope SAN, warned that the exclusion of the claimant who is the first daughter of the late Alao-Akala, violated both moral norms and legal rights, stressing that unless resolved, the dispute could further polarise the family and damage the late governor’s political legacy.

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2025-06-22 21:06:50 - Перевод

"NO VICTOR, NO VANQUISHED”? NO, SIR. JUST THE BLOOD OF THE INNOCENT
A Truthful Dissection of Gen. Gowon’s Crocodile Tears

✍Ugochimereze Chinedu Asuzu

"I always remember the Civil War. It was the most difficult period of my life. It was not my choice…” So says General Yakubu Gowon: decades after the fact, as if the burden of memory alone could exonerate a man from the burden of responsibility.

But memory, stripped of remorse, becomes theatre. And this latest performance by the old General, wrapped in prayerful tones and wistful platitudes, is exactly that a theatre of moral evasion. What was presented as reflection was in fact deflection. A man who presided over the darkest chapter in Nigeria’s history now seeks to launder his conscience with the sponge of spirituality, mouthing prayers as if that were enough to bury three million truths beneath the soil of forgetfulness.

No, sir. You did not pray. You played. You played politics with people’s lives. You played Russian roulette with the destiny of a region. You played central command while entire communities burned. You stood at the gates of peace and walked away. The blood did not flow because you had no choice, it flowed because you made a choice. And the choice was war.

You stood beside Odumegwu Ojukwu at Aburi in Ghana. There, both of you spoke, agreed, shook hands and made a pact. You returned to Lagos to a hero’s welcome, but before the ink of trust could dry, you tore it apart. You listened to federal hawks, buried Aburi under the rubble of Decree No. 8, and turned your face from peace. You betrayed a solemn covenant for the sake of power. That betrayal, not the first shot fired, is where the war truly began.

The records are stubborn. They do not bend to nostalgia. They remind us that before a single Biafran soldier took up arms, thousands of Igbos had been hacked down in the North. Pregnant women butchered. Children beheaded. Men dismembered in full daylight. Railway stations were turned into morgues. Churches, into chambers of death. Kaduna. Kano. Jos. The North descended into madness, and the East was served grief on a plate of silence.

You, sir, presided over that silence. You were Commander-in-Chief, not a curious passerby. You issued words but withheld justice. You gave speeches, but not shelter. You watched a people bleed and called it unfortunate. And now, years later, you whisper: "It was never out of hatred." But hatred needs no introduction when its fruit is genocide.

And then came your famous phrase, carved into Nigeria’s post-war psyche: “No victor, no vanquished.” It sounded noble. It rang loud. But it rang false. Because the war ended, yes, but justice never began. Biafrans were not vanquished by force alone, they were buried beneath the rubble of reconstruction. Their economy was stripped. Their currency devalued. Their children starved. Their land mined and their dignity mocked. What you called reintegration, we lived as retribution. What you labeled reconciliation, we endured as marginalisation. The victor danced in national attire. The vanquished crawled through national amnesia.

Sir, you had the chance to become a Mandela long before South Africa birthed one. You had the moment. The world watched. The African continent stood still. But you chose empire over empathy. You chose command over compassion. You chose to keep Nigeria one by breaking a people in half. And now, the same mouth that sanctioned the guns says, "I prayed to God." Perhaps you did. But God is not mocked by crocodile tears. Not when the skulls of infants still haunt the red soil of Nsukka, Aba, Umuahia, and Onitsha.

Prayer is not repentance. Repentance begins with truth. And the truth is that you, along with others, enabled a war that was avoidable. You squandered the peace we almost had at Aburi. You enabled pogroms with your silence. You denied justice its wings and handed the world a bullet instead. And when it was all done, you wrapped the pain in poetry and hoped the music would make us forget.

But we remember. Not because we hate. But because we bleed.

This is not a call to bitterness. It is a call to honesty. To name what happened. To look the children of Biafra in the eye and say: Yes, you were wronged. Yes, we failed you. Yes, the war was avoidable. And no, it should never have happened.

Until then, sir, do not cloak yourself in prayer while justice lies unclothed. Do not speak of love when you could not uphold truth. Do not say “it was not my choice” when history has proven otherwise. And above all, do not try to rewrite what we lived.

You may now carry the Bible in one hand. But the other hand still drips with memories. Your legacy may wear the robe of elder statesmanship. But it remains stained by silence, by betrayal, and by the bones of those who trusted your word at Aburi.

So here, General Gowon, is what history truly says:
You may cry now, but the tears do not wash the blood away.
You may kneel today, but that does not undo the horror of yesterday.
You may pray, but the ghosts still answer with questions.
And until Nigeria confronts its past with courage, it will never know peace that lasts.

We forgive. But we do not forget. We move on. But we do not move blind.

Because truth, bitter as it may be - is still better than convenient lies.

✍Ugochimereze Chinedu Asuzu
Social Cum Political Analysis|Tuesday, June 10, 2025

"NO VICTOR, NO VANQUISHED”? NO, SIR. JUST THE BLOOD OF THE INNOCENT A Truthful Dissection of Gen. Gowon’s Crocodile Tears ✍Ugochimereze Chinedu Asuzu "I always remember the Civil War. It was the most difficult period of my life. It was not my choice…” So says General Yakubu Gowon: decades after the fact, as if the burden of memory alone could exonerate a man from the burden of responsibility. But memory, stripped of remorse, becomes theatre. And this latest performance by the old General, wrapped in prayerful tones and wistful platitudes, is exactly that a theatre of moral evasion. What was presented as reflection was in fact deflection. A man who presided over the darkest chapter in Nigeria’s history now seeks to launder his conscience with the sponge of spirituality, mouthing prayers as if that were enough to bury three million truths beneath the soil of forgetfulness. No, sir. You did not pray. You played. You played politics with people’s lives. You played Russian roulette with the destiny of a region. You played central command while entire communities burned. You stood at the gates of peace and walked away. The blood did not flow because you had no choice, it flowed because you made a choice. And the choice was war. You stood beside Odumegwu Ojukwu at Aburi in Ghana. There, both of you spoke, agreed, shook hands and made a pact. You returned to Lagos to a hero’s welcome, but before the ink of trust could dry, you tore it apart. You listened to federal hawks, buried Aburi under the rubble of Decree No. 8, and turned your face from peace. You betrayed a solemn covenant for the sake of power. That betrayal, not the first shot fired, is where the war truly began. The records are stubborn. They do not bend to nostalgia. They remind us that before a single Biafran soldier took up arms, thousands of Igbos had been hacked down in the North. Pregnant women butchered. Children beheaded. Men dismembered in full daylight. Railway stations were turned into morgues. Churches, into chambers of death. Kaduna. Kano. Jos. The North descended into madness, and the East was served grief on a plate of silence. You, sir, presided over that silence. You were Commander-in-Chief, not a curious passerby. You issued words but withheld justice. You gave speeches, but not shelter. You watched a people bleed and called it unfortunate. And now, years later, you whisper: "It was never out of hatred." But hatred needs no introduction when its fruit is genocide. And then came your famous phrase, carved into Nigeria’s post-war psyche: “No victor, no vanquished.” It sounded noble. It rang loud. But it rang false. Because the war ended, yes, but justice never began. Biafrans were not vanquished by force alone, they were buried beneath the rubble of reconstruction. Their economy was stripped. Their currency devalued. Their children starved. Their land mined and their dignity mocked. What you called reintegration, we lived as retribution. What you labeled reconciliation, we endured as marginalisation. The victor danced in national attire. The vanquished crawled through national amnesia. Sir, you had the chance to become a Mandela long before South Africa birthed one. You had the moment. The world watched. The African continent stood still. But you chose empire over empathy. You chose command over compassion. You chose to keep Nigeria one by breaking a people in half. And now, the same mouth that sanctioned the guns says, "I prayed to God." Perhaps you did. But God is not mocked by crocodile tears. Not when the skulls of infants still haunt the red soil of Nsukka, Aba, Umuahia, and Onitsha. Prayer is not repentance. Repentance begins with truth. And the truth is that you, along with others, enabled a war that was avoidable. You squandered the peace we almost had at Aburi. You enabled pogroms with your silence. You denied justice its wings and handed the world a bullet instead. And when it was all done, you wrapped the pain in poetry and hoped the music would make us forget. But we remember. Not because we hate. But because we bleed. This is not a call to bitterness. It is a call to honesty. To name what happened. To look the children of Biafra in the eye and say: Yes, you were wronged. Yes, we failed you. Yes, the war was avoidable. And no, it should never have happened. Until then, sir, do not cloak yourself in prayer while justice lies unclothed. Do not speak of love when you could not uphold truth. Do not say “it was not my choice” when history has proven otherwise. And above all, do not try to rewrite what we lived. You may now carry the Bible in one hand. But the other hand still drips with memories. Your legacy may wear the robe of elder statesmanship. But it remains stained by silence, by betrayal, and by the bones of those who trusted your word at Aburi. So here, General Gowon, is what history truly says: You may cry now, but the tears do not wash the blood away. You may kneel today, but that does not undo the horror of yesterday. You may pray, but the ghosts still answer with questions. And until Nigeria confronts its past with courage, it will never know peace that lasts. We forgive. But we do not forget. We move on. But we do not move blind. Because truth, bitter as it may be - is still better than convenient lies. ✍Ugochimereze Chinedu Asuzu Social Cum Political Analysis|Tuesday, June 10, 2025

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2025-06-22 09:39:22 - Перевод

Good morning, Gada.Chat Members!

Today is a new day, a fresh start, and an opportunity to make a difference.
Let's draw inspiration from our collective strength, resilience, and passion for creating positive change.

As we navigate our individual journeys, remember that every small act of kindness, every generous gesture, and every selfless act has the power to impact lives and shape the world around us.

To our seasoned members, your dedication and leadership are the driving force behind our community's success.
Your stories, experiences, and wisdom inspire us all to strive for more.

To our new members, welcome! We're thrilled to have you join our community of Gada.Chat, which we help each other attend success.
Your unique perspectives and talents will enrich our collective efforts.

Let's continue to uplift, support, and empower one another. Let's celebrate our achievements, learn from our setbacks, and keep pushing boundaries.

Together, we can achieve greatness, create lasting impact, and leave a legacy of love, kindness, and compassion.

Have an amazing day, Members of GADA.CHAT!

Warm Regards!
Elder ERASMUS IBOM

Good morning, Gada.Chat Members! Today is a new day, a fresh start, and an opportunity to make a difference. Let's draw inspiration from our collective strength, resilience, and passion for creating positive change. As we navigate our individual journeys, remember that every small act of kindness, every generous gesture, and every selfless act has the power to impact lives and shape the world around us. To our seasoned members, your dedication and leadership are the driving force behind our community's success. Your stories, experiences, and wisdom inspire us all to strive for more. To our new members, welcome! We're thrilled to have you join our community of Gada.Chat, which we help each other attend success. Your unique perspectives and talents will enrich our collective efforts. Let's continue to uplift, support, and empower one another. Let's celebrate our achievements, learn from our setbacks, and keep pushing boundaries. Together, we can achieve greatness, create lasting impact, and leave a legacy of love, kindness, and compassion. Have an amazing day, Members of GADA.CHAT! Warm Regards! Elder ERASMUS IBOM

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2025-06-22 01:00:20 - Перевод

When we leave this world, how much we have loved will be our true legacy. It is the only thing we will leave behind and carry with us.

When we leave this world, how much we have loved will be our true legacy. It is the only thing we will leave behind and carry with us.

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"Lucy 2," the highly anticipated sequel to the 2014 sci-fi hit, is set for release on March 27, 2026, with a production budget of $200 million. Directed by Luc Besson, the film significantly expands on the premise of the original, combining cutting-edge visual effects with thought-provoking narrative. The substantial budget reflects the ambitious scope of the project, which includes international filming locations, advanced CGI to depict Lucy's omnipresent abilities, and high-octane action sequences. Scarlett Johansson reprises her role as Lucy, joined by Jason Statham as Agent Kane, adding star power and dynamic chemistry to the cast. The original “Lucy” film was a surprise box office success, grossing over $469 million worldwide on a modest $40 million budget, making it one of the most profitable films of 2014. Its unique premise, Scarlett Johansson’s compelling performance and Luc Besson’s visionary direction captivated audiences around the world. Building on this legacy, “Lucy 2” aims to surpass its predecessor by delving further into the mysteries of human evolution and artificial intelligence. The first trailer generated significant excitement, with fans praising the film’s stunning visuals and intriguing plot.
Industry analysts predict that “Lucy 2” will perform exceptionally well at the box office, with projections to top $800 million globally, fueled by its star-studded cast, high production value and the enduring popularity of the original. The film's success is also expected to extend to streaming platforms, where it will likely draw a massive audience after its theatrical release. With its combination of intense action, philosophical depth and groundbreaking visual effects, "Lucy 2" is set to become a critical and commercial triumph, cementing its place as a modern sci-fi classic.

Lucy 2 disponible Si tu es intéressé de cette meilleure film action abonne toi sur mon unique compte Son Flick Tiemtoré partage et vient en inbox pour le lien Partage Partage Partage 🎬 Lucy 2 👉 Watch trailer: First trailer Scarlett Johansson, Jason Statham "Lucy 2," the highly anticipated sequel to the 2014 sci-fi hit, is set for release on March 27, 2026, with a production budget of $200 million. Directed by Luc Besson, the film significantly expands on the premise of the original, combining cutting-edge visual effects with thought-provoking narrative. The substantial budget reflects the ambitious scope of the project, which includes international filming locations, advanced CGI to depict Lucy's omnipresent abilities, and high-octane action sequences. Scarlett Johansson reprises her role as Lucy, joined by Jason Statham as Agent Kane, adding star power and dynamic chemistry to the cast. The original “Lucy” film was a surprise box office success, grossing over $469 million worldwide on a modest $40 million budget, making it one of the most profitable films of 2014. Its unique premise, Scarlett Johansson’s compelling performance and Luc Besson’s visionary direction captivated audiences around the world. Building on this legacy, “Lucy 2” aims to surpass its predecessor by delving further into the mysteries of human evolution and artificial intelligence. The first trailer generated significant excitement, with fans praising the film’s stunning visuals and intriguing plot. Industry analysts predict that “Lucy 2” will perform exceptionally well at the box office, with projections to top $800 million globally, fueled by its star-studded cast, high production value and the enduring popularity of the original. The film's success is also expected to extend to streaming platforms, where it will likely draw a massive audience after its theatrical release. With its combination of intense action, philosophical depth and groundbreaking visual effects, "Lucy 2" is set to become a critical and commercial triumph, cementing its place as a modern sci-fi classic.

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Titanic 2 (2025)
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Titanic 2 (2025) brings an epic continuation to the legendary saga, with the return of Leonardo DiCaprio and Kate Winslet as Jack and Rose, the beloved characters from the original Titanic. Set aboard the world's most luxurious ocean liner, the Titanic II, the film takes us on a journey that recalls the ill-fated maiden voyage of its predecessor, but this time, the stakes are much higher.
As the Titanic II sets sail, the excitement of honoring the legacy of the original ship soon turns to terror when a new and unforeseen disaster strikes the sea. A crisis begins to unfold that threatens to repeat the tragic events of the first voyage. The fate of the passengers becomes uncertain as the crew and passengers must race against time to prevent history from repeating itself. With stunning visuals, action-packed sequences, and an emotional narrative, Titanic 2 promises an unforgettable cinematic experience. The trailer gives fans a sneak peek at the high-stakes suspense and explosive moments to come. The undeniable chemistry between Jack and Rose adds a personal touch to the intense drama, combining romance, survival, and tragedy in an epic story set during a modern-day Titanic disaster.

🎬 Titanic 2 (2025) Watch: Official Trailer | Leonardo DiCaprio, Kate Winslet Titanic 2 (2025) brings an epic continuation to the legendary saga, with the return of Leonardo DiCaprio and Kate Winslet as Jack and Rose, the beloved characters from the original Titanic. Set aboard the world's most luxurious ocean liner, the Titanic II, the film takes us on a journey that recalls the ill-fated maiden voyage of its predecessor, but this time, the stakes are much higher. As the Titanic II sets sail, the excitement of honoring the legacy of the original ship soon turns to terror when a new and unforeseen disaster strikes the sea. A crisis begins to unfold that threatens to repeat the tragic events of the first voyage. The fate of the passengers becomes uncertain as the crew and passengers must race against time to prevent history from repeating itself. With stunning visuals, action-packed sequences, and an emotional narrative, Titanic 2 promises an unforgettable cinematic experience. The trailer gives fans a sneak peek at the high-stakes suspense and explosive moments to come. The undeniable chemistry between Jack and Rose adds a personal touch to the intense drama, combining romance, survival, and tragedy in an epic story set during a modern-day Titanic disaster.

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Adegoke Hammed

2025-06-20 20:40:48 - Перевод

Law of power! 1-48

1. Never outshine the master

Always make those above you feel superior. If you make them feel insecure, you risk being replaced or punished.

2. Never put too much trust in friends; learn how to use enemies

Friends can betray you out of emotion or envy. Enemies, properly managed, can be more loyal and useful.

3. Conceal your intentions

Don’t tell people your true plans—this keeps them from interfering and gives you an edge.

4. Always say less than necessary

The more you speak, the more likely you are to say something foolish. Silence creates mystery and authority.

5. Guard your reputation with your life

Reputation is a cornerstone of power. Once damaged, it’s hard to rebuild—protect it constantly.

6. Court attention at all costs

Visibility is power. Stand out, be memorable, and use dramatic gestures if needed.

7. Get others to do the work for you, but always take the credit

Leverage others’ talents and efforts while making it seem like you were the mastermind.

8. Make other people come to you—use bait if necessary

Don’t chase people or power. Draw them in and make them play by your rules.

9. Win through actions, never through argument

People may be convinced by your words but are more likely to resent you. Prove your point through results.

10. Infection: avoid the unhappy and unlucky

Misery spreads. Don’t associate too closely with those who constantly struggle or fail.

11. Learn to keep people dependent on you

Create relationships where others need you to thrive or succeed. This gives you control.

12. Use selective honesty and generosity to disarm your victim

Small, genuine gestures can build trust, which you can later exploit.

13. When asking for help, appeal to people’s self-interest, never to their mercy

Frame your requests in terms of what benefits them, not you.

14. Pose as a friend, work as a spy

Build rapport and gather useful information that can be used strategically.

15. Crush your enemy totally

Leave no chance for retaliation. A half-defeated enemy will eventually strike back.

16. Use absence to increase respect and honor

Too much presence can diminish value. Sometimes disappearing raises your worth.

17. Keep others in suspended terror: cultivate an air of unpredictability

Surprise keeps others on edge and off-balance. They can't plan against you if you're unpredictable.

18. Do not build fortresses to protect yourself—Isolation is dangerous

Being cut off makes you vulnerable. Stay connected to information and people.

19. Know who you’re dealing with—do not offend the wrong person

Different people react differently to offense. Choose your targets and methods carefully.

20. Do not commit to anyone

Stay independent. Commitment traps you and limits your options.

21. Play a sucker to catch a sucker—seem dumber than your mark

Underestimate yourself to gain an advantage. People let their guard down when they think they’re smarter.

22. Use the surrender tactic: transform weakness into power

When overpowered, retreat gracefully. It gives you time to plot a comeback.

23. Concentrate your forces

Focus your time and energy on one strong point, rather than scattering your efforts.

24. Play the perfect courtier

Be the ideal subordinate: adaptable, flattering, and discreet.

25. Re-create yourself

Be the architect of your identity. Don’t let others define you—shape your image and role.

26. Keep your hands clean

Get others to do the dirty work so your reputation remains untouched.

27. Play on people’s need to believe to create a cultlike following

People want meaning. Provide a vision, symbols, and rituals—and they’ll follow.

28. Enter action with boldness

Timidity breeds failure. Take action confidently and decisively.

29. Plan all the way to the end

Think several steps ahead. Don’t get caught by surprises or unfinished plans.

30. Make your accomplishments seem effortless

Hide the hard work. Let your results speak for themselves.

31. Control the options: get others to play with the cards you deal

Frame the choices so no matter what others pick, it benefits you.

32. Play to people’s fantasies

People crave illusions and dreams. Give them that and they’ll follow you.

33. Discover each man’s thumbscrew

Find what motivates or weakens people—fears, desires, or secrets—and use it.

34. Be royal in your own fashion: act like a king to be treated like one

Carry yourself with confidence and self-respect. People treat you as you treat yourself.

35. Master the art of timing

Know when to act and when to wait. Timing can make or break your plans.

36. Disdain things you cannot have: ignoring them is the best revenge

If you can’t have it, don’t obsess. Indifference shows power and poise.

37. Create compelling spectacles

Dramatic visuals and experiences stick in people’s minds and sway emotions.

38. Think as you like, but behave like others

Conform outwardly while keeping your true thoughts private.

39. Stir up waters to catch fish

Chaos creates opportunities. Make people emotional and you'll gain control.

40. Despise the free lunch

What’s free is often worthless or a trap. Value what’s earned.

41. Avoid stepping into a great man’s shoes

Forge your own path rather than trying to live up to someone else's legacy.

42. Strike the shepherd and the sheep will scatter

Remove the leader and the group loses direction or collapses.

43. Work on the hearts and minds of others

Persuasion is more powerful than force. Win people emotionally and mentally.

44. Disarm and infuriate with the mirror effect

Mirror your opponents to confuse or unnerve them. It throws them off balance.

45. Preach the need for change, but never reform too much at once

People fear sudden change. Introduce it slowly so they can adapt.

46. Never appear too perfect

Too much perfection breeds envy. Show some faults occasionally.

47. Do not go past the mark you aimed for; in victory, learn when to stop

Don’t overreach. Knowing when to stop protects your success.

48. Assume formlessness

Be adaptable and fluid. The rigid are easy to attack; the shapeless survive anything.

Law of power! 1-48✅ 1. Never outshine the master Always make those above you feel superior. If you make them feel insecure, you risk being replaced or punished. 2. Never put too much trust in friends; learn how to use enemies Friends can betray you out of emotion or envy. Enemies, properly managed, can be more loyal and useful. 3. Conceal your intentions Don’t tell people your true plans—this keeps them from interfering and gives you an edge. 4. Always say less than necessary The more you speak, the more likely you are to say something foolish. Silence creates mystery and authority. 5. Guard your reputation with your life Reputation is a cornerstone of power. Once damaged, it’s hard to rebuild—protect it constantly. 6. Court attention at all costs Visibility is power. Stand out, be memorable, and use dramatic gestures if needed. 7. Get others to do the work for you, but always take the credit Leverage others’ talents and efforts while making it seem like you were the mastermind. 8. Make other people come to you—use bait if necessary Don’t chase people or power. Draw them in and make them play by your rules. 9. Win through actions, never through argument People may be convinced by your words but are more likely to resent you. Prove your point through results. 10. Infection: avoid the unhappy and unlucky Misery spreads. Don’t associate too closely with those who constantly struggle or fail. 11. Learn to keep people dependent on you Create relationships where others need you to thrive or succeed. This gives you control. 12. Use selective honesty and generosity to disarm your victim Small, genuine gestures can build trust, which you can later exploit. 13. When asking for help, appeal to people’s self-interest, never to their mercy Frame your requests in terms of what benefits them, not you. 14. Pose as a friend, work as a spy Build rapport and gather useful information that can be used strategically. 15. Crush your enemy totally Leave no chance for retaliation. A half-defeated enemy will eventually strike back. 16. Use absence to increase respect and honor Too much presence can diminish value. Sometimes disappearing raises your worth. 17. Keep others in suspended terror: cultivate an air of unpredictability Surprise keeps others on edge and off-balance. They can't plan against you if you're unpredictable. 18. Do not build fortresses to protect yourself—Isolation is dangerous Being cut off makes you vulnerable. Stay connected to information and people. 19. Know who you’re dealing with—do not offend the wrong person Different people react differently to offense. Choose your targets and methods carefully. 20. Do not commit to anyone Stay independent. Commitment traps you and limits your options. 21. Play a sucker to catch a sucker—seem dumber than your mark Underestimate yourself to gain an advantage. People let their guard down when they think they’re smarter. 22. Use the surrender tactic: transform weakness into power When overpowered, retreat gracefully. It gives you time to plot a comeback. 23. Concentrate your forces Focus your time and energy on one strong point, rather than scattering your efforts. 24. Play the perfect courtier Be the ideal subordinate: adaptable, flattering, and discreet. 25. Re-create yourself Be the architect of your identity. Don’t let others define you—shape your image and role. 26. Keep your hands clean Get others to do the dirty work so your reputation remains untouched. 27. Play on people’s need to believe to create a cultlike following People want meaning. Provide a vision, symbols, and rituals—and they’ll follow. 28. Enter action with boldness Timidity breeds failure. Take action confidently and decisively. 29. Plan all the way to the end Think several steps ahead. Don’t get caught by surprises or unfinished plans. 30. Make your accomplishments seem effortless Hide the hard work. Let your results speak for themselves. 31. Control the options: get others to play with the cards you deal Frame the choices so no matter what others pick, it benefits you. 32. Play to people’s fantasies People crave illusions and dreams. Give them that and they’ll follow you. 33. Discover each man’s thumbscrew Find what motivates or weakens people—fears, desires, or secrets—and use it. 34. Be royal in your own fashion: act like a king to be treated like one Carry yourself with confidence and self-respect. People treat you as you treat yourself. 35. Master the art of timing Know when to act and when to wait. Timing can make or break your plans. 36. Disdain things you cannot have: ignoring them is the best revenge If you can’t have it, don’t obsess. Indifference shows power and poise. 37. Create compelling spectacles Dramatic visuals and experiences stick in people’s minds and sway emotions. 38. Think as you like, but behave like others Conform outwardly while keeping your true thoughts private. 39. Stir up waters to catch fish Chaos creates opportunities. Make people emotional and you'll gain control. 40. Despise the free lunch What’s free is often worthless or a trap. Value what’s earned. 41. Avoid stepping into a great man’s shoes Forge your own path rather than trying to live up to someone else's legacy. 42. Strike the shepherd and the sheep will scatter Remove the leader and the group loses direction or collapses. 43. Work on the hearts and minds of others Persuasion is more powerful than force. Win people emotionally and mentally. 44. Disarm and infuriate with the mirror effect Mirror your opponents to confuse or unnerve them. It throws them off balance. 45. Preach the need for change, but never reform too much at once People fear sudden change. Introduce it slowly so they can adapt. 46. Never appear too perfect Too much perfection breeds envy. Show some faults occasionally. 47. Do not go past the mark you aimed for; in victory, learn when to stop Don’t overreach. Knowing when to stop protects your success. 48. Assume formlessness Be adaptable and fluid. The rigid are easy to attack; the shapeless survive anything.

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2025-06-20 20:05:25 - Перевод

Baba Ijesha, whose real name is Olanrewaju James Omiyinka, was a well-known Yoruba actor in the Nigerian movie industry. He had a reputation for playing comic and street-wise roles, which made him popular among fans. However, his career and public image took a massive downturn in 2021 when he became involved in a serious ch!ld m0lestation scandal that shook Nollywood and the entire Nigerian entertainment space.

The controversy started when Nigerian comedienne, Princess (whose real name is Damilola Adekoya), accused Baba Ijesha of $exually m0lesting her 14-year-0ld foster daughter. According to Princess, the abuse had been going on for years but wasn’t initially known. She later claimed that the girl opened up about the abuse, which prompted Princess to set up a CCTV trap to catch him in the act. The footage reportedly showed Baba Ijesha engaging in inappropriate behavior with the min0r when he visited Princess’s home.

The video evidence sparked public outrage. Many Nigerians were angered, especially because of the age of the victim and the fact that Baba Ijesha was caught on video. Actress Iyabo Ojo was one of the most vocal celebrities who stood with Princess and demanded justice. Iyabo Ojo took to social media several times to condemn Baba Ijesha and called out those in the film industry who were trying to defend him. Her consistent outspokenness caused friction within Nollywood, as some colleagues accused her of using the case for clout, but she stood her ground.

The matter was taken to court, and Baba Ijesha was charged with several counts related to $exual assault and lndecent treatment of a chiId. During the trial, Princess testified in court and stood firm in her accusations, insisting she only wanted justice for her foster daughter. Despite the legal battles and the emotional trauma the case brought, both Princess and Iyabo Ojo remained committed to seeing the case through.

Eventually, in July 2022, the court found Baba Ijesha guilty on four out of the six charges brought against him, including $exual assault and attempted $exual assault of a chiId. He was sentenced to 16 years in prison. The ruling brought a mix of reactions—relief from those who supported the victim, and disappointment from his fans and those who once respected him.

The case highlighted the importance of protecting minors from abuse and sparked broader conversations in Nigeria about child safety, celebrity culture, and accountability. For Baba Ijesha, the scandal marked a fall from grace that not only ended his acting career but also left a permanent stain on his legacy.

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Baba Ijesha, whose real name is Olanrewaju James Omiyinka, was a well-known Yoruba actor in the Nigerian movie industry. He had a reputation for playing comic and street-wise roles, which made him popular among fans. However, his career and public image took a massive downturn in 2021 when he became involved in a serious ch!ld m0lestation scandal that shook Nollywood and the entire Nigerian entertainment space. The controversy started when Nigerian comedienne, Princess (whose real name is Damilola Adekoya), accused Baba Ijesha of $exually m0lesting her 14-year-0ld foster daughter. According to Princess, the abuse had been going on for years but wasn’t initially known. She later claimed that the girl opened up about the abuse, which prompted Princess to set up a CCTV trap to catch him in the act. The footage reportedly showed Baba Ijesha engaging in inappropriate behavior with the min0r when he visited Princess’s home. The video evidence sparked public outrage. Many Nigerians were angered, especially because of the age of the victim and the fact that Baba Ijesha was caught on video. Actress Iyabo Ojo was one of the most vocal celebrities who stood with Princess and demanded justice. Iyabo Ojo took to social media several times to condemn Baba Ijesha and called out those in the film industry who were trying to defend him. Her consistent outspokenness caused friction within Nollywood, as some colleagues accused her of using the case for clout, but she stood her ground. The matter was taken to court, and Baba Ijesha was charged with several counts related to $exual assault and lndecent treatment of a chiId. During the trial, Princess testified in court and stood firm in her accusations, insisting she only wanted justice for her foster daughter. Despite the legal battles and the emotional trauma the case brought, both Princess and Iyabo Ojo remained committed to seeing the case through. Eventually, in July 2022, the court found Baba Ijesha guilty on four out of the six charges brought against him, including $exual assault and attempted $exual assault of a chiId. He was sentenced to 16 years in prison. The ruling brought a mix of reactions—relief from those who supported the victim, and disappointment from his fans and those who once respected him. The case highlighted the importance of protecting minors from abuse and sparked broader conversations in Nigeria about child safety, celebrity culture, and accountability. For Baba Ijesha, the scandal marked a fall from grace that not only ended his acting career but also left a permanent stain on his legacy. #fblifestyle

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Chimezie Nwachukwu
2025-06-20 20:04:43 - Перевод

The Man Who Loved Deeply: Arjunbhai’s Story

Arjunbhai Manubhai Patoliya was a devoted husband, a caring father, and a hardworking man originally from Vadiya, a village in Gujarat, India. In search of a better life, he moved to London, where he built a home with his beloved wife, Bharatiben, and their two young daughters.

Life in London wasn’t always easy, but Arjunbhai was known among friends as someone who smiled through struggles. He worked hard, loved harder, and kept his roots close. But fate had other plans.

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In early June 2025, tragedy struck—Bharatiben passed away, leaving behind a grieving husband and two heartbroken daughters. Her dying wish was simple, yet sacred: she wanted her ashes immersed in her hometown river in Gujarat.

Arjunbhai, despite his own grief, honored that wish. He traveled thousands of miles back to Vadiya with her ashes, leaving his daughters temporarily in the care of relatives in London.

Back in his homeland, surrounded by mourning relatives, he carried out her besnu and other final rituals with a heavy heart. Every step was a tribute to the love they had shared.

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On 12 June 2025, having fulfilled his wife’s last wishes, Arjunbhai boarded Air India Flight AI171 in Ahmedabad, bound for London. He was eager to reunite with his daughters—to hold them, to grieve with them, to begin rebuilding their lives.

But fate, once again, was cruel.

Just 30 seconds after takeoff, the aircraft crashed into a building near B.J. Medical College in Ahmedabad. 241 people died that day. Only one person survived.

Among the victims was Arjunbhai Patoliya.

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His two daughters in London—already mourning their mother—were now orphaned.

Friends and family were shattered. One friend said, “He was a pillar of strength for his daughters. He lived for his family. What happened is beyond cruel.”

His story spread across India and the UK, not just as a statistic, but as a reminder of the human cost of tragedy.

---

Arjunbhai’s life was one of devotion, responsibility, and quiet strength. He didn’t just bury his wife—he buried a part of himself, only to unknowingly walk into the arms of fate.

Now, his story is remembered as a heartbreaking symbol of love and loss—a man who honored every promise he made, until the very end.

#ArjunbhaiPatoliya
#GoneTooSoon
#InLovingMemory
#RestInPeace
#FamilyMan
#DevotedHusband
#LovingFather
#ForeverInOurHearts
#TrueLoveStory
#TragicLoss
#AirIndiaAI171
#FlightAI171
#AhmedabadCrash
#PlaneCrashVictims
#NeverForgotten
#HumanCostOfTragedy
#RealLifeHero
#HonorHisLegacy
#LoveBeyondLife
#HeDidItForHisFamily
#FathersLove
#FamilyFirstAlways
#WidowedFather
#DaughtersOfStrength

💔The Man Who Loved Deeply: Arjunbhai’s Story Arjunbhai Manubhai Patoliya was a devoted husband, a caring father, and a hardworking man originally from Vadiya, a village in Gujarat, India. In search of a better life, he moved to London, where he built a home with his beloved wife, Bharatiben, and their two young daughters. Life in London wasn’t always easy, but Arjunbhai was known among friends as someone who smiled through struggles. He worked hard, loved harder, and kept his roots close. But fate had other plans. --- In early June 2025, tragedy struck—Bharatiben passed away, leaving behind a grieving husband and two heartbroken daughters. Her dying wish was simple, yet sacred: she wanted her ashes immersed in her hometown river in Gujarat. Arjunbhai, despite his own grief, honored that wish. He traveled thousands of miles back to Vadiya with her ashes, leaving his daughters temporarily in the care of relatives in London. Back in his homeland, surrounded by mourning relatives, he carried out her besnu and other final rituals with a heavy heart. Every step was a tribute to the love they had shared. --- On 12 June 2025, having fulfilled his wife’s last wishes, Arjunbhai boarded Air India Flight AI171 in Ahmedabad, bound for London. He was eager to reunite with his daughters—to hold them, to grieve with them, to begin rebuilding their lives. But fate, once again, was cruel. Just 30 seconds after takeoff, the aircraft crashed into a building near B.J. Medical College in Ahmedabad. 241 people died that day. Only one person survived. Among the victims was Arjunbhai Patoliya. --- His two daughters in London—already mourning their mother—were now orphaned. Friends and family were shattered. One friend said, “He was a pillar of strength for his daughters. He lived for his family. What happened is beyond cruel.” His story spread across India and the UK, not just as a statistic, but as a reminder of the human cost of tragedy. --- Arjunbhai’s life was one of devotion, responsibility, and quiet strength. He didn’t just bury his wife—he buried a part of himself, only to unknowingly walk into the arms of fate. Now, his story is remembered as a heartbreaking symbol of love and loss—a man who honored every promise he made, until the very end.🕊️ #ArjunbhaiPatoliya #GoneTooSoon #InLovingMemory #RestInPeace #FamilyMan #DevotedHusband #LovingFather #ForeverInOurHearts #TrueLoveStory #TragicLoss #AirIndiaAI171 #FlightAI171 #AhmedabadCrash #PlaneCrashVictims #NeverForgotten #HumanCostOfTragedy #RealLifeHero #HonorHisLegacy #LoveBeyondLife #HeDidItForHisFamily #FathersLove #FamilyFirstAlways #WidowedFather #DaughtersOfStrength

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2025-06-20 20:04:26 - Перевод

The Man Who Loved Deeply: Arjunbhai’s Story

Arjunbhai Manubhai Patoliya was a devoted husband, a caring father, and a hardworking man originally from Vadiya, a village in Gujarat, India. In search of a better life, he moved to London, where he built a home with his beloved wife, Bharatiben, and their two young daughters.

Life in London wasn’t always easy, but Arjunbhai was known among friends as someone who smiled through struggles. He worked hard, loved harder, and kept his roots close. But fate had other plans.

---

In early June 2025, tragedy struck—Bharatiben passed away, leaving behind a grieving husband and two heartbroken daughters. Her dying wish was simple, yet sacred: she wanted her ashes immersed in her hometown river in Gujarat.

Arjunbhai, despite his own grief, honored that wish. He traveled thousands of miles back to Vadiya with her ashes, leaving his daughters temporarily in the care of relatives in London.

Back in his homeland, surrounded by mourning relatives, he carried out her besnu and other final rituals with a heavy heart. Every step was a tribute to the love they had shared.

---

On 12 June 2025, having fulfilled his wife’s last wishes, Arjunbhai boarded Air India Flight AI171 in Ahmedabad, bound for London. He was eager to reunite with his daughters—to hold them, to grieve with them, to begin rebuilding their lives.

But fate, once again, was cruel.

Just 30 seconds after takeoff, the aircraft crashed into a building near B.J. Medical College in Ahmedabad. 241 people died that day. Only one person survived.

Among the victims was Arjunbhai Patoliya.

---

His two daughters in London—already mourning their mother—were now orphaned.

Friends and family were shattered. One friend said, “He was a pillar of strength for his daughters. He lived for his family. What happened is beyond cruel.”

His story spread across India and the UK, not just as a statistic, but as a reminder of the human cost of tragedy.

---

Arjunbhai’s life was one of devotion, responsibility, and quiet strength. He didn’t just bury his wife—he buried a part of himself, only to unknowingly walk into the arms of fate.

Now, his story is remembered as a heartbreaking symbol of love and loss—a man who honored every promise he made, until the very end.

#ArjunbhaiPatoliya
#GoneTooSoon
#InLovingMemory
#RestInPeace
#FamilyMan
#DevotedHusband
#LovingFather
#ForeverInOurHearts
#TrueLoveStory
#TragicLoss
#AirIndiaAI171
#FlightAI171
#AhmedabadCrash
#PlaneCrashVictims
#NeverForgotten
#HumanCostOfTragedy
#RealLifeHero
#HonorHisLegacy
#LoveBeyondLife
#HeDidItForHisFamily
#FathersLove
#FamilyFirstAlways
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💔The Man Who Loved Deeply: Arjunbhai’s Story Arjunbhai Manubhai Patoliya was a devoted husband, a caring father, and a hardworking man originally from Vadiya, a village in Gujarat, India. In search of a better life, he moved to London, where he built a home with his beloved wife, Bharatiben, and their two young daughters. Life in London wasn’t always easy, but Arjunbhai was known among friends as someone who smiled through struggles. He worked hard, loved harder, and kept his roots close. But fate had other plans. --- In early June 2025, tragedy struck—Bharatiben passed away, leaving behind a grieving husband and two heartbroken daughters. Her dying wish was simple, yet sacred: she wanted her ashes immersed in her hometown river in Gujarat. Arjunbhai, despite his own grief, honored that wish. He traveled thousands of miles back to Vadiya with her ashes, leaving his daughters temporarily in the care of relatives in London. Back in his homeland, surrounded by mourning relatives, he carried out her besnu and other final rituals with a heavy heart. Every step was a tribute to the love they had shared. --- On 12 June 2025, having fulfilled his wife’s last wishes, Arjunbhai boarded Air India Flight AI171 in Ahmedabad, bound for London. He was eager to reunite with his daughters—to hold them, to grieve with them, to begin rebuilding their lives. But fate, once again, was cruel. Just 30 seconds after takeoff, the aircraft crashed into a building near B.J. Medical College in Ahmedabad. 241 people died that day. Only one person survived. Among the victims was Arjunbhai Patoliya. --- His two daughters in London—already mourning their mother—were now orphaned. Friends and family were shattered. One friend said, “He was a pillar of strength for his daughters. He lived for his family. What happened is beyond cruel.” His story spread across India and the UK, not just as a statistic, but as a reminder of the human cost of tragedy. --- Arjunbhai’s life was one of devotion, responsibility, and quiet strength. He didn’t just bury his wife—he buried a part of himself, only to unknowingly walk into the arms of fate. Now, his story is remembered as a heartbreaking symbol of love and loss—a man who honored every promise he made, until the very end.🕊️ #ArjunbhaiPatoliya #GoneTooSoon #InLovingMemory #RestInPeace #FamilyMan #DevotedHusband #LovingFather #ForeverInOurHearts #TrueLoveStory #TragicLoss #AirIndiaAI171 #FlightAI171 #AhmedabadCrash #PlaneCrashVictims #NeverForgotten #HumanCostOfTragedy #RealLifeHero #HonorHisLegacy #LoveBeyondLife #HeDidItForHisFamily #FathersLove #FamilyFirstAlways #WidowedFather #DaughtersOfStrength

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2025-06-20 15:33:56 - Перевод

INSPIRING ONITSHA TRUE STORY

“My mother sold pap beside the market gutter.”
“Now I export to five countries — and I named the brand after her.”
They called it “dirty woman’s food.”
Now it’s on shelves in London and New York.

Her Mother Sold Akamu by the Roadside — What Her Daughter Did 20 Years Later Left the Whole Market in Tears
Written by Rosyworld CRN

Onitsha, Nigeria — 2003.

Every morning by 5:00 a.m., Mama Uju would tie her wrapper tight, light the firewood, and begin stirring the large pot of pap.

Yellow, thick, creamy — and hot.

She sold it at the corner of Nkpor Market.
Right beside the open gutter.
No kiosk. No umbrella. Just smoke, sweat, and survival.

Her daughter Uju sat beside her.
Sometimes sleeping.
Sometimes helping.
Always dreaming.

But other market women mocked them.

“See your mummy selling food by gutter!”
“Who will marry you when your clothes always smell like smoke?”

Uju stayed quiet.
She watched.
Learned.
And whispered to her mother one day:

"One day, this pap will travel beyond Nigeria."

Mama Uju laughed. “Pap wey I dey sell for ₦50?”

“Yes, mama,” she replied. “Your sweat has a flavour the world hasn’t tasted yet.”

Uju studied hard.
Went to UNN.
Studied Food Science & Tech.
Wrote her final project on “Preservation and Commercialization of Traditional Fermented Foods.”

Graduated with distinction.
Got a loan from a youth empowerment fund.
Started small — two bags of corn, a borrowed grinder, and an Instagram page.

Business Name: Mama Uju’s Original Pap.

It wasn’t just a product.
It was a legacy.

People laughed at first.
Then they tasted it.
Then they ordered.

By 2021, she was supplying supermarkets in Lagos and Abuja.
By 2023, she exported to the UK through a Nigerian food distributor.

In 2025, she returned to Nkpor Market — where it all began.
She wore a custom-made ankara dress printed with the words: “From Gutter to Global.”

She came with camera crews, a truckload of her packaged pap, and a special announcement.

She stood beside the same corner where her mother once bent over firewood and said:

“This is where royalty once sat on a plastic chair.
This is where I saw dignity in burnt fingers.
This is where I first tasted strength.”

She donated ₦10 million to upgrade the market stalls for other women vendors.
Gave them branded kiosks and cooking equipment.
Named the space: “Mama Uju’s Women’s Corner.”

Then she gave her mother a key to a brand-new bungalow, built on land she bought secretly five years ago.

Mama Uju fainted.
Then cried.
Then danced.

Because the pap she stirred for survival…
Became the pap her daughter used for global success.

And the child once laughed at for smelling of smoke…
Now breathes boardroom air — but still bows before the woman who stirred her future.

INSPIRING ONITSHA TRUE STORY “My mother sold pap beside the market gutter.” “Now I export to five countries — and I named the brand after her.” They called it “dirty woman’s food.” Now it’s on shelves in London and New York. Her Mother Sold Akamu by the Roadside — What Her Daughter Did 20 Years Later Left the Whole Market in Tears Written by Rosyworld CRN Onitsha, Nigeria — 2003. Every morning by 5:00 a.m., Mama Uju would tie her wrapper tight, light the firewood, and begin stirring the large pot of pap. Yellow, thick, creamy — and hot. She sold it at the corner of Nkpor Market. Right beside the open gutter. No kiosk. No umbrella. Just smoke, sweat, and survival. Her daughter Uju sat beside her. Sometimes sleeping. Sometimes helping. Always dreaming. But other market women mocked them. “See your mummy selling food by gutter!” “Who will marry you when your clothes always smell like smoke?” Uju stayed quiet. She watched. Learned. And whispered to her mother one day: "One day, this pap will travel beyond Nigeria." Mama Uju laughed. “Pap wey I dey sell for ₦50?” “Yes, mama,” she replied. “Your sweat has a flavour the world hasn’t tasted yet.” Uju studied hard. Went to UNN. Studied Food Science & Tech. Wrote her final project on “Preservation and Commercialization of Traditional Fermented Foods.” Graduated with distinction. Got a loan from a youth empowerment fund. Started small — two bags of corn, a borrowed grinder, and an Instagram page. Business Name: Mama Uju’s Original Pap. It wasn’t just a product. It was a legacy. People laughed at first. Then they tasted it. Then they ordered. By 2021, she was supplying supermarkets in Lagos and Abuja. By 2023, she exported to the UK through a Nigerian food distributor. In 2025, she returned to Nkpor Market — where it all began. She wore a custom-made ankara dress printed with the words: “From Gutter to Global.” She came with camera crews, a truckload of her packaged pap, and a special announcement. She stood beside the same corner where her mother once bent over firewood and said: “This is where royalty once sat on a plastic chair. This is where I saw dignity in burnt fingers. This is where I first tasted strength.” She donated ₦10 million to upgrade the market stalls for other women vendors. Gave them branded kiosks and cooking equipment. Named the space: “Mama Uju’s Women’s Corner.” Then she gave her mother a key to a brand-new bungalow, built on land she bought secretly five years ago. Mama Uju fainted. Then cried. Then danced. Because the pap she stirred for survival… Became the pap her daughter used for global success. And the child once laughed at for smelling of smoke… Now breathes boardroom air — but still bows before the woman who stirred her future.

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