Stop telling yourself that you’re ****** for loving them!
Stop regretting the fact that you loved them so deeply, that you unconditionally gave them your entire heart, your soul, your mind, your body, and everything that you had to offer.
That’s exactly what you’re meant to do!
You were meant to love them deeply.
You were meant to fight for your relationship and for the person you loved so dearly.
What they chose to do with your love has absolutely nothing to do with the value of your love.
There is nothing to regret, and there’s no reason to keep telling yourself that you were ****** for not seeing things sooner.
You weren’t ******, you loved and trusted someone in good faith who should have loved you back.
You weren’t supposed to be looking out for things.
You were supposed to feel safe and loved.
What they did has nothing to do with you.
What they did comes from who they were long before you came along, and they chose not to deal with it.
So take all of the hurt and all of the pain, heal from it but learn the lessons from it because you’ll be better for it.
Sometimes the reason things don’t work out is because you deserve so much better than what you were settling for; and you now get to take the beautiful new person that you’re becoming as a result of everything you’ve been through, and give that to someone who truly deserves your heart.
You get to give the best version of yourself to someone who actually appreciates you, who appreciates how hard you've worked on yourself, and to someone who matches the effort and love that you give to them.
Someone who knows how to love properly, and who’s ready to give love from a place of love.
Someone who sees your worth for not only who you already are, but who you’re also becoming.
So don’t let the person who lost you steal that away from you.
Feel proud of the love you gave.
Feel proud that you gave them your soul, and that you loved as deeply as you could have because that says more about who you are as a person, and that’s something to be truly proud of.
Feel proud about knowing that the one who treats you right will receive all of you.
Know your worth and never forget how valuable your love and presence really is.
You weren't ******, you did exactly what you were meant to do because what you gave was a reflection of your character and the values that you place around love