We live in a world where men are naturally the providers, shouldering responsibilities from a young age. Kudos to those whose parents paved a path of wealth, but I feel for the ones that are forced to mature too quickly. The pressure intensified after Adam's curse. Men often ask, 'Who will save me?' They prioritize others' needs over their own, struggling to make ends meet, lest they face mockery and financial shame, even from fellow men. Masculinity is often measured by responsibilities taken , love received is based by financial status, and friendships by what they can offer. Daily, many compromise their values to be called 'Odogwu'. Some delay starting families, believing 'a man without money shouldn't have an erection. In this world, men are often told, No excuses for failure; be strong and make money. Even sisters may money-shame and belittle them. Dear young man, remember you're human first, regardless of gender. Don't let societal expectations define you. Do your best, seek Christ's guidance, try various good paths, and expect the best. Life is challenging, but remember, you are a human, deserving of love and respect. Remind yourself, all will be well. IF YOU DON’T EARN LIKE THEM, DON’T SPEND LIKE THEM. Appreciate life's gift, stay where you're valued, find joy in simple things, love yourself and God. You won't fail, the lifter of men is still changing and blessing lives! #Lekwa princess ijeoma ✍🏾 #TheVoice