10 COMPATIBILITY TESTS TO TAKE BEFORE SAYING "YES" IN A RELATIONSHIP Too many people enter relationships without doing the necessary background checks or asking the right questions—only to end up hurt, frustrated, or broken. Don’t be in love with someone who is not aligned with your future. Before emotions carry you away, take these 10 compatibility tests seriously. 1. 📍Spiritual Compatibility Can you both walk together spiritually? (Amos 3:3) Are you on the same page in your beliefs, convictions, and spiritual goals? If one is on fi-re for God and the other is lukewarm or carnal, it’s a red flag. Look beyond church attendance—check their fruit and character. Watch out: Pretenders exist—those who fake spiritual fervor to win your heart. Ask: Do they honor God genuinely? Do your convictions align? 2. 📍Purpose Compatibility Do your life purposes complement each other? If you’re called to missions and they dislike outreach, it won’t work. If you dream of writing books and they believe it's a waste of time, your visions will clash. Purpose-driven couples encourage each other to thrive. Know your calling first before attaching your heart. 3. 📍Genotype Compatibility Love is not enough—wisdom saves lives. Before emotions go deep, check your genotype. AA is safe with anyone, but AS + AS is a no-go. Don’t wait until love blinds you before finding out the facts. Faith is not a replacement for sense. Let God guide you and also apply your God-given wisdom 4. 📍Intellectual Compatibility Can you have deep, meaningful conversations? If you can’t discuss life issues, faith, purpose, or current affairs without getting lost, marriage will be dull. You need a thinking partner, not just a pretty face. Talk about values, parenting, $-ex, marriage roles, life goals. 5. 📍Emotional Compatibility Do your emotions align or clash? If your moods are always in conflict, or one is highly sensitive while the other is emotionally unavailable, expect frequent misunderstandings. Check: Do you feel emotionally safe? Does your temperament complement theirs? Do you feel heard and valued? 6. 📍Financial Compatibility Money doesn’t sustain love, but its mismanagement can destr0y it. If you’re both spenders with no saving culture, the future will be rough. One must either be financially wise or both must grow together in money management. Talk about saving, budgeting, giving, and long-term financial goals. 7. 📍Physical Compatibility Yes, physical attraction matters—but don’t make it the only thing that matters. You’ll be waking up to that face for decades. Are you genuinely attracted to them? Are you proud of their look or always wishing they looked different? Reminder: Looks fade. Character stays. Don't trade a future for a figure. 8. 📍Communication Compatibility Can you both talk things through calmly and respectfully? Some people fight dirty. Others shut down completely. In marriage, communication is your lifeline. Compatibility here determines how you resolve conflicts. Ask: Can we express our thoughts without shouting or walking away? 9. 📍Family and Cultural Compatibility Do your backgrounds clash or blend well? Different upbringing, tribe, or family expectations can create friction. Love them, but don’t ignore family pressure or cultural values. Talk about in-laws, traditions, roles, and expectations. Will they allow you to thrive or force you into a mold? 10. 📍$-exual and Moral Compatibility Do your values on $ex, purity, and morality align? If one wants to keep things pure before marriage and the other pushes boundaries, there's a major mismatch. Don’t assume they’ll change later. Discuss expectations around $ex, fidelity, and moral standards. Finally, don’t ignore red flags because of butterflies. Don’t assume love will fix what compatibility can't. Marriage is long; don't start wrong. Pray. Think. Discern. Talk. Investigate. 🙏 May your relationship be a blessing, not a burden. May your marriage bring heaven to earth.

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EFFECTIVE WAYS TO CONTROL ANGER IN MARRIAGE WITHOUT DESTR0YING THE LOVE 🥰 Anger is a normal and healthy emotion that provides insight into how we perceive events. However, it’s essential to manage it positively, as uncontrolled anger can negatively impact your health and relationships. If you're serious about enjoying peace in your home, here are 14 practical and proven ways to manage anger in your marriage without ruining the bond between you and your spouse: 1. 📍Think Before You Speak and Act: Take a deep breath and count to ten. Do whatever it takes to avoid lashing out and saying or doing something you’ll regret. Consider the consequences of your actions: will they be productive or only make the situation worse? 2. 📍Communicate Calmly: Once you’re calm, express what upset you. Resolve issues quickly by scheduling a time and place for a candid conversation, no matter how painful it may be. 3. 📍Avoid Hurting Your Spouse: Just because you feel hurt doesn’t mean you should retaliate. Revenge leads to more chaos, hurt, and deterioration in the relationship. Choose to be the bigger person. 4. 📍Avoid D€structive Behavior: Do not destr0y property, throw things, or become physically vi0lent. Mature individuals do not resort to physical harm. 5. 📍Sleep in the Same Bedroom: Always choose to sleep in the same room and on the same bed. Avoiding each other by sleeping on the sofa or in separate rooms can lead to drifting apart. Maintain an attitude of "I am not going anywhere; we must work things out." 6. 📍Use Silence Wisely: When you or your spouse are angry, learn to keep quiet or walk away. Refrain from speaking, as you may say something you’ll later regret. 7. 📍Keep Communication Open: Even if you walk away, keep lines of communication open. Don’t turn off your phone or isolate yourself without a way for your spouse to reach you. 8. 📍Learn to Apologize: If you want a peaceful and lasting marriage, learn to say “I’m sorry.” This simple phrase can save your marriage more often than saying “I love you.” Acknowledge when you are wrong, and avoid being defensive. Remember, your home is not a courtroom. 9. 📍Let Go of Grudges: Forgiveness is a powerful tool. Holding onto others' offenses only affects you. Find it in your heart to forgive and to ask for forgiveness. The sooner you do so, the better your life will be. 10. 📍Affirm Your Love: In moments of anger, tell your spouse, “I love you,” even if they don’t say it back. Assurances of love are needed during tense times. Remember that love is based on commitment and truth, not just feelings. 11. 📍Reconsider Decisions Made in Anger: Take the time to double and triple-check decisions made in anger. It’s best to refrain from making any decisions when you’re upset, as angry decisions often lead to regret. 12. 📍Show Acts of Affection: Go out of your way to please your spouse. Consider gestures that show care and affection, such as cooking for them, serving them, giving a thoughtful gift, doing chores, or leaving a loving note. 13. 📍Pray Together: In moments of anger, take a moment to pray, both for yourself and your spouse. Prayer can bring about understanding and healing. 14. 📍Seek Help When Needed If anger is ruining your peace, affecting your health, or thr€atening your marriage, don’t suffer in silence. Talk to a licensed therapist or marriage counselor. Getting help is a sign of strength, not failure. Learning to control anger can be challenging, but if these strategies don’t help, consider reaching out to a mental health specialist for support. If your anger feels unmanageable or leads to regrettable actions, it’s important to seek help. May God give you the grace to control your anger

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