* The right one will love you unconditionally. Finding someone who genuinely cares about you and your well-being is extremely hard to find this day and age. Time and time again, I hear about someone walking away because things became "too hard." It's heartbreaking to see people give up on love so easily. You deserve someone who fights for you when things get difficult, and they aren't gonna be like "you know what? It's over" and throw everything away. *

* If that person really values you, there's no such thing as you being "too complicated." There's no such thing as you being "too crazy." There's no such thing as you being "too much." The right person will love you for who you are, quirks and all, and they'll be willing to make it work, despite what the obstacle is and whatever the problem may be, because losing you is never an option. No argument is going to push them away far enough, no fight is going to cause them to lose feelings, and no disagreement is going to make them drift away from you. *

* No matter how bad things get, they would never let it outweigh how much they care about you. No matter how dysfunctional things become, they would never let it take away the value of your relationship with them. A person who truly values you would never put themselves in a position to lose you. They'll hold on tight, work through the tough times, and prioritize your love and connection above all else. And when the dust settles, they'll be there, holding your hand, and loving you for all eternity. *

Real story

A man isn’t taking care of you if he provides, but cheats on you. Many times people ask women to settle for cheats as long as they get financial provisions. Provision goes beyond paying bills. How a man treats you asides from financial provision, and how he protects the intimacy you guys share is also provision— the provision of trust and security. Money cannot replace trust in a relationship.

*The Marriage Advice ..*


1. **Choose Love, Always:** Even in moments when you find it hard to like each other, choose to love. Love is a commitment, not just a feeling.

2. **Be Present:** Always answer the phone when your spouse calls. When you're together, try to keep your phone off, giving each other your full attention.

3. **Prioritize Time Together:** Make time with your spouse a top priority. Budget for regular date nights because time is the currency of relationships, and investing in your marriage is key.

4. **Surround Yourself with Support:** Keep company with friends who strengthen your marriage. Distance yourself from those who might tempt you to compromise your character.

5. **Laugh Together:** Make laughter the soundtrack of your marriage. Share joyful moments, and even in tough times, find reasons to laugh together.

6. **Team Up in Arguments:** In every disagreement, remember that you’re on the same team. There’s no winner or loser; you either win together or lose together. Work as partners to find solutions.

7. **Be Each Other’s Strength:** A strong marriage isn’t about both being strong at the same time. It’s about taking turns being strong for each other when one of you feels weak.

8. **Value Intimacy:** Prioritize what happens in the bedroom. While a strong marriage takes more than s=x, it’s nearly impossible to build a strong marriage without it.

9. **Give 100%, Not 50/50:** Marriage isn’t about splitting everything down the middle. Divorce is 50/50; marriage is 100/100, with both partners giving their all.

10. **Give Your Best:** Offer your best self to each other, not just the leftovers after you’ve given your best to everyone else.

11. **Embrace Uniqueness:** Learn from others, but resist comparing your marriage to anyone else’s. Your life is uniquely yours.

12. **Don’t Put Marriage on Hold:** Don’t neglect your marriage while raising your kids, or you might end up with an empty nest and an empty marriage.

13. **Be Transparent:** Never keep secrets from each other. Secrecy is the enemy of intimacy.

14. **Build Trust:** Never lie to each other. Trust is the foundation of a strong marriage, and lies will break it.

15. **Admit Mistakes:** When you’ve made a mistake, admit it and seek forgiveness humbly. Be quick to say, “I was wrong. I’m sorry. Please forgive me.”

16. **Forgive Quickly:** When trust is broken, be quick to forgive. This promotes healing and opens the door for trust to be rebuilt. Say, “I love you. I forgive you. Let’s move forward.”

17. **Practice Patience:** Your spouse is more important than your schedule. Be patient with each other.

18. **Model Love for Your Children:** Live the kind of marriage that inspires your sons to be good husbands and your daughters to be good wives.

19. **Protect Your Spouse:** Never speak badly about your spouse to others or vent about them online. Always protect them, in all places and at all times.

20. **Wear Your Ring:** Your wedding ring is a constant reminder that you’re connected to your spouse and that you’re off-limits to the rest of the world.

21. **Connect to Faith:** Being part of a faith community can make a world of difference in your marriage and family.

22. **Pray Together:** A marriage is stronger with God at its center. Pray together regularly.

23. **Choose Kindness:** If you have to choose between saying nothing or saying something mean to your spouse, choose to say nothing every time.

24. **Stay Committed:** Never consider annulment as an option. A perfect marriage is just two imperfect people who refuse to give up on each other.

The Cat dosen't want to smell shi*t
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The man that saw too much

DEAR LADIES : BITTER TRUTH YOU MUST SWALLOW :

1. Sex doesn't keep a man, if you like, turn 360% on bed, he will still dump you. Bleach until you become white, if he doesn't notice the qualities of a wife in you, he will leave you.

2. A man who win your love with cash may not stay forever. Real men don't settle down with fake women who love money.

3. The beauty of a woman can take her to a Palace but her character will determine how long she stays in the palace. Beauty attracts men but character keep them.

4. Material things definitely has its merits but it cannot alone provide the riches of a truly meaningful life.

5. Being sexy without a character will not get you a husband, you will only get a boyfriend.

6. Sex can bring pleasure but it can never bring love, sex is a product of love, love is not a product of sex.

7. Sex can make a man stay with you overnight but love will make him stay for a lifetime.

8. There are some things that money just can't buy like manners, moral and integrity.

9. How you dress will definitely determine how men will address you.

The original sound of funke

On this day seven years Liverpool sign Alison from Roma. And this was one of his best game

The reason parents love their children differently.
Hope this answers the questions you've been asking for ages

Listen carefully
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Family is everything

As a mother, if you know your baby has running nose, dry catarrh stains and patches on her face, scattered hair gummed with sand and water, dirty clothes on a dirty body with an offensive odour oozing from the center of her head, don't hand the baby to anyone in church or in public transit to help you carry.

Even if you're in a haste, take time to tidy your child up before stepping out.
If it's not necessary or if you can't, stay at home.

No matter how dirty you are please don't transfer it to your child because it always reflect on your child.

I'm saying this because of the experience I had today.
It's the baby that came and held me, he was stretching his hands for me to carry him after he had already stained my dress with all the dirt. At that point, I couldn't just help it, I had to carry him like that.

Put them good clothes, dip face towel inside clean water to clean your baby's face atleast before carrying her along, change the pampers when it is wet, bath them before leaving the house.

Don't attribute this to poverty because poverty and dirtiness are two different things. Make cleanliness a habit. Don't transfer your dirty lifestyle to an innocent child please.

I have delivered my message.

THANK YOU🙏🏽

Joy giver Baby


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*Women you need to hear this. *

Women: You don't have to do everything, you don't have to be a supermom, a super housewife, a super professional, a superwoman... Because when your body claims you, there will be few who will remember you tried to be all in one!

So get out of the house, travel, walk, workout, go to the park, go to a gym, eat what provokes you, fix yourself, sleep later, put on clothes you like, be yourself, take care of yourself, love yourself, say no sometimes and do it EXCLUSIVELY for YOU!!

Children grow up and leave, husbands don’t always stay, work can easily replace you, and the house will get dirty again, but your emotional health is also important and you may not get a second chance.

Happy weekend!

DON'T KILL YOURSELF BECAUSE YOU'RE LOVING SOMEONE.

You call them but they don’t pick up, they find your missed calls but they don’t call back.
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You text them but they never reply to any of your messages.
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You always have time for them but they are ever so busy for you, you want to meet them and have some mature talks with them but they are full of excuses.
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You do everything possible to make them happy but they don’t appreciate your effort, you introduced them to your friends and family but they have never introduced you to any important person in their life.
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You are so proud of them but they aren’t proud of you, you truly love them but you aren’t sure if they love you because they don’t show it, you want to spend your future with them but they don’t like to talk about future plans, you are doing everything you can to make the relationship work but they doing all their best to make it end.
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Then why are you with them? Why are you wasting your time and energy on them?
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Honestly you deserve someone better who will appreciate your effort and even return your love.

Stop wasting your time with that wrong person.
Get yourself together and move on. I know it isn’t easy, but if you know your worth, you’ll make it. Wake up today and stop suffering.

You are the best...