20 THINGS YOU SHOULD NEVER DO AS A WOMAN...!!!

1. Do not wear a vest or sleeveless top without shaving your armpits or without a bra underneath... No man, not even your husband, will like to see you that way.

2. Do not leave cheap nail polish to wear off on its own, there's a reason they sell nail polish remover...

3. If you can’t afford good quality weaves, don’t bother. Just pack your hair neatly.

4. Do not do artificial nails that make you look like a dragon queen, being simple is always sexy. Just try it once and you will love doing it always. Have you heard men talk about a lady being natural before? It's because they like natural women.

5. See-through leggings or a top used as a dress when you are out in public is a hell-to-the-no!

6. Never do things for a man with a hope of getting something in return, expectations are dangerous. Do it because you simply want to.

7. Never contradict what your man says in public.

8. Never stalk the man that left you for the other woman.

9. Do not share your best friend's personal life with every Tom, **** and Harry.

10. Women should never act on distress in relationships like checking your man’s phone, nagging him to death, and acting like a paranoid freak. You will simply release him to someone else by doing so.

11. Never dish out your entire family drama on a first date. The guy just wants to know about you.

12. Stop obsessing over your body. It’s good to eat healthy and work out but leave it at that.

13. Never over-accessorize. Stop looking like a Christmas tree.

14. Never leave home without lip-gloss, your phone and most of all your dignity.

15. Never leave your used sanitary towel in the toilet for the next person to see. Women please!

16. Never wear very high heels if you can’t do the Naomi Campbell walk. You look like a drunk grasshopper.

17. Never wear short skirts and low cut tops when off to an interview. You will create the wrong impression.

18. Never think you can threaten your man into submission. You simply get him irritated in the end.

19. Respect is reciprocal. You earn your man's respect if you respect him first. And finally,

20. Never wish to be like any other woman. There are others out there envying you for who you are... Be yourself!

HOW TO HANDLE SEXUAL ATTRACTION IN COURTSHIP...

Of course, I had high chemistry for my fiance in courtship! This thing called love can "shack", seize your brain and scatter your logic!

It felt so warm, so electric and so hot being in love with Dewunmi and I ran after him as much a he ran after me. He loved me, all of me. His smiles always melt my heart and his high level of self control was a sexual turn on on its own.

I wanted his hug badly but he wouldn't budge. 5 years was exciting without sex because we did more talking, facing our academics, passing in flying colours and working out our goals.

Then we graduated and we both had our jobs and he would visit me. My tall, slim, handsome virgin dude would always visit me. When I couldn't handle the crazy urge to merge anymore, we got married and sex has been passionate IN MARRIAGE with him. The fact that he waited till marriage and sleeps with only me gets me turned on for him easily.

Here is the point:

1. SEXUAL ATTRACTION IS NORMAL IN COURTSHIP: If it is God's will, you will have chemistry for each other. It is the erotic love needed to fulfill God's commandment of "Be fruitful and multiply" in marriage. Don't kill yourself with guilt because you often feel like kissing, hugging and having sex with her (as long as you don't do it, no need to hang yourself with condemnation). I was once single. I felt what you are feeling. That crazy urge is part of the total package called love.

2. SET BOUNDARIES: Setting boundaries will help you stay in check. No visitation beyond 7 o clock, no hugging, no kissing, no pecking, no nothing that will stir your hormones and make you lose your brain. You must stay sexually pure in courtship. Setting boundaries will help you a lot.

3. BE HONEST WITH EACH OTHER: Ovulation can sometimes jazz up your sexual desire making you lose control to something as simple as touch. Let him know the days you can't just see him talk less of touching. There are days as a man you know your libido is high, don't visit.

4. AVOID, FLIRTY, SEXY, MIDNIGHT CHATS: You will lose your sanity and get horny, the next time you see, you may land in bed and have sex with each other like crazy! Don't start what you can't finish and one day regret!

5. SET YOUR WEDDING DATE: If your sexual urge is getting unbearable, kindly set your wedding date and set yourself free. If you are still schooling, you might need to get a break from your courtship till you get your bearing and then resume.

Some singles might say, "What happens to self control?" Yes, you must have self control as a good born again Christian but courtship requires more than self control to keep your virginity/sexual purity. Setting boundaries is the key!

You can't be praying together on your bed on a cold rainy night and preach self control to each other. That is stupidity of the highest order! The bible says: "Can a man carry fire in his bossom and not be burnt?" Another passage says: "FLEE (run away) from all appearances of evil".

To keep your sanity in courtship, learn when to stay and when to run so you don't lose your sanity and come weeping you made a mistake.

May you not fall in Jesus' name.

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Some pre season results

*AVOIDING UNNECESSARY PRESSURE*

1. Put your kids in
schools you can afford
because expensive
schools don't
guarantee good
results. Just ensure
they attend a good
affordable school

2. Rent apartments you
can pay for
conveniently. Don’t live
in a house you struggle
to pay yearly.

3. Let’s plan our lives and
live within our means.
Save more and spend
less.

4. Some women buy food
for their children every
morning before going
to school or even for
the whole family, do
you know it’s cheaper
to cook at home?

5. Some people don’t
earn much, but have
DSTV at home, go for
GOTV and upgrade
when your income
upgrades. It’s still the
same CNN anyway!

6. Eat healthy meals and
protect your family
from mosquitoes to
avoid going to the
hospital always.

7. Take advantage of
food and fruits in
season, its cheaper
and you can be
creative to create
amazing meals.

8.Don’t copy your
neighbor’s lifestyle,
she earns well and her
husband is a ‘big
man’

9. Don’t follow trends,
wear clean well-
ironed clothes and
keep your hair neat.
You would still look
good.

10. Keep your circle
small, keep only
friends that have
senses!

11. Above all things, have
the fear of God, have
integrity, don’t be lazy
and be prayerful.

12. Planning is the key, if
you fail to plan, you
plan to FAIL.

13. Don't do more than
your budget this
Time, there is no
award given to best
family that wore an
expensive cloth for
the year

14.Don't be in
competition with
anyone...
The purpose of shoes
and clothes are to
make us smart and
good.

Some pre season results

DON'T KILL YOURSELF BECAUSE YOU'RE LOVING SOMEONE.

You call them but they don’t pick up, they find your missed calls but they don’t call back.
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You text them but they never reply to any of your messages.
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You always have time for them but they are ever so busy for you, you want to meet them and have some mature talks with them but they are full of excuses.
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You do everything possible to make them happy but they don’t appreciate your effort, you introduced them to your friends and family but they have never introduced you to any important person in their life.
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You are so proud of them but they aren’t proud of you, you truly love them but you aren’t sure if they love you because they don’t show it, you want to spend your future with them but they don’t like to talk about future plans, you are doing everything you can to make the relationship work but they doing all their best to make it end.
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Then why are you with them? Why are you wasting your time and energy on them?
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Honestly you deserve someone better who will appreciate your effort and even return your love.

Stop wasting your time with that wrong person.
Get yourself together and move on. I know it isn’t easy, but if you know your worth, you’ll make it. Wake up today and stop suffering.

You are the best...

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*LEARN TO KEEP GOOD RELATIONSHIPS WITH PEOPLE — LIFE GOES AROUND*

You never know who you’ll need tomorrow.
You never know who will speak your name in rooms you’ve never entered.

Life is a circle.
Today you’re up, tomorrow it might be someone else.
And the person you looked down on yesterday
might become the one holding the key to your next breakthrough.

Be kind.
Be respectful.
Be genuine.

Don’t use and dump people.
Don’t only reach out when you need something.
Don’t let pride close doors that favor would have opened.

It’s not about eye service.
It’s about wisdom.
It’s about people.
Because no matter how gifted or anointed you are,
someone somewhere still needs to recommend you.

So build real connections.
Keep clean hands.
And treat people well — not because you’re weak,
but because you’re wise.

Because life goes around.
And when it comes back around,
you’ll either meet mercy…
or pay for bridges you burned carelessly.

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HER PAST WILL BECOME YOUR PROBLEM

Listen up, son.

The world loves lying to men like you.
Telling you her past doesn’t matter.
That love will erase the bodies, the heartbreaks, the reckless years.

It won’t.

Her past won’t disappear.
It’ll just move in with you.

Let’s break it down:

1️⃣ EVERY HEARTBREAK SHE BURIED, YOU’LL INHERIT
The men she let in, the lies she told herself, the pieces of her she lost — all of it comes to your doorstep disguised as “love.”

2️⃣ A WOMAN WITH TEN BODIES CARRIES TEN LESSONS, TEN WOUNDS, TEN HABITS
You won’t see them — but you’ll feel them.
In her walls.
In her coldness.
In her inability to trust you even when you’ve done nothing wrong.

3️⃣ “EXPERIENCE” DOESN’T MEAN WISDOM
If all she’s learned is seduction, rejection, and trauma, you’re not getting a wife — you’re joining a performance.
And guess who’s footing the bill?
You.

4️⃣ NUMBNESS IS NOT STRENGTH
If she laughs about chaos, mocks broken homes, and treats pain like entertainment — she’s not strong.
She’s numb.
And numb people don’t love.
They control.

5️⃣ NEVER RAISE ANOTHER MAN’S CHILD
A child may be innocent, but the decision was hers.
That isn’t your burden.
You build your own legacy.
Your own firsts.
Your own family line.
Without apology.

6️⃣ LOVE DOESN’T ERASE CONSEQUENCES
No matter how soft she sounds.
How beautiful she looks.
How sweet her promises.

If her past is a wildfire — don’t marry into ashes.

FINAL WORD:
Son, choose peace over chaos.
Legacy over lust.
Truth over pity.
You deserve your own firsts.
A wife of your youth.
Children with your name.
A home, not a museum of old heartbreaks.

Stand tall in that.
Own it.

Because real men build futures — they don’t rescue broken stories.

➥𝐩𝐥𝐞𝐚𝐬𝐞 𝐧𝐝𝐨𝐤𝐮𝐦𝐛𝐢𝐫𝐚𝐰𝐨 𝐧𝐞𝐦𝐰𝐞𝐲𝐚 𝐰𝐚𝐌𝐰𝐚𝐫𝐢 𝐮𝐧𝐠𝐨𝐬𝐢𝐲𝐚𝐰𝐨 𝐜𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐨 𝐨𝐧𝐞 𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐳𝐯𝐚𝐫𝐨❤‍🩹

May we not have this Kind of wife



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The irony of life by Apostle Joshua Serman
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IMPORTANCE OF SAYING SORRY IN A RELATIONSHIP AND MARRIAGE WHEN YOU ARE WRONG

Apologizing is an essential part of maintaining a healthy, strong, and resilient relationship or marriage. It serves as a bridge to healing, restoring trust, and building a deeper connection with your partner. Here’s why saying sorry is so important:

WHY APOLOGIZE?

1. Acknowledges hurt or wrongdoing
An apology signals that you recognize the pain or harm caused by your actions, showing that you care about how your partner feels.

2. Shows empathy and understanding
It reflects an understanding of your partner's perspective and emotions, demonstrating that you value their feelings.

3. Diffuses tension and conflict
Apologizing helps to de-escalate difficult situations, calming emotions and clearing the air for healthy communication.

4. Rebuilds trust and credibility
A sincere apology demonstrates your willingness to take responsibility for your actions, which helps rebuild lost trust and re-establish credibility in your relationship.

5. Demonstrates accountability and responsibility
Apologizing shows you are accountable for your actions, accepting responsibility rather than deflecting blame.

6. Encourages forgiveness and healing
Saying sorry opens the door to forgiveness, allowing both partners to move forward and heal together.

7. Strengthens communication and intimacy
Apologizing fosters open, honest conversations, deepening emotional intimacy and mutual understanding.

8. Sets a positive example for conflict resolution
By apologizing, you teach the importance of humility, reconciliation, and healthy conflict resolution to others, especially children or those observing your relationship.

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BENEFITS OF APOLOGIZING

1. Reduces stress and anxiety
Apologies clear the air, easing emotional tension and creating a more peaceful environment.

2. Increases feelings of love and affection
A heartfelt apology can rekindle affection, making your partner feel valued and loved, even after a disagreement.

3. Improves communication and understanding
Apologizing encourages open dialogue and helps both partners understand each other better, leading to stronger communication.

4. Enhances relationship satisfaction
Relationships where apologies are given sincerely are more likely to be fulfilling and positive.

5. Encourages personal growth and self-awareness
Apologizing invites self-reflection, allowing both partners to learn from their mistakes and grow individually and together.

6. Fosters a culture of respect and empathy
By apologizing, you reinforce a culture where mutual respect and empathy thrive, making the relationship a safe space for both partners.

7. Helps to avoid resentment and anger
Avoiding the “silent treatment” or holding grudges, a genuine apology helps to prevent negative emotions from building up over time.

8. Promotes a healthier and happier relationship
Relationships that feature regular, honest apologies are healthier and more likely to be enduring because they are rooted in love and respect.

HOW TO APOLOGIZE EFFECTIVELY
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1. Use the "3 Rs" of apology: Regret, Responsibility, and Remedy
Regret the hurt caused, take responsibility for your actions, and suggest a remedy for moving forward.

2. Be sincere and genuine in your apology
Authenticity is key. A half-hearted apology can often do more harm than good.

3. Listen actively to your partner's concerns
Give your partner space to express their feelings and truly listen without interrupting or defending yourself.

4. Validate your partner's feelings and experiences
Acknowledge that your partner's feelings are valid, even if you didn’t intend to hurt them.

5. Offer a specific solution or plan for change
Demonstrate your commitment to improving by offering a clear solution or changes you’ll make moving forward.

6. Follow through on your commitments
An apology is only meaningful if it’s backed up by action. Ensure that you take steps to avoid repeating the same mistake.

7. Show empathy and understanding
Show that you truly understand how your actions have impacted your partner, not just in words but in actions as well.

8. Be patient and open to feedback
Healing takes time. Be patient with your partner and open to hearing how they feel, even if it takes time to forgive.

TIPS FOR MEN

1. Swallow your pride and admit fault
It takes strength to admit when you’re wrong. Let go of your ego to foster a deeper connection.

2. Use "I" statements to take ownership
Phrases like “I am sorry for…” rather than “You made me do…” put the responsibility on you.

3. Avoid making excuses or justifying
Resist the urge to explain away the mistake. Just apologize and focus on your partner’s feelings.

4. Show vulnerability and emotional intelligence
Being open about your emotions builds trust and shows that you care about your partner's feelings.

5. Be willing to make amends
Your partner should feel that your apology is sincere, so be prepared to make real changes if necessary.



TIPS FOR WOMEN

1. Communicate clearly and assertively
Share your feelings honestly and directly, avoiding passive-aggressive behavior or withholding.

2. Specify what you need from your partner
Let your partner know what will help resolve the issue or what you need moving forward.

3. Avoid being critical or judgmental
Offer a soft, loving approach when addressing the issue, rather than criticizing or pointing fingers.

4. Show appreciation for your partner's apology
When your partner apologizes, acknowledge their effort and express gratitude for their sincerity.

5. Encourage open and honest communication
Foster a space where both partners can freely express their feelings without fear of judgment.

WHEN TO APOLOGIZE

1. After a conflict or argument
Don’t wait for too long to apologize. Address the issue as soon as possible to prevent lingering resentment.

2. When you've hurt or offended your partner
If your words or actions have caused pain, it’s important to recognize that and apologize immediately.

3. When you've made a mistake or error
A simple acknowledgment that you were wrong goes a long way in healing wounds.

4. When you've broken a promise or commitment
If you’ve failed to keep your word, apologize and demonstrate that you can be trusted moving forward.

5. When you've disregarded your partner's feelings
Apologizing when you’ve been insensitive shows respect for your partner's emotional well-being.

Saying sorry isn’t just about saying words; it’s about understanding, acknowledging, and healing. By apologizing effectively, you strengthen your relationship, deepen trust, and build a stronger foundation for the future.

If someone really cares about you, they care about how their actions affect you and how they make you feel.

They don’t just think about what they want or what is convenient for them, they consider your feelings, too. they pay attention to your emotions, see things from your perspective, and try to understand why you feel the way you do.

They don’t brush off your concerns or act like your problems don’t matter. they don’t make you feel like a burden for opening up. instead, they create a safe space where you feel comfortable being vulnerable. and even if they don’t always agree with you, they still respect your emotions and make an effort to be considerate.

Because if someone truly cares, you won’t have to constantly wonder how much you matter to them. you’ll feel it in the way they treat you. and they will never make you feel like you’re too much for having emotions. Don't go without reacting I beg you. Also follow our new channel 🥹

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Today, I want you to remember how much you mean to me and how thankful I am that you always choose to stay with me. I am not a perfect person, and I am not trying to be one, but I want you to know that I will try my best to make you happy. I love seeing you happy; did you know that? I love your eyes, your eyebrows, your hands, and most importantly, your smile. I wish you would smile so often when you're with me. But even if you don't, I will still fall for you.

I want you to know that you mean the world to me. I love you, and I know that you have heard it so many times from me. But I still want to tell you that I love you every day, and I love you still even after a thousand years. Most people will never understand us; some of them even think that we're not perfect for each other. But the truth is, they never know about us. They never know what we've been through just to keep each other. And for that, thank you for still loving me. My love, thank you for still holding me in your arms. I want you to know that I'll be here for you too, holding your hands tighter and reminding you that I will always love you.

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