"Don't deny your husband s3x. If you are too tired, just lie down and open your legs for him to do it, you don't need to do any work. And never compare your husband to any man no matter who he is or how rich he his or how handsome he is or weakness he is or how Good he is.... E get why

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"When my sxxtape went viral on social media and many people were talking about it, I thought my colleagues, who are also celebrities, would support me, but none of them made a post to support me in that difficult situation.

Since then, I hardly support people because when I needed support, none of the people I had already supported stood by me. But thank God, the video was deleted from all social media platforms and all devices.

To be honest, people only support you when they know it benefits them. Choose your circle of friends wisely."- Tiwa Savage

START YOUR MARRIAGE IN A ONE ROOM APARTMENT

If that is all you have.

All you need is a good bed, two chairs, one table, cooking utensils and a cooker!

Then work like a horse! Save like an elephant and invest in a business you understand and have passion for! Grow it and invest on other businesses!

Don't sleep on that bed beyond 5:00am max!

You have work to do or you will live in that one bedroom for life!

Ensure you marry a lady with financial sense! Every kobo that passes through her hands must be accounted for! Wastage is not allowed!

As she earns, she budgets, saves, buys food in bulk, cut off unnecessary expenses and avoid debt like plague!

Marry a business lady who knows how to buy, sell and make profit! Marry the one who knows how to turn 5k to 10k, to 20k and up it goes. Do not marry one who earns 50k and blasts it before the month is over!

You can delay child bearing for a year or two till you have enough money to move into a bigger apartment!

This post is not for everybody! It is for singles delaying marriage because they don't earn enough! No one totally earns enough at the beginning to live the life of their dreams, we all have to grow to get there!

If you are earning good income and can afford a bigger and better apartment, please do! Make your wife and children comfortable and keep growing!

Whether low or high income, no one should be redundant, everyone should keep growing, keep striving, keep aspiring, keep dreaming, keep achieving, keep building!

That is what makes marriage exciting and beautiful in the first place! In fact, that is the essence of marriage!

You may never achieve a level of success until you get married, so stop running, start planning!

Pray to have a good, understanding, wise woman by your side, with that, my brother, carry go, nothing do you!

The sky is just the beginning!

I see you achieving super success in marriage!

Be blessed!

~ Seun Oladele
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Adex Anointed

PLS A SINCERE CONTRIBUTION IS NEEDED...I THINK I GO WITH THIS LADY'S OPINION...

Gather here if you understand...

Here are 5 signs your marriage may be at risk of not working:

1. Chronic Lack of Communication
If you and your partner avoid meaningful conversations or constantly misinterpret each other, it’s a sign of deeper disconnection.


2. Persistent Contempt or Resentment
Eye-rolling, sarcasm, or feelings of superiority over your partner show contempt — a major predictor of relationship breakdown.


3. Emotional or Physical Withdrawal
When one or both partners stop trying, avoid intimacy, or spend more time apart without concern, it signals detachment.


4. Unresolved Conflicts
If fights never lead to resolution or keep looping back to the same issues, it can wear down both partners and lead to burnout.


5. Lack of Trust or Repeated Betrayals
Whether it’s infidelity, secrecy, or dishonesty, broken trust — especially when it isn’t rebuilt — undermines the foundation of a marriage.

NO PLAY....I LAUGHED IN CHINESE...HAAAAAAAAA

1) When moving into a new environment, move in at night rather than during the day. This can help prevent unwanted attention. It will also keep intruders or unwanted observers from assessing your belongings.

2) Pay bills on time, it commands respect.

3) When you move into a new compound, you'll likely encounter people who are overly eager to become your friend. Avoid them, they can become a problem soon.

4) As a woman, avoid the hair salon close to your house, if you value your privacy. Your personal matters might be discussed there.

5) Avoid over familiarity with neighbours. The moment you start, it's hard to withdraw.

6) Avoid embarrassing your partner in public. Instead, praise them in public, but caution them in private. Public humiliation can lead others, including neighbours, to belittle your partner.

7) Avoid attending a nearby church if you don't want constant visits and extra responsibilities.

8) Have your own space for drying clothes. Avoid using your neighbour's drying line. It may lead to misunderstanding one day.

9) Be mindful of the personal items you display. Some neighbours might borrow them repeatedly, not because they can't afford them, but because they like getting things for free.

10) Avoid people who ask you to avoid others. They often have a bád character that will uncover soon.

11) When you want to play music, play it low. When you want to pray, pray quietly, don't disturb others.

12) If you have kids, caution them. Kids can cause you to have issues with your neighbours.

13) There are neighbours who see greeting as their birthright. They'll never greet you but always expect you to greet them first. When you notice such an attitude from a neighbour, sometimes don't greet, just walk past.

14) Avoid too much borrowing.

15) Don't discuss family problems or weaknesses with a neighbour unless the person is extremely mature. It can lead to see finish.

16) Avoid sexûal relationship with your neighbours. It usually doesn't end well.

17) Avoid a compound where the landlord or landlady lives on the premises unless you know their character is good. Otherwise, they might impose annoying rules and increase rent when they notice your progress.

18) If the house is managed by a caretaker, ensure your rent reaches the landlord. Communicate directly with the landlord, even if they live abroad, to avoid misappropriation of your funds.

"I see your pain, even when you hide it behind a brave smile. Being in a toxic marriage can feel lonely, confusing, and heavy — like you're carrying the weight of love that’s turned into a burden. Please remember: this is not your fault. You are not weak for feeling broken. You are strong for surviving each day in a place that drains you.

You deserve love that doesn’t hurt, that doesn’t belittle or break you down. You deserve peace, safety, and joy — not fear or constant tears. I hope you know that it’s okay to choose yourself. It’s okay to step away from what’s breaking you to find what can heal you. And if you ever need someone to talk to, someone who won’t judge — I’m here."

*Of course. Here’s a sweet and encouraging LOVE message you can send to your wife before she sleeps*


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My love, as you lay your head down tonight, I just want you to know how deeply proud I am of you. You are strong, beautiful, and everything I could ever hope for. Rest peacefully, knowing that tomorrow holds more blessings—and I’ll be right here, cheering you on every step of the way. Sleep well, my queen. I love you more than words can say.

Here are some of the best relationship quotes that capture love, trust, and connection:

On Love and Connection

1. "You know you’re in love when you can’t fall asleep because reality is finally better than your dreams." – Dr. Seuss


2. "The best thing to hold onto in life is each other." – Audrey Hepburn


3. "Love doesn’t make the world go round. Love is what makes the ride worthwhile." – Franklin P. Jones



On Trust and Loyalty

4. "A healthy relationship is built on unwavering trust, respect, and loyalty." – Unknown


5. "The best proof of love is trust." – Joyce Brothers


6. "Love is not about possession. It’s all about appreciation." – Osho



On Growth Together

7. "A great relationship is about two things: First, appreciating the similarities, and second, respecting the differences." – Unknown


8. "We loved with a love that was more than love." – Edgar Allan Poe


9. "True love is not about perfection, it is hidden in flaws, in learning, in growing together." – Unknown



On Endurance and Commitment

10. "A strong relationship requires choosing to love each other even in those moments when you struggle to like each other." – Dave Willis


11. "In the end, the best relationships are the ones where you can be yourself and still be deeply loved." – Unknown

WISDOM IS PROFITABLE TO DIRECT... THEREFORE GET WISDOM...GOOD MORNING ALL...HAVE A WONDERFUL AND MEMORABLE WEEKEND....

If my HUSBAND CHEATS on ME, I won’t DÏVŌRCE him.

Yes, even though CHÊÃTÏNG is LEGALLY one of the GROUNDS for DÏVŌRCE, I won’t TAKE that ROUTE.

As a LAWYER, I KNOW my RIGHTS but as a WIFE, a MOTHER, and a BELIEVER in the covenant of marriage, I also know my VALUES.

UNLESS my HUSBAND wants to MARRY ANOTHER WIFE or becomes VIOLËNT, that’s when I’ll CONSIDER DÏVŌRCE.

But for just CHEATING? No.

I’ll ADDRESS it, we’ll Work through it, and we’ll move on.

Even though CHÊÃTÏNG PIERCES through the HEART and very PAINFUL too

MARRIAGE is DEEPER than EMOTIONS.

Our marriages must work.

Stella Justice

"Baby, leave my bre*st let me watch this movie in peace na, you de rush the bre*st like say na shawarma wey you thief "

"Don't tell me that oh, when I married you, I paid for my bre*st too, eh, this movie I'm watching is not as interesting as what I am touching "

Oluchi almost choked with laughter

"Okay, just put your hand inside since it's scratching you, ashawo husband like you"

"See you forming good person, when night reach now, you be wriggling like someone under annointing. You that does not allow me to sleep in the night, you de run marathon like all these people for Ethiopia and Kenya "

Oluchi looked at Ken, pretending to be angry.

"So because I de try manage you, you de run mouth ba? No worry, no show for you this night, konji go kill you this night, bet me" she said stretching out her hands.

"If dem born you well make you try am. I will cry till the whole neighbors will wake up and ask what the problem is, I will tell them my wife does not want me to sacrifice to the gods "

She laughed hard again and gave him a mild kiss.

"Oya, see eh, just make me my favorite food na, by the time the meal is ready, I will be done with the movie "

Ken quickly runs to the kitchen and puts on his apron as he proceeds to make her favorite food, jollof rice, and fried plantain.

Just then there is a knock on the door and Oluchi opens the door to welcome Jude, Ken's friend.

They exchange pleasantries and she tells him that Ken is in the kitchen.

"Kitchen?" he asked with a surprise look on his face.

"What is he doing there? "

"He is planting mango in the kitchen sink, of course, he is cooking, " Oluchi said with a smirk on her face. She's never liked him.

"So your husband is in the kitchen cooking while you watch TV?"

Just as she was about to reply to him, Ken came out from the kitchen.
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"Ken wassup, I was just asking of you, your wife said you were in the kitchen, " Jude said with a grin on his face.

"You make it sound like it's a bad thing man, How can't I help her out making her favourite meanwhile she has been the one preparing what keeps me handsome and fresh

Oluchi full with smile on her face

Okay Ken so I will be taking my leave now replied by jude while he left with thought on his mind....

Hmmmm...May God continue to protect us....what a bad experience....

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