#c12• 3 WAYS TO BE A HELPER TO A MAN WHO IS STILL A BEGINNER If you’re dating a man who is still building - not there yet, but on the journey - understand this: He doesn’t need another bill to carry. He needs a builder beside him. Being a helper is not about cooking, cleaning, or giving him money. It’s about what you carry in spirit, in mindset, and in presence. Let me show you three ways to actually help a man who is still in his early stages: 📌 1. Be His Encourager - Not His Pressure Point There’s already pressure on his shoulders from life, expectations, and inner fears. What he doesn’t need is a woman constantly reminding him of what he’s not. Be the voice that lifts, not the one that drains. “I believe in you” may not sound deep but to a serious man, it lights a fire that can make him conquer the world. Don’t compare him to other men. Instead, remind him of what God put in him. 📌 2. Be Resourceful This is where many ladies miss it. Love is not just about texting and calling all day. It’s also in knowing how to recognise a need and adding value. Many have been programmed to only see themselves as RECEIVERS so they struggle with value addition. Men are problem solvers so when they have issues, they only want to talk about it if they perceive solution can come from the person. Are you someone a man can discuss an issue with and solutions will come out? Can you connect him to a solution or suggest an idea that moves him forward? What connection do you have that can draw him closer to the achievement of his goals? That’s what being a helper means: not doing the work for him but contributing wisdom, insight, or access that helps him rise. 📌 3. Be a Woman of Prayer Everybody prays. But not everybody receives answers. If your prayer life is dry, now is the time to build it. Because there are some men whose next level is tied to the woman they’re connected to spiritually. You may be his prophetic push. When he is tired, confused, or stuck, can you stand in the gap? Can you intercede for his clarity, his favour, his steps? Don’t just be a prayer link sharer - carry authority in the place of prayer. Helpers don’t just encourage in the physical. They war in the spirit. In the physical, a woman is the ONLY means through which life comes into this world. What do you think she represents spiritually? You are to birth things. That same word “helper” used for the woman in Genesis is also used to describe God in the Bible. When you show up in a man’s life, don’t show up as a burden. Show up as a solution. You are not the needy, you are the needed. You are a HELPER. ©sirpopty®

#c12• 26-06-2025 LEARN TO BE PRAGMATIC Accept others for who they are, especially those whom you frequently interact with. You can only change yourself and no one else. If you can't love others unconditionally, at least try to accept them as such, which may make you experience fewer conflicts and more happiness. My grandma told me. Good morning 🌅🌄

#c12• You are not yet a failure until you BLAME someone else. #sirpopty