If ur husband de help u do house work, his very lovely and caring but when ur brother de do the same to im wife, u go say im wife don use juju for am

Nollywood Actress, Toke Makinwa Reveals The Reason Why She's Still Single In A Recent Interview In her words, She said Men of nowadays don't put efforts in relationships anymore... "I remember times you'll block your man and she'll start calling and texting with his friends number and even email but now they won't even move an inch. Love has become really worthless" - Toke says

If You Make It Too Comfortable for Her to Love You—You’ll Never Know If She Does. Because comfort hides character. And ease erases effort. Let’s stop acting naive. She didn’t love you. She loved how easy it was to be with you. You brought the car. You picked the bills. You paid the rent. You moved her into the good life. And now you’re surprised she vanished when things got hard? She didn’t change. You just never made her prove anything to begin with. Because if you make it too comfortable for her to love you, you’ll never know if she actually does. 1. You Should Have Hidden Your Hand—Not Played It All at Once You showed her your wallet before you saw her heart. You revealed your status before you saw her substance. You led with lifestyle, not leadership. You were busy trying to win her… while she was watching if someone better was coming. You didn’t date her. You sponsored her. And when the lifestyle paused, so did the affection. 2. Every Woman Is Sweet in Soft Life—Wait Until the Pressure Hits She cooked. She cleaned. She moaned like a lovebird. But that was before rent was due, and your business dipped. Now she sighs every time you talk. Now “you’ve changed.” Now she “needs space.” She didn’t lose feelings. She lost benefits. She was never tested, never strained, never asked to choose you without comfort. So when real life entered—she exited. 3. If You Want Loyalty, Create Conditions That Reveal It Say no. Delay gratification. Hold back your resources. Slow down the rewards. Let her meet the man—not the gifts. Let her see the work—not just the wins. If she only claps when you’re balling, she’s not your wife. She’s your fan. And fans don’t stay when the performance ends. 4. You’re Playing by the Heart—She’s Learning from the Pros You’re out here thinking, “If I love her enough, she’ll stay.” But she’s studying the algorithm. Learning from TikTok therapists, divorced aunties, and girls who say: “Never settle.” “If he slips—dip.” “Upgrade, don’t wait.” You’re loving from the chest. She’s planning with her checklist. You’re thinking about forever. She’s thinking about her next option. You’re loyal. She’s strategic. And if you pause, she’ll replace you—before you even finish explaining yourself. 5. The Substitute Strategy Works Because Every New Man Overperforms She knows: Every new man starts with his best self. New man = new effort = new benefits. So why should she struggle with a man in “grind mode” when a fresh suitor is flying her out by Thursday? Why endure… when substitution brings faster results? She’s not in it for the process. She’s in it for the payoff. 6. Her Circle Is the Whispering Wind Behind the Exit You think she’s just “overthinking.” No, she’s being influenced. By friends who already left. By single mothers who want her free. By social media stars who preach quitting over building. “Girl, you too fine to be suffering.” “He’s not your only option.” “You deserve soft life.” Now your hard-working hands look like punishment. Your discipline looks like control. Your vision feels like a burden. She’s no longer yours— she’s theirs. 7. Her Loyalty Is Built on Lifestyle, Not Love You gave her the best. Now she can’t even manage the average. You brought her up from struggle— Now she calls that struggle “toxic.” You turned her life around— Now she sees you as the bare minimum. She never wanted to grow with you. She just wanted to benefit from your elevation. And once the stream dries up, so does the “I love you.” 8. She Doesn’t Want the Builder—She Wants the Finished Product She’s not waiting for the house to be complete. She wants the mansion, furnished, scented, and photo-ready. If your money isn’t loud, if your life isn’t soft, if your timing isn’t perfect— She’s gone. And when you finally make it, she’ll return as a “changed woman.” But brother, don’t fall for the remix of what already failed the first audition. Final Truth: You Thought You Were Her Blessing—She Saw You as a Bridge You gave her ease. She gave you attitude. You gave her stability. She gave you silence. Because you made it too easy. Too sweet. Too convenient. And in a world where options are endless, easy love is easily replaced. Final Word to Men: Discipline yourself. Slow down your yes. Don’t offer the palace before you test the peasant. Make her show up when the lights are off. Make her prove herself when there’s nothing to post. Make her stay when the world says she should leave. Because if she can’t endure pressure, she doesn’t deserve the palace. And if she’s only sweet when it’s easy, she’s a luxury guest—not a life partner. Let the comments fly. We’ve all got a story. #Masculinity #TestHerFirst #SacrificeVsSubstitute #ModernWomen #BuildSmart

*NOT ALL MEDICINES ARE IN PHARMACIES!!!* *1 - Exercise is medicine.* *2 - Fasting is medicine.* *3 - Natural food is medicine.* *4 - Laughter is medicine.* *5 - Vegetables and fruits are medicine.* *6 - Sleep is medicine.* *7 - Sunlight is medicine.* *8 - Loving others is medicine* *9 - Loving yourself is medicine.* *10 - Gratitude is medicine.* *11 - Letting go of offense is medicine.* *12 - Meditation is medicine.* *13 - Reading and studying the Word of God is medicine.* *14 - Eating well, on time and without excess is medicine.* *15 - Right thinking and with a good *mindset is medicine.* *16 - Trusting in God is medicine* *17 - Good friends are medicine.* *18 -. Forgiving yourself and forgiving others is medicine.* *19 - Drinking plenty of water is medicine.* *20 - A peaceful heart is medicine* *21- Allowing others grow is medicine* *Take enough of these medications and you will rarely need the ones from pharmacies.* *Do well by sharing this medicine to your loved ones if you really care.* 🥰 *Because natural medicine is better than pharmaceutical medicine!*✨🪄 Care for your health.💚💛💙💜🙏

"Nigerians are k!lling it in the entertainment industry, I Love Nigeria." Kanye West "Nigerians are very hardworking. One thing I always tell people is if they can be as hardworking as Nigerians, they'll be doing great. They're hardworking like Chinese, Indians, and all other hardworking nations. Nigeria is my favorite African country and I'm go to Nigeria someday." ~ Kanye West Nigerian artistes are really putting Nigerians on the map bruh. Even Kanye West now wishes he was a Nigerian 🇳🇬🙌

Love at first sight or attraction at first sifht.? Can you love what you do not know?

WHY MEN ARE CALLED "GROOM”, AND THE WOMAN “THE BRIDE” ON WEDDING DAY? Why is the newly wedded man called GROOM and the woman called BRIDE? A friend of mine got tired of his WIFE just about six months after wedding. He complained bitterly to me about her and told me that he has concluded to break up with her; he went on to say that he was sure that he made a mistake. I did not respond immediately because I knew I must tell him the right thing, so I went home. And that is what birth this message. Many MEN have broken up with their WIVES because they end up not being the WIFE that they have dreamt of. But they have forgotten that on their wedding day was when the man was commissioned for the new task. Nobody calls the woman WIFE on her wedding day but BRIDE, because it is the man that will GROOM his BRIDE to become the WIFE. That is why the man is called ‘BRIDEGROOM or GROOM’ and the word grooming has to do with PATIENTLY NURTURING, TEACHING, TENDING and HELPING someone to become what he or she should be. It is therefore believed that a MAN that takes a WOMAN to the ALTAR of MARRIAGE is matured enough to patiently GROOM his BRIDE to become the WIFE. The man is not supposed to just expect the BRIDE to automatically become the WIFE, she must be groomed. It is clear that many men have unnecessary expectations when they were getting married, they want some magic to happen to their wives, they want them to become what they have had in mind about who they want their wives to be; not considering the fact that the woman does not know what is on your mind except you teach her. Our expectations are often too unrealistic, because we don’t remember that change takes TIME and we can only expect something from someone that knows what we want. So before you think of breaking up, have you groomed her? Have you given her TIME to understand you? Hope you realize that a turtle will never become a hawk? God often brings People that are opposites of each other together in MARRIAGE so that they can HELP EACH OTHER in their place of weaknesses. If your WIFE is weak where you are weak, then where will you get the strength that is needed? The problem with many of us is that we don’t accept People before attempting to change them. Of course, your wives are not from your backgrounds, so it will take TIME for them to adjust. Stop trying to change her, ACCEPT her, LOVE her, TEACH her and be PATIENT with her; that is what grooming is all about. She is going to be your WIFE but she is your BRIDE now, so GROOM her. Stop complaining about her, she may be a turtle and you a hawk, she cannot fly so be PATIENT with her. I don’t believe that your MARRIAGE can’t work, be PATIENT and allow GOD to HELP you. May Almighty God continue to be with us, guide and protect us in all our affairs Amen!!! Wishing you the best Marital Life ever to all single Ladies,Bros and Married ones here. You will have the marriage of your dreams. A marriage made in heaven.

No Matter How Much You Love Her, Never Tell A Woman These 2 Things In Relationship or Marriage Did you know that women can tolerate mild insults very well, especially if they come from a partner or a close friend? Choose this lesson if you were not aware of this knowledge. Imagine meeting a stunning woman who possesses all of these unique traits as well as a nice appearance. You would undoubtedly pay attention to this woman You both decide to begin dating one another after falling in love, and you’re all eager to start your new love lives. When you get to that point, when you’re completely smitten with her, you’ll feel as though you can tell her anything without worrying that she’ll reject you. Permit me to interrupt you there: love should never make you forget the reality about certain things, no matter how much you might want to. 1. You absolutely must not ever tell her how many different women you have been in your life. In this situation, she would always be on the lookout for you. I know that being open and honest about things isn’t necessarily the worst course of action, but there’s a chance that doing so can have unforeseen effects. If you have had romantic relationships with more than 15 different women, you may disclose that you have an ex-girlfriend; otherwise, you should keep this information to yourself You shouldn’t bring up any unfavorable things your family has said about her. Because of this, she might grow to hate your family, break up with you, and be upset about it, which could lead her to develop unjustified resentment toward them. You should never discuss the derogatory things that your family has said about her, instead of trying to correct her when she makes a mistake.

If a woman behaves like a child, it's because she's with a real man. She feels safe. If a woman behaves like a mother, it's because she's with a boy. She feels like she has to raise him up. If a woman behaves like a man, she's with a weak man. She's been forced to step in and be the leader. If a woman behaves anxious and in need of constant reassurance, it's because she's with an unfaithful man. She doesn't have trust issues. It's him who has loyalty issues. If a woman behaves unsettled and always feels like quitting the relationship, it's because she's with an unprotective man. He leaves her to fight against the people in his life instead of shielding her and their union. If a woman is always overworking, she's with a lazy man. She feels financially exposed and she's trying to make up for the difference. The point is that a woman's behaviour is often a reflection of the energy she's receiving from her man. Does every woman have their own growing to do with or without a man? Yes, of course. Even so, a relationship can turn a woman into someone she's not. Even when a woman has done her growth and inner work, she could still become very dysfunctional if she's with the wrong man. Because of this, before you diagnose yourself with depression or anxiety or declare yourself unfit for love, check the type of men you've been dealing with. What role have they been casting you into? A good woman is not just submissive. She's also responsive. Always confirm if your stressful behaviour is truly coming from you, or if it's just a response. ()©️ Benjamin Zulu Global)

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