"It is better to fail in originality than to succeed in imitation." #samblog

A Child is Gone—Because of a Phone. I saw on CNN, A boy left home in anger because his parents seized his phone. He never returned. He died. Pause and let that sink in. A life is lost, a family is shattered, and all of us as parents are left asking—where do we draw the line? Smartphones have become the heartbeat of this generation. To our children, a phone is more than just a device; it’s their connection to the world, their friendships, their entertainment, and even their safe space. But what happens when that connection is cut off abruptly? When they feel unheard? When the device they hold so dear is suddenly taken away, leaving them feeling powerless? We grew up in a different time. No phones, no social media, no constant digital stimulation. But our children are growing up in an era where their entire world revolves around a screen. We may not always understand it, but we cannot ignore it. So, What Do We Do? 1️⃣ Start with Conversations, Not Confiscation Before you snatch that phone in frustration, pause. Talk. Help them understand why limits are necessary. Explain with love, not just authority. 2️⃣ Set Boundaries Early Let phone use come with clear rules—when, how, and for what purpose. It should never be an all-access pass to addiction. 3️⃣ Build Emotional Intelligence A child who understands emotions can manage disappointment better. Let’s raise children who can handle “no” without breaking. 4️⃣ Stay Connected Beyond the Screen If the only thing keeping your child engaged is a phone, then we have work to do. Let’s be intentional about bonding beyond technology. 5️⃣ Teach Them That a Phone is a Tool, Not Their Identity We must help our children understand that their worth is not tied to a device. Their voice matters with or without Wi-Fi. This is More Than Just About Phones… This is about our children’s mental health. About the fragile emotions they don’t always know how to express. About making sure they feel seen, heard, and valued—not just when they have a phone in hand, but always. A child is gone, and we cannot afford to look away. Parents, #GADA let’s talk. What age did you or will give your kids a little hone and for those who have, How do you handle phone conflicts in your home? Let’s learn from each other. #samblog

It’s obvious the weather is extremely hot. Meanwhile, when last did you clean your “Window Net” ? Fix that this week and feel the difference. #samblog

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41 RULES TO STAY AHEAD OF THE GAME 1. **Privacy is your superpower.** What others don’t know, they can’t ruin. Keep your life close to the chest—people thrive on drama. 2. **Loneliness is part of the journey.** Embrace it; it’s an art from all its own. 3. **Remember, everything on earth is temporary.** Life is fleeting, so stay grounded and humble. 4. **Everyone you meet is fighting a battle you know nothing about.** Be kind; it costs nothing. 5. **Your partner mirrors you.** Choose wisely. Seek out her values just as diligently as her looks. 6. **Your mental health trumps everyone’s feelings.** Be a little selfish here; it’s vital. 7. **You don’t need more time; you need fewer distractions.** Focus is your key to success. 8. **Guard your time fiercely.** Not everyone deserves a piece of it. 9. **Surround yourself with those who truly value you.** You shouldn't have to plead for respect and appreciation. 10. **Self-love is not selfish; it’s necessary.** 11. **Treasure those who lighten your load.** They are rare gems in this world. 12. **Choose your circle with care.** The right people uplift you; the wrong ones can drag you down. 13. **Peace of mind is invaluable.** Protect it at all costs. 14. **Stop chasing love; simply live your life.** The right person will come along. 15. **Seek those who embody that “grow together” mindset.** Lift each other higher. 16. **No regrets—just lessons learned.** Dust yourself off and push forward. 17. **Pursue someone proud to have you by their side.** 18. **Never surrender.** Everyone faces tough times; pick yourself up and keep going. 19. **If you feel drained, take a step back to recharge—don’t quit.** 20. **Sometimes, you need to disappear to return stronger.** 21. **Learn from the successes of others, but let their mistakes teach you wisdom.** 22. **Want to be happy?** Stop expecting anything from anyone; nobody owes you a thing. 23. **Everything will fall into place eventually.** Keep that optimistic mindset alive. 24. **Keep grinding—your breakthrough is on the horizon.** 25. **There’s nothing more attractive than mutual effort.** 26. **Stop overthinking it in places where you’re not valued.** 27. **If no one lends a hand, take the initiative yourself. Complaining won't help.** 28. **Obsess over your growth.** It’s the best investment you can make. 29. **A heart-to-heart should never end in conflict.** Open dialogue is sacred. 30. **“I’ll do it tomorrow” is just procrastination in disguise.** 31. **Aim not to stay the same—strive to be better.** 32. **Sometimes, waiting is more powerful than forcing things to happen.** 33. **Not everyone will understand your journey, and that’s perfectly fine.** 34. **Heal so you don’t become a reflection of your past trauma.** 35. **Keep your circle small and your friends insightful.** 36. **If they’re only around temporarily, feel free to let them go permanently.** 37. **People come and go; learn how to stand strong alone.** 38. **If needed, take time to disappear and focus on yourself.** 39. **Some will resent you for refusing to be controlled.** That’s their problem. 40. **Concentrate on your improvement, not on proving yourself to others.** 41. **Never, ever return to what once broke you.** **Keep pushing forward!** #samblog

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UPDATE...... Retired Police Officer Receives N2 Million Gift A recent report by ATP Hausa revealed the story of Linus Monday, a retired Nigerian police inspector, who was arrested for conducting vehicle inspections despite no longer being in service. According to reports, the former officer continued stopping and checking people without authorization, which eventually led to his arrest by the authorities. In response to his situation, the founder of Berekete Family Radio, Ahmad Isa, announced a donation of N2 million to support him. Isa also called on anyone with information about the retired officer to come forward so he can receive the financial assistance. Help us spread the word to locate the retired police officer. Even if you retire try not to be tired.. #viralchallenge #followerseveryonehighlightseveryone #trendingpost #samblog

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Breaking 🚨: A couple have been arrested for murdering their own child and are now listed among the 15 most wanted fugitives in the United States 🇺🇸. #stopchildabuse #samblog

Still on the colour that represents Gada; #purple. It signifies creativity, extravagance, dignity, grandeur, independence, pride, peace, and mystery. #takingtheworldbysuprise #gada #purpleapp #samblog

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