Who told you that you can’t abstain from s3x before marriage
By God’s Grace, I and my wife courted for 4 years and never had s3x until after our wedding.
The notion that once you’re in a committed relationship SEX IS NORMAL is totally erroneous
Let’s be clear : Sex before marriage is not FUN but FORNICATION.
You can love someone deeply, be strongly attracted to them, and still honour God with your body. Purity is possible, even in this generation.
Here are 6 biblical and practical ways to abstain from sex before marriage:
1. Set Clear Boundaries from Day One
Don’t leave things to chance. Define what’s acceptable and what’s not. Avoid places, times, and behaviors that fuel temptation.
“Flee the evil desires of youth…” — 2 Timothy 2:22
2. Choose a Partner Who Shares Your Values
It’s easier to stay pure when your partner also desires purity. If they’re pressuring you, they’re not protecting you. A brother or sister who sees nothing wrong in fornication will definitely pressure you into it.
“Can two walk together, except they be agreed?” — Amos 3:3
3. Avoid Private and Compromising Situations
Being alone behind closed doors is a setup for sin. Meet in public places or around trusted people.
“Make no provision for the flesh, to gratify its desires.” — Romans 13:14
4. Make the Relationship Spiritual, Not Just Emotional
Pray together, study the Word together, and talk about purpose—not just feelings. This keeps your connection rooted in God.
“How can a young person stay on the path of purity? By living according to your word.” — Psalm 119:9
5. Seek Accountability and Counseling When Needed
Don’t walk the journey alone. Be accountable to a godly mentor or couple who will check in and support your commitment to purity.
“Plans fail for lack of counsel, but with many advisers they succeed.” — Proverbs 15:22
6. What if you have fallen before?
“My little children, I am writing these things to you so that you may not sin. But if anyone does sin, we have an advocate with the Father, Jesus Christ the righteous.”
1 John 2:1
In the occasion of sin, quickly repent and run to Jesus. He will forgive you and ensure you follow the first 5 principles, so you don’t return back to your vomit.
I am Nicholas Michael Oriarewo
Your #relationshipcoach
#marriagecounselor
#lovebankers
#nNicholas Michael Oriarewo
By God’s Grace, I and my wife courted for 4 years and never had s3x until after our wedding.
The notion that once you’re in a committed relationship SEX IS NORMAL is totally erroneous
Let’s be clear : Sex before marriage is not FUN but FORNICATION.
You can love someone deeply, be strongly attracted to them, and still honour God with your body. Purity is possible, even in this generation.
Here are 6 biblical and practical ways to abstain from sex before marriage:
1. Set Clear Boundaries from Day One
Don’t leave things to chance. Define what’s acceptable and what’s not. Avoid places, times, and behaviors that fuel temptation.
“Flee the evil desires of youth…” — 2 Timothy 2:22
2. Choose a Partner Who Shares Your Values
It’s easier to stay pure when your partner also desires purity. If they’re pressuring you, they’re not protecting you. A brother or sister who sees nothing wrong in fornication will definitely pressure you into it.
“Can two walk together, except they be agreed?” — Amos 3:3
3. Avoid Private and Compromising Situations
Being alone behind closed doors is a setup for sin. Meet in public places or around trusted people.
“Make no provision for the flesh, to gratify its desires.” — Romans 13:14
4. Make the Relationship Spiritual, Not Just Emotional
Pray together, study the Word together, and talk about purpose—not just feelings. This keeps your connection rooted in God.
“How can a young person stay on the path of purity? By living according to your word.” — Psalm 119:9
5. Seek Accountability and Counseling When Needed
Don’t walk the journey alone. Be accountable to a godly mentor or couple who will check in and support your commitment to purity.
“Plans fail for lack of counsel, but with many advisers they succeed.” — Proverbs 15:22
6. What if you have fallen before?
“My little children, I am writing these things to you so that you may not sin. But if anyone does sin, we have an advocate with the Father, Jesus Christ the righteous.”
1 John 2:1
In the occasion of sin, quickly repent and run to Jesus. He will forgive you and ensure you follow the first 5 principles, so you don’t return back to your vomit.
I am Nicholas Michael Oriarewo
Your #relationshipcoach
#marriagecounselor
#lovebankers
#nNicholas Michael Oriarewo
Who told you that you can’t abstain from s3x before marriage 🤔
By God’s Grace, I and my wife courted for 4 years and never had s3x until after our wedding.
The notion that once you’re in a committed relationship SEX IS NORMAL is totally erroneous
Let’s be clear : Sex before marriage is not FUN but FORNICATION.
You can love someone deeply, be strongly attracted to them, and still honour God with your body. Purity is possible, even in this generation.
Here are 6 biblical and practical ways to abstain from sex before marriage:
1. Set Clear Boundaries from Day One
Don’t leave things to chance. Define what’s acceptable and what’s not. Avoid places, times, and behaviors that fuel temptation.
“Flee the evil desires of youth…” — 2 Timothy 2:22
2. Choose a Partner Who Shares Your Values
It’s easier to stay pure when your partner also desires purity. If they’re pressuring you, they’re not protecting you. A brother or sister who sees nothing wrong in fornication will definitely pressure you into it.
“Can two walk together, except they be agreed?” — Amos 3:3
3. Avoid Private and Compromising Situations
Being alone behind closed doors is a setup for sin. Meet in public places or around trusted people.
“Make no provision for the flesh, to gratify its desires.” — Romans 13:14
4. Make the Relationship Spiritual, Not Just Emotional
Pray together, study the Word together, and talk about purpose—not just feelings. This keeps your connection rooted in God.
“How can a young person stay on the path of purity? By living according to your word.” — Psalm 119:9
5. Seek Accountability and Counseling When Needed
Don’t walk the journey alone. Be accountable to a godly mentor or couple who will check in and support your commitment to purity.
“Plans fail for lack of counsel, but with many advisers they succeed.” — Proverbs 15:22
6. What if you have fallen before?
“My little children, I am writing these things to you so that you may not sin. But if anyone does sin, we have an advocate with the Father, Jesus Christ the righteous.”
1 John 2:1
In the occasion of sin, quickly repent and run to Jesus. He will forgive you and ensure you follow the first 5 principles, so you don’t return back to your vomit.
©️ I am Nicholas Michael Oriarewo
Your #relationshipcoach
#marriagecounselor
#lovebankers
#nNicholas Michael Oriarewo
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