12 SECRETS TO HAVING A STRONG RELATIONSHIP

If you desire a loving and lasting relationship with your partner, you and your partner need to adopt the following habits below:

1. COMMITMENT:

Commitment is very important if you desire to have a strong relationship with your partner. You have to decide to stick with your partner and make the relationship work irrespective of the flaws your partner might have. Couples who renew their commitments everyday, in words and deed, are on their way to having a strong relationship.

2. KEEP YOUR PRIVATE LIFE PRIVATE

When you put your relationship on social media, you invite the public to your relationship. Keep your private matters private. It’s a relationship between you and your partner and not between you, your partner and the public. You can share your fun dates with your partner or some nice photos together on your Facebook or Instagram app but make sure you draw the line where necessary.

3. KNOW WHEN TO LET THINGS SLIDE AND LEARN HOW TO MANAGE CONFLICTS

Finding ways to reduce the frequency of conflict in your relationship by letting go of the little things will help you build a strong relationship with your partner. Arguments are normal in a relationship but you should make sure you never insult your partner during an argument. Always listen to what your partner has to say during an argument.

4. LEARN TO LISTEN

Speaking less and listening more is important if you want to build a strong relationship with your partner. It’s important you always pay close attention to what your partner has to say. Ask your partner how his/her day went and listen to him/her talk about their day.
12 Secrets Of Having A Strong Relationship
12 Secrets Of Having A Strong Relationship

5. MAKE TIME TO DATE

Spending quality time with your partner is important if you desire to build a strong relationship. Nothing substitutes for time together. No matter how busy you are, always create time to go out on dates with your partner.

6. BE TOTALLY TRANSPARENT

Partners in strong relationships have no secrets. If you desire to build a strong relationship with your partner, you have to be completely transparent with your partner. You don’t need privacy in your relationship if you want a strong relationship.

7. TRY NEW THINGS TOGETHER

Whether it be something as simple as watching a movie neither of you has seen, or something as extreme as skydiving, trying new things together as a couple is important if you want to have a strong relationship. Trying new things together keeps the excitement and passion going in your relationship.

8. COMPLIMENT YOUR PARTNER

You shouldn’t save the compliments for big events alone, make complimenting your partner a regular occurrence. You make your partner feel special and noticed when you compliment him/her and this helps build a strong relationship

9. NEVER PUT EACH OTHER DOWN IN PUBLIC

How you treat your partner in front of others matter if you desire to build a strong relationship with your partner. Never ever put each other down or say anything negative about your partner in public. Only say supportive and kind things to each other in public and save disagreements for when you both are alone.

10. NEVER GET TIRED OF SAYING “I LOVE YOU”

These three little words “I love you” are important if you want to build a strong relationship with your partner. No matter how long or hard your day was, always end your day by telling your partner how much you love him/her. End your day with the words “I love you”.

11. LEARN HOW TO COMPROMISE

You have to understand the value of compromise if you want to build a strong relationship. You may not always want to do what your partner wants but if it’s important to your partner, do it with a smile on your face.

Lastly.....

12. Pray and Play Together:

Couples that pray and play together stay together. Hand in hand each morning before you face the vicissitude of life, read a devotional and pray together.

Take turns to pray for your marriage, your challenges &your children. If its your turn to pray, lift your spouse's burdens to The Lord and thank God for the wonderful spouse He gave you.

Never miss an opportunity to celebrate life's milestones together. Celebrate anniversaries and birthdays. Make it simple and sweet. Play and laugh together. Be merry with the person you married and watch your love for each other grow from strength to strength.

You will not fail in marriage in Jesus' name.

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Man left in shock after finding out his baby mama has over 7 other boyfriends and he has gained access to her Instagram account
He has been posting all the men she is involved with on her page
He’s also angry she lied about body count

When I broke up with my ex, I did what any normal, self-preserving woman would do, I blocked him everywhere. WhatsApp, Instagram, Twitter, even LinkedIn (just in case professionalism wanted to misbehave).

But one day, as fate would have it, I stumbled on a video. The type that would have had both of us giggling in the DMs. I paused. Muscle memory kicked in. I ran to my block list like a woman possessed, searched his name (yes, I still remembered the spelling ), and unblocked him.

I didn’t say hi. I didn’t try to start a conversation. I just sent the video with the caption:
“Just thought this would make you happy.”

Then I blocked him again with pride.

Fast forward a few weeks, it happened again. Another video. Another wave of nostalgia. I thought to myself, “It won’t hurt.”
So, I repeated the ritual:
Unblocked him
Sent the video
Captioned it: “This cracked me up, thought of you ”
Getting ready to block him again

But this time… he replied.

He said:
“Please don’t block me yet. I have a video I’ve been waiting to send you too.”

Something in me smiled. I thought, “Aww, maybe he never really moved on.”
My heart did a small Zanku.

Then the video dropped.

I clicked it, excited.
And what did I see?

👰🏽🤵🏽‍♂️
A cinematic, slow-mo, drone-shot, teary-eyed, flower-petal wedding video.
HIS wedding.

To another woman.

The “just thought this would make you happy” queen in me froze.
The video ended with “To forever and beyond” and their lips locked like Wi-Fi and password.

Me: 🫠

I didn’t block him immediately.
I needed the network to understand that I was in a coma.

At that point, even my tears started buffering.

So yes, I’m the clown that unblocked a man twice…
Only for him to gift me a wedding video as a reply.

Ekene my God ga a judge gi 🥹🥹

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Skitmaker Nasboi survives car accident

Skitmaker and musician, Lawal Nasiru, widely known as Nasboi, on Wednesday reported that he was involved in a car accident.

Nasboi said his vehicle crashed into a parked trailer.

DAILY POST recalls that just recently, the skitmaker had embarked on a nationwide tour, describing it as a campaign to get a verse from singer Davido.

However, after reporting the accident, Nasboi went live via his social media handle, reassuring his followers he is safe and recovering.

According to the live video, he was calm stating that he did not blame the accident on his journey.

He said, “Omo me I don’t even know, na laugh I just dey laugh. Because this is crazy, na to give up at this point. It’s crazy but we thank God nobody got harmed. No injuries at all”

In a post on instagram he captioned it “Thank God for life. Few hours ago!! No injuries sustained, No single scratch. Now I’m thinking if I should stop or to continue”.

This is funny but the fact.
Attendance in Church on sunday
1. Human beings = 85
2. Bibles = 27
3. Phones = 507.
4. Rechargeable lamps = 212.
5. Rechargeable Torch = 176.
6. Power banks 432.
God is watching .

Last Seen:

Whats app 1 min ago
Facebook 2mins ago☺
Twitter 5mins ago
Instagram 10mins ago
Bible since last Sunday
God is soaking your cane in crude oil..
Go to another group and announce to them and let everyone repent from their bad behaviour .

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7 THINGS THAT CAN MAKE YOU BROKE FASTER THAN VILLAGE PEOPLE

Forget jazz, forget enemies from the village—some of you are going broke at lightning speed, and it’s not because of witchcraft. Your own lifestyle is the real problem!

If you're always wondering "Who is eating my money?"—relax, Oga. The answer is you.

BRUTAL THREAD:

1. CHASING EVERY WOMAN YOU SEE

You think you're James Bond, moving from one fine girl to another, sponsoring their hair, nails, and data? Brother, you are your own Yahoo boy.

One babe says “I need urgent 2K”—you send.

Another one says “My rent is due”—you pay.

Next thing, your account balance is calling for GoFundMe.

Meanwhile, the same girls are in group chats laughing at you: “This guy dey try sha.”

Solution: Stop being an ATM with no PIN code. Focus on one woman or yourself first.

2. LIVING LIKE A BIG BOY WHEN YOUR ACCOUNT BALANCE IS SHOUTING HELP

Your salary is 50K, but you're in clubs ordering Hennessy like Davido. You don’t even have a car, but you're buying drinks for strangers—WHO SENT YOU?

Rich men are saving, you are spraying money.

Dangote is investing, you are doing “Odogwu” at the bar.

Elon Musk is buying companies, you are buying bottles for slay queens who don’t know your surname.

When the landlord comes for rent, you’ll start saying “Boss, abeg, things hard.”

Solution: Cut down on fake luxury. Even Jeff Bezos wears simple T-shirts. Be wise.

3. SENDING MONEY TO FAMILY LIKE CBN

Your uncle calls: “We need money for burial.”
Your aunt calls: “No food in the house.”
Your younger brother: “School fees.”

Now your account is empty, but when you need help? Nobody picks your call.

Oga, you are not the Minister of Finance. Even government doesn’t share free money like you do!

Solution: Learn to say NO sometimes! Help when you can, but don’t let family turn you into their personal budget.

4. ALWAYS BUYING THE LATEST PHONE TO IMPRESS WHO?

Last month, you were using iPhone 12.
This month, you saw iPhone 15 Pro Max and sold your kidney to buy it.
Next month, iPhone 16 Ultra Mega Max will drop—what will you sell next? Your destiny?

Meanwhile, the person you’re trying to impress is using Tecno Pop 5 and doesn’t care.

Solution: If your current phone is working, rest. Your future is more important than “Dynamic Island.”

5. FALLING FOR EVERY FAKE INVESTMENT SCHEME

They told you "Invest 50K, get 500K in 2 days."

You ran like Bolt, deposited your money.

Now, they’ve blocked you, and you’re writing epistles on Facebook: “Dear Nigerians, beware of fraudsters!”

Oga, they didn’t scam you, you scammed yourself!

Any investment that sounds like magic money is a Ponzi scheme in disguise.

Solution: If you don’t understand the business, don’t put your money there. Learn to invest wisely!

6. GOING BROKE JUST TO IMPRESS SOCIAL MEDIA

Your house rent is due, but you're buying designer shoes to take pictures for Instagram. Who told you “likes and comments” can pay rent?

You posted “Soft life only.”

But in real life, you’re trekking and borrowing money for food.

If your phone falls, you’ll cry because you can’t afford to fix it.

Solution: Stop forming fake rich life. Invest first, flex later.

7. BEING TOO LAZY TO MAKE MORE MONEY

You sit at home, scrolling Facebook from morning till night, complaining: “No job, Nigeria is hard.”

Meanwhile, opportunities are passing you by! Are you expecting an angel to drop money from the sky?

People are making money online—you are watching TikTok videos all day.

People are learning skills—you are arguing about football.

People are opening businesses—you are waiting for your rich uncle to die so you can inherit land.

Solution: Get up and hustle! Even the Bible says “A lazy man shall not eat.”

BOTTOM LINE:

If you're always broke, stop blaming village people. Your habits are the real witchcraft!

Live within your means.

Invest before you flex.

Stop impressing people who don’t care.

Make smart financial decisions.

If this post hit you hard, don’t cry. Just change your ways!

Follow Abasiodu Ekpenyong for more brutal truths that will save your life!

You asked him N7,000, and your dad told you he will give you in the morning before he leaves for work. This was after he had thoroughly scrutinized what you needed the money for, all the questions he asked were already making you angry.

Throughout the night your dad couldn't sleep because he was thinking as to why he must sacrifice his last N7,000 for you

In the morning he calls you into his room and gives you N6,000 instead of N7,000

You were not happy and squeezed your face in discontent, and reluctantly said thank you after complaining that it was not all you requested

Your mum after seeing this does not utter a word but meets you in your room where your dad is not present and gives you N1,000 from her own money and say "DON'T MIND HIM" add this to meet your needs.

You began to smile and quickly run to Facebook, Instagram, and Whatsapp to write.

I have the best mom in the world , I love you mom

Now your dad has gone out with just N500 in his pocket with no fuel in his car. Because of you he used public transport that day to work. He gives your mum N500 to enable her handle emergency while he is away.

At work, he worked overtime. After closing late, everyone of you keeps saying "daddy is never always around except mum".

Your good dad will never allow you to see how much he suffers for the family because he is a MAN

Always try to appreciate your dad your husband and brothers. It's not easy at all. They go through a lot to provide Food, shelter and so on for the family.

You won't know how much a male gender suffers just to provide the little you downgrade, some have to starve themselves just for you.

May God Almighty bless our FATHERS in what ever thing they find themselves doing
AMEN ?

You asked him N7,000, and your dad told you he will give you in the morning before he leaves for work. This was after he had thoroughly scrutinized what you needed the money for, all the questions he asked were already making you angry.

Throughout the night your dad couldn't sleep because he was thinking as to why he must sacrifice his last N7,000 for you

In the morning he calls you into his room and gives you N6,000 instead of N7,000

You were not happy and squeezed your face in discontent, and reluctantly said thank you after complaining that it was not all you requested

Your mum after seeing this does not utter a word but meets you in your room where your dad is not present and gives you N1,000 from her own money and say "DON'T MIND HIM" add this to meet your needs.

You began to smile and quickly run to Facebook, Instagram, and Whatsapp to write.

I have the best mom in the world , I love you mom

Now your dad has gone out with just N500 in his pocket with no fuel in his car. Because of you he used public transport that day to work. He gives your mum N500 to enable her handle emergency while he is away.

At work, he worked overtime. After closing late, everyone of you keeps saying "daddy is never always around except mum".

Your good dad will never allow you to see how much he suffers for the family because he is a MAN

Always try to appreciate your dad your husband and brothers. It's not easy at all. They go through a lot to provide Food, shelter and so on for the family.

You won't know how much a male gender suffers just to provide the little you downgrade, some have to starve themselves just for you.

May God Almighty bless our FATHERS in what ever thing they find themselves doing
AMEN ?

How to Post on Social Media in a Way That Builds a Strong Personal Brand that Makes Money

You can post on social media for 10 years and still have no brand, no clients, and no income.

Do not confuse the difference between popularity (having many followers and likes) and a brand.

There are people who have many followers, but when they post something to sell, no one buys. That is popularity without a strong brand. There is a reason for that.

Posting alone is not strategy. Visibility without clarity won’t build a brand you can monetize.

Here’s how to post on social media in a way that builds a strong personal brand you can monetize, with systems, scale, and strategic clarity.

1. Stop posting for likes. Start posting for positioning.
You’re not here to entertain (except you are in the entertainment industry).
You’re here to signal & build authority, build trust, and attract aligned buyers.
When you post for positioning your posts will address issues like these:
- “Here’s the problem I solve.”
- “Here’s what I’ve helped others achieve.”
- “Here’s how to work with me.”
- "Here's how this and that works."
- “Here’s a mistake people often make — and what to do instead.”
This kind of content doesn’t just inform, it positions you as a trusted authority.
Don’t just show up. Show up with strategic purpose.

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2. Build a branded content ecosystem (1 →Model).
Pick 3–4 content lanes tied to your brand and monetizable identity:
Your skillset
Your results or client wins
Your thought process or framework
Personal stories that reveal values & mission
Career and industry stories that reveals impact
Rotate consistently. Let people remember and repeat who you are and what you solve. (read that again)

3. Write a bio that opens doors — not confusion.
When I look at somepeople's bio on social media, sometimes I am like....(let me not say it ahah)
Your bio should say:
- Who you help
- What you help them achieve
- How they can start working with you
Clarity > Cleverness
People don’t buy mystery. They buy solutions.

4. Create posts that are bridges — not broadcasts.
Every post should do one or more of these:
Educate
Solve a problem
Invite action
Build trust through proof or story
Make your offer visible
Don’t just talk. Lead people somewhere.

5. Use testimonials and results like marketing assets.
- Screenshot kind words
- Share before/after snapshots
- Tell client transformation stories
- Highlight how your method works
Social proof is not bragging. It’s trust fuel.

6. Use your pinned post like a 24/7 sales rep.
Pin a post that introduces:
- Who you are
- What you do
- Who it’s for
- How to get started (Add your contacts)
Let your first impression carry conversion weight.

7. Turn your best-performing posts into repeatable series.
If a post works, don’t post once and move on.
- Turn it into a mini-series
- Create a workshop around it
- Build a paid product from it
Scale your best work. Don’t let it die in the feed.

8. Repurpose across platforms with intentionality.
One message. Multiple formats:
- Facebook post - LinkedIn thread
- WhatsApp voice note - Instagram carousel
- Live session - YouTube short clip
Brand consistency breeds recognition.
Recognition builds trust.
Trust drives income.

9. Include calls to action that lead to real conversations or conversions.
- “Comment YES for the free guide.”
- “DM me ‘READY’ to work together.”
- “Click the link in my bio to book.”
If people can’t take the next step, you’re not building a brand, you’re just journaling and making social media noise.

10. Track what converts. Build systems around it. (systems thinking)
- What kind of post attracted clients?
- What language got people DMing?
- What structure made your offer clear?
Turn insights into content SOPs. Build a brand that works while you rest.

Which of these points challenged you? COMMENT “BRAND BUILDER”

Dr. Joybert Javnyuy
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