*What does a SIDE CHICK do better than a WIFE???*



ABSOLUTELY NOTHING a SIDE CHICK does better than a WIFE. Your SIDE CHICK is just better because you haven't put her through what you have put your WIFE through, try it and you might even run away from the country for her.
How can your WIFE be as PERFECT as your SIDE CHICK when you have IMPREGNATED her 5times, sent her to LABOR 5times, ANTENATAL, POST NATAL, BREASTFEEDING for many years, CHILD CARE and UPBRINGING till each baby turns 20. Also SCHOOL RUNS every MORNING and EVENING, COOKS FOOD for the FAMILY, you will also DISTURB her at NIGHT like a MOSQUITO, she will be in the HOSPITAL for many days looking after you KIDS when they got SICK, HOUSE CHORES and GROCERIES still to be done by her. Furthermore, you the HUSBAND have caused her many CUTS down on her VAGINA, CUTS as a result of CS, what about SAGGED BREASTS from YOU SUCKING and your CHILDREN SUCKING, STOMACH STRETCH MARKS, PIMPLES and BIG NOSE you caused her during PREGNANCY. What about VOMITING, LOSS OF APPETITE, some men have totally withdraw their WIVES from SOCIETY because of their African beliefs yet you don't want to VALUE and RESPECT your WIFE, but only what you remember is that she is not ROMANTIC but your SIDE CHICK or SIDE HEN is... DEAR HUSBANDS, put that your SIDE CHICK or SIDE HEN to this LIFE THREATENING ADVENTURE and see if she can cope. Please learn to appreciate your WIFE, LIFE isn't all about S€X and ROMANCE, whereas you won't be horny forever. Remember how she was before you married her and remember that you are the CAUSE of her WOES. Truth is if you know what your wife is going through, you will go back to her FATHER with a BOTTLE of WINE and add EXTRA MONEY to her BRIDE PRICE. It isn't easy being a WIFE and MOTHER at the same time, is a FULL TIME JOB.

Some MEN will ask, what does a WIFE bring to the TABLE??? She literally BRINGS her LIFE.

RESPECT your WIFE..

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*THE RESTORER'S DAILY GUIDE*

DATE: TUESDAY 3RD JUNE 2025

THEME: *REWRITE YOUR OWN STORY*

MEMORISE
1 Chronicles 4:10
And Jabez called on the God of Israel, saying, Oh that thou wouldest bless me indeed, and enlarge my coast, and that thine hand might be with me, and that thou wouldest keep me from evil, that it may not grieve me! And God granted him that which he requested.

READ
Psalms 34:1-6
I will bless the LORD at all times: his praise shall continually be in my mouth.
My soul shall make her boast in the LORD: the humble shall hear thereof, and be glad.
O magnify the LORD with me, and let us exalt his name together.
I sought the LORD, and he heard me, and delivered me from all my fears.
They looked unto him, and were lightened: and their faces were not ashamed.
This poor man cried, and the LORD heard him, and saved him out of all his troubles.

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
*All things are possible with God.*

MESSAGE
Everyone has a story of how situations and circumstances have affected their lives. But we all can rewrite our own stories. It doesn't have to end up the way it started.

We don't have to allow negative circumstances to determine our fate.

*You can either choose to become a product of your pain or to make a gain from your pain*

Those who allowed themselves to become products of their pains, end up as bitter people who bleed on those who were never part of their pains.

A wise man once said; "Most people do not loose their lives all at once, they lose it gradually to defeats, disappointment, failures, bad times, etc; one day at a time by allowing unpleasant situations and circumstances define and dictate their lives. One bad day turns into two, two days turn into a story. If you do not confront your bad day, the day will construct a version of you that is smaller than your potential and original destiny from God."

A bad day is a visitor not a resident, you are supposed to be in charge of your life and you determine who stays not the bad issue.

Neuroscience has shown that the human brain wires itself on repetition. If you allow one bad moment to linger beyond the moment, your brain will adjust to it and begins to expect its repetition and continuity.

Gradually your brain becomes loyal to your lowest moments, and if unchecked and unhindered, it becomes your biography, unless you disrupt the pattern and create a new one.

So, interrupt the negative spiral, stop the lifespan of the negative situation.

Never allow a bad day become your life.

You can change the rhythm of your life. You can change your story.

The power is in your mind and in your mouth. Choose what stays in your mind and heart and make your mouth confess only what is in alignment with God's word and purpose for your life. (Philipians 4:8)

Jabez, in today's memory verse, decided to rewrite his own story, and that is why we are yet reading his story today.

In today's text, the writer also had a testimony of a changed life. He sought God and was heard. Some looked up to Him, and their faces were changed, and they knew no shame.

You, too, can rewrite your story today by taking some vital steps of faith in prayer and supplication with fasting.

God is faithful and will turn around your situation for good.

All things are possible with God, give Him a chance in your life today, and you will smile again in Jesus' name.

Shalom, maranatha!

ACTION STEPS
1. Surrender your life to Jesus Christ today and be saved.
2. Take a day off to seek God's face with fasting over that issue.
3. Pray until something happens for good.

PRAYERS
Dear heavenly Father, Thank you for today's devotional guide. Oh God of restoration, visit the root of every issue of frustration in my life and make me free in Jesus' name.

REMEMBER
*All things are possible with God.*

AUTHOR: JEDIDIAH DAVID

DAILY READING: Ezekiel 17-18, John 14-15.

HYMN
Blessed assurance — Jesus is mine !
Oh, what a foretaste of glory divine !
Heir of salvation, purchase of God ;
Born of His Spirit washed in His blood.

This is my story, this is my song,
Praising my Saviour all the day long ;
This is my story, this is my song,
Praising my Saviour all the day long.

2
Perfect submission, perfect delight,
Visions of rapture burst on my sight ;
Angels descending, bring from above
Echoes of mercy, whispers of love.

3
Perfect submission, all is at rest,
I in my Saviour am happy and blest ;
Watching and waiting, looking above,
Filled with His goodness, lost in His love.

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Heal Before You Enter Another Relationship
Unhealed wounds can poison new beginnings. If you haven’t taken time to process your pain, forgive yourself, and grow from past relationships, you'll carry the same baggage into your next one.
Healing is not just about moving on. It’s about sitting with your pain, learning the lessons, and becoming a healthier version of yourself. It means understanding your patterns and making better choices.
Without healing, you risk repeating cycles. You may sabotage good love because you haven’t learned to trust again. Or you may settle because you’re afraid of being alone. Healing helps you choose better — not just love better.
No one can heal you but you. A new partner can love you, but they can't fix what's broken within. Give yourself the gift of emotional wholeness before inviting someone else into your heart.
Healthy love begins with a healed you.
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The Danger of Comparing Your Marriage to Social Media
Social media often gives us a romanticized version of reality. Perfect vacations, surprise proposals, anniversary gifts — it all looks beautiful. But behind every perfect post, there could be hidden struggles, years of hard work, or even turmoil.
Comparing your relationship to what you see online can breed discontent. You begin to measure love by what is seen, not what is felt. You forget the private victories you and your partner have overcome. You forget the value of your shared journey.
Relationships aren't built in photo filters. They're built in sacrifice, late-night talks, forgiveness, and compromise. When you compare, you diminish the realness of your love and chase a fantasy that doesn't exist.
Remember, real love is not always picture-perfect. It’s in the quiet mornings, the inside jokes, the shared responsibilities, and the unwavering support during hard times. Don’t trade authentic connection for staged perfection.
Celebrate your story. Be present in your love.
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Charity begins at home.

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RESPONSIBILITIES OF A FATHER IN A FAMILY:

PRIMARY RESPONSIBILITIES:

1. Providing financial support
2. Emotional guidance and support
3. Disciplining and setting boundaries
4. Role-modeling values and behavior
5. Protecting and ensuring family safety

EMOTIONAL SUPPORT:

1. Listening and validating feelings
2. Offering comfort and reassurance
3. Encouraging open communication
4. Supporting partner's emotional needs
5. Modeling healthy emotional expression

DISCIPLINE AND GUIDANCE:

1. Setting clear expectations and rules
2. Teaching life skills and values
3. Encouraging responsibility and independence
4. Modeling respectful communication
5. Providing constructive feedback

FINANCIAL PROVISION:

1. Managing household finances
2. Providing for family's basic needs
3. Planning for future financial security
4. Saving for children's education
5. Ensuring family's economic stability

ROLE-MODELING:

1. Demonstrating integrity and honesty
2. Modeling respectful relationships
3. Teaching respect for authority
4. Encouraging physical and mental well-being
5. Embodying values and principles

PARENTING PARTNERSHIP:

1. Co-parenting with mother
2. Sharing childcare responsibilities
3. Collaborating on discipline and guidance
4. Supporting partner's parenting style
5. Maintaining united front in parenting

COMMUNITY INVOLVEMENT:

1. Participating in children's activities
2. Volunteering in community or school
3. Building relationships with neighbors
4. Role-modeling social responsibility
5. Fostering community connections

PERSONAL GROWTH:

1. Pursuing personal interests and hobbies
2. Continuing education and self-improvement
3. Maintaining physical and mental health
4. Setting boundaries and prioritizing self-care
5. Seeking support and resources when needed

INFLUENCING CHILDREN'S DEVELOPMENT:

1. Shaping moral and ethical values
2. Encouraging educational and career goals
3. Modeling healthy relationships
4. Teaching life skills and independence
5. Fostering emotional intelligence.

Edith Paul

"Desist from Claiming Mogaji Title!" – Olubadan Cautions Sarafadeen Olayiwola

His Imperial Majesty, Oba (Dr.) Akinloye Owolabi Olakulehin (Ige Olakulehin I), the Olubadan of Ibadanland, has formally disclaimed Engineer Sarafadeen Abdulrasaq Adekunle Olayiwola, warning him to stop identifying as the Mogaji of Otepola Ibidapo Family, Moganna Compound, Isale Bode, Ibadan.

This directive was contained in an official press statement issued and signed by the Chief Press Secretary to the Olubadan, Chief Ayoade Solomon Olugbemiga.

According to the statement, the Chieftaincy Screening and Dispute Resolution Committee, during its sitting on November 20, 2024, determined that the certificate allegedly possessed by Engineer Olayiwola was forged and, therefore, null and void.

Further investigations revealed that he was never properly installed by any recognized traditional authority. Moreover, during the Olubadan-in-Council meeting held on Monday, May 19, 2025, multiple allegations of misconduct and grave impropriety were raised against him.

In view of these revelations, the Olubadan has ordered Engineer Sarafadeen Olayiwola to immediately desist from parading himself as Mogaji of the Otepola Ibidapo Family.

The monarch sternly warned that any further attempt to falsely assume the title will attract strict sanctions and possible legal prosecution.

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