• Beautiful craft
    Beautiful craft
    Like
    1
    0 Commenti 0 condivisioni 79 Views
  • With the cost of education on the rise, and given that education is a weapon against poverty, could the average man afford it from the next 5 years onward? What could be the fate of the average man especially for upcoming generations? Would you be interested if l can show a way to navigate this so it won't be so much of a hassle for you? Show some love via likes or comment so as to proceed. Happy Sunday great and beautiful people. Sons and daughters of the Most High. Shalom
    With the cost of education on the rise, and given that education is a weapon against poverty, could the average man afford it from the next 5 years onward? What could be the fate of the average man especially for upcoming generations? Would you be interested if l can show a way to navigate this so it won't be so much of a hassle for you? Show some love via likes or comment so as to proceed. Happy Sunday great and beautiful people. Sons and daughters of the Most High. Shalom
    Yay
    1
    0 Commenti 0 condivisioni 116 Views
  • Nice hose cake and beautiful craft how do you see it
    Nice hose cake and beautiful craft how do you see it
    0 Commenti 1 condivisioni 93 Views
  • "The struggle you’re in today is developing the strength you need for tomorrow." - Ernest Hemingway

    Nature doesn’t rush, yet everything transforms in its own time. The process is often painful, but it’s also beautiful—because it’s how strength and beauty are born.

    Think about the caterpillar. It doesn’t just change—it completely falls apart. Its body turns to mush, dissolving into a soupy mess inside the chrysalis. For days, it’s neither caterpillar nor butterfly, just liquid chaos. But that breakdown is necessary. From that messy, almost ugly transformation, wings finally emerge.

    A baby giraffe falls six feet to the ground at birth. Then its mother kicks it, forcing it to stand. Harsh? Yes. But those first wobbly steps are what make its legs strong enough to run.

    A seed buried in darkness doesn’t stay there forever. It cracks, it pushes, it fights through the dirt—until one day, it breaks into the light as a tree.

    Even the mightiest rivers start as small, uncertain streams. They carve through rock not by force, but by persistence.

    The process is hard. It’s messy. It hurts. But it’s also the only way to become what you’re meant to be.

    So be grateful for the struggle. The pressure. The waiting. The unbecoming before the becoming.

    What feels like breaking you is actually building you.

    Trust the process.

    "We also glory in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance; perseverance, character; and character, hope." — Romans 5:3-4

    Good Day and Happy Sunday.
    "The struggle you’re in today is developing the strength you need for tomorrow." - Ernest Hemingway Nature doesn’t rush, yet everything transforms in its own time. The process is often painful, but it’s also beautiful—because it’s how strength and beauty are born. Think about the caterpillar. It doesn’t just change—it completely falls apart. Its body turns to mush, dissolving into a soupy mess inside the chrysalis. For days, it’s neither caterpillar nor butterfly, just liquid chaos. But that breakdown is necessary. From that messy, almost ugly transformation, wings finally emerge. A baby giraffe falls six feet to the ground at birth. Then its mother kicks it, forcing it to stand. Harsh? Yes. But those first wobbly steps are what make its legs strong enough to run. A seed buried in darkness doesn’t stay there forever. It cracks, it pushes, it fights through the dirt—until one day, it breaks into the light as a tree. Even the mightiest rivers start as small, uncertain streams. They carve through rock not by force, but by persistence. The process is hard. It’s messy. It hurts. But it’s also the only way to become what you’re meant to be. So be grateful for the struggle. The pressure. The waiting. The unbecoming before the becoming. What feels like breaking you is actually building you. Trust the process. "We also glory in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance; perseverance, character; and character, hope." — Romans 5:3-4 Good Day and Happy Sunday.
    0 Commenti 0 condivisioni 102 Views
  • An eagle once taught a woman how to raise a child.

    — Are you alright, human mother? — the eagle asked.

    The woman looked at her, startled.

    — I’m afraid. My baby is about to be born, and I have so many doubts. I want to give them the best, a beautiful, easy life… but how will I know if I’m raising them right?

    The eagle perched nearby and replied:

    — Raising a child isn’t about keeping them comfortable. It’s the opposite. When my eaglets are born, I line the nest with soft feathers and grass. It’s warm, safe. But when the time comes for them to grow, I remove it all. I leave only the thorns.

    The woman frowned.

    — Thorns? Isn’t that cruel?

    The eagle looked her in the eyes.

    — Discomfort pushes them to move. The thorns make them want more — to fly, to find their place. Comfort teaches nothing.

    The woman hesitated, still uncertain.

    — And if they fall?

    The eagle nodded.

    — They do fall. I throw them into the wind. They drop. I catch them. I throw them again. Over and over — until they learn to fly. And then? I let them go. I don’t help anymore.

    The woman’s eyes widened.

    — But what if they’re not ready?

    — They won’t be, until they try. If I keep them safe forever, they’ll never learn. It’s not about letting them suffer. It’s about letting them grow. Even when it hurts you.

    The woman placed her hand on her belly, breathed deeply, and smiled.

    — Thank you, Mother Eagle, she whispered. Your wisdom is a gift.

    She walked away — ready to be the mother her child would need: not perfect, but strong. A mother who teaches them to fly.

    If you want your child to soar high — don’t clip their wings with comfort.
    Let them feel the wind.
    Let them stumble.
    Let them rise.

    True love isn’t sheltering them from life.
    It’s teaching them how to live it.
    Even if that means watching them fall… so they can learn to fly.
    An eagle once taught a woman how to raise a child. — Are you alright, human mother? — the eagle asked. The woman looked at her, startled. — I’m afraid. My baby is about to be born, and I have so many doubts. I want to give them the best, a beautiful, easy life… but how will I know if I’m raising them right? The eagle perched nearby and replied: — Raising a child isn’t about keeping them comfortable. It’s the opposite. When my eaglets are born, I line the nest with soft feathers and grass. It’s warm, safe. But when the time comes for them to grow, I remove it all. I leave only the thorns. The woman frowned. — Thorns? Isn’t that cruel? The eagle looked her in the eyes. — Discomfort pushes them to move. The thorns make them want more — to fly, to find their place. Comfort teaches nothing. The woman hesitated, still uncertain. — And if they fall? The eagle nodded. — They do fall. I throw them into the wind. They drop. I catch them. I throw them again. Over and over — until they learn to fly. And then? I let them go. I don’t help anymore. The woman’s eyes widened. — But what if they’re not ready? — They won’t be, until they try. If I keep them safe forever, they’ll never learn. It’s not about letting them suffer. It’s about letting them grow. Even when it hurts you. The woman placed her hand on her belly, breathed deeply, and smiled. — Thank you, Mother Eagle, she whispered. Your wisdom is a gift. She walked away — ready to be the mother her child would need: not perfect, but strong. A mother who teaches them to fly. If you want your child to soar high — don’t clip their wings with comfort. Let them feel the wind. Let them stumble. Let them rise. True love isn’t sheltering them from life. It’s teaching them how to live it. Even if that means watching them fall… so they can learn to fly.
    Like
    1
    0 Commenti 0 condivisioni 119 Views
  • BILLIONAIRE CHOSE HIS MAID OVER HIS FIANCÉE — AND PAID THE PRICE

    Darlington Obi, the sole heir to the OB group holdings, had never been one for surprises.
    Yet, on that breezy Wednesday afternoon, he arrived at his estate without alerting anyone. Not his staff, not his fianceé, not even his mother, who usually micromanaged his every step. His flight from London had landed earlier than expected, and for the first time in years, he wanted to walk into his mansion without the burden of fanfare or formal greetings.
    The towering black gates slid open silently, and his convoy remained outside while he stepped in alone, holding just a leather bag and wearing a simple black polo with navy blue slacks. The stillness inside was unsettling. The chandelier above the entrance cast soft shadows on the white marble floor as he made his way toward the kitchen, drawn by the faint sound of music and laughter.
    It was not the kind of laughter that came from privilege or pretense. It was genuine, pure, melodic and strangely contagious. And there she was, barefoot on the tiled floor, her wrapper tied loosely around her waist, headscarf swaying as she spun in slow circles with a mop in one hand and her other hand lifted toward the ceiling like a ballerina.
    She danced like someone who didn't know the world was watching, like someone whose joy wasn't dependent on money or fame. The Bluetooth speaker beside the pantry hummed with a soft tune by Asa, and every step she took fell in rhythm with the song Darlington froze. Not because she was the most beautiful woman he had seen, though her smooth dark skin and natural smile lit something within him, but because her freedom, her joy, and her authenticity struck him like lightning in a dry season.
    For a man who had seen the world closed billionaire deals and walked red carpets with women who wore diamonds like clothing, this moment felt like a window into a life he had forgotten existed. It wasn't just about attraction. It was about something deeper. peace, purity, and presence. He didn't say a word, just watched until she twirled, startled to see him standing there.
    She gasped, fumbled with the mop, and almost slipped. "Oga, I'm sorry," she stammered, her voice trembling. "I didn't know you were back." Her eyes widened with fear, perhaps thinking she would be scolded or fired for using the speaker. "But Darlington only smiled and shook his head gently." Don't stop," he said softly, stepping further into the room.
    "I've never seen someone dance like that so free." Her eyes dropped to the floor as she apologized again, reaching to turn off the music. But he stopped her hand. That moment marked a shift, a dangerous one. In that small space of silence between her heartbeat and his, something unspoken was born.
    and neither of them knew that everything in their world was about to change because of a dance upstairs in a bedroom laced with velvet curtains and French perfume. Cassandra Au scrolled through her tablet while a maid painted her toenails a radiant shade of wine. She had no idea Darlington had returned.
    And even if she did, she wouldn't have rushed downstairs to welcome him. That wasn't her style. Love to her was about possession, a calculated alliance between her family's legacy and his. She was a daughter of Chief Au, an oil tycoon whose influence ran through political veins like blood. The engagement between Cassandra and Darlington was a merger of powerhouses.

    To be continued...
    BILLIONAIRE CHOSE HIS MAID OVER HIS FIANCÉE — AND PAID THE PRICE Darlington Obi, the sole heir to the OB group holdings, had never been one for surprises. Yet, on that breezy Wednesday afternoon, he arrived at his estate without alerting anyone. Not his staff, not his fianceé, not even his mother, who usually micromanaged his every step. His flight from London had landed earlier than expected, and for the first time in years, he wanted to walk into his mansion without the burden of fanfare or formal greetings. The towering black gates slid open silently, and his convoy remained outside while he stepped in alone, holding just a leather bag and wearing a simple black polo with navy blue slacks. The stillness inside was unsettling. The chandelier above the entrance cast soft shadows on the white marble floor as he made his way toward the kitchen, drawn by the faint sound of music and laughter. It was not the kind of laughter that came from privilege or pretense. It was genuine, pure, melodic and strangely contagious. And there she was, barefoot on the tiled floor, her wrapper tied loosely around her waist, headscarf swaying as she spun in slow circles with a mop in one hand and her other hand lifted toward the ceiling like a ballerina. She danced like someone who didn't know the world was watching, like someone whose joy wasn't dependent on money or fame. The Bluetooth speaker beside the pantry hummed with a soft tune by Asa, and every step she took fell in rhythm with the song Darlington froze. Not because she was the most beautiful woman he had seen, though her smooth dark skin and natural smile lit something within him, but because her freedom, her joy, and her authenticity struck him like lightning in a dry season. For a man who had seen the world closed billionaire deals and walked red carpets with women who wore diamonds like clothing, this moment felt like a window into a life he had forgotten existed. It wasn't just about attraction. It was about something deeper. peace, purity, and presence. He didn't say a word, just watched until she twirled, startled to see him standing there. She gasped, fumbled with the mop, and almost slipped. "Oga, I'm sorry," she stammered, her voice trembling. "I didn't know you were back." Her eyes widened with fear, perhaps thinking she would be scolded or fired for using the speaker. "But Darlington only smiled and shook his head gently." Don't stop," he said softly, stepping further into the room. "I've never seen someone dance like that so free." Her eyes dropped to the floor as she apologized again, reaching to turn off the music. But he stopped her hand. That moment marked a shift, a dangerous one. In that small space of silence between her heartbeat and his, something unspoken was born. and neither of them knew that everything in their world was about to change because of a dance upstairs in a bedroom laced with velvet curtains and French perfume. Cassandra Au scrolled through her tablet while a maid painted her toenails a radiant shade of wine. She had no idea Darlington had returned. And even if she did, she wouldn't have rushed downstairs to welcome him. That wasn't her style. Love to her was about possession, a calculated alliance between her family's legacy and his. She was a daughter of Chief Au, an oil tycoon whose influence ran through political veins like blood. The engagement between Cassandra and Darlington was a merger of powerhouses. To be continued...
    Like
    1
    0 Commenti 0 condivisioni 117 Views
  • *27 WAYS TO BUILD A HAPPY AND LONG LASTING MARRIAGE *

    Marriage is a beautiful and fulfilling relationship that requires commitment, love, and sacrifice.

    No matter what culture you belong to, what religion you believe, what society, level of wealth, or era you live in – one thing common to all people is that they want to be "happy", especially in their marriages.

    What Should you do?

    1. Love the person you married, not the person you hoped you married. Accept your spouse totally. You cannot love a man/woman you do not accept. Stop comparing your spouse with anyone, he or she can never be somebody else. Until you accept your spouse, you can't get the best out of your marriage

    2. Understand each other. No marriage succeeds without understanding. Learn to know one another as best as you can. Understand you are not the same and may never be. Respect that you are both individuals. Get to know each other strengths and weaknesses. Strengthen each other's weaknesses.

    3. Be quick to forgive and quicker to apologize. Love forgives. Learn to accept apology. Freely forgive your spouse’s past, present and future offenses. Never refer to his/her past mistakes. Never go to bed with anger or unsettled quarrel. Marriage is two forgivers living together.

    4. Ask your spouse, "What can I do for you today?" every single day.

    5. Never talk bad about your spouse to other people. Protect him or her and always keep his or her name safe. Fight for each other, not with each other.

    6. Have lots of s*x. Enjoy S*x with your spouse. Never withhold s*x as a punishment.

    7. Keep the word "divorce" out of your vocabulary. Remember your vows. Review them on a regular basis.

    8. Provide for the needs of your spouse and children. Never be stingy to your spouse. Care for his/her needs. Be generous to him/her. Pay your children’s school fees promptly and regularly. Marriage is not 50/50. It's 100/100. Give yourself entirely, and don't hold back. Men, Be sensitive to your wife’s needs. Spend money to beautify her.

    9. Be faithful to your spouse. Being unfaithful is the easiest way to completely ruin your marriage. Adultery kills.

    10. Understand and learn each other's love language. Either it can be words, gifts, touch, actions, etc. If it is words, then frequently tell your spouse you love and appreciate him/ her. If it is action: regularly do things that they appreciate: either take the garbage out, wash the dishes, cook the food, wash the car, etc
    Spoil each other. Keep track of the things your spouse loves and buy them for him or her.

    11. Communication is the key to a relationship. Talk like friends and lovers. Don’t make your spouse guess what you are thinking or feeling. Don't expect him/her to read your mind. You should feel free to discuss all things without fear.

    12. Always listen attentively to your spouse. Switch off your phone or television, shut down your computer or iPad and newspapers, books and magazine should be closed. The greatest communication skill you can develop is the listening skill. Be quiet and patient while he/she is speaking, when he/she is done, you can express your opinion. Look straight into his/her eyes when he is talking to you or when you’re talking to him. This will make him/her feel that you are interested in what he/she wants to say.

    13. Love, respect and courtesy are basic ingredients of happy married life. Give them generously to your spouse. Show your spouse how much you love, care and appreciate him/her regularly. Say, "I love you," every single day.

    14. Be honest and show sincere appreciation. Appreciate each other. Show your spouse appreciation for the little things. Be thankful and say so!!! Find something that you appreciate about your spouse and say thank you.

    15. Surprise each other with lovely gifts, kiss and s*x.
    Kiss passionately. Hold hands. Cuddle. Make physical affection a priority in your marriage.

    16. Make quality time for each other. Keep dating each other. Put your marriage and spouse before your children. Play together. Never lose your sense of humor. Make your spouse your best friend.

    17. Share everything...no secrets between you. Be open with your spouse.

    18. Be polite and courteous to each other. Saying thank you, please and I am sorry.

    19. Get rid of bad habits. Don’t do those things your spouse hates. Don’t do things that hurt him/her. Develop a godly character. Don’t create a hostile environment for your spouse. Focus on making your spouse happy. The best way to improve your relationship is to improve yourself.

    20. Always be honest to your partner. Lying never gets you anywhere

    21. Aim to do something at least once per week together. It does not matter what, even if it is to eat together, bath together, watch movies together, read books together and share light conversation

    22. Do NOT look at other marriages and covet. No marriage is prefect. Remember, the grass is not greener on the other side. You will still have to maintain, mow and weed that side too!

    23. Work at your marriage. If you ever lack motivation for your marriage and feel like the flame has gone dead. Just try to imagine yourself without your spouse. Talk to anyone who has lost their soul mate and they'll tell you that they will give anything to have back that special someone.

    Remember, it is your marriage and you have come this far. Make the best of it. Pledge to yourself that you will do your part and try your best. Remember that you chose your spouse for forever.

    24. All issues need to have a solution and be resolved at the time of the conversation. Finish what you start otherwise things just hang in the balance,which leads to future problems.

    25. Don't make mountains out of mole hills. Don't waste your time fighting over little things. It's not worth it. Let small things go.

    26. Don't broadcast your problems to everyone else. If you need to talk to someone about it, other than your spouse, get a therapist.

    27. Above all: Serve God together, Pray together & Pray for one another. Pray for your spouse daily in your personal prayers. Be specific. Talk to God about his or her challenges and trials, and ask Him what you can do to be a better spouse.

    You will not fail in your marriage in Jesus name

    Kindly share..
    *27 WAYS TO BUILD A HAPPY AND LONG LASTING MARRIAGE 👩🧑💖* Marriage is a beautiful and fulfilling relationship that requires commitment, love, and sacrifice. No matter what culture you belong to, what religion you believe, what society, level of wealth, or era you live in – one thing common to all people is that they want to be "happy", especially in their marriages. What Should you do? 1. Love the person you married, not the person you hoped you married. Accept your spouse totally. You cannot love a man/woman you do not accept. Stop comparing your spouse with anyone, he or she can never be somebody else. Until you accept your spouse, you can't get the best out of your marriage 2. Understand each other. No marriage succeeds without understanding. Learn to know one another as best as you can. Understand you are not the same and may never be. Respect that you are both individuals. Get to know each other strengths and weaknesses. Strengthen each other's weaknesses. 3. Be quick to forgive and quicker to apologize. Love forgives. Learn to accept apology. Freely forgive your spouse’s past, present and future offenses. Never refer to his/her past mistakes. Never go to bed with anger or unsettled quarrel. Marriage is two forgivers living together. 4. Ask your spouse, "What can I do for you today?" every single day. 5. Never talk bad about your spouse to other people. Protect him or her and always keep his or her name safe. Fight for each other, not with each other. 6. Have lots of s*x. Enjoy S*x with your spouse. Never withhold s*x as a punishment. 7. Keep the word "divorce" out of your vocabulary. Remember your vows. Review them on a regular basis. 8. Provide for the needs of your spouse and children. Never be stingy to your spouse. Care for his/her needs. Be generous to him/her. Pay your children’s school fees promptly and regularly. Marriage is not 50/50. It's 100/100. Give yourself entirely, and don't hold back. Men, Be sensitive to your wife’s needs. Spend money to beautify her. 9. Be faithful to your spouse. Being unfaithful is the easiest way to completely ruin your marriage. Adultery kills. 10. Understand and learn each other's love language. Either it can be words, gifts, touch, actions, etc. If it is words, then frequently tell your spouse you love and appreciate him/ her. If it is action: regularly do things that they appreciate: either take the garbage out, wash the dishes, cook the food, wash the car, etc Spoil each other. Keep track of the things your spouse loves and buy them for him or her. 11. Communication is the key to a relationship. Talk like friends and lovers. Don’t make your spouse guess what you are thinking or feeling. Don't expect him/her to read your mind. You should feel free to discuss all things without fear. 12. Always listen attentively to your spouse. Switch off your phone or television, shut down your computer or iPad and newspapers, books and magazine should be closed. The greatest communication skill you can develop is the listening skill. Be quiet and patient while he/she is speaking, when he/she is done, you can express your opinion. Look straight into his/her eyes when he is talking to you or when you’re talking to him. This will make him/her feel that you are interested in what he/she wants to say. 13. Love, respect and courtesy are basic ingredients of happy married life. Give them generously to your spouse. Show your spouse how much you love, care and appreciate him/her regularly. Say, "I love you," every single day. 14. Be honest and show sincere appreciation. Appreciate each other. Show your spouse appreciation for the little things. Be thankful and say so!!! Find something that you appreciate about your spouse and say thank you. 15. Surprise each other with lovely gifts, kiss and s*x. Kiss passionately. Hold hands. Cuddle. Make physical affection a priority in your marriage. 16. Make quality time for each other. Keep dating each other. Put your marriage and spouse before your children. Play together. Never lose your sense of humor. Make your spouse your best friend. 17. Share everything...no secrets between you. Be open with your spouse. 18. Be polite and courteous to each other. Saying thank you, please and I am sorry. 19. Get rid of bad habits. Don’t do those things your spouse hates. Don’t do things that hurt him/her. Develop a godly character. Don’t create a hostile environment for your spouse. Focus on making your spouse happy. The best way to improve your relationship is to improve yourself. 20. Always be honest to your partner. Lying never gets you anywhere 21. Aim to do something at least once per week together. It does not matter what, even if it is to eat together, bath together, watch movies together, read books together and share light conversation 22. Do NOT look at other marriages and covet. No marriage is prefect. Remember, the grass is not greener on the other side. You will still have to maintain, mow and weed that side too! 23. Work at your marriage. If you ever lack motivation for your marriage and feel like the flame has gone dead. Just try to imagine yourself without your spouse. Talk to anyone who has lost their soul mate and they'll tell you that they will give anything to have back that special someone. Remember, it is your marriage and you have come this far. Make the best of it. Pledge to yourself that you will do your part and try your best. Remember that you chose your spouse for forever. 24. All issues need to have a solution and be resolved at the time of the conversation. Finish what you start otherwise things just hang in the balance,which leads to future problems. 25. Don't make mountains out of mole hills. Don't waste your time fighting over little things. It's not worth it. Let small things go. 26. Don't broadcast your problems to everyone else. If you need to talk to someone about it, other than your spouse, get a therapist. 27. Above all: Serve God together, Pray together & Pray for one another. Pray for your spouse daily in your personal prayers. Be specific. Talk to God about his or her challenges and trials, and ask Him what you can do to be a better spouse. You will not fail in your marriage in Jesus name Kindly share..
    WHATSAPP.COM
    💑MARRIAGE TIPS, HEALTH AND BUSINESS ADVICES 💞💃 | WhatsApp Channel
    💑MARRIAGE TIPS, HEALTH AND BUSINESS ADVICES 💞💃 WhatsApp Channel. *❤️MARRIAGE IS A BEAUTIFUL THING CREATED BY GOD,* *FOR YOU TO ENJOY IT THERE ARE SOME TIPS AND ADVICE YOU NEED TO LEARN:🌹* *6 SECRETS IN MARRIAGE THAT WILL SAVE YOUR RELATIONSHIP FOR BETTER!*🍹 Secret 1 *Everyone you marry has a weakness. So if you focus on your spouse's weakness you can't get the best out of his strength.* Secret 2 *Everyone has a dark history. No one is an angel. When you get married or you want to get married stop digging into someone's past. What matters most is the present life of your partner. Old things have passed away. Forgive and forget. Focus on the present and the future.* Secret 3 *Every marriage has its own challenges. Marriage is not a bed of roses. Every good marriage has gone through its own test of blazing fire. True love proves in times of challenges. Fight for your marriage. Make up your mind to stay with your spouse in times of need. Remember the vow For better for worse. In sickness and in health be there.* Secret 4 *Every marriage has different levels of success. Don't compare your marriage with any one else. We can never be equal. Some will be far, some behind. To avoid marriage stresses, be patient, work hard and with time your marriage dreams shall come true.* Secret 5 *To get married is declaring war. When you get married you must declare war against enemies of marriage. Some enemies of marriage are:* 1. Ignorance 2. Prayerlessness 3. Unforgiveness 4. Third party influence 5. Stinginess 6. Stubbornness 7. Lack of love 9. Rudeness 10. Laziness 11. Disrespect 12. Cheating Be ready to fight to maintain your marriage zone. Secret 6 *There is no perfect marriage.There is no ready made marriage. Marriage is hard work. Volunteer yourself to work daily on it.* *Marriage is like a car that needs proper maintenance and proper service. If this is not done it will break down somewhere exposing the owner to danger or some unhealthy circumstances Let us not be careless about our marriages.🙏*. 38K followers
    0 Commenti 0 condivisioni 114 Views


  • *What to Have Before You Become a Wife *

    Dear Single Lady, i know you're Preparing for a beautiful future, and marriage is one of those beautiful journey of life you desire.

    But before stepping into it, it's important you prepare— not just with wedding plans, but with the right mindset, habits, and heart. Wedding is not marriage, and marriage is not a day experience.

    So before you become a wife; Have

    1. A Strong Relationship with Yourself

    Know who you are. Understand your values, your dreams, and your emotions.

    Self-love and self-respect lay the foundation for a healthy relationship with someone else.

    Don't expect a man to fully love and respect you when you don't love and respect yourself or you're still confused about yourself.

    Know what you can do and what you can't do. The flaws you can manage in a man, and the toxic habits you can't endure.

    2. Emotional Maturity

    Can you handle disagreements without losing control? Can you forgive, communicate, and listen to your man with love?

    In as much as you're willing to be a submissive wife, understand that You won't always agree with your husband.
    There will be days of misunderstanding. There will days where you don't feel like talking to him. And there will be days when you'll look at him with a bombastic side eyes and feel like shouting ontop of your voice— at him. So start learning Conflict Resolution Skills.

    Learn Good Communication Skills too.

    Marriage requires honest, gentle, and respectful conversations. So you must Learn how to address a man.

    Start Practicing how to express yourself clearly and calmly, even when things get tough.

    Develop good manner of approach and speech. Learn how to resolve issues with calmness and respect instead of anger or silence.

    A peaceful home is not a home without problems, it's a home where problems are handled with wisdom.

    3. Financial Wisdom

    You don't need to be rich, but it's wise you learn how to manage money, budget, save, and spend wisely. Marriage involves sharing responsibilities, and finances are a big part of that.

    You may not have money in your pocket now, but have a brain that can generate millions. Don't be empty physically and mentally.

    Imagine you meet a man who's ready to help you grow, what do you have that he can use to establish you

    Don't wait for a man to come into your life and start building your from scratch. Have something— physically or mentally, or both.

    Don't sit down lazying around— believing you'll get any man or thing you want because you're beautiful. Your power doesn't lie in your beauty/body— it lies in your BRAIN. Feed your brain!



    4. A Clear Vision and Purpose for Life

    What kind of life do you want to build? What are your priorities— faith, career, children, purpose?

    Do you want to raise worldly children or Godly children? Do you want a marriage centered in Christ or Crisis? Do you want to be a career wife or a house wife?

    It's very important to know where you're headed in life so you can choose a man who shares and supports that vision.

    Don't be the type of lady who just want to want to birth kid, eat and sleep.

    If all you're concerned about as a lady is trending things and fashion, you may get frustrated when you enter marriage and your expectations are not been met.

    Luxuries are good, but have a vision and a purpose that can birth impacts. Impacts generates money, and money brings comfort.


    5. Sound Marital Knowledge

    You want to get married without knowing anything about marriage?

    In as much as there will be some shocking discoveries you'll experience inside marriage, you still have to equip yourself well to some extent.

    You don't prepare for battle in the battlefield, you prepare ahead of it.

    You want marriage. You want to answer a 'wife' . You want to be a mother. But you haven't read upto 5 positive books that teaches about healthy marriage, becoming a wife of value, and a fulfilled mother. You don't even study God's standard for marriage— your bible.

    All you do is to go on dates, then come back home and watch movies. Keep playing

    Even when you prepare yourself, the practical aspect of marriage will still give you some shocks. Now imagine what will happen if you don't equip yourself at all ?

    Show me a man who is going for war without arming himself, and I'll show you a man who has made up his mind to be k!!led even before he gets to the warfront.

    Marriage is not a play. Get the right Knowledge as much as you can.

    6. Healing from Past Wounds

    Unresolved pain from your past relationships or childhood can cause problems later in your marriage.

    Please Take time to heal, forgive, and let go of your past relationship hurts before planning of getting married.

    Don't carry what your Ex did to you into marriage and start pun!shing your husband with it. You may de$tɍoy your marriage.

    Find peace first. A peaceful heart makes room for love to grow.

    7. The Right Community

    Surround yourself with wise women— married, single, and older— who can guide you, pray with you, and give sound advice. You'll need them before and after marriage.

    Stay away from feminist if you truly want to enjoy your marriage.

    Anyone who advises you to equal yourself to your man doesn't mean well for you. Avoid them.


    8. A Lifestyle of Responsibility

    Can you take care of your home, your health, your work, and your spiritual life without being pushed?

    Marriage doesn't magically make people responsible, you carry your habits into it and it amplifies them.
    Start building them now— the right habits.

    Start learning how to cook, keep the home neat, take care of kids.

    9. Hobbies and Passions

    In preparing to become a wife, You have to learn to trust God's timing. But while you wait, grow.

    Don't lose yourself because you're waiting for marriage. Explore your talents, pursue passions, build a meaningful life outside of your relationship. Work on yourself, build your dreams, and enjoy your season.

    When you're a well-rounded woman, you'll bring joy, depth, and beauty into your home.

    10. A Prayer Life

    Marriage will challenge your emotions, your faith, your patience, and your strength— and that's why you must start now to build your relationship with God.

    A praying woman builds her home in wisdom. So Start now! Make prayer your anchor, not your backup plan.

    A kneeling woman is a winning woman!


    Dear unmarried lady, Marriage won't fix your life, it will add to it. So build a life you love— then share it with a man who truly values it.

    Building yourself means you don't expect your man to complete you— you're already whole.

    So as a single lady, you must understand that becoming a wife is not just about finding the right man, it's about becoming the right woman.

    A wife is not just a title, it's a calling, and preparation is key.

    Don't just sit and be waiting to be chosen— Prepare yourself too to choose wisely, to love deeply, and to thrive in your marriage, not just survive in it.

    Marriage is meant to be ENJOYED , not to be ENDURED .

    You are worth the wait. PEACE!
    *What to Have Before You Become a Wife📌 👇* Dear Single Lady, i know you're Preparing for a beautiful future, and marriage is one of those beautiful journey of life you desire. But before stepping into it, it's important you prepare— not just with wedding plans, but with the right mindset, habits, and heart. Wedding is not marriage, and marriage is not a day experience. So before you become a wife; Have 1. A Strong Relationship with Yourself Know who you are. Understand your values, your dreams, and your emotions. Self-love and self-respect lay the foundation for a healthy relationship with someone else. Don't expect a man to fully love and respect you when you don't love and respect yourself or you're still confused about yourself. Know what you can do and what you can't do. The flaws you can manage in a man, and the toxic habits you can't endure. 2. Emotional Maturity Can you handle disagreements without losing control? Can you forgive, communicate, and listen to your man with love? In as much as you're willing to be a submissive wife, understand that You won't always agree with your husband. There will be days of misunderstanding. There will days where you don't feel like talking to him. And there will be days when you'll look at him with a bombastic side eyes and feel like shouting ontop of your voice— at him. So start learning Conflict Resolution Skills. Learn Good Communication Skills too. Marriage requires honest, gentle, and respectful conversations. So you must Learn how to address a man. Start Practicing how to express yourself clearly and calmly, even when things get tough. Develop good manner of approach and speech. Learn how to resolve issues with calmness and respect instead of anger or silence. A peaceful home is not a home without problems, it's a home where problems are handled with wisdom. 3. Financial Wisdom You don't need to be rich, but it's wise you learn how to manage money, budget, save, and spend wisely. Marriage involves sharing responsibilities, and finances are a big part of that. You may not have money in your pocket now, but have a brain that can generate millions. Don't be empty physically and mentally. Imagine you meet a man who's ready to help you grow, what do you have that he can use to establish you❓ Don't wait for a man to come into your life and start building your from scratch. Have something— physically or mentally, or both. Don't sit down lazying around— believing you'll get any man or thing you want because you're beautiful. Your power doesn't lie in your beauty/body— it lies in your BRAIN. Feed your brain! • 4. A Clear Vision and Purpose for Life What kind of life do you want to build? What are your priorities— faith, career, children, purpose? Do you want to raise worldly children or Godly children? Do you want a marriage centered in Christ or Crisis? Do you want to be a career wife or a house wife? It's very important to know where you're headed in life so you can choose a man who shares and supports that vision. Don't be the type of lady who just want to want to birth kid, eat and sleep. If all you're concerned about as a lady is trending things and fashion, you may get frustrated when you enter marriage and your expectations are not been met. Luxuries are good, but have a vision and a purpose that can birth impacts. Impacts generates money, and money brings comfort. 5. Sound Marital Knowledge You want to get married without knowing anything about marriage? In as much as there will be some shocking discoveries you'll experience inside marriage, you still have to equip yourself well to some extent. You don't prepare for battle in the battlefield, you prepare ahead of it. You want marriage. You want to answer a 'wife' . You want to be a mother. But you haven't read upto 5 positive books that teaches about healthy marriage, becoming a wife of value, and a fulfilled mother. You don't even study God's standard for marriage— your bible. All you do is to go on dates, then come back home and watch movies. Keep playing 🙄 Even when you prepare yourself, the practical aspect of marriage will still give you some shocks. Now imagine what will happen if you don't equip yourself at all ? Show me a man who is going for war without arming himself, and I'll show you a man who has made up his mind to be k!!led even before he gets to the warfront. Marriage is not a play. Get the right Knowledge as much as you can. 6. Healing from Past Wounds Unresolved pain from your past relationships or childhood can cause problems later in your marriage. Please Take time to heal, forgive, and let go of your past relationship hurts before planning of getting married. Don't carry what your Ex did to you into marriage and start pun!shing your husband with it. You may de$tɍoy your marriage. Find peace first. A peaceful heart makes room for love to grow. 7. The Right Community Surround yourself with wise women— married, single, and older— who can guide you, pray with you, and give sound advice. You'll need them before and after marriage. Stay away from feminist if you truly want to enjoy your marriage. Anyone who advises you to equal yourself to your man doesn't mean well for you. Avoid them. 8. A Lifestyle of Responsibility Can you take care of your home, your health, your work, and your spiritual life without being pushed? Marriage doesn't magically make people responsible, you carry your habits into it and it amplifies them. Start building them now— the right habits. Start learning how to cook, keep the home neat, take care of kids. 9. Hobbies and Passions In preparing to become a wife, You have to learn to trust God's timing. But while you wait, grow. Don't lose yourself because you're waiting for marriage. Explore your talents, pursue passions, build a meaningful life outside of your relationship. Work on yourself, build your dreams, and enjoy your season. When you're a well-rounded woman, you'll bring joy, depth, and beauty into your home. 10. A Prayer Life Marriage will challenge your emotions, your faith, your patience, and your strength— and that's why you must start now to build your relationship with God. A praying woman builds her home in wisdom. So Start now! Make prayer your anchor, not your backup plan. A kneeling woman is a winning woman! Dear unmarried lady, Marriage won't fix your life, it will add to it. So build a life you love— then share it with a man who truly values it. Building yourself means you don't expect your man to complete you— you're already whole. So as a single lady, you must understand that becoming a wife is not just about finding the right man, it's about becoming the right woman. A wife is not just a title, it's a calling, and preparation is key. Don't just sit and be waiting to be chosen— Prepare yourself too to choose wisely, to love deeply, and to thrive in your marriage, not just survive in it. Marriage is meant to be ENJOYED ✅, not to be ENDURED ❌. You are worth the wait. PEACE!🕊️
    WHATSAPP.COM
    💑MARRIAGE TIPS, HEALTH AND BUSINESS ADVICES 💞💃 | WhatsApp Channel
    💑MARRIAGE TIPS, HEALTH AND BUSINESS ADVICES 💞💃 WhatsApp Channel. *❤️MARRIAGE IS A BEAUTIFUL THING CREATED BY GOD,* *FOR YOU TO ENJOY IT THERE ARE SOME TIPS AND ADVICE YOU NEED TO LEARN:🌹* *6 SECRETS IN MARRIAGE THAT WILL SAVE YOUR RELATIONSHIP FOR BETTER!*🍹 Secret 1 *Everyone you marry has a weakness. So if you focus on your spouse's weakness you can't get the best out of his strength.* Secret 2 *Everyone has a dark history. No one is an angel. When you get married or you want to get married stop digging into someone's past. What matters most is the present life of your partner. Old things have passed away. Forgive and forget. Focus on the present and the future.* Secret 3 *Every marriage has its own challenges. Marriage is not a bed of roses. Every good marriage has gone through its own test of blazing fire. True love proves in times of challenges. Fight for your marriage. Make up your mind to stay with your spouse in times of need. Remember the vow For better for worse. In sickness and in health be there.* Secret 4 *Every marriage has different levels of success. Don't compare your marriage with any one else. We can never be equal. Some will be far, some behind. To avoid marriage stresses, be patient, work hard and with time your marriage dreams shall come true.* Secret 5 *To get married is declaring war. When you get married you must declare war against enemies of marriage. Some enemies of marriage are:* 1. Ignorance 2. Prayerlessness 3. Unforgiveness 4. Third party influence 5. Stinginess 6. Stubbornness 7. Lack of love 9. Rudeness 10. Laziness 11. Disrespect 12. Cheating Be ready to fight to maintain your marriage zone. Secret 6 *There is no perfect marriage.There is no ready made marriage. Marriage is hard work. Volunteer yourself to work daily on it.* *Marriage is like a car that needs proper maintenance and proper service. If this is not done it will break down somewhere exposing the owner to danger or some unhealthy circumstances Let us not be careless about our marriages.🙏*. 38K followers
    0 Commenti 0 condivisioni 101 Views
  • If a woman is going through heartbreak and she wants to take revenge on you, the next thing she does is to look for men and stop jumping from one bed to another bed.

    Sometimes it looks as if your ex becomes more beautiful when she left you, its a bloody lie, she's still worse, the reason is simply because she's now have free access to jump from one bed to another and so since her body is her market she has to apply more make up and wear more sexy clothes so she can sell her market.

    You see her snapping with nice background and different interior designs, its simply places where she went for her bed to bed activities.

    Don't be under any useless pressure to prove a point.

    Calm down and keep building yourself.

    Your mission is to get a more better women chasing you than her, so the only way that can happen is for you to bury your head into building yourself and following Alhasan Alex Darboe can help you achieve that.

    Grow your value and worth and watch women more better than her beg you for love.

    The.end

    Stay putinized.
    If a woman is going through heartbreak and she wants to take revenge on you, the next thing she does is to look for men and stop jumping from one bed to another bed. Sometimes it looks as if your ex becomes more beautiful when she left you, its a bloody lie, she's still worse, the reason is simply because she's now have free access to jump from one bed to another and so since her body is her market she has to apply more make up and wear more sexy clothes so she can sell her market. You see her snapping with nice background and different interior designs, its simply places where she went for her bed to bed activities. Don't be under any useless pressure to prove a point. Calm down and keep building yourself. Your mission is to get a more better women chasing you than her, so the only way that can happen is for you to bury your head into building yourself and following Alhasan Alex Darboe can help you achieve that. Grow your value and worth and watch women more better than her beg you for love. The.end Stay putinized.
    Like
    1
    0 Commenti 0 condivisioni 96 Views
  • Happy beautiful Sunday to you all.
    I wish you all, a wonderful and blissful Sunday.
    Happy beautiful Sunday to you all. I wish you all, a wonderful and blissful Sunday.
    0 Commenti 0 condivisioni 114 Views
  • I promise you, you'll never regret having pure intentions and a beautiful heart. All good things come back tenfold
    I promise you, you'll never regret having pure intentions and a beautiful heart. All good things come back tenfold👌
    1 Commenti 1 condivisioni 61 Views
  • In every storm,He is there.No matter what you are facing believe that God grace is sufficient to carry you through every challenge. Do not lose faith for God will reach out His hand when you need Him the most.He Love you and will lead you out of the darkness into a new dawn of hope. God will carry you through every storm in your life and give you strength.Worship the Lord your God and his blessings will be on your food and water.I will take away sickness from among you, says the Lord of Host. (Exodus 23:25) Have a beautiful weekend filled with God's unfailing Love.
    In every storm,He is there.No matter what you are facing believe that God grace is sufficient to carry you through every challenge. Do not lose faith for God will reach out His hand when you need Him the most.He Love you and will lead you out of the darkness into a new dawn of hope. God will carry you through every storm in your life and give you strength.Worship the Lord your God and his blessings will be on your food and water.I will take away sickness from among you, says the Lord of Host. (Exodus 23:25) Have a beautiful weekend filled with God's unfailing Love.
    0 Commenti 0 condivisioni 137 Views
Pagine in Evidenza
Gada Chat https://gada.chat