Listen up, Men! Never Joke with Your Source of Income—Get Money at All Costs

Let me tell you this personally: If you don’t have your money right, you’re going to suffer. The world is brutal to broke men. You don’t get sympathy, handouts, or free passes. You’re not a woman who gets free stuff just by existing.

Women are born with their value. A beautiful woman can walk into any room and instantly get attention, validation, and resources. But as a man, you have to EARN your value.

Here’s Why You Must Never Joke with Your Source of Income:

1. Respect Comes from Power, and Power Comes from Money
A broke man has no power, no authority, and no say. If you want people to respect your presence, you need money.

2. Nobody Feeds a Broke Man
If you’re down and out, nobody’s coming to save you. There are no safety nets, no sympathy, and no handouts. You’re either grinding or you’re invisible.

3. You Can’t Protect or Provide Without Resources
As a man, your value is tied to your ability to provide, protect, and lead. Without money, you’re a liability, not an asset.

4. Financial Independence Is True Freedom
Without your own income, you are a slave to your job, your boss, and even the opinions of others. Money gives you choices, freedom, and control over your own destiny.

5. Broke Men Are Easy Targets for Manipulation
A man with no money is an easy mark for manipulation. People use, discard, and disrespect broke men because they know they have no leverage.

6. Women Lose Interest Quickly in Broke Men
No matter how nice or loving you are, if you’re broke, she’s going to lose interest. Women are wired to seek security and stability—if you can’t provide that, you’re done.

7. You Have No Voice Without Resources
In this world, money talks. You can’t make moves, take risks, or have influence if you’re broke.

8. Survival Demands It
There’s no dignity in poverty. You must get money at all costs because your survival, your dignity, and your future depend on it.

Final Warning

Don’t let anyone distract you from your grind. Don’t let relationships, drama, or laziness stop you from getting your money right. Chase the bag, secure your income, and build your empire.

A man without money is a man without options. Make sure you always have options. #motivation #preciousandfamily #Marriage #follower #Relationship

I Pray For You As You Walk Through The Journey Of April

The Lord Shall Transport Your Nightmares Into Miracles In Jesus Name

You Shall No More Groan In Pain And Affliction In Jesus Name

The Unusual Miracles Shall Come Upon Your Life In Jesus Name

Unimaginable Sign's And Wonders Shall Manifest In Your Life And Home In Jesus Name

May The Almighty God Endowed You With Power To Defeats Your Defeats In Jesus Name

The Presence Of God Shall Overshadow Every Area Of Your Life

Favour Shall Be Your Foot Step Everywhere You Step This Month Of April In Jesus Mighty Name

You Have See The Beginning Of April You Shall See The End Of This Year In Jesus Name

Happy New month

Walk In Grace ,Walk In Light Of God

As you take your journey the second quarter of the year 2025, the hand of the Lord shall break new grounds of victory for you. Your path shall be lightened by divine presence, darkness shall be far from you. The blessings of God that maketh rich shall rest on all your labour. You shall have a sweetening reward for all your sowing. Power that banish destinies into the wilderness of frustration shall not rule your life. By the hand of the Lord your portion shall flourish as the garden of Sharon!!. Amen and Hallelujah!!

*FOBCARES *

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- Pastor Jerry Eze

*Favour come looking for you when you carry the right atmosphere - The Presence of God.*

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IF YOU DON'T FEEL IT, IT ISN'T LOVE

Real love isn’t just about saying “I love you”; it’s about proving it through consistent actions. It’s found in the little, everyday gestures-checking in to see how your partner is doing, offering support without being asked, remembering the small details that matter most. It’s in the effort to understand, in the willingness to listen, and in the patience to stand by someone even when times get tough.

True love doesn’t waver when faced with challenges; instead, it deepens, showing its strength through commitment and unwavering presence. Words can be spoken without meaning, but actions never lie. Love is in the way someone prioritizes you, the sacrifices they make, and the effort they put into making you feel valued.

Love isn’t just a feeling-it’s a choice, made every day, to show up, to care, and to stay.

Let's talk about "The Intentional Father".

A father’s role in molding his children is irreplaceable. Beyond providing for their physical needs, he is their guide, protector, and first example of strength and integrity. His words shape their self-esteem, his actions define their morals, and his presence fosters security.

Fatherhood demands intentionality-being present, teaching by example, and nurturing with wisdom. A man must deliberately instill values, discipline with love, and inspire confidence in his children. His intentional efforts today determine the kind of adults they become tomorrow.
A father who leads with purpose raises children who will one day shape the world.

Dear God,

I come before you today with a humble heart, seeking guidance, strength, and wisdom.

Help me to stay focused on my goals and aspirations, and to trust in your plan for my life.

Grant me the courage to face any challenges that come my way, and the resilience to bounce back from setbacks.

Fill me with your love, compassion, and kindness, that I may be a source of hope and inspiration to those around me.

Thank you for your unwavering presence in my life, and for the countless blessings you've bestowed upon me.

In Jesus' name, I pray. Amen.

May this prayer bring you comfort, peace, and inspiration for the day ahead
Have a lovely day friends.

This was the very first thing I saw on social media today and it got me thinking

*Now take note of the questions he asked her within 2 minutes.*

1. What do you do?
2. Where is the business?
3. Show me a sample


Let’s break down these three powerful questions the Governor asked that changed this woman’s life in less than two minutes:

*1. What do you do?*

If someone asked you this today, would you have a clear answer?

Do you actually have a skill, business, or project you are working on?


*2. Where is the business?*

Do you have proof that you’re doing something, or are you just talking?

Is there a physical or online presence that shows your work?


*3. Show me a sample.*

Can you demonstrate what you do on the spot?

Do you have a product, a service, or a portfolio that proves you’re ready for the next level?



This woman got rewarded fir all her years of labour and prayers and her story changed in less than a two minutes interview because she had something in place.

If she had nothing, the opportunity would have passed her by.

*The Lesson?*

Stop waiting for a miracle while doing nothing. Prepare yourself.

Build something, even if it’s small. When the right person asks, you’ll have answers—and believe you me, that marks the beginning of your tears of Joy.


Congratulations to this blessed mother and God bless the Governor.

May the blessings, protection and presence of God never depart from you. I decree that every covenant of impossibility over your life to break into pieces in Jesus Name.

Till date, how water gets inside the coconut remains a mystery, the source of your joy, favour and happiness will remain a mystery to all your adversaries today and forever in Jesus Christ Mighty Name. Amen.

*FOBCARES *

When fish leave river the body will dry, when you leave God presence you are taking a terrible risk.

18 COSTLY MISTAKES THAT HUSBANDS MAKE

1. WORKING SO HARD AT YOUR JOB/BUSINESS BUT NOT IN YOUR MARRIAGE
Men, your company, your career, and your business are growing and flourishing because you lead them; your marriage will grow and flourish when you lead it and dedicate time to it.

2. THINKING THAT FLIRTING WITH OTHER WOMEN IS NOT CHEATING
You may not physically sleep with other women, but emotionally cheating is also unfaithfulness. Receiving nude images and having phone intimacy with other women is also cheating. Talking suggestively and attracting temptations is also cheating. If you are a flirt, flirt with your wife. If you claim your wife is too rigid, treat her well, and she will respond to your kinky ways. She also wants intimate pleasure and to feel wanted.

3. BEING GENEROUS OUTSIDE AND STINGY AT HOME
Don't be the husband who quickly says yes when other people ask for help, for your time and your money, but stingy to your wife and child/children. Your family comes first. Don't go to harambees contributing large sums, helping out people because you want to have a good public image yet to your family you deprive and deny.

4. THINKING THAT SHOWING LOVE IS AN UNMANLY THING
When you were dating and courting, you were romantic and thoughtful; but now that you are married, you wrongly think showing love is beneath you. If you truly love your wife, tell her, she needs to hear it. Warm her heart. Romance her. Date your wife. Her being a wife doesn't mean she doesn't need to feel loved. Real men show their love. God is a loving God. If God doesn't find showing love as something beneath Him, who are you to shun showing affection yet you are created in the image of God?

5. THROWING MONEY AND GIFTS AT PROBLEMS
When your wife and kids get concerned about you spending much time away from home, when you are told you are not doing what you are supposed to; change, improve. Don't throw money and gifts at them to silence them. They want your time and presence, not lifeless things.

6. ADMIRING OTHER WOMEN MORE THAN YOUR WIFE
If you find other women better looking than your wife, work on your wife. Nourish her with compliments, buy her clothes you think she'd look good in, take her shopping, pamper her, love her up till she glows. Go to the gym with her. Jog with her.

7. WASTING YOUR FAMILY MONEY ON MEANINGLESS THINGS
Stop wasting your family money on alcohol, drugs, prostitutes, strippers, and addictions. Invest that money in your family, the future of your child/children. Even if you are a super wealthy man, you can find other ways to have fun that contributes positively to your family life. You can channel your money into more honorable things like supporting your parents, your siblings, the less fortunate, and the needs of society. You don't have to be unfaithful and reckless just because you have lots of money.

8. JUSTIFYING PORNOGRAPHY
Pornography is lusting after other women on videos and images. This is actually cheating because you are desiring other women, not your wife. This also lays the ground for future acts of unfaithfulness. Because you see no harm in desiring strange women on videos and pictures, soon you will see no harm in desiring women in the streets, at work, in your neighborhood; then you might actually sleep with another woman.

9. THINKING THAT BEING THE HEAD OF THE FAMILY MEANS BEING A DICTATOR
This is what makes some husbands beat up their wives, abuse them, sit on them, and hinder their progress. Your wife is not your junior but your partner, she is one with you. Hurting her is hurting you. She is not your competitor, celebrate her progress. Being head doesn't mean your word is law or that you treat your wife as a slave. In fact, because you are the head you should serve more, give more and humble yourself to make sure your wife and child/children are doing well.

10. IGNORING YOUR WIFE'S ADVICE
Don't hide things from your wife. Engage her in making family decisions, you are stronger when you move as a team. Your wife has sharp instincts and she will help you navigate through life's issues.

11. BEING TOO PROUD TO SAY SORRY OR TO LISTEN
You are capable of doing wrong, and when you do wrong, admit it. Problems don't get solved when you deny them. You are not perfect. Learn to say sorry to your wife and child/children. By refusing to say sorry, you are showing your wife you are insensitive and that will hurt her and damage the mood at home. Sometimes all a woman needs is for you to say, "I am sorry." Be open to learning and being corrected. Far too many men are ruining their homes because of pride.

12. ABANDONING YOUR SPIRITUAL ROLE
You are to lead your family, even spiritually. Don't neglect this role and leave it for your wife alone. Your wife needs your prayers, she needs you to walk with her in God. Your child/children need to see you living for God, praying, and teaching them about God. You say you want a Godly household, well, be an actively Godly husband and father.

13. TAKING YOUR JOB TITLE HOME
Whether you are a C.E.O, Manager, Director, or an award-winning professional, once you get home or are with your wife and family, put away your title. Play your role as husband and father. Don't treat your wife and children like subordinates, lording over them. The home is a place of love, not a place for orders, restrictions, pressure, and intimidation.

14. HIDING YOUR FAILURES
In case things don't go well, you get fired, you get retrenched, or you make a bad decision; share it with your wife, don't hide it trying to project a fake image of 'everything is alright'. Your wife is there for you, she will walk with you. Share with her your weaknesses and failures. Love will always win.

15. WORRYING MORE ABOUT WHAT YOUR MALE FRIENDS OR PARENTS THINK THAN PLEASING YOUR FAMILY
Don't let your friends or parents run your marriage. Don't let your friends negatively influence you by mocking you that you are being sat on by your wife or wrongly advise you to be tough on your wife just to prove you are man enough. A true friend is a friend to your marriage. Your parents might mean well but might drive a wedge between you and your wife. You left your father and mother to be one with your wife. Defend your home.

16. BEING INTIMATELY SELFISH
Your wife has intimate needs too. Don't just seek your own gratification and then sleep or leave her unsatisfied. Fulfill her physically. Kiss her, touch her, embrace her, massage her, stimulate her, explore her body, evoke her passion, make her tremble, give her every sensual pleasure. She is devoted to you, and no other can fulfill this role like you can. Make sure she's fulfilled, and she'll reciprocate. Your responsibility is to arouse her and satisfy her intimately. A passionately engaged wife is a content wife and fosters a harmonious home. Make love to her.

17. LETTING HER BE THE PARENT ALONE
When she gets pregnant, don't abandon her. Walk with her as she carries your child. After birth, be proactive in teaching, mentoring, and guiding your child/children. Stop the nonsense of when the child does wrong, the child is your wife's; when the child does well, you are a proud father.

18. FAILING TO PREPARE YOUR CHILD/CHILDREN FOR YOUR SUCCESSION
When you start a business, involve your child/children. Let your wife know of your properties, assets, and ventures. Prepare your children's future. Write a will. Share information, don't keep things in the dark. Too much unnecessary confusion plagues families because of lack of preparation in your marriage.