• SPICE UP YOUR MARRIAGE- TYPES OF DATES EVERY COUPLE SHOULD TRY:

    1. PICNIC DATE
    There is something special and free about the outdoors. Pack up some food and drinks, find a spot and have fun.

    2. WALK DATE
    Make time to just take a walk as you bond. Walk for long as you hold hands, laugh, bump shoulder to shoulder. You need no money for this

    3. ELEGANT DATE
    Go all out. Gentleman, ask her out to an expensive, classy venue. Give her a chance to dress up. She will feel special, smiling as you romance her; she is wearing her fashionable dress

    4. DANCE DATE
    Find a place where good music is played or dance is taught and go there as a couple. Salsa, lingala, afro, twist, benga; go to a place where you will sweat, groove and get down

    5. IMPROMPTU DATE
    Dates don't have to be pre-planned. Be spontaneous sometimes, drop everything and go somewhere as a couple for some quality time

    6. MOVIE DATE
    Go to the cinema. Movies bring out emotions

    7. DOUBLE DATE
    Go out on a date with another couple close to you. This will give you a chance to celebrate love and talk couple to couple. Your love will grow stronger

    8. COMPASSION DATE
    There are many people in society to bless. You and your partner, find a children's home, an elderly home, a hospital or someone in need and together go spend time with them. God will bless your love

    9. CANDLE-LIGHT DINNER DATE
    There is something romantic about looking into each other's eyes in dim candle light. Make it special. Romance is sweet

    10. SPECIAL MOMENT DATE
    This is when you celebrate big as a couple a special moment like Birthday, Anniversary, Graduation or Promotion. Never forget these moments

    11. MAKE-UP DATE
    If things between you two haven't been going well. Make effort to save your love by planning a good date. A date provides a good setting to allow you two to talk and get back to deep love

    12. LUNCH DATE
    Since you work at different jobs, sometimes meet up and have a couple's lunch for an hour or so

    13. OLD LOVE DATE
    Dates are not for young love only. Sadly, as lovers stay in a relationship/marriage, the dates become fewer as they go through the motions. No matter how long you've been together, step outside your everyday responsibilities and go for a date to rekindle and sustain the excitement

    14. SPORTS DATE
    Is your favorite football club, rugby team, basketball team, golfer playing? Is it the safari rally, athletics? Go out for dates as a couple where you can scream, cheer and go wild. You two will connect more

    15. FRIENDS DATE
    Have a barbeque, hook up with friends, throw a party. Organize something as a couple where your love will be celebrated in the presence of close friends

    16. TRAVEL DATE
    Pack your bags and travel. Break the monotony and as a couple drive, fly, sail to a place you've never been. Experience new attractions together. Your love will never be boring this way

    16. STAY AT HOME DATE
    Or lock yourself in the house. Not to work or do chores. But to switch off everything and concentrate on each other. Cook together, eat together, make memories for two
    SPICE UP YOUR MARRIAGE- TYPES OF DATES EVERY COUPLE SHOULD TRY: 1. PICNIC DATE There is something special and free about the outdoors. Pack up some food and drinks, find a spot and have fun. 2. WALK DATE Make time to just take a walk as you bond. Walk for long as you hold hands, laugh, bump shoulder to shoulder. You need no money for this 3. ELEGANT DATE Go all out. Gentleman, ask her out to an expensive, classy venue. Give her a chance to dress up. She will feel special, smiling as you romance her; she is wearing her fashionable dress 4. DANCE DATE Find a place where good music is played or dance is taught and go there as a couple. Salsa, lingala, afro, twist, benga; go to a place where you will sweat, groove and get down 5. IMPROMPTU DATE Dates don't have to be pre-planned. Be spontaneous sometimes, drop everything and go somewhere as a couple for some quality time 6. MOVIE DATE Go to the cinema. Movies bring out emotions 7. DOUBLE DATE Go out on a date with another couple close to you. This will give you a chance to celebrate love and talk couple to couple. Your love will grow stronger 8. COMPASSION DATE There are many people in society to bless. You and your partner, find a children's home, an elderly home, a hospital or someone in need and together go spend time with them. God will bless your love 9. CANDLE-LIGHT DINNER DATE There is something romantic about looking into each other's eyes in dim candle light. Make it special. Romance is sweet 10. SPECIAL MOMENT DATE This is when you celebrate big as a couple a special moment like Birthday, Anniversary, Graduation or Promotion. Never forget these moments 11. MAKE-UP DATE If things between you two haven't been going well. Make effort to save your love by planning a good date. A date provides a good setting to allow you two to talk and get back to deep love 12. LUNCH DATE Since you work at different jobs, sometimes meet up and have a couple's lunch for an hour or so 13. OLD LOVE DATE Dates are not for young love only. Sadly, as lovers stay in a relationship/marriage, the dates become fewer as they go through the motions. No matter how long you've been together, step outside your everyday responsibilities and go for a date to rekindle and sustain the excitement 14. SPORTS DATE Is your favorite football club, rugby team, basketball team, golfer playing? Is it the safari rally, athletics? Go out for dates as a couple where you can scream, cheer and go wild. You two will connect more 15. FRIENDS DATE Have a barbeque, hook up with friends, throw a party. Organize something as a couple where your love will be celebrated in the presence of close friends 16. TRAVEL DATE Pack your bags and travel. Break the monotony and as a couple drive, fly, sail to a place you've never been. Experience new attractions together. Your love will never be boring this way 16. STAY AT HOME DATE Or lock yourself in the house. Not to work or do chores. But to switch off everything and concentrate on each other. Cook together, eat together, make memories for two
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  • WAYS TO SHOW YOUR HUSBAND THAT YOU CARE AND LOVE HIM PRACTICALLY


    1. Ask How His Day Was—and Really Listen. Show genuine interest in what’s happening in his life. Let him know you care about both the big and small things.

    2. Give Him Your Undivided Attention. Put your phone down when you're talking. Eye contact and presence matter more than people often realize.

    3. Respect His Opinions. Even if you disagree, value his perspective. Letting him be heard shows you care about who he is—not just what he does.

    4. Tell him "I love you" regularly—and genuinely. Words carry power, especially when they're sincere.

    5. Compliment Him Sincerely. Notice the good—his looks, his effort, his sense of humor, how he parents, or how he treats others—and say it aloud.

    6. Covering him in prayer. No one knows him better than you do. Speak a blessing to him. Declare his greatness. To break a home, the head of the family gets attacked; he needs you to watch his back

    7. Speak Well of Him to Others. Show respect when he’s not around. Uplifting him in front of family, friends, or coworkers builds trust and honor.

    8. Cook His Favorite Meal. Food is love for many people. Surprise him with something he loves—even better if it’s homemade.

    9. Initiate Regular love making with him. Affection and desire are powerful ways to connect. Let him know you still want and love him. S€xual activity communicates love and connection to a man.

    10. Be faithful. Don't let him worry about the thought of you in the arms of another man. Responsible men value faithfulness; faithfulness to a man communicates loyalty

    11. Initiate Physical Affection. Hold hands, hug him unexpectedly, or cuddle. Touch is a powerful expression of love and reassurance.

    12. Surprise Him. A small gift, a random act of kindness, or an impromptu date night can brighten his whole week.

    13. Appreciating him more than you complain. Notice and thank him for the everyday things he does—whether it's fixing something, going to work, or making you laugh. Say “Thank You” Often. Gratitude is one of the clearest ways to show care. Don't let the little things go unnoticed.Be the woman who sees his growth and effort as he strives to be better; not the woman keeping a score of the few times he falls and who makes him never forget his mistakes

    14. Support His Goals. Encourage his dreams and interests, even if they’re different from yours. Be his cheerleader in public and private. Lift him up when he doubts himself. Let him hear that you believe in him and his potential.

    15. Make sure he comes home to peace, not drama or quarrels or harsh questions the moment he enters the house. Does your man feel at home at home?

    16. Add value financially. Whether by contributing to the financial earnings of the family or helping in managing the family finances well if he is the sole bread winner

    17. Warn him with love when he is walking into fire. Problem is, some wives don't warn with love, they judge with bitterness. Speak to him with respect

    18. Be His Safe Place. Offer comfort and understanding when he’s stressed or struggling. Let him be vulnerable without fear of judgement

    19. Celebrate His Wins. Whether it’s a promotion, finishing a project, or just getting through a tough week—recognize his victories.

    20. Speak His Love Language. Whether it’s acts of service, words of affirmation, quality time, physical touch, or gifts—speak in the way he feels love most.

    You will not fail in marriage in Jesus' name
    WAYS TO SHOW YOUR HUSBAND THAT YOU CARE AND LOVE HIM PRACTICALLY 📍📍📍📍📍📍📍📍📍📍📍📍📍📍 1. 📌Ask How His Day Was—and Really Listen. Show genuine interest in what’s happening in his life. Let him know you care about both the big and small things. 2. 📌Give Him Your Undivided Attention. Put your phone down when you're talking. Eye contact and presence matter more than people often realize. 3. 📌Respect His Opinions. Even if you disagree, value his perspective. Letting him be heard shows you care about who he is—not just what he does. 4. 📌Tell him "I love you" regularly—and genuinely. Words carry power, especially when they're sincere. 5. 📌Compliment Him Sincerely. Notice the good—his looks, his effort, his sense of humor, how he parents, or how he treats others—and say it aloud. 6. 📌Covering him in prayer. No one knows him better than you do. Speak a blessing to him. Declare his greatness. To break a home, the head of the family gets attacked; he needs you to watch his back 7. 📌Speak Well of Him to Others. Show respect when he’s not around. Uplifting him in front of family, friends, or coworkers builds trust and honor. 8. 📌Cook His Favorite Meal. Food is love for many people. Surprise him with something he loves—even better if it’s homemade. 9. 📌Initiate Regular love making with him. Affection and desire are powerful ways to connect. Let him know you still want and love him. S€xual activity communicates love and connection to a man. 10. 📌Be faithful. Don't let him worry about the thought of you in the arms of another man. Responsible men value faithfulness; faithfulness to a man communicates loyalty 11. 📌Initiate Physical Affection. Hold hands, hug him unexpectedly, or cuddle. Touch is a powerful expression of love and reassurance. 12. 📌Surprise Him. A small gift, a random act of kindness, or an impromptu date night can brighten his whole week. 13. 📌Appreciating him more than you complain. Notice and thank him for the everyday things he does—whether it's fixing something, going to work, or making you laugh. Say “Thank You” Often. Gratitude is one of the clearest ways to show care. Don't let the little things go unnoticed.Be the woman who sees his growth and effort as he strives to be better; not the woman keeping a score of the few times he falls and who makes him never forget his mistakes 14. 📌Support His Goals. Encourage his dreams and interests, even if they’re different from yours. Be his cheerleader in public and private. Lift him up when he doubts himself. Let him hear that you believe in him and his potential. 15. 📌Make sure he comes home to peace, not drama or quarrels or harsh questions the moment he enters the house. Does your man feel at home at home? 16. 📌Add value financially. Whether by contributing to the financial earnings of the family or helping in managing the family finances well if he is the sole bread winner 17. 📌Warn him with love when he is walking into fire. Problem is, some wives don't warn with love, they judge with bitterness. Speak to him with respect 18. 📌Be His Safe Place. Offer comfort and understanding when he’s stressed or struggling. Let him be vulnerable without fear of judgement 19. 📌Celebrate His Wins. Whether it’s a promotion, finishing a project, or just getting through a tough week—recognize his victories. 20. 📌Speak His Love Language. Whether it’s acts of service, words of affirmation, quality time, physical touch, or gifts—speak in the way he feels love most. You will not fail in marriage in Jesus' name
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  • *"O LORD, I will always sing of your constant love; I will proclaim your faithfulness forever".*
    _Psalm 89:1_

    A little key opens a big door without much effort, as from today to the end of your life, your little effort will bring unusual success that will make your story gloriously news. When you are troubled, Jehovah God will speak comfort into your life. The light of the Lord Almighty will expose you to every waiting favour and goodness of God. You will triumph over all your challenges. Everything you have lost, the mercy of God will restore it back to you. The Lord God will prepare a table before you, even in the very presence of your enemies. Goodness and mercy shall be the emblem and the identity of your life and existence for people to celebrate with you in the Mighty Name of Jesus Christ. Amen.
    The Almighty God that owns today been Monday, will journey with you throughout the remaining days of this month and beyond. He will lighten up your paths and establish your good thoughts. His favour will go before you and His right hand will uphold you and your households. He will open the doors of happiness, peace and progress for you. His Goodness and Mercy shall never depart from you and your households. His Glory and Grace will be visible in all the days of your life and your households in the Name of God the Father, The Son and The Holy Spirit. Amen.

    *Have A Blessed, Prosperous And Fruitful Monday And Week Ahead.*

    _GOOD MORNING_
    *"O LORD, I will always sing of your constant love; I will proclaim your faithfulness forever".* _Psalm 89:1_ A little key opens a big door without much effort, as from today to the end of your life, your little effort will bring unusual success that will make your story gloriously news. When you are troubled, Jehovah God will speak comfort into your life. The light of the Lord Almighty will expose you to every waiting favour and goodness of God. You will triumph over all your challenges. Everything you have lost, the mercy of God will restore it back to you. The Lord God will prepare a table before you, even in the very presence of your enemies. Goodness and mercy shall be the emblem and the identity of your life and existence for people to celebrate with you in the Mighty Name of Jesus Christ. Amen. The Almighty God that owns today been Monday, will journey with you throughout the remaining days of this month and beyond. He will lighten up your paths and establish your good thoughts. His favour will go before you and His right hand will uphold you and your households. He will open the doors of happiness, peace and progress for you. His Goodness and Mercy shall never depart from you and your households. His Glory and Grace will be visible in all the days of your life and your households in the Name of God the Father, The Son and The Holy Spirit. Amen. *Have A Blessed, Prosperous And Fruitful Monday And Week Ahead.* _GOOD MORNING_
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  • This news not make me happy about former governor of oyo state late Adebayo Alao Akala 's children
    Crisis rocks Alao-Akala’s family as daughter seeks DNA test for siblings, exhumation of ex-Gov’s body
    by Segun Showunmi, Ibadan
    A legal battle has broken out in the family of former Oyo Governor Otunba Christopher Adebayo Alao-Akala after his first daughter, Mrs Oluwatoyin Alao-Aderinto, approached an Oyo State High Court sitting in Ibadan for an order for a Deoxyribonucleic Acid (DNA) test on seven individuals claiming to be biological children of the deceased.
    She is also seeking for an application for the exhumation of the late Governor’s body to carry out the DNA test.
    In a suit filed before Justice Taiwo of Court 12 at the State High Court, ring road, Ibadan with Motion Number I/443/2024, Alao-Aderinto, through her counsel, Oladipo Olasope (SAN), is praying the court to direct that the DNA tests be carried out on herself, including siblings, Olamide, Adebukola, Olamipo, Olamiju, a serving member of the House of Representatives, Tabitha and Olamikunle, as listed in the motion on notice filed before the court.
    She also said the tests be conducted at a court approved, accredited laboratory to determine their true biological relationship with the late Governor.
    As part of the application, Alao-Aderinto is also seeking an order of court, directing exhumation of Otunba Alao-Akala’s remains from the mausoleum built in the former governor’s Ogbomoso country home for the purpose of carrying out the paternity test.
    The results of the tests, she pleaded, should be filed under a sealed envelope and delivered directly to the presiding Judge for pronouncement in open court.
    The fresh application brought before the court is a new twist in what has become a messy and prolonged family feud over the vast estate of the late politician, who died intestate on January 12, 2022.
    The crisis, which has been brewing silently since his burial became public in October 2022 when one Kemi Alao-Akala and Olamide Alabi, believed to be one of the deceased’s daughters, obtained a Letter of Administration from the Oyo State Probate Registry without the knowledge or consent of Oluwatoyin, the first child.
    According to Alao-Aderinto, this singular act was a deliberate and unlawful exclusion that contravene applicable laws guiding intestate succession in Nigeria.
    In her affidavit and accompanying exhibit filed in support of her motion, she accused the duo of manipulating facts to claim sole control over the estate, despite the presence of other biological children and heirs.
    The estate in question is said to be massive, spreading across several properties in Ibadan, Lagos, Abuja, United Kingdom and the United States of America, including a five-star hotel in Ghana, vehicles and multiple bank accounts containing hundreds of millions in naira, dollars and pounds sterling.
    Her position on the deceased father’s estate stems from the strong resolve at ensuring that every individual, including nuclear and extended family members, aides of the former Governors, who served him meritoriously without blemish and yet to identified children among many others are catered for, as against the alleged winner- takes-it -all approach adopted by the duo of the defendants.
    The said administrators listed only seven individuals as legal heirs but the position, as articulated by her counsel, is that there is no consensus on the paternity of these persons and the inclusion of some and exclusion of others in the administration of the deceased’s estate raises troubling questions of authenticity and equity. It is on this basis she seeks judicial intervention through scientific means.
    In an August 2023 letter made public, her counsel Oladipo Olasope SAN, warned that the exclusion of the claimant who is the first daughter of the late Alao-Akala, violated both moral norms and legal rights, stressing that unless resolved, the dispute could further polarise the family and damage the late governor’s political legacy.
    This news not make me happy about former governor of oyo state late Adebayo Alao Akala 's children Crisis rocks Alao-Akala’s family as daughter seeks DNA test for siblings, exhumation of ex-Gov’s body by Segun Showunmi, Ibadan A legal battle has broken out in the family of former Oyo Governor Otunba Christopher Adebayo Alao-Akala after his first daughter, Mrs Oluwatoyin Alao-Aderinto, approached an Oyo State High Court sitting in Ibadan for an order for a Deoxyribonucleic Acid (DNA) test on seven individuals claiming to be biological children of the deceased. She is also seeking for an application for the exhumation of the late Governor’s body to carry out the DNA test. In a suit filed before Justice Taiwo of Court 12 at the State High Court, ring road, Ibadan with Motion Number I/443/2024, Alao-Aderinto, through her counsel, Oladipo Olasope (SAN), is praying the court to direct that the DNA tests be carried out on herself, including siblings, Olamide, Adebukola, Olamipo, Olamiju, a serving member of the House of Representatives, Tabitha and Olamikunle, as listed in the motion on notice filed before the court. She also said the tests be conducted at a court approved, accredited laboratory to determine their true biological relationship with the late Governor. As part of the application, Alao-Aderinto is also seeking an order of court, directing exhumation of Otunba Alao-Akala’s remains from the mausoleum built in the former governor’s Ogbomoso country home for the purpose of carrying out the paternity test. The results of the tests, she pleaded, should be filed under a sealed envelope and delivered directly to the presiding Judge for pronouncement in open court. The fresh application brought before the court is a new twist in what has become a messy and prolonged family feud over the vast estate of the late politician, who died intestate on January 12, 2022. The crisis, which has been brewing silently since his burial became public in October 2022 when one Kemi Alao-Akala and Olamide Alabi, believed to be one of the deceased’s daughters, obtained a Letter of Administration from the Oyo State Probate Registry without the knowledge or consent of Oluwatoyin, the first child. According to Alao-Aderinto, this singular act was a deliberate and unlawful exclusion that contravene applicable laws guiding intestate succession in Nigeria. In her affidavit and accompanying exhibit filed in support of her motion, she accused the duo of manipulating facts to claim sole control over the estate, despite the presence of other biological children and heirs. The estate in question is said to be massive, spreading across several properties in Ibadan, Lagos, Abuja, United Kingdom and the United States of America, including a five-star hotel in Ghana, vehicles and multiple bank accounts containing hundreds of millions in naira, dollars and pounds sterling. Her position on the deceased father’s estate stems from the strong resolve at ensuring that every individual, including nuclear and extended family members, aides of the former Governors, who served him meritoriously without blemish and yet to identified children among many others are catered for, as against the alleged winner- takes-it -all approach adopted by the duo of the defendants. The said administrators listed only seven individuals as legal heirs but the position, as articulated by her counsel, is that there is no consensus on the paternity of these persons and the inclusion of some and exclusion of others in the administration of the deceased’s estate raises troubling questions of authenticity and equity. It is on this basis she seeks judicial intervention through scientific means. In an August 2023 letter made public, her counsel Oladipo Olasope SAN, warned that the exclusion of the claimant who is the first daughter of the late Alao-Akala, violated both moral norms and legal rights, stressing that unless resolved, the dispute could further polarise the family and damage the late governor’s political legacy.
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  • Until you date a generous man, you’ll never understand how much men love to provide for the people they love.

    Not rich, but generous. The kind who gives without needing to be asked. Who finds happiness in making you feel safe, steady, and cared for.

    He doesn’t give to impress. He gives because it’s how he shows love.

    To him, providing is not just about money. It’s about presence, effort, and peace.

    Settle with someone with a provider mindset.
    Until you date a generous man, you’ll never understand how much men love to provide for the people they love. Not rich, but generous. The kind who gives without needing to be asked. Who finds happiness in making you feel safe, steady, and cared for. He doesn’t give to impress. He gives because it’s how he shows love. To him, providing is not just about money. It’s about presence, effort, and peace. Settle with someone with a provider mindset.
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  • Thank God for the previlege to serve in his presence today.
    Thank God for the previlege to serve in his presence today.
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  • My presence is their blessing. Father tell them, they are not doing me a favor.
    My presence is their blessing. Father tell them, they are not doing me a favor.
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  • TYPES OF DATES EVERY COUPLE SHOULD TRY:

    1. PICNIC DATE
    There is something special and free about the outdoors. Pack up some food and drinks and a leso, find a spot and have fun

    2. WALK DATE
    Make time to just take a walk as you bond. Walk for long as you hold hands, laugh, bump shoulder to shoulder. You need no money for this

    3. ELEGANT DATE
    Go all out. Gentleman, ask her out to an expensive, classy venue. Give her a chance to dress up. She will feel special, smiling as you romance her; she wearing her fashionable dress

    4. DANCE DATE
    Find a place where good music is played or dance is taught and go there as a couple. Salsa, lingala, afro, twist, benga; go to a place where you will sweat, groove and get down

    5. IMPROMPTU DATE
    Dates don't have to be pre-planned. Be spontenous sometimes, drop everything and go somewhere as a couple for some quality time

    6. MOVIE DATE
    Go to the cinema. Movies bring out emotions

    7. DOUBLE DATE
    Go out on a date with another couple close to you. This will give you a chance to celebrate love and talk couple to couple. Your love will grow stronger

    8. COMPASSION DATE
    There are many people in society to bless. You and your partner, find a children's home, an elderly home, a hospital or someone in need and together go spend time with them. God will bless your love

    9. CANDLE-LIGHT DINNER DATE
    There is something romantic about looking into each other's eyes in dim candle light. Make it special. Romance is sweet

    10. SPECIAL MOMENT DATE
    This is when you celebrate big as a couple a special moment like Birthday, Anniversary, Graduation or Promotion. Never forget these moments

    11. MAKE-UP DATE
    If things between you two haven't been going well. Make effort to save your love by planning a good date. A date provides a good setting to allow you two to talk and get back to deep love

    12. LUNCH DATE
    Since you work at different jobs, sometimes meet up and have a couple's lunch for an hour or so

    13. OLD LOVE DATE
    Dates are not for young love only. Sadly, as lovers stay in a relationship/marriage, the dates become fewer as they go through the motions. No matter how long you've been together, step outside your everyday responsibilities and go for a date to rekindle and sustain the excitement

    14. SPORTS DATE
    Is your favorite football club, rugby team, basketball team, golfer playing? Is it the safari rally, athletics? Go out for dates as a couple where you can scream, cheer and go wild. You two will connect more

    15. FRIENDS DATE
    Have a barbeque, hook up with friends, throw a party. Organize something as a couple where your love will be celebrated in the presence of close friends

    16. TRAVEL DATE
    Pack your bags and travel. Break the monotony and as a couple drive, fly, sail to a place you've never been. Experience new attractions together. Your love will never be boring this way

    16. STAY AT HOME DATE
    Or lock yourself in the house. Not to work or do chores. But to switch off everything and concentrate on each other. Cook together, eat together, make memories for two
    TYPES OF DATES EVERY COUPLE SHOULD TRY: 1. PICNIC DATE There is something special and free about the outdoors. Pack up some food and drinks and a leso, find a spot and have fun 2. WALK DATE Make time to just take a walk as you bond. Walk for long as you hold hands, laugh, bump shoulder to shoulder. You need no money for this 3. ELEGANT DATE Go all out. Gentleman, ask her out to an expensive, classy venue. Give her a chance to dress up. She will feel special, smiling as you romance her; she wearing her fashionable dress 4. DANCE DATE Find a place where good music is played or dance is taught and go there as a couple. Salsa, lingala, afro, twist, benga; go to a place where you will sweat, groove and get down 5. IMPROMPTU DATE Dates don't have to be pre-planned. Be spontenous sometimes, drop everything and go somewhere as a couple for some quality time 6. MOVIE DATE Go to the cinema. Movies bring out emotions 7. DOUBLE DATE Go out on a date with another couple close to you. This will give you a chance to celebrate love and talk couple to couple. Your love will grow stronger 8. COMPASSION DATE There are many people in society to bless. You and your partner, find a children's home, an elderly home, a hospital or someone in need and together go spend time with them. God will bless your love 9. CANDLE-LIGHT DINNER DATE There is something romantic about looking into each other's eyes in dim candle light. Make it special. Romance is sweet 10. SPECIAL MOMENT DATE This is when you celebrate big as a couple a special moment like Birthday, Anniversary, Graduation or Promotion. Never forget these moments 11. MAKE-UP DATE If things between you two haven't been going well. Make effort to save your love by planning a good date. A date provides a good setting to allow you two to talk and get back to deep love 12. LUNCH DATE Since you work at different jobs, sometimes meet up and have a couple's lunch for an hour or so 13. OLD LOVE DATE Dates are not for young love only. Sadly, as lovers stay in a relationship/marriage, the dates become fewer as they go through the motions. No matter how long you've been together, step outside your everyday responsibilities and go for a date to rekindle and sustain the excitement 14. SPORTS DATE Is your favorite football club, rugby team, basketball team, golfer playing? Is it the safari rally, athletics? Go out for dates as a couple where you can scream, cheer and go wild. You two will connect more 15. FRIENDS DATE Have a barbeque, hook up with friends, throw a party. Organize something as a couple where your love will be celebrated in the presence of close friends 16. TRAVEL DATE Pack your bags and travel. Break the monotony and as a couple drive, fly, sail to a place you've never been. Experience new attractions together. Your love will never be boring this way 16. STAY AT HOME DATE Or lock yourself in the house. Not to work or do chores. But to switch off everything and concentrate on each other. Cook together, eat together, make memories for two
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  • A man has two choices when he's in a relationship with a strong, loyal, emotionally invested woman: either rise to the occasion and be everything she needs, or step aside and stop blocking the view for the man who actually can. It’s that simple.

    You don’t get to half-love her, breadcrumb her with attention, or keep her on a leash while you figure yourself out. She’s not a placeholder. She’s not a test run. She’s a woman with a heart that loves deeply and a soul that deserves stability. If you’re going to love her, really love her. Show up. Lead with consistency, not confusion.

    Be intentional, not impulsive. Speak life into her, no doubt. Handle her with care, not control. Because a woman like her doesn’t just want romance, she needs reliability, presence, protection, and peace. And if you can’t be that then don’t waste her time. Sit down and let the real one step up. Because someone else will. Someone who recognizes her worth without needing to be reminded.

    Someone who sees her strength and doesn’t feel intimidated by it but is inspired to match it. She deserves someone who doesn't hesitate when it comes to loving her right. If that’s not you, move out of the way.
    A man has two choices when he's in a relationship with a strong, loyal, emotionally invested woman: either rise to the occasion and be everything she needs, or step aside and stop blocking the view for the man who actually can. It’s that simple. You don’t get to half-love her, breadcrumb her with attention, or keep her on a leash while you figure yourself out. She’s not a placeholder. She’s not a test run. She’s a woman with a heart that loves deeply and a soul that deserves stability. If you’re going to love her, really love her. Show up. Lead with consistency, not confusion. Be intentional, not impulsive. Speak life into her, no doubt. Handle her with care, not control. Because a woman like her doesn’t just want romance, she needs reliability, presence, protection, and peace. And if you can’t be that then don’t waste her time. Sit down and let the real one step up. Because someone else will. Someone who recognizes her worth without needing to be reminded. Someone who sees her strength and doesn’t feel intimidated by it but is inspired to match it. She deserves someone who doesn't hesitate when it comes to loving her right. If that’s not you, move out of the way.
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  • A man has two choices when he's in a relationship with a strong, loyal, emotionally invested woman: either rise to the occasion and be everything she needs, or step aside and stop blocking the view for the man who actually can. It’s that simple.

    You don’t get to half-love her, breadcrumb her with attention, or keep her on a leash while you figure yourself out. She’s not a placeholder. She’s not a test run. She’s a woman with a heart that loves deeply and a soul that deserves stability. If you’re going to love her, really love her. Show up. Lead with consistency, not confusion.

    Be intentional, not impulsive. Speak life into her, no doubt. Handle her with care, not control. Because a woman like her doesn’t just want romance, she needs reliability, presence, protection, and peace. And if you can’t be that then don’t waste her time. Sit down and let the real one step up. Because someone else will. Someone who recognizes her worth without needing to be reminded.

    Someone who sees her strength and doesn’t feel intimidated by it but is inspired to match it. She deserves someone who doesn't hesitate when it comes to loving her right. If that’s not you, move out of the way.
    A man has two choices when he's in a relationship with a strong, loyal, emotionally invested woman: either rise to the occasion and be everything she needs, or step aside and stop blocking the view for the man who actually can. It’s that simple. You don’t get to half-love her, breadcrumb her with attention, or keep her on a leash while you figure yourself out. She’s not a placeholder. She’s not a test run. She’s a woman with a heart that loves deeply and a soul that deserves stability. If you’re going to love her, really love her. Show up. Lead with consistency, not confusion. Be intentional, not impulsive. Speak life into her, no doubt. Handle her with care, not control. Because a woman like her doesn’t just want romance, she needs reliability, presence, protection, and peace. And if you can’t be that then don’t waste her time. Sit down and let the real one step up. Because someone else will. Someone who recognizes her worth without needing to be reminded. Someone who sees her strength and doesn’t feel intimidated by it but is inspired to match it. She deserves someone who doesn't hesitate when it comes to loving her right. If that’s not you, move out of the way.
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  • Law of power! 1-48

    1. Never outshine the master

    Always make those above you feel superior. If you make them feel insecure, you risk being replaced or punished.

    2. Never put too much trust in friends; learn how to use enemies

    Friends can betray you out of emotion or envy. Enemies, properly managed, can be more loyal and useful.

    3. Conceal your intentions

    Don’t tell people your true plans—this keeps them from interfering and gives you an edge.

    4. Always say less than necessary

    The more you speak, the more likely you are to say something foolish. Silence creates mystery and authority.

    5. Guard your reputation with your life

    Reputation is a cornerstone of power. Once damaged, it’s hard to rebuild—protect it constantly.

    6. Court attention at all costs

    Visibility is power. Stand out, be memorable, and use dramatic gestures if needed.

    7. Get others to do the work for you, but always take the credit

    Leverage others’ talents and efforts while making it seem like you were the mastermind.

    8. Make other people come to you—use bait if necessary

    Don’t chase people or power. Draw them in and make them play by your rules.

    9. Win through actions, never through argument

    People may be convinced by your words but are more likely to resent you. Prove your point through results.

    10. Infection: avoid the unhappy and unlucky

    Misery spreads. Don’t associate too closely with those who constantly struggle or fail.

    11. Learn to keep people dependent on you

    Create relationships where others need you to thrive or succeed. This gives you control.

    12. Use selective honesty and generosity to disarm your victim

    Small, genuine gestures can build trust, which you can later exploit.

    13. When asking for help, appeal to people’s self-interest, never to their mercy

    Frame your requests in terms of what benefits them, not you.

    14. Pose as a friend, work as a spy

    Build rapport and gather useful information that can be used strategically.

    15. Crush your enemy totally

    Leave no chance for retaliation. A half-defeated enemy will eventually strike back.

    16. Use absence to increase respect and honor

    Too much presence can diminish value. Sometimes disappearing raises your worth.

    17. Keep others in suspended terror: cultivate an air of unpredictability

    Surprise keeps others on edge and off-balance. They can't plan against you if you're unpredictable.

    18. Do not build fortresses to protect yourself—Isolation is dangerous

    Being cut off makes you vulnerable. Stay connected to information and people.

    19. Know who you’re dealing with—do not offend the wrong person

    Different people react differently to offense. Choose your targets and methods carefully.

    20. Do not commit to anyone

    Stay independent. Commitment traps you and limits your options.

    21. Play a sucker to catch a sucker—seem dumber than your mark

    Underestimate yourself to gain an advantage. People let their guard down when they think they’re smarter.

    22. Use the surrender tactic: transform weakness into power

    When overpowered, retreat gracefully. It gives you time to plot a comeback.

    23. Concentrate your forces

    Focus your time and energy on one strong point, rather than scattering your efforts.

    24. Play the perfect courtier

    Be the ideal subordinate: adaptable, flattering, and discreet.

    25. Re-create yourself

    Be the architect of your identity. Don’t let others define you—shape your image and role.

    26. Keep your hands clean

    Get others to do the dirty work so your reputation remains untouched.

    27. Play on people’s need to believe to create a cultlike following

    People want meaning. Provide a vision, symbols, and rituals—and they’ll follow.

    28. Enter action with boldness

    Timidity breeds failure. Take action confidently and decisively.

    29. Plan all the way to the end

    Think several steps ahead. Don’t get caught by surprises or unfinished plans.

    30. Make your accomplishments seem effortless

    Hide the hard work. Let your results speak for themselves.

    31. Control the options: get others to play with the cards you deal

    Frame the choices so no matter what others pick, it benefits you.

    32. Play to people’s fantasies

    People crave illusions and dreams. Give them that and they’ll follow you.

    33. Discover each man’s thumbscrew

    Find what motivates or weakens people—fears, desires, or secrets—and use it.

    34. Be royal in your own fashion: act like a king to be treated like one

    Carry yourself with confidence and self-respect. People treat you as you treat yourself.

    35. Master the art of timing

    Know when to act and when to wait. Timing can make or break your plans.

    36. Disdain things you cannot have: ignoring them is the best revenge

    If you can’t have it, don’t obsess. Indifference shows power and poise.

    37. Create compelling spectacles

    Dramatic visuals and experiences stick in people’s minds and sway emotions.

    38. Think as you like, but behave like others

    Conform outwardly while keeping your true thoughts private.

    39. Stir up waters to catch fish

    Chaos creates opportunities. Make people emotional and you'll gain control.

    40. Despise the free lunch

    What’s free is often worthless or a trap. Value what’s earned.

    41. Avoid stepping into a great man’s shoes

    Forge your own path rather than trying to live up to someone else's legacy.

    42. Strike the shepherd and the sheep will scatter

    Remove the leader and the group loses direction or collapses.

    43. Work on the hearts and minds of others

    Persuasion is more powerful than force. Win people emotionally and mentally.

    44. Disarm and infuriate with the mirror effect

    Mirror your opponents to confuse or unnerve them. It throws them off balance.

    45. Preach the need for change, but never reform too much at once

    People fear sudden change. Introduce it slowly so they can adapt.

    46. Never appear too perfect

    Too much perfection breeds envy. Show some faults occasionally.

    47. Do not go past the mark you aimed for; in victory, learn when to stop

    Don’t overreach. Knowing when to stop protects your success.

    48. Assume formlessness

    Be adaptable and fluid. The rigid are easy to attack; the shapeless survive anything.
    Law of power! 1-48✅ 1. Never outshine the master Always make those above you feel superior. If you make them feel insecure, you risk being replaced or punished. 2. Never put too much trust in friends; learn how to use enemies Friends can betray you out of emotion or envy. Enemies, properly managed, can be more loyal and useful. 3. Conceal your intentions Don’t tell people your true plans—this keeps them from interfering and gives you an edge. 4. Always say less than necessary The more you speak, the more likely you are to say something foolish. Silence creates mystery and authority. 5. Guard your reputation with your life Reputation is a cornerstone of power. Once damaged, it’s hard to rebuild—protect it constantly. 6. Court attention at all costs Visibility is power. Stand out, be memorable, and use dramatic gestures if needed. 7. Get others to do the work for you, but always take the credit Leverage others’ talents and efforts while making it seem like you were the mastermind. 8. Make other people come to you—use bait if necessary Don’t chase people or power. Draw them in and make them play by your rules. 9. Win through actions, never through argument People may be convinced by your words but are more likely to resent you. Prove your point through results. 10. Infection: avoid the unhappy and unlucky Misery spreads. Don’t associate too closely with those who constantly struggle or fail. 11. Learn to keep people dependent on you Create relationships where others need you to thrive or succeed. This gives you control. 12. Use selective honesty and generosity to disarm your victim Small, genuine gestures can build trust, which you can later exploit. 13. When asking for help, appeal to people’s self-interest, never to their mercy Frame your requests in terms of what benefits them, not you. 14. Pose as a friend, work as a spy Build rapport and gather useful information that can be used strategically. 15. Crush your enemy totally Leave no chance for retaliation. A half-defeated enemy will eventually strike back. 16. Use absence to increase respect and honor Too much presence can diminish value. Sometimes disappearing raises your worth. 17. Keep others in suspended terror: cultivate an air of unpredictability Surprise keeps others on edge and off-balance. They can't plan against you if you're unpredictable. 18. Do not build fortresses to protect yourself—Isolation is dangerous Being cut off makes you vulnerable. Stay connected to information and people. 19. Know who you’re dealing with—do not offend the wrong person Different people react differently to offense. Choose your targets and methods carefully. 20. Do not commit to anyone Stay independent. Commitment traps you and limits your options. 21. Play a sucker to catch a sucker—seem dumber than your mark Underestimate yourself to gain an advantage. People let their guard down when they think they’re smarter. 22. Use the surrender tactic: transform weakness into power When overpowered, retreat gracefully. It gives you time to plot a comeback. 23. Concentrate your forces Focus your time and energy on one strong point, rather than scattering your efforts. 24. Play the perfect courtier Be the ideal subordinate: adaptable, flattering, and discreet. 25. Re-create yourself Be the architect of your identity. Don’t let others define you—shape your image and role. 26. Keep your hands clean Get others to do the dirty work so your reputation remains untouched. 27. Play on people’s need to believe to create a cultlike following People want meaning. Provide a vision, symbols, and rituals—and they’ll follow. 28. Enter action with boldness Timidity breeds failure. Take action confidently and decisively. 29. Plan all the way to the end Think several steps ahead. Don’t get caught by surprises or unfinished plans. 30. Make your accomplishments seem effortless Hide the hard work. Let your results speak for themselves. 31. Control the options: get others to play with the cards you deal Frame the choices so no matter what others pick, it benefits you. 32. Play to people’s fantasies People crave illusions and dreams. Give them that and they’ll follow you. 33. Discover each man’s thumbscrew Find what motivates or weakens people—fears, desires, or secrets—and use it. 34. Be royal in your own fashion: act like a king to be treated like one Carry yourself with confidence and self-respect. People treat you as you treat yourself. 35. Master the art of timing Know when to act and when to wait. Timing can make or break your plans. 36. Disdain things you cannot have: ignoring them is the best revenge If you can’t have it, don’t obsess. Indifference shows power and poise. 37. Create compelling spectacles Dramatic visuals and experiences stick in people’s minds and sway emotions. 38. Think as you like, but behave like others Conform outwardly while keeping your true thoughts private. 39. Stir up waters to catch fish Chaos creates opportunities. Make people emotional and you'll gain control. 40. Despise the free lunch What’s free is often worthless or a trap. Value what’s earned. 41. Avoid stepping into a great man’s shoes Forge your own path rather than trying to live up to someone else's legacy. 42. Strike the shepherd and the sheep will scatter Remove the leader and the group loses direction or collapses. 43. Work on the hearts and minds of others Persuasion is more powerful than force. Win people emotionally and mentally. 44. Disarm and infuriate with the mirror effect Mirror your opponents to confuse or unnerve them. It throws them off balance. 45. Preach the need for change, but never reform too much at once People fear sudden change. Introduce it slowly so they can adapt. 46. Never appear too perfect Too much perfection breeds envy. Show some faults occasionally. 47. Do not go past the mark you aimed for; in victory, learn when to stop Don’t overreach. Knowing when to stop protects your success. 48. Assume formlessness Be adaptable and fluid. The rigid are easy to attack; the shapeless survive anything.
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