15 COMMON LIES ABOUT CHURCH WEDDINGS YOU MUST STOP BELIEVING! As a Christian marriage therapist, I’ve seen many young couples fall into the trap of wedding expectations that have no biblical or spiritual backing. These lies have led many into needless stress, debt, and even discouragement, all in the name of trying to have the "perfect" church wedding. It’s time to debunk these myths and free you to focus on what truly matters — a blessed and beautiful marriage, not just a wedding event. Here are 15 lies you should stop believing about Church weddings: 1. It Must Be on a Saturday ❌ Not true. You can get married on any day of the week. In fact, the traditional wedding day used to be Thursday — hence the name “Wednesday” (i.e., Wed the next day). Your wedding is not about the day but the covenant. 2. It Must Be Inside the Church Auditorium ❌ You don’t have to wed at the altar or sanctuary. A pastor’s office, a chapel, or even a simple hall can host your church wedding, as long as it’s officiated properly before witnesses. 3. You Must Wear a White Gown ❌ White is a tradition, not a commandment. You can wear native attire, modest colors, or even a family dress style. Purity is a heart condition, not fabric color. 4. You Must Have a Bridal Train ❌ A bridal train is for aesthetics, not necessity. What truly matters is bridal training, not bridal train. Invest in marriage preparation more than wedding decoration. 5. You Must Have a Grand Reception ❌ Receptions are great for celebration, but not mandatory. If you can’t afford one, a thanksgiving service or light refreshment is more than enough. 6. You Must Wear a Wedding Ring ❌ Rings are symbolic, not spiritual. The core of Christian wedding is the exchange of vows and blessings in God’s presence. Rings are an outward sign, but not a spiritual requirement. 7. A Wedding Cake Is Compulsory ❌ A cake is lovely but optional. If you don’t have funds for it, don’t stretch yourself. It’s better to have a strong financial foundation than an extravagant dessert. 8. Only White Gowns Represent Purity ❌ Purity is not a fabric issue. Wearing pink, gold, ivory, or traditional fabrics does not mean you're impure. God looks at the heart, not the color of your clothing. 9. The Wedding Must Be Loud and Expensive ❌ Some of the best weddings are modest, simple, and intimate. A loud wedding doesn't equal a lasting marriage. Let your focus be love, not luxury. 10. You Must Do Pre-Wedding Photoshoots ❌ Pre-wedding shoots are trendy but not compulsory. Don’t borrow or break your budget just to impress people who won’t help you pay rent after the honeymoon. 11. Bridal Shower Is a Church Requirement ❌ Bridal showers are Hollywood creations, not biblical instructions. Enjoy one if you can afford it, but don’t see it as a spiritual obligation. 12. You Can Be Pregnant and Still Have a Church Wedding ⚠️ Most Bible-based churches do not conduct weddings for pregnant couples. The idea is to maintain biblical order and present the bride and groom for a new covenant, not with added complications. This doesn’t mean condemnation, but rather a call to do things rightly and in order. 13. You Must Buy a New Wedding Gown ❌ Many reputable stores now rent gowns for a fraction of the price. There's no shame in renting — it’s smart, especially for a dress you’ll likely wear just once. 14. You Must Invite a Huge Crowd ❌ A wedding is not a concert. You don’t need a crowd to validate your union. A few loved ones, your pastor, and your faith are more than enough to begin your journey. 15. Expensive Wedding Equals Lasting Marriage ❌ There is no connection between an expensive wedding and a successful marriage. In fact, financial pressure from a wedding can cause early conflict in marriage. Focus on your future, not impressing guests. 📍Lastly, dear singles and engaged couples, let wisdom guide you. A church wedding is about covenant, not cosmetics. Don’t fall for societal pressure. Start your marriage on faith, peace, and wise financial decisions. May the Lord bless your union with joy and lasting love — not just a memorable wedding day. 🌹Share this with someone who needs to know the truth!

🍒🌽DUNAMIS SEEDS OF DESTINY A Daily Devotional by Dr. Pastor Paul Enenche TUESDAY, 22ND JULY 2025. TOPIC: WHAT MATTERS MOST IN LIFE SCRIPTURE: Let us hear the conclusion of the whole matter: Fear God, and keep his commandments: for this is the whole duty of man. ECCLESIASTES 12:13 THOUGHT FOR THE DAY: It is not whether we are citizens of a particular nation, but whether we are citizens of Heaven; that is what matters most. We live in a world where unprofitable activities and ungodly pleasure have become the cravings of many people. It is obvious that many people do not know what really matters in life, so they end up chasing shadows. Many people ended the journey of life in regret because they were busy chasing shadows on earth in their lifetime. They ended up wasting their lives and energy in the wrong pursuit. This is why it is important to know what matters most in life, so we don’t end up in regret at the end of our journey on earth. Today, we shall be looking at the things that matter most in life. 1. It is not who we are but whose we are, that matters most in life (1John 5:4-5, John 3:16). If you are a doctor, lawyer, millionaire, billionaire, etc. it does not matter as much as whom you belong to. People’s achievements on earth do not matter if they do not have a functional relationship with God. 2. It is not whether we are citizens of a particular nation, but whether we are citizens of Heaven; that is what matters most in life. There are those who celebrate how they became citizens of the USA, the UK, Germany, etc. All that is alright, but it does not matter which passport you have, if you do not have the passport to Heaven; it is a waste of life (Revelation 20:15). 3. It is not where we are going to spend holidays and vacations, but where we are going to spend eternity that matters most. Many people say, “I am going to spend summer holiday in Europe. I am going to Dubai.” It is alright, but where are you going to spend eternity. It is what matters most. 4. It is not the quality of the physical dress on our body but the purity of our spiritual garment that matters most. In Zechariah 3:1-4, Joshua, the High Priest, as a minister, was clothed in filthy garments before the Angel. There are people who look like king Solomon in their physical apperance but look like vultures in the spirit. 5. It is not the amount of money in your bank account but the eternal deposits in our kingdom account with God that matters. For what shall it profit a man if he gains the whole world and loses his soul (Mark 8:36)? Beloved, to live a fulfilled life on earth and end well in eternity, you have to focus on the things that matter most in life. Remember this: It is not whether we are citizens of a particular nation but whether we are citizens of Heaven; that is what matters most in life. ASSIGNMENT(S): 1. Assess your heart: where would you be if you found yourself in eternity now? 2. Determine to pursue only the things that matter most in life. 3. Make demands on God’s grace to walk in His Will. PRAYER: Lord, help me to focus on the things that matter most in life. Remove every distraction from my life and cause me to walk in Your Will Lord, in Jesus’ Name. FOR FURTHER UNDERSTANDING, GET THIS MESSAGE: WHAT MATTERS MOST IN LIFE DAILY BIBLE READING: Isaiah 22-24 QUOTE: Any step taken outside God is a step into disaster. Culled from the book, 21 Foolish Things People Do by Dr Paul Enenche. AMAZING FACT: The nearest heavenly body to us is the moon, and the moon is approximately 245,000 miles away. PROPHETIC DECLARATION/WORD: The Lord help you to focus on that which really matters in life in Jesus Name. #DrPaulEnenche #DrBeckyEnenche

https://www.youtube.com/live/autFwRAzytQ?si=ZRYEAAUR7LLeiW08 @@COMMANDING THE DAY MIDNIGHT PRAYER WITH PASTOR DR PAUL AND BECKY ENENCHE

NO MATTER WHO YOU ARE AS LONG AS YOU ARE READY AND WILLING TO REPENT YOUR SINS SHALL BE FORGIVEN - CHOSEN BRANCH PASTOR 📖🌹💐🌍)

*DO NOT BE UNFAIR TO YOUR SPOUSE* 1. Your biggest client calls you but you missed their phone call, you quickly return the call. But when you see a missed call from your spouse, you do not even bother 2. You get a new boss at work, you go out of your way to make a good impression by buying that new boss a gift. But when was the last time you even bothered to make a good impression on your spouse? 3. You take a selfie with the President, a celebrity, you are quick to post it on social media. But you cannot even post a photo to celebrate your spouse, you don't want to be associated with your spouse 4. You cheer on other children who do great things on TV and in the community. But you have little kind words for the children you have with your spouse 5. When you win an award in your profession, you are full of gratitude. But when your spouse compliments you, you say no "Thank you", you rubbish the praises from your spouse 6. When you are talking with your pastor, you display a peaceful and warm demeanor. But when you talk with your spouse your countenance is unwelcoming 7. When you see other people well dressed, you compliment them, even strangers; whether with your eyes or words. But when your spouse makes effort to look good, you give no attention 8. When you are having a meeting with a client, you meet the client in a luxurious restaurant. But you can't even take your spouse out on a date 9. When you're out with your friends, you talk so highly about a politician, a footballer, an actor or actress, a musician who doesn't even know you. But you have no warm words to say about the spouse who has been with you through thick and thin 10. When a public figure asks to meet you, you stop everything you are doing and make it for the meeting on time. But your spouse has to beg you for your audience 11. When your opinion is asked at work, you willingly give it. But when your spouse asks for your advice, you disengage letting your spouse walk alone 12. When your friends ask for money, when you're making public contributions, you give willingly and put up a show; you even buy alcohol for others. But when your spouse asks for money or your children ask for something, you are mean, making excuses why you can't give, declining the request, asking what is the justification for the request 13. At work, you are a team player because you seek the growth of the company. But in your marriage, you do not exhibit teamwork, you don't build your love 14. When you write official emails you are courteous, using the words please, yours faithfully and hoping you are well. But when texting or talking with your spouse you are cold, making orders and speaking in a demeaning tone *Why?* Why do we choose to be mean to the one person we claim to love, we married, we live with, we have vowed to? The one person who gives us his/her all daily. It is time to set our priorities straight, time to treat our spouse as special

TOUCHING THE LIVES OF ALMAJIRIS AND WOMEN ON THE STREETS OF JALINGO – A DAY OF LOVE AND IMPACT- ROHHI 🇬🇧 🇺🇸 🇧🇷 🇬🇭 🇿🇦 🇺🇬 Yesterday, As the Global Humanitarian Ambassador and Representative of ROHHI, i had the honour of joining the incredible Royal Hearts Humanitarian Foundation (ROHHI) family as we stormed the streets of Jalingo to bring hope, joy, and relief to two often-overlooked groups the Almajiris in motor parks and the women selling vegetables and perishable goods by the roadside. It was a deeply emotional and unforgettable experience. We were able to distribute clothing and financial support to the women, and gave out slippers, little token, and words of encouragement to the Almajiris. The joy, prayers, and smiles we received in return were priceless. That is a true reminder that even the smallest acts of kindness can light up hearts and transform lives. Seeing people smile and bless God because of our little sacrifice brought tears of joy to my eyes. Special thanks to our tireless and devoted Country Project Coordinator (CPC), Barr. Amb. Stella Ahijo Musa, for her exemplary leadership, and to our outstanding ROHHI Nigeria Directors, whose commitment made this outreach a reality. Pastor Ayuba Ardo Tijos, Apostle Caleb Dinki, Amb. Ali Saidu Yola, Amb. Aisha Bello Muhammad, Amb. Rukaiya, Amb. Fati, Amb. Affos Musa Peace, Amb. Tabitha Ishaya, Engr. Tony Matinjah, And my dependable Vice President, Amb. Abdullahi Hassan. It was a joy and privilege working with you all. You are the strength and heart of this vision. We are also sincerely grateful to all our partners and supporters within and outside Nigeria. Your unwavering commitment and generous support continue to help Royal Hearts Humanitarian Foundation Nigeria to set a remarkable example for the world to see. Let us keep raising the banner of love and compassion. Together, we are building a better world one smile at a time. NOTE: Everything you see here was sponsored by: AUTAN ZAKI GLOBAL FOUNDATION (AZAGOF), YAKUBU PANTUVO GIWA FOUNDATION (YPGF), ROHHI Family, and our Partners in Nigeria. #ROHHI #HumanityFirst #AlmajiriSupport #WomenEmpowerment #HopeInAction #JalingoOutreach #VictorAutanZakiSarkinWaka #CompassionInMotion #NigeriaToTheWorld #RoyalHeartsHumanitarianFoundation🇬🇧🇺🇸🇧🇷🇳🇬

TO HAVE A BETTER UNDERSTANDING OF WHAT GOD IS DOING AT THE ARK, IMAGINE DOLLAR RATE THEN AND NOW. -Pastor David Oyedepo Jnr While Pastor David Oyedepo Jnr was preaching at the Covenant Day Of Business And Career Breakthrough Service, he shared a prophetic blessing Bishop David Oyedepo received from Archbishop Benson Idahosa of blessed memory after sending a particular seed to him; saying that supply will always be waiting even before the need arises. He also mentioned that this Blessing is seen in the Ark Project, where all necessary resources are on ground without any appeals for offerings. He said: “God's servant has shared a story; how years ago, he said suddenly after taking a particular seed to the Archbishop Benson Idahosa of blessed memory. He said he put the Seed back in his hand and said: “From today, I put upon you the grace of on time, before the need arises the supply is waiting.” I tell you, I've seen that practically in the testimony of the Ark, everything that is required (is) on ground, nothing that is being pursued. We are all here, we have not heard any offering for the Ark. Church Gist. Now, listen carefully, don't even think too far but just think between what dollar was then and now. You, just think like that! Calculate like that, then you understand the power of blessing. The Word came already: “Before the need arises, the supply is waiting” and it was stamped. And God said: “When I see My name on them I will bless.” You see? Blessings create the future, they create the future. Every time we are in the Service and we begin to hear prophetic being proclaimed, we must open up our hearts. Like God's servant said in the earlier services, he said, blessings answer on a two prong dimension of faith. One is the faith of the one proclaiming but second is the faith of the one receiving. That's why your faith must be alert and alive. We have heard people who have come to services waiting outside for the next service and blessing is being proclaimed and they caught it outside. Why? (Their) Spirit is alert, (their) Spirit is alive, they are able to catch what belongs to them. -Today you will catch your own portion!”

DON'T SEND YOUR CHILDREN ABROAD WITHOUT HAVING SPIRITUAL OVERSIGHT ON THEIR LIFESTYLE.- Pastor W.F. Kumuyi Pastor Kumuyi while teaching on a subject captioned “Loving And Serving The Lord In Holiness Without Worldliness” cautioned parents never to send their children abroad without having spiritual oversight on their lifestyle. He emphasized that parents are doing a disservice to themselves when they don't check up on the lifestyles of their children who are abroad. He encouraged parents whose children are outside the Country to ensure they check up on their children, the Church they attend, the doctrine they are exposed to and how they are living their lives. He also admonished that spending money for the welfare of children and neglecting their spiritual needs is not the right thing to do. He also encouraged parents to take advantage of social media tools like Zoom, Whatsapp etc to ensure they monitor the activities of their children and also talk to them if they are going astray while in a foreign land. He further encouraged parents to be like Joshua in the Bible who had full control over his family even in old age.

WE ARE VALUED AND WANTED EVERYWHERE GLOBALLY BUT WE CHOSE TO STAY IN NIGERIA - Dr. Pastor Paul Enenche While teaching on the importance of Praying for one's Nation as a prayer amplifier, Dr. Paul Enenche spoke on the patriotism of Americans and advised Nigerians to love their nation no matter what. He went on to say that he believes in the destiny and plan of God for Nigeria that's why they chose to stay back in the country despite the demand by other nations. In his words, "Nobody can genuinely prosper in alnad they hate. That's what our Nigerians do to themselves. We were in America on their independence day, we had a program, a few weeks ago. Come with their flags, you need to see the patriotism. You need to see the love, big (flags), all manner. Somebody dropped the flag on the ground, a woman said, 'that flag is on the ground, pick it up'. Their flag is not permitted to lie down, stand it up. 'God bless America' is a standard song, that is sung everywhere. 'In God We Trust' is on their currency, how will that not be the reference currency of the world? Anywhere you go, you can spend dollar. Can you spend Naira everywhere? Or any other currency for that matter. Anywhere you go. And the people, the citizens, the indigenes are prospering in their land so tey everybody wants to run there and live there and declare themselves captives, refugee, asylum. Come with flags, they came with big ones. So, you prosper". Speaking further, he said, "Now, for as long as God has given you this Nation as your Nation, you have no other choice but to love it. That is why we're still here. There is opportunity to go. Somebody said, 'if they don't want you in Nigeria, come to America'. Everywhere, I say, 'they want us here. We want ourselves here'. We are valued everywhere globally including Pakistan. Everywhere globally - the high, the low, the middle - but we chose to be here because we know there's destiny here. We know there's a purpose and a plan of God here and we know the agenda of God here must come to pass".

*DO NOT BE UNFAIR TO YOUR SPOUSE* 1. Your biggest client calls you but you missed their phone call, you quickly return the call. But when you see a missed call from your spouse, you do not even bother 2. You get a new boss at work, you go out of your way to make a good impression by buying that new boss a gift. But when was the last time you even bothered to make a good impression on your spouse? 3. You take a selfie with the President, a celebrity, you are quick to post it on social media. But you cannot even post a photo to celebrate your spouse, you don't want to be associated with your spouse 4. You cheer on other children who do great things on TV and in the community. But you have little kind words for the children you have with your spouse 5. When you win an award in your profession, you are full of gratitude. But when your spouse compliments you, you say no "Thank you", you rubbish the praises from your spouse 6. When you are talking with your pastor, you display a peaceful and warm demeanor. But when you talk with your spouse your countenance is unwelcoming 7. When you see other people well dressed, you compliment them, even strangers; whether with your eyes or words. But when your spouse makes effort to look good, you give no attention 8. When you are having a meeting with a client, you meet the client in a luxurious restaurant. But you can't even take your spouse out on a date 9. When you're out with your friends, you talk so highly about a politician, a footballer, an actor or actress, a musician who doesn't even know you. But you have no warm words to say about the spouse who has been with you through thick and thin 10. When a public figure asks to meet you, you stop everything you are doing and make it for the meeting on time. But your spouse has to beg you for your audience 11. When your opinion is asked at work, you willingly give it. But when your spouse asks for your advice, you disengage letting your spouse walk alone 12. When your friends ask for money, when you're making public contributions, you give willingly and put up a show; you even buy alcohol for others. But when your spouse asks for money or your children ask for something, you are mean, making excuses why you can't give, declining the request, asking what is the justification for the request 13. At work, you are a team player because you seek the growth of the company. But in your marriage, you do not exhibit teamwork, you don't build your love 14. When you write official emails you are courteous, using the words please, yours faithfully and hoping you are well. But when texting or talking with your spouse you are cold, making orders and speaking in a demeaning tone *Why?* Why do we choose to be mean to the one person we claim to love, we married, we live with, we have vowed to? The one person who gives us his/her all daily. It is time to set our priorities straight, time to treat our spouse as special

🍒🌽DUNAMIS SEEDS OF DESTINY A Daily Devotional by Dr. Pastor Paul Enenche MONDAY, 21ST JULY 2025. TOPIC: MOUNTAIN REMOVING FAITH. SCRIPTURE: And Jesus answering saith unto them, Have faith in God. For verily I say unto you, That whosoever shall say unto this mountain, Be thou removed, and be thou cast into the sea; and shall not doubt in his heart, but shall believe that those things which he saith shall come to pass; he shall have whatsoever he saith. MARK 11:22-23. THOUGHT FOR THE DAY: If God can raise the dead, He can heal the living. Sometime ago, a woman testified in one of our services about her son who was healed of the cancer of the jaw. The boy was diagnosed with cancer of the jaw, and they went to the hospital for treatment. They were told that they needed to carry out surgery on the boy. They needed to make a bone graft by taking a bone from his thigh to the jawbone. Now, while they were all thinking of that process, not knowing what to do next, they came to church. The boy went through the Foundation Class and the Discipleship and Leadership Training Course (DLTC). When he finished the DLTC, he re-enrolled and went through the course for the second time. When he was done, he went through it again for the third time. After this, his spirit was charged up with faith. Then, one day, they ran into me, and the mother said, “Please Sir, pray for my boy.” I prayed for him and laid hands on him physically. Then in the dream of the night, the boy saw me praying for him again and a personality with that same jaw cancer left his body. After that dream encounter, the following morning, the jaw cancer burst and dried up. They went back to the hospital, and it was confirmed that the cancer was gone. The surgery was cancelled. Beloved, there is no sickness that is not healable. There is no condition that is not handleable. Let no devil deceive you. If God can raise the dead, He can heal the living. Now, here is the point, I was so impressed and touched by the resilience and faith action of the boy. He finished the maturity course, and went through it again, for about three times. He continued charging himself with the Word of God until his faith was ripe enough to a level where it could practically move the satanic cancer mountain off his jaw. That was a mountain removing faith. That mountain melted at the frequency of a well charged-up faith. Beloved, charge up your faith to take charge of your fate. When you charge your faith, you take charge of fate. That is, you are in charge of the outcome of your life. You are not taken unawares because you are in charge by faith. So, build your faith to the level where it can uproot the mountains of your life (Mark 11:22). Build your faith by hearing and studying the Word of God, by listening to testimonies, receiving light, insights and revelation from the Word of God into your spirit until you can scream like Archimedes, Eureka! (Meaning I have found it). Beloved, that mountain of challenge before you is collapsible; it is demolishable. The question is how strong is your faith? I decree today, every mountain in your life is uprooted right now in Jesus Name. Remember this: If God can raise the dead, He can heal the living. ASSIGNMENT(S): 1. Charge up your faith daily by listening to or studying the Word of God. 2. Pick up the message title, ‘Pulling Down Strongholds’ by Dr Paul Enenche at the Dunamis Bookshop or online platforms. 3. Never believe that anything is impossible. PRAYER: Lord, I receive the grace to continuously charge up my faith, so I can experience exploits by the power of faith. Every evil stronghold in my life is collapsing now, Lord, in Jesus’ Name. FOR FURTHER UNDERSTANDING, GET THIS MESSAGE: PULLING DOWN STRONGHOLDS DAILY BIBLE READING: Isaiah 19-21. QUOTE: Faith, which is a product of light, is a shield for man. Culled from the book, 15 Kingdom Strategies for Survival by Dr Paul Enenche. AMAZING FACT: A lion’s roar serves to warn other animals and lions to stay away from their territory. PROPHETIC DECLARATION/WORD: Every stranger in your body is sent parking now in Jesus Name. #DrPaulEnenche #DrBeckyPaulEnence

Are you ready to laugh this evening 😂 😂 😂 😂 1)When I was born I was so surprised I didn’t talk for a year and a half. 😂😂 2) February can be so harsh, people will be looking for school* *fees,food,rent,money,job,girls will be looking for their period🙄😂*🏆✨ 3)He says *Are you feeling weak,😁 Dizzy or feel like vomiting?* *My sister don't worry the Xmas seed is germinating slowly*😜😜😜😜😜😜😜😜🙄🙄🙄 😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁 4) A small mistake in a relationship can change your name from Sweetheart ❤ to +234😂😂🙈🙈🙈 5) 🙋🏽‍♂🙋🏽‍♂ A pastor announced, if you know your wife is controlling you, move to the left". All the men in the church moved to the left except one man. The pastor was happy that there was at least one strong man, and asked, " How come your wife can't control you? " The man quietly replied, it's my wife who told me not to move "😆 6) Just in case you think your job is boring, teachers go to school from the age of 5 years until they retire!!! -🤔🙄 7) Ever realized that your brain speaks perfect English, but your mouth is the one that rounds it to the nearest Nonsense? -🤣 😎 Not all advises from old people🧔🏾 are good. Remember Stupid people grow old too.😁😁 9) All my life I thought air was free, until I bought a bag of Cheese balls! -Unknown 🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂 10) Finally I have learnt how to toast a girl, *Hello beautiful pls a minute of ur time biko,does ur mum sell okro because u actually draw my attention"*🥰😏 11) When English isn't your mother tongue, you'll see twins on the road and be like "woow!! You guys looks face to face😹 12) Imagine going to hell for lies like "You're really beautiful" 🤔🤔🤔 13)Do girls know that after escorting them at night we go home running with slippers in our hands* Kindly follow me for more interesting jokes daily 🙏🙏