{Romans 12:1-8}
Everyone on planet earth has a destiny, career, gift & a ministry to fulfil. God has prepared an agenda for everyone on earth to fulfil their purpose [i.e time to fulfil their purpose on earth (Eccl 3)].
So brethren, if you noticed that the gift of your brother or your sister in the Lord is gradually manifesting, you shouldn't be jealous or angry because God's Time is the Best (Isa 60:22b)!
Instead of being jealous, you should pray to God to hasten the manifestation of your gift or your destiny because if you remain stagnant & aren't praying, you must surely fall into jealousy! It's normal for everyone even in the wicked world, movies we watch and activities we indulge ourselves! I Love that chapter !! Spread Love and Positivity !!!

I used to be womanizer – Actor Daniel Etim-Effiong

Popular Nollywood actor, Daniel Etim-Effiong, has revealed that he used to be a womanizer at some point in his life, but added that it was brief.
In an interview with Chude Jideonwo, the engineer-turned-actor recalled “exploring” with multiple women at the same time. He described the experience as a learning process.

He said he often advised young people to shun womanizing because it can affect their relationships and marriages in the future, stressing that it might prove difficult to quit.

Chude asked: “Were you a womanizer before you got married?”

Etim-Effiong replied: “It depends on what is your definition of a womanizer.”
Chude inferred: “A man who dates multiple women at the same time.”
Etim-Effiong: “Maybe there was a time in my life I was. Definitions would differ, but in that definition, maybe there was a period in my life that I was, I wouldn’t say for long periods of my life. Maybe for some certain periods that I explored. So, perhaps.”

Chude asked: “Was it good periods?”
Etim-Effiong replied: “Yes, they were periods of learning for me. If I learned, then they were good periods.”

Chude asked: “What did you learn?”

Etim-Effiong replied: “I learned that certain things don’t necessarily bring you the fulfilment that you think they would. On paper, it feels like that is the life, but in experientially maybe not.

“I tell young people a lot that it is cool to be a player but if you develop that habit or lifestyle, you won’t automatically change overnight.
“So, don’t develop something you don’t want to continue for the rest of your life. If you are not able to commit to one person, if you jump from one relationship to another, that won’t automatically change when you marry.
“When you marry that muscle hasn’t been developed so you encounter one challenge and you want to immediately jump or you just be like, ‘I’m talking to you, you are not listening to me, let me find somebody that would listen to me.’
“If you are the kind of person that before you got married it was easy for you to just walk away, keep different relationships, keep ladies on the string, that won’t change when you get married.”

THE REASONS WHY YOU SHOULD BATH WITH YOUR SPOUSE EVERY NIGHT



Sharing a bath allows you and your spouse to unwind together, away from the distractions of daily life. It's a precious opportunity to connect on a deeper level and strengthen your bond as a couple.

Bathing with your partner is sweet, intimate, and a great way to become more comfortable with each other's bodies. Consider scheduling regular baths together, especially at night, to enjoy this shared experience.

Suggestions for Bathing Together:

A. Ask your spouse to help scrub your back as you bathe together.

B. Make it playful! Bathing together can be a lighthearted experience; from splashing each other with water to sharing playful banter, enjoy each other's company in a fun and carefree way.

Take your time. Enjoy your moments together.

C. Explore physical intimacy—allow your husband to explore and enjoy your body, and do the same for him. Enjoy playing with your husband’s pen!s. Relax and let your husband play with yours too and enjoy your br€asts.

D. Share passionate k!sses under the shower.

E. Hold your spouse closely from behind, letting him do the same, and embrace each other passionately.

F. Don’t shy away from making l0ve in the bathroom.

A couple's bath sets the stage for romance like nothing else. The warm water, soft lighting, and tranquil atmosphere heighten the senses and ignite the spark of intimacy.

HERE ARE A FEW REASONS YOU SHOULD SHOWER TOGETHER WITH YOUR SPOUSE:

1. IT RELIEVES STRESS:
Did you have a stressful day at work? Why not try taking a shower with your spouse. There are endless things that can make couples become stressed in life. Taking time to shower together is considered one of the effective ways to deal with different forms of stress.

Showers are known to be relaxing places after a busy, tiring day, and adding your spouse into the mix can only make the deal sweeter. Showering together with your spouse can ease the tension in your nerves and reignite the sparkle between both of you.

2. Showering together helps to save time when both of you wake up late: So, you rush into the shower with your spouse to catch up with time.

3. It’s hygienic: It is easier to get your back watched by your spouse: You bathe and clean each other better.

4. Showering with your spouse is romantic: It creates a nice atmosphere of romance as your bodies crease together and water runs through. There is nothing more romantic than getting wet with the person you love. It starts the day on a lovely note.

5. It enhances intimacy: According to research, showering together enhances intimacy between couples like nothing else. It helps you create an unshakable bond with your spouse.

6. Showering together makes you comfortable with your body: You get more comfortable taking off your clothes in the bathroom with your spouse. It builds your confidence level when you are naked with your spouse.

7. It makes you free with each other.

8. It can also enhance your s€x life.

9. It’s another kind of for€play

10. It’s a way to try a new shower s€x position: The bathroom can be a fun place to make l0ve but you should be extra careful because the bathroom can be slippery because of soap

11. Showering together with your spouse enhances your love life: it becomes easier to fall in love with your spouse all over again

12. It enhances your friendship: as it brings you closer, you will see it as a form of recreating and pleasure, thereby making you friendlier with each other.

Avoid becoming just roommates. Make sure you continue to be affectionate in your home by cuddling, touching and k!ssing your spouse. That is marriage.

You will not fail in marriage in Jesus' name

Kindly share this message with your loved ones

When you marry a troublesome woman, you will know why toilet is called a rest room

Niger Flood Tragedy: Over 100 dead, dozens missing, over 50 building destroyed

A devastating flood that struck Mokwa Local Government Area in Niger State has claimed the lives of over 100 people, with more than 100 others still missing as of Friday.

At least 44 of the victims were buried on Friday, following the earlier burial of 31 bodies recovered earlier in the week.

The disaster occurred on Wednesday night amid a torrential downpour that lasted several hours.

The resulting floodwaters overwhelmed the area, submerging homes and sweeping away everything in their path. Families have launched desperate searches for missing loved ones as rescue operations continue.

Deputy Governor of Niger State, Mr Yakubu Garba, confirmed the death toll during a visit to Mokwa on Friday, stating, “I have been briefed by officials from NEMA and NSEMA , who have been on ground since the incident occurred for search and rescue operations. I was told that over 100 people lost their lives and some have yet to be buried as search and rescue operations are still ongoing.”

Addressing survivors at an Internally Displaced Persons (IDP) camp, Garba urged patience, assuring that the government was organizing the distribution of relief materials. He confirmed that materials from NEMA had already been handed over to the council chairman for onward delivery to the victims.

Mrs Zubaida Umar, Director-General of NEMA, also confirmed that agency officials were coordinating search and rescue efforts on-site.

One survivor, Anas Usman, shared his harrowing experience with the News Agency of Nigeria: “We were preparing to go to the farm in the morning when our house was suddenly submerged by floods; we did not know where the flood came from. The flood submerged our house, causing the structure to collapse. We lost children, women and men, who are family members.”

The Director-General of NSEMA, Baba-Arah, provided further details about the scale of the destruction, noting that the flood—triggered by prolonged rainfall—swept away over 50 residential buildings and their occupants.

According to Baba-Arah, “NSEMA received a report of a deadly flood disaster that ravaged two communities, Tiffin Maza and Anguwan Hausawa, in Mokwa town, Mokwa LGA.

In response, the agency, in collaboration with Mokwa local government authorities, local divers, and brave volunteers, launched a search and rescue operation to save lives and recover the dead. So far, 21 corpses have been recovered, while 10 persons remain missing. Three survivors, a woman and her two children, are currently receiving treatment for injuries and shock at the Mokwa General Hospital.”

Reacting to the disaster, Jonathan Vatsa, Senior Special Adviser on Media and Publicity to Governor Mohammed Bago, said the flood had destroyed the only road connecting the North to the South-West and plunged the entire state into mourning.

He emphasized the need for urgent federal intervention, saying, “We cannot ascertain the exact number of people who died. In fact, we are still waiting for a full report from the area before issuing a formal statement. You see, this is an act of God, a natural disaster. It is beyond human control or imagination. In the last 30 to 40 years, residents of Mokwa have never witnessed anything like this.”

Vatsa added, “It is unfortunate that when things like this happen, lives are lost. The state government and His Excellency are condoling with the families of the deceased, the paramount ruler of Mokwa, and the entire community. His heart and sympathy are with them. Don’t forget, this is his zone.”

He also revealed that, “As I speak to you, the report reaching us is that the Ilorin road has been cut off. That shows the scale of devastation caused by the flood. The Federal Government must intervene. This is far beyond what the state can handle. In fact, the Tatabu Bridge, our only link between the North and the South-West, has collapsed. That road is the only access route to the South-West from this axis. So, the entire state is in mourning, not just the people of Mokwa.”

This disaster echoes previous incidents in recent years. In 2022, over 600 people were killed and more than 1.3 million displaced by flooding across Nigeria, and similar events occurred last year.

In response to the Mokwa tragedy, President Bola Tinubu has directed NEMA and security agencies to intensify rescue and relief operations.

A statement by the Minister of Information and National Orientation, Mohammed Idris, noted that the President had been fully briefed and was deeply concerned.

“The immediate priority of the Federal Government is to save lives and provide urgent relief to survivors. The National Emergency Management Agency, in collaboration with the Nigerian Armed Forces and the Niger State Government, is working around the clock to ensure that no effort is spared in assisting those affected,” Idris stated.

The Federal Government also praised first responders and local volunteers for their swift action and urged residents to cooperate with emergency personnel.

“We urge residents in the affected communities to cooperate fully with emergency personnel and comply with all evacuation instructions. Our thoughts and prayers are with the bereaved families and all those impacted by this tragedy. The Federal Government extends its deepest condolences to the victims’ families. In this time of sorrow, the nation stands united in grief and solidarity,” the minister concluded.

Quote: "A few days ago, I saw a woman frying plantain chips, and before she commenced putting the cut to size plantain into the hot oil, she melted five white polythene into the oil.
Out of shock, I asked her why she had to melt that into the oil.
She told me that it is done to harden the chips so it doesn't break.
Oh nooooo!!!!! I couldn't believe my ears.
She then went on to ask me if I have ever wondered why the ones they sell in traffic is always firm and hardly breaks.
My people this is deadly.
Please stop buying things you can easily prepare at home.
Kidney failure is rampant these days!
Please tell your loved ones about this. Shared as copied ... please stay safe " End of quote.

A woman NEVER LEAVES without already having another man lined up. If she dumps you, there was already a replacement waiting, and she was prepared for him.

Don't be fooled. When a woman leaves your side, it's not because she "wants to be alone." It's because she already has another door open—along with her heart and sometimes more...

Men believe that women end things first and then search for someone new, but the reality is quite the opposite:

1. First, they find, then they finish.

2. First, they secure, then they let go.

3. First, they plan, then they execute.

It hurts to accept, but if she left you, chances are someone else was already on her radar.

This is how the harsh reality works, gentlemen:

1️⃣ Emotional distancing – She stops arguing, stops demanding, stops caring. Mentally, she’s already out of the relationship.

2️⃣ Exploring options – She might not be with someone else yet, but she’s surveying the market. She won’t stay alone for long.

3️⃣ Closing the next deal – It could be an ex, a long-time friend, or a new admirer who knew exactly what to say at the right moment.

4️⃣ Walking away without looking back – No second chances, no "let’s try again." By the time you realize what's happening, she’s already with someone new, while you’re still trying to process it.

Here's the truth they don’t tell you:

If a woman leaves you, it’s because she already has someone else supporting her.
If she says she "needs time," she’s already investing her time elsewhere.
If she swears she’s alone after the breakup, she just doesn’t want you to know who she’s with.

The problem is, men think this is just "bad luck," but in reality, it’s ignorance. Women don’t play randomly—they play chess. And while you were confident that "everything was fine," she was already making her next move.

Don't be naive. If you notice her pulling away, be prepared.

Because the next thing you’ll hear is: "I need space."

If you think she’ll come back, wake up—she’s already re
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Signs She’s NOT Into You (Might Hurt Your Feelings)

1. She doesn’t text you back (or takes forever to reply).

Women are glued to their phones. If she’s into you, she’ll be excited to text back fast.

If she takes hours or days to reply, or leaves you on read, it’s a clear sign you’re low priority.

No woman "forgets" to text a man she desires. She’s just choosing not to.

2. She avoids being alone with you.

If she always wants to “meet you there” instead of getting picked up…

If she only hangs out in group settings…

If she never wants to come over to your place or invite you to hers…

She’s making sure there’s no chance of intimacy. That means she’s not attracted to you.

3. She doesn’t ask you personal questions.

A woman who’s into you will be curious about you. She’ll want to know about your life, your passions, your goals.

If she never asks anything beyond surface-level topics, you’re just background noise to her.

Indifference = disinterest.

4. She brings up her bad qualities.

When a woman likes you, she puts her best foot forward.

But when she isn’t interested, she’ll sabotage herself on purpose by saying things like:

“I’m really bad at relationships.”

“I’m kind of crazy.”

“I don’t think I’d be good for you.

5. She doesn’t engage in the conversation.

If a woman likes you, she’ll be dialed into the conversation, smiling, reacting, laughing.

If she’s giving short answers, not following up, or looking at her phone while you talk…

She’s mentally checked out. And when a woman’s mind isn’t on you, neither is her heart.

6. She is "always busy."

A woman will move mountains to see a man she wants.

If she keeps saying:

“I’m super busy right now.”

“Maybe next week.”

“I’ll let you know.”

She’s making excuses to avoid you.

Busy women still make time for the men they crave.

7. She doesn’t give you her full attention.

When a woman truly desires you, Her eyes are on you.

She laughs at your jokes. She wants to know everything about you.

If she seems distracted, looking around the room, or more focused on her phone…

She’s counting down the minutes until she can leave.

8. She flirts with other men in front of you.

This is the ultimate act of disrespect.

If she’s giggling, touching, or engaging other guys while you’re right there, she doesn’t see you as an option.

A woman who respects and desires you will NOT flaunt her interest in other men.

9. She never initiates touch or flirts back.

A woman’s body language exposes her true feelings.

If she’s into you:

She’ll find ways to touch you.

She’ll lean in when you talk.

She’ll giggle and playfully push you away.

10. You’re the only one putting in effort.

Who texts first? Who makes plans? Who keeps the conversation going?

If it’s always YOU and she’s just coasting along…

She’s not that into you. High-interest women don’t let the man do 100% of the work.

➥𝐼𝑓 𝑖𝑡'𝑠 ℎ𝑒𝑙𝑝𝑓𝑢𝑙 𝑝𝑙𝑒𝑎𝑠𝑒 𝑟𝑒𝑎𝑐𝑡 & 𝑠ℎ𝑎𝑟𝑒⇅