One of the things creatives/freelancers battle with, including me, is time management.

I won’t lie, I’ve not found a perfect formula that works yet. But every day, I’m doing my best to find something that helps me manage my time better.

The struggle is real.

Struggling to post consistently to keep your brand moving.

Struggling to attend to clients excellently.

Struggling to handle other pressing matters offline.

Struggling to just breathe sometimes.

I see people who seem to be doing it well, and honestly, I envy them. Still, I’m doing my best to find what works for me.

Let me be sincere. There’s a lot of work to be done online. But the real work is offline, I must tell you.

I’ve started implementing a few time management steps lately, and for now, they’re working. I won’t share them yet, not until I’ve learned them well. I’m still in my trial-and-error phase.

Truth is, what works for me may not work for you. So try to find your own formula.

But just so you know, the struggle with effective time management is real. And it’s one battle you must win.

If not, your consistent showing up online will be counterproductive.

So as you post, also remember to pause. Go offline.

Attend to the things that truly matter: your health, your family, your peace of mind.

Social media is tempting, yes, but don’t spend your entire 24 hours here daily, no matter how passionate you are about your work.

You need a break, even if it’s just for a few hours.

Well, I just thought to drop this here.

These days, I’m becoming more vulnerable. I’m not sure I like it, but I’m flowing with the move of my spirit.

Much love.

Have a productive day ahead.

Let's keep doing wonders together.

LESSONS FROM LIFE...

1. Not everyone will clap for you when you succeed. Do it for yourself, not for validation.

2. Holding grudges is like carrying extra weight on a long journey. Let it go and move lighter.

3. A partner who genuinely supports you is a blessing—don't take them for granted.

4. The biggest mistake you can make is lying to yourself. Be honest, even when it's uncomfortable.

5. If you're the one people rely on, don't expect the same from those who depend on others.

6. Focus on your dreams, not on impressing people.

7. Your 20s are for building, your 30s for enjoying the foundation you laid. Make the right investments.

8. Peace is priceless. Let go of anything that steals it.

9. Silence is a weapon. Use it wisely.

10. Take care of yourself. Looking good isn’t about showing off, it’s about self-respect.

11. Some people will root for your failure because they feel stuck in their own lives. Ignore them.

12. Being kind is great, but don’t let people take advantage of you.

13. Losing people isn’t always a loss. Losing yourself while trying to please them is.

14. Keep your moves quiet until they’re finalized. Premature announcements invite unnecessary energy.

15. Love wisely. Heartbreak is expensive—therapy isn't cheap.

16. Your mindset shapes your reality. Keep it positive.

17. Social media is full of illusions. Don’t let it make you envy a life that isn’t real.

18. Treat yourself on your birthday. No one owes you a celebration.

19. Fear is the biggest barrier between you and success. Take the risk.

20. Rushing the process will only ruin your progress. Trust the timing of your life.

21. Some people aren’t worth reaching out to, even in desperation. Choose your sources wisely.

22. Skills and knowledge are investments that will never fail you. Keep learning.

23. Love with wisdom, not blindness. Protect your heart.

24. Be your own biggest supporter. You’ll always have yourself.

25. Some people return just to see if you’re still naive.

Life is full of up and down let's love one another

Juliet Okonkwo (E-money's wife) remembers that “When we started dating, my friends were surprised that I sidestepped all the rich guys in Lekki, where I was resident for a man who lived in Ajegunle, but I was not bothered. I looked forward to getting a good job upon my graduation from the University. He didn't even have enough money to take us back to Lagos after our traditional marriage. KCee was the one who lent me N20,000. I used it to pay our fare in Lagos.”..........Me:For those waiting for a Man to make it in life before you marry him listen!Men don't fall in Love after making money.

Great relationships don’t just happen — they’re built.

Whether you’re dating or married, a strong and sweet relationship takes time, patience, and the right principles.

Here are 5 simple reminders that’ll help you grow together and build something beautiful:

1. Pray together, grow together – Keep God at the center of your journey. If it’s not God then it’s not good.

2. Communicate with love and honesty – Communication is the blood of the union. Talk, listen and enjoy each other’s company.

3. Give, Give, Give - relationship and marriage is sweet when both parties are givers and not the other way round.

4. Respect each other’s differences – You’re a team, not twins, so don’t fight each other.

5. Invest in friendship, not just feelings – Deep friendship sustains what passion starts.

Take it one day at a time — love built right is always worth the wait.


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I am Nicholas Michael Oriarewo
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Today is my day, wish me well. Your lovers girl day

Am i a wicked girl or a lover girl?

Mix cloves with Coffee Drink it 30 minutes...You'll climb the walls of your house, and your partner will be running away from you!

50 LIES NIGERIAN WOMEN TELL MEN

1. "I’m fine." – When she’s actually upset and wants you to figure out why.

2. "I’ve never been with anyone like you." – She says this every time, and you think you’re special.

3. "I don’t need money, I’m okay." – Until the next shopping spree.

4. "I’m not interested in your friend." – But she’s been flirting with him on social media.

5. "I love surprises." – She only loves them if they’re the right kind of surprises.

6. "I don’t know how to cook." – Until you see her preparing a full course meal for her friends.

7. "It’s not a big deal." – When it’s actually a huge deal, and she’s really mad.

8. "I don’t want anything for my birthday." – But she’s secretly expecting an expensive gift.

9. "I’m not like the others." – A line she uses to make herself seem different, but... really?

10. "I’m busy." – She’s actually busy chatting with her friends or browsing Instagram.

11. "I’m not hungry." – Until you start eating, then she suddenly wants your food.

12. "I don’t mind if you’re friends with your ex." – But she’s side-eyeing you every time you talk about her.

13. "I’m not jealous." – But she’s checking your phone every five minutes.

14. "I’m not a materialistic person." – She’s just waiting for the designer bag.

15. "I’ll be ready in 5 minutes." – Which turns into an hour.

16. "I love your friends." – But deep down, she can’t stand them.

17. "I don’t care what you do for a living." – But she’s judging your career based on your earnings.

18. "I’ve never lied to you." – Even though she’s been caught in a few fibs.

19. "You’re the only one I’m talking to." – But you’ve seen the countless other guys texting her.

20. "I’m not materialistic." – But she only dates guys with the latest cars and phones.

21. "I can pay for it myself." – Until the bill arrives, and she expects you to cover it.

22. "I don’t need help with anything." – But she’s waiting for you to volunteer.

23. "I’m just being friendly." – When she’s actually flirting with every guy in sight.

24. "I’m not ready for a relationship." – But she’s already planning your wedding in her mind.

25. "I don’t like drama." – But she creates it every chance she gets.

26. "I’ve been single for so long." – While she’s had a string of ex-boyfriends.

27. "I’m not checking up on you." – But she knows exactly where you were last night.

28. "I’ll come to your place anytime." – But there’s always a “good reason” why she can’t make it.

29. "I don’t want to rush into anything." – But she’s secretly pushing for commitment.

30. "I’m not looking for anything serious." – But she’s planning your life together.

31. "You’re perfect just the way you are." – But she’s constantly suggesting you change your style or habits.

32. "I’ve never been married." – Even though there’s a divorcee label she’s hiding.

33. "I’m not interested in your money." – But she’s always asking for gifts and financial support.

34. "I don’t mind if you’re busy." – But she’s getting upset that you’re not prioritizing her.

35. "I’m cool with your friends." – But she’s criticizing them behind their backs.

36. "It’s okay, I’m not offended." – When she’s actually deeply hurt by something you did or said.

37. "I’ve never been in a toxic relationship." – But her past relationships were a mess.

38. "I love simple dates." – Until you suggest a low-budget one, then she’s unimpressed.

39. "I can’t do anything for you right now." – When she’s fully capable but just doesn’t want to.

40. "I’m not interested in your hobbies." – But she’s asking you a thousand questions about them.

41. "I like it when you’re quiet." – But she won’t stop talking.

42. "I don’t mind sharing you with other people." – But you can tell she’s possessive.

43. "I’m happy for you." – But she’s secretly jealous.

44. "I’m not keeping track of your mistakes." – But she’s quick to bring them up every chance she gets.

45. "I’m not the jealous type." – But she checks your social media obsessively.

46. "I’ll forgive you, it’s okay." – But she holds grudges for months.

47. "I just want peace." – But she knows how to stir things up just to get attention.

48. "I can live without you." – But she keeps calling and texting, hoping for reassurance.

49. "I don’t like surprises." – Until you show up with flowers and she melts.

50. "I’ve never done anything like this before." – Yet she’s been through this routine multiple times.

Any Woman That Will Make You Successful Carries These 7 Signs

Not every woman you see on the street is headed the same way you are heading. Some women come to distract, some come to destroy, and others will come to damage.

There are a few rare ones, sent to build, to bless, and to bring out the king in you.

Here’s how you’ll know her:

She believes in your dreams

Even when they look crazy to others, she sees your potential. She doesn't laugh at your vision, she reminds you of it when you start forgetting who you are.

She prays for you

Even when you don’t know it. In silence and in secret, she lifts your name up to God, covering your battles with faith and not fear. A praying woman is a powerful partner.

She pushes you to grow

She won’t let you settle. She challenges your comfort zone with love, because she sees what you can become. Growth is never easy, but she makes it worth it.

She speaks life into you

When the world tears you down, she builds you up with her words. She reminds you of your strength, your vision, and your value, not just with sweet talk, but with truth.

She respects your hustle

She understands your grind, your long nights, your silent battles. She doesn’t compare you to others, she celebrates your efforts and your process.

She brings peace, not pressure

Her presence feels like calm in a storm. She's not in competition with your purpose; she aligns with it. She doesn’t drain your energy, she restores it.

She loves you into purpose, not just into pleasure

She’s not just there for the good times or for what she can get. She’s invested in your becoming. She helps you walk in your calling, even when it’s hard.

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Your success as a man will greatly be influenced by who you marry. One mistake, and everything you've built will collapse in seconds.

A story of Love, German to Tanzania
Stephanie Fuchs, a German native, embarked on a life-altering adventure when she met Sokoine, a Maasai man, in January 2011 while working at a research camp in Tanzania, and their love story is genuinely uplifting.
A mother of one, Stephanie has spent the past 12 years living in Tanzania and proudly affirms that following her heart was the most empowering decision she ever made.

Compassionate and forgiving God, I'm sure you listened to Judas' and Peter's confessions of sorrow as you have listened to mine. Thank you for your love and patience with me and help me be a better person in the future. Amen.